It's really comforting seeing another system talking about their experiences so openly. It's nice not feeling alone. Also we seem to relate to your switches. We know there's been a lot of discourse about "switch caught on cam", but as a system outselves, we really like seeing other systems switch, since it's helped us recognising our own switches better and also just having it destigmatised. I think most systems experience so much shame about switching - especially to more overtly presenting younger alters (littles/middles/syskids). We have had so much shame about it and it just worsened out healing and worked against integration. So seeing systems being open about having young alters and those young alters being comfortable being visible makes our sys kids so happy
This message has made our week 🧡🧡 Thank you. I hope that with time you feel more comfortable. Vulnerability and openness can be really hard, so I am glad ours has helped you.
Thank you for mentioning a boundary of NOT wanting to acknowledge who's fronting. I've seen so many videos about how good etiquette is asking who's fronting, but that's not always the best course of action. I usually don't know who's fronting. I have OSDD, a lack of amnesia (except emotional) and am often very blurry or dissociated. When somebody asks "who's fronting" it just stresses me out.
As per usual when interacting with human beings 1: find out what works for that person 2: only engage in interactions where someone wants to do what work for you.
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It's really comforting seeing another system talking about their experiences so openly. It's nice not feeling alone. Also we seem to relate to your switches. We know there's been a lot of discourse about "switch caught on cam", but as a system outselves, we really like seeing other systems switch, since it's helped us recognising our own switches better and also just having it destigmatised. I think most systems experience so much shame about switching - especially to more overtly presenting younger alters (littles/middles/syskids). We have had so much shame about it and it just worsened out healing and worked against integration. So seeing systems being open about having young alters and those young alters being comfortable being visible makes our sys kids so happy
This message has made our week 🧡🧡
Thank you. I hope that with time you feel more comfortable. Vulnerability and openness can be really hard, so I am glad ours has helped you.
Thank you for mentioning a boundary of NOT wanting to acknowledge who's fronting. I've seen so many videos about how good etiquette is asking who's fronting, but that's not always the best course of action. I usually don't know who's fronting. I have OSDD, a lack of amnesia (except emotional) and am often very blurry or dissociated. When somebody asks "who's fronting" it just stresses me out.
As per usual when interacting with human beings 1: find out what works for that person 2: only engage in interactions where someone wants to do what work for you.
if somebody has a broken leg you should 100% talk about the trauma. Trauma is a medical term for injury.