It’s crazy how his wife had all those qualities he loved and he STILL tried to play with her twice. Men know your worth but they will give you what you settle for, so know your worth ladies.
I am so with your wife. I know how to dip out quietly when things ain't right. There will be no back and forth. I just be outta there. There will be no chasing, begging or yelling etc.
Tony as much as I appreciate your content, your wisdom I cannot lie I am also here for your humor!!!!😂😂😂Half the time you probably don't even really mean to be that funny but I really be cracking up🤣🤣🤣Anywho thanks for another awesome video and for sharing cause you are really keeping it real. Also thanks to your wife for all she does to make this content possible. Peace
As a masculine man.. you was subconsciously seeking that feminine woman. You definitely got a feminine woman! Be bless my brother!! I as well is from Alabama so I relate so much to you!!!
“The women I talked to before didn’t shave their legs or shave their arm pits (huh)....when I saw my wife shave I was like okkk this is different”. I’m dead this is sooooo funny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jamaican women rock!!! Glad you found your queen. Her upbringing is key... Jamaican parents are very strict. Hardwork and dedication is a huge factor in our culture. You were blessed with a natural empress... Blessings Tony!!!❤💚💛
It seems you have met quite a few women who weren't marriage material, and that is life. But you did find the one that is right for you and that is a blessing.
This is the best open window into a man’s mind.... This is true to form .... in every way!!! Thank you for doing this and being so open, honest and truthfully funny !! I definitely can’t wait to read/hear your wife’s prospective ...this is such a generous dose of your transparency and realness.....Thank you & your wife so much for sharing things like this... Be Blessed!!
I was in a horrible relationship for years he tap dance on myself esteem. I also was flat in the back an he would call me pancake butt. I prayed for two things to have the courage to leave that fool an to one day grow a butt. After that I stayed alone by choice for 3 yrs when I married my husband an had our son my butt took off 🎉. I was in shock an so was my old boyfriend and when he saw me an said dang you got your bubble later in life. An my response was wrong man wrong body, right man right body 💃.My husband loved me with the flatty an now he loves me with the fatty. However what truly matters is what's in a person's 💓. May God continually Bless you an your wife you are a Beautiful couple inside an out.
Thanks so much for sharing. Such a humble reminder what we as women should be working on ourselves overall. As the word says... "He who finds a wife finds a good thing". So in order to expect marriage and wife privileges we must BECOME that beforehand.
What doesn't attract you might attract someone else! I love to wear make up, watch football, work like a dog for pennies, intelligent, I drink, but I don't smoke. My hair is nappy because I have locs! My differences make me who I am and I won't apologize for it. As long as you as you are equally yoked it doesn't matter about the rest. What don't work for you will work for someone else!
Wow...if she accepted his grown boy ways once they were married, 13 years of marriage would have been so sad and hurtful for her. People, men & women can only do to you what you accept. I also love that she never yelled or cursed... something I am working on. Thank you.
I have the same attributes as your wife. I’m happy to know that I am on the right path. I’m so happy for you guys. Thanks for inspiring me. I hope I meet my husband someday 🤎💍
Amen! In every aspect of my life, I have realized I do not like/cant be controlled! I respect leadership and authority as long as I am not compromised. People like to try to make me believe that I am mannish because of it, (tho I do admit that I can be more feminine) but I respect people and treat my men with respect. I've come to realize that most were grown boys and just were too emotionally immature to handle how I moved 🤷🏾♀️
I love your transparency and realness I'm glad you explain things the way you do. You right Tony if this channel is not for you get your track shoes and run. You a bless young man with a lot of wisdom thank you and be blessed.😇
Be blessed! Thank you Tony for this message. I have started writing my standards after watching your video "Are you the prize?" and listening to this about your wife has encouraged me even more to set my standards high, respect myself, and to take care of myself. I made so many excuses as to why I am the way I am, and not wanting to change due to dealing with bad/toxic relationships for so long. My intention is to grow for me, become better for me, be the example my children can be proud of and look up to, and become who I want to attract. You are touching lives for God's glory, and I appreciate you and your wife so much. Be blessed!
The Janet Jackson vs Freddie Jackson comment took me out 🤣🤣🤣. I really enjoyed hearing your perspective and appreciate hearing how you met your wife. Your a blessed couple. Be blessed. I gotta read this book.
I have a similar experience as well Tony. I was dating an Italian, and he said to me that he can’t introduced me to his family; because they don’t like black. The dynamic of our relationship went down.
Thank you SO very much, for being a PIONEER and being so very transparent. I feel you on the transparency situation cause ppl will judge you on your personal thoughts cause I would never hurt or throw that back in your face because you are trying your very best to get women like me to understand. Thank you for being the pioneer.
Sometimes a good message can't be given in 5-10 minutes. The message given today was very informative for both men & women. Thank you for your honesty & advice. God bless you brother Tony & may God bless your marriage for many years to come.
Be Blessed🙏🏾 I absolutely love watching your videos Tony, you are definitely God sent!, you changed my life& gave me enlightenment on some things I was not aware of. I prefer your videos long also👌🏾May God continue to watch over& Bless you& your family!
Keep making long videos. Just played Mrs. Right and sent it to all my girlfriends. I'm a teacher but I'm learning so much from you. There will always be haters. Ignore them. I crave wisdom.
All I can say is.. You know you be clowning in your videos,you be having me over here tickled but I love it. I said oh that's lil bro.. 😂😂. Thank you for your God giving advice to us women that need to hear them. I didn't have a dad growing up so I learned through God and experience in life. So I thank you for being our brother, uncle, and cousin to us. Keep inspiring. God bless you and your family ❤
You are absolutely hilarious 😂 And very open and honest! Edit- please don’t be discouraged or turned off by certain comments. Leave your comment section open🙏🏽 It allows us to dialogue and show you our appreciation😊🙌🏽 SN- you were traumatized by hairy women 😂😂😂😂 I swear you mention women with hairy legs almost every other video*exaggerates*
Your wife reminds me so much of myself and I am Trinidadian. I think it’s the way us Caribbean women were raised. I have to work on not yelling & instead being calm when angry although I’m not as I was I can still be better. I appreciate you tony I’m on the right track. I’m not settling sorry.
Thank you🌟this truth inspires me to buckle down, continue on this journey of self improvement and discipline. I am the prize📦. Keep teaching Mr. Gaskins, folks are listening💞(time to apply it).
Be blessed! Thank you for all you do! This video was great. It helped me confirm I’m on the right track to finding a husband. I just have to be patient. The right man looking for all of these qualities in me will come along. 🙂
Be Blessed brother! 👏🏾👏🏾.... And do not apologize anymore to anyone, the Lord is pleased with the work you are doing or he would not have planted this seed in you! I appreciate every word of advice and cannot wait to read your wife’s book🤗✔️ Merry Christmas to you and the Family 🙏🏾
Tony killing me and i ain't even half way through.... He dating girls with chin hairs and wanna drop his wife with the flat batty... 😂 Puerto rica jewmaican.. I'm dying
It certainly was a pleasure listening to his story (I've learned plenty) though I'm curious in why his *Christian* Dad did not raise him how NOT to behave like a wild and nasty boy--as Tony describes himself growing up...?
It’s crazy how his wife had all those qualities he loved and he STILL tried to play with her twice. Men know your worth but they will give you what you settle for, so know your worth ladies.
I am so with your wife. I know how to dip out quietly when things ain't right. There will be no back and forth. I just be outta there. There will be no chasing, begging or yelling etc.
@@aferg76 What is a pick me?
Race Traitor Lol stop trying to start unnecessary shit because you don’t have anything better to do it’s unnecessary.
That's the way to do it!
Regina Craig a desperate person
Exactly!
“A man learns he is ready for marriage when he meets his wife.” ~Tony Gaskins
I like when he say “you hear meeee” lol.
Me too😭😭😭
😂
haha yes
“Listen to me now” 😂😂😂
😂😂 me too and "Puerto Ricca"
"Puertorucca" 🤣🤣🤣 I'm sorry but that was mad funny 😂
I hollered!!!
I came STRAIGHT to the comments after he said that lmao
what's a Puerikka
💀
I agree
"Listen...you can fight, I'm not finna be swingin' from one of these trees" 🤣🤣 you are so funny but facts!!
Ronda Lovee 😂😂😂 that took me out. Because I work in Davie and they live out here. I get in my car so fast 💨.
Sad reality but the way he said it 🤣.
Right, it be so real and raw but sooo funny the way he say stuff
“Puerto Rica and Jewmaican” 🤣😂🤣😂
😂😂😂😂😂had me crying
Tony as much as I appreciate your content, your wisdom I cannot lie I am also here for your humor!!!!😂😂😂Half the time you probably don't even really mean to be that funny but I really be cracking up🤣🤣🤣Anywho thanks for another awesome video and for sharing cause you are really keeping it real. Also thanks to your wife for all she does to make this content possible. Peace
Thank you so much!!
Same here. Love his humor! 🤣🤣
He's hilarious
His humor is so unassuming🤣🤣🤣
BeeutifulBeast He’s hilarious 😂 lol.. Purte-rika! I died lol 😆
“Oh, so you have multiple looks” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
thanks for sharing your true story. You are a good role model man
Dating since kindergarten 🤣🤣🤣
He said a Puerto rica 😂😂
Early in the game 😂😂😂😂
@@mscassama I was laughing at Puerto rica... but he explained..🤣🤣🤣
I heard that too... I did not start even thinking about boys until 13... I'm dead.... _______/\ 😂😂
I died when he said that!
A husband giving honor to his wife. Gotta love it. ❤😊
As a masculine man.. you was subconsciously seeking that feminine woman. You definitely got a feminine woman! Be bless my brother!! I as well is from Alabama so I relate so much to you!!!
I absolutely loved the way you broke down as a man the things your wife solidified to you as far as looking for your wife. Love it. Be blessed!!!
You lay down with Janet Jackson but wake up to Freddy Jackson😭😭 oh ok you have multiple looks! Tony you are hilarious..your wife naturally beautiful.
what kills me is that he can say it with a straight face... no smirk, no nothing lol
I'm dyingggggggg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
😂 😂 😂 😂 🙌❤️
Multiple looks🤣🤣🤣
Lmfaooo
Her: “We can fight this.”
Tony G: “Nahhh, YOU can fight this. I’m not about to be hanging from one of these trees.”
Big facts 💯
I think it’s so huge that she SHOWED him with her ACTIONS by LEAVING HIM. NOT BY >>TALKING>TELLING HIM
So true.
“The women I talked to before didn’t shave their legs or shave their arm pits (huh)....when I saw my wife shave I was like okkk this is different”. I’m dead this is sooooo funny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Did u say lay down with Janet Jackson and wake with Freddie Jackson...... Lolololololololololol 😂 😂 😂 😂
IKR!!!
I'm dying. He's so funny
He is so honestly transparent & serious in this video yet it is hilarious, my morning medicine 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. He took me out with no cursing = classy
🤣😂😂🤣😂
WAAAIIITTTT😱😱
Jamaican women rock!!! Glad you found your queen. Her upbringing is key... Jamaican parents are very strict. Hardwork and dedication is a huge factor in our culture. You were blessed with a natural empress... Blessings Tony!!!❤💚💛
ERIC6MYA1 yes we are
Caribbean parents and grandparents in general
True word. Dem nuh ramp. I thank my parents for the good values they instilled in me.
Competent Men are a treasure. I am proud of you little brother. I am glad you found your way to become a spouse, father, protector and provider.
It seems you have met quite a few women who weren't marriage material, and that is life. But you did find the one that is right for you and that is a blessing.
Tony so Down to Earth and Country! I'm here for it.
I just love how thorough and Transparent you are
Stay at home visions 😂😂😂😂
@@startinganeua3831 lol
Loving these long videos!! Please tell Sheri thank you from the be blessed tribe!
@Ashley Victoria That's awesome!! Tony helped me let go of a grown boy after 9 long years. Now I'm prepared to attract real love
This is the best open window into a man’s mind.... This is true to form .... in every way!!! Thank you for doing this and being so open, honest and truthfully funny !!
I definitely can’t wait to read/hear your wife’s prospective ...this is such a generous dose of your transparency and realness.....Thank you & your wife so much for sharing things like this... Be Blessed!!
Man he had me rollin talkin about “I thought she was a puurtarikka” Bahahaha love his content
I was in a horrible relationship for years he tap dance on myself esteem. I also was flat in the back an he would call me pancake butt. I prayed for two things to have the courage to leave that fool an to one day grow a butt. After that I stayed alone by choice for 3 yrs when I married my husband an had our son my butt took off 🎉. I was in shock an so was my old boyfriend and when he saw me an said dang you got your bubble later in life. An my response was wrong man wrong body, right man right body 💃.My husband loved me with the flatty an now he loves me with the fatty. However what truly matters is what's in a person's 💓. May God continually Bless you an your wife you are a Beautiful couple inside an out.
This is my first time listening to one of your videos and I loved your story!! My hubby tells everyone that I saved his life❤️ Be blessed and shalom!!
Tony: I started having live at home dad visions ..living on a doctor’s salary.. Ya Hea Meeee 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Be blessed🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
The honesty lol
That southern accent! 😆😆
Thanks so much for sharing. Such a humble reminder what we as women should be working on ourselves overall. As the word says... "He who finds a wife finds a good thing". So in order to expect marriage and wife privileges we must BECOME that beforehand.
"Her Face Was Her Face" " She didn't have Cake Makeup on her face!😂😂😂🤣🤣
Listening to this reminded me that I need to get on my grind. Be blessed.
What doesn't attract you might attract someone else! I love to wear make up, watch football, work like a dog for pennies, intelligent, I drink, but I don't smoke. My hair is nappy because I have locs! My differences make me who I am and I won't apologize for it. As long as you as you are equally yoked it doesn't matter about the rest. What don't work for you will work for someone else!
I love how you described yourself lol
Wow...if she accepted his grown boy ways once they were married, 13 years of marriage would have been so sad and hurtful for her. People, men & women can only do to you what you accept. I also love that she never yelled or cursed... something I am working on. Thank you.
TonyG is soooooo brutally honest and down to Earth. 😂😂
Tony you are truly a special man 😂.
I have the same attributes as your wife. I’m happy to know that I am on the right path. I’m so happy for you guys. Thanks for inspiring me. I hope I meet my husband someday 🤎💍
Amen! In every aspect of my life, I have realized I do not like/cant be controlled! I respect leadership and authority as long as I am not compromised. People like to try to make me believe that I am mannish because of it, (tho I do admit that I can be more feminine) but I respect people and treat my men with respect. I've come to realize that most were grown boys and just were too emotionally immature to handle how I moved 🤷🏾♀️
11:00 😂😂😂😂 i canttttttt take it..”ohhh Ohhhok so you have multiple looks” 🤦🏾♀️😂
Lmaooooooo
I love how thorough you are when you explain why you chose your wife.
I love your transparency and realness I'm glad you explain things the way you do. You right Tony if this channel is not for you get your track shoes and run. You a bless young man with a lot of wisdom thank you and be blessed.😇
39:00 "Tony Gaskins' wife": I thank you for being the real one. Tony Gaskins, thank you for recognizing your wife and God bless you both.
That Jamaican flavor got you hooked Tony 😂 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
Big up yourself Empress Cheri, real Jamaican woman🇯🇲🇯🇲, thats how we do.
I loove transparency.. thank you for doing this! I feel like I’m in story time at the Gaskins 🙂. This is so helpful! We need this honesty 🙌🏽
Bro Tony Gaskins, what you seen in your wife is what the Bible says about her in proverbs 31 she's a virtuous woman
Be blessed! Thank you Tony for this message. I have started writing my standards after watching your video "Are you the prize?" and listening to this about your wife has encouraged me even more to set my standards high, respect myself, and to take care of myself. I made so many excuses as to why I am the way I am, and not wanting to change due to dealing with bad/toxic relationships for so long. My intention is to grow for me, become better for me, be the example my children can be proud of and look up to, and become who I want to attract. You are touching lives for God's glory, and I appreciate you and your wife so much. Be blessed!
Thank you for formulating into words what I feel.
@@LashayneHampton You're welcome 💛
I love when you talk. You passionate and funny.... you hearrr meee!!
And the word of the day izzzzzz: 🎉PORTO RICUHS!!!!🎉😂😂
This is one of about 3 of his statements in this video that took me out. He gives me belly laughter
@@mindyourwellbeing FAREAL, lol!!!! The first time I heard it I was like "huhn?!"🤭
Dang Tony u telling all your wife business😂😂😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀💀
Loved the video Tony! She was just all around a great women. I love that it wasn’t anything Magical, just being a stand up woman. Beautiful story ❤️
The Janet Jackson vs Freddie Jackson comment took me out 🤣🤣🤣. I really enjoyed hearing your perspective and appreciate hearing how you met your wife. Your a blessed couple. Be blessed. I gotta read this book.
Be blessed. Thanks for being vulnerable.
I have a similar experience as well Tony. I was dating an Italian, and he said to me that he can’t introduced me to his family; because they don’t like black. The dynamic of our relationship went down.
Most Italians are racist. That sucks.
This is the best story ever !!!!!!!😂😂 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thanks for being transparent !!! May The Most High God continue to bless you and your family.
So beautifully said about your Wife Tony. I'm sure she's a wonderful Woman of God! You two stay blessed!!!🌷
Thank you SO very much, for being a PIONEER and being so very transparent. I feel you on the transparency situation cause ppl will judge you on your personal thoughts cause I would never hurt or throw that back in your face because you are trying your very best to get women like me to understand. Thank you for being the pioneer.
Be Blessed. Your love story is very sweet. I first heard about it in your book Real Love, which is an amazing book.
Thank you very much for reading that book, and also for being a member of the channel!! The Blessed Tribe is happy to have you!
Sometimes a good message can't be given in 5-10 minutes. The message given today was very informative for both men & women. Thank you for your honesty & advice. God bless you brother Tony & may God bless your marriage for many years to come.
Be blessed Mr.Gaskins...I am hanging in there with you because I need this so much..
Be Blessed🙏🏾 I absolutely love watching your videos Tony, you are definitely God sent!, you changed my life& gave me enlightenment on some things I was not aware of. I prefer your videos long also👌🏾May God continue to watch over& Bless you& your family!
A Puerto Rica 😂 OMG . I’m Haitian so I get it.
Be blessed! I don’t think this video is 2 long. It’s interesting how many thoughts a man goes through is assessing a woman.
Be Blessed to everyone. Beautiful love story Tony. Thank you for sharing it with all of us. You have married an amazing woman
You're hilarious!! Yes I agree your wife is beautiful. Your sons are adorable too. Be blessed. (Got me over here cracking up!!)
Be bless, we Jamaicans don’t play. I see people walk away and don’t chase because of pride.
Kim Menns tru
Be blessed Tony! Thank you for transparency and your wife for allowing time to speak to us✨🙌🏾
Keep making long videos. Just played Mrs. Right and sent it to all my girlfriends. I'm a teacher but I'm learning so much from you. There will always be haters. Ignore them. I crave wisdom.
Thank you so much for sharing. You covered so many areas in the life of relationships. Your honesty is welcomed. Thank you for your sacrifice.
PRAISE GOD FOR U TONY FOR YOUR HONESTY A VERY HONORABLE AND RESPECTFUL MAN U R HELPING ME ALOT
Be blessed Tony! May God continue to use you guys union to shed light on what marriage is about.
Tony you have men walking around in their 50’s and 60’s still don’t have it together.
Paul Hogue
Very True...👍
Vblack Sugar hunnny they think they still got time lol I see more single men looking sad than women goes to show how much they failed their families.
All I can say is.. You know you be clowning in your videos,you be having me over here tickled but I love it. I said oh that's lil bro.. 😂😂. Thank you for your God giving advice to us women that need to hear them. I didn't have a dad growing up so I learned through God and experience in life. So I thank you for being our brother, uncle, and cousin to us. Keep inspiring. God bless you and your family ❤
Thank you, Tony. Great video. Prosperous New Year to you and family🙏🎄🎁🎪🇯🇲🌴
Be Blessed! Loving the content and the length. I put on my wireless head phones and listen whilst doing things around the house.
Be blessed. Once again please continue to be transparent and if that an hour so be it.
Tony thanks for being truthful. We women really appreciate it.
Be Bless and thank you! I love to hear couples stories!
You are absolutely hilarious 😂 And very open and honest!
Edit- please don’t be discouraged or turned off by certain comments. Leave your comment section open🙏🏽 It allows us to dialogue and show you our appreciation😊🙌🏽
SN- you were traumatized by hairy women 😂😂😂😂 I swear you mention women with hairy legs almost every other video*exaggerates*
Tony you feel like a brother to me! He said.."I been dating since Kindergarten."
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Whoopi Goldberg in a headlock!" Lord help - I'm dead LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL
Your wife reminds me so much of myself and I am Trinidadian. I think it’s the way us Caribbean women were raised. I have to work on not yelling & instead being calm when angry although I’m not as I was I can still be better. I appreciate you tony I’m on the right track. I’m not settling sorry.
Listening through my work out at the gym. So the video is not too long for me. Be Blessed... You and your family! ❣
Be Blessed! I truly enjoyed this❤ Thank you Brother Tony!! This has encouraged me
Whew... you got so deep on here! You are so genuine. You like to be thorough with your explanation..... I know that’s right!! BE BLESSED
Thank you🌟this truth inspires me to buckle down, continue on this journey of self improvement and discipline. I am the prize📦. Keep teaching Mr. Gaskins, folks are listening💞(time to apply it).
Be blessed and thank you for this video. You've opened my eyes to something I know I have but now it's just up to me to embrace it with open arms.
A beautiful story!!!! Be blessed Tony..
Be blessed! Thank you for all you do! This video was great. It helped me confirm I’m on the right track to finding a husband. I just have to be patient. The right man looking for all of these qualities in me will come along. 🙂
I sincerely appreciate your transparency!
I haven’t even watch yet but thank you Tony for doing this!! 🙏🏾
Janet Jackson to Freddy Jackson. I'm dead. Tony be blessed.
Be Blessed brother! 👏🏾👏🏾.... And do not apologize anymore to anyone, the Lord is pleased with the work you are doing or he would not have planted this seed in you! I appreciate every word of advice and cannot wait to read your wife’s book🤗✔️
Merry Christmas to you and the Family 🙏🏾
Tony killing me and i ain't even half way through.... He dating girls with chin hairs and wanna drop his wife with the flat batty... 😂 Puerto rica jewmaican.. I'm dying
Thank you for this video. You've given me confirmation I found my wife! Be Blessed...
Congratulations!
Great story.....More women need to be like your wife....Be Blessed!
Be blessed your videos are very helpful ty and please keep making them longer the better 😊
I love this story.... it’s honest and hilarious at the same time... Be blessed😊
Great video!!! I would love to see a video from Sheri’s perspective to see how/why she chose you too!!🤗
It certainly was a pleasure listening to his story (I've learned plenty) though I'm curious in why his *Christian* Dad did not raise him how NOT to behave like a wild and nasty boy--as Tony describes himself growing up...?
Tony, you are a NUT.😂😂
God bless you and your family.