@@melaninkween9401 If your life is good meaning, not living in the streets, having to result to illegal things for income, or anything related....thats when. If you're not in that predicament you are getting something back at this moment.
wow! i am 2 years later, but you comment TRULY spoke to my heart DEEPLY… actually, you have kept me hopeful because I was getting really helpless lately. thank you😚😚
Queen of the South I look at it as protection. The bf may be receiving husband treatment, but the woman is not legally obligated to him and free to leave him if it doesn’t work out.
Inside every wounded woman, every woman who uses her body for bait or every woman who lives for the cheque, is a little girl yearning to be loved. And that gap can only be filled by our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ
I've had a guy that i really liked leave me because he liked "bad girls". Im not a bad girl but i was very naive and didn't stick up for myself. I was a little heartbroken at first but i soon came to respect that he left me because he could have stuck around and took advantage of me.
Definitely. It doesn't shy away from the fact that I had to grow in areas but I also am glad because he seen me as a good woman regardless.Which I am...Thank you sir.
Tony that's your next book! The benefits of marriage....men especially dont see the blessing or benefits....instead its treated as a death sentence....
It's sad to say that approximately 95% of the people I come across, that are single and claim to be ready for a relationship/marriage, have a list of what they want in a partner but "THEY DO NOT MATCH THAT AT ALL"!!!
Maaaan, I've learned so much from watching your videos and I've been sharing with my husband and friends. You are a huge blessing! Thank you for your obedience to God!!
Be encouraged. I'll tell you like an elderly woman told me 4 yrs ago 'There's still some good men out here. They're not all taken. Yea, they still exist.' It may take a while to come across them, but anything worth having is worth the time to find. In the meantime, we're working on ourselves so when the opportunity arises we're prepared which is success. Preparation + Opportunity = Success. Virtuous jewels and gems 💎 still exist, but they are rare which gives them their high worth and value. Be encouraged as we continue to strive to be women and men of high worth and value. Proverbs 31:10 and Proverbs 20:6
Men and women are making it difficult for marriage to exist from a religious prospective the oldest couple I’ve known to be married at the longest is 83 yrs and no social media involved just pure trust, love and honesty so many Blessing to them!!
LIFE was simple before social media. now some women and girls wanna be like instagram models and these female rappers. body out and foul mouth. when in reality even their lives are toxic and they really want love as well. we all want attention and love!
@ Tony Gaskins - Words cannot express how grateful I am for this message. As a young woman in my 20's, looking for a healthy relationship, your messages are a breath of fresh air compared to a lot of the toxic messages that are way too accessible to us in this generation. Your family echoes the same message women and men in my life have also taught me. Keep up the great content, as there are a lot of young men and women that have been misled for generations. Please do not ever change your message, and stand by your truth.
I agree Tony. People believe that idea about 2 parent homes as if you grow up this way you will be the perfect adult. No. It's about how well you are raised. Even if it's by a single parent or your grandmother, grandfather, etc. I know people that grew up in 2 parent homes that are really messed up emotionally and mentally.
If you take a look at statistics, or at least the last time I did, men are the happier ones in marriage and women are more likely to file for a divorce (unhappy). Marriage definitely benefits the man, to the right woman, we just have to make the right decisions.
Oh my goodness Tony you are so on point with this message!! Keep allowing the Holy Spirit to use you to speak truth into the lives of all that hear your message. Blessings!!
I truly appreciate the type of man Bro Tony, God has made you to be we all need to see more of this in men these days in time.a true godly man. God bless you Tony Gaskins
Thank you for this video. I wasn't going to watch because I thought it was geared towards the men. I've, already been a wife not sure if I want to be a wife again. But I'm leaving that in the Lord's hands. I'm still healing and growing. Never say never. Thanks Tony🙏💕
EXCELLENT EXCELLENT EXCELLENT !! Nephew Tony Gaskins, that was a great video, you need to do some more of those. They way you were presenting the information it was a different way of looking inside a man's mind. I'm not a man and I got a lot out of this video EXCELLENT!. Thank you, SDG
Class, substance and humility. Yep that pretty much sums me up! Lol Women are definitely more open to change, I've been working hard on myself for years now, to reduce/manage my issues so my future husband doesn't have to. Great video for the men. Hope they really hear you and take it to heart and act accordingly.
Thank you Tony I haven't been telling the guys who asks me advice about the young ladies they're dating. I always give honest advice I have yet to be wrong about what I tell them. Then they come back saying dang how did you know everything I told them from jump I was right about. Be bless thank you for being a vessel 🙏🏽
I made it! This video was a blessing! 22:30 24:00: Secy n Classy 34:44: 40:00 Women can change/Chameleon Watch how the woman behaves around other people. Character is important 44:45:😂😂 48:45: Critique and controlling women 53:29 Grow as a man
T you are so right I had to learn that the hard way . So I reverse it being extra polite and always smiling and saying Thank you . My sone made me realize it he’s 20 now .
I appreciate this message. You spoke on something that’s been on my mind for the last few days. We have people (men & women) pushing the narrative that if you leave then you are weak...or if you leave you’re gonna put up with the same thing with the next guy. I experienced this watching someone’s live the other day. It made me sad that we’re out here preaching “struggle love”, ride or die, etc. So many of us believe this crap but we don’t realize how we contribute to this madness. You can’t control someone else, but you can control YOU!!! Please listen to Tony...and purchase ‘A Woman’s Influence’ written with his wife Sheri.
You really described me when mentioning what a “Healthy Woman” is. But unfortunately in this generation we are called “pick me’s” smh I am just happy their are some men who still appreciate those kind of women vs what this generation is trying to force upon us! Great counseling session as normally Tony lol 🤎
That’s true about women not bathing I had no clue until college and I’ve had roommates tease me about the showers I take... my dad used to tell me a woman has a lot of crevices and people will say you stink but in an ugly way.
I love Tony Gaskins Channel & He gives sound advice & tips, I have been following him for years. His content has inspired me to create my own channel with my husband 🙏🏾
This is the kind of wife I am. I take care of my body and mind. Unfortunately there are men nowadays who want to debate with you and be argumentative like a nagging woman.
Thank you brother Tony, I made it. I'm going to always make it, because I need this like my physical body needs water. One should thirst after righteousness.
I made it. like Andy Stanley says "Are you the person you are looking for is looking for'.
Yes, love that series he did!
Proverbs 19:14 House and Wealth are inherited from Fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord 👸🏽
Oh yes
Humility is rooted in confidence,
Arrogance is rooted in insecurity.
Yes maam!
So so true
Yep! The arrogance compensates for the insecurity.
So true. Humble people don't even feel the need to prove anything to anyone.
Not always
I made it! Excellent video, thanks for speaking to the fellas!!! This is full of knowledge and gave me a new outlook on what to look for in a woman!.
Oh wow! Might be the first one who made it to the end!
@Tony Gaskins you always speak the truth and have tons of wisdom!! Enjoy following your work.
Awesome
@@TonyGaskins 😂😂😂😂
When you're a giver, it definitely comes back to you.
When?
@@melaninkween9401 If your life is good meaning, not living in the streets, having to result to illegal things for income, or anything related....thats when. If you're not in that predicament you are getting something back at this moment.
@@cesttmoii Ok thanks
wow! i am 2 years later, but you comment TRULY spoke to my heart DEEPLY… actually, you have kept me hopeful because I was getting really helpless lately.
thank you😚😚
Too many boyfriends are recieving husband benefits.....Social media continues to promote this brhavior as "winning". We need Tradtional Values.
Say that sis!!
Yes lord
Queen of the South I look at it as protection. The bf may be receiving husband treatment, but the woman is not legally obligated to him and free to leave him if it doesn’t work out.
It's not just that but it's also that society got relationship advice backwards. Single men are not given much help either.
I made it! Hey TG keep this up we need more of this in the world and on the platform. This was all true. Salute
thanks for watching!!
Tony Gaskins Welcome TG
Inside every wounded woman, every woman who uses her body for bait or every woman who lives for the cheque, is a little girl yearning to be loved. And that gap can only be filled by our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ
Amen. Only Almighty, Beautiful, Loving Lord Father God!!!! Only Almighty, Beautiful, Loving King Jesus!!!!
Preach it
Selah but God
I made it TG, all the way for that silver teeth joke. LAWDDDDDD 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆
I've had a guy that i really liked leave me because he liked "bad girls". Im not a bad girl but i was very naive and didn't stick up for myself. I was a little heartbroken at first but i soon came to respect that he left me because he could have stuck around and took advantage of me.
Alexis Matthews him leaving was definitely a blessing
Definitely. It doesn't shy away from the fact that I had to grow in areas but I also am glad because he seen me as a good woman regardless.Which I am...Thank you sir.
That's a healthy and right way to look at it.
I am learning so much from Tony it is not even funny.
lol me too
Same!
Hello Mr.Gaskins, you spoke absolute truth and I am working on myself for this great woman myself as we speak.lord bless you and your family 🙏.
Be blessed I made it!
Woo I dont know how this guy knows so much. By my experience hes 100% right. He just described me and my childhood 😳😳
I be trying to tell y’all. I been out there! Lol
Tony that's your next book! The benefits of marriage....men especially dont see the blessing or benefits....instead its treated as a death sentence....
TaNitra Robinson I agree.
So true. I see so many black men who view marriage as a negative. It’s really sad that they don’t know the many benefits that marriage provides.
But do men really read brooks though ?
Adjanie.d Good point. Oh well...
I'm curious. What are the benefits of marriage?
It's sad to say that approximately 95% of the people I come across, that are single and claim to be ready for a relationship/marriage, have a list of what they want in a partner but "THEY DO NOT MATCH THAT AT ALL"!!!
IKR
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
We made it brothers! 👊😎
I made it! Thanks for the video!
Seth Campbell That’s what’s up! Be blessed in your growth journey
Blessings!! Keep going!
I Made It! Lotta gems 💎 in this video bro keep speaking the truth!
I made it Tony! 21 years old thank you, I’ve been watching you for years now.
Maaaan, I've learned so much from watching your videos and I've been sharing with my husband and friends. You are a huge blessing! Thank you for your obedience to God!!
How i wish i could just be born in an earlier generation😩👏🏽 because the struggle to find a good man/wife is real
Be encouraged. I'll tell you like an elderly woman told me 4 yrs ago 'There's still some good men out here. They're not all taken. Yea, they still exist.' It may take a while to come across them, but anything worth having is worth the time to find. In the meantime, we're working on ourselves so when the opportunity arises we're prepared which is success. Preparation + Opportunity = Success. Virtuous jewels and gems 💎 still exist, but they are rare which gives them their high worth and value. Be encouraged as we continue to strive to be women and men of high worth and value. Proverbs 31:10 and Proverbs 20:6
~I’m a 65+ yo and I still have hope that God has great Godly men out there for his daughters.
Stay prayerful....
Be Blessed
The end has me in tears! Who is not bathing?!! Stop it ladies, no fish markets!
I made it! And I will be showing my boys this in the future. Keep up the great work and God bless!
Men and women are making it difficult for marriage to exist from a religious prospective the oldest couple I’ve known to be married at the longest is 83 yrs and no social media involved just pure trust, love and honesty so many Blessing to them!!
* perspective
I made it... “Become what you want to attract” great video Mr. Gaskins 💯
LIFE was simple before social media. now some women and girls wanna be like instagram models and these female rappers. body out and foul mouth. when in reality even their lives are toxic and they really want love as well. we all want attention and love!
Well stated 👐👐👐
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
💯
Facts
Had to watch it twice...to get it in my SPIRIT
Happy Friyaay! 👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼 "A WOMANS INFLUENCE" is officially out, make sure you cop it🧡💓🧡
Caramel Kissez ~Happy weekend to you!
I have the audio book and it is really good!
@@motherp5291 🙂😁🧡🧡
@ Tony Gaskins - Words cannot express how grateful I am for this message. As a young woman in my 20's, looking for a healthy relationship, your messages are a breath of fresh air compared to a lot of the toxic messages that are way too accessible to us in this generation. Your family echoes the same message women and men in my life have also taught me. Keep up the great content, as there are a lot of young men and women that have been misled for generations. Please do not ever change your message, and stand by your truth.
"AYYE WE ON NO CONTACTTT!!!" LOL TONY AINT PLAYING ABOUT DAT 19
TiffanyB TV 😂😂😂I love when he say Dat!,,
Tomara Doss me too 😂😂😂
I agree Tony. People believe that idea about 2 parent homes as if you grow up this way you will be the perfect adult. No. It's about how well you are raised. Even if it's by a single parent or your grandmother, grandfather, etc. I know people that grew up in 2 parent homes that are really messed up emotionally and mentally.
If you take a look at statistics, or at least the last time I did, men are the happier ones in marriage and women are more likely to file for a divorce (unhappy). Marriage definitely benefits the man, to the right woman, we just have to make the right decisions.
Some good point here a lot of women need to hear this more also man as well
“I don’t edit videos!” Tony, you’re too funny!☺️
Thank You for the content. Hello to the Gaskins Family and The Blessed Tribe. Be Blessed.
Thank you!! Bless you, too!
I agree. Wife material is becoming rare. Thank you Tony again.
I made it. Thanks for sharing your insight. Im looking for a wife. This was very helpful and conforming to what I believe is true.
This video is one
million % the truth. It’s so important for us to be completely healed otherwise we continue to repeat the toxic cycle.
My husband sitting here with me and told me to tell you "I MADE IT" lol.
That's awesome. 😂💕
Tell him that’s amazing!
Your the truth! It takes courage and self love to be single. Jesus did it ladies. I stay walking away.
Tony Gaskins your videos keep confirming for me I’m on the right road and I am marriage material. My person just has not found me yet 🤷🏼♀️
Oh my goodness Tony you are so on point with this message!! Keep allowing the Holy Spirit to use you to speak truth into the lives of all that hear your message. Blessings!!
Thank you! Bless you! Means a lot that you appreciated it.
I truly appreciate the type of man Bro Tony, God has made you to be we all need to see more of this in men these days in time.a true godly man. God bless you Tony Gaskins
Female.. Working on my mind and I MADE IT! 😊 So much to learn bro Tony; so little time. I'll definitely listen a few more times. Thank you.
That's why I appreciate your work so much because being so busy yet you make time to teach us. I can never take this for granted. Thanks much.
Thank you for this video. I wasn't going to watch because I thought it was geared towards the men. I've, already been a wife not sure if I want to be a wife again. But I'm leaving that in the Lord's hands. I'm still healing and growing. Never say never. Thanks Tony🙏💕
PREACH BROTHER TONY!!KEEP IT 💯AMEN TO THAT.
I like how he breaks this down.
EXCELLENT EXCELLENT EXCELLENT !! Nephew Tony Gaskins, that was a great video, you need to do some more of those. They way you were presenting the information it was a different way of looking inside a man's mind. I'm not a man and I got a lot out of this video EXCELLENT!. Thank you, SDG
Thanks so much for appreciating it for what it’s worth instead of looking for something to critique! Blessing to have folks like you in the comments.
What, I’m the first one here in the comments!? 😊 I know it was for the men, but I watched it anyway. Be Blessed!🙏🏽❤️
Class, substance and humility. Yep that pretty much sums me up! Lol Women are definitely more open to change, I've been working hard on myself for years now, to reduce/manage my issues so my future husband doesn't have to. Great video for the men. Hope they really hear you and take it to heart and act accordingly.
Thank you Tony I haven't been telling the guys who asks me advice about the young ladies they're dating. I always give honest advice I have yet to be wrong about what I tell them. Then they come back saying dang how did you know everything I told them from jump I was right about. Be bless thank you for being a vessel 🙏🏽
"I made it" Good words to think about, thanks for putting up the video.
Not a man but made it😉
Wages of sin -> DEEP!🤔
Be BLESSED Tony 🥰
Not a “ I made it” yet!!!
Good information as always!!
Tony speaking truth for 55min straight!!!
I'm ear-hustling on this vid for the guys cause I know it's some gems in here for me.
I made it, appreciate the energy and wisdom. It really landed. Loved the fish market joke lol
Nice Video. It takes courage to say things like this nowadays. I hope this reaches many of the ears that need to hear it.
Love From London ❤️
It’s a lot of great benefits when your honest and become love facts
Agree!! Most Women don’t know you can be sexy and not show your body
Michelle Lucius exactly!
We need more channels dedicated to us young men💯 great wisdom and advice🔥
I made it! This video was a blessing!
22:30
24:00: Secy n Classy
34:44:
40:00 Women can change/Chameleon
Watch how the woman behaves around other people. Character is important
44:45:😂😂
48:45: Critique and controlling women
53:29 Grow as a man
Tony can you talk about when an emotionally unavailable man becomes ready to fall in love
So true. GOOD idea
Yes!! Please Tony
T you are so right I had to learn that the hard way . So I reverse it being extra polite and always smiling and saying Thank you . My sone made me realize it he’s 20 now .
I appreciate this message. You spoke on something that’s been on my mind for the last few days. We have people (men & women) pushing the narrative that if you leave then you are weak...or if you leave you’re gonna put up with the same thing with the next guy. I experienced this watching someone’s live the other day. It made me sad that we’re out here preaching “struggle love”, ride or die, etc. So many of us believe this crap but we don’t realize how we contribute to this madness. You can’t control someone else, but you can control YOU!!! Please listen to Tony...and purchase ‘A Woman’s Influence’ written with his wife Sheri.
FB was here in 2005. That’s when it popped up all over my college campus!
Hurt ppl hurt ppl ❤️💯
I made it!
Who else scrolled down to see how many made it? 😆
Great vid as always Mr. Gaskins! We appreciate you!
Glad you shared this message Tony 👍
I made it. Message received loud and clear. I’ve made some mistakes but never again. I really needed this thanks.
I made it. And i learned i definitely don't want a loose booty woman 💪🏾. Learned a lot T.G thanks
Here to listen and waiting for the men to share some insight as well
Not dipping the stick in Acid 😩😩😩😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This video is beneficial for both men and women. I'm learning a lot from you Mr. Gaskins! Thank you ❤
Thank you for sharing so much knowledge!! I am mot a man but I made it!
I think i may have watched this twice. Surprised I didn't comment on this before.
I made it. OH HELL YEAH!!
I don't know who you are but I see the Lord in You and stay bless!
I look forward to your videos everyday
Thank you so much Tony. This video bring me so much comfort in knowing there’s nothing wrong with me 🙏🏾I will patiently wait on my king 🤴🏾😀😀.
Woman we must represent class, substance, and know how to be humble.
Yayyy! I ordered my book last night💯
God bless you
I Made It ..... N not looking back 🎉🎊❤️💯
Whew Chile. You better preach coach!
Listening to your book "A Woman's Influence on audiobook. My first audiobook ever will be purchased the book next.
You really described me when mentioning what a “Healthy Woman” is. But unfortunately in this generation we are called “pick me’s” smh I am just happy their are some men who still appreciate those kind of women vs what this generation is trying to force upon us! Great counseling session as normally Tony lol 🤎
That’s true about women not bathing I had no clue until college and I’ve had roommates tease me about the showers I take... my dad used to tell me a woman has a lot of crevices and people will say you stink but in an ugly way.
I love Tony Gaskins Channel & He gives sound advice & tips, I have been following him for years. His content has inspired me to create my own channel with my husband 🙏🏾
Amazing advice. Could listen to this all day dood. Shout out from England, liked and subbed. 👍😃
This is the kind of wife I am. I take care of my body and mind. Unfortunately there are men nowadays who want to debate with you and be argumentative like a nagging woman.
Thank you brother Tony, I made it. I'm going to always make it, because I need this like my physical body needs water. One should thirst after righteousness.
I like your demeanor and vibe, you just earned a new sub 🤙🏽
I am feeling but this video right is amazing!!! This gives me hope that me a future godly wife, the ONE God has for me will see that I am worth! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thank you make it plain. A Good woman will not feel obligated, but will do as feel deserving of her.
Just registering myself here I'm off to listen to the words of wisdom, I will be back to comment once I'm done
Thank you Tony for helping them!