You’re Not Stuck: You Just Want it Too Much.
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- Опубліковано 6 сер 2024
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In this video, I talk about letting go of your desperate energy.
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TIMELINE
0:00 Intro
0:34 Why desperate energy repels your goals
1:14 Why desperate energy makes you act weird
1:58 The desperate energy cycle
3:55 How to stop the desperate energy cycle
4:04 How to defuse desperate energy
5:21 Defusion technique - he, they, she
5:41 The outside in approach
5:55 How to give up
9:12 How to manage desperate energy
9:52 Reccs of the week
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I actually talked about this with my therapist. I wanted a new position so badly. I kept failing and failing. Once I finally realized that this was never going to happen I just felt this weight lifted off my shoulders and mind. I have not looked back since. I now have gotten a raise
Funny how this works, it may be anecdotal but every time I've given up on something (genuinely) it has actually worked, unexpectedly.
This is true. Having patience and being realistic are important for achieving any goal
Holy shit this stuff actually works! I’ve been job searching for two months and I tried the advice in this video and I just did better on a French proficiency test for a job than I did on the same test in high school (and that’s after five years of barely practicing my French and then a week of rushing to get it together!) and I just had an amazing job interview for a different potential role! I’m going to keep practicing this!
So true, and super helpful! A famous Victorian era occultist put it this way: "Pure Will, unassuaged of purpose and delivered from the lust of results, is in every way perfect." Aleister Crowley.
This couldn’t have come at a more perfect time! This has been so insightful and I haven’t heard of some of these techniques before so I’m excited to start practicing these !
Ahh I’m so glad it hit you at the right time. I’m sending you good energy 💛
Hey Michelle, this video could not have4 come at a better time. I am a few months away from finishing my PhD, and I am so desperate on finishing that it's like I get to a stage of "What's the point - Ill never get it done".
Yes!!!!!!! This has always been a huge hurdle for me. ❤❤❤❤❤
Loved your previous video on desperate energy, and this one is great too! The idea of giving up was really interesting!
Desperate energy has been the story of my life for several years now, so I really appreciated your other video and now this one on it! I have a lot of old thinking habits to change, but I appreciate your incredibly simple and practical tips on it.
What a wonderful video to start my day with! ✨🦋
Brilliant, Concise and Practical Video. As always! 👏🏼
Liking already just for the title alone!
In the past months I didn‘t click with your content as much anymore, but came back to the channel every few weeks. Absolute habit after following you for years and years. Haha.
Anyway, this video will help my current situation with the not at all cloudy goal of „happiness“ immensely!
I know why I still follow this channel around like a puppy: You‘re ability of breaking down complex and deep stuff, the clean and pretty design (I love the line art pictures!) and your overall positive persona. Thank you, Michelle!
I appreciate youuuuu. Sending you lots of good energy 💛💛💛
Same, the topics are so broad that I skip some videos. Good for you Michelle, always bringing something useful for somebody ❤.
You just cracked the code in my mind! Thank you
My head goes: "Sheee broke, the, code (Who-oh-oh..) 🎶"
definitely going to implement these tips! thank you for the update btw i really need a hard reset on life and the life map 2.5 is my big lil ritual for today ❤
would you be able to talk about how to navigate the abundance of info available to us and taking action instead of just collecting info? i feel like i've noticed this pattern of collecting knowledge but never actually doing anything with it? would love to hear your take on this
Oh, my goodness. Your comment resonated with me. I’m constantly doing what I call “educating but not executing”. 😅
Felt this!
It's interesting, since I have multiple interests I don't recall a time in my life when I wanted something so bad that I didn't get it.
that kinda make sense. 😮
I know you have printables but I would love the lifemap book in actual 3d book format!
hmm, interesting. don't know if I can relate to it since I think the label of desperation is giving it a really shame-y vibe. i think those kinda thoughts can definitely create depression and these tips would help prevent that. which is why I'm glad you said your thoughts don't create reality, they create behaviours that create reality. I think that's the real central point: how your thoughts affect your behavior is how your thoughts affect life. i just feel like this relatable cycle of life deserves a better name, I'm not keen on calling others desperate when I explain to them that they might be in this cycle 😅
Hmm that's fair! It doesn't carry those feelings for me, but I think I've talked about it / thought about it using that term in a more playful way. I can see how it might feel shame-y to others for sure. If you find a different name for it that feels a little better do let me know!
I guess you could say when you are in a state of longing it can give off needy energy. Theres many ways you can rephrase if you are worried about how someone will receive the information. However I find people who will be offended will be offended no matter what. There are people I have tip tooed around to say things in the nicest way possible and thats when they spaz out the most. I think its better to be direct. I find society is changing the entire English language to not offend and its getting tiresome.
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Who is the author of the Trying not to try book?
Edward S! I just popped a link in the description if you want to double check you're looking at the right one :)
It's weird but a lot of things you mentioned in this video kind of reminded me of Twenty One Pilots and the metaphorical story they've been telling about mental health. The cycles, being choked, imagining an antagonist to cope with difficult things... It just aligns so beautifully.
I looove this correlation, that's so fun.
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I have been desperate to travel now my partner has cancer 😭😭😭 when is the wedding darling
Ahh I'm so sorry, that must be so hard. The wedding has actually happened!! I have few sneaky pics and videos on my instagram if you wanna check 'em out 👀 appreciate you and sending you lots of love and good energy
@@muchelleb awe congratulations my love! God Bless your marriage your beautiful!…❤️🌹🫶🏻👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼thank you for your support it’s so hard 🥺
I kind of dislike this message, in part because of the other message we are told: the universe helps those who are already helping themselves.
So which is it?
It paints it all as a toxic relationship with
fate where fate is the avoidant and we are the anxious attachment.
Can’t it be both? If you know about the Law of Attraction you know to put a lot of emotional energy into visualising your end goal, but then you have to let the feeling and energy go and accept whatever will be, will be.
Doesnt what she said fall into the category of promoting people helping themselves by giving tips to help them not feel desperate?
Hey I purchased the Life Map a while back and the update is a lovely surprise! Thank you for that, I look forward to exploring it :) And the printables are PERFECT, soooo happy to use them, especially the daily one!
thanks for the download link🤍
Enjoy!! 💛💛