MARRIAGE IS NOT ABOUT FEELINGS with OLUSOLA OGUCHE-AGUDAH;

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 265

  • @godaughter4044
    @godaughter4044 3 роки тому +136

    Yes. I watch nigerian movie and I realize marriage can not be based on mere "feelings". I'm 16 and sometimes I wonder who I'll marry but I want to build my relationship with God before I jump into a relationship.

    • @loverofmysoul8742
      @loverofmysoul8742 3 роки тому +11

      Smart girl! Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you. Matt 6:33.

    • @latisha1673
      @latisha1673 3 роки тому +1

      Wise young lady, God first

    • @Thisisbisola
      @Thisisbisola 3 роки тому +2

      Please follow God wholeheartedly

    • @eniolaenioluwabo7784
      @eniolaenioluwabo7784 3 роки тому +3

      You've taken the best decision sweetie

    • @alexismoore2731
      @alexismoore2731 3 роки тому

      Lol movies.. women and movies

  • @Segigo
    @Segigo 3 роки тому +42

    A lot of persons have expectations of marriage and also in marriage, living the realities is another. I support all she's outlined. Like I'll always say, Love is an understanding not a feeling. It demands care, attention and nuturing.

    • @tashiestastyislandcuisinet8296
      @tashiestastyislandcuisinet8296 3 роки тому +2

      love is not constant nor consistent, but commitment is CONSCIOUS of love inconsistencies - Willie Elmore

  • @lizh4817
    @lizh4817 3 роки тому +82

    Whooo 4 years in, I had to learn this one the hard way lol That feelings stuff is over rated and feelings changes everyday!

    • @kigezifaithministry3797
      @kigezifaithministry3797 3 роки тому

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    • @lizh4817
      @lizh4817 2 роки тому

      @@rafaelw8115 have you ever been married?

    • @lizh4817
      @lizh4817 2 роки тому

      @@rafaelw8115 🤣🤣🤣 Married because I love my husband and I’m a corporate paralegal, I take care of myself just fine…strange that your asking these questions

  • @ebeleezeokoli9743
    @ebeleezeokoli9743 3 роки тому +8

    I always say that courtship and dating doesn’t solve marital issues. A man or woman can like to have same values with you but after marriage you see them showing their true selves. It’s just Gods grace

    • @olivak
      @olivak 3 роки тому +3

      Yes, life happens during marriage and people change no matter what you do. Its literally God's grace and walking by the holy spirit that keep a marriage.

  • @safi.4537
    @safi.4537 3 роки тому +96

    Women let us be Careful that we understand the difference between Forgiveness and Trust. Staying in a marriage as a forgiving woman, yet the man continues abusing you and/ or cheating on you.

    • @temiotesile9211
      @temiotesile9211 3 роки тому +18

      Very important. You can forgive but it does not mean remain in the abusive situation.

    • @ruhuomakejeh7633
      @ruhuomakejeh7633 3 роки тому +4

      @@temiotesile9211 Abusive marriage vs no divorce/ separation as advanced by the Christian scripts ( Bible)???? How do we reconcile it?

    • @issatrophy8490
      @issatrophy8490 3 роки тому +4

      Why do ppl say cheating on you cheating is abuse as well Emotional abuse

    • @temiotesile9211
      @temiotesile9211 3 роки тому +4

      @@ruhuomakejeh7633 Thanks for your comment Ruhuoma - definitely something to think about. For now, I don’t know how to respond - all I know is how I felt when I was faced with abuse in my relationship... I have left it now and reconciled but I know I never want to return to him.

    • @ruhuomakejeh7633
      @ruhuomakejeh7633 3 роки тому +1

      @@temiotesile9211 Stay strong.

  • @samuelafolayan7056
    @samuelafolayan7056 3 роки тому +15

    Word of encouragement for me as a single guy and people who are still single and those who are married.

  • @leenyasha6224
    @leenyasha6224 3 роки тому +15

    I wish someone had told me this before I started dating. This is deep

  • @servusdei8629
    @servusdei8629 3 роки тому +4

    The guest just make this whole marriage thing look so easy and possible. Wow

  • @nwanduchikeluba4094
    @nwanduchikeluba4094 3 роки тому +5

    This lady seems to be speaking my mind exactly. There's more to marriage than feelings. People touch more than they talk in marriage. You should talk more. That's how you understand each other better.

  • @NBrown-kh8lp
    @NBrown-kh8lp 3 роки тому +19

    These women are so beautiful ❤️

  • @kiwi5118
    @kiwi5118 3 роки тому +5

    There’s so many jewels here and has potential life changing information if you’re willing to do the work. Thank you

  • @Thisisbisola
    @Thisisbisola 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you for this. Thank you, thank you!

  • @jenniferoprah8929
    @jenniferoprah8929 3 роки тому +3

    So life transforming, it was as if since getting married, life has been an all-round roller coaster of events, this helped me regain focus.

  • @priscillaaduampong2189
    @priscillaaduampong2189 3 роки тому +1

    lloovveddd this!!! learn a lot ! GOD. BLESS YOU WOMEN

  • @dashelledisna6239
    @dashelledisna6239 3 роки тому +9

    Amen. As a 25 year old single woman, this is needed🙌🏽

  • @of6024
    @of6024 3 роки тому +2

    Loved it. Will listen to it over and over again 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jeanettebee4772
    @jeanettebee4772 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this ! Good talk !

  • @emmanuelginikanwa283
    @emmanuelginikanwa283 3 роки тому +2

    Brilliant, Brilliant, Brilliant,

  • @Mimi10042
    @Mimi10042 3 роки тому +1

    Great wisdom: I love it 👏👏

  • @kambibikamugisha3394
    @kambibikamugisha3394 3 роки тому

    Great message. Thanks.

  • @BolanleEnang
    @BolanleEnang 3 роки тому +1

    I love this... I like what you said 'the first condition of marriage is wholeness'! Apt!!!!

  • @atudtifuh4067
    @atudtifuh4067 3 роки тому

    Wowww you are blessed Madam thank God for using you to reveal all this things

  • @uzoemerole7988
    @uzoemerole7988 3 роки тому

    Loved loved loved every bit of this interview. Such depth!!! Thanks for this. Will most definitely get Zara.

  • @chisomezeakalue4196
    @chisomezeakalue4196 3 роки тому +1

    Alot to learn here. Thanks alot

  • @pmnoble4959
    @pmnoble4959 3 роки тому +3

    This is great. I have just bought the e book!

  • @teeplustv
    @teeplustv 3 роки тому +3

    i am really glad i came across this at this time of my life, i will make sure to listen to this every night for the next 2weeks. Thank you for the content and i will make sure to get the book

  • @AnastasiaEs.
    @AnastasiaEs. 3 роки тому +8

    Just bought the book- Can't wait to read the book. Thank you for this great video! God bless! AlsoI subscribed can't wait to watch more videos from this Channel!

  • @OfficialAdedoyin
    @OfficialAdedoyin 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! A lot of Words of wisdom 🙏. I am Blessed Already, I really learnt a lot. Thank you

  • @yourdarling6814
    @yourdarling6814 3 роки тому +1

    I never comment on stuffs, but... This is great, I will definitely look for that book

  • @gracesikapokoo6088
    @gracesikapokoo6088 3 роки тому +1

    Love this

  • @ucheelueze519
    @ucheelueze519 3 роки тому +3

    Excellent , This discussion is good. Sola a job well done

  • @clautidgenestant9236
    @clautidgenestant9236 3 роки тому

    I’m not sure how I got here but I’m happy YT brought me here.,enjoyed this conversation

  • @jasminesmith913
    @jasminesmith913 3 роки тому +3

    In our first year of marriage. Thank you for this❤️

  • @TheWellnessAbbey
    @TheWellnessAbbey 3 роки тому +1

    Wow, this conversation was everything. So many gems dropped during this video. I'll be saving this to my favourites!

  • @obindeborah1305
    @obindeborah1305 3 роки тому

    Seriously OOOH deeep gan this was sooo insightful , infact it was sooo full thanks I enjoyed every minute

  • @sallykabukuru3544
    @sallykabukuru3544 3 роки тому

    Great message!

  • @victorchinweuba7051
    @victorchinweuba7051 3 роки тому +1

    I am soooo blessed by these wonderful ladies.

  • @rebeccaboakyesarpong3076
    @rebeccaboakyesarpong3076 3 роки тому

    God bless you for this book

  • @refiloedlamini8578
    @refiloedlamini8578 3 роки тому +4

    I'm impressed, would love to host this kind of show, beautiful setting

  • @Nkem_O
    @Nkem_O 3 роки тому +1

    This is the most amazing thing I have heard in forever.
    And the beauty is that it’s not rocket science...

  • @Angeloflight7
    @Angeloflight7 3 роки тому +1

    This was absolutely beyond amazing and blessed me soooo much. Just the way these women converse brought me such joy. Such wisdom, gentleness and intellect.

  • @yolisamrso9827
    @yolisamrso9827 3 роки тому +4

    Such profound insights about marriage, I’m truly encouraged. Keep up the good work Woman of God.

  • @popvision8857
    @popvision8857 3 роки тому +1

    i really enjoyed listening to mrs. oguche-agudah. i just purchased the kindle version on amazon.

  • @gogomathias2960
    @gogomathias2960 3 роки тому +5

    God bless you ma. I've always known there's more to marriage than saying I do, giving birth, going on dates and the likes. I must confess I am greatly blessed.

  • @obasanuoluwasegun6806
    @obasanuoluwasegun6806 3 роки тому

    Awesome view about marriage

  • @Nicolearchie_
    @Nicolearchie_ 3 роки тому +1

    Really loved this

  • @victoriabarnabas8847
    @victoriabarnabas8847 3 роки тому

    I LOVE THIS

  • @taliaa7856
    @taliaa7856 3 роки тому

    This is soooo good and more people need to see it.

  • @Funmilayo07
    @Funmilayo07 3 роки тому +3

    This is so very impactful. It is heavy. Thank you so much Mrs Olusola for the wisdom shared. Thank you for bringing her on your show. God bless you. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kmwilkerson04
    @kmwilkerson04 3 роки тому

    Wonderful interview and I found the new book I am buying 😃

  • @House_of_joy
    @House_of_joy 3 роки тому

    I'm loving this.

  • @sucessboma2480
    @sucessboma2480 3 роки тому +17

    I'm about to get married very soon and I'm blessed to see this video

  • @EfieAduaneKitchen
    @EfieAduaneKitchen 3 роки тому +1

    Really inspired. Thank you

  • @richarddouallaekwe8968
    @richarddouallaekwe8968 3 роки тому +3

    Dieu vous bénisse richement Madame j'aime la pensée que vous développez et l'intention que vous avez d'aider les couples et les futures marié(e)s sur la base du mariage SHALOM

  • @Ms777lalaland
    @Ms777lalaland 3 роки тому +11

    This is literally the story of my life

  • @icequeen491
    @icequeen491 3 роки тому

    Beautifully said

  • @parysbatonda
    @parysbatonda 3 роки тому

    VERY INTERESTING

  • @geraldineobi1781
    @geraldineobi1781 3 роки тому

    Alleluia thank you ma for this, that girl u were talking about is me

  • @ChristianZiya
    @ChristianZiya 3 роки тому

    I am here for this .

  • @ericaameh6596
    @ericaameh6596 3 роки тому

    Excellent message 👌👌❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @onyinyechiconfidence4.0
    @onyinyechiconfidence4.0 3 роки тому +4

    Awesome!! Sola Oguche Agudah she's is loaded with wisdom

  • @YUMMKAKE
    @YUMMKAKE 3 роки тому

    Great perspective!

  • @P1988able
    @P1988able 3 роки тому

    Zara , wow truly the contents are so deep in God , thanks for inspiring us . God bless.

  • @sasoktv1734
    @sasoktv1734 3 роки тому

    This Woman is so great and supernatural 💯 She fully understand what she is talking about 👍 I will meet you soon to learn more bi aoli llah

  • @DrAtashaJordan
    @DrAtashaJordan 3 роки тому +1

    This is SO GOOD!

  • @ntsakomavunda54
    @ntsakomavunda54 3 роки тому +5

    Just stumbled into this channel yesterday and heeeyiii💃💃 m here to stay! My greated personal passion I.e "Marriage as from God stand point'🙏🙏 thank you beautiful Ladies!

  • @bmercyp
    @bmercyp 3 роки тому

    The title is on point!!!!

  • @DianaRoseAOyula
    @DianaRoseAOyula 3 роки тому

    Wow! Amen!

  • @akanniolawunmi1856
    @akanniolawunmi1856 3 роки тому

    This place is so real.... Omg... Mrs Olusola I celebrate God in your life, Mrs Oyemade, thanks for this series.... 😍

  • @IniWrites
    @IniWrites 3 роки тому +3

    I thoroughly enjoyed this. Thank you!

  • @temiotesile9211
    @temiotesile9211 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! I absolutely love this!

  • @nimotanasiru3244
    @nimotanasiru3244 3 роки тому

    very good job with this. you have gained a subscriber.

  • @nadiablue5989
    @nadiablue5989 3 роки тому

    Gorgeous I’m ordering my book now

  • @violetgeorge9873
    @violetgeorge9873 3 роки тому +16

    Such great information even for someone married for years.

  • @tower4lovetv
    @tower4lovetv 3 роки тому

    Awesome conversation. Thanks Pst. Toyin for this awesome show. I watched most of your talk with your guests on Marriage, this particular one resonate with me and reminds me of the content of my book, If You Must Get Married! Writing is truly a gift according to Mrs Agudah. Thanks Mrs Agudah for sharing so much wisdom.

  • @NidKay89
    @NidKay89 3 роки тому

    Thank you ladies, I have been saying the same thing to people and they always tell me that I know nothing about marriage because I am not yet marrade but one principle I have in life is what Jesus says treat people the way you want to be treated and another is we are all from different backgrounds and upbringing.

  • @harriclaphton2838
    @harriclaphton2838 3 роки тому

    Wow, great discuss

  • @nomdeplume4543
    @nomdeplume4543 3 роки тому +3

    Marriage is the protection of children.

  • @EstherAnegbe
    @EstherAnegbe 3 роки тому +45

    This woman is deep...thank you for sharing this!

  • @alansjf33
    @alansjf33 3 роки тому

    This was a good conversation.

  • @yomaibuje621
    @yomaibuje621 3 роки тому +3

    So much wisdom in this video. Thank you so much. Please, how can I get the book?

  • @itskleoxo
    @itskleoxo 3 роки тому

    Powerful 🙏🏾

  • @onyekagrace9946
    @onyekagrace9946 3 роки тому +3

    good job, i really loved the streamlined points

    • @onyekagrace9946
      @onyekagrace9946 3 роки тому

      wow, ok, i will do that tomorrow, but i can only do 5k at the moment,. i will contact the MD

  • @sylviaedozie1725
    @sylviaedozie1725 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this beautiful talk.

  • @kamarafavour4935
    @kamarafavour4935 3 роки тому +1

    Wow amazing i enjoy this special time when i listens to you i have learn a lot

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare Рік тому +1

    Interesting insights from the book "Zara'....Great content. Forgiveness is not easy but God can help. Thank you 😊

  • @janetoluwasola7112
    @janetoluwasola7112 Місяць тому

    Thanks so much Mrs Solav and thanks to Pastor mrs toyin❤

  • @monicamakasa3170
    @monicamakasa3170 3 роки тому +2

    I admire your wisdom mama,you are too wise may God bless you so much for touching many people.

    • @monicamakasa3170
      @monicamakasa3170 3 роки тому

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 that’s true pastor thank you very much keep on praying for me thank you very much

  • @oluwakemiadepoju3425
    @oluwakemiadepoju3425 Рік тому

    Great

  • @Fourportionsandmore
    @Fourportionsandmore 3 роки тому +3

    I Really Bless God I am committed To this Platform.....
    Ma'am Toyin you are blessed continually for being a blessing to me.

    • @Fourportionsandmore
      @Fourportionsandmore 3 роки тому

      This Chapter really made me unlearn stuffs and made me do something have being avoiding a long time........ God bless Ma' Olusola for this session. It was what I needed at this point in My life. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @joyjames1397
    @joyjames1397 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much ma'am. God bless you. I was super blessed😍

  • @sevenways4811
    @sevenways4811 3 роки тому +12

    Thanks a lot for a great wisdom..
    I have had hard times with my wife but I trust God for a better marriage..

  • @janeezea2208
    @janeezea2208 3 роки тому +1

    Very deep piece!!
    May God help us in the great institution of marriage🙏💕

  • @obiamakaethel4892
    @obiamakaethel4892 3 роки тому +2

    Learning is unending! Awesome interview.

  • @patiencefache1014
    @patiencefache1014 3 роки тому

    I look forward to reading Zara

  • @titilayoodudu1515
    @titilayoodudu1515 3 роки тому

    This is my first time here.
    I love this and subscribed already. 😍

  • @akangjennifer2075
    @akangjennifer2075 3 роки тому +2

    So deep

  • @nessapheroneekay7026
    @nessapheroneekay7026 3 роки тому +1

    DEEP ! 🙏🙌

  • @nanagyimah35
    @nanagyimah35 3 роки тому

    Amazing book 👌. Lots of lessons to learn!

  • @TimeOutWithMercyIbe
    @TimeOutWithMercyIbe 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this Mama TY.

    • @elizabethugbodaga9641
      @elizabethugbodaga9641 3 роки тому

      This is a fantastic book. Very revealing, very factual and very helpful. Thanks for the courage and the journey you have embarked on to heal a lot of homes