The Least Talked About But Easiest Way To Get Laid Effortlessly

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  • @LFA
    @LFA  2 роки тому +10

    If you’re going through a rough time, and need help. Feel free to visit this videos sponsor betterhelp.com/LFA and meet with a therapist.

  • @Rauxanhdauma
    @Rauxanhdauma 2 роки тому +175

    Women can't survive without being a part of social circle. Men live on solitude pretty well

    • @OstirBass
      @OstirBass 2 роки тому +35

      Fuck yeah! Lone wolf, gym, guitar, blue collar job. Growing up without a father, now in my thirties I am learning how to become man.

    • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
      @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 роки тому +1

      Лучише подруги лучшие жизнь , это правда и это жизнь

    • @RodriguezEnterprise
      @RodriguezEnterprise 2 роки тому +14

      I don’t need Social Circles. Social Cirles need me.

    • @petegriffiths8239
      @petegriffiths8239 2 роки тому +5

      @@RodriguezEnterprise 🤣🤣🤣 cool ass.

    • @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
      @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT 2 роки тому

      @@OstirBass yep 👍 💯

  • @chrisstanley9477
    @chrisstanley9477 2 роки тому +101

    Me watching this video at 28 with literally no friends or social circle really hit me like a truck.

    • @killa_kyle8580
      @killa_kyle8580 2 роки тому +18

      I'm 26. I know a lot of people, but I never took the next step in making people actual "friends" . I missed the "making friends" phase in high school because I was socially retarded and didn't understand. I blame circumstances and myself. But I want to leave where I am and go to another state. I tried hard to make friends and it didn't go well for me.

    • @AnyLastWords_
      @AnyLastWords_ 2 роки тому +3

      I'm with you man. Same age. Let's be friends bro! Good riddance to the isolation!

    • @josephang9927
      @josephang9927 2 роки тому

      Don't worry bro, you are not alone. Find peace in yourself and if you die alone, die gracefully in peace.

    • @william11724
      @william11724 2 роки тому +13

      I don't get why people are having such a hard time socializing....... and second who cares, friends are likely to turn on u anyways. Learn to make youself happy

    • @newhope5729
      @newhope5729 2 роки тому +2

      Hi, I'm your new friend, 😉

  • @daveyjones9699
    @daveyjones9699 2 роки тому +57

    As OP says, the dating hierarchy goes as follows:
    1. Social Circle
    2. Warm Approach
    3. Cold Approach
    4. Dating Apps

  • @silviopalumbo9878
    @silviopalumbo9878 2 роки тому +117

    Social circle is far more important than getting laid or having a gf. No social circle means no experience in inferring what people mean in conversation and having coolness. That's why I fled from my little village and moved to a city, I'm still kinda introvert and shy but I've been working on it.

    • @whiteviper1979
      @whiteviper1979 2 роки тому +15

      I personally hate the big city and prefer a ruarl environment with absolutely no neighbors within miles that being said the bigger cities definitely have their advantages but I will not reside their on a long term basis!

    • @exoticindiaa
      @exoticindiaa 2 роки тому +10

      Just don't try to fit in or be a try hard, be calm composed and hold frame like James Bond. Never ever be a goofball with Kool Aid smile, you'd be treated like a jester

    • @thecrownprince888
      @thecrownprince888 Рік тому

      @@exoticindiaa 🤣🤣🤣 that was perfectly put

    • @mypapaya590
      @mypapaya590 6 місяців тому

      Don't fit in, but blend in

  • @JJ-ps9xe
    @JJ-ps9xe 2 роки тому +62

    Bro, has you get older, I mean older, you get very selective who you let in your life. You realize your mortality , your time becomes super important!

    • @_Devil_Hunter_
      @_Devil_Hunter_ 2 роки тому

      Another JJ?

    • @ousamaabdu794
      @ousamaabdu794 2 роки тому

      True indeed. I'm 44 and the older I get I enjoy keeping to myself more, and I've also noticed this is quite commonplace with a decent sized % of Men. Especially in this digital age we live in, it's harder to make friends and you get more set in your ways. There is some truth to what LFA is saying though.

  • @marcus_ohreallyus
    @marcus_ohreallyus Рік тому +3

    Whenever you see an average looking guy with a hot girl, you can bet he has the right friends at the right time. For guys like that it's about who you know.... and when you know them. She was in his circle and became familiar and comfortable with him. Hell, maybe she even finds him attractive even though she wouldn't give him a glance as a stranger on the street.

    • @LFA
      @LFA  Рік тому +2

      True. What it gives you is an “in”
      That’s all you need to create attachment.

  • @Alander8
    @Alander8 2 роки тому +25

    Brick wall, classic. I like that style 😉
    By the way Audio is working great.

  • @Timefades1
    @Timefades1 2 роки тому +17

    Social circle is huge and what I realized when I left my hometown. Very important to build friends but must put yourself out there . Important in every ways like u said not just girls

  • @AdonisHeracles
    @AdonisHeracles 2 роки тому +15

    The ending hit hard lmao thanks for the wake-up call LFA

  • @Flex4LX
    @Flex4LX 2 роки тому +15

    I missed the brick wall days man. 💯

  • @williamcarr5090
    @williamcarr5090 2 роки тому +17

    When I was 25-27 I had the most extroverted friends and had the time of my life. Usually about 8-9 deep when we went out. Women can barely contain themselves. But the keepers are the ones that talk to you but don’t ask for anything that your “table can provide”. I wish I’d learned that way earlier

  • @Technique1995
    @Technique1995 Рік тому +3

    I am 26, I suck at socially dumb. I have realised my conversation are terrible. I just enjoy being alone. More peaceful.

  • @bartzeegers3663
    @bartzeegers3663 2 роки тому +12

    When the coaches make it to simple , they Cant sell u something.... Thanku for your honesty and simple aproach to these things... Life really is made difficult for no reason...

  • @mayusocarina
    @mayusocarina 2 роки тому +5

    Posting for LFA nostalgia vibes. You got me thinking alot back when I worked at gas station heh

  • @CosminPerisan
    @CosminPerisan 2 роки тому +61

    Don't do it for bringing women into your life, that's how I see it. If you live in solitude for the most part and are happy with whatever you're doing, It's great! There are women who are atracted to these types of guys. If you can't be alone and enjoy yourself, you don't deserve the company of a woman, that's my view.

    • @luizfelipels7
      @luizfelipels7 2 роки тому +3

      Unless that woman also can't be alone and enjoy herself. In that case they're good for each other.

    • @pablodebella7695
      @pablodebella7695 2 роки тому +1

      @@luizfelipels7 yeah but that will probably become a toxic relationship

    • @pladimir_vutin
      @pladimir_vutin Рік тому

      @@luizfelipels7 that's usually a fatty greasy romantic girl that is still a child inside

  • @7figurebrian
    @7figurebrian Рік тому +4

    God damn. I am 37 and have virtually zero social circle. Starting over. Rebuilding my life. Never had a big one but I had one in my 20s. Now it's 3 loser room mates and I have rebuilding a social circle as a priority

  • @jldp24
    @jldp24 2 роки тому +10

    He speaks truth..but as you get older mid 30s...social circles get very small. Work on yourself..be independent ..drive a nice car..be superficial..you just have to show status..and you can still get a pretty girl. Social circle and friends are two different concepts.

  • @CRF250R1521
    @CRF250R1521 2 роки тому +1

    This channel is gold! Pure facts with every video, spoken from experience i can tell.

  • @wildcardjester
    @wildcardjester 2 роки тому +6

    When I hit the gym and look around I see alot of em are plugged in with those big headphones or ear plugins and in between sets they look at their mobile phone most oft he time. People don´t make themselves very approachable it seems.

  • @MattyLiam333
    @MattyLiam333 11 місяців тому +2

    Being alone doesn't mean lonely. Small world I'm from Columbus too. Groveport Madison High School class of 91.

  • @tavirosu25
    @tavirosu25 2 роки тому +20

    For older guys, 30-35yo, yes the circle will still provide. A lot of my mates wifes have a younger 20-25yo sister or cousin or friend...so I'm still able to date from my circle w/o them being a single mother or hitting the wall!
    Ps: You also get imaginary "approved by women" bonus points if you are good with kids, from the friends group. Even younger women love a guy that's caring and funny with kids.

  • @kennygo8423
    @kennygo8423 2 роки тому +1

    LFA is part of my social circle

  • @RoaringJaguar
    @RoaringJaguar 2 роки тому +7

    Very informative and useful video brother. Thank you. This truly is the most natural and easy way to live your life and meet a potential partner if that’s what you want. Have a life for yourself - and only then can you start thinking about inviting a woman into it. Otherwise, it’s just forced and it will never work out in the long run. The man and his mission, life and social circle come FIRST and then women will effortlessly follow.

  • @user-ke7mn3sv4d
    @user-ke7mn3sv4d 2 роки тому +6

    I moved to a different city and state right after college 2 years ago, so having a social circle is difficult!

  • @MrScarface934
    @MrScarface934 2 роки тому +40

    I’m 21 and I already am very selective of my friends as I put large emphasis on trust and loyalty but I do agree it is still very natural and easy to have a social circle you just need to open yourself up. I have learned to do that more as of late.

    • @newhope5729
      @newhope5729 2 роки тому +1

      Hey, I see guys in my college batch who more classmates talk to, but they do not talk to me a lot..... Why is it so? How can I become the guy whom everyone says hello or shakes hand as soon as they see me? How do I make people start talking to me a lot by themselves? How do I become socially very known and how do I increase my reach please? 😕

    • @krejziks3398
      @krejziks3398 Рік тому

      @@newhope5729 Easy, just get more interests, if you're not in the gym, get going, same with idk, martial arts, football, any sport...

    • @newhope5729
      @newhope5729 Рік тому

      @@krejziks3398 Ok sir thanks for giving me ideas, 😄

    • @krejziks3398
      @krejziks3398 Рік тому

      @@newhope5729 And don't get discouraged if you meet your first time people who are better than you, remember they were all in your place one time...

    • @newhope5729
      @newhope5729 Рік тому

      @@krejziks3398 God bless ya sir

  • @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
    @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT 2 роки тому +3

    Many men learn some of the most valuable lessons in their 20s that set them up to succeed in the 30s. We are all on different paths. Focus on your own path and goals. Always have a goal. Men need goals. Without a goal you just become depressed.

  • @Thatdude64317
    @Thatdude64317 2 роки тому +6

    Yo, what’s that outro song? Great video as usual! Glad to see the brick wall. It means summer’s coming.

  • @whitedudewithglasses1141
    @whitedudewithglasses1141 Рік тому

    @LFA Thanks. My goal is not to get laid but I think this video has definitely helped me pinpoint some of my issues. I've been so trustworthy and naive and have worked on myself so much that I've started to think that everyone just wants something from me. So much so that it's very hard to get a girlfriend and want to even connect with other humans, even if they make it obvious that they're flirting/want connection

  • @Paulie8K
    @Paulie8K 2 роки тому +1

    That's a great point. As someone from NYC, I could say that half of the women I've been with has been via my social circle and the other half dating apps. I'm in my 30s now so the social circle has gotten smaller but I have a gf now so it evens out. Social circle combined with developing into the best version of yourself will give guys great odds of success with women.

  • @siemasiema2989
    @siemasiema2989 2 роки тому +2

    It is good to hear that not only me Lost his 20’s for too long relationship but I keep telling myself that I still can live single life in 30-40s but „just” on the different (a bit harder) terms. Cheers LFA!

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 роки тому +2

      I didn’t lose anything. Nor do I regret anything.

    • @siemasiema2989
      @siemasiema2989 2 роки тому

      @@LFA nice to hear it! You have chosen proper woman at that time then! I wish you talk more about it but I understand it is private thing. Anyway all the best!
      Ps. Your content is decent!

  • @dannypacini9820
    @dannypacini9820 2 роки тому +6

    What's up brothers 👊🏼

  • @tommykukulka7811
    @tommykukulka7811 2 роки тому

    thanks for the heart to heart content bro

  • @GoldenMushroom64
    @GoldenMushroom64 2 роки тому +1

    I’m really trying to limit my manosphere consumption these days but if I ever come back to it this channel is the best of the best

  • @LuciTulcea
    @LuciTulcea 2 роки тому +6

    I'm an average guy but whenever I'm in a social circle where I really feel comfortable, I get a girl or two just by existing if you know what I mean. Not good looking enough to astound women at first sight but given some time around them, some start to like me without me trying anything in particular. Take me out of this natural situation and throw me in cold approach and dating apps and my chances with women go down to none.

  • @chadpezza307
    @chadpezza307 2 роки тому

    Yes the video was informative mr Blaha

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 роки тому

    Of course , social circle , you are one king of all Kings ! King of kings 🍵

  • @jovin1515
    @jovin1515 2 роки тому +1

    Your tough g🤜🤛

  • @kristinadk
    @kristinadk 2 роки тому +2

    8:40
    That's hilarious. My best friend is trying to hook me up with another guy like "he's awesome you should get to know him"

  • @supragame1991
    @supragame1991 2 роки тому +3

    Brick wall's back!

  • @NpcAvoider
    @NpcAvoider 2 роки тому +10

    18-25 the majority of your success with women will come from your social circle. Doing cold approach as a college student is social suicide - don’t do it. Build up a solid group of friends, join a club or fraternity, and the women will come naturally. As you get into your mid-twenties, it’s still important to have a social circle but by that time you should have some certainty about your identity and more charisma as a result. I’m 26, and while I have social circles I don’t find it as necessary to get women as it used to be. If you’re a guy in your late teens or early twenties I’d suggest just have fun, make friends and the girls will just come as a result of that.

    • @william11724
      @william11724 2 роки тому +2

      It's about the looks brah

    • @johnhancock1362
      @johnhancock1362 10 місяців тому

      I agree with all of that except the cold approach being social suicide…. Coming from somebody who’s done it and made friends, gotten rejected and done it successfully and getting women from it, the worst case scenario if you’re a good talker, dgaf and just having fun is a fun conversation that turns into nothing. I’ve gone up to women who looked single and within minutes their boyfriends showed up. I ended up meeting cool people and talked about life for 10-15 minutes and went about my way. Just gotta know when to exit, and how to enter.

  • @Lemonysnicket201
    @Lemonysnicket201 Місяць тому +1

    I agree with the vibrancy stuff. Unfortunately trying to develope those social skills, and creating a social circle as an introvert, past your prime in life in your late thirties and beyond, is an uphill battle not saying impossible but very difficult.

  • @alexfinn7989
    @alexfinn7989 8 місяців тому +2

    Never had friends, to afraid to open up. I have tried and just ended up hurt, can’t continue to try any more. The low vibe thing is key, you get stuck there and only perpetuates more isolation and low vibe.

  • @walterrau3724
    @walterrau3724 Рік тому +2

    If you are my age, go to AA meetings!! Woman of ALL age groups!! You sit with them for an hour, get to hear her story, get the phone #.......Works for me!! Don't take drunk women home anymore

  • @idolbass
    @idolbass 20 днів тому

    Totally agree, your social circle can provide you with every relationship you need. Dating Apps and cold approaches can be awkward. Though I'm pretty good in all areas, even at the ripe age of 65. Some of the best years of my dating life have been the past 20 years.

  • @stuart3808
    @stuart3808 5 місяців тому +1

    I have 4 friends. All married. None of them ever go out. We play board/RPG/console games. We're all introverts, I'm the most. The prospects are not good, and I'm not young. I actually won't approach women because I have nothing to offer them. It feels like an insurmountable obstacle.

  • @brocklanders3616
    @brocklanders3616 2 роки тому

    Like the shirt bro! I think I have the same one and same color, is it Kenneth Cole? Such a great fit, I bought 2 different shades of blue.

  • @ProfWho-ut5he
    @ProfWho-ut5he 2 роки тому +16

    Social circle only works as long as you are young. After a certain age, all people you know are married and those people also only know other married people. No chance to meet women like this. I have a massive friends-and social circle, but the chance to meet a cute girl via the circle is exactly Zero.

    • @jkshallinheritearth3883
      @jkshallinheritearth3883 2 роки тому

      technically zero is an imaginary number 😊

    • @David-lu4th
      @David-lu4th 2 роки тому

      This right here, everyone's in relationships, or they are other single guys, why would a single guy send a woman my way? I make friends with guys bro cmon now....

    • @KarabauPlay
      @KarabauPlay 2 роки тому +1

      Make friends with younger people. Adapt

    • @ProfWho-ut5he
      @ProfWho-ut5he 2 роки тому

      @@KarabauPlay The young women will not date significantly older guys though, especially attractive. Only gold digger and unattractive women do that.

  • @Dan0rioN
    @Dan0rioN 2 роки тому +3

    I rarely rarely ever come across anybody worthy of being in my social circle =/ most ppl are momentary

  • @frblaze2
    @frblaze2 2 роки тому +11

    Thing about growing up in the west if you don't drink or smoke or grew up muslim (like myself) its hard to click with people because every social even is basically centered around drinking alcohol
    and in the west they've gotten to a point where they can't have fun without alcohol

    • @abdulbutt2850
      @abdulbutt2850 2 роки тому +2

      true

    • @mypapaya590
      @mypapaya590 2 роки тому +2

      Sad

    • @CRF250R1521
      @CRF250R1521 2 роки тому

      You can get around this by taking one shot of whiskey to start your night off, drink water/soda for the rest of the night and just hold the cup to pretend you are drinking with all of them.

    • @frblaze2
      @frblaze2 2 роки тому

      @@CRF250R1521 no we take NO SHOTS, no drinking means no drinking

    • @CRF250R1521
      @CRF250R1521 2 роки тому

      @@frblaze2 do what I said with no alcohol then and stop with the excuses and get out there.

  • @drewferguson8324
    @drewferguson8324 2 роки тому +5

    In short if you can’t give a girl FOMO your dating life will be very bleak.

  • @Proposal12
    @Proposal12 2 роки тому

    What I seen and realized is that yes having a close knit social circle is important, it´s also important to point out that nothing last, same as for people.
    Life circumstances etc
    People nowadays and as you get older become more aquantances then friends, which is thrown out too loosely, so if someone meets you and calls you a friend after 10mins of meeting, you know where that person stands in relation to people....

  • @snakemont
    @snakemont Рік тому

    4:20 Epic!

  • @RodriguezEnterprise
    @RodriguezEnterprise 2 роки тому +1

    I don’t need a Social Circle. I want one. Gotta prioritize on Wants and Needs. People who need things are needy.

  • @texluh
    @texluh 2 роки тому

    Well said

  • @mouthpiece200
    @mouthpiece200 2 роки тому +1

    Some wisdom here.

  • @js5189
    @js5189 Рік тому +1

    I've got one friend. I'm like John Wick social wise and spend most days in the gym. It's tough but its peaceful.

  • @jrd3675
    @jrd3675 2 роки тому

    Yeah, still working on rebuilding the social circle.

  • @williambreeze2659
    @williambreeze2659 Рік тому

    The power of having a social circle is no joke! Not saying you should smash people in your close circle, but friend of a friend!

  • @witchreturns2263
    @witchreturns2263 11 місяців тому +1

    Social circles are very easy, but they consume a ton of time... almost all your time (you have to meet them regularly).
    Cold approach is effective too if you do it well, you just have to find the good set

    • @LFA
      @LFA  11 місяців тому +1

      Social circles save you time. Cold approaches take too much time. Might as well get a life and not be some lame dude that walks around trying to talk to strangers.

    • @witchreturns2263
      @witchreturns2263 11 місяців тому +1

      @@LFA I respect your idea, but I felt to share my perspective too on this... I have a ton of friends, I had many all my life, I make friends very fast everywhere I go, I can build very strong a social cicle fast.
      The social circles consume a lot of time. I personally prefer to be free and do cold approach few hours a week to meet new girl than just wasting many hours following the social circles almost every day for hours.
      It is each one's personal preference. In social circle is way easier to get laid, but I like daygame a lot, a lot of variation, and sometimes you meet really cool and amazing ladies; you can meet them straight away. In total, I get layed more from cold approach and not to tied to the social circle. Game is challenging, fun and exciting if you are good at it.
      So there is nothing lame here. But you are right about being lame, because 95% of the guys in this community are weird and act lile victims and emotional(even coaches sometimes... I don't need this kind of energy). So it makes it look lame.
      However, I prefer solo game most of the time, and with my wing some times, which became a cool great friend to have fun and travel. Solo is the best, because you don't get distracted. With my wing, we always become gaming alone, because we find each one his own lady to move things forward to next date or pull. The other guys that come to join, just stick around and take energy.
      So game is very fun! It is also like a video game that challenges you and your inner game. It pushes you to tale action and build value and your way up, when you are out. Night-game is also very fun from time to time, but I am in my early 30s so I don't have that much energy to waste my night.
      Keep doing videos LFA, they are the normality that thks commity needs. This comminity made a lot of guys very weird and negative!

  • @Roquea.207
    @Roquea.207 2 роки тому

    I was raised in a time where not even smartphones existed until I was pretty grown and I count all the experiences of my life how intense they were and today’s days have nothing to be with real organic interactions, be careful what you pay attention to now days about all this new phenomenon of all colors pills,approaches,dating coaches,etc..is a just business ,can confuse minds
    Nothing ever will make better sense than naturally approach a woman who have given choosing signals and just be who you are as a man without playing any weird game trying to be whatever obviously you are not.
    I respect channels like this that stick to the truth

  • @1111Tactical
    @1111Tactical 2 роки тому +4

    I disagree a bit. Cold approach is an invaluable skill if you are trying to move up in life and upgrade your career/home/lifestyle because this will inevitably end in you moving to another town/city.
    Cold approach as a skill is obviously useful for meeting girls in a new place but also the way you start a new social circle with men too. Any time you open up a conversation with any new person and then convince them to meet you later is a cold approach imo, and that's how you start a new social circle, that and getting out of the house and having hobbies so you can actually bump into people.

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 роки тому +2

      Never cold approach. Instead just walk over and talk to women you're attracted to like a normal guy.

  • @christianc7420
    @christianc7420 Рік тому

    This is so true. I went to a bar with my cousin and instantly got 3 of her girl friends trying to make plans with me.

  • @ericlarousse1149
    @ericlarousse1149 2 роки тому

    Reminds me of my 20s. I've built a small social circle of 50-something bachelors, but it's way harder.

  • @coldsteel2105
    @coldsteel2105 2 роки тому +6

    This video hits the target like a guided missile. Social circle also provides proof that you're popular or at least have friends, putting the game on easy mode. Cold approach and dating apps are like playing the game on hard mode for no reason.

  • @gabrielguzman6018
    @gabrielguzman6018 2 роки тому

    I wish I had opportunities like in which people would pulling me into their social circle it happend once I should of capitalize on that

  • @lamborghinicentenario2497
    @lamborghinicentenario2497 Рік тому +1

    Should you get a social circle after moving to a new place if you have no time?

  • @jasonteich8530
    @jasonteich8530 2 роки тому

    Hey lfa

  • @a.p.6350
    @a.p.6350 2 роки тому +1

    Finally, the brick wall is back, haha

  • @luisnejez1232
    @luisnejez1232 2 роки тому

    Having to move to a different contry in your mid 30s makes it harder to make this social circles, before i had a big circle from college, now living in Spain in the worst state (catalunya) where girls are the least sociable to foreigners and are less higienic and hippie like, its pretty hard.

  • @rc1299
    @rc1299 2 роки тому +4

    Brick Wall=Wisdom

  • @lamborghinicentenario2497
    @lamborghinicentenario2497 Рік тому

    Jason Capital used to talk about this a lot

  • @chancetanganika8268
    @chancetanganika8268 2 роки тому +2

    Just like the old days

  • @unplugged301
    @unplugged301 2 роки тому

    i’m 26 now and I never had an actual relationship with a women and i don’t like dating apps and cold approach. any advice? i am fit and a lot of women have complimented my looks but I just struggle with pickiness and who i let into my life.

    • @KarabauPlay
      @KarabauPlay 2 роки тому

      Understand your personality. And find your way from there. Im sure there is

  • @TallGuyBodybuilding
    @TallGuyBodybuilding 2 роки тому +1

    How to build social skills? Late 20s here. No friends.

  • @andrishardins5984
    @andrishardins5984 2 роки тому +5

    Brick Wall + Sunglasses = Like

    • @ben10_108
      @ben10_108 2 роки тому +1

      + aeroplane flyby

  • @TheCraydee
    @TheCraydee 2 роки тому +3

    There’s never any burning desire from the women in your social circle though. It’s being in a forced environment, never turns out well in the long term because ultimately they both know their true SMV.

  • @Surfsup448
    @Surfsup448 2 роки тому +3

    The original gangster 🧱

  • @maxpaws3977
    @maxpaws3977 2 роки тому +2

    What does it mean exactly when a woman puts on her dating profile *'Be my favourite human, I'm not looking for hook ups, only my soul mate, I know exactly what I want and if you are not it then I won't waste my time, I despise the word Hun, please please have your sh*t together'* ?

    • @ajtaylor8750
      @ajtaylor8750 2 роки тому +4

      Sounds like a bad investment if you ask me.

    • @CH-eb1rn
      @CH-eb1rn 2 роки тому

      It means shes 30+, full of liabilities, worn out and now fcks like a prude…and you should hard pass.

    • @maxpaws3977
      @maxpaws3977 2 роки тому

      @@ajtaylor8750 Why bad investment exactly?

    • @shadymilkman443
      @shadymilkman443 2 роки тому +5

      Not looking for hookups ANYMORE is what she means. Also "have your shit together" means she is used to dating guys that DONT. Red flags galore but your on dating apps so that's the norm honestly

    • @ajtaylor8750
      @ajtaylor8750 2 роки тому +2

      @@maxpaws3977 She sounds like a very difficult person to deal with and wants all these things, yet never mentioned what she could offer someone else.

  • @xlp3880
    @xlp3880 Рік тому

    I have zero friends and my confidence is gone. It's getting hard to even think how I could meet women

  • @milekrizman
    @milekrizman 2 роки тому

    6:00 where do Native Americans live?

  • @molo2793
    @molo2793 Рік тому

    😂

  • @pablodebella7695
    @pablodebella7695 2 роки тому

    regarding high vibrations, funny how when you have it but you try to act like you dont to repel women you dont like, they still stick around, there is no fooling them xD

  • @timhorton7420
    @timhorton7420 2 роки тому +4

    Step 1: be a chad

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 роки тому +10

      Step 1. Remove the word Chad from your vocabulary unless you’re talking about the name or the country.

    • @philippekubinsky6530
      @philippekubinsky6530 2 роки тому

      @@LFA whys that

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 роки тому +2

      If you’re worried about looks, you fail. Even if you’re extremely handsome. It’s feminine wimpy behavior.

  • @jacekkordel4372
    @jacekkordel4372 2 роки тому +2

    Basically dont stress m8, opportunites will come along. At least as long you are decently attractive and/or fit , plus you are not talking straight out of your ass. I wouldnt say its super easy, but its not a fucking higher math level also.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 роки тому

    Dating apps ? Why I am here if I am a multilingual 😅😅😅

  • @joee1213
    @joee1213 2 роки тому

    Dude it’s simple. Think back to middle school, high school, college, high school jobs, summer jobs. What always happened? You were around these girls in class, P.E., after school, at that summer job, and then BOOM! Next thing you know, so and so has a crush on you. So and so likes you. It came out of nowhere, it was effortless. Yeah it’s because you were around her and in a way where you were having to be around her with no dating element to it. Maybe you flirted, maybe you didn’t, but it happened. So yes, being around women in a social circle absolutely is the way to go. The only issue these days, is that normally means partying, bars, clubs and a lifestyle I’m not interested in personally. But it by far is the best way to go. The way I do it? I surround myself with good dudes (iron sharpens iron) trying to better themselves and encourage each other, guys I see things in that I want to be better at. Positive attitudes like that attract people. So as a group of guys you can meet girls and still do well and have fun, and set the tone, of what kinda group you are. Easiest way to get laid is dating apps, and bar/club life. I’m not doing any of those, so it’s fewer than it used to be, but me being selective makes the quality of woman better. That’s just maturity though. I’m 31. I did the hookup life in my 20s. Now I meet women in person. Be smart fellas. You have a lot to lose.

  • @jeffersonaraujoelcristiano
    @jeffersonaraujoelcristiano 8 місяців тому

    7:06 Or your enemy. ☹️

  • @greentoro4941
    @greentoro4941 2 роки тому

    Is a 31 old single mother a good deal?
    Or should I just ignore redpill who preach against single mums and women being "too old" when they reach age 30?

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 роки тому +7

      Usually better off starting out fresh. But do whatever you want.

    • @oldscratch3535
      @oldscratch3535 2 роки тому

      Don't do it unless you also have children. You'll be expected to provide for her children, treat them like they are yours, etc, but you'll never have true authority over them. If you do try to discipline them or make rules for them she will take offense to it.
      There could be drama with the father.
      Your needs will always come after her children's needs so you have to be OK with that.
      As soon as the time comes where she thinks she can do better or she is having second thoughts about you she will likely ask you to watch her kids while she goes out for a "girl's night", which in reality, is her on the hunt for a new dick with more money, more status, and more power.
      In conclusion, don't date single mothers. If they want a relationship tell them to run back to their baby daddy.

  • @Bobby_101
    @Bobby_101 2 роки тому +8

    But see problem is... what if you the lowest status male in any social circle you go to, and you naturally don't get the most respect.. then if you take the girl there, she'll just naturally get attracted to the other guys due to being better then you.
    Then it's better to not take her there.

  • @wanderingdoc5075
    @wanderingdoc5075 2 роки тому +3

    I've been pondering this topic for quite a while. I think one thing that isn't often talked about is the fact that after age 30 or so, maybe you can push to 33, you tend to be more conservative in how you live your life. You can physically escalate with a woman, however you're not going to take as many risks in general, you're not going to party as late, not going to drink as much, and with these girls out here you have to give off excitement and a little bit of a dangerous edge and naturally you're not going to do this as hard as you did from age 18-32, especially as you get into your 30s and you have a little bit of assets and travel under your belt. So naturally I would say in our 30s it's actually easier to get women, but I would say it's a little bit more difficult to get more women, if that makes sense.

    • @brocklanders3616
      @brocklanders3616 2 роки тому +1

      I'm mid 30s, and I agree. It seems like we have a better weapon than in our 20s, but less aggressive on pulling the trigger. The last couple years I lost interest in women/sex. Red pill, maturity, and stoicism changed me as a man.

  • @jonathaneliascruzguardiola9872
    @jonathaneliascruzguardiola9872 2 роки тому +1

    IF you never practice BRAMACHARYA you Will NEVER ever be able to be a REAL KING . Dont lost your time THIS the HOLY GRAIL. Dont LOOK outside instead LOOK INSIDE thats the KEY . BETAS You are in the path of the DEVIL but once you practice BMCRY your MIND is gonna be graceful and all your problems will not find a place where to be anymore . THIS IS best KOWN like the path of GOD . YES!! today you say this is BS tomorrow you will REGRET .IF you think you are a man today I DARE you to practice SR 820 days without any RELAPSE. IF you QUIT TODAY you WILL BE BACK WHERE you STARTED AND WHEN you STARTED you DESPERATLY wished you were WHERE you Are TODAY . THIS IS NOt A GAME this is the REAL LIFE . It is UP to you IF YOU enjoy TO BE a little B.. go ahead AND put a woman on a pedestal .SOONER OR LATER she WILL cheat you FK BETA . SR is for VIP, just the REAL KING have the HOLY POWER to practice SR. GOD bless all of you . DONT GIVE UP, KEEP GOING, STAY SOBER . IF I CAN YOU CAN and always STAY ALPHA the MFCK witches are looking forward for a BETA in order to DESTROy them . All of THEM are A EVIL WITCHES they know NO mercy BEWARE they are friends of DEATH they would love to dead your mom or your dad any of your loved ones. THIS IS NOt A JOKE bro. They are friends of POVERTY too. They love to see you in POVERTY . THATS IT. TRUSTING IS GOOD NO TRUSTING is BETTER .

  • @ElectricWarior
    @ElectricWarior 2 роки тому

    guess i will never date because i don't have a social circle and never will because i hate people and rather be alone.

  • @gezzapk
    @gezzapk 2 роки тому +1

    Have to disagree here. This may be relevant for 18-23 year olds when social aspect is important. But after that for working adults it isn't too important for her and she just wants you to be a strong guy who leads. As long as you have a few good friends and you're socializing then you don't really need a big circle.

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 роки тому +1

      This wasn’t an agree/disagree type of video. It was simply a factual statement.

    • @gezzapk
      @gezzapk Рік тому

      @@LFA According to who? I'm inclined to disagree with these so called facts because it's not the main driving factor under normal situations. Otherwise you could argue buying a prostitute or sugarbaby is the easiest way. There are definitely those guys in big circles who rarely ever get laid. Logically it just gives you more opportunity but it won't matter if you don't have the looks, personality and confidence to lay the score.

  • @wulf67
    @wulf67 11 місяців тому

    Having a good social circle is probably the easiest and most natural way to meet women, no doubt. However, there are certain men for whom fitting into social dominance hierarchies is...tedious.
    A lot of MGTOW proponents like to throw the Sigma male concept around, and use it to rationalize a lot of their failures with women and society in general. But it's actually a real thing, and I'm here to tell you that it's possible to have amazing interactions, experiences and relationships with women without having a strong social circle. If you're truly a Lone Wolf (not a lone Pug or gerbil) it's a lot easier to do it your own way than sucking up to alphas, or betas, or God help you, deltas and epsilons in order to fit into some f'ed up barnyard pecking order that just never feels right to you.
    You still have to maintain your frame, you have to have balls, you have to look women in the eye, you still have to be interesting and social, and you have to be able to handle yourself (no pun intended). But if you're a true Sigma, there's no way you're going to force your round peg into the square hole of a significant social circle. But you can be social, and you need to be.
    A beta or delta can easily catch the crumbs that fall from the alpha's table. But the Sigma won't put himself in that position, and fortunately he doesn't have to.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 роки тому

    Jo bro ! My handmade sunglass with degree looks much much cooler than yours , I would rather to intimidate women respect by them than be liked disrespect , because I am Sudan Suleiman

  • @waltjabsco9338
    @waltjabsco9338 2 роки тому

    I prefer the sigma male way, the less people the better. I don't need no one.

  • @Ian-jz1ts
    @Ian-jz1ts 2 роки тому

    I Approached a chick on campus and got laid the same day. Social circles are a much easier way to go tho

    • @LFA
      @LFA  2 роки тому +4

      College campus is a different animal

  • @Andu1991
    @Andu1991 2 роки тому +9

    i think it's generally a bad idea to meet someone through your so-called friends.
    unnecessary pressure.
    it's way more special to find a girlfriend on your own...also, this has a natural / smooth feel attached to it and it adds to the excitement you talked about.
    i've been in the social-circle situation and things just didn't clicked when they tried to hook me up.

  • @ricardomilos10
    @ricardomilos10 2 роки тому +6

    can you go to the Fresh and Fit podcast someday?