Timestamps 1). What is sexual chemistry 0:34 2). Words left unsaid 1:24 3). They are so funny 2:02 4). Heart A-flutter 3:12 5). A pause and gaze 3:41 6). A touch here or there 4:22 7). Palms are sweaty 4:50 8). Flirting 5:24 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Me finally someone actually noticing me next thing I see oh she just trying to reach out in friendly manner 😂😂 it hard for me since when I was young like grade school era I realize why I was so always looking at girls was just to be acknowledged that I am human and not a pig in disguise
I didn't know sexual tension was a normal thing when meeting someone knew for the first time. I want a relationship, get married and then have children. I felt very guilty about having sexual tension early on. It's gotten to the point where I have to fall into temptation and not follow my desires. I don't want to hurt myself and the guy I like.
I recently adopted a certain philosophy. Dunno if it’s good or bad, but here it is: As a guy, I don’t make a move on a girl’s hints. At first this was because I can usually assume I’m wrong, and I’m going to chose the option with much less severe consequences. Nowadays, though, I pretend to be oblivious for a different reason: I don’t want to be with someone who can’t act like a real adult. I have much more respect for women who actually say how they’re feeling as opposed to leaving me to determine whether she’s flirting with me or trying to set me up as a sex offender. Some of that probably came out colder than I meant. I’m curious to know what some of y’all think. If you disagree, please let me know and I can make amends to my philosophy
I think, regardless of gender, we are supposed to pick up flirting cues and somehow react to them, especially when we're younger. But I think what you mentioned is very important, which is that we should learn how to communicate our honest and true feeling with one another without the need to coat it in flirting techniques. What was the main reason why you came to this decision?
What I will say is that it usually becomes clear and sometimes even straight up obvious when you have found someone right for you. Sure it's all very complicated and at times very overwhelming, but here would be my advice. Think carefully about what matters most to you in a relationship, what you value most. When you meet someone who meets those values, they're more likely to be right for you, but don't immediately think that it's a guarantee that they'll be into you romantically. They might just not be naturally attracted to you which sucks but it's just life sometimes. I also advise that if there is an imbalance between sexual playfulness and care for each other then it's likely best to back away. I once had a girlfriend who did really care about me, but she had no desire for sex or even just soft playfulness like cuddling and kissing in bed which is something I need to feel more secure and connected.
She may have had no desire for sex because she may have had bad experiences. My ex was the same. I already told him beforehand how I was mistreated by men in the past & is hence the reason why I am even insecure of my body & fearful of any such sexual tension. Tho I did became comfortable with him eventually that we got a bit close physically, it still felt as if he only wanted to be sexual with me. He'd be emotionally unavailable too. This is a problem with lots of men tbh. They say they care about you & are willing to listen to you just so that they can get close to you. This is why I have hard time trusting men. I am not really comfortable with physical affection, especially if it's a sexual or flirty touch. Atleast in dating.
@@devashrijoshi9079 that insecurity is for sure holding you back, physical affection is indeed a NECESSITY in a relationship, I don't care if you think platonic relationships are a thing, but they certainly are to a degree of a 'friendship' and not an intimate relationship. Different people have different coping mechanisms, but EVERYONE has the same need of physical intimacy, I'm sorry but if you don't otherwise, you're kind of the problematic individual in the relationship, and possibly need professional help to assist you on your insecure predicament. It isn't fair to judge everyone on the same boat, life is too short to say you generally have trust issues with men, it goes the same with men who have trust issues with women because of that ONE woman who brought out the insecurity and low self-esteem issues from him.
I am a typical demisexual and there is this one man I am into for the past 10 years (too long Story). When I managed to fly to his country and we sit next to each other at his event, I was dying out of sexual tension. I never experienced it that heavy around men I usually get to know or get to like. Maybe because I was never that close to someone for so many years x.x Even if it was hard to bear, I really enjoyed that moment a lot and some of the points you mention in the Video also suit his behavior sometimes😊💕
I just smile when I can tell someone likes me (not because I like them). There's a barista at a café I go to and every time I get served by her the interaction is always awkward. She leaves a lot of pauses in conversation as if she's genuinely receptive to what I am saying and genuinely cares. Whereas normal people will ask me how I am before even listening to what I actually have to say (because they're just being nice). I don't like this girl at all so I know the constant awkwardness is on her. And I find that flattering so I smile to be polite because she's a sweet girl.
i'm a very lonely person with a very bad sence of humor, so when i meet a girl who's laught at my jokes i feel like a conection... it is so desvastating when i realice that it might be that she is only nice and i'm just another one... i'm so fool and i fall so easy some times...
@@crazymetallianas a woman with her own experiences, there are several types of laughs most women use. In my experience men cannot tell the difference between fake laughing, real laughing, nervous laughing or flirty laughing. If a girl likes you she will be a bit bouncy and more in your face with it, even if in a shy way. If you look closely at her face you can see a real brightness there. She will add to your jokes. But the majority of men confuse my polite laughter/customer service laugh with a connection so I have gotten a bit frosty with men as I have aged up. I find they can’t see the difference when my smile is tight and uncomfortable and I’m trying not to send those signals. I don’t like turning down men because it can be scary. Maybe look inward if you are having trouble with women.
@@j-ymoney5112 well I'm not a freak... I can successfully flirt in bars and clubs... But still that type of very fast relationships are the ones in who I just don't fall, I just keep falling with friends and is so frustrating The point is that I can't have real certain that she likes me or not and that drives me crazy so I daydream a lot and I just fall,... Right now it just happened again hehehehe death by love one more time and it hurts just as much as the first time
@@OkamiSun1 Or with the rise in masculinity (which isn't a bad thing at all) and the following alpha-males giving "relationship advice" (which possibly can be a bad thing sometimes based on what they say about women), they might be wanting to counter those overly redpilled or even blackpilled views on relationships, I am guessing.
This tension seems to also make people do things they don't normally do. I remembered my ex back in college before we got together was a very reserved quiet person keeping to herself, but she always manages to be somehow near me. As young as I was I was numb to seggsual advances. Because thinking back on it on our class free time she's like sitting on my armchair while chatting with me, I'm like there's a chair right there why not sit there and her reasoning was so we can hear each other better which sitting on the chair right next to me wouldn't really make much of a difference. But yeah after a few more advances I realized what she wanted.
Kinda same. I took the lead in my past dating scene, which ultimately made the guy think I was indeed into him. I was, but not just sexually, tho Ig it came out that way. As a result we jumped into dating early. He wasn't even serious but I was.
This was my and my partner for a year before we moved in together, didn’t take long after that to have both of us realise we liked each other more than just friends.
@@It_is_Okay_to_be_Sad Nervous LOL. But we eventually held hands back to their car, they dropped me off at work, and we gave each other forehead kisses!! It made me feel so happy :) We talked about our favorite sodas and bands, such silly topics! Overall, I just felt happiness as well as nervousness throughout the whole thing
@@sandwich4763 Good question. Some people who are aromantic may have a crush on one person and one person only… and still identify as aromantic if they so choose. Besides, if you like only one person, it doesn’t mean you’re alloromantic, right?
I'm ace and horribly clueless about this sort of thing, so this video will probably teach me a thing or two! || Edit: A lot of these are the same as romantic tension, which I have more experience with-- I'm honestly confused...
The guy is giving me hugs, touching my legs/abdomen at every chance he gets, idk if it is sexual or if he behaves in that way with all his female friends IVE BEEN DELUSIONAL EVER SINCE HE TALKS TO ME😩
As a neurodivergent, just the title alone made me laugh 😂 flirting, quite frankly, frightens and confuses me, and Im not exaggerating when I say that I flirt like Ross from Friends 🤣🤣🤣 The fact that Im married and have a fulfilling sex life is honestly nothing short of a miracle PS. Im speaking for myself, not on behalf of all neurodivergents 👍🏼
You're married because you have qualities your husband finds value in. Could be your looks, your femininity, your agreeableness, your kindness..who knows. Men dont marry women because of how much they can talk or flirt 😂
As a neurodivergent, I can relate. I don't even know what flirting is, and the only two times I could have realized something was happening was when women were really blunt (one straight up said it multiple times). I kinda felt bad for them because I'm into dudes so it wouldn't have worked anyway...
Is it normal to feel absolutely terrified when you think you like someone? I mean, I get a little nervous sometimes, but with certain women, I know I’m starting to like them and I just want to avoid them. Run like hell. Doesn’t seem like most guys I know deal with this.
Sounds like you may be avoidant personality or something my guy. Get some therapy to work it out cuz u don't wanna miss out on all these potential partners because of unconscious psychological issues. Believe me, it sucks, but the only thing you can really do is heal yourself and move forward. I could've been with good women who genuinely loved me but I let my issues get the better of me. Now I'm working on leaving my past behind me and working through my problems in a healthy way. Heed my words brother. Best of luck and good healing.
i think i might have a crush, but i dont wanna do anything with it. its just a tracker in my brain to spot them every time i see them. im the kind of person who cannot act like a regular human when theyre happy, like laughing continuously at small things near everyone. when one of my friends jokingly asked to marry me, i said “table.” that’s the first result in my brain. i can only act really mature out of restraining myslef, or just all out insaneness. :/ i don’t think im built for getting crushes
Palm never gets sweaty tho. Been in several intense romantic situation too. Besides at my age, I've learned it's best to be open about your feelings at appropriate times
I love the narrator’s story telling. It helps with following the videos message across. I laughed when Pablo was mentioned. This video made me realize that these happen often with a friend, makes it funny, haha.
Me at first: “Ugh, a video I would not be able to relate to…okay, I’ll check it out anyway, just because I don’t feel something doesn’t mean that others can’t…no reason to feel bad about it…” Me after: *sees the mentioning of demisexuals*…🥺…❤
When I was in highschool,I had a crush with this guy , he and I were classmates and he used to be my friend and I've experienced some of those signs with him ,and I never knew that it was because of "sexual tension" . I remembered that he ,I and our other classmates used to hangout after class and we go home together,he and I were usually the remaining two people because our houses were farther than our other classmates
oh boy, here i go intensely watching another psych2go vid only to not act on any of these tips again! My favorite pasttime, pretending im gonna talk to my crush🥰
I'm surprised idk if this channel is curse to me... It's like everytime, everyday I've been having thing's mood swings, other things, even if it's love its related to this... It's been a year since this happened- Like say I'm feeling stressed today: Psych2go post: signs you are overly stressed Me: this channel can read my mind..
as a knee jerk reaction to "palms are sweaty" i said "knees weak arms are heavy there's-" only to be interrupted with "eugh- not mom's spaghetti..." i thought i was being shut down
my brain has failed to develop a part that can recognize this. even in movies someone might suddenly say „they have so much sexual tension, get a room already!“ and i would be completely oblivious until someone does so.
i don't know if this sounds weird or anything, but i find myself having a bit of a crush on the narrator of these videos due to her calm demeanor and ability to explain things tactfully >~< or maybe i'm just weird...
I long ago learned to keep things verrrrrry “business like” with anyone I may have feelings towards. After reading some of the sad tales from those that are too often rejected, I go to “serious, straight-face mode” in order to avoid unpleasant or potential “EWWW!!” From the other party. Unspoken sexual tension is much easier to deal with than embarrassment, maybe even a “have to get away from this dweeb” humiliation. Uh-Uh. NO.
As big of a risk rejection is , imagine the reward of them saying YES. Please never give up and keep chasing your dreams, you never know what’s going to happen!! Most people who reject you won’t even remember you a week later.
I've had this at work where this girl constantly looks for me and stares at me. she always strikes conversation on the most random things. she stutters or rambles when we talk. constantly smiles at me and turns into pudding when we're in the same room alone. she gets the deer in the headlights look when I glance back at her. holds my hand or holds me to ask me a question. always stalks me during lunch breaks and follows me to the cafeteria and she can't keep her eyes off of me. she tries to hide her emotions but it comes out of her pores. yet she rejects all of my romantic advances. then she keeps coming back for more a few days later. don't believe anything you see from the opposite sex.
After watching so many vdos, like manifest ur SP,don't chase ur SP, This vdo is the perfect one and same what's happening right now, Though dating etc,is not possible as we are in close relation and married to different persons, the signs you mentioned exactly happen whenever we meet during any family occasion ❤
00:59 can we get a video about all Ace types? There is lots of awareness on lgbt but no one is playing attention to asexuals and most of people even dont know aces exists
There’s this one guy in my class and we sit next to each other or close in most of our classes. Sometimes since we’re so close my chest tightens and even with the slightest contact of our knees brushing gives me chills. But there’s a small part of me that feels that this feeling may be somewhat mutual, when ever I look in his direction his head sometimes quickly turns as if he was looking at me but didn’t want to get caught, over times we’ll just accidentally lock eye contact, and I always can just sorta feel the tension whenever we’re close. Please someone tell me if I’m most likely being delusional. 😅
He scares me and he knows how I feel about him I sit next to him in class but school is almost over and my teacher will probably move me away from him he did touch me once and made me think he liked me he does space out around me and he watches me sometimes he has been nice he talked to me a couple of times and offered to help me but he switches on me a lot I hate his friends they always get in the way and he tells his friends things about me like he though I liked him and he doesn’t like me he is the one always making a move on me am I delusional weird and crazy he makes me feel that way I always look at his social media it says he is active I want to follow him but he has ignored me I don’t want to be rejected and I have to see him all the time he plays video games with his friends and I listen to music and watch movies and sit on the couch all day
I have locked eyes with him once and it made me nervous he has flirted with me but he doesn’t do it anymore and his friends are always around I want him to do it again I want a chance with him before school is over and I never see him again because he is going to a different school
I do make longer lingering eye contact with someone I’m attracted to (sexually) but I also clam up verbally when I’m with him, whereas I seem more at ease and laugh more when I’m with a guy I’m not attracted to. Sigh, I would not want someone I’m not into think we have sexual tension 😢
omg the professor from my university LOL i was going to a vending machine and bumped into her class one day. i was so regretful i didn’t take a course taught by her so it’s super cool to see some of her stuff here on youtube
In 2015 my Ex said that she liked me and I told her the same but now it's 2023 and I hope she still has feelings for me again cuz she's Single rn and I hope I hear from her again
Idk why but when I'm around my crush I just freeze and can't get a single word out of me. And always in mind I say "I'll tell him now I could do it" but I just can't 😞
I'm so glad they mentioned Demisexuals! I do wish it was more relatable to me though. In my mind, these things are mainly like romantic. So its a bit confusing for me since I'm a Double Demi.
Ok wth is happening to me!? She's been explaining each sign and sure as the multiverse I'm actively experiencing while having *NO ONE IN MY MIND!!* Damn mirror neurons! 😂
It’s so painful 💔when you can’t communicate with the person you love, Everything turns into an argument as opposed to a discussion to improve and deepen the relationship. But all thanks to #DrWiseone love spell UA-cam-channel that helped me through in reunion and making our relationship stronger
I've gotten these from girls in the past. one girl at work stares into my soul from the other room, flirting and being constantly touchy, always striking conversation about anything random, constantly smiling, rambling or stuttering when she talks to me. she gets the deer in the headlights look when I look in her direction. she turns into pudding when we're in the same room. the boys at work joke around and say that we should date and she gets all flustered. she tries to hide her emotions but it comes out of her pores. yet she rejects all my romantic advances. these signs are full of shit. don't believe anything you see from the opposite sex.
I got the same thing with this girl at work where she's constantly looking at me and throwing me lots of sexual tension. She gets all nervous around me and asks me silly questions. Always sits next to me or across the table in the cafeteria. Borderline stalks me at work whenever she gets the chance. Finds me to sneak in a little smile. She's also is very touchy and can't keep her cute little hands off me. She rejects all my dates too. Then she tries to warm back up to me and flirt even harder.
@@johntitor5796 why can't women be more genuine. these signs are extremely misleading and it seems women throw them around to see our reaction but never intend on anything. psych2go has a lot of explaining to do.
No girl who shows that much affection suddenly reject you. You guys are getting rejected for being weirdos or being too needy. Learn how to talk to women. In slow steps.
She was never into you. She was just embarrassed and shy and you of course took that as her wanting you. Men need to stop taking every little act of kindness as us wanting you. It's so gross
What do you mean by romantic gestures? Are you grabbing her? That could be seen as disrespectful. Or do you mean you've asked her to hang out or go on a date?
I have this guy that I like a lot and I've had a couple of heart to heart talks and some quite intimate moments, just lost in each other's eyes and what not. But recently we started flirting a lot more, I mean me. I flirt with him more often than we use too, like sneaking in a good tease in the morning and the evening. At first he teased back and flirted along, but after some time he ignores my playful banter and teasing. Just straight to "Have a good day/night" and no more nicknames or flirting. Was I too aggressive with the flirting? I thought he liked it too since he played along. Now it seems like he's distancing himself. I want to communicate these feelings and talk, but this is our first chance in a LONG time getting back into something like romance. We both experienced long relationships suddenly coming to a halt and our worlds crumbled. I guess at first we had that trauma to bond us. But now I thought we had something new. I just don't know. I guess I was the only one who's opened my heart to romance once more, and a possible future with him.
Or maybe he did'nt seen it first and now may realize that you could actually feel something. This however could be overwhelming for him or he is just not sure if he should make a move. Just some thoughts of mine. Wish you good luck. 😄
What about the fun part where all these things happen but she explicitly tells you she doesn't like you like that? Some people are constantly flirtatious with everyone
Fellow Ace spec here. I've had romantic crushes, but they've never been anything like the more sexual crushes others serm to have. Still a tough situation.
im so delusional right now i’ll believe anything
Hes like me fr 😭😭😭😭
Yikes, my dude
sammee
she's into me (she looked at my direction for 0.25 seconds)
@@KokaKola633 💀💀💀
2:07 Amanda laughing and being suddenly ecstatic while being used to her calm voice is surprisingly lovely 😭💞
Ikr?? I couldn't help but laugh along with her. Her laugh is so contagious and sweet lol
I laughted so HARD when she said that 😂😂😂😂
exactly!
GOD I LOVE HER VOICE SO MUCH 😭💘
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Timestamps
1). What is sexual chemistry 0:34
2). Words left unsaid 1:24
3). They are so funny 2:02
4). Heart A-flutter 3:12
5). A pause and gaze 3:41
6). A touch here or there 4:22
7). Palms are sweaty 4:50
8). Flirting 5:24
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Most helpful Yes Thank You so much 🐰. 💝. 🙏
knees weak arms are heavy theres vomit on his sweater already- mom’s spaghetti, hes nervous…
@@codedlAnguage Not a problem happy to help
@@se0kpvjs ??????
But on the surface he looks calm and ready 😎
realizing you are sitting here, listening to this video while your thoughts drift away and a smile sets in. You know this feeling..
So real
Whoever smelt it dealt it!
I love the feeling of love, but I also hate it.. it’s so confusing. So hard. So complicated.
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Me finally someone actually noticing me next thing I see oh she just trying to reach out in friendly manner 😂😂 it hard for me since when I was young like grade school era I realize why I was so always looking at girls was just to be acknowledged that I am human and not a pig in disguise
And it wasn't just for girls it was for anyone for me
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I'm tired of the sexual attractions I always get. I kinda hate it.
I didn't know sexual tension was a normal thing when meeting someone knew for the first time. I want a relationship, get married and then have children. I felt very guilty about having sexual tension early on. It's gotten to the point where I have to fall into temptation and not follow my desires. I don't want to hurt myself and the guy I like.
Look up: one night stand
@@Sentient-potato💀💀💀💀
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Same.
Exactly how I feel too. Except I don't wanna get married
I recently adopted a certain philosophy. Dunno if it’s good or bad, but here it is:
As a guy, I don’t make a move on a girl’s hints.
At first this was because I can usually assume I’m wrong, and I’m going to chose the option with much less severe consequences.
Nowadays, though, I pretend to be oblivious for a different reason: I don’t want to be with someone who can’t act like a real adult. I have much more respect for women who actually say how they’re feeling as opposed to leaving me to determine whether she’s flirting with me or trying to set me up as a sex offender.
Some of that probably came out colder than I meant. I’m curious to know what some of y’all think. If you disagree, please let me know and I can make amends to my philosophy
I'm about the same, so I see personally see no problem
So funny
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I think, regardless of gender, we are supposed to pick up flirting cues and somehow react to them, especially when we're younger. But I think what you mentioned is very important, which is that we should learn how to communicate our honest and true feeling with one another without the need to coat it in flirting techniques. What was the main reason why you came to this decision?
Somewhat. It's almost like the onus is put on guys to make the first move. 🤦♂
I could litterally not agree more. Womens only purpose of existing is to make life hard and miserable for men.
What I will say is that it usually becomes clear and sometimes even straight up obvious when you have found someone right for you. Sure it's all very complicated and at times very overwhelming, but here would be my advice. Think carefully about what matters most to you in a relationship, what you value most. When you meet someone who meets those values, they're more likely to be right for you, but don't immediately think that it's a guarantee that they'll be into you romantically. They might just not be naturally attracted to you which sucks but it's just life sometimes. I also advise that if there is an imbalance between sexual playfulness and care for each other then it's likely best to back away. I once had a girlfriend who did really care about me, but she had no desire for sex or even just soft playfulness like cuddling and kissing in bed which is something I need to feel more secure and connected.
She may have had no desire for sex because she may have had bad experiences. My ex was the same. I already told him beforehand how I was mistreated by men in the past & is hence the reason why I am even insecure of my body & fearful of any such sexual tension. Tho I did became comfortable with him eventually that we got a bit close physically, it still felt as if he only wanted to be sexual with me. He'd be emotionally unavailable too. This is a problem with lots of men tbh. They say they care about you & are willing to listen to you just so that they can get close to you. This is why I have hard time trusting men. I am not really comfortable with physical affection, especially if it's a sexual or flirty touch. Atleast in dating.
@@devashrijoshi9079 that insecurity is for sure holding you back, physical affection is indeed a NECESSITY in a relationship, I don't care if you think platonic relationships are a thing, but they certainly are to a degree of a 'friendship' and not an intimate relationship. Different people have different coping mechanisms, but EVERYONE has the same need of physical intimacy, I'm sorry but if you don't otherwise, you're kind of the problematic individual in the relationship, and possibly need professional help to assist you on your insecure predicament. It isn't fair to judge everyone on the same boat, life is too short to say you generally have trust issues with men, it goes the same with men who have trust issues with women because of that ONE woman who brought out the insecurity and low self-esteem issues from him.
I am a typical demisexual and there is this one man I am into for the past 10 years (too long Story). When I managed to fly to his country and we sit next to each other at his event, I was dying out of sexual tension. I never experienced it that heavy around men I usually get to know or get to like. Maybe because I was never that close to someone for so many years x.x
Even if it was hard to bear, I really enjoyed that moment a lot and some of the points you mention in the Video also suit his behavior sometimes😊💕
For the past 10 years*
@@anderstermansen130 oh Thank you for the correction❣️🐣💕 I always confuse when to use "since" and when to use "for" 🙈
I just smile when I can tell someone likes me (not because I like them).
There's a barista at a café I go to and every time I get served by her the interaction is always awkward.
She leaves a lot of pauses in conversation as if she's genuinely receptive to what I am saying and genuinely cares.
Whereas normal people will ask me how I am before even listening to what I actually have to say (because they're just being nice).
I don't like this girl at all so I know the constant awkwardness is on her. And I find that flattering so I smile to be polite because she's a sweet girl.
Apparently I'm flirting with everyone I meet because I like to have good eye contact and I laugh very easily 😄
smile is my default face position.
i'm a very lonely person with a very bad sence of humor, so when i meet a girl who's laught at my jokes i feel like a conection... it is so desvastating when i realice that it might be that she is only nice and i'm just another one... i'm so fool and i fall so easy some times...
just talk with more girls bro😅 it happens at first but will get easier the more you practice@@crazymetallian
@@crazymetallianas a woman with her own experiences, there are several types of laughs most women use. In my experience men cannot tell the difference between fake laughing, real laughing, nervous laughing or flirty laughing. If a girl likes you she will be a bit bouncy and more in your face with it, even if in a shy way. If you look closely at her face you can see a real brightness there. She will add to your jokes. But the majority of men confuse my polite laughter/customer service laugh with a connection so I have gotten a bit frosty with men as I have aged up. I find they can’t see the difference when my smile is tight and uncomfortable and I’m trying not to send those signals. I don’t like turning down men because it can be scary. Maybe look inward if you are having trouble with women.
@@j-ymoney5112 well I'm not a freak... I can successfully flirt in bars and clubs... But still that type of very fast relationships are the ones in who I just don't fall, I just keep falling with friends and is so frustrating
The point is that I can't have real certain that she likes me or not and that drives me crazy so I daydream a lot and I just fall,...
Right now it just happened again hehehehe death by love one more time and it hurts just as much as the first time
Is it just me, or has this channel been posting more intimate relationship videos than usual?
You noticed too? Maybe Psy is in a relationship?? Or maybe it's in demand...
@@OkamiSun1
Or with the rise in masculinity (which isn't a bad thing at all) and the following alpha-males giving "relationship advice" (which possibly can be a bad thing sometimes based on what they say about women), they might be wanting to counter those overly redpilled or even blackpilled views on relationships, I am guessing.
Because sex sells
sex sells
@@BloxxingDinosaurus And it's exactly what's needed
Psych2Go always seems to post videos at the right time given 😭😭 like this video literally describes how I am feeling. One of the best ones imo.
This tension seems to also make people do things they don't normally do. I remembered my ex back in college before we got together was a very reserved quiet person keeping to herself, but she always manages to be somehow near me. As young as I was I was numb to seggsual advances. Because thinking back on it on our class free time she's like sitting on my armchair while chatting with me, I'm like there's a chair right there why not sit there and her reasoning was so we can hear each other better which sitting on the chair right next to me wouldn't really make much of a difference. But yeah after a few more advances I realized what she wanted.
Kinda same. I took the lead in my past dating scene, which ultimately made the guy think I was indeed into him. I was, but not just sexually, tho Ig it came out that way. As a result we jumped into dating early. He wasn't even serious but I was.
Timestamps
1. Words left unsaid
2. Heart of flutter
3. A pause and gaze
4. A touch here or there
5.. palms are sweaty
6. Flirting
Timestamps?
@@AmlizeagaGaming sorry i ated the timestamps
@@trollos no i did
@@epictoast oh, my bad
@@epictoast no i did
This was my and my partner for a year before we moved in together, didn’t take long after that to have both of us realise we liked each other more than just friends.
from depression, anxiety, adhd, add, bipolar illness, ptsd, trauma and so on to sexual tensions
this is easily one of my top 3 psi animation styles. its so cute and wholesome
Amanda's voice is almost ASMR worthy
I had my first ever date today! Ever! I’m aroace but I’m trying things out with someone. This video was amazing timing!
If you don't mind asking, how was it?? I mean as an aroace person how did you feel?? 🙂
@@It_is_Okay_to_be_Sad Nervous LOL. But we eventually held hands back to their car, they dropped me off at work, and we gave each other forehead kisses!! It made me feel so happy :) We talked about our favorite sodas and bands, such silly topics! Overall, I just felt happiness as well as nervousness throughout the whole thing
@@kinny6823 If I may, doesn't aroace mean being aromantic? How does that fit with you pursuing a romantic relationship?
@@kinny6823 that is soo awesome... I have not experienced this yet... But I felt really good about your date... 😊
@@sandwich4763 Good question. Some people who are aromantic may have a crush on one person and one person only… and still identify as aromantic if they so choose. Besides, if you like only one person, it doesn’t mean you’re alloromantic, right?
I'm ace and horribly clueless about this sort of thing, so this video will probably teach me a thing or two! || Edit: A lot of these are the same as romantic tension, which I have more experience with-- I'm honestly confused...
for most non aro/ace/aroace people, there's a great deal of overlap between both lol
@@harshsrivastava9570 That definitely would make sense. Thanks!
I do think those are more signs for romantic attraction rather than sexual attraction...
The guy is giving me hugs, touching my legs/abdomen at every chance he gets, idk if it is sexual or if he behaves in that way with all his female friends IVE BEEN DELUSIONAL EVER SINCE HE TALKS TO ME😩
the way you are saying symptom you are making me blush so much cause everything matches
There are times when you need to release the bitterness and grab a firm hold of happiness.
The fact I wanted/needed this a week ago 😭🤧
Why a week ago? 😢
This is the loudest I heard from you......I love it. ❤️
This is so true your videos are really educational keep it up 😁
Thank you for watching! Did you enjoy the video? :)
As a neurodivergent, just the title alone made me laugh 😂 flirting, quite frankly, frightens and confuses me, and Im not exaggerating when I say that I flirt like Ross from Friends 🤣🤣🤣
The fact that Im married and have a fulfilling sex life is honestly nothing short of a miracle
PS. Im speaking for myself, not on behalf of all neurodivergents 👍🏼
You're married because you have qualities your husband finds value in. Could be your looks, your femininity, your agreeableness, your kindness..who knows.
Men dont marry women because of how much they can talk or flirt 😂
I had a crush on Ross from Friends, you're good!
As a neurodivergent, I can relate. I don't even know what flirting is, and the only two times I could have realized something was happening was when women were really blunt (one straight up said it multiple times).
I kinda felt bad for them because I'm into dudes so it wouldn't have worked anyway...
4:50 I love the eminen reference there 😂
Is it normal to feel absolutely terrified when you think you like someone? I mean, I get a little nervous sometimes, but with certain women, I know I’m starting to like them and I just want to avoid them. Run like hell. Doesn’t seem like most guys I know deal with this.
Sounds like you may be avoidant personality or something my guy. Get some therapy to work it out cuz u don't wanna miss out on all these potential partners because of unconscious psychological issues. Believe me, it sucks, but the only thing you can really do is heal yourself and move forward. I could've been with good women who genuinely loved me but I let my issues get the better of me. Now I'm working on leaving my past behind me and working through my problems in a healthy way. Heed my words brother. Best of luck and good healing.
help me out i cant afford therapy currently@@YHShinVH
i think i might have a crush, but i dont wanna do anything with it. its just a tracker in my brain to spot them every time i see them. im the kind of person who cannot act like a regular human when theyre happy, like laughing continuously at small things near everyone. when one of my friends jokingly asked to marry me, i said “table.” that’s the first result in my brain. i can only act really mature out of restraining myslef, or just all out insaneness. :/ i don’t think im built for getting crushes
Table
Palm never gets sweaty tho. Been in several intense romantic situation too. Besides at my age, I've learned it's best to be open about your feelings at appropriate times
I love the narrator’s story telling. It helps with following the videos message across. I laughed when Pablo was mentioned. This video made me realize that these happen often with a friend, makes it funny, haha.
I need someone to laugh at my jokes the way she laughed at Pablo’s
Me at first: “Ugh, a video I would not be able to relate to…okay, I’ll check it out anyway, just because I don’t feel something doesn’t mean that others can’t…no reason to feel bad about it…”
Me after: *sees the mentioning of demisexuals*…🥺…❤
Yeah they should make more contents about aces
The mentioning of what?
@@anderstermansen130 Demisexuals
@@anderstermansen130 it’s when you’re half god or something
@@anderstermansen130 search it,up
When I was in highschool,I had a crush with this guy , he and I were classmates and he used to be my friend and I've experienced some of those signs with him ,and I never knew that it was because of "sexual tension" . I remembered that he ,I and our other classmates used to hangout after class and we go home together,he and I were usually the remaining two people because our houses were farther than our other classmates
get some sleep
Chill 😟
Thank u
No
Leave me alone bro
it’s not allowed to dream nowadays or what?
don't even 😭🙏🙏
oh boy, here i go intensely watching another psych2go vid only to not act on any of these tips again! My favorite pasttime, pretending im gonna talk to my crush🥰
I'd love to see a video on how to win over someone who is not sure about you but there's clearly chemistry?
I'm surprised idk if this channel is curse to me... It's like everytime, everyday I've been having thing's mood swings, other things, even if it's love its related to this... It's been a year since this happened-
Like say I'm feeling stressed today:
Psych2go post: signs you are overly stressed
Me: this channel can read my mind..
the little side commentary/ad libs were cute! this whole video was just adorable idk 😂
Sexual tension can exist without‘liking’ someone or wanting a relationship
as a knee jerk reaction to "palms are sweaty" i said "knees weak arms are heavy there's-" only to be interrupted with "eugh- not mom's spaghetti..."
i thought i was being shut down
BRO, THE TIMING OF THIS VIDEO
NOT AFTER MY FIRST KISS 💀
Awwwww
Lucky kid
so nice 😊😊
Congratulations!!
This is easily my favourite art style.
amanda’s voice evokes a strong reaction in my soul that im not quite sure how to explain . 😶
Great voice over work Amanda!
(2:09) I adore the voice acting so much 😂
Plus, Pablo is such a dream boy. I want to "see" him one day 🤭
yesterday I met a chicken, that went across the road, to reach the other side ha ha 😹
When everything makes you think of them but you still cannot tell for sure, 😭😭 *pain*
this yt used to be so good but now its "TOP TEN REASONS WHY SEX IS BEST THING EVER"
my brain has failed to develop a part that can recognize this. even in movies someone might suddenly say „they have so much sexual tension, get a room already!“ and i would be completely oblivious until someone does so.
i don't know if this sounds weird or anything, but i find myself having a bit of a crush on the narrator of these videos due to her calm demeanor and ability to explain things tactfully >~<
or maybe i'm just weird...
I long ago learned to keep things verrrrrry “business like” with anyone I may have feelings towards. After reading some of the sad tales from those that are too often rejected, I go to “serious, straight-face mode” in order to avoid unpleasant or potential “EWWW!!” From the other party. Unspoken sexual tension is much easier to deal with than embarrassment, maybe even a “have to get away from this dweeb” humiliation. Uh-Uh. NO.
As big of a risk rejection is , imagine the reward of them saying YES. Please never give up and keep chasing your dreams, you never know what’s going to happen!! Most people who reject you won’t even remember you a week later.
A “dweeb” to one person is fascinating , funny & kind to another person.
@@LivinAmovie The eternal question from everyone is…”How do I find that latter person?”
I've had this at work where this girl constantly looks for me and stares at me. she always strikes conversation on the most random things. she stutters or rambles when we talk. constantly smiles at me and turns into pudding when we're in the same room alone.
she gets the deer in the headlights look when I glance back at her. holds my hand or holds me to ask me a question. always stalks me during lunch breaks and follows me to the cafeteria and she can't keep her eyes off of me. she tries to hide her emotions but it comes out of her pores. yet she rejects all of my romantic advances. then she keeps coming back for more a few days later. don't believe anything you see from the opposite sex.
I think you have to stay open and vulnerable and open to getting hurt, that's what I'm trying
I’m exited too watch thisss
Yes!! How was the video?
@@Psych2goABSOLUTELY AMAZING I LOVE UR VIDS SO MUCH & KEEP UP THE AMAZING WORK THANK U 4 THESE VIDS LOVE
IKRR I LOVE THERE VIDSSS
Same here lol
After watching so many vdos, like manifest ur SP,don't chase ur SP,
This vdo is the perfect one and same what's happening right now, Though dating etc,is not possible as we are in close relation and married to different persons, the signs you mentioned exactly happen whenever we meet during any family occasion ❤
4:52 i should not be laughing this much at "not moms spaghetti"
🤣
I love watching these days cause they never do anything mentioned in them😍
00:59 can we get a video about all Ace types? There is lots of awareness on lgbt but no one is playing attention to asexuals and most of people even dont know aces exists
Hehe, no love for me(being an aro is great)
*Looking back at the time my ex was super aggressive with flirting and dropped hints about studying for history*
……Damn it….
There’s this one guy in my class and we sit next to each other or close in most of our classes. Sometimes since we’re so close my chest tightens and even with the slightest contact of our knees brushing gives me chills. But there’s a small part of me that feels that this feeling may be somewhat mutual, when ever I look in his direction his head sometimes quickly turns as if he was looking at me but didn’t want to get caught, over times we’ll just accidentally lock eye contact, and I always can just sorta feel the tension whenever we’re close. Please someone tell me if I’m most likely being delusional. 😅
just gooooo
how did it go?
He scares me and he knows how I feel about him I sit next to him in class but school is almost over and my teacher will probably move me away from him he did touch me once and made me think he liked me he does space out around me and he watches me sometimes he has been nice he talked to me a couple of times and offered to help me but he switches on me a lot I hate his friends they always get in the way and he tells his friends things about me like he though I liked him and he doesn’t like me he is the one always making a move on me am I delusional weird and crazy he makes me feel that way I always look at his social media it says he is active I want to follow him but he has ignored me I don’t want to be rejected and I have to see him all the time he plays video games with his friends and I listen to music and watch movies and sit on the couch all day
I have locked eyes with him once and it made me nervous he has flirted with me but he doesn’t do it anymore and his friends are always around I want him to do it again I want a chance with him before school is over and I never see him again because he is going to a different school
What a cute little birthday present! Thanks Psych2Go!
Your palms are sweaty
not mom spaghetti
*proceeds to show both eating spaghetti lol*
i love her voice its so calming
I do make longer lingering eye contact with someone I’m attracted to (sexually) but I also clam up verbally when I’m with him, whereas I seem more at ease and laugh more when I’m with a guy I’m not attracted to. Sigh, I would not want someone I’m not into think we have sexual tension 😢
What if she’s just being nice, and my dumbass just falls in love way too easily to any female that gives me the slightest bit of attention
omg the professor from my university LOL i was going to a vending machine and bumped into her class one day. i was so regretful i didn’t take a course taught by her so it’s super cool to see some of her stuff here on youtube
Pablo is so sharp he could puncture the hull of an empire-class Fire Nation battleship, leaving thousands to drown at sea.
you guys make good content keep up the good work!
Not me just being here to use this information for fanfiction
Your voice is so soothing…
1:59 Pysch2Go totally heard me say no!😭✋🏼
as an Italian I was really pleased to see the latest example on Italian restaurant and spaghetti 😂
In 2015 my Ex said that she liked me and I told her the same but now it's 2023 and I hope she still has feelings for me again cuz she's Single rn and I hope I hear from her again
A pause and gaze made me spit out my drink back into my cup. I didn’t expect funny.
Idk why but when I'm around my crush I just freeze and can't get a single word out of me. And always in mind I say "I'll tell him now I could do it" but I just can't 😞
Firsttt can’t wait to see the video :D
4:52 omgosh hahah i said out loud @moms spaghetti@ as soon as you said palms are sweaty
I will never let someone know how i feel. Especially when they act nice to me. Have a feeling its always fake.
"Are they... feeling it too?"
Trick question. There's only one answer that would ever be true there. Next one please.
4:50 Are the knees weak and arm heavy, though?
I'm so glad they mentioned Demisexuals! I do wish it was more relatable to me though. In my mind, these things are mainly like romantic. So its a bit confusing for me since I'm a Double Demi.
5:27 reminded me of Joey from Friends 💕😂
Ok wth is happening to me!? She's been explaining each sign and sure as the multiverse I'm actively experiencing while having *NO ONE IN MY MIND!!*
Damn mirror neurons! 😂
It's all fun and games until you realise that you weren't first to like the video 🗿
I LOVED IT I LOVED ITTT❤❤❤
I got rejected yesterday.
Very very sad
It’s so painful 💔when you can’t communicate with the person you love, Everything turns into an argument as opposed to a discussion to improve and deepen the relationship. But all thanks to #DrWiseone love spell UA-cam-channel that helped me through in reunion and making our relationship stronger
Don’t give up!!
I've gotten these from girls in the past. one girl at work stares into my soul from the other room, flirting and being constantly touchy, always striking conversation about anything random, constantly smiling, rambling or stuttering when she talks to me.
she gets the deer in the headlights look when I look in her direction. she turns into pudding when we're in the same room. the boys at work joke around and say that we should date and she gets all flustered. she tries to hide her emotions but it comes out of her pores. yet she rejects all my romantic advances. these signs are full of shit. don't believe anything you see from the opposite sex.
I got the same thing with this girl at work where she's constantly looking at me and throwing me lots of sexual tension. She gets all nervous around me and asks me silly questions. Always sits next to me or across the table in the cafeteria. Borderline stalks me at work whenever she gets the chance. Finds me to sneak in a little smile. She's also is very touchy and can't keep her cute little hands off me. She rejects all my dates too. Then she tries to warm back up to me and flirt even harder.
@@johntitor5796 why can't women be more genuine. these signs are extremely misleading and it seems women throw them around to see our reaction but never intend on anything. psych2go has a lot of explaining to do.
No girl who shows that much affection suddenly reject you. You guys are getting rejected for being weirdos or being too needy. Learn how to talk to women. In slow steps.
She was never into you. She was just embarrassed and shy and you of course took that as her wanting you. Men need to stop taking every little act of kindness as us wanting you. It's so gross
What do you mean by romantic gestures? Are you grabbing her? That could be seen as disrespectful. Or do you mean you've asked her to hang out or go on a date?
Funny you said to look into their eyes not to look then look You explained everything in a funny and interesting and creative way
I have this guy that I like a lot and I've had a couple of heart to heart talks and some quite intimate moments, just lost in each other's eyes and what not. But recently we started flirting a lot more, I mean me. I flirt with him more often than we use too, like sneaking in a good tease in the morning and the evening. At first he teased back and flirted along, but after some time he ignores my playful banter and teasing. Just straight to "Have a good day/night" and no more nicknames or flirting. Was I too aggressive with the flirting? I thought he liked it too since he played along. Now it seems like he's distancing himself. I want to communicate these feelings and talk, but this is our first chance in a LONG time getting back into something like romance. We both experienced long relationships suddenly coming to a halt and our worlds crumbled. I guess at first we had that trauma to bond us. But now I thought we had something new. I just don't know. I guess I was the only one who's opened my heart to romance once more, and a possible future with him.
Or maybe he did'nt seen it first and now may realize that you could actually feel something. This however could be overwhelming for him or he is just not sure if he should make a move.
Just some thoughts of mine. Wish you good luck. 😄
I'm so confused on what I am
I feel enlightened by your amazing & informative relationship videos. 😊👍
a pause, and a gaze 🥰
Love That Video !!
Like most of the things are so on point it’s funny hahah, exactly goin thru it!! Feeling like a teenager hihi
What about the fun part where all these things happen but she explicitly tells you she doesn't like you like that? Some people are constantly flirtatious with everyone
Man being Asexual is just hard when all your friends or others you k ow are basically bragging about there crushes
Fellow Ace spec here. I've had romantic crushes, but they've never been anything like the more sexual crushes others serm to have. Still a tough situation.
Are you sure you are an asexual or aromantic?
to me chemistry between two people is never one-sided. If it's one-sided I would use the term being physically attracted to someone
Never thought I'd hear psych2go laugh
We always laugh! 😂
4:09 was so cute omg 😭💗
Boys, we’re in the advanced tech section of UA-cam.
We made it
4:50 "palms are sweaty, not mom's spaghetti"