The old boss needs to get someone in there that can hit the ground running.....you have to move on. Your old boss kinda did you dirty by letting the guys disrespect your authority. You’ve done MORE than anyone would have done, you did your job AND THEN SOME.....it’s time to take care of yourself. Focus on the parts of you and your life that you enjoy and love. Time flies by fast.....
I agree wholeheartedly! The old job, as much as you love your old boss, is not your responsibility anymore and you don't need the added stress of two jobs. After a week of training, I'd say goodbye to that job because you've been MORE than generous. Good luck with it all. 🙂✌️
True! And the new person deserves to have someone that can train them properly and is there. What did she expect? She left before the new girl even started. People need good training. She is too involved in things not her business.
@@redss111 ~ you must have missed the part where she talks about why she left.....she gave her notice....her boss dragged his feet at hiring someone. He hired someone with zero experience to run an entire office on her own....he didn’t want to pay someone with experience to fill the position. That’s not on Kandy, she has been more than helpful. Instead of saying what did she expect you should be saying what did HE expect! And your last sentence.......WTF are you talking about, please explain?
Your old job is capable of hiring employees and handling their business. Like, the world won't end and no puppies or kittens will be harmed if you don't take on something that you don't have to.😉
Exactly. Seems like her old boss didn't really ask for Kandy's help, Kandy herself decided to still go there once a week. So she can't blame that particular stressor on anyone else. If Kandy didn't fix what the new girl messed up, her old boss would have fired the new girl a long time ago and found someone who could actually do the job. Kandy didn't do it on purpose, but in a way she messed up by constantly helping the new girl when she didn't feel like doing her job 🤷🏼♀️
Issues to explore further: Why can't I let go? Former spouse, former boss...perhaps others. Formal goodbyes have been said but the relationships drag on. By overfunctioning for these people, it allows them to continue to avoid taking responsibility to handle their own affairs. Is that really helpful? After some initial help, they need to take the reins. Love your channel & so glad you're happy in your new relationship & with weight loss!
Happy birthday to Cody! And I see this old job is important to you and all but your boss needs to take responsibility of his business. I’m sorry to say but this is not your problem. You have a lot going on in your life. Your aunt and uncle, new job, new relationship. Don’t let this old job stress you out. If you’re going to help I hope your old boss is paying you for all of this.
My unsolicited advice that you didn’t ask for: you NEED to let go of the old job. It isn’t your responsibility. I keep hearing “we”. We need to find someone new, we need to interview, we need to train. Honey let it go. Your old BOSS needs to do these things. And honestly, having been in both your position and as your replacement, no one is going to do well until you’re not involved because your boss keeps turning to you as the authority and it’s going to demean the new person, whether you see it or not. Just tell him you can’t be involved anymore. He is an adult and a business owner, he will figure it out.
I’m also so sorry about your old job… You are amazing for continuing to go back and help them! You don’t owe them anything, so I hope your old boss appreciates all you do and sacrifice for him! 🙏🏻
You are one truly happy woman and it is so good to see, after all these years of watching your channel you are finally in a place you want to be. So happy that you are finally getting what you deserve❤
Wow, your plate is full. Hope your uncle recovers soon and fast. That gal that was not coming in, did she at least call? I can understand how 17 years at a job makes you feel some obligation to help your boss in a rough spot, very nice of you. Happy Birthday to Cody!
The staffing issues at your former employer very legitimately have nothing to do with you and it’s in no way your responsibility to see that the job is being done, that’s the boss’ job over there - that’s what he’s paid for. Wish them well and walk away, you can’t run yourself ragged taking care of other people’s responsibilities.
While this is 100% true, you know that Kandy is an incredible and devoted person. She would never be able to just walk away from someone who is still her friend, and her lanndlord to boot. That relationship needs to be maintained. I too was thinking the same thing... walk away, move o, let them fend for themselves, but you know her. She will not step away until there is a satisfactory person to replace her. I just love this woman so much. Her moral fibre is legit!
@@iwonka I’m a Taurus like Kandy. I can fall into the trap that she does… I have be extremely with the help I give others. She needs to cut the cord for her own sanity and business!
@@shellyb5014 this is an excellent point and not one I thought thoroughly about. Her boss/landlord certainly isn't going to take the initiative, is he? I know she will do the right thing.
Are you being paid to be at the old job? Because in the UK once you serve your notice you cut ties, I was with a business for 6 years and gave 2 months notice and left never speaking to them again.
It’s sooooooooo good to hear from you hun! I’m so glad your happy with your new relationship ,you deserve all you can get! Good luck finding someone for your old job seems unfair you still have to do that since you left 3 mths ago ! Anyway You rock! Love from down under xoxo 💋
I just love playing your videos all day and just listening to you speak. It’s very nurturing and reminds me so much of my mom. Thank you for allowing us a glimpse of your life and funny commentary I appreciate you as many of us do I hope your day is awesome 😎
Girl! Let that old job go. It is not your responsibility to find someone to fill the position and it’s certainly not your responsibility to train that person. You have gone above and beyond for that job and that employer. It’s time for him to step up and handle it.
Your boyfriend is very handsome.. and he's a gamer, too. 🥰 I'm 44 and love to game as well, lol. Focus on what's important in your life, and don't sweat the small stuff. UA-cam introduction can wait until he's comfortable. We are here for your hauls, makeup, cooking, and good ole Kandy advice.
You are looking so cute in this video! I seriously think the new job is just what you needed! Sometimes coming out of our comfort zone and a change is the best thing for you.
There is nothing "dedicated" about allowing someone to take advantage of your kindness. This kind of behavior only allows terrible employers to keep making money at the cost of everyone else's sanity.
You mention your old job as a stressor. But honestly it seems like you're the one putting yourself in that situation? "I came in on Sunday cause I knew she hadn't been there". So you went there without your boss even asking for help? You asked your boss why he hadn't told you about her being gone all week. Uhh, because it's his problem and not yours? Why would you need to know that, you don't work there anymore. Yeah it really seems like you're the one putting yourself into that mess. Has your boss even asked you to come in once a week or is that just something you've decided to do? He should tell you to stop doing that. It's his and the new girl's problem to figure it out, but for some reason you put yourself in there.
Hey Kandy, this is meant in the most loving way, but have you considered that you put yourself through all this extra stress Just to distract yourself from your own issues with yourself? Even if you are happy nowadays, I think this is an old coping mechanism that you carried with you your whole life. Most of the stressors you listed in this video have nothing to do with you personally, it is your old boss's issues, your mom's, uncle's etc. Of course it affects you if your relatives are sick, I get that. But if you'd avoid unnecessary stress (like worrying about your old job), you'd had enough energy to worry about that. Have you considered that maybe you are overstepping a bit by worrying so mich about the new girl and her capabilities? Even if she is shit at her job, it is none of your business. Let that ish gooooo. You are a strong woman with a very demanding new job, a boyfriend, friends and family, pets, hobbies....you have enough on your plate. Just don't think about your old job, move on!
This comment hits home. I know I do this- wrap myself up too much about other people while MY issues are sitting there like “what about us?” Mostly our own problems are just so hard and scary to deal with.
I just love these catch ups! I’m so happy for you and Coty! The work ‘stuff’ sounds heavy, but you are so capable! A+ employee!!! Hope you guys had an amazing time at the beach! 💖
My step dad was in the hospital (in ICU on a ventilator in a medical induced coma) for a month back in December. He’s doing good now 🙏 I’m sending lots of prayers for your uncle 🙏
Kandy! I am so very happy for you… ❤️ You look and sound so happy! I have watched you from the very beginning and you are my favorite UA-camr!! You are the best… HBD to Cody! 🎂
Lordy Kandy! I know you’ve got to be tired- NOBODY can ever call you lazy!! That’s for dang sure! Period. And happy looks sooo good on you girl- Best of luck with everything!! 💝💖✌️
Oh damn, Kandy! I’m so sorry to hear about your uncle! Many prayers he turns a corner soon. Scary stuff. Sending you my best wishes. I agree with the others you are too nice to your old boss. Keep your priorities in line and definitely Italy tell this guy when you can’t you can’t. Not by lack of caring, but your mental and physical health is very important too. Sounds like it’s time for your old boss to find someone else.
Your a great employee anyone be glad to have Kandy. Just be careful and don't go pass your limit you're not wonder woman. Please don't overwork yourself and really get stressed out
That old job is not your responsibility. I get you were part of that family for a long time and you can still be in contact with them without being on their payroll. You acknowledge it’s causing you stress. You can make the choice to get rid of that stress.
I used to work at a construction office and the bosses I worked for there was a husband and wife and the wife handled all the financial stuff and the husband handled the day-to-day stuff and then their daughter was the manager the office manager so she would do a lot of the bill paying as well and stuff like that. I definitely think your old boss needs to teach himself how to do a lot of that stuff because he seems to not know much about the financial part of that job. Hopefully you guys find a good person to do the work but I feel like from what it seems like you had to do a lot for that job and I wonder if you had to do more than the job required and I don't think that someone can take on all that work on their own especially if they haven't already done something like that before.
I went to Instagram to see the picture you mentioned and I’ve only one thing to say…….. he looks lovely and kind. You look fabulous together. I am so happy for you both. God Bless you x
My son's father currently has a girlfriend who approached me and asked for permission to meet him and it meant the world to me. Very classy move. It also has an added benefit of putting her on your side no matter what happens. I would be very upset if he messed this one up and he's very much aware of that fact. 😁😁😁
I dont blame you for trying to help out your old job especially since you were a huge part helping build that buisness for 17 years. I dissagree with the people saying you need to not worry about it and move on. Maybe its just me but i couldnt leave a job knowing that it could potentially plunder without me. I dont think its a bad thing that youre helping them find someone new and you shouldnt feel bad about it. She literally ran that place and all of its finances. If theres anything ive learned about kandy its that shes a very empathetic person and doesnt like to see people fail or struggle. Its not like she left on bad terms with her boss and im sure she would sleep a lot better at night knowing she found and trained someone capable of doing that job.
Its very kind of you not to leave your ex-boss in a lurch. After that long of an employment they become family. Hopefully, the next employee can set you free. Cody is a cutie! :)
I have to echo what others keep saying about your former employer. He is taking advantage of your amazing sense of accountability and work ethic. I understand the feeling of responsibility, especially since you were there for 17 years. It’s so difficult! I hear you saying things that make me think you feel just as responsible for the business succeeding as your old boss should. The reality is, you are not responsible for the business - success or failure - that is not your burden. I think it is more difficult because your old boss is also your landlord. I can’t imagine how difficult that is for you!
Kandy I've missed your car chats🥰🥰❤ I hope your uncle is going to be okay:( Your absolutely amazing and thank you for including your UA-cam family with your update and I'm excited about your new boyfriend it sounds awesome 😃😃 and that view is absolutely beautiful 😍 😀
Hey there girl!!!’ You got way too much on your plate to handle!!! You old boss needs to take care of his business but I understand you feel somewhat obligated after all those years!!!! Hope you two lovebirds ended up having a fund weekend and hope he had a great Birthday!!!! Thanks for checking in my friend!! Love ya!!! 👍😉🤗❤️❤️
Do you like the punishment you are putting yourself through? You work somewhere else now and it seems to take all of your time. You have left that boss, move on. Are you being paid by both places? I sure hope you are not letting them take advantage of you. It seems to me that your old boss needs to find someone else to do the job and you need to stop working at both places.
I hope your former boss is paying you a huge amount of money for helping him out. Because without you obviously things would just crumble. Don't let them take advantage of you
doesn't sound like the boss at your old job should be leaving at 5 if his business is struggling and he can't find someone to replace your old position! wow, I see why you left now lol; proud of you for finding something new and better for yourself
This old job thing is not your problem. I know you feel responsible but the shop is not yours. Your old boss needs to take responsibility for his business. Also, contact a temp agency to fill the job.
You need to let your old job go. It’s been a long time, they’ll figure it out. It’s not on you to tell the new employee what to do or to save your old boss. Also they should be paying you if they aren’t.
wait why was there like 5 minutes at the end with just a completely black screen and no sound after you said bye? is it my computer messing up or was it an issue with the upload?? lol
I trust you are being paid for the hours you are working for your former employer. You had mentioned you don't currently have health insurance. I had a similar situation and I negotiated that my old company maintain my health benefits until my new health insurance kicked in as part my payment for helping with the transition. Too late for Kandy, but it might help someone else.
Aww I love your car chats and all your vids. Your bf is a QT! Get it girl. Maybe it would be a better use of your time to teach your old boss how to do your job so he can do the training. Then you aren’t investing in a possible flaky new employee.
Huh? Where is a job at which an employee can take off for weeks with no permission or explanation? Is the boss at your old job a relative? Because why are you continuing to work at a job you quit? I'm mystified.
@@OHsatellites She had Covid? I didn't hear that. In my working days, you had to call in to say you were sick each day you were out. Sick days were limited to maybe 8 days a year, I think. In the real world, you can't just not show up and not answer phone calls. You're gonna get fired.
Good luck all the way around Kandy. New boyfriend is cute. You are not a fresh teen so you need no advice about that. Lol Now as far as your old job.....I figured the new person wasn’t working out as it was taking too long. Sounds like there are many hats to wear, hope the compensation reflects that job otherwise they may have trouble filling the position permanently. You can burn the candle at both ends but eventually something has to give. Take care of you. The rest will take care of itself.
If you are going to take on your old job duties again, can't you do some of that at home online?? That way you can do it when you get home and not have to go into the office
Hi Kandy, nice to see another video from you again😃👍🏼 I don't have Instagram but I went to Instagram ( I think I done it right) and it says: sorry, this page isn't available. I thought I could see your boyfriend but it's fine. Maybe when he's ready to show himself I'll see him.
I've been retro-binging your content. I just adore you, girl! I live in Michigan, but my sister lives in Portland. Are you still there? Portland is a cool place and I love the surrounding nature. I just need more sun than you get there!😄💖
I sometimes play Star Dew Valley but I like Animal Crossing and I startrd Ff14 last year and have been playing that. On Discord I find the more people that are talking over each other the more likely I am to leave, it's just waaay to much to process 🤣🤣 I hope you find someone better suited to fill your role, it sucks that the first girl didn't work out.
Hi Miss Kandy, sounds like you have two jobs, hope you’re getting paid for both of them. I think the lady was chillin ‘coz she knew you’d pick up the slack. Has Brittany met Cody? He’s cute!
I generally like your content but not sure UA-cam is the place to be talking about whether someone else can do their job or not, if I was her I would probably stop showing up too if my work was going to be slagged off online.
Well Howdy Miss Kandy~! 1. DANG IT! I can't get IG to open!!!!! Would you pretty-please post a pic of your Sweet Pea on your Community Page or Twitter? 💝 I feel like such a loser, but I can't figure it out, and I wanna play too!!!! ~~~~~~~ 2. OOOOHHH "BLOODY MARY NAP", sounds delightful! All of a sudden I wanna watch The Shining while driving up to Timberline Lodge, hoping for snow!!! 🩸🪓 ~~~~~~~ 3. Praying for your family! Requiring hospitalization d/t Covid symptoms, is extraordinarily serious! And SCARY & STRESSFUL! For the patient AND the family that LOVES & ADORES THEM aka YOU GUYS!! 🙏🏽
The old boss needs to get someone in there that can hit the ground running.....you have to move on. Your old boss kinda did you dirty by letting the guys disrespect your authority. You’ve done MORE than anyone would have done, you did your job AND THEN SOME.....it’s time to take care of yourself. Focus on the parts of you and your life that you enjoy and love. Time flies by fast.....
Yes, this 🙌🏼🙌🏼
They’re taking advantage of her kindness
I agree wholeheartedly! The old job, as much as you love your old boss, is not your responsibility anymore and you don't need the added stress of two jobs. After a week of training, I'd say goodbye to that job because you've been MORE than generous. Good luck with it all. 🙂✌️
True! And the new person deserves to have someone that can train them properly and is there. What did she expect? She left before the new girl even started. People need good training. She is too involved in things not her business.
@@redss111 ~ you must have missed the part where she talks about why she left.....she gave her notice....her boss dragged his feet at hiring someone. He hired someone with zero experience to run an entire office on her own....he didn’t want to pay someone with experience to fill the position. That’s not on Kandy, she has been more than helpful. Instead of saying what did she expect you should be saying what did HE expect! And your last sentence.......WTF are you talking about, please explain?
Your old job is capable of hiring employees and handling their business. Like, the world won't end and no puppies or kittens will be harmed if you don't take on something that you don't have to.😉
Exactly! Once I learned and accepted this, I was less stressed.
I agree wholeheartedly! 🙂✌️
Exactly. Seems like her old boss didn't really ask for Kandy's help, Kandy herself decided to still go there once a week. So she can't blame that particular stressor on anyone else.
If Kandy didn't fix what the new girl messed up, her old boss would have fired the new girl a long time ago and found someone who could actually do the job. Kandy didn't do it on purpose, but in a way she messed up by constantly helping the new girl when she didn't feel like doing her job 🤷🏼♀️
Issues to explore further: Why can't I let go? Former spouse, former boss...perhaps others. Formal goodbyes have been said but the relationships drag on. By overfunctioning for these people, it allows them to continue to avoid taking responsibility to handle their own affairs. Is that really helpful? After some initial help, they need to take the reins. Love your channel & so glad you're happy in your new relationship & with weight loss!
I hope your old boss has given you some shares in his business! You seem more on top of it than he is!
Your boss is telling you he doesn’t need you to come in and you still go in. You’re overstepping. You ran her off.
Happy birthday to Cody! And I see this old job is important to you and all but your boss needs to take responsibility of his business. I’m sorry to say but this is not your problem. You have a lot going on in your life. Your aunt and uncle, new job, new relationship. Don’t let this old job stress you out. If you’re going to help I hope your old boss is paying you for all of this.
If you hadn't kept fixing the new girl's mistakes, your old boss would have fired her a long time ago and found someone who could actually do the job.
You’re glowing, this new relationship looks good on you. Thanks for the video ❤️
My unsolicited advice that you didn’t ask for: you NEED to let go of the old job. It isn’t your responsibility. I keep hearing “we”. We need to find someone new, we need to interview, we need to train. Honey let it go. Your old BOSS needs to do these things. And honestly, having been in both your position and as your replacement, no one is going to do well until you’re not involved because your boss keeps turning to you as the authority and it’s going to demean the new person, whether you see it or not. Just tell him you can’t be involved anymore. He is an adult and a business owner, he will figure it out.
Girl it sounds like you’re really overstepping boundaries at your old job
17 years is a long time you're a trooper and congrats on the new job
I’m also so sorry about your old job… You are amazing for continuing to go back and help them! You don’t owe them anything, so I hope your old boss appreciates all you do and sacrifice for him! 🙏🏻
You are one truly happy woman and it is so good to see, after all these years of watching your channel you are finally in a place you want to be. So happy that you are finally getting what you deserve❤
Wow, your plate is full. Hope your uncle recovers soon and fast. That gal that was not coming in, did she at least call? I can understand how 17 years at a job makes you feel some obligation to help your boss in a rough spot, very nice of you. Happy Birthday to Cody!
The staffing issues at your former employer very legitimately have nothing to do with you and it’s in no way your responsibility to see that the job is being done, that’s the boss’ job over there - that’s what he’s paid for. Wish them well and walk away, you can’t run yourself ragged taking care of other people’s responsibilities.
While this is 100% true, you know that Kandy is an incredible and devoted person. She would never be able to just walk away from someone who is still her friend, and her lanndlord to boot. That relationship needs to be maintained. I too was thinking the same thing... walk away, move o, let them fend for themselves, but you know her. She will not step away until there is a satisfactory person to replace her. I just love this woman so much. Her moral fibre is legit!
@@iwonka I’m a Taurus like Kandy. I can fall into the trap that she does… I have be extremely with the help I give others. She needs to cut the cord for her own sanity and business!
@@shellyb5014 this is an excellent point and not one I thought thoroughly about. Her boss/landlord certainly isn't going to take the initiative, is he? I know she will do the right thing.
@@iwonka that’s not a virtue, it’s a distinct lack of care for ones self and a disregard for ones own needs over others wants.
@@nl2655 Ok. Im done for now. But thank you for your reply. Bye for now.
Are you being paid to be at the old job? Because in the UK once you serve your notice you cut ties, I was with a business for 6 years and gave 2 months notice and left never speaking to them again.
I'm so happy for all the good things you're receiving from life, you deserve them all♡
Please take care of yourself 🧡 It can be overwhelming being the person everyone turns to.
It’s sooooooooo good to hear from you hun! I’m so glad your happy with your new relationship ,you deserve all you can get! Good luck finding someone for your old job seems unfair you still have to do that since you left 3 mths ago ! Anyway You rock! Love from down under xoxo 💋
I just love playing your videos all day and just listening to you speak. It’s very nurturing and reminds me so much of my mom. Thank you for allowing us a glimpse of your life and funny commentary I appreciate you as many of us do I hope your day is awesome 😎
Girl! Let that old job go. It is not your responsibility to find someone to fill the position and it’s certainly not your responsibility to train that person. You have gone above and beyond for that job and that employer. It’s time for him to step up and handle it.
I honestly think it's more to it she might have ties to the old boss like I think she mentioned he owns the house she lives in
@@terrysmith3390 yes shes still married.
@@terrysmith3390 this is definitely something I have through the years watching Kandy
@@shantelgoode5069 it probably makes her fill important because you are right, no one is irreplaceable when it comes to a job.
Your boyfriend is very handsome.. and he's a gamer, too. 🥰 I'm 44 and love to game as well, lol. Focus on what's important in your life, and don't sweat the small stuff. UA-cam introduction can wait until he's comfortable. We are here for your hauls, makeup, cooking, and good ole Kandy advice.
You are looking so cute in this video! I seriously think the new job is just what you needed! Sometimes coming out of our comfort zone and a change is the best thing for you.
You’re a very dedicated conscientious employee, I wish more people were like you and had those values.
There is nothing "dedicated" about allowing someone to take advantage of your kindness. This kind of behavior only allows terrible employers to keep making money at the cost of everyone else's sanity.
You mention your old job as a stressor. But honestly it seems like you're the one putting yourself in that situation?
"I came in on Sunday cause I knew she hadn't been there". So you went there without your boss even asking for help?
You asked your boss why he hadn't told you about her being gone all week. Uhh, because it's his problem and not yours? Why would you need to know that, you don't work there anymore.
Yeah it really seems like you're the one putting yourself into that mess. Has your boss even asked you to come in once a week or is that just something you've decided to do? He should tell you to stop doing that. It's his and the new girl's problem to figure it out, but for some reason you put yourself in there.
Hey Kandy, this is meant in the most loving way, but have you considered that you put yourself through all this extra stress Just to distract yourself from your own issues with yourself? Even if you are happy nowadays, I think this is an old coping mechanism that you carried with you your whole life.
Most of the stressors you listed in this video have nothing to do with you personally, it is your old boss's issues, your mom's, uncle's etc. Of course it affects you if your relatives are sick, I get that. But if you'd avoid unnecessary stress (like worrying about your old job), you'd had enough energy to worry about that.
Have you considered that maybe you are overstepping a bit by worrying so mich about the new girl and her capabilities? Even if she is shit at her job, it is none of your business. Let that ish gooooo.
You are a strong woman with a very demanding new job, a boyfriend, friends and family, pets, hobbies....you have enough on your plate. Just don't think about your old job, move on!
This comment hits home. I know I do this- wrap myself up too much about other people while MY issues are sitting there like “what about us?” Mostly our own problems are just so hard and scary to deal with.
with love....^^this
Good luck with everything. They are lucky to have you still helping with the old jub. Don't stress too much with everything.
I just love these catch ups! I’m so happy for you and Coty! The work ‘stuff’ sounds heavy, but you are so capable! A+ employee!!!
Hope you guys had an amazing time at the beach! 💖
Happy we get to see you more. Take care of yourself first.
so happy for you girl you deserve all of it
My step dad was in the hospital (in ICU on a ventilator in a medical induced coma) for a month back in December. He’s doing good now 🙏
I’m sending lots of prayers for your uncle 🙏
I hope you are taking care of yourself! Sometimes you have to say No so you can say Yes to yourself. You deserve to have a happy balance.
Kandy! I am so very happy for you… ❤️ You look and sound so happy! I have watched you from the very beginning and you are my favorite UA-camr!! You are the best… HBD to Cody! 🎂
Lordy Kandy! I know you’ve got to be tired- NOBODY can ever call you lazy!! That’s for dang sure! Period. And happy looks sooo good on you girl- Best of luck with everything!! 💝💖✌️
You guys look so cute together! Best of luck! You can just see the happiness 😊
Hi, sweet Kandy!! I loved this chat, thank you. Your BF is adorable! Very cute indeed!! ❤😘🤗 And prayers for your beautiful family. 🙏
Oh damn, Kandy! I’m so sorry to hear about your uncle! Many prayers he turns a corner soon. Scary stuff. Sending you my best wishes. I agree with the others you are too nice to your old boss. Keep your priorities in line and definitely Italy tell this guy when you can’t you can’t. Not by lack of caring, but your mental and physical health is very important too. Sounds like it’s time for your old boss to find someone else.
Aww I hope you uncle gets better soon . Your boyfriend and you are a very cute couple.
You look and sound incredibly happy and I'm happy for you! xoxo
Took a peek at Cody's pic. He is very cute and you both look really happy! 💕
Your a great employee anyone be glad to have Kandy. Just be careful and don't go pass your limit you're not wonder woman. Please don't overwork yourself and really get stressed out
Love your honesty and frankness very much. I wish you all the very best with Cody and may you stay healthy always. A Taurus from Singapore :)
That old job is not your responsibility. I get you were part of that family for a long time and you can still be in contact with them without being on their payroll. You acknowledge it’s causing you stress. You can make the choice to get rid of that stress.
I never ran so fast 🤣 .. nice pic of you two.. Happy Birthday Coty! Have fun!
I used to work at a construction office and the bosses I worked for there was a husband and wife and the wife handled all the financial stuff and the husband handled the day-to-day stuff and then their daughter was the manager the office manager so she would do a lot of the bill paying as well and stuff like that. I definitely think your old boss needs to teach himself how to do a lot of that stuff because he seems to not know much about the financial part of that job. Hopefully you guys find a good person to do the work but I feel like from what it seems like you had to do a lot for that job and I wonder if you had to do more than the job required and I don't think that someone can take on all that work on their own especially if they haven't already done something like that before.
Hey Kandy! Happy Birthday Coty! I did see the pic yesterday. He is cute and y’all are so cute!
I’m jealous your at the beach!😢
If Brittany could get the job, she could move closer and maybe you guys could room together!
So you didn't like the pay at your old job so now you're doing it for free? Fucking bonkers
Loved the catch up!! Good to hear you’re doing well and found a new partner.. I’m really happy for you 😊
I went to Instagram to see the picture you mentioned and I’ve only one thing to say…….. he looks lovely and kind. You look fabulous together. I am so happy for you both. God Bless you x
My son's father currently has a girlfriend who approached me and asked for permission to meet him and it meant the world to me. Very classy move. It also has an added benefit of putting her on your side no matter what happens. I would be very upset if he messed this one up and he's very much aware of that fact. 😁😁😁
I dont blame you for trying to help out your old job especially since you were a huge part helping build that buisness for 17 years. I dissagree with the people saying you need to not worry about it and move on. Maybe its just me but i couldnt leave a job knowing that it could potentially plunder without me. I dont think its a bad thing that youre helping them find someone new and you shouldnt feel bad about it. She literally ran that place and all of its finances. If theres anything ive learned about kandy its that shes a very empathetic person and doesnt like to see people fail or struggle. Its not like she left on bad terms with her boss and im sure she would sleep a lot better at night knowing she found and trained someone capable of doing that job.
Agree 100% with your entire comment!
I agree with you.
Its very kind of you not to leave your ex-boss in a lurch. After that long of an employment they become family. Hopefully, the next employee can set you free. Cody is a cutie! :)
You look so happy!! I love that for you!!!💛💛💛
Hello Kandy
Happy Birthday 🎂 Cody
Love a good car talk with a friend 😊💜
I have to echo what others keep saying about your former employer. He is taking advantage of your amazing sense of accountability and work ethic. I understand the feeling of responsibility, especially since you were there for 17 years. It’s so difficult! I hear you saying things that make me think you feel just as responsible for the business succeeding as your old boss should. The reality is, you are not responsible for the business - success or failure - that is not your burden. I think it is more difficult because your old boss is also your landlord. I can’t imagine how difficult that is for you!
Kandy I've missed your car chats🥰🥰❤ I hope your uncle is going to be okay:( Your absolutely amazing and thank you for including your UA-cam family with your update and I'm excited about your new boyfriend it sounds awesome 😃😃 and that view is absolutely beautiful 😍 😀
He's a cutie so happy for u both x
Hope ur being compensated for all these hours you are putting in.
Girl, quit that job and stop working for free! Your boss is taking advantage of you and it’s not right! Your job is done!
Doesn’t your old boss mind you talking about their issues? Or like the woman that was replacing you? Just curious because you’re so open about it!
Hey there girl!!!’
You got way too much on your plate to handle!!!
You old boss needs to take care of his business but I understand you feel somewhat obligated after all those years!!!!
Hope you two lovebirds ended up having a fund weekend and hope he had a great Birthday!!!!
Thanks for checking in my friend!!
Love ya!!! 👍😉🤗❤️❤️
I can tell you've lost some weight! Good job! You're an amazing person with a heart of gold! You have a beautiful soul!
Do you like the punishment you are putting yourself through? You work somewhere else now and it seems to take all of your time. You have left that boss, move on. Are you being paid by both places? I sure hope you are not letting them take advantage of you. It seems to me that your old boss needs to find someone else to do the job and you need to stop working at both places.
I wish you luck Kandy ! 💘
I hope your former boss is paying you a huge amount of money for helping him out. Because without you obviously things would just crumble. Don't let them take advantage of you
doesn't sound like the boss at your old job should be leaving at 5 if his business is struggling and he can't find someone to replace your old position! wow, I see why you left now lol; proud of you for finding something new and better for yourself
This old job thing is not your problem. I know you feel responsible but the shop is not yours. Your old boss needs to take responsibility for his business. Also, contact a temp agency to fill the job.
You’re totally enabling this girl from your old job and your boss
You need to let your old job go. It’s been a long time, they’ll figure it out. It’s not on you to tell the new employee what to do or to save your old boss. Also they should be paying you if they aren’t.
You need to let that job go
I wish we could park on the beach in New York!
Make sure he pays you GOOD dude for this shit ugh
wait why was there like 5 minutes at the end with just a completely black screen and no sound after you said bye? is it my computer messing up or was it an issue with the upload?? lol
i wondered the same!
I trust you are being paid for the hours you are working for your former employer. You had mentioned you don't currently have health insurance. I had a similar situation and I negotiated that my old company maintain my health benefits until my new health insurance kicked in as part my payment for helping with the transition. Too late for Kandy, but it might help someone else.
If your old job had paid you more, would you have stayed?
I hope y'all find a replacement soon.
Glad you’re happy with your new boyfriend! Sorry about your old boss. Isn’t he also your landlord?
I was going to ask if we could have a car talk. Thankyou x
Aww I love your car chats and all your vids. Your bf is a QT! Get it girl. Maybe it would be a better use of your time to teach your old boss how to do your job so he can do the training. Then you aren’t investing in a possible flaky new employee.
Huh? Where is a job at which an employee can take off for weeks with no permission or explanation? Is the boss at your old job a relative? Because why are you continuing to work at a job you quit? I'm mystified.
I think she's renting a house that he owns so maybe she feels obligated to help?
If you’re sick esp if it’s Covid you have to take off work. I’m sorry you’ve never heard of a job that gives sick time, that’s very sad 🥺
@@shantelgoode5069 Thanks. That makes sense.
@@OHsatellites She had Covid? I didn't hear that. In my working days, you had to call in to say you were sick each day you were out. Sick days were limited to maybe 8 days a year, I think. In the real world, you can't just not show up and not answer phone calls. You're gonna get fired.
@@qutiepie4107 i know she mentioned that so im just speculating could be another reason
Good luck all the way around Kandy. New boyfriend is cute. You are not a fresh teen so you need no advice about that. Lol Now as far as your old job.....I figured the new person wasn’t working out as it was taking too long. Sounds like there are many hats to wear, hope the compensation reflects that job otherwise they may have trouble filling the position permanently. You can burn the candle at both ends but eventually something has to give. Take care of you. The rest will take care of itself.
Is this the beach we sat on when I visited???
Yepper
The girl was sick, c'mon!
If you are going to take on your old job duties again, can't you do some of that at home online?? That way you can do it when you get home and not have to go into the office
Hi Kandy, nice to see another video from you again😃👍🏼 I don't have Instagram but I went to Instagram ( I think I done it right) and it says: sorry, this page isn't available. I thought I could see your boyfriend but it's fine. Maybe when he's ready to show himself I'll see him.
I've been retro-binging your content. I just adore you, girl! I live in Michigan, but my sister lives in Portland. Are you still there? Portland is a cool place and I love the surrounding nature. I just need more sun than you get there!😄💖
Were your aunt and uncle vaccinated?
I sometimes play Star Dew Valley but I like Animal Crossing and I startrd Ff14 last year and have been playing that. On Discord I find the more people that are talking over each other the more likely I am to leave, it's just waaay to much to process 🤣🤣
I hope you find someone better suited to fill your role, it sucks that the first girl didn't work out.
Hi Miss Kandy, sounds like you have two jobs, hope you’re getting paid for both of them. I think the lady was chillin ‘coz she knew you’d pick up the slack. Has Brittany met Cody? He’s cute!
My hubby plays fortnight and he loves it😁
Its a shame that you have to train someone else for your old job. Wishing you lots of luck.
You're a strong woman you'll be great 👍👍
Kandy, would you go back to your old job if you were offered a huge salary?
He is cute Kandy 😀😀
I generally like your content but not sure UA-cam is the place to be talking about whether someone else can do their job or not, if I was her I would probably stop showing up too if my work was going to be slagged off online.
I think you enjoy feeling needed, but you literally shouldnt be working at a job thats no longer paying you. not your problem!
Can you please make a video about what to do when your parents don't support your decisions?
Well Howdy Miss Kandy~!
1. DANG IT! I can't get IG to open!!!!!
Would you pretty-please post a pic of your Sweet Pea on your Community Page or Twitter? 💝
I feel like such a loser, but I can't figure it out, and I wanna play too!!!!
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2. OOOOHHH "BLOODY MARY NAP", sounds delightful!
All of a sudden I wanna watch The Shining while driving up to Timberline Lodge, hoping for snow!!! 🩸🪓
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3. Praying for your family! Requiring hospitalization d/t Covid symptoms, is extraordinarily serious! And SCARY & STRESSFUL! For the patient AND the family that LOVES & ADORES THEM aka YOU GUYS!! 🙏🏽