Male Babysitter's Darkest Secrets Exposed - True Crime Documentary

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
  • A Pennsylvania man found himself on the other side of a string operation in January. Dominic Barbagallo, a male nanny, was allegedly caught messaging who he thought was a minor, but in reality, was a group of people posing as a child. The babysitter was then confronted by the group before confessing to all of his darkest secrets. The investigation was turned over to the State Police, who charged Barbagallo after confirming his admissions. "The Disturbing Truth" breaks down the full case in this true crime documentary.
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  • @MrBlackPasta
    @MrBlackPasta 2 місяці тому +539

    It was a pleasure to condense, enhance, and produce this. I deeply appreciate what Alex and the crew do. They gave me full permission to do this by the way and are happy it's out for anyone wondering. Let's keep Dominic off the street.

    • @nunyabizniz1983
      @nunyabizniz1983 2 місяці тому +47

      The crime network should’ve tagged you in this….

    • @MKUltra42
      @MKUltra42 2 місяці тому +12

      He’s been out on bond since January? Any word of a trial??

    • @MrBlackPasta
      @MrBlackPasta 2 місяці тому +32

      ​​@@MKUltra42 not yet, keeping an eye on it. David Dunn will apparently be sentenced on August 15th though. Need to check the status. Can't believe Dominic got out.

    • @dova215
      @dova215 2 місяці тому +9

      You did excellent on this!

    • @cathare4909
      @cathare4909 2 місяці тому +7

      Oh wow I didn't recognize your voice at first. Great job!

  • @wendychloe
    @wendychloe 2 місяці тому +1267

    Who the heck would hire that creepy looking guy to be their “nanny”? My first look at this guy made my weirdo radar go off.

    • @StaySleazyBro
      @StaySleazyBro 2 місяці тому +62

      exactly… i like to think of the “weirdo radar” as common sense. but i guess not everyone has that these days. this man wouldn’t be able to come anywhere close to my kids without losing some teeth

    • @Lisa_5591
      @Lisa_5591 2 місяці тому +141

      I would never hire any man to babysit.

    • @ledzep3692
      @ledzep3692 2 місяці тому

      Yep, he would definitely creep me out at any age...he is a twisted deviant POS.

    • @maryannlohr7379
      @maryannlohr7379 2 місяці тому

      ​@Lisa_5591 Amen absolutely,

    • @DonnellOkafor-r2d
      @DonnellOkafor-r2d 2 місяці тому +50

      Exactly what l said. He had infants on his phone? There is no rehabilitation for demons like this. Being the father of a 5 yr old boy, l can't watch

  • @Mac-h1z8h
    @Mac-h1z8h 2 місяці тому +244

    Alex is a great example of how to catch the predators right. No over the top attitude, or cameras shoved in the face, or getting heated and angry openly with the creeps.

    • @nanaa.6696
      @nanaa.6696 2 місяці тому +38

      that's exactly how he used to be. I stopped watching his videos a long time ago because he was loud, obnoxious and it felt like he wasn't taking it seriously and just wanted to be youtube famous. I think it's so great that he seems to have completely changed. This was so well done. Whereas before Alex might have made the guy nervous and escalated the situation so that he felt threatened and ran away without admitting much, he did such an excellent job with his line of questioning and getting the guy to trust him and literally confess everything. Amazing.

    • @lisaenglert3202
      @lisaenglert3202 2 місяці тому +43

      He’s grown a lot. And getting arrests and convictions. He’s saved a lot of kids. 😊

    • @R3n3g8d3
      @R3n3g8d3 2 місяці тому +4

      His names Gordon lol

    • @nanaa.6696
      @nanaa.6696 2 місяці тому

      @@R3n3g8d3 ???

    • @Mac-h1z8h
      @Mac-h1z8h 2 місяці тому +5

      @@R3n3g8d3 his name is Alex Rosen, Gordon flowers is his alias.

  • @LuciouslyMe
    @LuciouslyMe 2 місяці тому +251

    I was abused by my babysitter and this makes my skin crawl. Only 5 times!!!! This man needs street justice at this point 😢

    • @kingjoseph5901
      @kingjoseph5901 2 місяці тому +15

      Same. A female neighbor abused me when I was around 5 and 6 years old. It haunted most of my childhood and I didn't know how to talk to anyone about it.

    • @carpetgymolylifting
      @carpetgymolylifting 2 місяці тому +9

      ​@@kingjoseph5901hey man...if you find someone to talk about it that's amazing but you must live in the present man...try your best to not reminis on the past...
      Those who live in the past are depressed while those who live in the future are anxious...
      Live in the present and be happy and do your best.

    • @leannewilliams9400
      @leannewilliams9400 2 місяці тому

      ​@@kingjoseph5901have you spoke about it ever ?

    • @joesmother23
      @joesmother23 Місяць тому

      I am so sorry that happened to you, I hope you are doing better now 😔

    • @JoryBarrett
      @JoryBarrett 5 днів тому

      no you werent

  • @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
    @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat 2 місяці тому +219

    Alex barely takes a day off and he and his small team travel the entire country, many times doing multiple catches in a day across states. They have been to 49 states multiple times and get countless arrests and convictions. His decoys are also incredible! Alex is always able to pull out more than is originally said in the chat logs and/or phone calls. The scary thing is that looking at infants is far more common than you would ever think, as the majority admit to viewing it!

    • @sidewalksurfer96
      @sidewalksurfer96 2 місяці тому +3

      look up what majority means, bc that's just not true I hope

    • @MeetMeAtTheKiosk
      @MeetMeAtTheKiosk 2 місяці тому +6

      Alex is the man...

    • @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
      @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat 2 місяці тому +10

      @@sidewalksurfer96 I see his catches uncensored on Locals and I’m serious that the majority really have admitted to looking at infants and toddlers! It still baffles me how sick these preds are! I was shocked when the first pred admitted it but now he makes a point of asking the age ranges if they are watching CP and most say yes! It’s horrific!

    • @williamhurrelbrink3324
      @williamhurrelbrink3324 2 місяці тому +7

      ⁠@@sidewalksurfer96can confirm what @mspears is saying. It’s a majority. I too support them on locals and it is true. These people they confront are very deranged and sick.

    • @LordOfThePancakes
      @LordOfThePancakes 2 місяці тому

      @@MeetMeAtTheKioskhis real name is Gordon

  • @tangie06_33
    @tangie06_33 2 місяці тому +570

    What a creep. And I can't stand the way he tries to act like he can't really remember. You know he remembers EVERY detail.

    • @NatzTalk
      @NatzTalk 2 місяці тому +12

      This

    • @KlLLALLWHITETRUMPTARDS
      @KlLLALLWHITETRUMPTARDS 2 місяці тому +10

      always whi*te “men”😂😂

    • @janetklumper6048
      @janetklumper6048 2 місяці тому +7

      I call these predators creatures

    • @Twister1980
      @Twister1980 2 місяці тому

      ​@user-nl5hg9rl4h oh really? R Kelly, Michael Jackson, Bill Cosby....

    • @Twister1980
      @Twister1980 2 місяці тому

      ​@@KlLLALLWHITETRUMPTARDS R Kelly, Michael Jackson, Bill Cosby...

  • @tThisNThat
    @tThisNThat 2 місяці тому +38

    Ty ALL for covering PPoachers, some people just don't get why Alex is so "understanding". Just like cops in interrogations....they have to play nice. The goal is confession! Works 98% of the time.

  • @jakeengb
    @jakeengb 2 місяці тому +18

    The way he talks about going on the dark web, watching and seeing pictures of a variety of CP of kids from every age group so casually like it’s something a lot of people do out of curiosity is crazy.

  • @ericreed2064
    @ericreed2064 2 місяці тому +228

    A divorced mom of 4? He is targeting desperate and vulnerable mothers. So, he is not just preying on children.

    • @Jenny-nz8fb
      @Jenny-nz8fb 2 місяці тому +23

      Agreed, as a single parent I would never let a strange guy into their lives.

    • @MrsTruthTeller
      @MrsTruthTeller 2 місяці тому +37

      They all do this. I watched a documentary where they interviewed child predators and they each said that they either target shy children or children with behavior issues. They also said they target certain types of parents. Single mothers who are having financial problems was a big target. Not just for abuse but also child abduction schemes. They also targeted parents who seem too trusting. One of the men interviewed was a former priest and he said he targeted children who had parents that were overly religious and blindly trusted authority figures. He said he knew they would believe him over their children. You have to understand that these are real predators who are looking for weaknesses in parents and children.

    • @danleonardoyo3946
      @danleonardoyo3946 2 місяці тому

      @@MrsTruthTellerdisgusting that some people go this far to intentionally be a P 0 S

    • @TwoLeftSh0es
      @TwoLeftSh0es 2 місяці тому +19

      She sold her kids out to a guy who is obviously at one glance a creep, she's not the victim.

    • @kingjoseph5901
      @kingjoseph5901 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@Jenny-nz8fbI wouldn't let antly stranger around your kids. Predators are everywhere, it's sick

  • @dontworryaboutit4255
    @dontworryaboutit4255 2 місяці тому +190

    EVERY family Vlogger channel NEEDS to see this! People track people from UA-cam! STOP POSTING YOUR KIDS ON UA-cam!

    • @DittonWilson
      @DittonWilson 2 місяці тому +7

      I quit posting my kids on youtube when i found that people will pay for exclusive content on Locals.

    • @MKUltra42
      @MKUltra42 2 місяці тому +5

      @@DittonWilsonWhat is Locals? I’ve never heard of that.

    • @beckystarrski
      @beckystarrski 2 місяці тому

      I honestly believe that’s why the “perfect family” vloggers / influencers do include their children. They sell them out, for money. I’ve noticed the thumbnails are certain ways, showing their children in swimsuits/ all dolled up… I saw a vid. talking about how these people know that the perves are watching and that’s how they make so much money.🤢😢

    • @googleuser2480
      @googleuser2480 2 місяці тому +4

      You'd be surprised how many already know

    • @dottiesunshine8339
      @dottiesunshine8339 2 місяці тому +7

      I unplugged my fb, social media's for my kids. after getting 93 likes on a single picture of my new baby... I just don't trust anyone..😢 no regrets

  • @heathers711
    @heathers711 2 місяці тому +74

    Hearing this guy's confessions are making me feel sick to my stomach. Lock him up and throw away the key. Disgusting.

    • @raelynndzierwa3559
      @raelynndzierwa3559 Місяць тому

      I felt sick to my stomach too. I couldn't watch the whole vid bc it was to much. This guy needs go be sent away for a long time.

  • @patmacrotch5611
    @patmacrotch5611 2 місяці тому +25

    When he made the comment “I don’t wont to like tell you all this then you still just take me to jail” that really showed he has no remorse.

  • @JoTracy
    @JoTracy 2 місяці тому +319

    Stop letting these creeps out of prison

    • @mgsilly
      @mgsilly 2 місяці тому +6

      Amen

    • @A-AronWWG1WGA
      @A-AronWWG1WGA 2 місяці тому +14

      TRUMP 2024

    • @SAMEntalhealth
      @SAMEntalhealth 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@A-AronWWG1WGA😅😅😅 word up word up

    • @jennifers8843
      @jennifers8843 2 місяці тому

      Stop electing people who release them! People do not realize there are murderers who were sentenced to life without parole getting released early. One would think media would find that to be important information for the people who will now have to hope they don’t murder again- but conveniently they do not!

    • @andrewford9974
      @andrewford9974 2 місяці тому +6

      Prisons expensive Florida's got the right idea better yet wood chippers don't cost that much

  • @TheTrapNerdPodcast
    @TheTrapNerdPodcast 2 місяці тому +88

    YOOOO ALEX MADE IT TO LAW N CRIME WOOOHOOOOO

  • @janethammer9501
    @janethammer9501 2 місяці тому +58

    This video made me sick to my stomach! I’m glad to know people are out there catching these preds!

  • @cfunkbooya
    @cfunkbooya 2 місяці тому +17

    Absolutely love you guys are covering Alex, you may not agree with his politics but my dude gets it done and this is something we all have to come together over and stop this sickness.

  • @KatieDidsThirstForThrifting
    @KatieDidsThirstForThrifting 2 місяці тому +241

    I fear from my 5 grandbabies in this sick world. DON'T TRUST ANYONE!

    • @elizabethperkins5555
      @elizabethperkins5555 2 місяці тому +11

      Same. I can't believe this stuff. Why?

    • @subrosa4792
      @subrosa4792 2 місяці тому

      @@elizabethperkins5555they’re sick and demons inhabit their bodies.

    • @TrueCrimeJunkie973
      @TrueCrimeJunkie973 2 місяці тому +6

      I'm 54. Until my siblings and I were 18 we were not allowed to go anywhere without our parents. They were scared of PDF Files touching us. This was the 70’s and 80's. My parents were ahead of their time. I also homeschooled my children and gave them a similar upbringing. You cannot be too safe in this evil world.

    • @Angeliz225
      @Angeliz225 2 місяці тому

      The WORLD was always like this, with technology it’s just been easier to Catch these people as well as for them to victimize people. The WORLD was NEVER safe.

    • @ChairmanTrump
      @ChairmanTrump 2 місяці тому

      Don’t have kids. What’s the point? Too
      Keep the capitalist gears moving?

  • @Josh_you_uh
    @Josh_you_uh 2 місяці тому +20

    Imagine having to share that kinda stuff every 12 hours or you get the boot from their group… these ppl eat, sleep, breathe and live for this stuff..they don’t stop

  • @adamjl204
    @adamjl204 2 місяці тому +309

    This is awesome to see here on law&crime! I decoyed this guy and he was absolutely one of the worst. He will not stop until hes imprisoned

    • @DonnellOkafor-r2d
      @DonnellOkafor-r2d 2 місяці тому

      Who would allow this demon to watch their children? Look at the mofo

    • @killyourtv4579
      @killyourtv4579 2 місяці тому

      ​@@nebbiolo702agreed. They steal people's content all the time. It's really disgusting.

    • @monicamorris4212
      @monicamorris4212 2 місяці тому +11

      U didn't decoy anybody

    • @bigboicreme
      @bigboicreme 2 місяці тому +24

      @@monicamorris4212 That really is the decoy tho lol. I know all of them from Locals

    • @keithymg
      @keithymg 2 місяці тому

      ​@@bigboicremeim on locals, whats his name on locals.

  • @beehappyalways
    @beehappyalways 2 місяці тому +84

    I’m sorry, and this may be stereotyping, but who allows a grown man to be their child’s “babysitter”. Nope, I would rather be safe than sorry.

    • @Jenny-nz8fb
      @Jenny-nz8fb 2 місяці тому +8

      💯 agree. No stranger would be anywhere near my kids.

    • @kviz1111
      @kviz1111 2 місяці тому +2

      Exactly 💯

    • @BellaLeoLicorice
      @BellaLeoLicorice 2 місяці тому +5

      @@Jenny-nz8fb or my dog

    • @runechuckie
      @runechuckie Місяць тому +1

      Okay serious question from a neutral stand point, do you just believe adult men aren't safe being left around children fully? Kind of weird if you ask me, fathers are around their kids all the time? What is it about men you hate?

    • @runechuckie
      @runechuckie Місяць тому +1

      I'm not even someone who is a feminist or "alpha male" but if you seriously believe all men can't be left around anyone under 18 you have issues you need to look into.

  • @CamilleRodriguez
    @CamilleRodriguez 2 місяці тому +57

    This is horrifying. Not just this sick guy but all the content he’s describing. Absolutely devastating for those children. This made me absolutely ill. I hate that babies and children are not protected and loved the way they deserve. They are so defenseless. 💔💔💔

  • @itsjustandrea_9969
    @itsjustandrea_9969 2 місяці тому +28

    "me and her daughter have a connection " made my skin crawl.

  • @Natasha-2483
    @Natasha-2483 2 місяці тому +13

    I love how he makes them feel so comfortable with him they just start talking and tell him everything. It’s great how him is able to do this because he makes sure to get everything so he send them down but I think he must find it so hard not to kick the ???? Out of them.

  • @Daymare_666
    @Daymare_666 2 місяці тому +261

    I may disagree with Alex on a lot of topics, mostly political, but he is by far the best at catching these horrible people. The way he gets them to snitch on themselves in front of the police is nothing short of an art form.

    • @Hawkeyevodka34
      @Hawkeyevodka34 2 місяці тому +46

      Seriously. I wouldn’t want to know him personally, but I can’t knock the work he does. He’s got a genuine gift for talking to these people and it’s incredible to see.

    • @dobiacco
      @dobiacco 2 місяці тому +18

      What, specifically, is something you disagree with?

    • @TheMajesticOneAlways
      @TheMajesticOneAlways 2 місяці тому

      Your mom lol​@@dobiacco

    • @brandontrlicek5853
      @brandontrlicek5853 2 місяці тому +10

      ​@dobiacco yea I'm curious too .. what has he done??

    • @kiowah231
      @kiowah231 2 місяці тому +30

      @@dobiacco Probably on stances like not allowing males in female spaces

  • @bigboicreme
    @bigboicreme 2 місяці тому +32

    Glad to see Alex getting some coverage!!! Thank you Law and Crime!!!!

  • @bonniejosavland3227
    @bonniejosavland3227 2 місяці тому +110

    What an impressive interview/conversation with the perp! This Interrogationer is awesome 👏🏽

    • @monicamorris4212
      @monicamorris4212 2 місяці тому +17

      Alex rosen!!! He that dude!!! Ppsoutheast

    • @dova215
      @dova215 2 місяці тому +4

      My thoughts exactly 💯 👏

    • @RockyTop85
      @RockyTop85 2 місяці тому +2

      I agree

  • @Hyfdwwtvjkufg
    @Hyfdwwtvjkufg 2 місяці тому +52

    Remember, the person willing to watch your kids for free probably shouldn’t be watching your kids.

    • @BookishDark
      @BookishDark 2 місяці тому +6

      I mean…not really. My friend dropped her kids with me all the time. They played with my kids while she went to work. She didn’t pay me for it and I didn’t ask - it was basically a weekly play date lol. Now a dude with no kids? Yeah…sort of creepy…

    • @wittle5788
      @wittle5788 Місяць тому +1

      No I watch my best friends kid free so not always true

    • @trolojolo6178
      @trolojolo6178 26 днів тому

      ​@@wittle5788u chomo dude?

  • @ViolAM3
    @ViolAM3 2 місяці тому +71

    Who is seriously using THIS GUY. To look after their most precious children.

    • @kingjoseph5901
      @kingjoseph5901 2 місяці тому +4

      I'm confused by that too

    • @googleuser2480
      @googleuser2480 2 місяці тому +13

      Desperate people and people who cannot afford appropriate care. Don't blame them. Blame a lack of resources for our kids.

    • @kingjoseph5901
      @kingjoseph5901 2 місяці тому +1

      @googleuser2480 that's true and sad. I know single mothers that sadly have no choice.

    • @everettsunk240
      @everettsunk240 2 місяці тому

      ​@@googleuser2480unmm....how bout no. Blame the parents that have kids that they can't afford or don't follow up on the resources available. There is absolutely no way that any loving caring parent would just be having it so rough that they have no other option than using this loser as a babysitter. That is 100% on the parent. This guy is a huge walking red-flag. Who in their right mind would be able to walk out the door leaving their child with this guy?? I would call CPS on my own family member if I found out they were allowing someone that at all resembled this loser babysit for them. Its horrible. What a way to surely ruin your child's life.

    • @kathleenyoung9486
      @kathleenyoung9486 2 місяці тому +1

      It’s unfortunately probably someone getting paid to let this man have time with their children to be honest. F***ing disgusting. If that’s the case, I hope they investigate the mother as well.

  • @dobiacco
    @dobiacco 2 місяці тому +205

    Woodchipper.

  • @Carol-S
    @Carol-S 2 місяці тому +62

    When we correct our words our thinking follows: the victims aren’t “young ladies”, they’re CHILDREN. No grey area here.

    • @GlamourCinderella
      @GlamourCinderella 2 місяці тому +23

      It's part of his strategy to make it sound less serious to have the monsters trust and get more information.

    • @hiddenhand6973
      @hiddenhand6973 26 днів тому

      This guy touched a little boy too and if I’d remember correctly he filmed it

  • @whak2132
    @whak2132 2 місяці тому +127

    glad to see alex getting the exposure he deserves 🎉

  • @lucien4980
    @lucien4980 2 місяці тому +33

    This guy should not be free. There should be a way for people in his community to protest his bail for it to he revoked.

  • @93FilmsandMedia
    @93FilmsandMedia 2 місяці тому +49

    🚨REMINDER: Every time someone looks at CP, that child was violated all over again. If there was no market for it, it wouldn’t exist.

    • @Jsarmy87124
      @Jsarmy87124 2 місяці тому +4

      They create the market humans use even animal 😭

    • @e4m7g6
      @e4m7g6 2 місяці тому

      They think they are safe on the dark web, but the FBI always comes through. It's only a matter of time until they're caught.

    • @KELTECSRCOOL
      @KELTECSRCOOL Місяць тому

      @@93FilmsandMedia thats true and its heartbreaking that even some of our politicians and society members and the wealthy and people overseas partake in that industry its horrible

    • @Playsinthedirt
      @Playsinthedirt Місяць тому +1

      Some??? Try ALL!!😡 ​@@KELTECSRCOOL

  • @tvazquez899
    @tvazquez899 2 місяці тому +114

    Hearing him talk about babysitting those kids is horrifying. 😢 knowing that at least one of those kids has been hurt is devastating. I feel bad for the people who trusted him with a child. No offense but he looks like a text book pred

    • @cathyannis83
      @cathyannis83 2 місяці тому +32

      My stomach dropped when he started talking about the special relationship he has with the 4 year old and how she likes him and they have their own language.

    • @luvmenow33
      @luvmenow33 2 місяці тому

      There’s a channel called women against predators that does the decoy work for a bunch of the poacher groups and they livestream the phone calls with different predators. When you actually listen in real time to these monsters talking to they think is a 12 or 13 year old girl you wanna puke and them take a bat to them: The lies, grooming, manipulation.
      I’m telling you: it’s vile:

    • @Party_Of_Eight
      @Party_Of_Eight 2 місяці тому +11

      Why would you feel bad for the people who trusted him with a child?? Negligent parents are a huge part of why these things keep on happening to innocent children. In this day and age you CANNOT trust people with your children. It’s not a secret

    • @tvazquez899
      @tvazquez899 2 місяці тому +4

      @@cathyannis83 me too! Red flags flying from every direction

    • @JayDubNation83
      @JayDubNation83 2 місяці тому +2

      SAME!!!

  • @ioanamirelaiacoban8547
    @ioanamirelaiacoban8547 Місяць тому +5

    The level of self control this guy has when talking to these....things....is unbelievable! My mad respect for him!

  • @Monnie6677
    @Monnie6677 2 місяці тому +54

    Babysitter????? Who on earth would anyone let this weirdo look after their children???? Really????

    • @e4m7g6
      @e4m7g6 2 місяці тому +4

      Probably desperate parents with drug problems.

    • @kingjoseph5901
      @kingjoseph5901 2 місяці тому +5

      I don't know who trusts baby sitters at all this day in age. With all the info we have on predators I feel that this should be common information.

    • @warwarneverchanges4937
      @warwarneverchanges4937 2 місяці тому +1

      Hes out doing it again

    • @wittle5788
      @wittle5788 Місяць тому

      ​@kingjoseph5901 the sad fact is some ppl have no choice then to use babysitters .

    • @leonardwashington3422
      @leonardwashington3422 Місяць тому

      ​@@wittle5788why not one of the neighborhood teens? Why opt for someone that looks like this guy? Excuses for blatant stupidity

  • @scalpdotink8450
    @scalpdotink8450 2 місяці тому +24

    Thank you for fighting against these crimes!! Save the children 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @a.nhonig3311
    @a.nhonig3311 2 місяці тому +43

    Alex, you are a hero! Thank you for your efforts. There must be a reason so many people have this sick perversion. Mental health resources are imperative.

    • @skibee421
      @skibee421 2 місяці тому

      it's free & in his hand

    • @Beckster1
      @Beckster1 2 місяці тому +10

      This isn’t MENTAL HEALTH. This is EVIL🤦‍♀️

    • @bbe3034
      @bbe3034 2 місяці тому +2

      Gordon Flowers in this video has a UA-cam channel. He’s great catching these sick perverts!!

  • @angelosanti
    @angelosanti 2 місяці тому +22

    He is handling this interview soooo well.

  • @lorenzocorley7516
    @lorenzocorley7516 2 місяці тому +15

    Way to go Alex been watching for years thank you bro! I'm a father with full sole custody ur work means Alot 💯

  • @lavendersaltz
    @lavendersaltz Місяць тому +6

    its understated how genuinely talented Alex is at being able to ease the predators into the conversation. He uses investigative tactics that most people wouldn't really be able to master, especially what we're seeing nowadays with Vitaly and those people who are trying to 'catch predators' also. Didn't like him a while ago but he quickly became one of my favorite UA-camrs; the guy is helping so many communities by getting these guys off the streets.

    • @teepeeX
      @teepeeX Місяць тому

      We make have our favourite catches or dislike one but in the end they are catching these sickos..

  • @ninachkah13
    @ninachkah13 2 місяці тому +10

    I don't think those are crocodile tears. HOWEVER, he's crying for himself out of self-pity and fear. Completely zero thought of those poor children whose lives are being destroyed in the worst way imaginable

  • @misslindsayyy9870
    @misslindsayyy9870 2 місяці тому +123

    Yesss Alex made it on law and crime! Love it!

    • @killyourtv4579
      @killyourtv4579 2 місяці тому

      You mean.. They stole his content.

    • @lucien4980
      @lucien4980 2 місяці тому +3

      Second time

    • @DK-mf8il
      @DK-mf8il 2 місяці тому +2

      I think 3rd or4th

    • @peaceblossom9636
      @peaceblossom9636 2 місяці тому +4

      Actually, “The Disturbing Truth” made it on Law & Crime with this video.

    • @ryancampbell1847
      @ryancampbell1847 2 місяці тому

      ​@@peaceblossom9636and Alex..we all clearly just saw him

  • @ivannovotny4552
    @ivannovotny4552 2 місяці тому +24

    As a child i never imagined that all of the real monsters in the world would be humans.

  • @mattdoliver1984
    @mattdoliver1984 2 місяці тому +35

    Alex is the Man, what really scares he is they say 16 is the legal age and to even think as a grown man they would be cool with meeting a 16 year old is crazy. Maybe its me getting older but I still see people younger than 25 as kids

    • @mattdoliver1984
      @mattdoliver1984 2 місяці тому +3

      @@colonizedgrain4034 I'm 40 and yeah a 25 year old is a kid to me, you're 35 and would get with a 20 year old is just wrong

    • @bune1035
      @bune1035 2 місяці тому

      @colonizedgrain4034 thats because you have a fetish.

    • @BreakerOneNine07
      @BreakerOneNine07 20 днів тому +1

      ​@mattdoliver1984 There is nothing wrong with a 35 year old and 20 year old. They're both grown adults. I've always preferred men and women older than me, but who cares what the gap is, if they're both adults and they like each other?

  • @MrsTruthTeller
    @MrsTruthTeller 2 місяці тому +32

    Hiring a male nanny is just so insane to me. I barely trust most women but I absolutely do not ever trust men.

  • @jamesdante2730
    @jamesdante2730 Місяць тому +4

    “Listen the reason why I’m such a creepo is because of sinus issues, and again, I’m not saying it’s aliens…but it was aliens.”

  • @tealsummers2316
    @tealsummers2316 2 місяці тому +9

    He said the five yr old said something like if I'm naked why aren't you? Yeah right, that guy just admitted there were cams everywhere he took that boy in the bathroom and got naked. It was absolutely pre-meditated and not something that just happened on the whim with the boy saying that. Also, it's disgusting how he is basically shifting the blame to the 5yr old on that.

  • @thegreatbapstby
    @thegreatbapstby 2 місяці тому +7

    I’ve got so much respect for people of work to get these creeps off the streets. The calm, friendly and polite demeanor in the name of getting justice would be so difficult for me. I would probably be the one going to jail if I were in Alex’s position.

  • @dig4087
    @dig4087 2 місяці тому +144

    This turned my stomach. PTSD came rushing back too. These monsters should be locked up!!

    • @toni-leeblair5869
      @toni-leeblair5869 2 місяці тому +24

      Yes.... locked up in a wood chipper! 🤬

    • @werlder
      @werlder 2 місяці тому +13

      Honest question, if you have PTSD from a related event, why do you watch this kind of stuff?

    • @scoutharris2351
      @scoutharris2351 2 місяці тому +5

      @@werlder thats what i was thinking

    • @joemo1033
      @joemo1033 2 місяці тому +3

      NOT LOCKED UP. ENDED VIA WOODCHIPPER.

    • @randomsarcasm2022
      @randomsarcasm2022 2 місяці тому +2

      @@werlder Probably desensitization?

  • @everydaysunset4761
    @everydaysunset4761 17 днів тому +3

    Having men for babysitting is mad craxy to leave ur children with unknown man

  • @sierrarivers7302
    @sierrarivers7302 2 місяці тому +14

    How the duck is there such a high demand for CP???? Like world wide the numbers are unbelievably astounding!

    • @Dwh1960
      @Dwh1960 2 місяці тому +4

      So horrible!

    • @daphnehinds5581
      @daphnehinds5581 2 місяці тому +4

      You can't trust anyone, sadly. You just can't. You want to think they look like this guy or worse but a lot of them look normal.

    • @christinadodd5780
      @christinadodd5780 Місяць тому +1

      I suggest listening to the "Catfish Cops" podcast. Great podcast about two detectives catching online predators. Every parent should listen to it.

    • @duchessofhazjack4878
      @duchessofhazjack4878 Місяць тому +1

      Because the world is evil. It's run by evil. Evil feeds off this stuff. That's the world we live in.

    • @teepeeX
      @teepeeX Місяць тому +1

      Over 750,000 registered

  • @penapple05
    @penapple05 2 місяці тому +13

    I feel like I’m sitting in the backseat of this conversation and I’m not supposed to be here. Typically, I do well watching these types of videos by yelling at the screen. I don’t feel like I’m watching through the screen as he goes into slight detail. I feel sick, uneasy, thinking about what he’s describing. And how easy access it is, being on FB.

  • @adhdslay
    @adhdslay 2 місяці тому +37

    De@th pen@lty

  • @ShadowVisionsParanormal
    @ShadowVisionsParanormal 2 місяці тому +36

    With 1500 pics you can't tell me Stephan Sterns wasn't part of this when he was using telegram.

    • @ivelearnedalot8354
      @ivelearnedalot8354 2 місяці тому +15

      Stearns is the worst of the worst

    • @ShadowVisionsParanormal
      @ShadowVisionsParanormal 2 місяці тому

      @@ivelearnedalot8354 he makes me literally physically ill 🤢🤮

    • @AuntLALA
      @AuntLALA 2 місяці тому +6

      I heard telegram and immediately thought of him. I had never heard of it until that case. I hope FBI makes the connection. The undertaking of catching them seems to be an impossible feat 😢

    • @sharonjoke722
      @sharonjoke722 Місяць тому

      Omg who's that??

  • @andisboljat7801
    @andisboljat7801 Місяць тому +2

    I am so glad I don’t have random strangers attempting to dump copious amounts of CP on me.

  • @Beckster1
    @Beckster1 2 місяці тому +23

    This demon has sooo many live victims 🤬

  • @ryanlangley1219
    @ryanlangley1219 2 місяці тому +63

    Gordon Flowers/Alex Rosen is the GOAT

    • @Disgraced_Primus
      @Disgraced_Primus 2 місяці тому +3

      Yes!!!

    • @e4m7g6
      @e4m7g6 2 місяці тому +3

      🐐

    • @PeriodicT
      @PeriodicT 2 місяці тому +1

      not really

    • @ryanlangley1219
      @ryanlangley1219 2 місяці тому +2

      @@PeriodicT his politics suck but he is definitely the best pred catcher

    • @PeriodicT
      @PeriodicT 2 місяці тому

      @@ryanlangley1219 he sucks as a person too

  • @dns19966
    @dns19966 2 місяці тому +27

    I wouldn’t let a man “babysit” my children. Sounds like a terrible idea.

    • @misanthrophex
      @misanthrophex 2 місяці тому

      Trust me, there are men who your children would be safer with than with any woman. Like me. I actually was thinking to maybe start working with children, because I'm tired of seeing all these monsters doing all these horrible things. An actual man can't have any s*xual attraction to kids, trust me, only man-children do this, they are people who look like men on the outside, but on the inside there's not a man, there's something else.
      I can't imagine seeing a child and feeling the same emotions I feel when I am with a woman. Honestly makes my stomach turn...
      It's a tiny minority of men who are these freaks though. Most men are absolutely safe around kids, but you need to be vigilant and perceptive.
      The agenda has brainwashed you into thinking that all men are horrible. It's not true.
      You don't have a brother or father? You wouldn't trust them with your children?

    • @cavemanmeat8321
      @cavemanmeat8321 2 місяці тому

      So this is a gender thing now?

    • @dns19966
      @dns19966 2 місяці тому +6

      @@cavemanmeat8321 Yup. And don’t give me yap about “wOmEn dO iT tOo” bc yes, they do, but far less often than men. I also have the luxury of not needing a baby sitter, but if I needed one, I wouldn’t allow a man to baby sit my child.

  • @houseadams4841
    @houseadams4841 2 місяці тому +19

    Is a grown man bragging about making money baby sitting supposed to be some type of flex or something..??

    • @HappyLeigh
      @HappyLeigh 2 місяці тому +5

      This isn't the average grown man in case you didn't notice. He's a monster who gets off on hurting innocent children so yeah, for his kind it would be a "flex." A nanny is someone that is entrusted to care for children in the place of a parent which would mean free reign for these monsters to do as they wish.

  • @Jenny-nz8fb
    @Jenny-nz8fb 2 місяці тому +40

    Apologies to the decent men but I would NEVER let my children be babysat by a professional male baby sitter. Even at the nursery I would not let men change my kids or toilet them. Parents don’t seem to understand how common these creepy weirdos are!!

    • @ryancampbell1847
      @ryancampbell1847 2 місяці тому +11

      Watch the news women teachers are getting caught for this almost every week...

    • @vFrosty2K
      @vFrosty2K 2 місяці тому

      ⁠​⁠@@ryancampbell1847men are a lot worse let’s honest with ourselves, it’s sad it happens either way though

    • @angelabraun4055
      @angelabraun4055 2 місяці тому

      I agree 100%

    • @Chubsyboo
      @Chubsyboo 2 місяці тому +4

      It’s so sad, I’ve seen male coworkers get accused of inappropriate behavior when us female staff are WAY more affectionate with the kids. I had a coworker get in trouble and accused because he was a 7 year old sped child’s favorite staff so she always wanted to hold his hand walking to recess and lunch. Never mind that us female staff snuggled, tickled, and dressed/undressed that same child. Discrimination is gross and unfair.

    • @angelgonzalez7348
      @angelgonzalez7348 2 місяці тому +2

      @Jenny-nz8fb I agree to an extent, but you don't think women are capable of this sort of thing either? With countless news stories over the last few years of teachers, babysitters that are mostly female?

  • @lucypavett6173
    @lucypavett6173 2 місяці тому +51

    Younger ladies under 18 are called children

    • @leonardwashington3422
      @leonardwashington3422 2 місяці тому +5

      Pretty sure 13-17 y/o are known as teens. Children is 6-12 and toddlers are 1-5.

    • @laurenmiller9517
      @laurenmiller9517 2 місяці тому +9

      You do realize why he's talking like that right?

    • @lucypavett6173
      @lucypavett6173 2 місяці тому +1

      @@laurenmiller9517 does it matter?

    • @lucypavett6173
      @lucypavett6173 2 місяці тому

      @@leonardwashington3422 thanks

    • @AlexKenas
      @AlexKenas 2 місяці тому +5

      @@leonardwashington3422 Legally anyone under 18 years of age is a child.

  • @ericreed2064
    @ericreed2064 2 місяці тому +21

    I am convinced, that the majority of pedophiles are very socially underdeveloped men who are unsuccessful with their peers. I think it's why pedophiles tend to stick out, for me. Like, I have a coworker who is really into anime, likes the show Euphoria which I could not stomach after just one episode, and there are other weird things too... like I never hear him talk about women when others do and he is pretty immature, childish. All of these things together and I can't look at him without thinking he is a creep.

    • @elishh8173
      @elishh8173 2 місяці тому +3

      Intuition about people usually is always right..

    • @ericreed2064
      @ericreed2064 Місяць тому

      @@elishh8173 every once in a great while mine is proven wrong. I like to be proven wrong because I lean pessimistic.

  • @GlowG0ddess443
    @GlowG0ddess443 2 місяці тому +10

    These people are NEVER sorry and they WILL keep offending

  • @Annakaydyct
    @Annakaydyct 2 місяці тому +17

    This is exactly why i had to remain a stay at home mom. Im terrified of letting anyone babysit

    • @patty.cakes.
      @patty.cakes. 2 місяці тому +3

      Ditto

    • @sharonjoke722
      @sharonjoke722 Місяць тому

      Remember just how lucky you are. Not every woman is that lucky.

  • @stephanieadams4281
    @stephanieadams4281 2 місяці тому +34

    It’s disgusting he is trying to play the victim! You have possession of CP you are just as guilty! This guy needs to be locked away!

  • @Beckster1
    @Beckster1 2 місяці тому +111

    Alex is the master interrogator

    • @mvs7779
      @mvs7779 2 місяці тому +7

      Interrogations is for the police department. Not individuals that just want a UA-cam channel.

    • @meganbowen1217
      @meganbowen1217 2 місяці тому +25

      I think the point is he has excellent interrogation tactics...

    • @StashHouse56
      @StashHouse56 2 місяці тому +13

      @@mvs7779lol licking the leather eh?

    • @seamus8x2
      @seamus8x2 2 місяці тому +14

      ​@@mvs7779that's funny. The definition doesn't mention it solely being for law enforcement.

    • @chloexelyse
      @chloexelyse 2 місяці тому

      No.

  • @thaathehunchbackfartingout4156
    @thaathehunchbackfartingout4156 2 місяці тому +15

    Alex is very professional and gets convictions

  • @franny607
    @franny607 2 місяці тому +31

    Wow in what kind off world do we live in that predators (at the ages off toddlers) gets a bond off 150000 dollars and let loose in society. 😮 Thanks for showing as horrible this is😢

  • @fangsoup1321
    @fangsoup1321 2 місяці тому +7

    Thanks for the exposure! I hope everyone sees this guys face

  • @jessicathomas73
    @jessicathomas73 2 місяці тому +12

    I had to skip through a lot of this because it was completely horrendous. I just couldn't bare to hear it. The interrogater did an excellent job.

  • @darkheartsartccollective
    @darkheartsartccollective 2 місяці тому +22

    Gordon is doing a public service!

  • @paddymcdoogle4025
    @paddymcdoogle4025 2 місяці тому +52

    Do not hire any male babysitter, isn’t it obvious?

    • @e4m7g6
      @e4m7g6 2 місяці тому +19

      Any male even interested in babysitting is a red flag.

    • @domone1201
      @domone1201 2 місяці тому +16

      Nowadays you have to worry about the females too. SMH

    • @googleuser2480
      @googleuser2480 2 місяці тому +7

      As a female, I agree but.. have you watched the news lately? 99% of female teachers are praying on children now.

    • @SymoneLopez
      @SymoneLopez 2 місяці тому

      ​@@googleuser2480as someone who was molested by a female, I still have to be honest about statistics. Over 98% of predators are male and the females who are predators are usually accompanied by men. I have children myself so I am watchful of both but I noticed I have more weird encounters with males than women concerning my kids.

    • @tradingcomparisons6591
      @tradingcomparisons6591 2 місяці тому +4

      Right! I’m a guy and there is no way I’m having a dude babysit

  • @samchic84
    @samchic84 Місяць тому +5

    Fun fact: they just arrested the owner of "Telegram" in France for this very reason.

    • @redacted_vombat5742
      @redacted_vombat5742 8 днів тому

      Seriously is there anything positive about telegram or any secret encrypted app?

  • @Stuff_I_Watch
    @Stuff_I_Watch 2 місяці тому +4

    This is so disturbing. ANYONE carrying or engaging with CP should automatically go on the S*x Offenders List - this list should be a GLOBAL database so that they can’t outrun their crimes & every parent has the right to know where they are.

  • @tjtruth4793
    @tjtruth4793 2 місяці тому +10

    Fbi: hides Epstein client list for years.
    Also fbi: “we’ll do everything in our power.”

    • @AzaanAshraf-e9s
      @AzaanAshraf-e9s Місяць тому

      That's the thing. Epstein is above their power

    • @tjtruth4793
      @tjtruth4793 Місяць тому

      @@AzaanAshraf-e9s if they weren’t a corrupt and captured organization, no one would be above their level. Just the mere fact that someone is “above their level” shows that it’s not about solving crimes or keeping society safe, its an enforcement arm of the politically elite. Just like the Stazi or brownshirts. That’s what I want people to realize. Our govt is no better them. The masses need to stop living in their facade that our govt represents light and freedom and “democracy” around the world and realize that our govt is on par or even worse than all of the people they point their finger at and scream “bad guy, bomb him.”

  • @Messica503
    @Messica503 2 місяці тому +4

    I don't understand... If CP is sooooo easy to access, why aren't there more law enforcement agencies trying to bust these people??

  • @XRPXLM
    @XRPXLM Місяць тому +2

    Dude is literally the last baby sitter I would hire 😂😂😂

  • @KC86862
    @KC86862 2 місяці тому +5

    He doesn’t struggle to remember the name. He doesn’t want to disclose it.

  • @PlannersByKat
    @PlannersByKat 2 місяці тому +18

    I don't understand why people talk to him as if they have to. There's no way everyone talks and admits doing illegal stuff (unless they have a conscious and are ready to go to jail). Curious about how many say, "No, thank you."

    • @WorthlessUselessLifelessDead
      @WorthlessUselessLifelessDead 2 місяці тому

      I have only seen like a handful go off and deny interrogation, but that was on other channels with inexperienced catchers who get the perpetrators in fight or flight mode, by making it feel like an interrogation. The key is to come off as friendly and nonchalant as possible to bring down their guard, and most of the ones I have seen, all divulge.

    • @dankmycology2568
      @dankmycology2568 2 місяці тому +13

      Alex never says he’s going to get the cops involved if they don’t talk, but he implies it. He always gets the cops involved anyway, but it usually works to get these guys talking.

    • @Beckster1
      @Beckster1 2 місяці тому +16

      Alex uses a law enforcement technique called the Reid Technique. It’s a real thing and Alex is brilliant at it.

    • @dabs501
      @dabs501 2 місяці тому +4

      they almost always talk, usually its a family member or a coworker that butts in and tells them not to talk.

    • @AdamOBrien29
      @AdamOBrien29 2 місяці тому +1

      That's part of the genius of his work

  • @jessicapoblete7638
    @jessicapoblete7638 2 місяці тому +5

    Alex is the best. Been proud to be a supporter for a few years! He just doesn't stop!

  • @jrose_xo
    @jrose_xo 2 місяці тому +9

    i stopped at male babysitter. didn't need to even look at him

  • @sierrarivers7302
    @sierrarivers7302 2 місяці тому +7

    I wanna know, what effing mother looks at that dude and thinks it’s ok to leave their child with him. Jeezus! Heterosexual men arnt interested in babysitting

  • @harlansklia
    @harlansklia 2 місяці тому +31

    I dont know how or why I subject myself to these videos

    • @Beckster1
      @Beckster1 2 місяці тому +9

      I watch because I know there will be an arrest and Bubba will be waiting. That’s what gets me through them. Chomos don’t normally fare well in prison

  • @Goodtide
    @Goodtide 2 місяці тому +4

    So thankful for Alex Rosen & his team.

  • @jackchop1576
    @jackchop1576 2 місяці тому +21

    I mean, the guy looks the part.

  • @cristymm.
    @cristymm. 2 місяці тому +3

    Im a loyal PP subsriber since 2022 , these guys have done more than LE ! they deserve ALL the glory and support

  • @marleysoueu
    @marleysoueu 2 місяці тому +6

    I know the show is called "The Disturbing Truth" but I did not anticipate being this much disturbed.... and he is free? omg...

    • @keithymg
      @keithymg 2 місяці тому +1

      I watched it live, He was arrested but dont think hes been sentenced yet. It was just before Xmas when this happened.

    • @marleysoueu
      @marleysoueu 2 місяці тому +2

      @@keithymg mm I see... I said it because in the video, the guy said he left on bail and is free waiting his trial. Maybe I got it wrong, I don't know

  • @sev29
    @sev29 2 місяці тому +6

    The term is not younger ladies, they are teenage children..Minors...

    • @teepeeX
      @teepeeX Місяць тому +1

      This is Alex tactic before he says minors

  • @confidentminaj
    @confidentminaj 2 місяці тому +7

    One of my fav UA-cam channels I didn’t even have to see his face just his stance 😂hands on hips 😂

  • @jennyatherton3820
    @jennyatherton3820 2 місяці тому +18

    This made my skin crawl so bad, omg the poor kids 😢😢 💔

  • @Lol_Pig
    @Lol_Pig Місяць тому +2

    Alex deserves the Medal of Freedom for his work

  • @tammymorrowadvocate
    @tammymorrowadvocate 2 місяці тому +4

    I had a real problem with the fact that the images weren't discussed from the perspective of finding out who those children were and tracking them down ! Turn the dude in and get on the real case ! Where are these kids !

  • @tn2717
    @tn2717 2 місяці тому +16

    How are there not laws in every state for grooming children?
    These ppl are despicable.

    • @sharonjoke722
      @sharonjoke722 Місяць тому

      Exactly. Grooming is disgusting 🤢 😢

  • @YahBoiiTroy
    @YahBoiiTroy 2 місяці тому +11

    Subscribing to his locals page is worth more than most streaming services(excluding prime and MAX) combined. Gordon Flowers is an American hero. Ignore some the politics and some of the tasteless humor, Alex makes them all crack. His ability to adapt and change his approach on the fly to get the same results almost every time is miraculous. These cretins get exposed and incriminated.

    • @karliann1
      @karliann1 2 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely. I first discovered PP a little bit before this catch. Been subbed to their locals ever since ❤

    • @LDrosophila
      @LDrosophila 2 місяці тому

      Except paying supporters he treats us like dirt if we don't agree with his politics

    • @teepeeX
      @teepeeX Місяць тому

      Absolutely

  • @judybaackebrewer61
    @judybaackebrewer61 2 місяці тому +20

    Thank you for trying to help and thank Alex for me these predictors are disgusting

  • @lisaferguson4266
    @lisaferguson4266 2 місяці тому +3

    Alex is so amazing at what he does. His patience is unlike any other. 💜💜💜

  • @Cryptidmama424
    @Cryptidmama424 2 місяці тому +4

    The description of everything he’s seen made my nauseous. People like this can’t be fixed

  • @monarchfilmspx0955
    @monarchfilmspx0955 2 місяці тому +4

    I see a whole lot of hope from this ... I have been a fan of Alex for a while and he wasn't the first...but I think he has started a bigger movement. I see a lot of pred catcher groups and channels popping up. Tons of videos being shared around. This is changing the world...people are being educated to what preds want and their tactics... They are seeing how many of them exist and how they come in all shapes and sizes. People are finding the courage to speak up. Children are being kept from harm. People like Alex take a lot of legal risk to do this. I'm sure the amount of children saved from and prevented from harm is astronomical due to Alex and this movement. ❤

  • @bossrodrigues5173
    @bossrodrigues5173 2 місяці тому +3

    This is why i keep my child so damn close to me. As a mother who experienced SA as a child I am over cautious as to who I allow near my child. Needless to say, sometimes you just don't know a person.