I love when you mentioned being against speaking badly about your husband. This is something I've thought about, I will never marry a man whose friends disrespect women (men who make jokes about women staying in the kitchen etc). I also wont have friends who do that with their husbands.I want a mature man who keeps our problems between us unless we get a marriage counselor where we have a safe place to share our relationship problems.
I was raised going to church and was a believer up until high school when I fell away. My husband and I got married and we had a secular wedding. Over the last year I have come back to Jesus, we also have a 4yo son. I pray for my husband every day that he would open his heart to Truth. And I tell him about the word almost daily. We still have a great relationship but it has made things awkward now that we have different worldviews (when it comes to spirituality/religion). But I keep thinking of 1 Corinthians 13-16 which says to stay with your non-believing spouse so that they will be made righteous through you, and our child too. I am glad that he has been open-minded and hasn't shunned me or lashed out in any way. And we still have a great relationship regardless of our religious views.
I’m in a very similar boat as you. I was a very “distant” believer I guess you could say until the age of 27 when I was born again. And by that time I already was married and had 3 kids. My husband has never shunned me for it but he definitely isn’t on the same page. We go to church (sometimes which I need to be better about) and he will read the Bible and pray with me when I ask him to. We have a great relationship now as well but having Jesus in the center of it (with both of us consciously trying for that) would bring everything to a different level with our relationship and our family I believe.
This was so good ✨🙏🏽 I’m single but desire to be married and one aspect was submitting… I actually look forward to that. I’ve always had to make decisions and figure everything out so I look forward to having a covering and my future husband being the leader and main decision maker. Another aspect I need to work on is praying for my future husband, whom I haven’t confirmed…so sometimes it’s hard because you don’t know the person yet…It’s a huge responsibility and as his future helpmeet, I pray the Lord develops me more. 🙏🏽
Same here! I have been into new age, was deceived, thought I am the one who can fix it all, had a lot of homosexual fantasies…until I was saved and now I feel so ready to meet my husband in Christ 🙏🏼
@@TheSonOfGodWorshipsTheFatherif she has self respect, she’ll tell him “I am not your pet and I will not be spoken to like one.” She can be the example and not raise her voice, be firm but not rude.
Regarding the last point: is your husband really loving you if he always asks you to do something he knows you hate? I want to travel the world, but my husband HATES flying on planes. I don’t think I would be loving him well if I asked him to get over that and do it anyway because I find travel enjoyable. Instead, I find driveable trips for us and travel with friends. I would only ask him to fly on a plane if there’s a REAL emergency: if my mom who lives out state gets ill or passes or something like that. I don’t think it’s loving your spouse well to ask for something you know they hate. I think it’s selfish.
I love this! I appreciate it so much. I really need to start praying for my husband more. I totally am starting to see how it really affects him and our marriage in real time
Thank you so much for this video! I just got married and immediately sought out to find a video like this. I prayed that I would watch the right one and I definitely did. You have no idea how much impact this video can have on people’s lives. I know my marriage will be better off thanks to you (: God bless you!
I definitely needed to hear this message right now. My husband is Canadian, I’m American. I moved to Canada for him, lived there for 5 years, but was ready to be w/ my family in Florida. The obsessive lockdowns for two years and the vaccine passport stuff heightened my emotions. I told him I wanted to leave immediately, and go back home. He expressed that he was not comfortable w/ moving at all. I told him that I was moving to Florida, whether he was coming w/ me or not. So he moved here against his will and I’m paying the price for it. We’ve been fighting so much. (We almost never fight) Ever since our first month here, he’s been saying we need to go back. I thought it was just because he isn’t working. I kept reminding him that it may take a few months or a year, but he will get his work permit. But recently he told me that even when he gets his work permit, he will still not like living here. That’s when I realized I haven’t been listening to him at all. We had a real discussion about what are plans are if we stay here, or what are plans are if we move back to Ontario. It’s just hard because I’m so close w/ my family, and my in-laws are very uninvolved in my husband’s life. So as beautiful as Canada is, I felt like I had no community there. Been praying to God to just lead us wherever we are meant to be at this point.
I’m 3 minutes into your video and this is speaking to my heart so much! I’ve been married for over a decade & love your message 💗 God’s blessings from North Pole Alaska ☀️
So true. I have been married for almost 3 years. Lessons learned in the process of satisfaction. Sometimes it is very hard but it is possible with Gods help ! And as time goes by and we keep surrounding to God it gets easier and more joyful and natural. God bless you sister ❤
I am now engaged 💍 ☺️ loved hearing your pov ❤️ so excited to become a Wife. My Fiance is the chef of the house. I can only cook basic things he knows this. I like to help out from time to time.
I feel so inspired to have a husbund to apply these incredible tips 🥺🥺🥺🥺 . As you talk I can sense how you are a wife who glorifies God and honors your husband. God bless you, thanks for the video ❤️❤️❤️ 🇧🇷
We complete each other and make a whole unit. Like yin & yang. We dovetailed with each other in our strengths and weaknesses to create a strong partnership capable of supporting each other through all of life's trials. ❤
Wonderful, videos like these help remind me of how to be a Godly wife serving my husband when it's time, I'm still single and don't spend alot of time focused on preparing for a husband but these help me and remind me of the key to a good relationship
@@enoch3874 thanks for all this, it's very long ☺️ I appreciate your efforts, I'm sure it will definitely help many people if you keep going, Well done✅
I wasn't going to read it all because it's seems so long and I'm aware of the trinity and that Jesus is Lord but I did, and it's so great that you have memorized scripture be sure you apply them though, your awesome
Loved this video so much! So many amazing and great tips! You should definitely start a series on this if you can, I think it will definitely help those of us who not only are in relationships and marriages but even in singleness.💗
Aww, friend! You moved again! Bless your heart! Moving while being pregnant doesn’t sound easy.❤️ Being a wife & mother is my dream! Prayerful for it! Thanks for this video! :)
Nothing in this video was groundbreaking like you said, but at the same time they ARE groundbreaking if you actually implement then! I’m hoping to be engaged by the end of the year, so all of these things were great reminders on how I can practice being a wife now. Because I won’t magically the be the wife I want to be the second I get married!
Hi Nastasia!! Have you ever read of the book love and respect by Emerson eggerichs? If not, it’s an amazing Christian read that has the best message!! Basically as women we need love the most, and men need respect the most. And the author shows the biblical basis for this. I’m reading in pre-marital counseling and our pastor had us read this. We are getting married this Saturday!!! Thank you for the timeliness of the video 💗
Would you be interested in making a whole video dedicated to submitting to your husband from a biblical standpoint? That’s something that I’m interested in learning more about.
Good luck! It’s mostly fundamentalist religious belief systems that pressure women to follow rules like this. And those same belief systems also lay many obligations and restrictions upon MEN. So you’re not likely to find such a woman who will marry you unless you join, and practice, that kind of religion. Then you can find a woman of the same religion.
My husband and I just celebrated our 2nd wedding anniversary on May 23rd. I love and respect my husband, but he is backsliding. I know he knows the Lord, but he isn’t where he needs to be with God. It’s not like it was when we first got married, or when we were dating. I am trying to be the best godly wife I can be. I pray for him daily, and I don’t want Satan to destroy my marriage. I want Jesus to be at the center. I know that the Lord will reward me for following what the Bible says.
Hi Bethany! I would encourage you to shift your focus off what you perceive to be your husbands shortcomings & onto yourself and your own walk with the Lord. It’s really easy for us to point out the shortcomings in our husbands but oftentimes we do this (either knowingly or unknowingly) to avoid looking at our own faults.
Single women spend more TIME with God, so why aren’t YOU taking notes from them instead of dishing them out. What makes YOU the example. Because wives think THEY are the wise ones, but they’re too BUSY having sex and a showing off to serve as much as single women. Then they want to pity single women are belittle their feelings saying ‘you GET 🙄 to SpEnD MoRe tiMe wiTh God’ - well then TREAT them like that
Basically ANOTHER married woman showing off about her life pretending that she has the authority to LECTURE single women. Leave single women ALONE - you don’t KNOW if they will EVER get married. You’re just giving false hope so you can lecture and feel wise and talk about YOUR privilege.
video starts at 4:45
Thank you so much, God bless!
As a single Christian girl I enjoy watching ,so much wisdom
I love when you mentioned being against speaking badly about your husband. This is something I've thought about, I will never marry a man whose friends disrespect women (men who make jokes about women staying in the kitchen etc). I also wont have friends who do that with their husbands.I want a mature man who keeps our problems between us unless we get a marriage counselor where we have a safe place to share our relationship problems.
I was raised going to church and was a believer up until high school when I fell away. My husband and I got married and we had a secular wedding. Over the last year I have come back to Jesus, we also have a 4yo son. I pray for my husband every day that he would open his heart to Truth. And I tell him about the word almost daily. We still have a great relationship but it has made things awkward now that we have different worldviews (when it comes to spirituality/religion). But I keep thinking of 1 Corinthians 13-16 which says to stay with your non-believing spouse so that they will be made righteous through you, and our child too. I am glad that he has been open-minded and hasn't shunned me or lashed out in any way. And we still have a great relationship regardless of our religious views.
I’m in a very similar boat as you. I was a very “distant” believer I guess you could say until the age of 27 when I was born again. And by that time I already was married and had 3 kids. My husband has never shunned me for it but he definitely isn’t on the same page. We go to church (sometimes which I need to be better about) and he will read the Bible and pray with me when I ask him to. We have a great relationship now as well but having Jesus in the center of it (with both of us consciously trying for that) would bring everything to a different level with our relationship and our family I believe.
Beautiful to read this
Your faithfulness to your husband and the Lord is beautiful. I will be praying over your situation!! ❤️
I'm the same way! My husband is a non believer but supports my faith. I pray for him daily in hopes he'll come to Jesus.
This was so good ✨🙏🏽 I’m single but desire to be married and one aspect was submitting… I actually look forward to that. I’ve always had to make decisions and figure everything out so I look forward to having a covering and my future husband being the leader and main decision maker. Another aspect I need to work on is praying for my future husband, whom I haven’t confirmed…so sometimes it’s hard because you don’t know the person yet…It’s a huge responsibility and as his future helpmeet, I pray the Lord develops me more. 🙏🏽
If he's making GODLY choices submission is easy. A woman never has to submit to wickedness or.choices that would cause her harm
this comment was so cute, God bless you canela
Same here! I have been into new age, was deceived, thought I am the one who can fix it all, had a lot of homosexual fantasies…until I was saved and now I feel so ready to meet my husband in Christ 🙏🏼
What if the husband points at the ground and tells the wife, "Sit."?
@@TheSonOfGodWorshipsTheFatherif she has self respect, she’ll tell him “I am not your pet and I will not be spoken to like one.” She can be the example and not raise her voice, be firm but not rude.
Regarding the last point: is your husband really loving you if he always asks you to do something he knows you hate? I want to travel the world, but my husband HATES flying on planes. I don’t think I would be loving him well if I asked him to get over that and do it anyway because I find travel enjoyable. Instead, I find driveable trips for us and travel with friends. I would only ask him to fly on a plane if there’s a REAL emergency: if my mom who lives out state gets ill or passes or something like that. I don’t think it’s loving your spouse well to ask for something you know they hate. I think it’s selfish.
I love this! I appreciate it so much. I really need to start praying for my husband more. I totally am starting to see how it really affects him and our marriage in real time
Yes yes yes! Agree with all of this. Ive been married 7 years. God really speaks through you
awwww thank you!!!
I love Lindsey’s podcast. She actually was friends with my husband when they were in school.
Thank you so much for this video! I just got married and immediately sought out to find a video like this. I prayed that I would watch the right one and I definitely did. You have no idea how much impact this video can have on people’s lives. I know my marriage will be better off thanks to you (: God bless you!
I definitely needed to hear this message right now. My husband is Canadian, I’m American. I moved to Canada for him, lived there for 5 years, but was ready to be w/ my family in Florida. The obsessive lockdowns for two years and the vaccine passport stuff heightened my emotions. I told him I wanted to leave immediately, and go back home. He expressed that he was not comfortable w/ moving at all. I told him that I was moving to Florida, whether he was coming w/ me or not. So he moved here against his will and I’m paying the price for it.
We’ve been fighting so much. (We almost never fight) Ever since our first month here, he’s been saying we need to go back. I thought it was just because he isn’t working. I kept reminding him that it may take a few months or a year, but he will get his work permit. But recently he told me that even when he gets his work permit, he will still not like living here.
That’s when I realized I haven’t been listening to him at all. We had a real discussion about what are plans are if we stay here, or what are plans are if we move back to Ontario.
It’s just hard because I’m so close w/ my family, and my in-laws are very uninvolved in my husband’s life. So as beautiful as Canada is, I felt like I had no community there.
Been praying to God to just lead us wherever we are meant to be at this point.
I’m 3 minutes into your video and this is speaking to my heart so much! I’ve been married for over a decade & love your message 💗 God’s blessings from North Pole Alaska ☀️
So true. I have been married for almost 3 years. Lessons learned in the process of satisfaction. Sometimes it is very hard but it is possible with Gods help ! And as time goes by and we keep surrounding to God it gets easier and more joyful and natural.
God bless you sister ❤
I am now engaged 💍 ☺️ loved hearing your pov ❤️ so excited to become a Wife. My Fiance is the chef of the house. I can only cook basic things he knows this. I like to help out from time to time.
I feel so inspired to have a husbund to apply these incredible tips 🥺🥺🥺🥺 . As you talk I can sense how you are a wife who glorifies God and honors your husband. God bless you, thanks for the video ❤️❤️❤️ 🇧🇷
just like to say thankyou for even making a video about being a Christian wife this world needs women like you 💯
We complete each other and make a whole unit. Like yin & yang. We dovetailed with each other in our strengths and weaknesses to create a strong partnership capable of supporting each other through all of life's trials. ❤
Thank you I receive your tips.
Thank you. I’m getting married august 25!
Reeallly helpful !! 🙏
Wonderful, videos like these help remind me of how to be a Godly wife serving my husband when it's time, I'm still single and don't spend alot of time focused on preparing for a husband but these help me and remind me of the key to a good relationship
@@enoch3874 thanks for all this, it's very long ☺️ I appreciate your efforts, I'm sure it will definitely help many people if you keep going,
Well done✅
I wasn't going to read it all because it's seems so long and I'm aware of the trinity and that Jesus is Lord but I did, and it's so great that you have memorized scripture be sure you apply them though, your awesome
Great topic! My 5 year wedding anniversary is next week! Great timing to reset and refocus on my marriage. ❤️ I appreciate the new resource!
love this video!! i'd love it if you made this into a series!
will do, thank you!!!!
Tips start at 4:38
Thank you for this 🙌🏼🙏🏼 I really love everything you said! I appreciate the examples given also! This helped me.
I adore you, Nastasia! Great video. I have been married a few years and I would like to share a few tips with you hun.
Loved this video so much! So many amazing and great tips! You should definitely start a series on this if you can, I think it will definitely help those of us who not only are in relationships and marriages but even in singleness.💗
This was so helpful, thank you for your practical examples :)
I was just praying to God on how I can be a better Christian wife for in the future! ❤ thank u for this
Aww, friend! You moved again! Bless your heart! Moving while being pregnant doesn’t sound easy.❤️
Being a wife & mother is my dream! Prayerful for it! Thanks for this video! :)
haha it definitely wasn't the plan we had in mind but GOD had it in mind so all is good haha!!!
Amen! So glad He’s got the plans for us figured out and not us trying to run around like chickens without heads! 🐔 😂
Hmmm
solid advice. thank you sweet sister! 🙏
Beautifully summarized Nastasia, thanks so much for sharing!
Great video content! Thank you so much!
Also love your Biblical approach to being a wife, it's not too popular but it's the way sister. You're an encouragement 🤗
this is beautiful advice 🎉❤ Jesus loves you
Thank you so much for this advise! Definitely something I needed to hear! God bless you!
Great advice. Thanks for sharing 😇!
thank you for this!
Love this thank you
I’m engaged and I feel like I’m on a time crunch. I know I won’t be perfect, but part of me is afraid I won’t be a good godly wife. 😢
Praying for you girl the lord is your leader so not be afraid ❤
Great idea lady ..
Nothing in this video was groundbreaking like you said, but at the same time they ARE groundbreaking if you actually implement then! I’m hoping to be engaged by the end of the year, so all of these things were great reminders on how I can practice being a wife now. Because I won’t magically the be the wife I want to be the second I get married!
Thank you so much for this advices. It’s gold, I need more of these videos
How can I pray for my partner selflessly?
This was so good!!
thank you so much!!
Hi Nastasia!! Have you ever read of the book love and respect by Emerson eggerichs? If not, it’s an amazing Christian read that has the best message!! Basically as women we need love the most, and men need respect the most. And the author shows the biblical basis for this. I’m reading in pre-marital counseling and our pastor had us read this. We are getting married this Saturday!!! Thank you for the timeliness of the video 💗
Does your husband do stuff like the husband project? Does he try to become a biblical husband?
Submit to your husband, means to be his assistant not his slave
Would you be interested in making a whole video dedicated to submitting to your husband from a biblical standpoint? That’s something that I’m interested in learning more about.
This is lovely ☺️ Thank you 🙏
are these qualities I should seek for in a woman as a non-religious man?
Good luck! It’s mostly fundamentalist religious belief systems that pressure women to follow rules like this. And those same belief systems also lay many obligations and restrictions upon MEN. So you’re not likely to find such a woman who will marry you unless you join, and practice, that kind of religion. Then you can find a woman of the same religion.
My husband and I just celebrated our 2nd wedding anniversary on May 23rd. I love and respect my husband, but he is backsliding. I know he knows the Lord, but he isn’t where he needs to be with God. It’s not like it was when we first got married, or when we were dating.
I am trying to be the best godly wife I can be. I pray for him daily, and I don’t want Satan to destroy my marriage. I want Jesus to be at the center. I know that the Lord will reward me for following what the Bible says.
Hi Bethany! I would encourage you to shift your focus off what you perceive to be your husbands shortcomings & onto yourself and your own walk with the Lord. It’s really easy for us to point out the shortcomings in our husbands but oftentimes we do this (either knowingly or unknowingly) to avoid looking at our own faults.
such a good video!!!!
thank you!!
Single women spend more TIME with God, so why aren’t YOU taking notes from them instead of dishing them out.
What makes YOU the example. Because wives think THEY are the wise ones, but they’re too BUSY having sex and a showing off to serve as much as single women. Then they want to pity single women are belittle their feelings saying ‘you GET 🙄 to SpEnD MoRe tiMe wiTh God’ - well then TREAT them like that
Who is the head of the wife?
i have trouble reading the bible everyday... how do you decide what to read each day?
You're a darling
i’m Kurdish what do you mean by submitting to my husband? Huh?? 🧐 never heard of that before
As a Godly man who Loves Jesus and is studying for ministry... why can't I find a good Godly lady? Lol
This same question,many young ladies are also having a hard time finding a godly husband
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lmao why was this recommended to me
I'm thirsty to content like that 😌 😋 pleaaase do more and more 💗💗💗
Basically ANOTHER married woman showing off about her life pretending that she has the authority to LECTURE single women.
Leave single women ALONE - you don’t KNOW if they will EVER get married. You’re just giving false hope so you can lecture and feel wise and talk about YOUR privilege.
Of course we want more videos like this🫂
😘😘😘