I can understand full well why God hasn't given her her second healing yet. This place she is in is so overwhelmingly fragrant. It is edifying to those of us who are in this place and need to hear something like this in a world that just doesn't talk like this. This season she describes in her life is one of the most beautiful things I've ever heard and has helped me so much. I NEEDED THIS SO MUCH. I think God is just letting this rare perfume develop so she can pour it out on all of us. When he's done with this precious season, she'll be healed.
When she started crying I bursted into tears because of my current season.. God is teaching me to not beat myself up when I'm not okay. It's okay to not be okay sometimes .
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This message is setting my free in a new way! I listened to this 2 years ago and went through the heart numbing and walking away from God because of illness & here I am again and I am hearing the POWER and truth of God’s nature in a fresh new way - especially when it comes to disappointment
Melissa, thank you so much for everything! You're transparency, your vulnerability, your songs, your sermons, your testimony, your heart for our Beloved Father! You have a GREAT anointing for the heart (how to connect, guard, heal, and be in touch with our Hearts and the Father's Heart), vulnerability, and overcoming depression and disappointment! It is a joy to listen to you share! This message has set me free! And the song "Explode my Soul" is my resurrection song! I love you, and GOD Bless you and your family!
Amazing spirit led beautiful powerful 😢Yes! The Bible says don't let the sun go down on your anger. It doesn't say don't be angry. It also says to guard our hearts, and in that lawlessness will cause hearts to wax cold. We need to draw closer to Him any way we can and put on the full armor.✝️
Gosh this is so good. The lord has entrusted me with 3 beautiful children. I stay at home with them while my husband works and it is hard. Disappointment comes often. But every day I ask for guidance and wisdom from the lord and I know I’m growing every day. The lord has blessed my life in so many ways and I pray that his light shines so brightly through me so that I cAn show his love to my kids. I’m thankful to have watched this. And i pray that anyone watching too would be filled with the fathers love and would know the fathers love and accept him into their heart. We love you Jesus. ♥️
I wonder how you’re doing now, three years later? I feel as if I could have written your comment. Our situations feel so the same. I just had my third child and my husband works. We love the Lord and I KNOW this work at home with the children is valuable , even when its hard.
@@katherinegomez1457 hi!!! I’m doing good :) I homeschool now and I’m happily married ♥️ holding on to Gods goodness and mercy ♥️ God bless you sister. 🤗
What an amazing testimony Melissa, it cannot be more real and powerful way of deliverance, that to face the grieving and declare healing for your heart in the Name of Jesus. I was touched and ministered to. Thank you for listening to the Lord and sharing your story.
Hi there it’s just about a year later I sure have learned a lot about god with becoming terminal illness I was very sick before so I bin comparing your teaching you are a great teacher me a just a old grump that listens well to you great work I mean it big time I am fighting a lot of illness but you bring piece to me
I came across this video listening to praise and worship songs and of all times, Melissa's words are the exact words of all times that I needed to hear! I have played bass for several churches over 4 decades as a Christian and have found myself very currently frustrated having allowed numerous situations in along life's path that's harden and calloused my heart and soul, to the degree I struggle to feel or even try caring to try to reach for God. I hate it especially at this juncture in my Christian walk -- especially as a life-long musician (bass player). I find myself just wanting to distance from everyone and more less just exists. I guess where I am is insulate seclude distance to avoid getting hurt or disappointed by those that you should trust the most. I love music and at my happiest when on a stage playing my bass, and even though there are places I can go play, but I am weary and tired of the mundane, repetitive, worn-out set list, playing with half-hearted non-disciplined non-committed musicians. One of the most miserable places to find yourself in. I have a recording studio in my home, so I will sit with my bass for hours playing many of Bethel's music!
Allen Portman .. Your comment brought me to tears.. This is where my husband is at.. Only its with church and "people" in the church.. He loves the Lord, and he is growing.. And people are careless and fickle and constantly disappoint.. He grows so weary of people in church and ministry.. Instead of letting their yes's be yes's and no's be no's it turn into a mess. He wonders if God is for him. To the point he distances himself and cannot allowed trust. I've been surrounded by ministry all my life as a pastors kid.. But the church, people, and ministry seem to be terribly disorganised, lack communication, have lack of respect of others time, talents and capacity of serving. It can be exhausting, but through it all the Lord sees everything!! He knows our heart and the what breaks it. But he is faithful in the pain, the healing, and the journey.. And he'll be faithful to finish what he has begun in you, and in my husband. I'm trusting the process..
Thank you for your honesty. I pray you begin to rush every moment of disappointment towards your Father’s heart, so often that after a while you won’t need any disappointments to be there. I’m learning myself to go to Him first and don’t allow distractions to numb my heart.
I am strong and full of life!!! Thank you im so encouraged and blessed by your testimony and your battles ! I feel dry bones coming alive when I hear your message thank you for having the courage to be so vulnerable its so refreshing and empowering to see such strength found in what the world calls weak 💪 ❤
I can only praise the name of the Father. I checked her song Explode My Soul in between then I came back finish watching the video. Tears came out as I beat my chest like her did at the end of this video, and my body and mind changed. The paralysis and the feeling of being "stuck" had shaken off from me. I want to open myself to God and just be real with my emotions. Yes, I can grieve and fully experience my heart because I have my God.
Loved this sermon.❤️I needed this video. Lately I’ve been going through a hard situation and I know this is just the enemy trying to take my peace away. I am praying and waiting patiently for God . I declare that the enemy won’t take my peace away anymore and bring my past up anymore!
I have watched this video 1000 of times 😢 whenever I’m feeling upset or like giving up I watch this and it reminds me the love Jesus and our father has for us !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh man even hearing a sermon on "self empowerment" especially embracing my heart just feels so wrong still and that's what she was talking about. The lie that I'm not allowed to feel or look at anything ugly inside of me because my God is good. This year and new season has been a lot of learning how to love me because God loves me, not just love God and think nothing about myself because God is all I need, it's true but he is for me and he WANTS me to love me the way he loves me.
Ive had severe disappointment in my life. Then i would feel shame over feeling the disappointment. Thank God, for this message... So encouraging & freeing! I now know its alright to grieve my disappointment. Thank you Melissa!
Thank you Melissa! And thank you Yoni for posting. Such a powerful message. Just what I need to hear right now. Lord, remind me. Lord remind me. Lord remind me.
I have gone through a lot of disappointments in Life thank you Melissa for coming into my bedroom and teach me how to openly grieve and not to stuff it all in
I am interested in how Melissa Helser is developing a relational understanding with the "Gift of Tears" - to be a Heart Specialist and to have Heart Knowledge - Cardiagnosis - which includes increasing Spiritual Discernment among other things - you have got to work through the "Gift of Tears" - it can literally shift atmospheres around and much more.
Thank you so much for being real. I recently had God remove my best friend from my life, and what I felt Him asking me at the end of listening to this was, "Will you love me with the same zeal with which you loved her?" I'm more determined than ever to get to know God for myself.
WOW! *That was deep!* Thank you for your message. I believe God is absolutely proud of the legacy you are leaving for your kids. Because I know and trust the Father, I can honestly cast off any anger at myself and feelings of being ashamed, of being insufficient, defective. Goodbye to “l need to pull myself together”. I think of one time in particular where I felt God sitting quietly with me during my gut wrenching crying spell. After a while of crying, God flooded my mind with the truth: I am in you and you are in me. Feel my presence. We are walking together. It is a process. I am so thankful that I am becoming more aware of God’s perspective of time. I am no longer the Self Rescuing Princess. I am putting on the mantle of the Princess With Hope and Authority.
Wonderful teaching, a wonderful ministry! This may be the most important teaching I have been witness to, and I am well over sixty! Thank you for clarifying this very important issue of emotion.
thanks so much for sharing this message. It was exactly what I needed to hear. So beautiful Melissa explains Jesus embracing and really showing his humanity and how we can too. I have spent so many years rejecting my heart's feelings that I almost completely lost me. Thank God Jesus didn't and I am still here.
Oh Melissa, this message was so for me today. It's time to grieve and know that I'm not going to lose my heart for God is filling it with Himself again.
God has also showed me this some years ago. I did not grow up in a charismatic context, but was raised by an authoritarian mother who punished me for trying to express my feelings when I disagreed with her. She would often add a manipulative spiritual twist to it. The passages of Scripture that confirm what Mrs Helser is saying are many of the Psalms where David, the man after God's own heart, often asks in anger: "How long, Lord?" The Holy Spirit reminded me of these passages during that season of my life.
Wow I didn’t know it was on UA-cam! I listened to this on podcast! And omg! I was in my car, and after I listened to it I was delivered in my car! Seriously, don’t listen to Melissa or Jonathan’s podcast in the car, it’s dangerous! Lol 😂 I could barely see because of my tears and I was weeping and screaming like in pain, just mourning and it was awesome!! God bless her life!
Good morning Melissa. I hope this gets to you. I am from Port Elizabeth, South Africa. I am a Prophet. The Lord showed me in the last 2 years that a prophet knows a prophet. We can see each other from across the room, or should I rather say, the Holy Spirit points us out to each other. I want to encourage you with this. The enemy wants us to come under conviction of pride when we stand and declare our office. He tries to keep us out of the full promise with the pride issue. Knowing and declaring your office is never pride. It is a humble acceptance to the office the Lord has bestowed upon you. As prophets we (humbly) serve our Lord and our brothers and sisters. This is the opposite of pride, pride would dictate that our brothers serve us. Stand tall and firm on the rock that is Christ. Like King David, I leave you with this,"You have caught the heart of God, be blessed and be a blessing mighty warrior. Joshua 1:9 The Lord is with you, where ever you might find yourself and in every situation."
How do I bring my heart back to life?? I feel so numb, like I'm not experiencing my feelings as I should...I don't remember what happiness feels like...or sadness..I just want to be able to cry and feel, I want to be able to truly feel sad...I want to be able to truly feel God's love for me...my heart, it feels dead
paytin lee This is emotional shutdown which is what happens in depression. It is a an unconsciousness way of protecting yourself from trauma. Jesus will gently open you up if you ask Him to.
I spent months in my valley wanting my heart to stop in my sleep and angry with God for not letting it. This spontaneously popped up in my UA-cam while desperate for meaningful worship...I banged on my heart and finally found strength through complete weakness...this was now a year and a half ago...my 3 kids have their Mom back...I am involved in multiple ministries, creating a website, www.abba8cadabra.com...God bless you and your transparency and testimony, Melissa Helser. I love you, my sister.
thankyou it helps me alot. im in such a disappointment and i dont know where to go, today i know that God very loves me He have a plan a wonderful plan for me
I trust you GOd help my unbelief. Father over my heart because out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Father get me out of this, I don't want to grieve anymore. Father anything is possible through you. Father help me not to loose my heart. Connect me back to your original plan for me. Let your will be done. Not want I want but what you want for me. Father let my heart feel your presence. It's me O God standing in the need of my heart. I reject disappointment and press toward the mark of a higher calling. I ask for a face to face encounter with you O God. Show me your glory now. AMEN
We are taught to always keep ourselves together in public, or you are an insane hysterical for not being able to function. I fully understand why people hide their emotions. Especially at work where adults spend most of their time. There is little room for releasing emotion.
I agree! I know women and men handle emotions differently, but ultimately, a major weakness of Christians, is not being honest and open to God with our internal emotions, hurts, pain, weaknesses... Christians also have challenges to find those 2 or 3 people they can really truly trust for sharing their most fragile emotions with. Someone that they can be truthful in sharing responsibility to be open, honest, transparent, and accountable!
Jay Paglia I think she meant that since the Holy Spirit lives in our heart ( Who does have the answer), if we shut down our hearts we will be unable to hear Him as well.
ForwardMomentum You are being honest, asking questions. That is a great question! Anger, hatred and lust are reactions to deeper feelings. Only the Holy Spirit can appropriate those deeper raw emotions that can lead, if not given to Him, and worked through with Him, us, in the flesh to destroying ourselves. And yes, if you do something that grieves God, it is healthy to feel that. It’s the beginning of getting right inside. Fleshly Guilt actually prevents people from weeping at the feet of Jesus when we don’t understand we can come to Him and be washed clean by His blood, we try to cover that pain up by many things, like building a wall against more healthy feelings, like insecurities. The fact is we have these deep needs that Jesus can meet, but we try to meet our own needs without Him, and as a result become entangled in negative and destructive emotions. Repentance comes from actually feeling the deepest feelings of sorrow over what harms people, and the deadly affects of sin in our lives and others. To admit we need Him, to admit when we feel hopeless, depressed and disappointed. To admit when we are scared. He can take it. Often others can’t handle the enormous power of our hidden and concealed emotions when they break through. For instance, in my life , I have struggled with lust. As Jesus pulled that off, underneath it was the fact I felt lonely, empty and unseen. The lust was the covering of the deeper need. God does deal with the outcrop of our mishandling the deeper emotions, and is always trying to call us to bring it to Him! He is the Healer! There are consequences for mishandling our deep feelings. If you let negative emotions rule you, and you commit a harm against someone , you have a reaping of that, which may mean going to prison, or even the electric chair. Those laws are there to protect people and to manage the harms done of sin, in a sinful world. It’s a grievous thing, but there are those so hard in their hearts, so walled up against feeling anything, they no longer have a conscience at all. It’s dead. Even then, we have the option of grieving or pushing those feelings down further, and covering them up with fleshly armor that puts us farther away from the Fathers love. . We have the option of choosing death or life. People that don’t know God don’t know they have a choice. When I wrote that, it brought tears to my eyes. Praise God we have a choice! God is able to handle everything we think and feel and help us to grow. He is the all consuming fire that is able to contain, but not destroy. Sometimes, when we vent on people, they end up feeling burned, and run! God is capable of dividing between bone and morrow, and help us sort out the messes inside us. Praise Jesus for you! May your day be full, rich and free in Him!
TESTIMONY. I wrote a song after having a panic attack- immediately God gave me peace. The song is called “You Undo Me” and its on my channel. I have a GoFundMe link to help with the album I am going make. If you feel led to donate you may do so through the link in the video description -God bless you .
I think you have completely misunderstood what the bible teaches about the heart. In Jeremias 17 God is talking about the state of the heart under the old covenant. If you read in Hesekiel chapter 36 you will see that Gods solution to this is that he will give us a NEW heart. God let Hesekiel see into the new covenant in wich you and I live. If you continue to read in Jeremiah and look in chapter 31, vers 31 and forward, God let Jeremiah also see what the new covenant (that we live under) would be. In chapter 31 God tells us that he will write his law in our heart instead of on stone tablets. This is why Jesus tells us that we should live out of hearts.
She is very powerful with the Lord, but the Lord says our heart's are wicked not to listen? I could be wrong? Someone correct me? Praise Jesus the Christ
I can understand full well why God hasn't given her her second healing yet. This place she is in is so overwhelmingly fragrant. It is edifying to those of us who are in this place and need to hear something like this in a world that just doesn't talk like this. This season she describes in her life is one of the most beautiful things I've ever heard and has helped me so much. I NEEDED THIS SO MUCH. I think God is just letting this rare perfume develop so she can pour it out on all of us. When he's done with this precious season, she'll be healed.
i just love to listen to her!
"Trust is born when you are real with your own heart and still look to the Father." MH
When she started crying I bursted into tears because of my current season.. God is teaching me to not beat myself up when I'm not okay. It's okay to not be okay sometimes .
Patrice foxyroxyduncan love you in Jesus
Aw man i just started watching it and read your comment and i'm like NOOOO lol i'm going to bawl i feel it lol.
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I love it she explains the Father's heart towards us. He wants to be fully present for our ups and downs.
David a man after God's heart ... David never stopped pouring out his heart! ☺☺
This message is setting my free in a new way! I listened to this 2 years ago and went through the heart numbing and walking away from God because of illness & here I am again and I am hearing the POWER and truth of God’s nature in a fresh new way - especially when it comes to disappointment
Melissa, thank you so much for everything! You're transparency, your vulnerability, your songs, your sermons, your testimony, your heart for our Beloved Father! You have a GREAT anointing for the heart (how to connect, guard, heal, and be in touch with our Hearts and the Father's Heart), vulnerability, and overcoming depression and disappointment! It is a joy to listen to you share! This message has set me free! And the song "Explode my Soul" is my resurrection song! I love you, and GOD Bless you and your family!
"If you don't know what the Lord is really like...you won't know where to go when you hit the hard moments." M. Helser
This is quite possibly one of the most profound teachings I have ever heard! This is glorious... Praise God for your life in Christ Melissa.
This is so important to be real with God. I love her ability to explain that it is okay to feel.
Amazing spirit led beautiful powerful 😢Yes! The Bible says don't let the sun go down on your anger. It doesn't say don't be angry. It also says to guard our hearts, and in that lawlessness will cause hearts to wax cold. We need to draw closer to Him any way we can and put on the full armor.✝️
Gosh this is so good. The lord has entrusted me with 3 beautiful children. I stay at home with them while my husband works and it is hard. Disappointment comes often. But every day I ask for guidance and wisdom from the lord and I know I’m growing every day. The lord has blessed my life in so many ways and I pray that his light shines so brightly through me so that I cAn show his love to my kids. I’m thankful to have watched this. And i pray that anyone watching too would be filled with the fathers love and would know the fathers love and accept him into their heart. We love you Jesus. ♥️
I wonder how you’re doing now, three years later?
I feel as if I could have written your comment. Our situations feel so the same. I just had my third child and my husband works. We love the Lord and I KNOW this work at home with the children is valuable , even when its hard.
@@katherinegomez1457 hi!!! I’m doing good :) I homeschool now and I’m happily married ♥️ holding on to Gods goodness and mercy ♥️ God bless you sister. 🤗
What an amazing testimony Melissa, it cannot be more real and powerful way of deliverance, that to face the grieving and declare healing for your heart in the Name of Jesus. I was touched and ministered to. Thank you for listening to the Lord and sharing your story.
I am still listening in 2022 💛💛💛🌼🌼🌼🌼
Me too. This message truly doesn’t get old.
"God has a plan, let's bury the dog." I love that!
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One of the most profound teachings I’ve heard. Absolutely amazing
So rarely can believers talk like this without being judged or left alone until the hardships are gone... so hard but so helpful!
Wow!!!Something broke off my heart listening to this thank you Jesus
Hi there it’s just about a year later I sure have learned a lot about god with becoming terminal illness I was very sick before so I bin comparing your teaching you are a great teacher me a just a old grump that listens well to you great work I mean it big time I am fighting a lot of illness but you bring piece to me
I am not gonna lose you God! I want to keep you in my heart :) Thank you Abba!
yuciyye andrade Jesus will always watch over you. He is the savior who tore the veil!
Jesus really cares for you!
I came across this video listening to praise and worship songs and of all times, Melissa's words are the exact words of all times that I needed to hear! I have played bass for several churches over 4 decades as a Christian and have found myself very currently frustrated having allowed numerous situations in along life's path that's harden and calloused my heart and soul, to the degree I struggle to feel or even try caring to try to reach for God. I hate it especially at this juncture in my Christian walk -- especially as a life-long musician (bass player). I find myself just wanting to distance from everyone and more less just exists. I guess where I am is insulate seclude distance to avoid getting hurt or disappointed by those that you should trust the most. I love music and at my happiest when on a stage playing my bass, and even though there are places I can go play, but I am weary and tired of the mundane, repetitive, worn-out set list, playing with half-hearted non-disciplined non-committed musicians. One of the most miserable places to find yourself in. I have a recording studio in my home, so I will sit with my bass for hours playing many of Bethel's music!
Allen Portman .. Your comment brought me to tears.. This is where my husband is at.. Only its with church and "people" in the church.. He loves the Lord, and he is growing.. And people are careless and fickle and constantly disappoint.. He grows so weary of people in church and ministry.. Instead of letting their yes's be yes's and no's be no's it turn into a mess. He wonders if God is for him. To the point he distances himself and cannot allowed trust. I've been surrounded by ministry all my life as a pastors kid.. But the church, people, and ministry seem to be terribly disorganised, lack communication, have lack of respect of others time, talents and capacity of serving. It can be exhausting, but through it all the Lord sees everything!! He knows our heart and the what breaks it. But he is faithful in the pain, the healing, and the journey.. And he'll be faithful to finish what he has begun in you, and in my husband. I'm trusting the process..
Thank you for your honesty. I pray you begin to rush every moment of disappointment towards your Father’s heart, so often that after a while you won’t need any disappointments to be there. I’m learning myself to go to Him first and don’t allow distractions to numb my heart.
Did anyone else think the last I'm not gonna lose you sounded like Hallelujah! This was such an amazing teaching.
I needed this thank you. Keep me and my sister and my daughter in prayers. Breaking bondage in our family
Thank you for this message. Praying God rewards you for your obedience and vulnerability.
I am strong and full of life!!!
Thank you im so encouraged and blessed by your testimony and your battles ! I feel dry bones coming alive when I hear your message thank you for having the courage to be so vulnerable its so refreshing and empowering to see such strength found in what the world calls weak 💪 ❤
I can only praise the name of the Father. I checked her song Explode My Soul in between then I came back finish watching the video. Tears came out as I beat my chest like her did at the end of this video, and my body and mind changed. The paralysis and the feeling of being "stuck" had shaken off from me. I want to open myself to God and just be real with my emotions. Yes, I can grieve and fully experience my heart because I have my God.
I used to hate emotion but God healed me and now I love my heart .... but heart stuff is complicated stuff!
I love listening to Melissa speak and sing she's great!
Amazing message I so needed this word. Grateful it popped up on my home page on UA-cam. Thank you Pappa
This message is incredible 😭😭😭🙌🏾
Loved this sermon.❤️I needed this video. Lately I’ve been going through a hard situation and I know this is just the enemy trying to take my peace away. I am praying and waiting patiently for God . I declare that the enemy won’t take my peace away anymore and bring my past up anymore!
I thank you Melissa for sharing such a important and wonderful message. I believe the Church needs to understand this and impliment it.
I have watched this video 1000 of times 😢 whenever I’m feeling upset or like giving up I watch this and it reminds me the love Jesus and our father has for us !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh man even hearing a sermon on "self empowerment" especially embracing my heart just feels so wrong still and that's what she was talking about. The lie that I'm not allowed to feel or look at anything ugly inside of me because my God is good. This year and new season has been a lot of learning how to love me because God loves me, not just love God and think nothing about myself because God is all I need, it's true but he is for me and he WANTS me to love me the way he loves me.
Ive had severe disappointment in my life. Then i would feel shame over feeling the disappointment. Thank God, for this message... So encouraging & freeing! I now know its alright to grieve my disappointment. Thank you Melissa!
Thank you Melissa! And thank you Yoni for posting. Such a powerful message. Just what I need to hear right now. Lord, remind me. Lord remind me. Lord remind me.
So powerful. He truly sets us free.
I have gone through a lot of disappointments in Life thank you Melissa for coming into my bedroom and teach me how to openly grieve and not to stuff it all in
I am interested in how Melissa Helser is developing a relational understanding with the "Gift of Tears" - to be a Heart Specialist and to have Heart Knowledge - Cardiagnosis - which includes increasing Spiritual Discernment among other things - you have got to work through the "Gift of Tears" - it can literally shift atmospheres around and much more.
Thank you so much for being real. I recently had God remove my best friend from my life, and what I felt Him asking me at the end of listening to this was, "Will you love me with the same zeal with which you loved her?" I'm more determined than ever to get to know God for myself.
This hit me right in the feels! Jesus is amazing period!
WOW! *That was deep!* Thank you for your message.
I believe God is absolutely proud of the legacy you are leaving for your kids.
Because I know and trust the Father, I can honestly cast off any anger at myself and feelings of being ashamed, of being insufficient, defective. Goodbye to “l need to pull myself together”.
I think of one time in particular where I felt God sitting quietly with me during my gut wrenching crying spell. After a while of crying, God flooded my mind with the truth: I am in you and you are in me. Feel my presence. We are walking together.
It is a process.
I am so thankful that I am becoming more aware of God’s perspective of time.
I am no longer the Self Rescuing Princess.
I am putting on the mantle of the Princess With Hope and Authority.
YES its melissa helser! I can't wait to watch this. She's an anointed speaker :D Greetings from Philippines!!
Wonderful teaching, a wonderful ministry! This may be the most important teaching I have been witness to, and I am well over sixty! Thank you for clarifying this very important issue of emotion.
Thanks for posting this valuable message.
This message rocks me every time I hear it!
Thank you for bringing God's message. It was meant for me to hear it.
Thank you Melissa for sharing your testimony. I was crying...I I understand more now. God bless you and your family!
thanks so much for sharing this message. It was exactly what I needed to hear. So beautiful Melissa explains Jesus embracing and really showing his humanity and how we can too. I have spent so many years rejecting my heart's feelings that I almost completely lost me. Thank God Jesus didn't and I am still here.
Oh Melissa, this message was so for me today. It's time to grieve and know that I'm not going to lose my heart for God is filling it with Himself again.
THIS IS AWESOME! So well explained, explaining something so hard to understand
God has also showed me this some years ago. I did not grow up in a charismatic context, but was raised by an authoritarian mother who punished me for trying to express my feelings when I disagreed with her. She would often add a manipulative spiritual twist to it.
The passages of Scripture that confirm what Mrs Helser is saying are many of the Psalms where David, the man after God's own heart, often asks in anger: "How long, Lord?" The Holy Spirit reminded me of these passages during that season of my life.
Wow I didn’t know it was on UA-cam! I listened to this on podcast! And omg! I was in my car, and after I listened to it I was delivered in my car! Seriously, don’t listen to Melissa or Jonathan’s podcast in the car, it’s dangerous! Lol 😂 I could barely see because of my tears and I was weeping and screaming like in pain, just mourning and it was awesome!! God bless her life!
Love this woman of God.
YES. Thought this was for this years Wonders conference but wow, WorshipU!
Thank you Melissa for being authentic and genuine
I still listen to this
Good morning Melissa. I hope this gets to you. I am from Port Elizabeth, South Africa. I am a Prophet. The Lord showed me in the last 2 years that a prophet knows a prophet. We can see each other from across the room, or should I rather say, the Holy Spirit points us out to each other. I want to encourage you with this. The enemy wants us to come under conviction of pride when we stand and declare our office. He tries to keep us out of the full promise with the pride issue. Knowing and declaring your office is never pride. It is a humble acceptance to the office the Lord has bestowed upon you. As prophets we (humbly) serve our Lord and our brothers and sisters. This is the opposite of pride, pride would dictate that our brothers serve us. Stand tall and firm on the rock that is Christ. Like King David, I leave you with this,"You have caught the heart of God, be blessed and be a blessing mighty warrior. Joshua 1:9 The Lord is with you, where ever you might find yourself and in every situation."
Jesus was so alone in his discouragement just like we are sometimes. No one had His back.
G JC ?? His Father had his back.
I absolutely love this talk... I heard it two years ago and have been thinking g if it since... thank you so so much for posting this... bless you!!!
The more I watch you the more I love what you stand for a great lady/ mom/ wife
Thank you JESUS!
HONOR AND GLORY TO JESUS, THE LAMB OF GOD.
Strong woman. God bless her❤️
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How do I bring my heart back to life?? I feel so numb, like I'm not experiencing my feelings as I should...I don't remember what happiness feels like...or sadness..I just want to be able to cry and feel, I want to be able to truly feel sad...I want to be able to truly feel God's love for me...my heart, it feels dead
i dont have an answer for you but i just want to say patience but you need to pray to get ur feelings back. bless u
paytin lee
This is emotional shutdown which is what happens in depression. It is a an unconsciousness way of protecting yourself from trauma. Jesus will gently open you up if you ask Him to.
I spent months in my valley wanting my heart to stop in my sleep and angry with God for not letting it. This spontaneously popped up in my UA-cam while desperate for meaningful worship...I banged on my heart and finally found strength through complete weakness...this was now a year and a half ago...my 3 kids have their Mom back...I am involved in multiple ministries, creating a website, www.abba8cadabra.com...God bless you and your transparency and testimony, Melissa Helser. I love you, my sister.
Melissa, I loooove YOU. My sister, you are a gem!
thankyou it helps me alot. im in such a disappointment and i dont know where to go, today i know that God very loves me He have a plan a wonderful plan for me
Jesus set me free
I trust you GOd help my unbelief. Father over my heart because out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Father get me out of this, I don't want to grieve anymore. Father anything is possible through you. Father help me not to loose my heart. Connect me back to your original plan for me. Let your will be done. Not want I want but what you want for me. Father let my heart feel your presence. It's me O God standing in the need of my heart. I reject disappointment and press toward the mark of a higher calling. I ask for a face to face encounter with you O God. Show me your glory now. AMEN
Great Word
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What a good word.
THIS WAS AMAZING!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!
This was amazing.Thank you.
AMAZING word!
Thank you
We are taught to always keep ourselves together in public, or you are an insane hysterical for not being able to function. I fully understand why people hide their emotions. Especially at work where adults spend most of their time. There is little room for releasing emotion.
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I agree! I know women and men handle emotions differently, but ultimately, a major weakness of Christians, is not being honest and open to God with our internal emotions, hurts, pain, weaknesses... Christians also have challenges to find those 2 or 3 people they can really truly trust for sharing their most fragile emotions with. Someone that they can be truthful in sharing responsibility to be open, honest, transparent, and accountable!
we can ask for wisdom which we need in times like ours ( !!! ) to show our heart in an appropriate way!
Amen that’s right
your family is important ...to him.
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Go ahead Melissa! you help me more tahn i can say!
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I literally just had this happen... pull the plug father
8:35 The heart does not have the answer, quite the opposite.
Jay Paglia
I think she meant that since the Holy Spirit lives in our heart ( Who does have the answer), if we shut down our hearts we will be unable to hear Him as well.
@@57andstillkicking She did not say that. She said the heart has the answer. Man-centered-trash-gospel that saves no one.
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Should a murderer or rapist not feel shame? I mean, I don’t intend to be antagonistic. But isn’t anger, hatred, and lust all “feelings”?
ForwardMomentum You are being honest, asking questions. That is a great question!
Anger, hatred and lust are reactions to deeper feelings. Only the Holy Spirit can appropriate those deeper raw emotions that can lead, if not given to Him, and worked through with Him, us, in the flesh to destroying ourselves.
And yes, if you do something that grieves God, it is healthy to feel that. It’s the beginning of getting right inside.
Fleshly Guilt actually prevents people from weeping at the feet of Jesus when we don’t understand we can come to Him and be washed clean by His blood, we try to cover that pain up by many things, like building a wall against more healthy feelings, like insecurities. The fact is we have these deep needs that Jesus can meet, but we try to meet our own needs without Him, and as a result become entangled in negative and destructive emotions.
Repentance comes from actually feeling the deepest feelings of sorrow over what harms people, and the deadly affects of sin in our lives and others. To admit we need Him, to admit when we feel hopeless, depressed and disappointed. To admit when we are scared. He can take it. Often others can’t handle the enormous power of our hidden and concealed emotions when they break through.
For instance, in my life , I have struggled with lust. As Jesus pulled that off, underneath it was the fact I felt lonely, empty and unseen. The lust was the covering of the deeper need. God does deal with the outcrop of our mishandling the deeper emotions, and is always trying to call us to bring it to Him! He is the Healer!
There are consequences for mishandling our deep feelings. If you let negative emotions rule you, and you commit a harm against someone , you have a reaping of that, which may mean going to prison, or even the electric chair. Those laws are there to protect people and to manage the harms done of sin, in a sinful world. It’s a grievous thing, but there are those so hard in their hearts, so walled up against feeling anything, they no longer have a conscience at all. It’s dead.
Even then, we have the option of grieving or pushing those feelings down further, and covering them up with fleshly armor that puts us farther away from the Fathers love. . We have the option of choosing death or life. People that don’t know God don’t know they have a choice. When I wrote that, it brought tears to my eyes. Praise God we have a choice!
God is able to handle everything we think and feel and help us to grow. He is the all consuming fire that is able to contain, but not destroy. Sometimes, when we vent on people, they end up feeling burned, and run! God is capable of dividing between bone and morrow, and help us sort out the messes inside us.
Praise Jesus for you! May your day be full, rich and free in Him!
TESTIMONY. I wrote a song after having a panic attack- immediately God gave me peace. The song is called “You Undo Me” and its on my channel. I have a GoFundMe link to help with the album I am going make. If you feel led to donate you may do so through the link in the video description -God bless you .
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The answer is in the word of God. Our hearts are evil - Jeremiah 17:9
I think you have completely misunderstood what the bible teaches about the heart. In Jeremias 17 God is talking about the state of the heart under the old covenant. If you read in Hesekiel chapter 36 you will see that Gods solution to this is that he will give us a NEW heart. God let Hesekiel see into the new covenant in wich you and I live. If you continue to read in Jeremiah and look in chapter 31, vers 31 and forward, God let Jeremiah also see what the new covenant (that we live under) would be. In chapter 31 God tells us that he will write his law in our heart instead of on stone tablets. This is why Jesus tells us that we should live out of hearts.
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She is very powerful with the Lord, but the Lord says our heart's are wicked not to listen? I could be wrong? Someone correct me? Praise Jesus the Christ
I think she needs that when your heart is aligned with the Lord that's when you need to listen to Him because He is there...
What worship school was this?
wrecked me
What version of the bible do you use?
Michele VanDusen there’s only one version :-) But I’m guessing she’s using the passion translation ☺️
This should be nsfw I am 😭 😭 😭 my 👀 out at work trying to hold it together
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