I can’t hear enough of these videos snd wish I had heard them years ago. Thank goodness he said it’s never too late. I’m 64 yo and only just realising that my addictions were not due to being a bad child/teenager 🙏🙏🙏
This is funny, we're both 64 and I find your comment straight below my own. As you can see from my experience + comment: yes, it defintely is never to late! I just recently realised (and felt through) some severe trauma my great-grandparents endured and after resolving this I feel like a different person. So your challenges, too, might not have anything to do with you personally. This insight was such a relief for me, that I just had to share with you! What a start for the new year for both of us. 💃💖
To a human child, the need for attachment is paramount. If this need is unmet, all other needs are imperilled. The child instinctively knows this. Belonging is written deep into our survival instincts. Despite living in our modern day world, this need for attachment is still valid. We can look to our modern day homeless populations to see that humans, who lack social connections, are vulnerable. At the core of our societal problems is the abandonment of Self (capital S, Soul Self). If we don't know ourselves, how can we love ourselves? How can we authentically connect with others? Children learn to reject themselves, so early in life, they don't even understand the nature of the wounds. They have no other frame of reference.
Please, don't assume there was a before!! I don't have a 'before' - there was trauma pre-birth, trauma during birth, trauma all throughout childhood, and consequently adulthood. Here I sit at 66 years old, constant anxiety, stress, anger, rage! My body is ravaged with all of it!
Spot on for me personally. Having suffered for many years from Autoimmune Disease, now at age 64, my body finally starts recovering following a lot of work on transgenerational trauma which obviously kept me from expressing myself and my needs sufficiently, thus now being able to set healthier boundaries. Although I never took to self-medication, i.e. alcohol or drugs etc., myself, I seem to have needed to live in an environment where this is very common. What a mighty mirror! Thank you Gabor + everyone on the team, for everything you teach us so we are able to understand the lessons of life. 🧡💙🙏
I can’t hear enough of these videos snd wish I had heard them years ago. Thank goodness he said it’s never too late. I’m 64 yo and only just realising that my addictions were not due to being a bad child/teenager 🙏🙏🙏
This is funny, we're both 64 and I find your comment straight below my own. As you can see from my experience + comment: yes, it defintely is never to late!
I just recently realised (and felt through) some severe trauma my great-grandparents endured and after resolving this I feel like a different person.
So your challenges, too, might not have anything to do with you personally. This insight was such a relief for me, that I just had to share with you!
What a start for the new year for both of us. 💃💖
To a human child, the need for attachment is paramount. If this need is unmet, all other needs are imperilled. The child instinctively knows this.
Belonging is written deep into our survival instincts. Despite living in our modern day world, this need for attachment is still valid. We can look to our modern day homeless populations to see that humans, who lack social connections, are vulnerable.
At the core of our societal problems is the abandonment of Self (capital S, Soul Self). If we don't know ourselves, how can we love ourselves? How can we authentically connect with others?
Children learn to reject themselves, so early in life, they don't even understand the nature of the wounds. They have no other frame of reference.
Please, don't assume there was a before!! I don't have a 'before' - there was trauma pre-birth, trauma during birth, trauma all throughout childhood, and consequently adulthood.
Here I sit at 66 years old, constant anxiety, stress, anger, rage! My body is ravaged with all of it!
Still it's never too late ❤
Thanks very much for sharing yhis interview 😅😊
Our pleasure!❤️
Thank you.💕
You are so welcome❤
Spot on for me personally.
Having suffered for many years from Autoimmune Disease, now at age 64, my body finally starts recovering following a lot of work on transgenerational trauma which obviously kept me from expressing myself and my needs sufficiently, thus now being able to set healthier boundaries.
Although I never took to self-medication, i.e. alcohol or drugs etc., myself, I seem to have needed to live in an environment where this is very common. What a mighty mirror!
Thank you Gabor + everyone on the team, for everything you teach us so we are able to understand the lessons of life. 🧡💙🙏
Dang, Gabor os amazing 😢😊
Good topic thanks
it all starts to make sense. blaming our parents is of no use. its intergenerational. just too bad.
you are God sent Doctor for His kingdom
thank you