BIG Changes | Life Off the Grid
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- Опубліковано 4 лип 2024
- A lot has happened.
0:00 - Women are amazing
4:06 - CRAZY dogs
5:54 - Water off the grid
7:51 - Unique home insulation
11:48 - Emotional struggles
17:42 - BIG, big changes
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Sorry everyone, I will not be shaving my head 😆
Yay !
he looks fabulous and you would too but I totally understand.. I wish I was the brave!
If you shave that gorgeous hair off, Miss Thang, I will file charges.
But imagine, you two could make a reverse version of the catfish-shower-scene!!!😂😂
Yes keep it long!
You should be wearing a dust mask when dealing with cement powder. If it's in your nose it's in your lungs as well.
Thank you for commenting this. I work in a primary care office and I cannot tell you how many lung x-rays we run through for our construction workers. It's a hard job. Be safe!
Yeah it's nasty stuff. Been there, done that.
Retired RT. This is sound advice.
Yes! I knew a concrete worker that died of lung cancer, and most of his crew has it too to some degree
Styrofoam would be the same I guess ? Cancerous
I have to say, I'm subscribed to hundreds of channels and this is the only one where I watch every upload. It's like checking in on friends. You guys are truly special. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.
Oh wow that means a lot, thank you so much
I'm the same way. I have tons of UA-cam subscriptions, but only watch 4 faithfully and Elsa and Barron are one of them. I love you guys. Stella, I like how you said, "it's like checking in on friends".
Literally same! The only channel I have the notification bell on and basically open UA-cam for :D
I left an abusive marriage a few years ago, and inspired by you, decided to build my own, simple home. It’s small, has a garden, and me and my daughter live simply in it. There’s even a Subaru parked out front :) That said, a home build will make anyone crack up a little. I had to break it down into teeny projects, no more than 3 days in length. One day, I looked up and I was on the last project. It will happen. You will get there. Best of luck and thank you for sharing your life. You’ve made mine better because of it 💜
That is a great story!
Ashley...so glad you got out, girl! Been there, too. Now you, and your daughter can live your own lives!!! Would love to see pics of your house!
Ashley Slayton,that is good to hear,hope you and your daughter are doing well and enjoying life.😊
Woof! “Lady, you rock our world!” 🐶🐩
Just think when you are older and look back on these videos and say, "Damn, I can't believe we did that!" You guys should be so proud of yourselves!
I KNOW you will be right about this!!
If we all had our own personal James, the world would be such a better place. Thank you, Elsa, for sharing him with us. He's special 🫶🏻
Zoom in. Don't zoom out.
I really like that.
We're very lucky to be in the same place at the same time as James and Doreen
@@ElsaRhae indeed ,agreed!
Amen
I spent 42 years of my life with my husband. He died a few seconds (minutes, days, weeks, months) ago. Elsa, you said "When you get to the peak and see everything done...when is that never not worth it?" Our marriage was born of love yet, at times, was very hard work. I am lonely at the peak without him, but I know the culmination of our work, our love, remains. I so very much appreciate the zen approach of this video and my hope is that it resonates with all who can soak up the message. Love hurts. Love is work. And in the end we might find ourselves at the peak alone. But it was all, surely, worth it. His love remains here with me in its purest, and most fluid, essence. Love is all there is.
rhondalyn134 your message is beautiful. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending peace and loving kindness to you.
@@bethkeel1419 Thank you.
@Rhondalyn134 I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. You said, “But it was all, surely, worth it. His love remains here with me in its purest and most fluid essence. Love is all there is.” That is so profound and so true. Sending you prayers for comfort and peace.
@@christinescott5002 Thank you so much.
What a FANTASTIC video!! The house is really coming along 👍 I enjoyed Elsa opening up so much about her feelings with this process of building your own home ❤️
Sorry...I have to go watch again!!! 😂
Thank you for bringing us with you
Omggg is no one talking about how Barron is basically a model 😂 🥵
Oh yes!!!!! It's truly amazing that he can shave off that gorgeous hair and be even more handsome. I know it's means nothing in the grand scheme of things (it's his soul that counts) but DAMN, that is one good-looking man.
They're both models!
Wow! Elsa, what a great way to open this video by paying homage to women. Thank you for highlighting their role, their importance, talents, and their amazing strengths. It's refreshing to hear. Kudos!
I can not begin to tell you how your recounting of James Pep Talk helped me today. I've had tremendous anxiety over my damn roof leaking. The repairman is three weeks out, and I need to let go until then and stop fighting what I can't control. Thank you both!
Go Barron! Love the buzz brother!
There were so many wonderful things happening in this video, I was exhausted just watching and hearing about all the work you guys are putting into your various projects. Hang in there, the days are long but the years are short. Thanks so much for sharing your life.
The tenderness with which you shampooed and massaged Barron’s head was so touching. After 50 years of marriage to my hubby I had to do the same for him during an illness. With the love and care you show to each other I am sure you will too celebrate 50 years one day.
My father used to wash my mother's hair. It can become a very intimate act. An act of love.
quickest 24+ minutes on my UA-cam list this week.
living 'in the moment' and 'one day at a time' is the only way I make it through my depression.
THAT and watching people like you guys helps, there is so much beauty in the world and people who see it,
helps me to see it too.
much love from Vancouver WA.
Same Michael, you are not alone!
“Treat it like art and I feel like you will do a really good job.” ❤️
Don't zoom out. Zoom in. One day at a time! That's what I try to tell myself every day. We moved into an old house in October 2022 and we're slowly making progress with the renovations. It's hard to admit that we don't have the same time or energy for renovations every day. I can understand you so well! 🖤
The world needs more James’
James’ thoughts on life’s flow are so true. Humans are one of the few organisms on earth who repeatedly take the path of MOST resistance; and yet wonder why there is so much stress in modern life. We can learn so much from our elders and the world around us. Life is about embracing the flow and identifying when to push through and when to just go with it. You all clearly understand and embrace this, alongside some awesome mentors.
I appreciated this commentary in your video! Thanks for sharing this essential message with the UA-cam community.
FYI-with a concrete house plan for AIR CIRCULATION within so the INCREASE collection of DAMPNESS is dissipated! I live in a 1940’s hunting camp CONCRETE BLOCK house with NO CENTRAL AIR/AC in Prince George County VA! I CANT have AC due to my bronchitis… therefore I rely on fans & DAMPRID collection buckets in the summer months.
One of the things I taught myself somewhere along the way, was...if there's a part of a job you kinda hate, instead of putting it off, and dreading doing it all throughout the job; do it first and get it out of the way... That way, you don't twist and turn in your in your own dread, and the rest of the job is much lighter... You guys are getting the hard part out if the way... The rest is going to feel so much nicer, more creative, and simpler... You are strong...the both of you... Just remember, this IS temporary...and it will end. Just put your heads down, and move forward, and soon enough, it will be done! Love you guys!
Elsa, I relate SO much to your overwhelm at the house project. When my dad and I completely re renovated the Aframe I bought, I got so burnt out and it felt like it would never end. There is nothing like putting in day after day after day of super physical work and barely seeing the progress. I also remember the insulation point as one of the hardest, because you know you are doing what needs to be done, but it’s neither beautiful, nor is the process particularly fun. All this to say - I hope you have given yourself ample days to rest ☀️ Lord knows it’s needed with that work.
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and being fully transparent with your emotions.
Elsa, you are a Superwoman! You are so strong! You are beyond capable! You are brave! You are such an inspiration to those younger than you, but also to those of us older than you! My emotions feel lifted after watching your videos! What you and Barron create is positivity! And I thank you both for sharing so many wonderful years with us all… and hopefully many more to come! I look so forward to the video you will create when your home is complete, and we all get to enjoy and share in your emotions of elation, happiness and pride over all that your hard work will provide you Botha a your family! 😊✌🏼❤
so nice to catch up with you all, one moment at a time Elsa, look how far you have come, it's coming on in leaps & bounds, happy Sunday xxxx
I can’t say anything that hasn’t already been said. So thank you for posting again. I’ve missed y’all. Camp and Pilot are hilarious, you and Barron are gorgeous and fun to watch together. ❤️
I needed that pep talk, too. Thank you James and thank you Elsa for making it available to me!
Yay, Elsa. Thanks for sharing your process. Oh, I really felt Kamp's pain when he was crying. Thanks to you both for this excellent video. 🦋
Your crocheted blanket is stunning.
My mouth dropped when I saw those clippers! Much as I am a fan of long hair on men, Baron looks quite good with short! Elsa on the other hand, I love your beautful long hair!
When I cut someones hair in a layerless cut I thin out the ends with either thinning sheers or point cutting, it makes a huge difference
Wow! Love Love Barrons haircut. Such a handsome man.
Your home is going to be so beautiful. Hard work but worth it.
He looks so handsome with his new haircut. I hope you guys are having a great day today.
What a great video! Didn’t expect the haircut though but looks more handsome than ever!! Elsa , it’s so true! One day at a time!!!
I was a licensed hairstylist(cosmetologist) in probably 5 states of my constant traveling life since age 19 (not at the same time) and now trim my own hair. Haven't had one good haircut by a shop (sometimes way over $40) better than I can do my own. I gave up. Just do it yourself, I say. I can identify so much.
Love the yellow dress , very good, the house is coming along nicely my best wishing you happy days God bless you both and those pups
"Hard work makes you strong and teaches you things." How beautiful and simple that truth is.
As I turn gray , I’ve thought about shaving my head, to start over, and see how it comes back in 😬 but then I think back when I had bangs, and the awkward stages , waiting for them to grow out...I always hated that part 😅 the A frame looks great ! Elsa, take one day at a time.. B R E A T H E ! inhale through the nose, Exhale through the mouth 💕💫🕉 both of you are work warriors ! It will be so rewarding , when your place is finished! Proud of You, and your Perseverance!!!
One of the reasons I love your videos so much, and there are a TON of reasons, is because of your beautiful honesty. You and Barron live your lives with such honesty, in this crazy upside down world we find ourselves surrounded by today it’s very refreshing. This is really hard stuff you’re taking on, but man oh man are you ever stepping up to the challenge. Be kind and gentle with yourself it’s all good. I was so happy to see you had a taken a day off for just some good old fashioned fun. It’s the perfect medicine for times like this, days that are filled with super hard exhausting work. Your home is gonna be amazing, you’re gonna get to the top of that hill, it’s coming, one step at a time…..Oh and Barrons hair look fantastic too 🙏🏼🥰
Elsa it was so good to see you express your emotions. Doing what you two are doing, is a enormous thing and it brings out those raw emotions. Such a wonderful experience and as I said in another video, you will have memories you tell your kids and grandkids of when you and Barron built this home. They will come to visit and remember those little spots on the walls, dings in doors, and that broken window no one admits they broke. Savor these times and love them, the good, bad, and ugly; they are the fabric of life. Much joy to you in the process. Barron, I can't wait to get my copy of Normal2Nomad and hope that my little purchase in some small way helped to further your efforts and confirm that your lifestyle is one desired so many, not yet brave enough to make that leap, myself included.
You should ‘train’ Barron to trim your hair. My hubby has been doing mine for the last 30 years. Admittedly it’s all one length curly with no layers which is easier especially when wet cut. The first few times were nerve wracking for both of us but now he’s a pro and we’ve saved so much money! Always start with small amounts-you can take away but you can’t add.
congratulations on the home and new car to yall
I received my book today, June 15, 2023, and I am so excited. Can't wait to read it. The photos are amazing. Thank you so much. Sherry Jones Rivera. ❤
A lot of things were put into this video. So many moments. I love seeing all the little aspects of your beautiful day to day lives.
Girl, you in the horse trailer with the foam, feeling your emotions, I just wanted to give you a mommy hug.
I just had a room added on years ago to my tiny 700 sq. ft. CA high desert house by a (sort of) boy friend. He framed it, had someone roof it which was f'ed up, I cried. He quit after that to start a business. My neighbor, a carpenter took pity on me and finished it w/the help of friends in the trades including a roofer. I sanded the entire 25 X 18 ft. tongue and grove ceiling. Tough job. It was frustrating but worth it. I just traded my 2015 Tacoma for a 2003 Eurovan. Road trip planned.
Absolutely wonderful video. Love the use for recycled styrofoam. You guys are going to be so comfy in the winter, might even be running around in shorts. Emotions being released is like steam from a pressure cooker. It allows for all the good stuff to be enjoyed. Stay awesome dear freespirits!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Still loving every video and the authenticity that you show. I almost got teared up when you spoke about things being hard but the view being worth it AND when I saw Barron getting his hair cut.
Yay!!!!! I love your posts so much ❤ I just feel so blessed when I see a notification that you posted.
I literally watch these like therapy! Such a calm vibe to them. I always look forward to y’all’s videos ♥️
Very exciting!
So happy to see you both and the progress on your awesome house. Barron you look handsome with or without hair. Blessings.❤
Wonderful life advice in this one Elsa.
House is looking awesome, always so grateful to see an update from you guys no matter when or the length. :)
Thanks for the wise and encouraging words Elsa (and James). There’s hope in it all too.
So glad you guys back to your reality, have safe and happy summer. I look so forward to your videos every week🤗🤗
Hey, the house is looking great! I learned something interesting from good old UA-cam, sand is the most rare commodity in the world. I shit you not. 😮
Thank you Elsa and James I needed that pep talk too!! ❤
I just told me friend Lindsey about you guys. She is a Colorado girl from Atlanta Ga. I told her that she would love you guy’s content and she watched just a bit of this video and said she would watch more later. Can’t wait for her to see Elsa and Barron’s awesome adventures!
Awesome progress !!
Thank-you for sharing James’ encouragement talk. I needed that for a project I’ve been overwhelmed by. Thank- you for sharing this exciting time in your life.
BARRON BUZZED! Literally swooning for you Elsa
I’m happy you were able to share your emotions on screen. It’s like releasing the steam from a pressure cooker and I’m sure it makes you feel better plus the mental help you got from your friend. The dogs were so funny. Love, love, love the new look Baron. Elsa, it would have been cheaper to have bought a pair of hairdressing scissors and cut your hair yourself. House is looking great and despite your reservations now it will be absolutely stunning when it’s all done. Take care both, be safe. 💕Dorset, UK
Love the fortress you are building for your present and future. Quite the adventure. Feeling proud of you and so happy you have such great support. Truely a human experience. Sending love.
So excited, we just got our book.
Nothing but love for you guys and what you two are accomplishing and sharing with the world! 💕❤💕
Just remember, “This to shall pass!”
Elsa, I love how you can explain your emotions into words.
I love the dress Rachel made and I like Barron's haircut and I appreciate your vulnerability while describing the part of the build you are on.
Appreciated hearing about how you’re doing, Elsa:,) so happy to be able to follow along on y’all’s journey. You are more than capable!!!❤
You always have such interesting videos. Thanks for sharing. ❤
Oh did I need this - control the work, don't let it control you. So much wisdom from James + Elsa. Thank you for sharing.
Staying in the moment … I can’t begin to express how meaningful this reminder is to me at this point in my life. Thank you for sharing … James has reached more people through your sharing 😊
Love Barron's haircut! Elsa should open a salon! Hahaha! Y'all are so sweet helping each other distress! Great video as always!
Its coming together!!
Ive always like watching yall's videos. It's so amazing what you guys can do with just so little! I remember watching videos of when y'all was in the small rv. I use to live in a 40ft drivable rv, but times changed and had kiddos. I miss it so much! I guess once they get older we might go back to the rv life. Lol Thank you for showing the plus side to living the nomad life! Stay safe out there, I can't wait to see it get finish.
It’s funny you mentioned your dress at the beginning of your video. My first impression was, what a cute dress. So glad to hear from you two again. I’ve been waiting for a new video. Don…..Toledo, Ohio
It’s so nice to see how great your house is coming along. That’s truly wonderful that you have awesome friends and family. Relaxing is always a good thing after hard work. Elsa you are a great barber.
I am so impressed and inspired by you both and what you share. I enjoy so much the vulnerability and the “real” of what it’s like to choose the life you have chosen. I’m proud of you for making and owning your choices. It is so refreshing!
Thank you so much for filming! I too enjoy the ritual of your coffee making. What a great season of renewal for you and Barron. From the insulation to the haircut. I will be working to stay in the present alongside you.
The subie has been a great car for you guys. Hopefully the GX470 will be also. I'm sure Barron already knows about the timing belt changes required every 90,000 miles. It's a pretty major service but necessary. The GX has a reliable drivetrain assuming the timing belt service has been done. While in there, budget for the water pump, bearings/pullies/tensioner, cam and crank seals.
Boy did this particular video get me in the FEELS in such a fantastic way. Your journey is GLORIOUS…through all of its ups and downs. ❤❤❤
Got your Book today! Thank you!!!
The wild woods hoodie dress!!! Really appreciate you spotlighting these artists. ( I kinda need one 🌞)
My dear Elsa, I think you should write a book too like Barron, Camping experiences and living outdoors such a great thing to learn. And I hope I could buy Barron's book soon as we are launching a small book business.
I have been listening to your videos on my phone primarily, I just switched to my computer for this one and the audio is just so much better with headphones!
Awesome video :) Loved Barron's cut!
So good looking , I liked the long hair as well , and Elsa is so talented
gorgeous video!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thank you for sharing the beauty of your life ❤
Loved the video. Another best thing is reading all the positive comments. They are all so real. Thanks to James giving us words to live by❤
You guys are the best! Thanks for sharing your life with us, cheers friends!
I truly hope you keep your attitude of gratitude. It is the sincerest thing to see.
Great video, a nice assortment of showing us all the aspects current in your life right now. Thank you
Love your videos! Love how you are building your home! Love the haircut...both of them. Thanks for sharing!!
LOVE THE BUZZ CUT!
Speaking from a custom home builder’s POV… what you’re doing is epic. A gazillion decisions daily, physically challenging (under statement), and countless other challenges… hang in there… it’s SOOOOOO worth it in the end 🤩💞
Absolutely enjoyable to follow along with your creative life. 🙏
Keep pushing. Once it's done, you'll wonder where the time went and there will be things you'll miss about now.
$40 for that?!
I use the Creaclip to cut my basic layers but there are cheaper versions. There are tutorials on UA-cam but basically I brush all my hair forward and use the clip to cut it to the overall length that I want. Then I sometimes section off the hair from the level of the top of my ears and brush forward and repeat and then the top area of my head to get lighter layers as my hair is quite thick. After that you want to finish the ends so that it blends nicely and you don’t leave those choppy blunt ends. Again there are videos for this. This part isn’t hard but take time with it so you get a better end result. Nice thing is that you can go back the next day and adjust things if you missed bits. Also buy yourself some decent hairdressing scissors. It’s worth it for the money you will save not paying for haircuts.
I can’t even explain how paralleled the emotional journey I am on right now is. I spent the past two weeks doing huge projects while also battling some health problems and spent my time crying through it instead of standing back, slowing down a little, and remembering that this is what I’ve been working towards for a decade. I really needed to hear everything that you said. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and journey so much. It’s truly everything that I needed to hear to get me back into a place of joy about what I get to do and not everything I have to do.
Love the dresses! ... But can we get a link for that sa-weet hat!? 😉
YEAH, THANKS JAMES. Moment by moment.
I have the same car and I've been everywhere in it, towing a Casita trailer when I travel. That Subaru has been amazingly reliable for you guys- glad you are keeping it.
Your build looks overwhelming- totally understandable that you are feeling the pain. One step at a time. Wonderful that you have so much help.