What Should A Man Expect After Spending $400 on a First Date?
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- Опубліковано 1 кві 2024
- Welcome back to 8 At The Table! In this episode, we dive deep into the question: What should a man expect after splurging $400 on a first date? Our hosts Erin The Renegade and Rico Hundo are joined by the dynamic K Goddess, a multi-talented artist hailing from Brooklyn. K Goddess, known for her prowess in rap, modeling, acting, and philanthropy, brings her unapologetic authenticity to the table as we explore this hot topic.
Join us as we discuss the misconceptions and expectations surrounding lavish first dates. In a society where spending hundreds of dollars on a single outing is becoming increasingly common, should men anticipate certain outcomes? Is it fair to assume that a hefty bill guarantees physical intimacy?
We challenge these assumptions and advocate for respect and genuine connection in dating. K Goddess shares her insights on staying true to oneself and navigating the rap game with integrity, proving that success is earned through hard work and authenticity.
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Fellas, DO NOT spend $400 on a date. Even if you're rich don't spend that.
Exactly
@tommygunn2782 Facts bro!
@@shorts26 💪🏾
Exactly 💯 I'll only pay that if The Woman is My Woman.Meaning GF or Wife.And even then I'll do it only if She's been spending 400 on Me as well.Because I'm the type.If a Woman treats Me good with no effort or huffing and puffing at all.And She's glad to do it for Me! Then Shiiiit I'm definitely going to treat Her as Good for sure.
Spending $400 is laughable. A man that does that is clueless.
Imagine paying 400 dollars to see if she likes you. Just Wow.
Yea it’s crazy right
it's crazy that a simp would consider it.
I've never had to do that this new generation is crazy
She going to use u as a trick
This is crazy, 😂😂😂
She’s cap 🧢, they always try to act like they can do it themselves. Never do expensive first dates.
Ruth be real ❤
Women are cheap when it comes to spending on men and I'm supposed to believe they gonna blow 400 on a meal stop it 😂😂😂
I’m so tired of all this “i can do _____ by myself”. Then BE by yourself then… don’t be expecting men to spend their hard earned money on you; what have you done to deserve that?
She is the representative of everything that is wrong in the world .
400 bucks on a date with a chick that’s not your partner and it’s not a special occasion is fiscally irresponsible
What's more interesting is that these very same women want a man who's rich but ALSO fiscally IRRESPONSIBLE... make it make sense smh
@@mrfrench821 they’re delusional because they met a sucka or 2 so they believe that’s just how life should be
First date. You want to get to know me but have to test my pockets. That shows that I don't matter only what I can spend.
She’s a former stripper w/ a stripper mentality.
There a lot of women that look better than her that don't require a $400 date.
If a woman expects Ruth Chris on a first date then she’s going to expect Ruth Chris treatment/ spending
Last night I loaded up a $100 Dave&Busters card, and Mondays are all you can eat wings. We had a blast. It’s still $40 on the card. 🤷🏽♂️
Smart and y'all had good time
In my younger days I used to use Dave&Busters all the time you have fun ,laugh ,play games, bet on the basketball game and more times than not you win in the end
You the real mvp
lol period 🎉
She's acting like she always does $400 dates, and then says she takes home doggie bags so she can eat for days. That's not a date, she's trying to meal prep on your dollar... If you go for this, you've already lost
Yall still asking these "lil sx workers" what they offer in relationships?
that part...
@@iModelTV Better off saving up for a real escort, no attitude, entitlement and more attractive.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
As we can see the sister is single, no ring 💍. Very masculine..
Shes not masculine, shes a clown.
A woman who repeats over and over the things that she says that she can do for herself, It comes off as masculine.
@@bigart9488Not even masculine. It’s simply obnoxiously annoying lol.
Only a fool will spend $400 on a date
Only a fool would seriously date her.
She ain't worth a 400 dollar meal. She just something to hit and run. She talks about its not about money but it is about money..
Wanting an expensive first date with no neck is crazy work
🤣
😂😂💯
I was thinking the same thing: If you have the right to test my pockets, I have the right to test your neck!
Lmaooo
And all those tragedy ass tattoos! Nope!
No more than 75$-85$ for dinner for two people is reasonable
But but iM lOokINg FoR a PrOvIdEr!
Not even that these days
You must not be getting drinks lol that shit easily is a 40-50$ check alone
@user-ql9it8go2j On a first date you're not drinking that much. You're not going out to celebrate or kicking with friends. Your focus is getting to know someone.
I spent $75 on the first date back in 2017 and my wife and I are still together. That $400 date ish is cap.
Just because you say you’re “high quality” out loud doesn’t automatically make it true.
She’s a etch a sketch
Never seen a high quality woman covered in tattoos. Show me a politician pastor or executive's wife that's covered in tattoos like that. As you said, just because she says it's so...
Exactly!!! 😂😂😂😂🤣😂
When you're the king, you don't have to tell everyone you're the king.
She don't know ha face from ha a$$
Applebees can’t miss. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾. 2 for 20$. Cmon now.
I see plenty of dates there and they cool with it.
So you can only be safe at Ruth's Chris? If you are spending 200.00 per person on a regular dinner even if you got it is dumb as hell.
She flat out lying Ruth Chris like going to Fridays in NY
@@mondomondo9138If you're saying that going to Ruth Christ is what average person does regularly in New York, that's bullshit.
Yes, she sounded 14 karat stupid, acting like the only place she could feel safe is something like Ruth Chris, they're both public places.
@@bigart9488 what i was saying there is a million better places its not many Ruth in NY so no its not a AVG place that people run to its only like 4/5 in NY and there are non in Manhattan
Bro when she said that shyte, I had to salute the dude on there because he got patience. The female host is a clown as well.
You can accidentally spend $400 just by leaving home these days. I wouldn't trip on that. BUT, if she cares how much you spend on the date, she's not really into you.
She sound ignorant
Very ignorant & ghetto. She learned about Ruth Chris from a rap song, not living a high class lifestyle clearly.
Sound!! She def is
This is an example of strangers wanting spouse treatment off rip. This is the same thing as men expecting sex on the first date. If that matters to you then you really aren’t spouse material. It’s about getting to know the person, not jumping into a relationship immediately.
It's not the same hope and expect are two different things to expect something is more of an entitlement thing women expect to be paid for men hope we get lucky
all those tattoos are a turned off ,
they always spend such and such amount on themselves , CAP,...
if it's not $100 for lunch , $40 breakfast , it's $200 on dinner ... ALL CAP ... i aint believe none they say no more lol
how about women pay those $200++ on the first date to set the precedent so we know what to expect the next time ... fair? cuz they be lying
Not just the tattoos she looks like a ninja turtle
Female Masculinity at its finest. She's got that yo, yo, yo I'm tough voice
Yo I hate that this convo was supposed to be "generalized" for everyone but this female straight made it about herself lmaooo she could say she "high maintenance" all she wants but this showed us all we need to see ma
And this is why it's hard to date. This is what the dating scene came to
Bruh its a whole lot of women out here that dont require this, and if u haven't or dont run into them that's a you problem cause they everywhere
@@tommygunn2782But women watch social media, and many are influenced.
$400 she is testing that gag reflex
😂😂😂😂 omggggg
Our New York brothers are down bad. 🤦🏾♂️
When you let a woman talk she will tell you everything you need to know. One minute she’s saying you need to spend $400 on the first date and in the next breath she said don’t try to impress me with your money. Then she said if we going to Ruth Chris too much she’s gonna tell him to hold up we don’t need to spend all this money on Ruth Chris just give it to me so she can invest it in her marketing. lmao
I peeped that!! Like hold on ma!!! Don’t u got it!! Put yo own 200 into your marketing!!😂😂 shit cray
You can call me broke because I'm not at 6 figures. Maybe I am, but I had discussions with those who make make 6/7 figures. They all told me they have that income because their not spending 400 -500 dollars on a single meal for 2 people. Mostly black women glorify spending money on a meal.
Most of these "6-figure" people are full of debt.
@@poindextersheelturn436 I can agree with you. Those who I know are not in debt, but these people are not spending their money frivolously. When I was in college back in 1991 there was a white retired janitor we would often talk to. He didn't do much at work and actually did well for himself when he had his business. He took the job so his two granddaughters could get a free education because he worked for the university. That is a mindset we as black people often miss out on.
Some would be surprised that the networth millionaire next door is frugal
Agreed. People who do well financially are NOT obsessed with impressing others. They are more focused with sustainability. How many 1st dates do you have in a month? In a year? It’s not sustainable.
That why later on you find out that they're in soooooo much debt
Over $400 just to see if you like me 👀 WTF is going on nowadays???
I'll come with a Woman to high end Restaurants the first few times if She's paying.Only way I'm paying 400 if She's My Woman already.
To expect that on a first date is crazy. She the problem. If I only buy myself 100k gifts I should expect my girl I'm dating to get me 100k gifts because I buy them for myself...that would sound crazy to her.
I believe Kevin Samuels would say, she owes you some P if you wasting your resources on her...
High quality female covered in arm and chest tats. This ish is wild.
She has face tattoos as well. Just covered with makeup. Definitely not a high quality female
At a certain price point. A guy would be better off just saying he'll give you that money for some guaranteed azz. $200 is that price point for me.
fact but chicks like her want both
@@tommygunn2782 i agree 100% i do the same a fly by girl lucky if i lay out a $100
@@tommygunn2782 I'm just saying. If a woman expects a man to spend that much on a first date? Screw the date, just cut to the chase and make the offer to avoid wasting time and money.
Better saving that for an escort with not entitlement or attitude.
@@TChalla007 Treat the woman like an escort is my point. If she trying to make you ball out on a first date
Plus dudes with bread not trying to impress you. You should be trying to impress him. He not expecting you to spend your bread on him but you expect him to spend his on you. Show me you deserve that.
Smart women realize that good men are the prize. The problem is so many black. Women don't realize that until they're older have lost their looks and it's too late.
Thank god I found my wife when I did because this is crazy.. I’m praying for you brothers in today’s dating game because ain’t no way I’m spending $400 on a date just to get to know someone….
Married 27 years and have never broke $400. She was a flight attendant for 15 years in Singapore. We both traveled internationally. Me for sports. I also lived in 6 countries. These women are losing to other countries because of their delusion, entitlement and attitude.
3 minutes into the video and she already a dubb
K goddess can do her and I wish her the best but for your normal everyday 9-5 woman we do not need to check a man’s pockets as a pre requisite to date us. A man can spend money on you and still treat you like trash. First date should be a meet and greet and if there’s chemistry then plan something more intimate for next time
Facts 💯 well said
Good to hear.
Yuck. So much masculine energy. No rich guy is taking her out. She’s capping
She has said Ruth Chris 100 times thats y i know she dont get there much and she say she in BK and not say Peter Lugers
Where everybody getting all this money from???
The only thing that needs to spent... is TIME!!! If she likes you she will sit with you anywhere. Materialism= epic fail. Let her take herself out!
She spending 200 just to spend 200. I just hate the fact that everything is about money.
$400??? They done lost they damn minds! Wifey and I have a BLAST on our dates and don't even spend half that at our favorite upscale spot... SMH
Listen! These people want to be celebrities so bad!!! That’s why they aren’t building generational wealth for their kids…
I noticed that women like her, when they have sons, all of that shit about men spending crazy amounts of money on a first date, goes right out the window
Is this what the conversation has come to?
This is embarrassing. This whole video is utter nonsense.
ok im sorry Ive had enough of whomever that guest is,this episode should have stayed in the drafts for sure.
Listening to them became draining about halfway through.
On Life Bruh
WTF is wrong with these woman bro? This shit gotta get old at some point
Shiiiiddd. Definitely a first date at Applebees. YALL women be wanting too much on the first date. No deal ma.
She a 2 for $20 all day she too Hood to take to Ruth
NOPE, Booty call , late night after white castle.
So she saying there is no return on investment. She might pay you back in the future if she digging you. How many men she's not digging to.pay back
I feel so bad for the sister she'll never get married she's superficial she has a lot of mindset to change
It always amaze me that a women will claim what they can do for themselves and when ask to do it they refuse. The first date is to get to know someone so if your suggesting an expensive restaurant, then you should be comfortable paying for what you ordered since you are so use to taking yourself out. If i had to date again, I would walk pass these type of women because they feel entitled as if you are the only one that wants something from the date.
Exactly!!!....The reason that most women don't is because they can't do it...Most of these women are in so much debt from over spending its crazy.
What man of value is trying to match her swag?
A walk in the park is the perfect first date, then some coffee. If a woman try’s to test your pocket, she’s not there for you.
Spending $200 on a first date with a woman I don’t know is a horrible investment. Take Rico’s response of her owing him sex after that out of the equation. Spending that kind of money on a first date just to realize we don’t vibe with each other enough to have a second date means you just wasted $150 more than what you should’ve spent. She crazy as hell.
Check my pockets? I don't even want to be in the same room with a person who's going to say that
I honestly cant believe she said she is ( High value as a woman) the look on hundo face 😂😂😂😂
Mcdonalds, BK are public places
A mature man regardless of his income for a FIRST DATE should pick place where it's popular public and simple. Starbucks or a local coffee shop should be good enough since you are both just meeting to see if there's any attraction.
What I don’t understand is she say she’ll down to drink a whole bottle with a man in a car that she don’t know but will feel uncomfortable going on a coffee date 🤔
Yall ballers can have this one 🕺🏾
Wow 400 bucks you could had ten different women for $40 bucks.
I don't spend money on dates but it cost that much might as well pay a professional for her short time.
Why spend money to get to know a woman. That's weird to me I don't get it
By this statement I can tell u get no action at all if you got a problem spending money to get to know a woman, grow up young fella
@@amarelogan7081 im 47 years old, i dont take women on dates.
i dislike dating, im only down for mating.
My Standard
1. Net flix and chill we can start off as Fxxx budies
2. If we connect sxxxually mentally then we can be more
3. i dont spend money, i perfer women i can get for free.
There are women who are DTF with dudes who have no money, im that dude.
If she think im gonna spend a dime, im good on her she not my type.
You dont have to spend money to clap some cheeks, if your Dkkk good good, she gonna dkkkmatize and she gonna wanna be you.
i like having women sprung on me, i dont spend money.
By the way i got a rotation of 5 chicks right now. Got me some last night from this slim chick who is 4ft11.
You spend 400 on dinner with potential business partners that u can write off on taxes
She wilding and it’s guys that are letting her
She really a 4 talking like this. The entitlement is insane work
She's talking stupid, but she's not a 4.
First of all, I'll never spend $400 on a first date. No woman is worth that on a first date
Question: if you are going to drop $200 /$400 for just a dinner... do you own property? Are your investments returning $200-$400 per day? If your answer is "no" then stop the cap and live within your means.
I won’t expect shit cuz I ain’t spending 400 on no first date …
Wow so u can test his pockets but he can’t test yours… this a goddess really
I agree with him completely if I take you on a $400 date, the box should be mandatory.
No but he definitely deserves sometype of affection like hugs and kisses for his courting and giving her the time. If he leaves that date emptyhanded its likely he'll never call that woman again...
400 dollars and not even getting a hug!! Boy oh boy that would def hurt!! A waste of money!! 2 more hundred I can get a ps5
I find the woman in the middle to be very annoying. Between my dating life and my father I've learned that a dollar amount spent does not matter if a woman likes you.
Look at the way she carry herself and treat her accordingly simple as that
So why go out with a guy if your no interested. You just want a free meal..
First time watching, enjoyed, subscribed.
I imagine the question at the end had something to do with this idea of 'telling the truth'. K Goddess said something about telling the truth because they're going to find out (or hear rumors) anyway. The lying to people that can't handle the truth, i'm positive that's largely for things you expect they will never know / find out about.
Shorty in the middle the worst to ask advice 🤦🏽♂️ my boy talking hypothetical and she don't understand at ANY time of the video lmao. She outside she talkin like it smh
To dudes out there, if you don't do a expense normally, don't do it. Not saying that women are bad but what they want from you over time will be either consistency or exceeding what you give her time. You execute based on what you're comfortable with. If the woman is not ok with that, move on and save yourself the headache from trying to lead with your wallet.
The wrong guest. Can't or won't relate to the average household incomes. I agree with Rico, need to ask a average Joe or Josephine this question fr
But she average looking though lol
Why would a man invite and show up to an expensive date without money. If he invites you he obviously has it
Good content
Imagine spending $400 to see if a 5 likes you or not.
A single man making $50K gross a year can't afford Ruth Chris. Think about it honestly... Taxes, rent, utilities, transportation (NYC/NJ) to go to work, laundry, groceries, ... should I continue?
99% of your audience are regular people
Her head LOOKS like she eat a lot.
I wish I could have been on this podcast. I have so much to say
39:10 she talking bout dats what im saying h** you been saying Ruth Chris this whole time 😂
Women no going to tell where to go when im paying
These women out here are Hungry.
I’m taking her to the supermarket…🤣🤣🤣
That's right! While she wants to test my pockets, I want to test your cooking skills!
Do yall have stock in ruth??
My first date with my wife was a local non chain spot that had really good food and nice drinks. I still budget around $150 on a first date if we just doing dinner and drinks.
There is no way in hell am paying 400 on a first date, that’s insane.
She aint goin to ruth chris spending 200 by herself lol dats cap
Also, the sad part is if you are married you will go to a regular restaurant on a date or for dinner. Higer end restaurants are reserved for once a month or special occasions.
I don’t know why she put Beyoncé name in there first she should’ve started off with sexy red😂😂😂😂😂
The problem with this show is there’s no strong counter male argument. Rico is too tame. His arguments get walked over and dragged by the women on the panel.
I see the guest is the reason why I'm not dating currently.... definitely not women with her type of mindset
What makes shorty not average?
Over pedestalizing society
10 mins in, and sheesh I'm so thankful I'm married 😂... Stay Strong out there fellas. ✊🏽