3 Tips To Confident Eye Contact

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  • @NickNotas
    @NickNotas  2 роки тому +7

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  • @whynot9616
    @whynot9616 2 роки тому +270

    Thank you I always thought I had to look at both eyes 👀 tha 🙏 tho

    • @NickNotas
      @NickNotas  2 роки тому +15

      You’re welcome 😊Glad we could teach you something new. Hope you keep watching! -Nick

    • @RaptureComingg
      @RaptureComingg Рік тому +24

      thought I had to look at both also… never could understand how u can look at 2 spots at once… but other people seem to do it I don’t understand 😂

    • @JohnTho-uj4fw
      @JohnTho-uj4fw 10 місяців тому +1

      Me too

    • @nick2658
      @nick2658 7 місяців тому

      God loves you so repent of your sins and be baptized..He gave His life for you so that you could have forgiveness of sins..And remember the sabbath -Saturday

  • @amalaltatar8049
    @amalaltatar8049 2 роки тому +38

    Omg, tysm, I always looked at both eyes and the conversation became SOOOO AKWARD AND CREEPY that I had to end it-

  • @Olliver666
    @Olliver666 2 роки тому +66

    Woahhh these are such cool tricks definitely gonna help with talking to people now lol

    • @NickNotas
      @NickNotas  2 роки тому +6

      That’s awesome, glad you’re excited to try them out! Thanks for watching. -Nick

  • @IamSoup09
    @IamSoup09 Рік тому +13

    No, because I always look at the ground or at other things around em when talking to people. It's hard to make eye contact with one of my friends and feels awkward. 😭 thanks for the tips!

  • @vegainlifestyle7693
    @vegainlifestyle7693 2 роки тому +2

    Love how your channel is growing, thanks for the value man

  • @SN-vn6wb
    @SN-vn6wb Рік тому +1

    This actually helps a ton - thank you

  • @superstgamer9102
    @superstgamer9102 9 місяців тому

    thank you very much bro.
    I thought that looking at both eyes is better
    but now you teach me that focus on only one eye.
    Thank you very much...

  • @rayy1016
    @rayy1016 2 роки тому +18

    Don't you hate it when you look at both eyes and get this quick silent "gasp" moment?... Like you gonna kiss me or something? That's what triggers my anxiety 😔

    • @pratik9356
      @pratik9356 Рік тому

      That's really weird...it happened the same...😑it's now really hard to have normal eye contact and conversation with the people....Your comment has passed 8 months I wan't to ask if the habit has changed or not.....''

    • @pratik9356
      @pratik9356 Рік тому

      Pls reply...

    • @joeconnolly5392
      @joeconnolly5392 Рік тому

      @@pratik9356Have you had better luck with your eye contact??????

    • @pratik9356
      @pratik9356 Рік тому

      @@joeconnolly5392 Do you have the same problem?

    • @joeconnolly5392
      @joeconnolly5392 Рік тому +1

      Maybe. I get spooked when I meet someone's gaze spot on. Eye to eye, pupil to pupil, it feels weird in the moment. Sometimes awkward or too personal. It can be perceived as what I think could be intimidation or creeper vibes. But see! I'm just overthinking it. How do I know how the person is feeling? I don't. It's my own insecurities leaking out in real time. Traumas from the past never healed or properly addressed, even ignored. Were all human and the biggest barrier to our full self confidence in ourselves is our mind. The mind is the one telling me that eye contact is a issue. It's deeper then that when you really take the time to sit down with yourself and see what is going on. I still have my moments plenty on a day to day basis, but knowing what I know makes most of eye contact interactions just fine! Even the awkward ones, I laugh to myself knowing how silly it would be to let that interaction take control over me. If I hold eye contact too long: I simply look away as casually as I can while maintaining proper attention. If that attempt is botched I get red or nervous, or whatever happens and then laugh it off once the person is gone. On top of all this, most people don't give a shit about you or me. They forget about interactions by the next day and probably never cared in the first place. (Yes, but I thought I did causing myself misery because I thought they were judging me or something.)

  • @Relyk-fr
    @Relyk-fr 8 місяців тому

    I have an interview soon so this helps!

  • @gamingvibes9584
    @gamingvibes9584 8 місяців тому

    Whenever i make eye contact with someone it just makes me feel like i look weird making eye contact with them.

  • @rampageskys5543
    @rampageskys5543 11 місяців тому

    Best advice ever....which I had this before now

  • @MichelleLM88
    @MichelleLM88 2 роки тому +3

    But I looked down because I am nervous

  • @tottto14f
    @tottto14f 2 роки тому +3

    Gracias, buen video 👌🏽

    • @NickNotas
      @NickNotas  2 роки тому

      Appreciate that Rodrigo! -Nick

  • @jmazen407
    @jmazen407 7 місяців тому

    I always feel like I’m making eye contact too long when I’m listening to someone talk. Even tried to follow that 5 second rule where you make eye contact for 5 seconds then look away but then it feels too short lol

  • @rajadavid2064
    @rajadavid2064 3 місяці тому +1

    3 tips Eye contact
    1. focus one eye at time
    2. break eye contact while you're talking and not while they're talking
    3. do not break eye contact by looking down.

  • @bheamy
    @bheamy 2 роки тому +45

    Bro I struggled wit eye contact for 4 months, I been looking at both eyes, I couldn’t give eye contact for like 3 seconds cs it was so weird

    • @pratik9356
      @pratik9356 Рік тому +1

      That's really weird...it happened the same...😑it's now really hard to have normal eye contact and conversation with the people....Your comment has passed 6 months I wan't to ask if the habit has changed or not.....''

    • @pratik9356
      @pratik9356 Рік тому +1

      Pls reply..

    • @bheamy
      @bheamy Рік тому +1

      @@pratik9356 nah it changed. I can give eye contact now

    • @pratik9356
      @pratik9356 Рік тому

      @@bheamy what did u do??

    • @bheamy
      @bheamy Рік тому

      @@pratik9356 try looking into 1 eye first . Search up video on how to give eye contact and stare into 1 of the females eye. That really helped. I thought it was gonna help because I’m looking at my screen but it did tho

  • @im_Game711
    @im_Game711 Рік тому

    Thank you for this. 👌🏽🙃

  • @Ishowquickness
    @Ishowquickness Рік тому +1

    You gained a sub ❤

  • @animewithaakash6789
    @animewithaakash6789 Рік тому +1

    Brilliant tips thnx

  • @drefourth
    @drefourth Рік тому

    I resonate with this thank yooouuuuuu

  • @itzfantazy845
    @itzfantazy845 Рік тому +1

    Good video 👍

  • @xaveragekid
    @xaveragekid 11 місяців тому

    I look down a lot cuz I get nervous

  • @mrpoop390
    @mrpoop390 2 роки тому +11

    Thanks it helps🙂

    • @NickNotas
      @NickNotas  2 роки тому

      My pleasure, happy it helped. -Nick

  • @furo.8732
    @furo.8732 Рік тому +1

    When you give eye contact while looking at there eyes try and pretend your looking at a different object beside you

  • @Itz_just_stxrmy
    @Itz_just_stxrmy Рік тому

    Great tips💯

  • @xcobyxzei
    @xcobyxzei 2 роки тому +8

    I’m fine with eye contact when I’m talking but when the other person is talking I look like a weirdo

  • @alingrigoras1274
    @alingrigoras1274 Рік тому

    Thanks alot! 🔝

  • @mikioni
    @mikioni 2 роки тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @haroong.c8906
    @haroong.c8906 2 роки тому

    Thank you 👍🏻💓

  • @allabout1189
    @allabout1189 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks ❤️

    • @NickNotas
      @NickNotas  2 роки тому

      You're welcome, my pleasure. -Nick

  • @YXNGXLUCID
    @YXNGXLUCID 2 роки тому +3

    Bro I don't know why but I can't look people in the eyes I talk to them just looking some where else and try to look for like a second

    • @rayy1016
      @rayy1016 2 роки тому +3

      Bro I'm with you its freaking 4 of July rn and i haven't seen my fam in months,im struggling to make eye contact and have a normal conversation with them... I feel so awkward.... I guess it's true what they say "eyes are the window to one's soul" but like don't look into mine and i definitely don't wanna look at yours, if u guys get what im saying, there's boundaries💯 but then again its just my mind against me

    • @rayy1016
      @rayy1016 2 роки тому +2

      Can anyone else explain what its like to you? Like in detail so we can get a better picture , to really analyze what we all have

    • @Anonymous-uw4sr
      @Anonymous-uw4sr 2 роки тому

      Same

    • @fyou1120
      @fyou1120 Рік тому +1

      @@rayy1016so for me it use to be very normal to look at people and speak to them, I had no issues but now eye contact literally became the worst thing ever and it’s not that I make my self uncomfortable rather I make others 😅

  • @mikesmith7620
    @mikesmith7620 Рік тому

    I have a question, let's say there's another person walking in the opposite direction, so basically going towards me. What should my eyes be doing?

  • @seanr521
    @seanr521 Рік тому

    Good video thanks

  • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206
    @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206 2 роки тому

    😂😂😂 This dude is both informative and funny

  • @jonathanbaroi2235
    @jonathanbaroi2235 Рік тому

    Thanks bro ❤❤❤❤

  • @popodood
    @popodood Рік тому

    What if i break eye contact because i need to think about what theyre talking about? Watch their hands? I have to visualize a lot. I do a lot of intermittent eye contact but straight eye contact feels weird. Like theyre trying to catch me doing something wrong.

  • @haniyamalik489
    @haniyamalik489 Рік тому

    Man what should i do.. I just blush so hard i mean my heart starts beating fast and i really need to break the eye contact.. I'm talking abt crush especially

  • @freshpotatoes4757
    @freshpotatoes4757 7 місяців тому

    When do you learn this bruh

  • @laparpak3578
    @laparpak3578 Рік тому

    Is there realize that i just look at one eye 😂 maybe for 3 second?

  • @networkengineer2734
    @networkengineer2734 2 роки тому

    What if i look at the teeth ?

  • @dimzcaserial1118
    @dimzcaserial1118 2 роки тому

    Wow ynx

  • @theyellowbrick8528
    @theyellowbrick8528 Рік тому +1

    Eye contact is easy until the person are less than 50cm from you

  • @thefrenchman3260
    @thefrenchman3260 2 роки тому +1

    BEST TIP- don't make contact at all

  • @techievinetv1810
    @techievinetv1810 Рік тому

    👍💕

  • @sunday_shake2007
    @sunday_shake2007 2 роки тому

    I literally can't make eye contact, I'm not a dumb rude moron I swear I just cannot look people I don't know in the eyes, if I know them then maybe a quick glance but it still doesn't last 😅

    • @pratik9356
      @pratik9356 Рік тому

      So true! It happened same🥲Is that problem solved now?

    • @vanshnaik7359
      @vanshnaik7359 Рік тому

      Damn found like individuals here 🥲

  • @lukemustafa6692
    @lukemustafa6692 11 місяців тому +1

    I think women are looking at your eyebrows buddy, not your eyes.

  • @LOPM63672
    @LOPM63672 Рік тому

    Oh shit ok.

  • @WOGMAX
    @WOGMAX Рік тому

    ai or real person?

  • @nick2658
    @nick2658 7 місяців тому

    God loves you so repent of your sins and be baptized..He gave His life for you so that you could have forgiveness of sins..And remember the sabbath -Saturday

  • @abbu-dz9gd
    @abbu-dz9gd 10 місяців тому

    😂

  • @thank_you2933
    @thank_you2933 11 місяців тому

    I love your eyebrows, very thick.

  • @borderxxx
    @borderxxx 2 роки тому +5

    I look a lot down when people are talking with me, because i need to concentrate i have add, is that a problem, i dont want to do that

    • @NickNotas
      @NickNotas  2 роки тому +3

      That's ok too, step by step is the hack to success. When I lead conversations I also find it easier to look into the distance while I collect my thoughts. Maybe you can practice to holding a little more eye contact when someone speaks to you and you are not leading the conversation. Even if you just practice holding eye contact for a few seconds it's a big improvement! -Stef

    • @borderxxx
      @borderxxx 2 роки тому

      @@NickNotas thank you, i will try it

  • @fyou1120
    @fyou1120 Рік тому

    What if I look under the persons eye ?

  • @fyou1120
    @fyou1120 Рік тому

    One eye ? Wow I’ve never heard of that one I’ve always looked at both 😅