To Communicate with Confidence, DO THESE 5 THINGS! (for Introverts)

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @linhlecute
    @linhlecute 3 роки тому +182

    1. Stop thinking about yourself.
    2. Figure out what you want to say.
    3. Learn to avoid verbal mistakes.
    4. Don't wait until you know all the answers.
    5. Structuring your responses.
    #1. Provide context.
    #2. Share what you want to share.
    #3. Wrap it up.

  • @MS-Hussain
    @MS-Hussain 3 роки тому +5

    Just to say, a fully hijabi woman can be as confident as the one who wear shorts. But few ppl still think otherwise.
    Great words by the way.

  • @TheMikenificent
    @TheMikenificent 3 роки тому +21

    I've been binging on your videos for months now, I still find it difficult to make sure I exercise all the advice you've given in the interviews I've been having, but I think I'm getting better as I'm making it further along the interview process recently. It's been tough, but videos like yours encourage me to keep at it. Thank you.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +16

      Well done for putting yourself out there and working on continually improving, no matter how tough. The best way to get better at interviews it to be in them, learn from the experience, practice and go out there again until you land something better. More power to you! 👍🏽💪🏼😊

  • @Nialee-wp3oi
    @Nialee-wp3oi 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, Sade. You are a great coach indeed. Your presence, content, delivery are so effective. It is always a pleasure to watch your videos and be better thanks to them.

  • @mohammadzulqarnain6288
    @mohammadzulqarnain6288 2 роки тому +19

    From video description
    Skip ahead:
    0:00 Intro - The importance of confident communication at work
    2:08 5 Tips to confident communication
    2.15 Tip 1: Stop thinking about yourself
    3:10 Tip 2: Figure out what you want to say
    4:30 Tip 3: Avoid the verbal mistakes
    5:30 Tip 4: Don’t wait until you know all the answers
    6:12 Tip 5: Structure your responses

  • @mohanshah-be5ui
    @mohanshah-be5ui 9 місяців тому

    she has explained each and every step very simply and effectively

  • @aheasanhossenabid7299
    @aheasanhossenabid7299 Рік тому +1

    I got IELTS speaking test tomorrow and this popped up at 2.07 am wow❤❤❤❤

  • @johndenver5015
    @johndenver5015 Рік тому +1

    Great video. I just started watching your channel recently and I would write a comment but after writing it I would erase it. Then I would watch another video and learn something new. I have been struggling with confidence and courage with public speaking. I've been wanting to start a channel of my own. I realize I have been focusing on myself more than what I want to talk about. That is what has been hindering me. You and another person have really helped me destroy this obstacle that I allowed to hold me back. Also what was holding me back was I felt inadequate and wanted to learn more and more before I started. Thank you for keeping it real. Now here comes the scary part. Now I gotta do my first video and i have no excuses.

  • @ramanujan5624
    @ramanujan5624 3 роки тому +89

    I always get excited to watch your new video... thanks for making my life better !

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +14

      You are so kind! Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @Sriram049
      @Sriram049 3 роки тому +2

      @@ShadeZahrai ✌️

    • @umamageswary7387
      @umamageswary7387 3 роки тому

      How can be humble and my tone impress people on work environment

    • @giacomoleopardi3532
      @giacomoleopardi3532 Рік тому

    • @forpeople8962
      @forpeople8962 15 днів тому

      I am from bangladesh I new learner can I contract u to learn more

  • @savedbyHisGrace7752
    @savedbyHisGrace7752 Рік тому

    The voice volume, is my one worry, I have moments where my thyroid acts up, damaged due to car accident. Thank you for that insight, I needed that

  • @MrFinancialWellness
    @MrFinancialWellness Рік тому

    I like how you went slower on slower and then like regained it. It's really nice

  • @m.badamassimbouwey8345
    @m.badamassimbouwey8345 2 роки тому

    Am getting more and more better in fluency coz I developed from U ..Coach ....You the best

  • @md.jahirulislam8389
    @md.jahirulislam8389 2 роки тому

    You really are talking like professional.I think It would help me to advance my corporate career. Take love from Bangladesh.

  • @rushibhoi1577
    @rushibhoi1577 2 роки тому

    Oh my God ! The perfect analysis on human behaviour is mind-blowing just like an literature of absolute value. Thanks

  • @TahiraAbbasi-oy1rt
    @TahiraAbbasi-oy1rt Рік тому

    Agree .
    Thnx for sharing .
    God bless everyone.
    Amen.
    🙏😊🙏

  • @NaveenKumar-vj9sc
    @NaveenKumar-vj9sc 2 роки тому +1

    Along with your helpful advice, I can't help but appreciate everyone who suggests ideas for your outfit choices and attractive backgrounds that match them. And the color scheme and video editing are top notch.

  • @kartikpanjabi6801
    @kartikpanjabi6801 3 роки тому +6

    You are the one of the youtuber coach whom I wanna listen again and again, you're great 👍♥ Thanks for every thing you've taught 😊

  • @mrssomeone2143
    @mrssomeone2143 2 роки тому +1

    Easy, just be honest, and say it politely with smile

  • @englishiseasy8401
    @englishiseasy8401 Рік тому +1

    Your sharings are the valuable things and make me a better character ❤

  • @rajdeep2126
    @rajdeep2126 3 роки тому +2

    I Am in love with your communication ❣️

  • @Learnenglishwithfarrah
    @Learnenglishwithfarrah 9 днів тому

    This is a great reminder. I will watch this video again. Thanks

  • @TourismMaster
    @TourismMaster Рік тому

    I am a big fan of you and I believe that your personality your perception your rationality your attitude communication so much thank you so much

  • @hakimsiouani7005
    @hakimsiouani7005 3 роки тому

    Shade is the best to watch for info related to work and life , she is Competent , smart , and warm so what more are you looking for .

  • @boader254
    @boader254 2 роки тому

    Stripping yourself of “power” is a nice way to approach a conversation with employees. Communication doesn’t always have to be posturing

  • @asadiqbal1231
    @asadiqbal1231 2 роки тому

    YOU ARE GREAT AND WISE AS WELL😊

  • @bhimpokhrel4059
    @bhimpokhrel4059 3 роки тому +4

    Your every videos and content are so inspiring. Keep posting. I m doing my MBA and I found your videos regarding workplace, communication, meeting, leadership, confidence, interview and especially Emotional Intelligence are very useful and I have been applying these concept while reading or giving presentation.
    You are inspiring to young professionals like me. Thanks a lot.

  • @Trigy100
    @Trigy100 2 роки тому

    I really like her vedios, she not only motivates but share knowledge which essential for any changes and upgrades.

  • @playtune9217
    @playtune9217 2 роки тому

    This lady has extraordinary vibes ✨

  • @PrivateFernando
    @PrivateFernando Рік тому

    I Have watched many of your videos. Your tips are really amazing. So great. Thank you for sharing your tips, that are so useful so many people around the world.🙏🙏🙏

  • @Parkmanpranks
    @Parkmanpranks 2 роки тому +1

    Some people just have “it”… She is one of them.

  • @sanjaysaxena9652
    @sanjaysaxena9652 2 роки тому

    I am very thankful to you for your excellent communication advice for my carrier enhancement .

  • @LearnerRahul-dk7gu
    @LearnerRahul-dk7gu Рік тому

    2. Having a clear point of you.

  • @Zest_Aziz
    @Zest_Aziz Рік тому

    Superb academic platform.

  • @stevenrogers7579
    @stevenrogers7579 2 місяці тому

    With your videos I'm practicing my English as well 😊

  • @zhilahaghbin4766
    @zhilahaghbin4766 2 роки тому

    HI Shade: i have been following you and find good advice in your talks. I do believe Emotional Intelligence is a bit oxymoron, misnomer, Emotions and thoughts are somewhat on opposing poles, to expect to analyze the emotions of yourself and others with thoughts, is a bit of playing with semantics, but the term is already out there. I think emotional/contextual awareness of the environment, situation is a better term. Because it is the awareness that makes the outcome "intelligent". I think its synonyme is "street smarts in lay term" meaning the wisdom one has learned though experience and applied it on the situation at hand to a wise/better outcome. Be aware as such the set of skills that can save us in one situation, can drown us in another.

  • @TanmoyBanerjea
    @TanmoyBanerjea 3 місяці тому

    These are valuable insights Shad'e. I really loved them..

  • @atharvmusale5848
    @atharvmusale5848 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much it was a great video and definitely the thing I was looking for, I personally took notes and will apply from now onwards.

  • @Englishcreationcompany
    @Englishcreationcompany Місяць тому

    Your communication pronounce is as much as sweet as your heart face 🎉😂❤
    I love it 2:00

  • @sunaidullah-vw1pf
    @sunaidullah-vw1pf Рік тому

    Thanks for such a words and guidelines that have a positive impact in my life... Huge Fan...

  • @m.badamassimbouwey8345
    @m.badamassimbouwey8345 2 роки тому +2

    I really like the way you come out ideas ...structured..inspiring...organized just a professional job ..Very exited to hear the next session

  • @bsafridi
    @bsafridi 3 роки тому

    Number 4 and 5th.. I will take care of it next time, thank you 💕

  • @saadsubhi3767
    @saadsubhi3767 2 роки тому

    Thank you for being on UA-cam

  • @Azad_07650
    @Azad_07650 2 роки тому

    Bell icon is turned on!!! Can't resist my finger touch on bell ..

  • @Aba9846
    @Aba9846 3 роки тому +1

    Wow, I'm the type of person who discredits what they say with a disclaimer. Thanks for the tips Shade

  • @lydiachoate1277
    @lydiachoate1277 Рік тому

    Hi Shade your advice is most helpful. Thank you and continue to give such great service ❤

  • @gulipallikiran
    @gulipallikiran 3 роки тому

    Recently from couple of days I have started watching your videos, I really appreciate your content and thank you for sharing because its really creating an impact.

  • @Jimmy_Reality_Home_Tour-Not-
    @Jimmy_Reality_Home_Tour-Not- 8 місяців тому

    Im learning like a private when i watch your video❤❤❤😊

  • @priyankasansy2304
    @priyankasansy2304 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much 😊please keep making videos on communication 😀
    They are a great help 😀
    God bless you

  • @evefavourite3168
    @evefavourite3168 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much, Shade. This is so apt!!

  • @muhammadtalha291
    @muhammadtalha291 Рік тому

    Thanks for your awesome work. I learned a lot from this video . Watching This I was feeling you are all talking about my problems 😊

  • @prabhatmanShrestha
    @prabhatmanShrestha 2 роки тому

    Your videos are amazing and helpful. Thank you spreading the goodness in the world.

  • @sharmaji27
    @sharmaji27 2 роки тому

    Your videos are very powerful and worthy implementing

  • @ddvantandar-kw7kl
    @ddvantandar-kw7kl Рік тому +1

    Things will dramatically change if you have willingness to do

  • @fresnoboy08
    @fresnoboy08 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the videos, I've applied your techniques to my current team, and future interviews and they work! Thank you for helping me improve my life!

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому

      You're welcome Ivan 🙏🏽😊 Glad this is helpful and well done for applying it!

  • @sciencecosmos6931
    @sciencecosmos6931 8 місяців тому

    Thanks mam for improving our life 👏👏👏🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🙌🙌🙌🙌🎯

  • @amino5153
    @amino5153 3 роки тому +1

    This is absolutely amazing. Forever indebted to you!!!

  • @bradleysica5640
    @bradleysica5640 2 роки тому +1

    Consider implementing and quoting from great minds like Gandhi, Jesus, Mother Theresa etc. Into your presentations. ( Brother Brad)

  • @santoshv.k.5419
    @santoshv.k.5419 3 роки тому

    You are so articulate whatever you are expressing it goes in right rythm.since you saying doing this over the year you must have start working on you since early age

  • @virtualtreadmillwalknature1488
    @virtualtreadmillwalknature1488 2 роки тому

    Your voice is amazing! Thanks for your work!

  • @sharmishthaa
    @sharmishthaa 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this. It feels as if you are talking about me and the video!

  • @Swift1756
    @Swift1756 2 роки тому

    Truly informative...especially 3,4 & 5.....Thanks

  • @vish970
    @vish970 2 роки тому

    So much relatable.. I will definitely implement your advise on the situations ! Cheers !

  • @kelashmaheshwari76
    @kelashmaheshwari76 2 місяці тому

    Please make video on Convincing skills

  • @rahmanrzayev797
    @rahmanrzayev797 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this informative and helpful videos 👍

  • @subinkv6849
    @subinkv6849 2 роки тому

    Excellent way of presentation..ma'am..😊

  • @bhalla_rishav
    @bhalla_rishav Рік тому

    thanks for these amazing tips it really helped me a lot as i want to become a motivational speaker .

  • @BrainFoodCafe
    @BrainFoodCafe 3 роки тому

    Perfect timing, I have a presentation tomorrow.

  • @suhamajeed5209
    @suhamajeed5209 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the amazing content Shade! Small suggestion that would be helpful is if you summarize the points you went through. With a racy mind, can easily forget those you just discussed!

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for the kind words Suha and excellent suggestion for us with racy minds! 🧡🙏🏽

  • @ibnesinastudent6780
    @ibnesinastudent6780 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for teaching us the best.😊

  • @joseabad2552
    @joseabad2552 Рік тому

    Thanks for teaching this amazing lessons keep up the great work ❤

  • @sangrambaliarsingh8719
    @sangrambaliarsingh8719 2 роки тому

    Brilliant teacher

  • @laura2981
    @laura2981 Рік тому

    Very inspiring. Thanks for sharing!

  • @arthenyusdark-cientista4207
    @arthenyusdark-cientista4207 3 роки тому

    Você é uma escultura do universo ! Arthênyus Dark.

  • @AudioMasterRTrib
    @AudioMasterRTrib Рік тому

    Great advice, well delivered, thanks for share.

  • @Rayzorbladez
    @Rayzorbladez 3 роки тому +1

    Jedi Master, love this

  • @subbuchannel
    @subbuchannel 3 роки тому +1

    Really good one...thanks for sharing your tips..I always believe there is good vibe with good people. I can feel the positive vibe from you without being in person... Best tips for introverts like me!...

  • @dwijensingh1413
    @dwijensingh1413 2 роки тому

    Very erudite and articulate Shade! Thanks for uploading.

  • @user-gn4mq5cs6e
    @user-gn4mq5cs6e Рік тому +1

    At 5:52 everyone gets a reminder of their senior counterparts / 'Key Employee' for which we have to " Discount the disclaimer " So that (1) we can safeguard our job, (2) they can rephrase our quality communicated idea, thought, approach, and zest of agenda in the final verdict with statement starting " I think the best way... " And gets all the appreciation for being the best suited individual for the post he is helding and way forward for his subsequent promotion....

  • @Freehifz
    @Freehifz Рік тому

    Thanks Madam!
    Excellent ❤❤❤ tips

  • @riseofasia7683
    @riseofasia7683 2 роки тому

    Thanks Shade.
    You are always to the point.

    • @AntySsy
      @AntySsy 7 місяців тому

      Yes😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @baymaxuzumaki8256
    @baymaxuzumaki8256 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing such a video. These are the areas I need to work on but couldn't because I didn't know how to.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +1

      Glad this is specifically helpful! Wishing you the very best with your progress.

    • @baymaxuzumaki8256
      @baymaxuzumaki8256 3 роки тому

      @@ShadeZahrai 😊 Thank you

  • @NAjq5db
    @NAjq5db 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for your vids

  • @devil-dreamz6255
    @devil-dreamz6255 3 роки тому

    Hii maam I have started to seen your interview tips and communication skills videos . It's very useful for me. Thank you so much 😇

  • @KuldipSingh-pw4ec
    @KuldipSingh-pw4ec Рік тому

    Thanks a lot , most relevant.

  • @alinindwani7095
    @alinindwani7095 3 роки тому

    Wonderful tips Shade ...... Learning some good communication skills from you ....thanks

  • @shamasdin1593
    @shamasdin1593 2 місяці тому

    Marvellous video

  • @surajtopal9940
    @surajtopal9940 3 роки тому

    amazing explanation ma'am . I request to you please make video on how to do hand gesture .

  • @horstbachmann6344
    @horstbachmann6344 2 роки тому

    Vielen lieben Dank für die Mühe guten Info!👍❤️👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @aminullahamini3037
    @aminullahamini3037 Рік тому

    Hi, I hope you are doing well.
    How i can improve my speaking and hearing skill.
    and i hope you talking a little slowly we can't catch the lessons quickly.
    Amini from Afghanistan

  • @natarajrangayana
    @natarajrangayana 2 роки тому

    Great!

  • @kamalhussain4338
    @kamalhussain4338 2 роки тому

    You are brilliant.

  • @sathyar2609
    @sathyar2609 2 роки тому

    Can u make some videos on how to handle toxic or irritating people with confidence and succeed over them

  • @m.fazlurrahman5854
    @m.fazlurrahman5854 Рік тому

    1) Largely it comes from knowing one’s job.
    2) So communicating with XXX; matters less; unless one doesn’t know what it is!
    3) Stay away from one-way directions…

  • @zeraimebrahtuhabtu226
    @zeraimebrahtuhabtu226 3 роки тому

    Thank you Shadè, My name is Zerai that sounds like your family name and every time when you pronounce your name i feel like as if my daughter is talking and gives me wonderful connection and joy. THANK YOU for the brilliant resourceful videos.

  • @R1Originals
    @R1Originals 3 роки тому +1

    Wow, just 3 dislikes shows the quality of the content 💯

  • @lijinantony5846
    @lijinantony5846 2 роки тому

    Thank you🙏

  • @letsworkprince9512
    @letsworkprince9512 Рік тому +28

    I can understand your English without subtitles 😅

  • @asabhishekranjansing
    @asabhishekranjansing 3 роки тому

    You are such a great influencer.

  • @er_prashant
    @er_prashant 2 роки тому

    Shade you have given so many thoughtful as well as practical insights... You pointed out the right issues regarding appearing confident for introverts like me. Thanks a lot! Keep shining 🙂

  • @abdulrazzak3976
    @abdulrazzak3976 3 роки тому +1

    @shade Zahrai As always, Your video made my day. Thank you very much for sharing these tips expecially for the introverts like Me... May God Bless You with Abundance Happiness in Your Life... 🤲👍🙂