Yep! It happened to me almost 2 years ago, right before I met my now amazing boyfriend. I was talking to a guy long distance (we lived almost 350 miles apart) and I made the 5-1/2-hour drive to visit him for several days after we had been talking for a few weeks. Long story short, we had an awesome 4 or 5 days together and it seemed like things were going great, but after I returned home, his communication started to dwindle significantly. He was texing, calling, and Facetiming less and less until he eventually stopped communicating altogether and ignored all of my texts. I never saw or heard from him again. It hurt A LOT and it sent me into a state of depression, wondering what I had happened. It was especially difficult since it was my first venture out into the dating world after my husband (whom I had been with for a total of 22 years, since I was only 18) had passed away. However, a few weeks later, I ended up meeting the guy I've now been dating for the past 21 months and couldn't be happier, so it all ended up working out exactly as it was meant to!
@@brickflipper5273Right back at you with your juice analogy. It works both ways and if you have the disrespectful lack of compassion and empathy for another human being it can and will be done back to you so you can see what it feels like because karma is a biotch!! Get ready!
If they're SO afraid to have a conversation about losing interest, send a text. Send a DM. Send an email. Maybe a bird with a note...? 🤔 Anything beats nothing at all. A few of my lady friends were ghosted, and it has really jaded them. Sad and immature of those who do it. 👎
Ghosting is extremely cruel, disrespectful, and immature. It speaks far more about them than it does about you and it shows a great lack of emotional maturity. If you don't intend to keep seeing someone and want to break things off, at least have enough decency and common courtesy to communicate that. NEVER leave the other person hanging while you ride off into the sunset with absolutely no intentions of ever seeing or talking to them again. There's simply no excuse for that sort of behavior.
Yes. I learnt the hard way that just because someone is in love with you doesn't mean they will choose to end up with you. They'd rather be with someone who gives them less intensity, someone who means less to them, and they conform to that 🤷🏻♀️ I'll never understand it
I am going to chime in on this. If we are speaking of an adult male, the type of male that you are describing doesn't sound like an emotionally mature one . Ghosting is defined as leaving one without a just cause. I feel that an emotionally secure male would have an intelligent conversation with a woman about his change in his feelings. Ppl change and feelings change all of the time. If we are speaking of a mature man, then he would have a conversation. Men who are not as mature have the tendency to ghost women. If the man really and genuinely cared about the woman or any woman in his life, treating women in this matter would be unacceptable. Breaking the cycle should not be that deep. Deep needs to call for deep when you desire a deeper relationship with God the Father, and this would help you with your connections with others. Men have to stop doing the blame game and start holding themselves accountable for their own actions. I have to with my own. My take.
Thank you for stating the obvious. Sometimes men aren’t ready to deal with a real one. I’ve become ok with that because if you ain’t ready don’t waste my time. In the same breath it isn’t easy walking away from someone you care deeply about and that’s on both ends. Peace and love❤
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
So true. Before I met my now amazing boyfriend, I was briefly seeing a guy (for about a month) who did this to me. It was long-distance as we lived 5-1/2 hours apart. I made the 5-1/2 hour drive to spend several days wtih him and we had an amazing time. I really felt a connection and he said he did as well; however, after I returned home, his texting, calling, and FaceTiming greatly started dwindling and then eventually dropped off altogether and I never heard from him again. I sent him a few texts, but he stopped responding. What I strongly suspect happened is that his "ex" came back into the picture. He mentioned her several times while I was visiting him and we even had to go check on her house while she was out of town while I was there, which I found very strange. It really sucked and was extremely hurtful, especially since it was my first attempt at entering the dating scene after my husband passed away, but in retrospect, I'm so grateful that he ghosted me because, about a week after our last communication, I met my boyfriend, who I have now been with for almost 2 years and have never been happier. Solid proof that when one door closes, another one opens!
Am been honest now , is this right ? no but is this wrong ? no When in the dating stage we should never put all our eggs in one basket Lets protect our hearts sis 😂
Heal💯💯💯 Walk into our best self💯💯💯 I love this video! You’re doing a fantastic job! Thank God for you! May our Heavenly Father continue to bless you, your business & your team! May He continue to use you in a positive light to glorify Him! I pray that your day is going well!🫶🏼💯
That's not always the case. Some men are just extremely emotionally immature and don't have the capacity, ability, or consideration to actually have a conversation about it rather than just ghosting.
Unfortunately they always run from me because they get scared of "the real deal", someone said that i am too desired from other man and he wants to stay "relaxed" in the relationship.
While the last thing may be true I think you are placating women by making that statement. Most people if they had to choose between safe and boring or unsafe and passionate will choose the latter barring there are no other issues related to family, etc. So 9 times out of 10 when a man ghost a woman it’s because he loved the other woman more or saw red flags and not because he was just scared (unless the woman hurt him in some way). The problem is most women who clicked on this video will hear what they want to hear and assume a man is still pining for them and secretly thinking of them when they aren’t.
No commitment. Dating is flat out heartbreaking. Save yourself!!! Love YOURSELF!!
That's so childish . No man or woman should do this. If you met someone else, then just say that! Dating has become so difficult.
So true,its usually after the 3mth stage,block you and thats it,utterly unkind
Sometimes the juice is not worth the squeeze so we just vanish
Yep! It happened to me almost 2 years ago, right before I met my now amazing boyfriend. I was talking to a guy long distance (we lived almost 350 miles apart) and I made the 5-1/2-hour drive to visit him for several days after we had been talking for a few weeks. Long story short, we had an awesome 4 or 5 days together and it seemed like things were going great, but after I returned home, his communication started to dwindle significantly. He was texing, calling, and Facetiming less and less until he eventually stopped communicating altogether and ignored all of my texts. I never saw or heard from him again. It hurt A LOT and it sent me into a state of depression, wondering what I had happened. It was especially difficult since it was my first venture out into the dating world after my husband (whom I had been with for a total of 22 years, since I was only 18) had passed away. However, a few weeks later, I ended up meeting the guy I've now been dating for the past 21 months and couldn't be happier, so it all ended up working out exactly as it was meant to!
@@brickflipper5273Right back at you with your juice analogy. It works both ways and if you have the disrespectful lack of compassion and empathy for another human being it can and will be done back to you so you can see what it feels like because karma is a biotch!! Get ready!
If they're SO afraid to have a conversation about losing interest, send a text. Send a DM. Send an email.
Maybe a bird with a note...? 🤔
Anything beats nothing at all.
A few of my lady friends were ghosted, and it has really jaded them.
Sad and immature of those who do it. 👎
Ghosting is extremely cruel, disrespectful, and immature. It speaks far more about them than it does about you and it shows a great lack of emotional maturity. If you don't intend to keep seeing someone and want to break things off, at least have enough decency and common courtesy to communicate that. NEVER leave the other person hanging while you ride off into the sunset with absolutely no intentions of ever seeing or talking to them again. There's simply no excuse for that sort of behavior.
Yes. I learnt the hard way that just because someone is in love with you doesn't mean they will choose to end up with you. They'd rather be with someone who gives them less intensity, someone who means less to them, and they conform to that 🤷🏻♀️ I'll never understand it
Don’t forget the guy that “ghost”as an attempt to control you !
I am going to chime in on this. If we are speaking of an adult male, the type of male that you are describing doesn't sound like an emotionally mature one . Ghosting is defined as leaving one without a just cause. I feel that an emotionally secure male would have an intelligent conversation with a woman about his change in his feelings. Ppl change and feelings change all of the time. If we are speaking of a mature man, then he would have a conversation. Men who are not as mature have the tendency to ghost women. If the man really and genuinely cared about the woman or any woman in his life, treating women in this matter would be unacceptable. Breaking the cycle should not be that deep. Deep needs to call for deep when you desire a deeper relationship with God the Father, and this would help you with your connections with others. Men have to stop doing the blame game and start holding themselves accountable for their own actions. I have to with my own. My take.
Amen!!!!! 👏👏👏👏
Appreciate you always *"keepin' it real,"* Stephan! You're right, some people just cannot handle *"Real!"* 🙏❤✝️
Wherever your heart is, that’s where your treasure is!🤷🏽♀️
Right!
Thank you for stating the obvious. Sometimes men aren’t ready to deal with a real one. I’ve become ok with that because if you ain’t ready don’t waste my time. In the same breath it isn’t easy walking away from someone you care deeply about and that’s on both ends. Peace and love❤
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
It's sad when dishonesty is easier. When that is who he is, she dodged a bullet!
He spinned the block!
You have to be a strong person to deal with this,its totally disrespectful,and time wasting,lifes too short to play games
So true. Before I met my now amazing boyfriend, I was briefly seeing a guy (for about a month) who did this to me. It was long-distance as we lived 5-1/2 hours apart. I made the 5-1/2 hour drive to spend several days wtih him and we had an amazing time. I really felt a connection and he said he did as well; however, after I returned home, his texting, calling, and FaceTiming greatly started dwindling and then eventually dropped off altogether and I never heard from him again. I sent him a few texts, but he stopped responding. What I strongly suspect happened is that his "ex" came back into the picture. He mentioned her several times while I was visiting him and we even had to go check on her house while she was out of town while I was there, which I found very strange. It really sucked and was extremely hurtful, especially since it was my first attempt at entering the dating scene after my husband passed away, but in retrospect, I'm so grateful that he ghosted me because, about a week after our last communication, I met my boyfriend, who I have now been with for almost 2 years and have never been happier. Solid proof that when one door closes, another one opens!
Thanks for this insight "lots of people can't handle the real" ✨
I'm in agreeance with that, Mr. Fine! 😏💯
Am been honest now , is this right ? no but is this wrong ? no
When in the dating stage we should never put all our eggs in one basket
Lets protect our hearts sis 😂
Thank you for explaining this 💚
Stephan I think men need to man up be real and open and stop play games with women feelings interested topic
Also women need to stop accepting bad behavior, right?? 💡💡💡
I think both sexes ghost. This is not unique to males.
Heal💯💯💯
Walk into our best self💯💯💯
I love this video!
You’re doing a fantastic job!
Thank God for you!
May our Heavenly Father continue to bless you, your business & your team!
May He continue to use you in a positive light to glorify Him!
I pray that your day is going well!🫶🏼💯
That's actually very sad 😢
He is saying it all by ghosting
There’s only ONE reason men disappear without warning - the shi*t’s hit the fan and they’re about to be found out!!!!
That's not always the case. Some men are just extremely emotionally immature and don't have the capacity, ability, or consideration to actually have a conversation about it rather than just ghosting.
See ya wouldn't want to be ya✌🏾
Unfortunately they always run from me because they get scared of "the real deal", someone said that i am too desired from other man and he wants to stay "relaxed" in the relationship.
this is wild and makes no sense lol. i’m so sorry.
Im glad im single 😊
While the last thing may be true I think you are placating women by making that statement. Most people if they had to choose between safe and boring or unsafe and passionate will choose the latter barring there are no other issues related to family, etc. So 9 times out of 10 when a man ghost a woman it’s because he loved the other woman more or saw red flags and not because he was just scared (unless the woman hurt him in some way). The problem is most women who clicked on this video will hear what they want to hear and assume a man is still pining for them and secretly thinking of them when they aren’t.
I quit.
4:44 that is understandable but you can’t realistically expect a person to be vulnerable after it happens.
Emotional abuse
Good evening Sir😊🫶🏾