When They Reject You But Want to Be Friends?! (The Friendzone) 🚫🛑🔐
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00:00 WHEN THEY REJECT YOU BUT WANT TO BE FRIENDS?
03:22 POLITELY DECLINE
05:58 RARELY ENDS WELL
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She put me in the friendzone, I put her in the endzone.....
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Mean but I love it. I just did the same. I want to be friends but I can't because I will be too emotional rollercoaster.
@@SCGSHOWrejection makes a man stronger
It's far better to be alone than to be friend-zoned. When you are alone, you have you. When you are friend-zoned you have betrayed yourself and you are completely alone.
Wisdom in a nutshell
Once they reject me they no longer exist to me
@stevo6891 Yes! That's how I feel!
@@kentaroo.7759 Damn straight!! I once had a high school crush we were friends.. We shared laughs, joked, help each other on homework she even asked if I could drive her home in the winter.. I actually thought something was there.. So I decided to ask her out and she told me she didn’t want to date anyone while in high school she wanted to finish school.. I was a little bummed but I wanted our friendship still.. I understand she wants to get through high school.. So like 3 weeks go by almost a month she meets a bad boy in high school.. Once she met him she ignored me wouldn’t look or speak to me our friendship was over.. She must of blocked me because my texts couldn’t go through.. No lie I was absolutely hurt and in pain.. I was lost for words.. Well she married that bad boy and had kids with him.. Last I heard she was getting a divorce because he cheats and is mean to her.. I been out of school like 19 years now.. It was actually around Christmas time I ran into her shopping she comes up to me how you been, it’s been a long time, what are you doing with yourself, you work around here??? I’m thinking to myself are you freaking serious right now??? I really wanted to tell her off but people was around so I just ignored her and went on about my day.. I don’t have nothing else to say to her!!
@stevo6891 Well, that sucks. That's what happens when they choose the A-holes. I had a similar incident years ago, except the part of meeting her years later.
My belief is that if someone friend zones you because of something about you that they find is a problem. They will feel the same way when it comes to you being friends because that is how they view you as a person. Regardless of how your connection to them is. Rejection doesn’t mean your worthless, but it’s redirection to bigger and better things you deserve
Redirection to bigger and better things you deserve indeed
Ok, you just blew my mind. You are right!
Reject their friend zone and keep moving.
It's crazy how love can turn you into a other person that you not are.
I wasted three years on a girl after I said I really liked her and wanted to date her. She rejected me, saying she values our friendship. I hung around and listened constantly to her chasing and dating other guys, and complaining about them. It was like torture to me. But I did it anyway in hopes that she would see how compassionate and caring I was and fall for me. How stupid I was! Wish I found this video earlier, because I learned about this the hard way. I haven’t talked with her in over a year. The time that I wasted in the evenings on the phone with her has been replaced by practicing music and becoming a strong musician, which is my passion, so I’m being very productive now, bettering myself as a person. I’m finally ready to get back onto the dating sites, and I’ll be smarter, won’t make the same mistakes as before, and I’ll eventually find someone more compatible with me.
_"She rejected me, saying she values our friendship"_
Yes, that's the way women say "I don't have the same romantic feelings for you, but we can we friends". There is nothing wrong with that. It's just women don't like to spell it out explicitly, they don't want to hurt the other person.
_"I haven’t talked with her in over a year. The time that I wasted in the evenings on the phone with her has been replaced"_
This is bad tbh. If you actually like the person a lot, the time spent with them wouldn't be a waste. It would be fun and pleasurable. Man or a woman. Like, this sound resentful.
Also, if you do your research on pickup art, there are proven ways to get out of this friend zone. There were a lot of opportunities to go on many many dates with that women without explicitly making it a date, but it would be a romantic date in all senses and purposes for both of you. For example, when she was complaining about some guys, you could say that you wanna see her and make her a little less sad and make her day better. Then once it's on, it's on and you do what you do: you quickly get to the comfort zone, then flirt a little and pull back a little, and you continue doing that until there are sparks, and then you do the move(the tells will be all over the place). You can create the sparks. That's how "chemistry" works, and you can work on it and get very good at it. That's what naturals are good at: creating sparks, and also what pickup artists do all the time.
I do agree that if it bothers you, you should cut the contact and move on, but when you're told you guys can just be friends, you can be friends if you're actually honest with yourself and with the other person and you're actually ready to be friends. Or you can get out of it if you're good. But don't put it the other person.
Good luck on your finding a partner endeavours. I'm actually in a very similar place as you atm of writing your comment "about to start dating after working on myself" phase, but for a set of very different reasons.
@@KulaGGin You don't put it on the other person, though. It's exactly vice versa, the other one puts it on you. Namely by implying, I don't wish to be romantically involved but I still want your validation. These chicks know exactly what they're doing, though. They KNOW they send your emotions spinning when they cry you their crocodile tears about how this other guy is such a meanie...they do it because they get away with it, and to feel validated.
To me I rather be alone then friends zone but I would never be friends with anyone that reject me that doesn’t work for me.
You will never be good enough to the wrong person, friend zone is putting you on the back burner or the shelf zone, move on and have respect for yourself and you will find the right one for you 👍 up SCG and survivors and thrivers 🙏
She just wants your attention. Ignore her, work on yourself, make money, go to the gym, hang out with a lot of girls, make your group of guys to hang out.
That doesn't necessarily mean that she's seeking attention. Maybe she only likes him for a friend. You can't make someone like you. It doesn't mean that person isn't valued just because there is something that doesn't place him on her level.
But Denisa , what makes you want him around as a friend?
And can you develop feelings for him after you friendzonend him
Amen King
In my case she is my family relative. told she had feelings for me sometimes but realized it won't work, and to go as good friends.. im confused if should cut off all the contacts
Rejection is better than the Friendzone because when you are rejected you are free, if you settle for the Friendzone it gives you the false hope telling you that if she sees what a great guy I am she'll fall in love with me that only happens in the movies not real life!!!!! The reality is you are going to be in a subservient role to her where she has all the power, she'll just use/take advantage of you for favors, talk about her problems/other guys like a male girlfriend its not just you its also other beta orbiters in her Friendzone. Its way better to accept and embrace rejection because it gives you freedom to explore other options as well as motivate you to become the best/attractive version of yourself where you will eventually bring better results with Women and improve your Sexual Market Value!!!! REJECTION IS THE BEGINNING OF ATTRACTION!!!!!
Wooow
I do completely agree
The best comment i'very ever read
Thanks
Oscar Wilde said
Friendship between men and women it’s impossible. There can be love, passion, enmity, but never friendship. So if a girl rejects you, ignore her, forget about her and work on yourself. Women want a successful guy.
I hate it when they say they'll still see me as a friend. I would rather be seen as a classmate, a coworker, acquaintance, or even a nobody. Goodbye. Have a nice day. Actually, it means good luck leave me the F alone!
It took me 40 years to learn this, but it’s accurate and since I figured it out I’ve been much more at peace…
Well done 👏🏻👏🏻
Being put in the friendzone also means she’s keeping you in her life in case her other options don’t work out. Never,ever be someone else’s option.
Spot on 👏🏻
I appreciate this video. Word of advice to those who are in “no contact”: make sure you’re making an effort in creating distance so you can move on, not because you think it’s going to get their attention…
I wasted 4 years on someone who just wanted to be "friends"
In the end it was a fwb he wanted and when I said no he got a new "friend" the same day
I realize that he had her all along and was just waiting for the right time to throw her along with all the other "friends" in my face
I cut all contact and haven't spoken to him for over 2 years 👍
Thats just a narcissist, watch everything you can on them on youtube or quora.
@@Elmalditovikingo I have already watched and read everything about narcissism, that's how I found SCG
Thanks 🙂
Good, you deserve better than being a back up
@@nleak92 Absolutely and I've never felt better, thanks 😊
Well done.
She wants you to be her backup plan, her emotional tampon, and/or do boyfriend/husband things for her without being your girlfriend/wife.
Either way, if you have an ounce of self-respect, be/do none of those things
Facts
That's the shit I couldn't agree with you more.
@@SCGSHOWrun away as fast as Usain Bolt 😂😂
It's bad enough she rejects you then want to be friends the only advice you need is to leave that person alone walk away and never look back never deal with them ever again if you have any decency about yourself walk away and never look back
Defo
You probably would have heard from her again if you left the door open SCG. "I respect your decision but I'm not interested in being friends and if we're going to spend time together, there has to be a physical aspect as well. Let me know if you have a change of heart. Take care and all the best."
Always state what you want and leave the door open. Remember, you're entitled to give a negotiation as much as they are. Most of the time they come back if you're congruent with your decision.
Indeed. You can still be “friends” as defined as most relationships before dating (like ok your first date, you all are “friends”), if one wants to keep in touch & leave the door open is setting boundaries.
Attraction is not a choice. Learn attractive behaviors/actions.
Tbh I got rejected by this girl I go to college with. I liked her a lot. Like I thought she was “the one”. Normally when I go on dates with girls I don’t feel the connection, and we eventually just go our separate ways and I really don’t end up caring cause I never had romantic feelings for them. But when she rejected me I acted cool in silence but cried embarrassingly when I got home. She wanted to be friends and said I was the perfect guy and bla bla bla, but I said I needed my space. That was nearly a month ago. I wanted to say yes, but I’m not Steve urkel. And the reality of getting the girl that friendzone you is definitely not likely to happen like they depict on TV. I spent the first two days depressed, eating TERRIBLY I had whataburger three times that one day, 6000 calories. I first felt numb but by day four I snapped out of it, hot myself back in the gym, I’m eating healthier, in these three short weeks of drinking nasty ass apple cider vinegar and doing intense exercises, my body went from looking like an apple to an hour glass. I feel lighter, and I’m happy that I’m doing this for me and not her. At first I felt guilty for not excepting her friendship right away but honestly the plan is to permanently keep away from her. nothing personal against her it’s just not healthy for me.
Accepting*
So even if she tries to close the gap what should I do? Make that space again?
I got rejected by my crush after I moved on and act like she doesn’t exist
@@stevo6891wise guy.
You can't be friendzoned because you have a choice to be or not to be a woman can't force friendship on you .
Ah, getting friendzone, it used to be my speciality until I understood the very things you explained on this video, keep going SCG.
I needed to hear this. Thanks.
You are so welcome
I just found this channel and really needed to hear this. Thanks SCG
Thank you!!
This video is so real, thank you.
I also declined. I said “F*^k No” as politely as possible!!
Go Canes!!!!
Here’s one for you ,a year chasing her and over 100 occasions where we went out then I said I loved her she said no 🤷♂️ then found out she was on a dating app using the pictures that I took of her and was taking other guys out 🤷♂️ after telling me she had trust issues with men I stayed exclusive to her and our so called friendship hopefully more she didn’t….we no longer talk thankfully.
😂 oh that’s cold 😂 she was using you lmao 😅
The pain is sometimes unbearable but I know that’s on me and not her .. 😢
Very helpful
Great video
I pursued a woman for 4 months. She finally accepted a date with me. We had a great date with food and a live band. We hooked up, and I caught feelings. My intentions were respectful and clear. 7 days later, she u-turned and told me she just wanted to be friends. My world was shattered 😮. Initially, I took the rejection gracefully and accepted it. I then found out she was seeing someone else less than 24 hours after seeing me. I then acted in front of co-workers like a fool as my feelings were so hurt. I became passive agressive and didn't take the fact that she chose someone else well at all. My feelings and ego were crushed. I showed her my weakness and probably solidified her decision by not choosing to continue dating me. To this day, just over 4 months on, I'm still shattered by what happened. I still have genuine feelings for this lady. In time, I'm sure it will make sense. I wish her all the best, but in my heart, I still love her. Unfortunately, it wasn't meant to be.
Sorry to hear this, but you'll never be good enough for the wrong person!
this is almost exactly what happened to me a few weeks. im trying to keep myself distracted by working out and improving myself. stay strong bro!
Don’t accept the friendship it’s going to hurt you block them and move on it’s a form of break up after all
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What do when we both agreed we werent compatible in terms of a relationship and agreed to be "friends", but am now realizing that we're not really going to be "friends" in how i view friendship
That helped. Know you won't see this but.. thanks bro 👍
Ive seen it bro! Thank you
Tell her that you want a girlfriend. Not a friend that's a girl. Then walk away.
All of my friends are men. Not women. A friendship with a man, and a romantic/sexual relationship with a woman, are two different things. They're not even equivalent, or on the same level.
I just got friend zoned by who I thought was my lover. We met 6 months ago and started dating until early march when she said she liked another guy and she left me at that. I dont know if I'll ever get over this...
Trust me you will get over this
@SCGSHOW idk if I will but thanks for being so supportive :)
I declined but I wished I saw this like 3 years ago because that’s when it happened to me.
I feel dating is a stepping stone towards sharing your life together with all it's ups and downs and sealed by marriage.
If someone went on a date with us and wanted to re-connect and then said can we be friends maybe the other person should have a in depth conversation in what could be a lifetime togetherness so the other person knows the intentions of the seriousness of growing together for a fulfilling life.
But unfortunately usually nothing of value is not spoken, kissing can be a sign to another person that all their goal is to have their sexual needs met and the cycle begins to uncertainty.
If sex could be at the end of the list and unsurface each other's personal thoughts and needs like helping one another, extended ourselves in each other's kind of living maybe more and more committing habits could turn into a commitment which would lead to marriage then there wouldn't be so much division and chaos
This is why people need to distinguish the difference between courting someone and dating I feel like dating is when you're just getting to know more than one person to see which one is best for you courting is when you know for sure you want that person and you're courting them because you see marriage in the future this is how they did it back in the old days
Rule 1 of dating,
Differentiate who’s your acquaintances, friends and romantic interests.
Acquaintances - Someone I know by name and nothing else (if you pass away, I’ll at most send a RIP message)
Friends - Someone who I can count on and is willing to have fun and be silly with me (I’ll cry for a few days)
Romantic interest - That special someone who’s completely irreplaceable. (I might need to go for therapy for this)
If a girl rejects you, and says, “Let’s just be friends…”, tell her that you have standards to being “friends” and that she’ll be at best an acquaintance
Spot on!
@@SCGSHOW Didn't know you'll reply, but keep up the good work!
I deleted all her chats and kept her messages on disappearing. I blocked her on other SM apps. When she said we'll just be friends and refused to kiss me, that's when I realised that there's no attraction.
Nature is more aligned with Women. If they say they aren't sure about you then believe them. And even if they comeback. Remember it's the trauma bond or ego trip for her. It will never end well. She will compare you with others
Well done mate 👏🏻👏🏻
It's a shame I didn't know this when I was in my early 20s
Least you know it now 👏🏻
If you look like the guy in the thumbnail I don't think there is a high possibility bof you getting friendzoned . If you are handsome , enjoy it brother .
Two options you can walk away like I did two months ago.. Or accept the friend zone which I did for two months.. But it was hurting so walked away.. It still hurts.. But I should of not given the ultimatum and rather just stop all contact.. I basically pushed her for a commitment which wasn't right as I feel now about it.. I should of just stopped contact till she reached out.. But I don't think she will now.. I am sad but I'll get over it.. It was a special connection
Run for your life!
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I was in a 30-year relationship with my wife. She left me for my friend of 36 years. Not a long time after that. I start seeing another lady was actually my first love. That lasted 13 years. She dumped me for another guy. She came back after 3 months. Left me again less than a week. But for some reason I'm a lot stronger. Trying to get back to work so I can buy me a Dodge Challenger scat pack
I’ve been rejected multiple times but I remember what jiraya said Rejection makes a man stronger
It does 💯
@@SCGSHOW yup
I like your video that explains everything that planes. Hope that this person isn’t right for me she’s just dragging you on.
Youll figure it out
last couple months there was a co worker who I had a lot in common together with but i was getting mixed signals so i asked her if she liked me she said yes as a friend im a awesome person but she thought i was aware she had a bf already it was not that clear so i said i like her to and ok with being friends but if she ever breaks off from her current relationship I want to be more than friends with her she said thank you for expressing your feelings but im starting to think she considering her feelings for me as she is aware that im using dating apps and she seems distant anytime i talk about other girls on those apps or meeting them
I love your video. I’m going through the same thing I want to end this friend zone for good this person. I can’t know her age but I don’t want to be around her so I’m gonna ghost her and just not exist.😢
Move on mate! You can do it 👍🏻
We work together. She rejected me but still likes the non-work chit-chat. I stopped that immediately. I can still be professional and polite. I just won't give her any special attention. These are decisions that need to be made without emotion.
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I am the one who rejected my friend. We were and are very honest and connected with each other. I really don't want to lose him. I cried several days after he told me he is in Love with me. Because both of us suffered alone we now try to be friends with a deep platonic connection. But I'm not sure if its the right thing to do. I dont want to be selfish and I want a healthy relationship. Do I need to end this? Im sure he wouldn't do it by himself
Are u gay?
Let the guy go for f*cksakes!
After I blocked her on everything, she keeps sending me friend request and she snoops on my social media
Keep her blocked
Any man or woman that has self respect for themself will not stay in the so called "friendzone" - There is no being friends after rejection!
Absolutely!
I can’t stand all these tosspots who say ‘you put YOURSELF in the friend zone’. That’s the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard.
She doesn't want her heart broken by you again but wants to keep you around! But you can't be friends with someone you've had an intimate relationship with so you have to walk away. I wouldn't want to be back with her anyway because the same reasons exist for why I left her in the first place! I think she's regretting the decision as she probably thought I'd chase her, which was never going to happen and yet she remains in my orbit!
Let her go!!
@@SCGSHOWI have let her go but I know she'll try and come back at some stage! Especially as she knows she'll never really replace me!
Thank's for all you're great vidéo SCG they help me a lot I have a women friend that as a New boyfriend now and she want's to put me in friendzone this vidéo confirm me to say no thank's and politely decline her invitation, and you're vidéo about walking away are great too but I know for my own good I have to go all the way but so hard to Do ,like you Said in previous vidéo see it as a challenge . Wish you the best SCG keep those great vidéo coming really appreciate Them.
A man does’nt go out with a woman because he wants to be “friends” he wants someone who loves him, not just like him. Move on brother don’t waste time.
Facts!
Thanks for making this video. I just got rejected by a guy I’d met twice and had been chatting with for about 2 weeks or so. I have a feeling he coulda pulled away and called things off because of me coming off a little heavy with the texting rather quick. But at the same time, I can also tell you that when he and I first met in person, physical affection developed quickly and we did have our first kiss at the end of the night. We also met a couple nights later.
So when he texted me yesterday calling things off, he was of course very honest and genuine, and strongly offered friendship and to hang out platonically.
So maybe apart from me coming off heavy and strong with the texting maybe at the same time he felt like he began to develop affection too hard too fast and got scared? I know I didn’t know him for long but I really feel we could have had so much potential.
Let me know your thoughts.
There are plenty of good men who wont call things off. Trust me focus your energy on those people 🙏🏻
I wish guys understood when a woman uses the "friend" word, context is everything.
1. If you ask her out, and she makes a comment about "just being friends", then yeah she's not interested.
2. However, if the guy has never made his interest known to her, she's going to assume YOU only see her as a friend. If she says, "You're a such a great friend!", it means she likes you, but has no idea if you like her back. Always remember: We women assume you don't like us unless you explicitly tell us.
3. If she REALLY likes you, she might suggest "friends first". Basically she sees you as relationship material but is afraid if it gets physical too early, you will lose respect for her. In this context, beings "friends first" is code for "I want to take things slow because I think there's the potential for a long-term relationship".
Don't blindly assume the "friend" word means rejection. She might be crazy about you, but you have to discern the context.
Thanks for watching
I will never be put in the friendzone. I'f were not hooking up Then we have nothing to talk about. Screw that just friend crap. Bye
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"Keep you as a friend"...basically throwing someone scraps...not fair to them at all. Lord forbid the tables turned and the person that rejected them get the same treatment later down the road with someone THEY like smdh...seems people do this just to get free attention,affection, sometimes even gifts and dates out WITHOUT even having to like you or give you anything...just leave them to do their thing...
Finally someone gets it ppl I mean we all got rejected but I feel you I don't like how ppl is treat ppl when they know the person wanna like them it's immature
They do once the wall hits 😃
Does is good to avoid and build space between you who friendzone you?
I needed this thank you!!! I recently met a man on a dating app who seems to want to be friends with me but he blurs the boundaries so it messes with my head. Initially I thought we could be friends but I feel like I'll get more confused and hurt because he puts big kisses in his messages and is giving me mixed signals. I'm going to end contact and focus on myself, thank you.
I told her recently I understand and respect that, but I didn’t mean it
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Aut Caesar aut nihil
Be a king or die. Never settle for less than what you want. Be willing to walk away. These days, "friendship" has lost its meaning, and it's just a word.
AMEN!
@SCGSHOW also true friendships are never taken for granted. "Friendzoning" is taking people for granted.
Don't do friends. Complete waste of time. Plenty of other ladies out there.
i want to add if the girl already has someone then its not a rejection tell her you want her if she ever breaks off from her current relationship but don't wait for her either the first girl who i liked after 5 years of no contact after i walked she came back
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I don't need friends
I got rejected I told her bye 😂 it was Nice meeting you but I have to move on age act like a crazy woman she refuse to end our friendship she was like really you ask me to go out with you to hang out with you n now you leaving 😅 I was like yap you make your choice I’m not one second or third choice I’m first or nothing I have pride n love my self then she came out with the I shouldn’t had accent your invitation n just text n talk on the phone 😅 now you want to end this relationship because I don’t see you more then a friend 😂 I was like yap because it means you never value me it was all about you sorry but I’m gone lol 😅 then she came out with the oh wow really I shouldn’t had go out with you if I knew you would do thus to me 😂 she throw all kind of crap at me she seem like it hurt her so bad 😅 a day before when we went out I remuerden she told me why I get mad when she start making fun of me in her text I say I don’t get mad she is like is ok is not that it really matters 😂 oh well I guess she got taste of her own tea because she did care when u was leaving her ass also the day we went out I went to the beauty salon n she ask me why you don’t tell me that I’m pretty anyways I was just her ego feeder so when she knew she was losing me she went crazy 😂 I never got a reaction like that from a woman 😅
Great story. Thanks for Watching 👏
What do you think it will happen if you bump with this girl again in the future?
You have moved on, you have improved yourself... How do you see yourself behaving when bumping into the girl again in the future?
You walk on by like they dont exist. The past is the past. Move on and live well
Why she flirts heavily and then reject you. She initiated the approach, breaking the touch barrier, making compliments but when I asked her out, she rejected me flat out. Now I feel like a fool, but I haven’t misinterpreted the situation, she was probably just enjoying the attention. I felt hurt, I didn’t say anything, she tried to be friendly and me too but it feels awkward. I don’t think I could continue seeing her again without feeling bad. Friend zone is a no go.
Definitely a no go zone
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She keeps texting me to be in her life as a friend she says she sees me platonically. I said I can’t be friends with you but she is saying she doesn’t want me to get away from her life. I don’t know what to do I haven’t replied to her texts it’s been 3 days. Please give me your advice.
If you are fine listening to her speak to you about men she's attracted too and wants to date, then go for it. You'll also be her shoulder to cry on when a man she wants does her wrong and she asks you how she can get him back.
So. Wry true, but if they are not attracted to yiu, then there must be a reason right? Well in my humble opinion, use them to find your flaws and weakness, working on. Yourself, change physical appreances and dress, adapt and involve better social skills and hobbies, become not boring, see what type or person they are attracted too, physically wise and mentally , and become that person for your own self improvement, stay friends with them and now you become ethe hunted . Revenge is a dish served cold, I awaits use rejection as. a strength and inspiration for self improvement
Spot on!!
Got to knw a girl and she said she just looking for fwb. I said no im over those types of connections and lookin for something serious. She wanted to stay friends and just chill. I said no, time is valuable i dont just chill. That was the end of it. Fck outta here w that nonsense
Well done 👍🏻
Why is the guy crying so much in the beginning. It’s never that serious 😂😂
Might be to some! Thanks for Watching 👏
Of course you wouldn't understand Erica!
But hopefully one day you'll get a taste of ur own medicine
@@jacksmith-ez6kj I have cried over someone before but I’ve learned to not put my self worth and whole existence in another human being…. You mad? 🤨
@@ericalashay0209you seem mad
I hate being friend zoned
She said she loves me but dont want to get into a relationship
Should i keep her as a freind ?
She call me handsom she said her heart beat fast when im with her
I know i mean something 4 her
What should i do ?
Probably not brother
Biggest clue. She says. “. I wish i can find a guy just like you .” ……( but not you )
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Someone send will smith the link to this video
😂u wrong for that
A.k.a "Friend zone"
If i was rejected it would hurt my feelings but I wouldn't push that person out of the way. I would remain friends with them while seeking to find someone else. It's not there fault that they don't feel the same and it's your fault that you can't make them. Cutting them out of your life doesn't sound necessary. Take for example every man just about it thinks Cindy Crawford or Denise Michaels is hot and it would suck for them if they were rejected but to me if they cut them out for being rejected actually sounds like the guy was desperate and obsessive.
I meant to say not your fault
That's true but 95 percent time celebrities really don't like their fans so if someone like Cindy Crawford rejects me it'll be predictable imo and I wouldn't be upset cause you know ppl like them have high standards
I disagree move on from that person their are more fish 🐠 in the sea 🌊
If you stay friends with someone you have romantic feelings for you are wasting your time. She’ll just string your along as a backup in case she gets into a relationship with a new guy and it doesn’t work out. Trust me. It happened too me. You’re only setting yourself up for disappointment waiting around for something that might never even happen.
@@calebhodson7421 I agree man!! You hit the nail on the head.. I mean the person you had feelings for has been denied.. That means their is 0 interest she has for you.. I don’t play the “Let’s be friends” card.. Once the rejection takes place I’m done with that person move on..
I know a girl for over 3 years I went half way around the world to see her and visit the country as as well, things was going well and then she did a 180 on me, I was in shock and it was a real surprise for me things was really going well, you think you know some for 3 years, I was hoping to marry this girl as she would express her love for me. Then she just changed on me, I think women like this think they can put you in the friend zone as a back up plan, women who do this usually has some other guy who they think is a better catch , so will put you in the friend zone in case then get dumped, at the end of the day it's their loss. The grass is never greener on the other side, and what is really funny the girl who friend zoned me, was 34 years old and in her country she is look upon as a leftover woman and is considered as too old to marry or have children. The best thing a man can do is improve himself and become a High Value Man. A lot of women think that they will find some one better but usually will not, it's better to have little or no contact with them, just try to make yourself better, when you do well for yourself that's when they will see you as a good catch, try to not fall for it again, it takes time to heal but every dog has his day. To all the guys who have been friend zoned, take care be strong and brave.
Once I’m rejected I move on and forget that person cut contact
I can relate to that. Got myself friend zoned months ago and it was the first time for me to get rejected by a girl and honestly somehow it felt like sht even though I'm just a college student.
I can relate to that. Got myself friend zoned months ago and it was the first time for me to get rejected by a girl and honestly somehow it felt like sht even though I'm just a college student.