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  • @rehanalikhan8944
    @rehanalikhan8944 Рік тому +13

    After marriage I have to face many these things but nobody tells me what to do even my mother and elder sisters I have faced many things I can’t tell you but now after twenty year I have a good adviser now i am being able to tell all these things to my daughter

    • @adnandubai9314
      @adnandubai9314 3 місяці тому

      Ap Tek kehty ho ,meri October main shadi Hain s le phle hi sir Ka video deka thanks sir jee

  • @mudassarshah1698
    @mudassarshah1698 2 місяці тому +2

    Ap ny jo b kaha 100% sahi kaha mainy bht bara nuqsan uthaya ha r ab ja k itni thokro k bad mje smj i ha .. susral main chaplosi krny se ue ghr abad hota ha .. baqi umeed kesi se nhe lagani chahye Allah apny hath pao salamat rkhy bs .. hum bahu lakh susral ko sanwarny ki koshish kry pr ik larki 10 logo ko nhe thk krskti .. han shyd wo un jesi zaror van jati ha.. mainy to yehe 3 sal k experince se sekha ..

  • @Noorulain613
    @Noorulain613 11 місяців тому +9

    Kaaash ye sab batain hamari mother's hamay bta dia Karain 🥺

    • @AnyShah-g9o
      @AnyShah-g9o 10 місяців тому

      yaar hamari maa hamy samjha bhe dy tu hamari bari behny hamy or cousins asy mashory deti hy k ager ap un per amal ker ly tu Zindagi tabah hojye...... 💔

    • @mahrosh2187
      @mahrosh2187 Місяць тому

      Unko becharion ko b Kisi ny nhi btaya hota pta kin mseebton m zindgi guzari hoti h unhon ny soch smjh khtm ho gai hoti h un ki b bechri hmari main

  • @saeraabid262
    @saeraabid262 Рік тому +3

    What a wisdom.. MashaAllah

  • @IqraIsra-d3d
    @IqraIsra-d3d 2 місяці тому +1

    Bht zabrdast video ha ❤

  • @meerabali4248
    @meerabali4248 Рік тому +3

    جزاک اللہ 💞

  • @mafiaa14
    @mafiaa14 Рік тому +19

    mre khyaal se hmen butterng ni krni chahea straight forward hona chahea zda achaa ni bnna chahea zda achaa bnna koi achi bt ni ..........

    • @mudassarshah1698
      @mudassarshah1698 2 місяці тому

      Bilkul ghlt bt susral main straight forward bn,na bahu ko bht mehnga pahnga par jata ha .. r ye wqt main guzar chuki hu .. chaploai krny main he faida ha bs kesi se umeedy nhe lagani chahye ..

  • @mafiaa14
    @mafiaa14 Рік тому +10

    jitna mrzi orat achi bn la achi b v achi bahu bhaabi kch b ...... end pe wo buri e ha chahay jitni b achi bn la

  • @mafiaa14
    @mafiaa14 Рік тому +16

    agr lecture dna hn to is bt pe dn k susral waln k mis behviour ksa deal krna ha qk mis behave to unhn ny krn e ha wrna wo susral to na huaa

  • @iamdoll2607
    @iamdoll2607 Рік тому

    Sir gee bhat shukeriya ju itne pyari baatin batay ho Allha aap ko zindagi sehat dy.🌷

  • @pakeezavillage.9299
    @pakeezavillage.9299 Рік тому +4

    پرفیکٹ 👍🇵🇰🇩🇪🙏

  • @arjkaz3518
    @arjkaz3518 Рік тому +1

    Sar. y mushkil kam appny wife per rakhy hain per appki nasehyatain bohat acchi hain mashalla bohat samajdar hain sarizindagi isshi trha zindaygi guzari abb akely rehney ka behi asan taraeqa baya daiin38 sal bad Allaha ky paschaley gaysas khaingee dekha y ko ajarbeth jati hai bara saber karnapertahai abto yi be aqi kitanhaiguzarnay ezat ky sath bachey abad ho acchi baho ajayin ameen

  • @SabaMaryam-b1l
    @SabaMaryam-b1l 9 місяців тому +1

    Zabarst ❤

  • @nadtaq7571
    @nadtaq7571 Рік тому +3

    Very nice advice

  • @AnyShah-g9o
    @AnyShah-g9o 10 місяців тому

    Sir buhat buhat buhat shukriya ap nahi hoty tu hamy kon samjhata Qk hamari maa hamy nahi samjhati itni positive baty ❤

  • @lifewithzehranaqvi256
    @lifewithzehranaqvi256 Рік тому +4

    Mashallah

  • @mahrosh2187
    @mahrosh2187 Рік тому

    Ya Allah g mujhy esy hi bnana 😊😂or mery liye asaniyan peda krna ameen ❤

  • @shumilarana2103
    @shumilarana2103 Рік тому +4

    Kbi sas kosmjhiya k bahu ko beti na sahii atleast ouret hi smjh lia kry🤷‍♀️🤔

  • @mahrosh2187
    @mahrosh2187 Місяць тому

    Main ny is vedio py 11 month pehly comnt kia tha Ya Allah g mujhy esa bnana or mery liye asaniyan peda krna ab 2 month pehly meri shadi hui h or ye vedio mery samny hai ab mery huby 2 bjy aty hai baqi sb chezain to m esy hi kr rho hun lekin ye cheez boht tkleef dy rhi h k wo 2 bjy aty h kam az kam wo new new shadi ka to lehaz kr lety h ab hr roz mera sr drd rehny lg gya h neend disturb ho gai hai meri ab main 10 bjy sy sony ki koshish kr rhi hun leki neemd nhi aa rhi or boht zyada sr drd ho rha hai mujhy btain kya krun kai bar unko keh chuki hun jldi aya krian ghr

  • @MishiiMughal-v8t
    @MishiiMughal-v8t 3 місяці тому

    Well said

  • @emzy9891
    @emzy9891 Рік тому +3

    Sar is traha tou hmra mashara kabi nahi badal sakta unfortunately...

  • @57sanaparween13
    @57sanaparween13 Рік тому +6

    Family pattern samjhna jaruri h

  • @NoorulemaanEmaan
    @NoorulemaanEmaan 10 місяців тому +1

    Jo shor apni Bvi sy bolta na ho os ka ilaj b bta dain

  • @StrawBerry-hk8sc
    @StrawBerry-hk8sc 4 місяці тому

    Assalam u alaikum... sir mujhy suggestion chahiye thi k main kese apny relationship ko save rakhun..? Please reply 😢

  • @haroonamantali5534
    @haroonamantali5534 Рік тому +2

    Sir ap boht achi tarbiyt krty hyn like my mother but ajkal ka susrali ghar asy ethics k kabil nahi ...har dam hushyar or chuknna rahna parta phir b joti k neechy e rakhty

  • @shaistanasir4929
    @shaistanasir4929 2 місяці тому

    Awo jab saaas na khu sirf jitani awo dewrani hu to tab kiase handel kare

  • @NatashaButt-b8c
    @NatashaButt-b8c Рік тому

    Plzzz exercise bta dein wrjn ki

  • @hirashafi1960
    @hirashafi1960 Рік тому +1

    Apny veil ko married life m different events py Bina behs ky kesy carry kren?
    Ye hmara right h na sir!

  • @ayeshasarwar1531
    @ayeshasarwar1531 8 днів тому

    Sir susral may khamosh bhi rhny ni dety agr agr koi bat ki jy to bhi phns jata woh bat ka glt mtlb le lety hai or khamosh rhy to khty hai yeh hmsy chupati hai baty bnda dono trf sy phns jata hai ap batay aisi situation may kia krry ispr video banay ky bahu kaisy khud ko defend krry kr side hojy

  • @ayeshasana3305
    @ayeshasana3305 Рік тому

    Sir mujhe apsy aik bht zaroori baat discuss krni hai.please reply me

  • @SanaRafiq786
    @SanaRafiq786 2 місяці тому

    1.شوہر کی ماں بننے کی کوشش کرتی ہےbig mistakes
    Wife means to follow
    to love to create new generation to making a good dishes...
    2.ساس جیٹھانی دیورانی سے مقابلہ نہیں کریں کبھی بھی.
    3.شوہر کے آنے سےپہلے تیار ہو کر ساس کےپاس بیٹھ جاٸیں اور شوہر کو بتائيں ابھی ہم یہ بات کررہے تھے ایک خوشگوار ماحول قاٸم کریں

  • @hirashafi1960
    @hirashafi1960 Рік тому +1

    Sir mra swal h agr lrki ny shadi sy phly prda kia ho to( koi bht zyda religious family sy nai h) to kia shadi py agr wo veil carry kry( chahy saas mind kry) to kia kr skty hen?

    • @saneelaaltaf4905
      @saneelaaltaf4905 Рік тому +2

      Qayamat k din jawab Allah ko dena hai saas sahiba ko nahi.Baqi aap khud samajhdaar hain.

    • @cookingwithghazal6403
      @cookingwithghazal6403 Рік тому +3

      Shadi cy pehlay baat kr Lin k parda krna hai wrna koi or rishta dekh lo asy phir larki din Raat tang rhty k MN by parda hu

  • @NatashaButt-b8c
    @NatashaButt-b8c Рік тому

    exercise bta dein wrjn ki

  • @swatian2069
    @swatian2069 Рік тому +2

    Jazakallah best video like ever. plz sir recommend me urdu books names which I read , awr uss se meri aqal , feham hikmat , daanish me izafa hu. And I can able to solve my day to day problems. ( in susral ) plzzz muje 2006 se talash hy k kesy me aqal danish hikmat seek lu but cant find any clue. May Allah bless u . I hope u write me books names.

  • @IzhaanNuman-yg7br
    @IzhaanNuman-yg7br Рік тому

    Abbi g jb meyky sy Eid aa jyy or us my kapry hun to shoher khy kapry aa to gy to bnda Kya kary,jb k lyy k b na dn ,Eid k lyy

  • @shumilarana2103
    @shumilarana2103 Рік тому +3

    Bethy maa k pas but maa ko shrem ani chihy kvo hmesha bahu n bety me iktqelaf dalti. Wife k khilaf kan bhrti

  • @shumilarana2103
    @shumilarana2103 Рік тому +1

    Q pochin sas se😏🤷‍♀️ub hm dressing bhi dosron ki mrzi se krin. Hud hy.

  • @ghazalkhan9291
    @ghazalkhan9291 Рік тому +2

    Sir ap baten to bht ache krty hen per rehnumai Sirf lrkiun ki krty hen kbhe susral walon k liye b koi video bnaen baho ko Kesy rkhna 😊

  • @anshukumariyadav7262
    @anshukumariyadav7262 Рік тому +1

    😊❤

  • @MuhammadAhmed-y1m6z
    @MuhammadAhmed-y1m6z 4 дні тому

    9 baje so k 12 baje uthna 12 baje tak jagne sy bhi ziyada mushkil hai..aur kia kaha k saas k room mai ja k baith jain agar saas ya susral walon ko ya acha na lagy wo ap ko Apne beach mai space de k raazi na hon tu😅

  • @mkmalik5704
    @mkmalik5704 Рік тому

    Sir ek sawal hai family main frndz mai. sub k pass car nhi hai chand logo k pass jin k pass nhi wo mangty hain jab do tu care nhi karty na do tu naraz ek ko do dosry ki na do wo muh bana lety plz koi tip deyn

    • @ainigill391
      @ainigill391 Рік тому

      Kisi ko itna free na kro k wo car jesi mehngi chiz mang le. Sab ko unki had mn rakho. Agr himmat hai to nah kehna bhi seekho zindgi mn agr darte ho to jo mangte de diya kro.

    • @muhammadrizwananwar1373
      @muhammadrizwananwar1373 Рік тому

      Unko Kaho gari ka fuel pump kharab hai

  • @shumilarana2103
    @shumilarana2103 Рік тому

    Ohh sirje kbi sasu maa or hubby ko bhi smjha dia krin plzzzzz😏🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @amalik1171
      @amalik1171 Рік тому

      Jis trah shohar khta maira bs to apni biwi pr chalta bs usi trah inhae bhi pta kamzor side ko hi smjha skta.

  • @shaziavloggeranddressdesigner
    @shaziavloggeranddressdesigner Рік тому +7

    Sorry sir susral wale Pagal ker k rekh dette he.whole life of a woman completely destroy

    • @shumilarana2103
      @shumilarana2103 Рік тому

      Correct sying 1oopercent. Skon srf separate home me hy otherwise never n ever

    • @mahrosh2187
      @mahrosh2187 Місяць тому

      Bilkul

  • @NatashaButt-b8c
    @NatashaButt-b8c Рік тому

    🎉😊😊😊

  • @np3247
    @np3247 Рік тому +4

    Asslamualaikum sir shohar ko follow to sirf ALLAH Aur RASOOL k guidelines me hi krna h agar deen se dur hua shohar to fir follow krna thik nhi..
    Aur dusra ap kh rh k sas se phle mile bat kre jbki ek hadees h ki sbse phle biwi se mile..
    Sahi kya hoga ?? Is tarah se to deen implement hi nhi ho rh ye galat pattern chlta ja rh .. misguided pattern ko khi to rokna hoga .. pardon me if i m wrong..

    • @cookingwithghazal6403
      @cookingwithghazal6403 Рік тому +5

      Pakistani society intahai giri hoi society jis MN Deen ka Amal dakhal bs nikah tak ka hai

    • @salmanarif6651
      @salmanarif6651 Рік тому +1

      Unhon ne kab kaha shohar ko Allah aur Rasool صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ke ilawa follow karna hae? Kagi biwiya to ajkal shohar ko Allah aur Rasool صلى الله عليه وآله ke mutabiq bhi follow nahein karti, koi na samjhna chahe to elehda baat hae

    • @mafiaa14
      @mafiaa14 Рік тому

      orat hmri socity ma doll ha jis ny sb ko khush krna ha remote se chlna wali doll .... enough susraal na hua koi dozah o gaee ye krna ha wo krna ha

    • @salmanarif6651
      @salmanarif6651 Рік тому

      Har jagah aesa nahi, kai jagah mamla ulat hae feminism aur westenrism ki wajah se

  • @FahimZaidi110
    @FahimZaidi110 7 місяців тому

    Sir mujhe is baat ka btaen k mian bahar rehta ho or saray paise apne biwi bacho ko dene ki bajaye apne bhai ko deta ho jiski waja se bhai bhabi ka lifestyle tou acha ho or apne biwi bachy unke mohtaj. Aise mian se baat kro tou wo agay se ghussa hoty

    • @FalakNaaz-nr3dr
      @FalakNaaz-nr3dr 3 місяці тому

      Fahim Bhai Allah Apko hadayt dy sambal jao biwi apki sab kuch Hai Bhai Bhai kuch b nhi okay mun bnaty Hain tu bnany du

  • @Mrsshahbzas4627
    @Mrsshahbzas4627 Рік тому

    Mujhy bura ni lgta mry husbnd jab ghar aty hn behr tb sab se phly mre sas ame ati hn kamry me ar mre sas mjy kud khti hn k mre fala bahu ko acha ni lgta k beta aiy ghar to maa kamry me ohly na aiy maa bth na kry bs mre yhi dua hy k jsy hm sas k susr shoahr k sath hn wsi hi hmry ghar me bhabi ho ar asa hota hy mre to bhabi bi achi hy

  • @aniqabano1582
    @aniqabano1582 22 дні тому +1

    What you are telling are just coping strategies. Practical to some extent but these irresponsible grown up boys should not marry if they can not commit to come home on time and give their wives the attention, affe tion and provisions. They should keep playing games, watching matches and spending hours on chai khokhas with friends and gossiping with family gathering till late night. They should not ask some girl to come and live with him if he has so many other important commitments that he can't spend time with wife and kids.
    No woman likes to be husband's mother but a childish irresponsible behaviour and silly decisions in important life matters when clearly your family is heading towards a disaster and the husband is not willing to take action but just to stay passive, then women try to survive by telling and talking to him.

  • @shumilarana2103
    @shumilarana2103 Рік тому +1

    Mrd kotu ap ful rlx mahol dety tu ouret ko rlx mahol kon dyga🤔wah g mid night ko kon pagal uthy or ready ho. Kia fzool bat kr rhy🤷‍♀️😏

  • @storyline1916
    @storyline1916 Рік тому +3

    ji bohot achi video hai magar ap kuch mashwarey sason ko bi dain ap sirf jahil sas ki bat kyuon kartai hain educated sas k liyai koi mashwara hai ap k pas jo joint family mai rehti hai

  • @shumilarana2103
    @shumilarana2103 Рік тому

    Hmesha men oriented bat krty ho app. Bs krdu plzzzz🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @AkhterAbbas
      @AkhterAbbas  Рік тому

      جیسے حکم ۔۔ویسے متبادل بھی تو فرمایے۔۔۔ہر گھر میں گولیاں چلوا دیں اب ۔۔۔ آگ تو آپ خود ہی لگا دیں گی

  • @mahnoorsw0rld482
    @mahnoorsw0rld482 Рік тому +3

    *W Sir Naei Naei Shaadi HO Tab bhi ShOhar Tawajah na Dein TOu kya Karein?? MaaOn se baat Krnay k liye ghanta ghanta time hOta hai biwi k liye adha ghanta bhi nhe nikalta...* 🥺🥺🥺

    • @AkhterAbbas
      @AkhterAbbas  Рік тому +3

      بیٹا یہی تو چیلنج ہے ۔۔ایک انجان آدمی کی جان بننا ہے صبر اور محبت کے علاوہ کوی راستہ نہیں ۔۔۔چڑ چڑ کرو گے تو دل سے مزید اتر جاو گے ۔۔میٹھے اور محبوب بنو

  • @haiderabbasshah7674
    @haiderabbasshah7674 Рік тому +3

    Jhapi to bnti h boss 😅😂❤

  • @Maria_Sarwar
    @Maria_Sarwar Рік тому +4

    Psychologists hi marriage counselling krty hain... how cam you say k sahi jaga ap hi hain mashwary k liye ?
    Ham yeh kaha ja skta h k kisi baray experienced bndy se raye li jaskti
    Ya sb sebhtrbnda Islamic scholar h.. jo islam k mutabik batye..

    • @salmanarif6651
      @salmanarif6651 Рік тому

      Aam tor pe psychologist zehan ka expert hota hae na keh marital relations ka

    • @horainkhan1725
      @horainkhan1725 Рік тому +1

      Agreed . in sahab ki batein b baz okat baised hoti h . some time hansi ati h is k mashwaro py .purani anti asy mashwary dy sakti h to in sy counselling Ku krwye koi 😂

  • @usamazafar4236
    @usamazafar4236 Рік тому +4

    shadi aur susral sirf azab hy mn to pachta rahi hun shadi kr k

  • @sarrahaseen9200
    @sarrahaseen9200 Рік тому +10

    Sasural or shadi niri musibat hi hai

  • @shumilarana2103
    @shumilarana2103 Рік тому

    Wah g bs kitchen sanbhlna or dishwashing krna. Respct kisny deni wife ko. Hud hy ap vali. Ajeeb one sided bat krty😏🤷‍♀️🤔

  • @MyselfRunning-zr4ln
    @MyselfRunning-zr4ln Рік тому +2

    میرا چوتھا مہنیہ ھے
    پلیز دعا کریں کہ
    اللّٰہ تعالیٰ مجھے نیلی آنکھوں والا خوبصورت بیٹا دے آمین
    نیلی آنکھوں اور خوبصورت بیٹے کے لیے وظیفہ اور خوراک بتائیں پلیز پلیز پلیز پلیز

  • @amirishaq4133
    @amirishaq4133 Рік тому +5

    Very wrong english...bv means ReProduce.....secondly...kindly focus on Damad ki duties towards his in laws...hr wqt Aurat Aurat mat kro....Pakistani aurat ab independent hy MashaAllah..badboodaar mard b Ab Insaan bny

    • @horainkhan1725
      @horainkhan1725 Рік тому +1

      Thank God koi to bola k Pakistani aurot independent h warna to yh uncle 1970 ki aurot bnana k rahy gy sab ko .Jo apny rights ko chor dy aur toxic susral m rahy jidr uski lash e ani chye wala concept bechty h yh chacha g.

    • @amirishaq4133
      @amirishaq4133 Рік тому +1

      @@horainkhan1725 inki hr video k neechy criticize kro...aurat ko bura bol bol k inki mun ki halat dykh lo....afsos....Nasha krny waly cheracterless aadmi k sath b ye aurat ko conpromise ka kahty hn....i guess apni family ki khwateen ko b yahi mshwra dyga ye

    • @horainkhan1725
      @horainkhan1725 Рік тому +1

      @@amirishaq4133 inki counselling hoti e kya h just auntio Waly mashwary ... WO b Baised ..mgy to is bndy sy ab chirr hony lgi h

    • @horainkhan1725
      @horainkhan1725 Рік тому

      @@amirishaq4133 bilkul critics to banta h .pta ni kasy yh insan itni khuli language use kr laita h aur kisi b measly ka hal ni hota h isky pass siway k brdasht kro ap lrki ho idiot baba.

    • @shehryarhaider5766
      @shehryarhaider5766 Рік тому +1

      Yehi soch apki talaq ko am krne me help krty ha. Zamana koi b ho jibilat ni badalty. Orat ko brdasht krna prta ha mry ami ne kia mry sisters b krty hain or even as man hm b bht moqon pr krte hain even insan hone k natay b insan ko maslihaten chalna chye wrna phir ek woi european soch or mashra develop hoga jis me na kisi ko pta mra bap kon or ladies sirf ek symbol smjha jata ha. Akhtar Abbas sahb bht acha kam krrya hain. Allah ap ko sehat tandrusti den. Bht se asy uljhano ko suljha ditay hain jo kahin se b ni sulajh paty. JazakAllah sir. Independent oraten mere ghar me b hain mry ami army me captain hain or sisters ek doctor hain UK me or ek Japan me phd krrae hain. Mry wife b Japan me MBA kr k job krrae ha but maslehat or izzat me hi khandan ki baqa ha.

  • @iqrarehman5265
    @iqrarehman5265 11 місяців тому

    Mje bolye agar husband ne affair apni babhi se rakha ho aur .even mery husband ne apni babhi k sath physical relation b rakhi hai
    Even ek month b nhi nikalne Diya biwi ko apne ghar mai nikala apne biwi ko ...even biwi k samne jethani k saath chahkar chala raha tha...bas usko moka nhi aata hai apni babhi k saath to biwi ko ghr se nikala ...to biwi ko kya Krna chahiye jab jethani aur husband usko Ghar se nikale

    • @ayeshaaslam8091
      @ayeshaaslam8091 9 місяців тому

      Aese ghatiya galeez shohar se talaq Lene chahye .....

  • @NatashaButt-b8c
    @NatashaButt-b8c Рік тому

    Plzzz exercise bta dein wrjn ki

  • @NatashaButt-b8c
    @NatashaButt-b8c Рік тому

    exercise bta dein wrjn ki