Why Get Married? | Salman Asif Siddiqui | شادی کیوں کی جائے؟
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- What is the purpose of nikkah? Why should one get married? In this video, Salman Asif Siddiqui addresses this crucial question that people often fail to reflect upon when they are getting married.
This video is an excerpt from a longer program on 'Marriage & the Meaning of Life'. Watch full talk here: • Marriage & the Meaning...
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This video is an excerpt from a longer program on 'Marriage & the Meaning of Life'. Watch full talk here: ua-cam.com/video/LY9fS7bP-50/v-deo.html
Assalam o alaikum
Sir your videos are very helpful for me
Want to ask about my daughter behaviour which is 2 years old
Sir me apni 100persetdeen par chalna chahta hu mere pass koi kami nahi. Sirf meri riti rewaj aada aati he. Bohat hindu ladkiya roj bolati he zina ki dawatdeti he kyua karu mera nafash bhi bohat majbbot hekya karu
الله كا حكم و قانون اور اسكا نتيجة 🌹
نیچے لنک پر انگلی سے آھستہ سے دبایں اور سنیں 🌹🌹
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Sir ,your videos are very informative.I really appreciate it .we,the spouse very much differ on the way to rearing up our daughter.how we may contact you.
Jazakallah
"Badkar Aurtein"
"Badkar Mardon" k Liye Hain......
"Badkar Mard"
"Badkar Aurton" k
Liye Hain......
"Pak Aurtein"
"Pak Mardon" k
Liye Hain.......
"Pak Mard"
"Pak Aurton" k
Liye Hain...
(Surah-e-Noor, Aayat#26)
Beshak
الله كا حكم و قانون اور اسكا نتيجة 🌹
نیچے لنک پر انگلی سے آھستہ سے دبایں اور سنیں 🌹🌹
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@@sikandarrinwala3121 Tum Bharat mata aur gaumata se karo
@@sikandarrinwala3121 Larki KO dahej(Jahez) maaf Kardo hojayegi InshaAllah.
@@hamzasadiq9728larki ka b haq mehr maaf krdo... 🤘🏻Wesy jhz lna sai ni
بہترین !!! بہت سی الجھنوں کو سلجھا دیا جزاك اللہ خیر ۔۔۔۔
ذاتی ، دینی اور معاشرتی بلندیاں حاصل کرنے کے لئے نکاح کیا جاتا ہے
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ماشاء اللہ بہت ہی پیارا انداز ہے سمجھانے کا اللہ پاک اس لیکچر کو سب کے لئے کامیابی کا ذریعہ بنائیں آمین ❤❤❤❤
He explained the importance of marriage in a perfect way.....awesome
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Jo mene mehsoos kiya woh yeh hai ki zadatar aurat ho ya mard, dusro ko kush kerke khushi hasil nhi hoti unhe.
We marry because:
1. We need a perfect life partner
2. Someone we can share and understand the purpose of life
3. Plan our life for the future
4. A bonding with an opposite sex called husband/wife
5. Move our generation forward through having couple of children
6. Provide best education and making a better person to our children
I can go on more, all that provides satisfaction and completes purpose of life.
Mahmood Choudhari
Subhan Allah
Jitna khoobsurat ye rishta hai ,issi trah khoobsurti kay saath sir ne iss k nazuk pehlo'on pr roshni daali hai,Allah humain in baaton ko samjhne aur in pr amal krne ki toufeeq dain Ameen
Jazakallah khair 💕
Aameen
اللہ پاک سے ڈر کا مطلب کیا ہے؟
ہر وقت، ہر جگہ اللہ پاک کی موجودگی کا احساس بندے کے ذہن و شعور پر شدت سے طاری رہنا یا حاوی رہنا ہے۔ یعنی یہ پتا رہے کہ اللہ پاک سب کچھ جاننے والا اور سب کچھ دیکھنے والا ہے بھلے میری آنکھوں کو دیکھائی دے یا نا دے مگر اللہ پاک کو سب کچھ دیکھائی دے گا، میں کسی کو بتاؤں یا نا بتاؤں بھلے سب سے چھپا لوں مگر اللہ پاک سے نہیں چھپا سکتا ۔
سبحان اللہ ۔جزاک اللہ سر۔
غلام محمد بلوچ بصرہ، عراق
@Muhammad Tayyab Shadi me physical attraction or mental compatibily dono ka hona zaroori ha and marriage is to make a family and shoukd be done not only as an entertainment or sexual frustration but as a responsibily to handle a family and grow a family. Bachoon per bhe dhyan den sirf sex ko prioritize na karen. Love is not sex. But sex should be a way to make love. Not forced.
ZerO One Official masla yeh hai ke mujh say hur bat chupata hai
Intelligent person in his talks. Talks very carefully for such a sensitive topic. Human beings can be happy only if persons follow the quran and prophets living styles.
@Saad Bin Masud According to Allah and his Rasool you should get married so stop with philospohical bullshit
@Muhammad Tayyab lol, Nice to hear your definition of Marriage, Marriage is responsibility and people like u who marry for sex alone are the losers😂
@Muhammad Tayyab So keep your opinion to yourself, No one is interested to know what you're interested in, Go to a Doctor if you're not interested in sex
@@Prince-Ibrahim Right. Hamary bahoot sare Bhai bahen ko nahin maloom ke ankhaun ki tak hifazat karna hai ek gair aurat ya gair mard ko dekhne se insan ke blood me aise changes aty hain ke usko sahi rasty se gumrah kardety hain finally wo insan apne Rab se door hojata hai . Islam me shadi bhi karna hai to pakizgi ke husool ke lye karna na ke maqsad sex rakhna hai. Niyat saaf honi chahye shadi k lye bhi ye kisi tafseer me padha tha mai ne. Shadi ke bina rishta itna bura hai ke Allah farmaty hain zani admi ki zani aurat se ya kisi mushrika se shadi honi chahye aur zani aurat ki shadi kisi zani admi se ya mushrik admi se ho. Ya Allah
Hum sab musalmanon ko zina wale har qadam se mahfooz farma. Aameen
استغفرالله العظيم الذي لا اله إلا هو الحي القيوم. استغفر الله استغفر الله استغفر الله
وہ ٹھرکی بھی لگتاہے ا ورتم مزے لے رہی ہو
Excellent explanation Masha Allah . . . We should be a model for non Muslim as well as for our youth. ..May Allah make us understand real meaning of Nikah.ameen
@Saad Bin Masud Stop watching REDPILL content. It mostly applies to the western society since they live like animals and have never really focused on family values. Thats not the case here. Our society is focused on maintaining family values and is more helpful in maintaining and raising a healthy family.
" raise them in a legal atmosphere"
No. In a stable and secure household which is provided by the pressure that marriage contract puts on the man and woman to put some effort in the lives of children and providing them with the resources and environment.
الله كا حكم و قانون اور اسكا نتيجة 🌹
نیچے لنک پر انگلی سے آھستہ سے دبایں اور سنیں 🌹🌹
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السلام علیکم میرا نام محمد نواز میرا تعلق گلگت بلتستان سے ہے جناب آصف صدیقی صاحب آپ کے لیکچر سنتا رہتا ھوں ماشاء اللہ کافی اچھے لیکچر ہوتے ہیں آپ کے اور بہت کچھ سیکھنے کو ملتا ہے
ہم گلگت بلتستان کے ہیں✌️
Zabardast. Sir Ap nay bohat achay alfaz k sath samjhaya. MashaAllah.
Alhamdulillah summa alhamdulillah . Aaj fir se real happiness ko realised krwane k liy bahut shukriya jazakallah khair
Alhamdulillah
اپ کے لیۓ بہت ساری دعایں اور نیک تمنائیں
Mai first time apko sun rahi hun Maine sari zindagi apny parents ki larai dekhi h ur issi waja Sy Meri life main bohat issues aa rahy Hain Mai motivational speaker ko sun sun kr seda Rasta talash kr rahi hun jis main apny kafi help ki meri
Same here
Tum sabith kaddam ra ho bachy aur bahaaron main moskoraao ye dua hay meri.
Wow, what an effort, great study, great presentation, good topic . Level Asif sb
Nice Efforts Sir Jazak Allah to integrate with the Spiritual Values.
MashaAllah Every word is precious....👍👍
Sir you're beacon of light for every men an even Working Woman♀️. We are getting our life direction from you. JazakAlla Khayr & Jazakumullah khayran katheran
The purpose of marriage to support each other by love ,care through division of labor so we can give our maximum to society for the progress , prosperity of society
This lecture should be heard by every muslim youth both married and unmarried,especially. Had this doubt since gained conscience. جزاک اللہ خیرً for solving it
اللہ تعالیٰ آپکی شریک حیات اور فرزندان کو آپکی آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک کا باعث بنائے
Masha Allah
khushiyun ko is tarah achieve kare ki roohani martaba girne na paye. Golden words .
May Allah grant u more n more barakah in this.
ماشاء الله لا قوة إلا بالله
بارك الله في علمك و عملك
تقبل الله منا ومنكم صالح الأعمال وكل عام وانتم بخير
جزاك الله خيرا كثيرا في الدنيا والآخرة
Beautifully explained sir..jazakallah
Every word of it.. Great!
I shall try my best to give U a satisfactory anwer. This topic is very important and essential.My personal experience is very good.
Bhttt ilmi aur khubsoorat talk
Nikh means creating a systematic society and the systematic society's rules set by our creator Allah pak .
بہت مفید لیکچر ہے ماشا اللہ اللہ ہمارے معاشرے میں ایسے ہی استاد ائیں امین ویلڈن سر 🤲🤲🤲
Awesome sir great way to explain
Great Explaination.
Great topic best way to clarify 👍 👌 👍
JazakAllah
Excellent guidance sir!! Really refined structure of the concept
Orat marat dono sukun hashil kare sex emotional society image ek dusre ke dil me mohhabat ho
It's very nice to draw the attention on this topic in these aspects. Nikah is a very important act for Muslim society.
Nikah is not an obligation it's better if sexual feelings haan kisi ke bech larke or larki me. Is me koi zoor nahi na he umer ke qaid.
Recommend talk before webinar I listen and this is very much fruitful .
Excellent.....hatts off sir.....well explain
Very nice mashallah bht hi interesting information.
Ya hui Na baat Good work Sir 👍👍👍
سر آپ نے اس موضوع پرجس اچھےانداز سے بات کی اور آپ کا الفاظ کا چناوءسب بہت بہترین تھا-
Well said MashaAllah
Great 👍
What an intellectual way to convey the needed things👍
Wonderful
Excellent❤🌹
You are Great sir.
I appreciate your effort
Great Explanation
Very nice
Very thoughtful lecture 👍👍👍
الله كا حكم و قانون اور اسكا نتيجة 🌹
نیچے لنک پر انگلی سے آھستہ سے دبایں اور سنیں 🌹🔥🔥🌹
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You are doing very well
, Mashallah bahut hi behtarin
Goog topic
Best explanation
Very true
Great
Good
Nice
KHOOBSOORET ANDAAZ ASIF sahib
Complete explanation!
جزاک اللہ خیر
Great sir
Nice sir
Simple jawab hy.... Jinsi khwahish puri krny k liay
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Or family jo is ka natija ha wo Kia ke zimedari ha?
بہترین بیان
Its a human requirement to be fulfilled in halal way. Purpose is companionship and commitment. And to Be a helper to the others, be it your spouse or children sharing the problems and enjoying the solutions.
Mashallah sir allah ap ka martaba buland kara
Sunah hai ye logic kafi hai my dear sir
mashaAllah
Masallah , sir G Allah pak AP ki kawishun pe Muslim omh ko Amal krni tofeq dy.
It is necessary to understand the responsibilities of family and society after marriage condition applies to both boy and girl.
ماشاءاللہ 👌❤️💯
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سبحان اللہ
I like your speech an Qasim Ali an Sarfaraz shah sahab an irfan ulhaq sahab spech bahtreen hay aplog awsom headof outstanding incredible awesome amazing
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وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَىٰ فَانكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَىٰ وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ ۖ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰ أَلَّا تَعُولُوا - 4:3
اگر تمہیں ڈر ہو کہ یتیم لڑکیوں سے نکاح کرکے تم انصاف نہ رکھ سکو گے تو اور عورتوں میں سے جو بھی تمہیں اچھی لگیں تم ان سے نکاح کر لو، دو دو، تین تین، چار چار سے، لیکن اگر تمہیں برابری نہ کر سکنے کا خوف ہو تو ایک ہی کافی ہے یا تمہاری ملکیت کی لونڈی یہ زیاده قریب ہے، کہ (ایسا کرنے سے ناانصافی اور) ایک طرف جھک پڑنے سے بچ جاؤ
جومسلمان باوجودجسمانی طاقت اورمالی طاقت کےشادی نہ کرےاسکامثال جانورجیساھےجہاں چاھتاھےاپناشہوت پوراکرتاھےنکاح سنت بھی ھےاورطاقت رکھنےوالےمسلمان کیلییےاللہ کاحکم بھی ھے
So soprb
Excellent 👍 sir 👌 love 💕 you 💞
Most enlightend thing I came across this year
It means u did not have common sense before??
@@impartial2770 your name is against your thoughts & you talk about the common senses here...
Mirza Qasim haha 😂 Nailed it!
الله كا حكم و قانون اور اسكا نتيجة 🌹
نیچے لنک پر انگلی سے آھستہ سے دبایں اور سنیں 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
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We r aadhey teeter aadhey batair because of our knowledge of Islam n modern education!
Shadi is liyen zaruri hai ke jis tarah hamari hamare jism ko khane ki zarurat pesh aati hai isi hamari ruh ki khhurakon m se ek khhurak hai jo physical relationship ke zariye se puri hoti hai
Great lecture Salman Saheb!
kia فضول waqwas karta hay
The whole video could have been finished in 10 minutes time. Marriage basically is a legitimate way of living for a man and woman. As for problems of life whether or not you are married they will be there as part of life in one form or another.
Start viewing this video from 20 min....you will get the crux of the subject under discussion...🇮🇳 Mumbai
great
*very good Salman sir you have beautifully explained and this is true is waqt duniya mein jo challenge peda ho raha hai wo islam k rastay ki bohat bari dewaar ka naam hai "Musalman" ye bohat bari takleef deh baat aur karwa sach bayan kar diya hai aap ne JazakAllah Khair*
@Muhammad Tayyab Do you want to say prostitution is legal? Not at all prostitution is a sever crime and Haraam and Marriage Nikkah is Halal way Islam bohat khoobsurat paak mazhab hai Yahoodiyon ki tarah ganda mazhab nahi hai jis me maa behan k sath b Sex kar liya jata hai Shaadi wahi log karte hain jo izzat daar hote hain beghairat log Shaadi se door bhagte hain
@Muhammad Tayyab Allah tumhe hidayat de apna naam dekho aur apne kaam dekho agar Islam aur ALLAH se itni he takleef hai to phr ALLAH k Akhri Nabi Muhammad Salalahu Alaihi Wa Alaihi Wasallam ka naam MUBARAK apni id se hatao kyun Muhammad naam ki behurmati kar rahe ho Tayyab ka matlab hota hai paak lekin tumhare andar paleedgi bhari hui hai jo atheist ne bhar kar tumhe b be deen aur mulhid bana diya hai Allah Taala tumhe hidayat de Dua he ki ja sakti hai
8:00 Yeh!
Marriage is, and MUST be a choice!
@Muhammad Tayyab
Bitter Truth! 😣😣
@Muhammad Tayyab So you mean that children born out of marriages are bastards. You do not demean the sunnah of marriage by what the traditions dictate. Islam was never dependent or will never depend on the traditions. If there is something that needs to be changed, you need to change it yourself. If you don't then you don't have the right to claim. Sex is a part of marriage. And that is the reason you, me, and every single human being is in this world. Kindly do not say anything that might go against the teachings of Islam or the sunnah of Prophet. May ALLAH guide us all. Ameen
aham topic needded
Asaan tarike sey sumjhaye
Meherbani hogi
We marry because of family pressure simple is that. For me as 30 years old guy i want to work on my passion and business but due to family nonestop pressure. We need to understand that marriage is not food or oxygen
Allah Aapko Jazai khair dey
Asslamualikum, bohot badi bewakufi he shadi na karna, wo insaan sb se pichhd jata he, life me bohot pichhe rah jata he, baad me Bohat wazife aur dua karni padti he, plzz shadi karen halaal Rishta banaye, Aur plzz mere liye dua karen qki meri shadi nhi huwi he, jazaak Allah khair
Ap ke bivi kitchen me khana bna rhe ya office me kma rahi ya bachon ko sambhal or parha rahi or ap ko dusri aurat dhudna ke lye mobile per chatting kar rhe or apni taraf tawajah nahi milne per jal rhi.
Great video Sir messag ya video mujha cha Y PlZ sir
Very beautiful though 😍
Nicely discribed,
but one major factor of breakups is economic factor missing because of it majority differences also , matearistic behavior likwise shouldn't discribed.
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Sir you are. Great.
But plz ya mujha cha y video
Bs main to shadi srf aur srf apny walden ki preshni khtm krny aur un ko sukoon deny k leay kr rhi hon wrna mrd aurt k sath janwr jysa sulok krta hai main ny apni pori zindgi main ye dekha hai
Saare mard aik jese nahi hotey
Insan jesa guman krta hay wese hi pata hay aap achcha sochye aur Allah se achcha guman kijye Allah Pak aap ke Naseeb achche aur buland farmae Ameen
Great 🕵️
Haqiqat mai yhi ho rha hy aj ka insan civilized janwar bn gya hy I have face the same experience
@@alikhansahab8356 ALLAH to apny bndo sy acha hi krta hy us k jesi mohabbt ki tou misl hi koi nai ye to bndy hn jo bndo k sath bura krty hn wo wo haq talfiya krty hn k zulm ki inteha choice hy na g insan K pas kch achai ko chun kr ALLAH waly ho jaty hn or kch burai ko chun kr iblees k perokar
Jazak Allah Sir
Growth mindset ! Not available with many thats scary - we grow we evolve this is not present with most individuals ... thats why separation occurs ... support not control empathy not silent treatment.
If two people got married and had an agreement so as long as both remain under the boundaries of agreement its a good thing.as one person keep explointing the boundaries then other keep suffering in this case it should be made easy for them to break it and set both of them free so the honest person can make a new relationship ' this is what islam proposed but we made it too complicated and make marriages like life time imprisonment with intolerable inmate.