Melissa Etheridge shares the story behind “Come To My Window”

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  • @Ernie1978
    @Ernie1978 3 роки тому +51

    "Come to My Window" is easily one of the best songs of the '90s. Melissa's voice conveys longing and urgency. It's a classic in spite of its No.25 peak on the Hot 100. I remember buying the album "Yes I Am" in 1994 and listening to it over and over again. Melissa Etheridge, we love you!

  • @whitetigerfanatic
    @whitetigerfanatic 3 роки тому +7

    Ms Melissa... You have been one of my biggest idols since I was a young child of the 80s-90s. Come to my Window is one of my all time favorite songs of yours. I will listen to it alot. It got me out of a lot of depression bouts. I had the tape.. As a deaf child, I would blast your tape and just read along on the lyrics. Every song on that tape.. I knew I was different even as a young child. I knew. If you only knew what you have done for me.... This song and Yes I am... has not just one meaning for me... It has several. I wanted to know who I am. I wanted my real self to come to that window in my mind. It took nearly 35 years to figure out just who I am. I am blessed to know your music. Thank you for always being a light for us.. for so many of us. I don't think you know just how big of an impact you are in the life of anyone.. straight, gay, bi, pansexual.. Whatever. You have done so much for us. Thank you.

  • @37vivian
    @37vivian 3 роки тому +10

    I loved today’s show. And of course, Melissa rocked that song she performed!

  • @SharonBrunelle-o7h
    @SharonBrunelle-o7h 3 місяці тому

    So much love and passion!!

  • @luciapiazzaumberger1316
    @luciapiazzaumberger1316 Рік тому

    I am in love with that song "come to my window" because it conveys a passion and a longing for someone. I felt this way for the man I love. My favorite part is when you sing- "I would dial the number just to listen to your breath- and I would stand inside my hell and hold the hand of death- you don't know how far I'd go to ease this precious ache- (Melissa pure passion- represents to me the fiery passion and the the guts it takes to get the love I so desired, the closeness I longed for) I'm a singer songwriter and I was so inspired by your work!!! Watched your home concerts and you ROCK!!!! I'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO MEET YOU! Hope you had fun on the Kelly Clarkson show!!!

  • @tiffanyalberti2029
    @tiffanyalberti2029 Рік тому +1

    I love you so much. Please never stop making music.

  • @jstjames895
    @jstjames895 2 роки тому +9

    This song described my lover Lisa and myself when it originally came out. We were forbidden to be with each other back then. But she would come to my window, and we would still be together. Often by the light of the moon could I see her outside my window, and my heart would melt. Malissa started out playing in Long Beach Ca. Lisa saw her perform. This was definitely our song. Deep roots with this song. It took a while, but our love survived and we ended up together at last.

  • @kathb5216
    @kathb5216 3 роки тому +8

    Come to my window is a song that speaks to me absolutely about confusion with a potential love. I love Melissa entire song catalog and I am pissing off my neighbors cranking up her new song” as cool as you try”. 30yrs of listening to her songs and she is still going strong. Thankyou Melissa Etheridge.❤️

  • @Louilou86
    @Louilou86 2 роки тому +1

    I still get chills when I hear the song

  • @patrickking3913
    @patrickking3913 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful song. Such longing in your voice. God bless you Melissa

  • @anneoneill6566
    @anneoneill6566 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Melissa...... I luv your music. You are such a talented entertainer. Hope to see you in concert. Keep your songs coming 🦋😊👍🐶🌻🎤

  • @tameekamc4251
    @tameekamc4251 Рік тому

    Ive always thought it was deeper, loving someone who has passed but not being able to let go. Wow its a deep song for me and always loved it ❤

  • @changess7
    @changess7 11 місяців тому

    I think this song is amazing. It's a true homecoming song

  • @courtneyawalsh
    @courtneyawalsh 2 роки тому +1

    It is a timeless classic.

  • @dorothykuveke1217
    @dorothykuveke1217 Рік тому

    Melissa, I just give you so much credit. I have a son who's an addict just like your son who passed away. I don't want to bring up bad memories but what I want to say is you're like my heroine. You inspire me to accept who he is and what he's doing and not to let myself be dragged down with it. I watched one of your videos with regard to the death of your son and your music is what has saved you, and listening to your music is what's saving me. Like me so therefore I owe you a thank you. God bless 🙏

  • @juliettemay2666
    @juliettemay2666 Місяць тому

    When I was in college in the 90s there was a time when my close friends dropped out and I was very lonely. Music was my savior. It helped me express the feelings i was burying. It was Cathartic. Come to my Window was a song I listened to a lot. It felt like the loneliness eased a bit. I had you, Tori Amos, Sarah Mclachlan, and Ani DiFranco playing on repeat.

  • @Mar-velousMarlenak8
    @Mar-velousMarlenak8 3 роки тому +2

    Melissa, This is one of my favorite songs of all time! I saw you open for Sting as a surprise guest and you sang this song. Even today, when I hear the song come on the radio it takes me right back to that moment in time. Thank you for so much amazing, meaningful music. ❤

  • @charlesangeli7412
    @charlesangeli7412 3 роки тому +4

    Your amazing 🤩 and your music really means a lot to me !!!

    • @tonyneil3944
      @tonyneil3944 Рік тому

      Yeah it means a lot to me too especially come to my window I would give anything for love like that again and yes I did I made love like it was the first time in the last time every time trust me she wanted me to come to that window as much as I wanted to jump through it I miss that

  • @spike5477wilson
    @spike5477wilson 3 місяці тому

    This song means so much, so many memories of who I was and was pretending not to be, having the one person come over

  • @SharonBrunelle-o7h
    @SharonBrunelle-o7h 9 місяців тому

    Hope and true love ❤❤❤

  • @Peacheslaroo
    @Peacheslaroo Рік тому

    I think we project a lot of what’s going on in our own lives with song lyrics, but I think at the time I felt as a person I was interested in come to me. I didn’t want to chase them. I love you and your songs. They have given me life and inspiration. Thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @SharonBrunelle-o7h
    @SharonBrunelle-o7h Місяць тому

    Beautiful melissa!

  • @maurogalassini481
    @maurogalassini481 4 місяці тому

    It means to me the person that I purely and unconditionally loved: 🌻
    I believe her many tears the night before leaving were genuine so that I guess that her love too was true as well.
    She had one of your Cd back in 1995/96.
    This is how I have gotten to know your music and beautiful voice.
    ("I'm the only one" as well is another great one.)
    God knows how much I wish she would come to my window or if I could go by her window right now.
    Thank you Melissa xoxox

  • @Nora-jr9yy
    @Nora-jr9yy 2 роки тому +1

    I have EVERY album! You’re my favorite artist of all time. My favorite song is DANCE WITHOUT SLEEPING. ❤❤❤

  • @kiahmadison8541
    @kiahmadison8541 Рік тому +1

    I used to sing this to my dog because he would sit by the back door window. All of the lyrics were words he could understand. He would start whining and cry when the music started. Rip fur face.

  • @mjtc866
    @mjtc866 2 роки тому

    Hi Melissa! Since I read your book I knew your motivation for the song. So when you sing it we all sing it but I can feel your original passion for writing it. Singing the verse that has become the anthem for the fabulous is awesome

  • @deborahdobbie
    @deborahdobbie 2 роки тому +1

    Come to my window meant to me … 90’s gold. 😆🥰😍❤️😘

  • @michelledouglas2053
    @michelledouglas2053 9 місяців тому

    I really love the Song " I'm The Only One" 😊 I also like "Come to my Window" 😊

  • @SharonBrunelle-o7h
    @SharonBrunelle-o7h 3 місяці тому

    Means so much to me❤

  • @taraa9839
    @taraa9839 Рік тому

    Come to my window reminds me of my adorable cat tapping his paw at the window and meowing to be let inside the house😻😽😹

  • @michellemullins1342
    @michellemullins1342 Рік тому

    Every song I've ever heard you saying whether it was come to my window I'm the only one bring me some water you can sleep while I drive that's one of my favorites they're all awesome awesome

  • @patriciafoster6282
    @patriciafoster6282 11 місяців тому

    I absolutely love your song!!! I am in a long distance relationship these days and this song spoke to my longing. It is perfect and you nailed it. 👍♥️♥️♥️🤟🏡

  • @KellyRobinette
    @KellyRobinette 5 місяців тому

    For me, Come to My Window always felt like a longing for someone, a partner, to feel and show the same kind of passion and devotion that the singer feels. Like, the singer knows she would do anything to be with her partner and is not afraid to show it, but there is a longing for the partner to make the effort to show the same.

  • @ganeshrickheart2133
    @ganeshrickheart2133 Рік тому

    One of my favorite songs. It Sometimes reminds me of The show dawson's creek.

  • @BostonMarcus
    @BostonMarcus 2 роки тому +1

    You look so beautiful! I saw you years ago in concert and you kicked ass!!!! I love you!

  • @MYXemotions03
    @MYXemotions03 Рік тому

    I really loved the come on to my window and you're the only one.

  • @sallystege7163
    @sallystege7163 Рік тому

    You say it perfectly

  • @DamonWalker-rz9ui
    @DamonWalker-rz9ui 6 місяців тому

    It means I understand what you're saying that you are very inspirational singer and always will be I'm a big fan of your music I love you and your I hope everything is going well for you I hope you're staying in and you know because of this crazy times that's going around so I'm hoping that you're enjoying yourself and I can't wait to see you❤

  • @tyroot1158
    @tyroot1158 Рік тому

    You are the coolest

  • @PianoMatronNeeNee
    @PianoMatronNeeNee Рік тому

    I’m the Only One ❤ just love the passion how you sing it even still today. I just did it on piano🎹. Warm greetings from Miami💕

  • @SharonBrunelle-o7h
    @SharonBrunelle-o7h 10 місяців тому

    Hope and comPASSION love and lonliness❤❤❤seeing into the soul

  • @sonyarogersmissmagic8587
    @sonyarogersmissmagic8587 3 роки тому +1

    I know when my cat scratches at the window to go outside that's the only song that comes to my mind. Even made a Tick-Tok with it. Lol.

  • @fenderben
    @fenderben 9 місяців тому

    Makes me think of my late wife. She passed away due to Lupus complications. I’ll be there soon.
    You’re amazing Melissa.

  • @ConnietheVirgo
    @ConnietheVirgo 2 роки тому

    The song was how I found your music for one thing 🙂 but it was right after I came out, and I was with my first gf. It just gives me alot of warm and fuzzies. ❤

  • @audracrawford8836
    @audracrawford8836 2 роки тому

    BTW You look fabulous… yours was the very first CD I purchased in the late 80’s.. ✌🏼&♥️

  • @rkoblues24
    @rkoblues24 2 роки тому

    You are real good guitar player and you have some real nice guitars. I've always enjoyed your vocals.

  • @samarymarrero785
    @samarymarrero785 Рік тому

    Melissa I can’t wait to see you In My Window! October 14th! My Wife and I will be there! See you then! 🎸❤

  • @lisapointe4905
    @lisapointe4905 2 роки тому

    Please Forgive Me..it means so much to me..luv that song!

  • @MissyA1966
    @MissyA1966 2 роки тому

    The song speaks for itself. But he can come to my window or door anytime!!

  • @kk33613
    @kk33613 2 роки тому

    It meant about the same to me. I've always presumed that was the inspiration for "Come to My Window." I'm also of an age to remember who that lover was.

  • @hannahcela3491
    @hannahcela3491 Рік тому

    Come To My Window anyways had a metaphorical meaning to me... partly because of the video with Juliette Lewis, but to me it's desperately wanting to let someone in, being closed off and shut in in my own mind, and just wanting to see a kind face at the window. LOVE YOU and can't wait to see you in Savannah tomorrow!!!

  • @mjtc866
    @mjtc866 Рік тому

    You had mentioned in another interview someplace about the time in your life and how this song affected you and I know a lot of us out there see it as an opportunity to to verbalize out who we want to love him and even though some people don't understand we're still going to love who we want to love anyways and and I'm sure most of us would have had a situation where we wish a person we wanted to care for wouldn't meet us halfway and then it's just just come and talk to me and and things will be okay it's a powerful song and everytime we all sing it with you and the concert it just is awesome

  • @Karla-cb8tu
    @Karla-cb8tu 3 місяці тому

    Omg ,I jam " Come to my window" Every morning!Also I think the song means exactly what it says.I had a person that would throw a pebble at the bedroom window.I Jam the whole album.I LOVE YOUR GUITAR RIFFS.I was in my early 20's new mom....." I the only one that would walk across a fire for u !!'❤❤❤ BUCKET LIST IS TO YOU.PLAYI G YOUR GUITAR. !!3🎉🎉❤❤💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉It's my 51st birthday today.Ju e 21st🎉🎉

  • @lisamcdonald4215
    @lisamcdonald4215 11 місяців тому

    Love you

  • @stevegoins8367
    @stevegoins8367 Рік тому

    I have often wondered if you still have a leaded glass mirror trinket. I made that pc. to show just how much your music ment me and thousands fans across the world. You received it after a show in Cincinnati. When you were on your first tour. Not surprised, I knew you were going to be great. Long time fan. We artist keep doing what we do. Thank you... Steve Goins

  • @alexandriaspann8194
    @alexandriaspann8194 Рік тому

    it was the song that made it ok for me to except who i am that it was ok to like both girls and boys and it became one of my favorite and one of my requested songs for me to sing when i was doing karaoke thank you for being who you are and taking us along for the ride i wish i could see you on your tour this year. you have always been on my list of people to see in concert thank you again

  • @AngeliqueHope80
    @AngeliqueHope80 Рік тому

    I always imagined it to be about a young person who lived at home with their parents or another restrictive place, and who was in a secret relationship that might have been forbidden or that they didn't want anyone to know about, but was so incredibly passionate and deep that they couldn't bear to wait to see them, and telling their lover to come to their window as a way to sneak them in. An intense, forbidden, young love.

  • @CarolCurotto
    @CarolCurotto 4 місяці тому

    Melissa- in 1995 in Illinois my then boyfriend told me he loved me at your concert while we danced to you singing Come To My Window. We married soon after and had children over the years. We were married for 25 years and just a little over two weeks ago he unexpectedly passed away while he was states away from me on a month long work trip. The other night I dreamt he was at my bedroom window and I was trying to get to him … I was pressing my body so hard into the screen just to reach him. Just days ago I realized what this all meant.. how he was reaching out to me , to tell me he loved me just one more time. This song means EVERYTHING to me .

  • @nathanielayeke7530
    @nathanielayeke7530 2 роки тому +1

    This song I heard in college opened my eyes to true love for me. Where I come from women don't love and be with women. I thought the window was a way of hiding their sexual dealing. But It Did open my eyes to a different way of life.

  • @tracyschneider9123
    @tracyschneider9123 8 місяців тому

    It has meant different things to me over the years and right now I’m repeatedly listening because I’m at a point of having to accept that a woman Iv’ e been dating and I just have nothing to work with, I just can’t reach her. Even if i could clearly articulate my thoughts and feelings to her she wouldn’t hear me 😢
    Why do these things hurt so bad even when you know nobody is wrong you just don’t jive

  • @michellemullins1342
    @michellemullins1342 Рік тому +1

    My Daddy, is who got me hooked on you,your song Bring me some water is the first song I ever heard by you and my father played it because I was pregnant and my husband was cheating on me my daddy was a biker / truck driver never had a mother so my daddy inspired me with a lot of gray awesome bands you Stevie Nicks Eagles Foreigner Jay geils Creedence Clearwater Ingles of course Bob Seger Pink Floyd of Grand Funk Railroad but bring me some water and when you see it live in LA and trying to get my baby son to build play that just for me before I die you're awesome Melissa Etheridge

  • @courtneyawalsh
    @courtneyawalsh 2 роки тому

    One of my favorite films is Cinema Paradiso. A young suitor goes to the woman he loves’ house and stands forlornly pining under her window every night for months and months. He is waiting for her to open the window, beckon him in, flash the light...something…t’s a beautiful scene when she finally sees that he means it…and I guess it makes me think of Baz Luhrman’s Romeo & Juliet, too.

  • @evagutierrez4754
    @evagutierrez4754 2 роки тому

  • @gracielabravo6707
    @gracielabravo6707 Рік тому

    Somebody bring me some water, Come to my window, I'm the only one...and all of them!!!!

  • @Marie0575
    @Marie0575 3 роки тому +3

    I just loved the song, it was my jam growing up. Still love it

  • @FemmiGirlz
    @FemmiGirlz 3 роки тому +1

    I want to know why this video is not found on any social media anymore or even on UA-cam. It was one of the best videos of all time and I would love to see it again so can you please tell me where we can access it?

    • @101soldiergurl44
      @101soldiergurl44 6 місяців тому

      I remember going back stage and their was a Tucson Loader backstage pass...I was able to kick it backstage, and i had you autograph it. To me, i m guessing you were missing your lover Julie. As for myself i just loved all of your music. I saw you at Mesa Amphitheater; and then up at Sedona Jass Fest with Jackson Browne. Ovcourse, like every one of your shows many of the ladies were pelting you with bra's and panties. I have never seen a bad ME show!!! First time was in 1989 at Celebrity Theatre. I was in the Army for ten years and then two tours in Iraq. I am praying for Beckett and your happiness. I met you at your tour bus after the show. Your little dog Angel was with you. God bless you and keep on rockin!

  • @MagicalMentor
    @MagicalMentor Рік тому

    I got back with my husband boyfriend at the time by playing this song to him while picking up my final things.
    We got married a week later. Stayed that way for 30 plus years. Now i play letting go all the time sense the seperation
    Funny your songs we're at the beginning and end of my relationship. Wild.

  • @allentrice1703
    @allentrice1703 3 роки тому +5

    "Come to My Window! I'll be home soon!" It's the '90s song, Kelly! I can hear it! 🎵🎵🎶🎶

  • @melissakitelinger7543
    @melissakitelinger7543 2 роки тому

    I figured as much.. us Melissa's have a common problem. It's called women. I totally get it. Lol j.k. gotta love the inspiration they give us...women give the world life. Literally.

  • @mikecrews9112
    @mikecrews9112 24 дні тому

    To me this song always meant a forbidden love, come to my window not through the door I'll love you anyway I don't care what everyone thinks or says. I was a kid then tho but that was MY takeaway. Being with someone you're not supposed to be with by everyone else's standards

  • @spiritosa0123
    @spiritosa0123 Рік тому +1

    great song like so many …about LONGING. Your “like the way i do” has so much longing it defies description.. that is, in your performance of it.

  • @blondspike74
    @blondspike74 2 роки тому

    For me, as a young gay man in the 90s, the song meant that true love was found by two young lovers; love no matter what others think. The fight was about the start of being together by seeing each other one secret night regardless of any prejudice.

  • @bobbyhorne8937
    @bobbyhorne8937 Рік тому

    Much respect Melissa 🙏 the song means take me out of this prison I'm In 😏

  • @brucedaniels8570
    @brucedaniels8570 3 роки тому +2

    I LUV your song I Wanna Come Over 💙💋❤👄

  • @hanne9170
    @hanne9170 2 роки тому +1

    Pretty sure it's when I fell in love with you, as a straight woman

  • @christopherqueen636
    @christopherqueen636 Рік тому

    Come to my window I thought that was it your inspiration was for your lover

  • @kimberlee8567
    @kimberlee8567 2 роки тому

    I had just started dating the man I'd later marry.. he would come to my parents house at about 9 am and hang around with them while I was still sleeping! He'd stay until midnight.. go home.. call me.. talk a while.. sleep.. come back the next morning.. for MONTHS.. I didn't want to marry him.. it was basically a "If you can't beat em join em" situation

  • @djmeduna2009
    @djmeduna2009 3 роки тому

    Wow

  • @amenamen2652
    @amenamen2652 Рік тому

    It ment...here comes my night in shining armor...
    Penelope Penelope....let down your hair
    Repunzil?
    Yup

  • @thisisgreatt
    @thisisgreatt Рік тому

    Song meant hurry up in the Taco Bell drive thru

  • @christopherqueen636
    @christopherqueen636 Рік тому +1

    I thought that was it

  • @SonoNemo
    @SonoNemo 5 місяців тому

    The Song Is epic not to mention iconic but there is another Song you did That’s Better Than That One’ One That The world has Never Known and That One Was My Introduction To Who You Were As A Woman And An Artist.” Back Then. THAT IS THE REAL YOU ?!

  • @highrollerdiscs805
    @highrollerdiscs805 7 місяців тому

    Born 85 I was prob 9 when come to my window meant come get cigarettes and kisses.
    Ladies I’m single

  • @tonyneil3944
    @tonyneil3944 Рік тому

    I meant a lot to me because I had to go to her window to get in I wanted to jump through that window so bad the good part about it was she wanted me to jump through that window as bad as I wanted to get through it that's what made to making love even better

  • @tonyneil3944
    @tonyneil3944 Рік тому

    I know I get it I did it

  • @Scianta
    @Scianta 4 місяці тому

    Pining, so desperate to see that person that even have that girl to spontaneously show up climbing through my window

  • @cynthiastallones9753
    @cynthiastallones9753 2 роки тому

    Almost, sleep together by 6ft window, when we got together...free in Jesus now, navasota,tx

  • @tonyneil3944
    @tonyneil3944 Рік тому

    All right that's it I got to go I got to listen to the song I'm going to get so f****** drunk and wasted cuz I know I'm never going to make love like that again at least I got this music

  • @sebastiaopaiva9061
    @sebastiaopaiva9061 3 роки тому

    Excele te

  • @tonyneil3944
    @tonyneil3944 Рік тому

    Cuz we couldn't really get the door yeah I know I know

  • @cliffcox7643
    @cliffcox7643 3 місяці тому

    Great song. I didn't know she was the gay.

  • @twebster179
    @twebster179 2 роки тому

    When l first fell in love with my ex gf they were married to a man. I used to joke about sneaking in the window.🙄🤣

  • @tevansrn1
    @tevansrn1 7 місяців тому

    I lost my wife of 24 years just 10 months ago
    We could not wait to kiss through the open window at night

  • @bigfoot2708
    @bigfoot2708 Рік тому

    Me and my wife are at that window she wants her house in tip top shape but my back is fused 3-4. I can do
    Much until I have a hard time e walking.

  • @mikevanhouten5499
    @mikevanhouten5499 3 роки тому +2

    "Those were the days Melissa Etheridge or Juliet, Moon Vh or Romeo"

  • @mikevanhouten5499
    @mikevanhouten5499 3 роки тому +1

    "Glad to help mam sounds like you didn't know what my feelings were for beth s or yourself, have I ever been in love?" "Ask Alec if he knew"

  • @mrpotato4441
    @mrpotato4441 Рік тому

    This song is about being good at eating box

  • @robertlavedas4964
    @robertlavedas4964 2 роки тому +1

    Wow when did old, overweight lesbians become so important to our so called culture?

    • @truthbtold2596
      @truthbtold2596 2 роки тому +3

      She is a brilliant mucical icon. Your opinions of her age, weight and sexual prefrence are not relevant. It just shows your insecurities and character. You are very rude.

    • @JuanCChavez
      @JuanCChavez 2 роки тому +3

      Damn, it sucks to see you are a hater. But don't worry hating doesn't have to be a life sentence, there is a cure. You can turn it around while you still have time and not be a hater. With early treatment and management you can survive this horrible affliction.

  • @hannahcela3491
    @hannahcela3491 Рік тому

    Come To My Window anyways had a metaphorical meaning to me... partly because of the video with Juliette Lewis, but to me it's desperately wanting to let someone in, being closed off and shut in in my own mind, and just wanting to see a kind face at the window. LOVE YOU and can't wait to see you in Savannah tomorrow!!!