My husband & I didn't have conflicts & stress in our marriage, he said he got bored with me & there were 2 women that he claimed needed his "help" that more & more time was spent "helping" them out. That included coffee, lunch & even dinners out alone together to talk about their problems. They spent hours texting, even late at night & he lied to me about how often he was talking with them. Though they were 20+ yrs younger than him, I believe he had fantasies it could be more given enough time with either of them. We are still married, but he will never admit they were more than very good friends. But trashed me in couples counseling to get sympathy from the counselor as I'm the issue, not his cheating. I'm now dealing with betrayal trauma, since I wasn't just betrayed but also emotionally beat up afterwards to excuse his behavior.
What if tye cheater says I dint know what I want or it was over a comment u made 12 yr ago...which by the way I made a suggestion...but he took it as crotocism to try get some fofferent work as he only worked casual amd always relied off his family.. and he had over 10p names from date sites and some ohine numbers and then stonealled amd ignored since caught him
I feel like im in such a bad place an at a loss than because she never seems to wsnt to be empathtic in my shoes an take my perspective she thinks its him she thinks she so diffferent that hes what she wants because he validated her an hit all these needs i tried to give an example of how unmet needs going unmet for so long when validated after that puddle of small talks turned to a flood they hit hard an can feel like somethi g youve never had before its the mind playing those tricks with the chemicals but she doesnt wantt o take the look at all of these other aspects as i try an validate an try an validate her feelings conatantly. But also giving her the broader spectrum
My parner is having an affair with his 25 year old son. Everything you said he is doing it and our relationship suffers the consequences of his actions.
My husband & I didn't have conflicts & stress in our marriage, he said he got bored with me & there were 2 women that he claimed needed his "help" that more & more time was spent "helping" them out. That included coffee, lunch & even dinners out alone together to talk about their problems. They spent hours texting, even late at night & he lied to me about how often he was talking with them. Though they were 20+ yrs younger than him, I believe he had fantasies it could be more given enough time with either of them. We are still married, but he will never admit they were more than very good friends. But trashed me in couples counseling to get sympathy from the counselor as I'm the issue, not his cheating. I'm now dealing with betrayal trauma, since I wasn't just betrayed but also emotionally beat up afterwards to excuse his behavior.
CP: so true , you are spot on ..
Thank you for the topic & video ..
God Bless !
Excellent content. Great reminders. Thank you Mary.
Wow!!!! i just heard you testimony of life and death experience and it gave me the chills. You explained it so well 😮
What if tye cheater says I dint know what I want or it was over a comment u made 12 yr ago...which by the way I made a suggestion...but he took it as crotocism to try get some fofferent work as he only worked casual amd always relied off his family.. and he had over 10p names from date sites and some ohine numbers and then stonealled amd ignored since caught him
I feel like im in such a bad place an at a loss than because she never seems to wsnt to be empathtic in my shoes an take my perspective she thinks its him she thinks she so diffferent that hes what she wants because he validated her an hit all these needs i tried to give an example of how unmet needs going unmet for so long when validated after that puddle of small talks turned to a flood they hit hard an can feel like somethi g youve never had before its the mind playing those tricks with the chemicals but she doesnt wantt o take the look at all of these other aspects as i try an validate an try an validate her feelings conatantly. But also giving her the broader spectrum
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My parner is having an affair with his 25 year old son. Everything you said he is doing it and our relationship suffers the consequences of his actions.
Sick
Huh???!!!