Had a person tell me on my wedding day "This marriage won't last a year". I take great delight in sending them an anniversary card every year...this year she will get her 30th :).
As someone whose perfect world involves Halloween happening 4x a year, wearing a costume to a wedding (that isn’t a themed wedding that encourages costumes) is unacceptable.
I agree. I normally let my kids wear almost anything on the wast majority of days. We we do have events like weddings I tell them that this day is special so I will try to get clothes that they like and that are right for this situation. If we have several possible outfits I let them pick from them.
That bride to be is definitely not a bridezilla by not wanting that child at her ceremony in a lion costume. It really makes me wonder who is the parent and who is the child. On just about any other day of the year there would be no problem with that child wearing what she wants if that’s what the parents allow. However, this is someone’s wedding and there is a certain way the guests should be dressed out of respect for the occasion. Those parents need to actually act like parents.
I got married on my sister’s birthday. It had not been intentional. Thankfully, when I had asked if it would’ve been alright she had said hell yes! So, I had put a bunch of birthday presents and birthday balloons at her table. I did my best to let her know how much she is loved and included her in everything. I doubt there had been anyone at the wedding who didn’t know it was birthday or hadn’t wished her a happy birthday. She had a great time and loved our band and free alcohol. She still talks about some of the memories we made on that beautiful day. Still happily married eighteen years later.
Honestly, my auntie got married on my birthday. We’re not that close, so she had forgotten it was my birthday but on the day she had a balloon and some presents for me which was absolutely lovely.
@@iamalimelight2346 You and your Antie may not be close, but she absolutely loves you and having you as family. Thank you for sharing your story, it was really special to hear it. 💐
Like super sister here! Asked AND added a table full of bday stuff when approved to draw attention to the birthday girl as well and share her day?! Girl you got my cryin!
As someone who has a sister the whole “trying to one up each other” is complete bs. Sisters who actually do this kind of thing to each other are just jerks.
Or one is a narcissist. My sister is a year and a half older than me to the day and she always feels the need to one up me and belittle me for, and I quote "Ruining her 1 and a half birthday" as if I could control when I was born because my mother had to be induced. Sure my sister and I got along when we were kids but after puberty she hung out with toxic people and became toxic herself. She bashes and badmouths everyone in our family.
Yeah, a little bit of one-upping between sisters is normal. Scheduling important events on days that you know are important to someone else is not normal.
@@nonyabusiness3619 no one. It's the simple fact I was born exactly 1 and a half years after her to the day. She's born January 21 and I'm born July 21. We are exactly 18 months apart by the day and ever since we were children she used it as an excuse to guilt trip me and make me feel bad about even having been born.
@@NekoKuro-il8rz Don't let her make you feel bad. Like you said, she bashes everyone in your family and is a toxic person in general. Why should you care about her opinion of you?
Im a Guy, and Im still disturbed/ would be embarrassed by the women on the ground photos. I would be mortified if someone suggested that pose. Hell no >_
My brother and his wife had a renissance inspired wedding, and they told everyone to wear whatever, as long as it was in the spirit of the theme. The brides grandfather showed up as a court jester, thinking they'd be put off (he had something to change into), but they thought it was the greatest thing ever and wanted him in all the pictures as an intentional photo bomb. He was stuck with the big hat, bells, and curley shoes all day, being dragged from photo to photo
Dude if my sister showed up to my wedding in a trex costume I would die laughing lol I would feel obligated to have her in the background of every picture lol
I bet the T-rex sister had a different outfit just in case but that the bride adored the t-rex when she showed up :) Those will be amazing wedding photos
@@dominiquehebert4903 Yeah and there probably was a backstory to it, too. Some running gag kinda thing, possibly going back to some hilarious childhood incident. I rather doubt, the sister choose that costume randomly or to upset the bride. I mean, the risk was there, obviously, but it was probably meant to be in good fun.
The Lion thing- definitely not a bridezilla! Also when kids insist on a specific outfit it's usually a spur of the moment day of thing not 'next week I'm wearing a lions outfit to the wedding!'
I'm thinking the kid probably did say they wanted to wear the lion outfit, but they probably didn't 'insist' on it. They probably just threw a tantrum when the parents tried to say no for two seconds. If the parents just picked out another outfit, by the time the wedding came around the kid would probably have completely forgotten they said they wanted to wear the lion costume.
Yeah. Also, if the parents can't get their kid to wear normal clothes for one day you can bet they won't be able to handle getting their kid to remain quiet during the ceremony. A screaming lion will definitely ruin the mood of a serious ceremony.
As a parent, the lion one is silly. The parents of that child can make them wear normal clothes, that’s just bad parenting. The bride is not a bridezilla.
Im not sure whats worse, lion costume at the cermony or a 8 year old throwing a tantrum Not sure what the parent are thinking, the kid need to learn eventually that the world doesnt center around them, someones else wedding sound like an excelent time to teach them they arent the center of attention at all given time
All 3 of my kids went through those weird “costumes as everyday clothing phases.” That’s fine at the grocery store or the park. NOT at a wedding. That’s a parenting fail and one that the wedding party shouldn’t have to deal with.
I commented to a lady about how nicely dressed her little boy was on a Sunday morning. She said "I want him to know this is a special day and going to church is a special thing. " God bless her for raising him right.
I had an obsession with dressing up as a dalmatian dog at age 4. It lasts just within that year and it was for when i got to eat dinner on the back portch (i REALLY wanted to be a doggy!) Lol
@@shitlista4283 some things shouldn't be sugar-coated. Yes, it's a fail because the parent is failing to teach the child that on certain occasions, they need to dress appropriately.
So let me get this straight, your children are only allowed to be imaginative & creative when it suits you?? This sort of thinking has damaged the psyche of children for generations.
The fact that they called the bride to tell her their kid is gonna show up in a costume is them officially giving up as parents, they're saying to the world "we're not gonna make any effort, you guys deal with it" This is how Karens are created
Finally we hear a 100% appropriate application of the phrase, "It's my day." 😆 I mean, c'mon -- she even said the kid could wear the lion costume for the reception. I feel like a lot of brides wouldn't make that concession.
"I've kept you in my prayers." My Pastor: *Eyeroll* Context: My senior pastor at church has actually addressed the "I'll pray for you/I'll keep this in my prayers" mantra, and basically told us to cut that bull, and quit making excuses to not go out of our way to serve those in need.
Can you imagine the discussion with her therapist when she's 25? "And this is where my pathological need for structure started... sniffles sniffles... and my fear or dinosaurs!"
I can't imagine having the audacity to tell someone else that they're going to have to deal with a bratty kid at their wedding. Are you a parent? Then be a parent. Make the kid behave or don't leave the house. Those are the options. Giving in to kids ruins their lives. Always. They don't grow out of it.
If we tried that as kids, we would've got our butts kicked!! That's the problem these days, parents don't discipline their"precious angels". Tell the parents that if the kid won't wear noal clothes, don't bring the kid. And if they still complain, tell them not to bother coming. It's that simple!
My thoughts exactly! I know parents don't want to upset their children, but they're doing them a massive disservice if they enable despicable behavior. They're supposed to be their parents, not their enablers.
I hate that whole idea of men being “trapped” into marriage or referring to their spouse as the “ball and chain”. If you don’t want to get married, don’t propose, plus there are thousands of girls every year that are FORCED into marriage so it’s really not a funny joke. In fact, it’s really disrespectful to the woman you’re supposed to love enough to marry.
The first one is like the wedding version of “do you want to go out with me?” And then flipping and going all “well you’re fat amd ugly anyway I only asked you out because I felt bad for you lol” when rejected
We had someone act like that before our wedding. She seriously messed up a lot of things. His parents suddenly didn't think we should get married, almost didn't come because of it. She hadn't seen him in years and was visiting the family and decided it was her place to say God said we shouldn't get married. 😡
@@GlamourNNail I hate when ppl say “God said this” and use it for their own personal good. As a Christian myself those ppl infuriate me. 🙄 stop using God to get what you want.
@@GlamourNNail you should have said, "That's odd; God has been speaking to me and said to go ahead with the wedding and to beware of jealous voices wishing to lead us astray."
At my bestie's wedding, when the pastor said "speak now or forever hold your peace", one of our friends' babies started crying and then a few people laughed. Bride and groom both thought it was hilarious and are still together like 5 years later.
Why do people get so much shit for not wanting young kids at a wedding lol. Some people don't like kids, there's nothing wrong with that. Takes all kinds to make the world go around.
yupp, was thinking the same thing. also, who in their right mind brings a new born baby to a wedding? that's such an asshole move, even when it's not a child-free wedding that you knew was a child-free wedding when you were originally invited to it. 🤷♀️
@@Birdbike719 Well, maybe not a new-born, but I definitely wouldn't take it to the wedding either. Unless family could watch the baby, if it were me, I'd bow out.
30-40 years ago, people did not bring young kids to weddings. Or even to restaurants or movies until they were old enough to behave. I feel like most people still do not.
Don’t have a heart attack or a stroke, but in my former country one of the wedding party competitions is to roll an egg through the trouser legs of your partner… now you know why my wedding was 10 people including the priest….
LoL, the T-Rex one reminds me of my grandpa threatening me that he would wear his Looney tunes tie to my wedding. I told him to go ahead and do it. He actually did it and a few years later he gave it to my son 😂.
Fun fact my cousin threw a fake wedding with one of her guy friends so my family and their friends would buy them gifts. They got a fake pastor who was also a friend and everything and threw the ceremony but never actually legally got married or stayed together or were anything more than friends. Once they got their free stuff and cash gifts, they dipped. I don’t think anyone in my family talks to her anymore after that
That sister thing of them trying to outdo each other is bullshit. That's shitty ppl, not cuz they're sisters. I would know, I have three. And all of my friends have sisters too.
@@tomriddle8933 Oh I'd put money on the fact he didn't think about her sister's bday when he proposed. The party on the 22nd birthday though, that was planned by her sister. It was intentional and it was DIRTY!
@CrazyCat Lady well, is like mentioned in the comment above, that's not a normal behavior between sisters that's a shitty person, and also probably parents that's allowed their child to be a shitty person since they were little
I had a (now former) friend who wore her "Bride To Be" sash and a tiara when we went out to celebrate my birthday so I can relate to that girl having her sister hijack her birthdays. She already had her shower and her bachelorette party was going to be the following weekend. I was annoyed but kept quiet. Another friend confronted her about it and her excuse was "But it's my wedding and I'm only getting married once etc. etc. etc.) She was always making everything all about her and could not stand it when there was a party or any other event not focused on her. The worst was when she made the birth of a friend's first child all about her. She was me, me, me all the time.
I can understand the engagement because if that's the day her boyfriend proposed, maybe he didn't know it was the sisters birthday. As for anything else, that's just plain mean.
I had to look up the T-Rex one. It's actually really cute! The sister who was the maid of honor doesn't like formal wear. As a joke, when she was told she could wear anything, she texted the bride if it was okay to wear the a t-rex costume, totally expecting a "no." The bride pretty much told her to go for it.
@@happyzahn8031 Honestly these are the wedding stories I look for..... That would be an amazing story for their kids.... I really don't understand the concept of everything being aesthetically perfect... I think that obsession itself ruins the wedding....
“Sarah. You know my soon to be Husband’s family was mauled by a lion when he was a child and he has never recovered. I can’t believe you want to let your daughter bring back these awful memories on his wedding day.” That’s how you deal with that lol
I don't know I think it's pretty funny to be honest. She could be sarcastic about it, not necessarily a lie. She could say something along the lines "How could you do this, you don't know if you're kid wearing a lion's costume doesn't bring up unpleasant memories for someone else!" kinda line.
I was the only person in my family to graduate with a four-year degree (that took me six years), and celebrated the accomplishment with a party my family threw for me. At the party, my sister revealed her first pregnancy with her ultrasound in a card given to my parents. My hard work wasn't so special anymore!
If it were my sister it would have made the day even more special. 💜 Her pregnant announcement might have been to share the joy while the family was together. Two exciting events in one day, both equally important. 💜(One does not invalidate the otber in any way.)
@@irene_f. But they're not of equal importance. A first baby is way more exciting than a college graduate. And I'm sure she did share it because there were a lot of people there and family was already together. But you really can't compare my relationship with my sister and yours with your sister. Apples and bowling balls.
@@itscalledlogic7 I believe we both have valid points and I do not wish to invalidate how you feel. It's true, every situation is different circumstances, so can be as you say- apples and orange. 🎉🎉Congratulations to you!🎉🎉🌸 I believe both are important.
Sounds like you belong in one of her videos. You could share your special day with her. you are sisters and both have done two great accomplishments. nothing wrong with announcing a pregnancy at your party when all your family was already there.
@@edwardskeva9307 You do not represent the norm, unfortunately. That's actually very thoughtful. Most men wouldn't even notice the faux pas, let alone care. I like you already! 😃🏅🏆🎁
Bride absolutely isn't a bridezilla for not wanting a lion at the ceremony. She's even ok with it at the reception! Be a freaking parent and tell the kid she can't wear the costume. As a parent I know kids can be stubborn, but there's a time to say no.
If it looks like kiddo will be a little fuss-budget about their non-lion clothes at the ceremony, tell the child that they blew it and that parents will be going to the wedding without them. And if they throw a tantrum at that point, tell the rugrat that they are proving their parents' point. When they grow up and learn to cooperate and behave, then they may get to go to fancy events. Stick with it. No whining or crocodile tears into a change of mind. And promise the babysitter a BIG tip.
With the lion thing, that woman really isn't being a bridezilla because she's even trying to accommodate the spoiled brat and her parents. I would simply tell them it would be in inappropriate to wear that at my wedding and if the mother of the child refuses to change her mind I'd just uninvite them. Planning a wedding is stressful enough we don't need the entitled making it worse
My friends and i have a pact that any one wearing white who is not the bride, gets a bottle of red wine on them and the kids get given chocolate and told to hug them.
This is awesome "Oh Auntie Linda's pretty white dress is made out of napkins! You can wipe your face on her while giving her a hug. Doesnt she look like she needs it?" Sorry of your name is Linda. It was the first name that popped into my head.
One of my bridesmaids didn't show up until the middle of the ceremony, wearing jeans and flipflops. I was literally married for less than five minutes when she came up to me and in all seriousness said, "My bad! I couldn't find shoes (she'd had over 7 months to get them). But I promise I'll be on time for your next wedding!" She was dead serious and couldn't understand why I was ticked. Sadly that was just the tip of the iceberg.
I had someone tell my husband's niece at our wedding, that we shouldn't be getting married, that it wouldn't last long, and don't get used to me as her aunt, because we did not date long. True, we only dated 2 months before getting engaged, but we had been friends for 7 years!!! Oh...over 20 years later, we are Still happily married to each other.
Oh no, I HATE when people tell you that you are "in their prayers". Condescending much eh? Self-satisfaction much? Are you fishing for compliments? I always say: no thanks!
@@IsleNaK I can understand that. I know for the most part it is done with good intentions. I've done this too, I always mean it with good intentions not in a condescending rude way. It hurts me greatly when people lose loved ones, family, friends, even strangers alike. Losing people you love, wether you know it will happen, or extremely suddenly it's always very hard to handle. Sou prayers go out to those who lose loved ones. Though I try not to make people uncomfortable or feel worse because of it. What would be a good thing to say or do instead of saying you're in my prayers? I'm genuinely curious if there is a better way of going about being supportive and caring for someone who's recently lost a loved one.🥺💖
@@PinkPanther45518 Tweak it from a statement into a question; not "I'll keep you in my prayers", but "Would you like me to say a prayer for you?" My family and I are all Pagan, but my friend group is pretty evenly split between Pagans and Jews. Whenever the Pagans are sick, the Jewish friends ask if we'd be comfortable with them saying a Mi Shebeirach for us. In turn, the Pagan friends ask if they'd like us to ask for a blessing from Brighid, Sigyn, ancestor spirits, etc. We always say yes, I think most people would, especially if you're friends. The important thing is you _ask_ if they'd like a prayer, rather than telling them, as it shows mutual respect for beliefs and boundaries. This can even go for someone you know to be the same faith as you, as I know in times of hardship keeping religious faith can be a struggle and some people might feel worse seeing others have what they perceive as a stronger faith than them. If they say no, don't take offense - just offer to be there for them.
@@IsleNaK if it's done with good intentions, just take it as a show of support, answer with a simple "thanks", the same way you'd answer to a pat on the back. Honestly, when I tell people that (and it's not usually acquaintances, but people I know well and care about), it's because I want to show them I'm not blind to their suffering and I'm there to support them if they need it. Each of us has different ways of showing emotional availability. Of course, if it's done to show off, then it's honestly pathetic.
My sister got married on my 19th birthday .And when I wanted a cake she said why would you need one? Like I had decided to be born on her wedding day.But our sister in law got wasted and made a scene infront of my sister's friends and "her day" was fucked.😏
@@alylyon8073 So basically you’re eloping with a few guests? Sorry, it’s just that in my family a “real wedding” never has less than 50 people. Anything less than that and you will get asked if you are planning to have a “real wedding”. I’m not judging. I didn’t have a “real wedding” either. By the time my husband and I were ready to get married, all we really cared about was spending the rest of our lives together. The rest is just an expensive party.
The lion thing - EXACTLY why I said “adult only ceremony” on my invitations! I didn’t want crying babies and kids running around during the vows…I spent a lot of money 🤷🏼♀️ and my MOH had a baby the week before my wedding so I offered up our hotel suite during the ceremony so dad could stay with baby while mom was standing with me and it worked out well. I obviously didn’t demand she continue with the wedding, it was her choice.
@@RenataHargitai Wow, that sounds absolutely crazy. Here, most girls would not start the semester and just resume school after 1-3 years of maternity leave.
@@indigoeye3874 - she got accepted to medical school. She has no "maternity leave' if she's in school. And they would not allow her to pick up where she left off 3 years later.
That third guy seemed pissy. He didn't even pick up the knife when it fell and then used the Dirty knife to murder that cake. And then Threw the knife away 😑
I can't quite articulate my feelings about the cake-killing groom... I've never seen that many red flags within that short a time period. Somethin' ain't right, y'all.
I knew as soon as she put her hand up to shield her eyes while looking for "who the @#$% asked you," we were in for a great ride. Also, remind me to NEVER disappoint Charlotte.
As a mom, it's not so easy to just make a small child change. That being said, a reasonable mom would compromise and chat to the bride (it is their special day). If the bride was willing to let them go to the reception in the lion outfit, I'd get a babysitter to look after them during the ceremony. I think that's two people coming to the party to try make it work. Bride sounds super fair in her message 😊
This is the first time I can understand where the bride is coming from… But not for the reasons she’s upset. The kid that wants to wear a lions outfit…because “she won’t wear anything else” This is where the parents need to step up and do some parenting… It’s a formal wedding, your kid is not the boss… You tell them what they are wearing. All of the bridezillas are always out of there ever-loving minds, But honestly a kid running around dressed as a lion is distracting… The real “bridezilla“ of this story is the lions parents for telling the bride they are bringing their child , that they will be in costume, and it’s out of their control 🤡
As I wrote earlier: •How about: are the children paying for the costume? No? You, as the parents are? Well, then you, as the parents, also have the utmost power to tell your children "NO." Perhaps you could try exercising your power as a parent? 🤷🏼♀️ IDK, just a totally crazy idea, I know. 😆
I'm conflicted about the lion outfit. Personally I wouldn't care but i understand why the bride would, but realistically what makes it conflicting is that if the child is that spoiled they might throw a fit if they don't get to wear what they want. Which ultimately might ruin the wedding more than a happy child in a lion costume.. it's a complete parenting fail but I'd rather have a kid in a costume at my wedding than a screaming child the whole time
@@zarouliaall5390 You might also have a kid running around pretending to be a lion, though... A child throwing a fit is an easy cure - the parent can just grab it and leave hastily. But if the child is just playing, the parent would probably only attempt to reign them in, resulting in a long headache for everyone in the nearest vicinity.
@@DC-nw3uc I mean yea i agree with you, I was just saying that bc the bride might not want the added stress of telling her friend she has to leave the kid home. If they're a good friend they should understand and accept the brides wishes anyway, but I can imagine it might be anxiety inducing for the bride to have to give an ultimatum. It's not fair to leave that up to the bride anyway when the parent should just be able to make their child wear appropriate clothing in the first place. But that clearly didn't happen so the bride is left in the middle of an unfair situation. Not a bridezilla by any means
Was feeling a bit down and feverish, but a Charlotte video dropped and soon there's smiles and feeling better. Laughter heals and that makes Charlotte the greatest doctor!
Jessica isn't just walking, she's RIDING down the aisle, how gangsta is that :'D I wonder if they had some dope track playing at that time, that'd be sick.
People upset about how dude is treating his fiancé like she's a deer he bagged, and I'm just over here fuming about how they've spelled Paisley and Chadwick.
@@InteriorDesignStudent really?? i know several people named paisley. didn't think it was capital c Common or anything, but i also didn't think it was rare or weird or anything
When I went to my sons graduation from the United States Marine Corps there was a teenage girl around 16 wearing a unicorn horn on her head and a tail. I could not believe that the parents allowed this at such an important time in their son’s life. There is a time and place for everything. When you watch men and women graduate from one of the toughest boot camps in the world, you dress nice.
And this wasn’t even a small child..but a TEENAGER? Looks like the girl just couldn’t stand the attention not being on her, good grief…the parents need to tell her to grow the hell up.
Well, to be fair you don't know what was going on. It could be that she and her brother had a pact, that she would dress like a unicorn if he manage to graduate. Like a bet, you know. "You will never be able to graduate this! You will give up! If you do it, I will dress like a unicorn to your graduation!". Like honestly, me and my brother made so many questionable pacts...)
@@anastasiyat5913 We ate lunch at the same time after the graduation ceremony. That’s when I noticed her first. We were all sitting with our new Marines. Trust me, this was not a pact. I don’t even think they talk to each other. heck, I don’t think anybody talk to each other on that table. It was weird. Plus, there is no way a marine would make that pact.
@@vhoward29 there is absolutely a way “a marine would make that pact”, they don’t stop being people or having a sense of humor. I understand you saw it didn’t seem like it was agreed upon, but that doesn’t mean in another case it couldn’t be. A young boy saying he'll become a marine and his sister saying yeah right and there'll be unicorns when you graduate sounds like normal sibling banter in a lot of families. Again, not this case, but it’s silly to generalise all marines as being super serious and stoic.
@@JasminMiettunen When you enter the base, you are going to his/her place of work. This isn’t a college or a hobby. But, trust me that wasn’t it at all. I don’t even think they talked to each other. Plus, when they eat with their family they aren’t exactly the same person. There is a certain level of expectation. They seem the same, yet different. Boot Camp is a conditioning that works rather effectively. There is no way in hell that was the case. Her parents didn’t do the job of teaching her respect. They’re indulgent and aren’t doing that girl any favors.
If any of my siblings are getting married, I’m am so going as a 🦖….. but I will be appearing in my normal human form for the wedding photos if required 😭
@@Ketutar The difference is: The couple in question didn't seem to mind, so why should the adult? These decisions can be made. The child wanted to impose on an adult that obviously did not want it. That is not a decision the child can impose on their hosts for the evening.
@@markcameron5513 the child isn't imposing anything. It is an child. The difference is that one bride is an adult who understands that what the guests are wearing doesn't "spoil" the wedding, the other bride is an petty bitch who tries to control everything.
Hey Charlotte, I just wanted to let you know that you've been such a help to me recently. I been going through some really hard things and I always look forward to your videos, they make me laugh and make my days a little less hard. Thank you
@@InservioLetum a lot of kids are furries, you're just assuming furries are inherently sexual, witch is not true. Most furry convention are all age inclusive and all adult activities must take place privately and with age control. I'm not a furry but I had furry friends in middle and high school, they had fun making costumes and going to parties in them. Please don't treat it as a sexual activity, it's a harmful misconception.
I'm a little concerned for the bride whose husband looked like he was about to throw a tantrum, at their reception, because he couldn't cut the cake properly.
That's fear you're seeing, not hostility. He's not comfortable with crowds, feels cornered, and was clearly forced into this party. Watch his shoulders when the woman in blue 'shows' him how to cut it. If she's not the source of his discomfort, her family most likely is. He does not defend the bride's side, so she's perfectly safe and he trusts her. The rest of the room however...
There should be a video of these two and boi, let me tell you, he didn't do a nice impression there. I think the video is called "Groom can't do anything" or something like that
Also, I thought part of the issue with that one was he dropped the knife on the FLOOR and then aggressively grabbed it out of her hand to just stab the cake again. YUM, dirty floor cake!
I just want to know who thought that this would make a good picture. It's not cute. It's demeaning to the women and I hope that the bride lost them all as friends. She would have lost me as a friend the moment she requested it.
For the lion outfit child i would un-invite the parents. Don't bring your brat then. Tshadwick is going to mount paiseley. The pregnant bridemaid may not be able to attend the wedding anyway if the due date is the wedding day. If the baby comes before the day wouldn't mom and baby be in recovery?
Very true! I would gently ask the bridesmaid if she wanted to step down from being in the wedding party so she can focus on her baby. Having a child can be very stressful to prepare for and being in a wedding could add even more stress if the Bride was neurotic about how she wanted things.
The solution is obvious for the actual wedding day, but I think the bridezilla in question just thought they were overreacting in thinking that the bridesmaid purposefully was trying to get pregnant to avoid being in the wedding. . . which I really hope so! Can you imagine if someone's first thought to be invited to be an attendant wasn't "I should politely decline" but rather "I think I'd rather get pregnant, go through giving birth, and then have 18 years of responsibility instead." lol
Don't know why weddings bring out the asshole-idness of some people. Just say no to them. Woman brought her granddaughter with basket of flowers to my wedding. Told me that she was going to be the flower girl. I told her NO, LEAVE NOW. I had never seen this woman before. Turns out that she was from groom's family. This should have made me leave myself. Was an abusive marriage and he screwed around with my "best friend". Weddings should be an enjoyable event for all.
I am sorry that it happened to you. I have survived abuse as well. Its not easy but damg it does make you grateful for the good people in your life and the eureka moment when you realise that you are strong and that you do love who you are.
GOD that first story awoke a memory in me. My cousin planned her wedding on the same day I had my 18th birthday - which you know, is a big deal - despite knowing months in advance it's my birthday. At the very least she gave me flowers and announced my birthday and had the band play a happy birthday song, which is sweet of her but it just made me feel extremely awkward. And considering the fact that she had a giant party for her 18th birthday with a shitton of gifts that had combined value of thousands $ while I spent my 18th birthday at her wedding and didn't get that many presents because everybody was already buying gifts for her wedding, including my parents, I'm still pretty bitter about it :)))) I'm happy for her, but damn, 18th birthday is a big deal and I wanted to spend it with my friends out in the city but had to scrap my plans a year in advance because she didn't want to move her wedding day - which she could have had on literally any other day that wasn't my birthday.
My one friend had a costume party wedding. Her side of the wedding party all dressed as fairys and the groom's party were all dressed like superheroes. Her brother came as a banana. 😂😂 it was a great wedding and definitely fit the bride and groom's personalities.
I'm sorry to say that the average American would be very giddy if handling a sword. They would probably treat it like a toy. There would be injuries. Probably some deaths. For context: I am an American. I am not joking (about any of this). It would be so very scary. Unless the person cutting the cake has the necessary discipline (which would be kinda rare here).
@Becca I don't think it would be that hard, as long as everyone is at a safe distance and nobody handling the sword is extremely drunk. If you're too immature to handle a sharp object safely, you're too immature to get married.
@@SkitAWulf242 Rule #1 (from someone with more experience than most--including myself): ua-cam.com/video/vttMXmAhfhg/v-deo.html I completely agree about the immaturity, but from what I can tell, it doesn't stop people nearly often enough.
That first one reminded me about how I wasn’t invited to my stepbrothers wedding because they only had a very small wedding with their family and closest friends. And I was like: oh okay, we’re not family then? Alright. You gonna get the best seat ever on my wedding and then my other stepbrother did it too. Guess you do know where you stand with people in a situation like this.
In regards to the kid wanting to wear a lion costume …I can agree that they are spoiled And Idk man but I think parents forget that they can say um you know ✨No✨
What I’ve noticed about these entitled brides videos is that after they’ve started to plan the wedding, they think everyone’s actions are about the wedding. Like they can’t think beyond their wedding and someone getting pregnant or dying their their hair must be to get out of the wedding party 😂 like they expect their bridesmaids to pause their lives just because they’re in the wedding.
- Doesn’t get invited to the wedding ::wants to come badly enough to invite self - Still Doesn’t get invited to the wedding ::says wedding is horrible idea, and her constant prayers are with you in your horrible, doomed future. #blessup
Charlotte the child dressed like a lion sounds perfect to end a wedding. The priest holds the lion aloft while they cue " Disney trademarked music from Shrek"
My former best friend had her rehearsal dinner on my birthday and her wedding on her future brother in laws birthday. We asked her multiple times if she could pick a different weekend (our birthdays were back to back in one weekend) and she absolutely refused with no real explanation why. She forbade either of us from celebrating our birthdays all day because she needed us to run errands for the wedding, claiming she would do something special at the wedding for us. Fast forward to the wedding, where they did nothing to acknowledge either of our birthdays and caused an embarrassing scene involving both myself and the brother in law before the night was done. I still consider it one of the most embarrassing evenings of my life 🙃
@diamondcrystal1016 I learned quickly after that that she was NOT the friend I wanted her to be and never would be. It's hard to admit after many years of friendship but some people just aren't compatible 🤷🏼♀️
The bride and her entourage on their knees was supposed to be them "submitting" to the guys. Yuck. The spelling of Paisleigh and Tshadwick's names told me waaaaaaay more than I wanted to know. And the fact that she got made up like a deer and he hunted her down and this person thinks it's perfect tells me they're probably really, really close blood relations.
Tshadwick and paisleigh... I refuse to believe those are their real names. And the photo is ALMOST as bad as the ones were the women are kneeling. It's degrading and weird and the brides don't only seem okay with it... but like, happy about it
I think that photo is kind of even worse than the women on the ground. The bride looks dead! The image says o me that he killed her and he’s happy about it because her head will look great on the wall of his man cave.
Re: the child coming to the wedding wearing a lion costume. if the wedding is at a Christian church tell the child's parents that lion outfits are not allowed in the church because of that whole "in ancient Rome Christians being fed to the lions" thing. Sorry, but it is not allowed.
Yh but then you also have to factor in that there might be a lot of peer pressure. What if the mom or the grandmother came up with the idea. People would see something other people would do and think they could never be in that situation but you eventually find it's what you end up doing anyways. But I agree, I could never. But then at the same time it's also like you can never know either.
My family would already be kinda horrified If me and hubby give each other some big loud full on kiss, they would absolutely never talk to me again if I get on my knees like that.
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So the lion thing .. like how does the parent know the kid is already “insisting” that it’s gonna wear the suit.. if it was some sort of special needs/sensory situation then obviously.. but since it’s made clear it’s not then I’d probably just say it’s not appropriate for the ceremony but we hope to see y’all at the reception.
I think there is so much time and effort in a women getting ready for her wedding day more than it is for men. The clothes are always going to be expensive, but there's also hairstyles and makeup they have to consider. And then there's the fact of the situation, if she planned the whole thing herself which can pay a big part in the whole "its my day" since they feel like they've done most the work, they just want everything to be perfect. But I do agree with you tho
I agree, it should be for both. Most brides don't want the groom to have a say because they have been planning their wedding since before they even got a man. I never understood it myself. I wanted just a simple wedding, friends and family, and a nice dress that was unique but not expensive and I wanted my man to have as much of an input as me... at least, that's how it would've been had it all worked out.
Unless you are like my cousin..whom upon finding out i was recently engaged in 2020 demanded I not get married this year (2021) because it was her YEAR! 😂😂😂😂😮😮😮😮 I do agree with the other comment on here is that it is usually the bride who does all the planning and the guy is like..just do it all. I'm so glad that my fiance wants to be very involved and we can plan it together and make it OUR day.
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The bride is not being a bridezilla if she does not want a bridesmaid at her wedding with a newborn child. The bridesmaid would be under too much stress after recently giving birth and having to adapt her life to care for her newborn. So she won't be at the wedding because of life ~ that's the reality.
But then again no one got pregnant for a day then gave birth the next day, how come she didn't know her friend pregnant? And due a day before her wedding? Like.. really?
re: the lion costume, if you're ever taking a kid to a really crowded or poorly lit place and you're worried at all about keeping an eye on them, sometimes letting them wear their Halloween costume not only makes the adventure extra fun for them, but the kid is much easier to pick out in a crowd. this is nice for pictures too; you always know where your little one is in a photo! i was once nervous about taking my 4 year old god son to the aquarium because it was incredibly dark in some areas, so i let him wear his dragon costume and not only was he delighted, but i could see his little tail boppin' along the exhibits with no worries!
If you think a crying newborn will mess up your wedding, set up a room for them. Ask the church if they have a nursery or if the venue has a room. Then tell your friend you Love them and want them in your wedding. You understand they can’t be far from their baby so you have asked someone to stay with their newborn at the wedding venue that way they’re only away from them for a few minutes. This gives your friend the option to agree or back out of the wedding. Either way it’s their choice and they still feel like you love them enough to want them to be there no matter what.
My sister had a camo wedding, and my dad walked her down the aisle with a sawed off shotgun. She also chugged a beer before walking down the aisle since she was so nervous 😂
Lol! Well it wouldn't be my choice, but I bet it was lot of fun and showed that the wedding party has a good sense of humor. I bet the reception was a hoot.
@@lilyt5855 Nonono, the humour comes later when you go hunting with her. Everyone except the bride coordinates and they all show up in white wedding dresses. xD
9:43 Back when I was younger I had a unicorn blanket thing that you could wear and “Look like a unicorn” it draped over me like I tossed a blanket on my head, that was what I wore to my uncles wedding my brother brought a dragon costume my uncle found it very funny it was a close family and friends wedding and it was cold out so obviously that was the thing to wear. No one was hurt, we also wore normal clothes for a bit but it was very funny at the moment and looking back 😂
Well, okay, but to be fair, you don't always know the day on which you're going to become engaged. :-) But you sure as heck know what day on which your shower will be!
@@neolithic3 Maybe. Maybe not. I'm not sure that I knew my wife's sister's birthday the day that I proposed. Actually, if I'm honest, now that I think about it, I couldn't tell you that date even now! I mean, I know approximately when it is, but not the exact date. Am I supposed to know the birthdates of all of my wife's siblings? Is that a thing?
Yeah, I understand you're thinking on that. I did get pissed when one of my male cousins got married though. Myself and about 5 or 6 other cousins that were all teens and pre-teens worked our butts off in the kitchen making food for the reception, and served the bride's rude family full of Karens at the reception, including going to tables to see if they wanted refills on drinks. The bride said she purposefully chose the venue across the river in the next state because anyone under 21 was not allowed in the place after 10pm cuz she didn't want little kids there. But those of us that saved her a ton of money and were treated like hired help by her family missed out on most of the dance and party, after we worked all day for free. I know, people are talking about little kids, I'm still sore about it though. Joke is on her though, they divorced, and she ended up being a meth addict. Saw her mug shot on the news. Feel bad for her kids though : (
@@bluhevenlyII damn that sounds awful! No, everyone that attends my wedding shouldn't have to work for free. I kind of lmaod at that last part though, that shit escalated quickly 🤣 Karma is a bitch.
@@bluhevenlyII wow the ex wife just got her karma then😂 good for them, better they apologize to you and your cousins for treated y'all badly back then😀
I love the bridesmaid wearing the T-Rex costume...If the Bride and Groom are OK with it...Go For it Sistah!!... A T-Rex in the Wedding pictures...damn interesting to see.🐱🐉
Had a person tell me on my wedding day "This marriage won't last a year". I take great delight in sending them an anniversary card every year...this year she will get her 30th :).
NOICE!! Congratulations to you both, good sir!
Savage! I love it!!
Love it! 💘
Damn Glen . Had my husband’s family thought we were doomed. It’s been 34 years. You Go. So happy for you and your wife. God has a plan.
Congratulations to you and your partner on 30 years of love and support for each other!
The Lion one was not unreasonable. The bride even tried to compromise and allow the costume for the reception... verdict not bridezilla
What's with her parents? I wouldn't dare insist on doing something like that or insist on it with my mom. I wanted to live!
As someone whose perfect world involves Halloween happening 4x a year, wearing a costume to a wedding (that isn’t a themed wedding that encourages costumes) is unacceptable.
Yeah...and the whole comment section seems to agree on it, too.
The people have spoken!
NOT ENTITLED
I agree. I normally let my kids wear almost anything on the wast majority of days. We we do have events like weddings I tell them that this day is special so I will try to get clothes that they like and that are right for this situation. If we have several possible outfits I let them pick from them.
That bride to be is definitely not a bridezilla by not wanting that child at her ceremony in a lion costume. It really makes me wonder who is the parent and who is the child. On just about any other day of the year there would be no problem with that child wearing what she wants if that’s what the parents allow. However, this is someone’s wedding and there is a certain way the guests should be dressed out of respect for the occasion. Those parents need to actually act like parents.
I got married on my sister’s birthday. It had not been intentional. Thankfully, when I had asked if it would’ve been alright she had said hell yes! So, I had put a bunch of birthday presents and birthday balloons at her table. I did my best to let her know how much she is loved and included her in everything. I doubt there had been anyone at the wedding who didn’t know it was birthday or hadn’t wished her a happy birthday. She had a great time and loved our band and free alcohol. She still talks about some of the memories we made on that beautiful day. Still happily married eighteen years later.
Honestly, my auntie got married on my birthday. We’re not that close, so she had forgotten it was my birthday but on the day she had a balloon and some presents for me which was absolutely lovely.
@@iamalimelight2346 You and your Antie may not be close, but she absolutely loves you and having you as family.
Thank you for sharing your story, it was really special to hear it. 💐
Your a great sister ❤️❤️
Undersyandable! You seem like a fabulous person.
Like super sister here! Asked AND added a table full of bday stuff when approved to draw attention to the birthday girl as well and share her day?! Girl you got my cryin!
As someone who has a sister the whole “trying to one up each other” is complete bs. Sisters who actually do this kind of thing to each other are just jerks.
Or one is a narcissist. My sister is a year and a half older than me to the day and she always feels the need to one up me and belittle me for, and I quote "Ruining her 1 and a half birthday" as if I could control when I was born because my mother had to be induced. Sure my sister and I got along when we were kids but after puberty she hung out with toxic people and became toxic herself. She bashes and badmouths everyone in our family.
Yeah, a little bit of one-upping between sisters is normal. Scheduling important events on days that you know are important to someone else is not normal.
@@NekoKuro-il8rz Who the heck even remembers their 1 and a half birthday?
@@nonyabusiness3619 no one. It's the simple fact I was born exactly 1 and a half years after her to the day. She's born January 21 and I'm born July 21. We are exactly 18 months apart by the day and ever since we were children she used it as an excuse to guilt trip me and make me feel bad about even having been born.
@@NekoKuro-il8rz Don't let her make you feel bad. Like you said, she bashes everyone in your family and is a toxic person in general. Why should you care about her opinion of you?
Im a Guy, and Im still disturbed/ would be embarrassed by the women on the ground photos.
I would be mortified if someone suggested that pose. Hell no >_
Thank you
It's deplorable lmao
Agreed. The hunting one is disturbing on so many levels.
Why not make a porn? Since we're all married!!!
I have a twisted sense of humor, however very rude!!!
Freakin disgusting. People be watching too much p*rn
My brother and his wife had a renissance inspired wedding, and they told everyone to wear whatever, as long as it was in the spirit of the theme. The brides grandfather showed up as a court jester, thinking they'd be put off (he had something to change into), but they thought it was the greatest thing ever and wanted him in all the pictures as an intentional photo bomb. He was stuck with the big hat, bells, and curley shoes all day, being dragged from photo to photo
That sounds awesome!
Love that
Dude if my sister showed up to my wedding in a trex costume I would die laughing lol I would feel obligated to have her in the background of every picture lol
Yh same, I don't think it's anything wrong with it just makes the wedding ten times better.
I bet the T-rex sister had a different outfit just in case but that the bride adored the t-rex when she showed up :) Those will be amazing wedding photos
@@dominiquehebert4903
Yeah and there probably was a backstory to it, too. Some running gag kinda thing, possibly going back to some hilarious childhood incident. I rather doubt, the sister choose that costume randomly or to upset the bride. I mean, the risk was there, obviously, but it was probably meant to be in good fun.
Imagine random t-Rex photo bombs in the background 😂😂😂
I can't even lie, I would probably pee myself laughing! 😂
The Lion thing- definitely not a bridezilla! Also when kids insist on a specific outfit it's usually a spur of the moment day of thing not 'next week I'm wearing a lions outfit to the wedding!'
Agree.
I'm thinking the kid probably did say they wanted to wear the lion outfit, but they probably didn't 'insist' on it. They probably just threw a tantrum when the parents tried to say no for two seconds. If the parents just picked out another outfit, by the time the wedding came around the kid would probably have completely forgotten they said they wanted to wear the lion costume.
Yeah. Also, if the parents can't get their kid to wear normal clothes for one day you can bet they won't be able to handle getting their kid to remain quiet during the ceremony. A screaming lion will definitely ruin the mood of a serious ceremony.
@@jessi88lee you hit the nail on the head!
@@PassTheMarmalade1957 yeah I definitely agree!
As a parent, the lion one is silly. The parents of that child can make them wear normal clothes, that’s just bad parenting. The bride is not a bridezilla.
Millenial parents
I think at the party its not THAT big of a deal but when they are at the ceremony it is COMPLETELY disrespectful
Yeah zero discipline in that household.
Im not sure whats worse, lion costume at the cermony or a 8 year old throwing a tantrum
Not sure what the parent are thinking, the kid need to learn eventually that the world doesnt center around them, someones else wedding sound like an excelent time to teach them they arent the center of attention at all given time
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All 3 of my kids went through those weird “costumes as everyday clothing phases.” That’s fine at the grocery store or the park. NOT at a wedding. That’s a parenting fail and one that the wedding party shouldn’t have to deal with.
I commented to a lady about how nicely dressed her little boy was on a Sunday morning. She said "I want him to know this is a special day and going to church is a special thing. " God bless her for raising him right.
I had an obsession with dressing up as a dalmatian dog at age 4. It lasts just within that year and it was for when i got to eat dinner on the back portch (i REALLY wanted to be a doggy!) Lol
@@shitlista4283 some things shouldn't be sugar-coated. Yes, it's a fail because the parent is failing to teach the child that on certain occasions, they need to dress appropriately.
So let me get this straight, your children are only allowed to be imaginative & creative when it suits you?? This sort of thinking has damaged the psyche of children for generations.
The fact that they called the bride to tell her their kid is gonna show up in a costume is them officially giving up as parents, they're saying to the world "we're not gonna make any effort, you guys deal with it"
This is how Karens are created
Finally we hear a 100% appropriate application of the phrase, "It's my day." 😆 I mean, c'mon -- she even said the kid could wear the lion costume for the reception. I feel like a lot of brides wouldn't make that concession.
"I've kept you in my prayers."
My Pastor: *Eyeroll*
Context: My senior pastor at church has actually addressed the "I'll pray for you/I'll keep this in my prayers" mantra, and basically told us to cut that bull, and quit making excuses to not go out of our way to serve those in need.
❤
Who doesn't love a sassy Pastor lol
Your pastor sounds sassy and I love it
If only there were more pastors like that out in the world
Prayers are icing on the cake: Good to have, and pretty much a requirement, but not a substitute for the practical element.
The groom who got his dome spit-shined at the altar didn't look upset to me; it looked like he was trying to not laugh.
Agree. It was hilarious
Yeah, that was the look of a good friend thinking "I just knew he'd do something like that!"
@@bromptondevice7685 at least he wasnt tied to a lamp post naked, 200 miles from home, without a wallet!!!
@@clairelouise4063 You sound like you're speaking from experience. Lol
@@Rika936 it happened to a friend of mine!!
If the guest insists of having their daughter dressed as a lion, have someone in Trex costume chase her out of the venue before the ceremony
Brilliant! You could also arrange for a lion tamer to put the brat in her place…
Can you imagine the discussion with her therapist when she's 25? "And this is where my pathological need for structure started... sniffles sniffles... and my fear or dinosaurs!"
@@japspeedgirl6216 Don’t blame this on the kid-it’s the parents’ fault.
@@srkh8966 Yes, you are right
If they're not willing to rein her in then te.l them to skip the ceremony and only come to the reception.
I can't imagine having the audacity to tell someone else that they're going to have to deal with a bratty kid at their wedding. Are you a parent? Then be a parent. Make the kid behave or don't leave the house. Those are the options. Giving in to kids ruins their lives. Always. They don't grow out of it.
Very true👌👌👌
Yep just look at the entitled bridezilla types looking for everyone else to pay for their wedding
If we tried that as kids, we would've got our butts kicked!! That's the problem these days, parents don't discipline their"precious angels". Tell the parents that if the kid won't wear noal clothes, don't bring the kid. And if they still complain, tell them not to bother coming. It's that simple!
My thoughts exactly! I know parents don't want to upset their children, but they're doing them a massive disservice if they enable despicable behavior. They're supposed to be their parents, not their enablers.
“It’s not white it’s crystal”
Yeah. Crystal fing clear you’re not wearing it to my wedding!
was watching this vid with my Mom, she saw your comment and hasn't been able to stop laughing. High five 🖐🤣
@@PJ-sh3nh glad I could make someone’s day haha
It looks more gray than white
@@ninjaked1265 Still too close. The woman shouldn't split hairs.
A glass of red wine strategically spilt!!!!!!
I hate that whole idea of men being “trapped” into marriage or referring to their spouse as the “ball and chain”. If you don’t want to get married, don’t propose, plus there are thousands of girls every year that are FORCED into marriage so it’s really not a funny joke. In fact, it’s really disrespectful to the woman you’re supposed to love enough to marry.
PREACH!
Totally agree
Yea that's what I have always wondered.. most times it's like.. ummm.. the guy proposing and buying the ring.
It's not funny.
I'm sure it was her idea not his but I hear ya.
Yes I also really hate the perpetuation of this stereotype, women are desperate to get married, to get a man and men are trapped, catched... ugh 🙄
The first one is like the wedding version of “do you want to go out with me?” And then flipping and going all “well you’re fat amd ugly anyway I only asked you out because I felt bad for you lol” when rejected
"You have constantly been in my prayers."
"Why are you so obsessed with me?"
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😂😂😂😂 very much so
We had someone act like that before our wedding. She seriously messed up a lot of things. His parents suddenly didn't think we should get married, almost didn't come because of it. She hadn't seen him in years and was visiting the family and decided it was her place to say God said we shouldn't get married. 😡
@@GlamourNNail I hate when ppl say “God said this” and use it for their own personal good. As a Christian myself those ppl infuriate me. 🙄 stop using God to get what you want.
@@GlamourNNail you should have said, "That's odd; God has been speaking to me and said to go ahead with the wedding and to beware of jealous voices wishing to lead us astray."
@@juliarunn5009 yeah, I seriously doubt God wants people to be smug know-it-alls who use the Bible for hatred.
She’ll probably get married on her 23rd and divorced on her 24th.
I didn't read all the post before I said wedding on the 23rd birthday, I like the way you went with the 24th,lol
or have a baby on 24th and divorced on 25th
Well done! 👍😆
I thought the same! Hahaha
The sister should've thrown a surprise birthday party for herself at the wedding.
At my bestie's wedding, when the pastor said "speak now or forever hold your peace", one of our friends' babies started crying and then a few people laughed. Bride and groom both thought it was hilarious and are still together like 5 years later.
The parents of the "lion" need to be adults and dress thier child appropriately? Like...be a parent.
I wonder what the parents will dress as? Ya never know!
Yes, but if they did, who would Dr. Phil send to The Ranch in future years??? lol.
@@sithlordhibiscus9936 lol 😂
Right like my mom will make sure I showed up in a dress even tho as a kid I threw a fuss about it. Bc she was a parent and therefore parented me
Wait a second...if you say "I hope you don't get divorced," and then say "Just kidding!," does that mean you WANT them to get divorced?
That's what I think
Sure seems that way lol.
That’s the jist of it I think
They're just thinking about the epic future divorce party, I guess.
@@kurokitsune6173 Same
Why do people get so much shit for not wanting young kids at a wedding lol. Some people don't like kids, there's nothing wrong with that. Takes all kinds to make the world go around.
yupp, was thinking the same thing. also, who in their right mind brings a new born baby to a wedding? that's such an asshole move, even when it's not a child-free wedding that you knew was a child-free wedding when you were originally invited to it. 🤷♀️
Get a sitter for young kids. You'd think the parents would like a day of adult time.
@@Birdbike719 Well, maybe not a new-born, but I definitely wouldn't take it to the wedding either. Unless family could watch the baby, if it were me, I'd bow out.
30-40 years ago, people did not bring young kids to weddings. Or even to restaurants or movies until they were old enough to behave. I feel like most people still do not.
Our venue owner has in her contract “WEDDINGS ARENT A GOOD PLACE FOR LITTLE KIDS” because some little shit picked the flowers out of her garden lol
All these photos of women just… on the ground is disturbing to me.
Why on earth did any of those women agree to this????
Agree.
Same, makes me uncomfterbale
Like a sect 😖
Don’t have a heart attack or a stroke, but in my former country one of the wedding party competitions is to roll an egg through the trouser legs of your partner… now you know why my wedding was 10 people including the priest….
LoL, the T-Rex one reminds me of my grandpa threatening me that he would wear his Looney tunes tie to my wedding. I told him to go ahead and do it. He actually did it and a few years later he gave it to my son 😂.
Fun fact my cousin threw a fake wedding with one of her guy friends so my family and their friends would buy them gifts. They got a fake pastor who was also a friend and everything and threw the ceremony but never actually legally got married or stayed together or were anything more than friends. Once they got their free stuff and cash gifts, they dipped. I don’t think anyone in my family talks to her anymore after that
That sister thing of them trying to outdo each other is bullshit. That's shitty ppl, not cuz they're sisters. I would know, I have three. And all of my friends have sisters too.
I'd guess the groom didn't know or didn't think about the sister's birthday when he proposed.
@@tomriddle8933 Oh I'd put money on the fact he didn't think about her sister's bday when he proposed. The party on the 22nd birthday though, that was planned by her sister. It was intentional and it was DIRTY!
I have 5 sisters and we've not had ANY of that mess either. I love them all and we support each other.
I agree with you, me and my sister are good friends, she would never do something like that.
@CrazyCat Lady well, is like mentioned in the comment above, that's not a normal behavior between sisters that's a shitty person, and also probably parents that's allowed their child to be a shitty person since they were little
I had a (now former) friend who wore her "Bride To Be" sash and a tiara when we went out to celebrate my birthday so I can relate to that girl having her sister hijack her birthdays. She already had her shower and her bachelorette party was going to be the following weekend. I was annoyed but kept quiet. Another friend confronted her about it and her excuse was "But it's my wedding and I'm only getting married once etc. etc. etc.) She was always making everything all about her and could not stand it when there was a party or any other event not focused on her. The worst was when she made the birth of a friend's first child all about her. She was me, me, me all the time.
Just no.
I want to know the whole story behind her making your friend's first child birth all about herself 👀👀 how did she even manage to do that??
@@gaurikakhosla5011 this
was the ex friend's name....amber , meghan or jada? asking for a friend!!!
I can understand the engagement because if that's the day her boyfriend proposed, maybe he didn't know it was the sisters birthday. As for anything else, that's just plain mean.
The clown that murdered the cake - he looks pissed like he doesn't want to be there. Off to a great start 😂😅😂
I had to look up the T-Rex one. It's actually really cute! The sister who was the maid of honor doesn't like formal wear. As a joke, when she was told she could wear anything, she texted the bride if it was okay to wear the a t-rex costume, totally expecting a "no." The bride pretty much told her to go for it.
Notice also the wedding is small and in their backyard. Very informal. And as was mentioned, who doesn't want a Trex a their wedding?
@@happyzahn8031 Honestly these are the wedding stories I look for..... That would be an amazing story for their kids.... I really don't understand the concept of everything being aesthetically perfect... I think that obsession itself ruins the wedding....
“Sarah. You know my soon to be Husband’s family was mauled by a lion when he was a child and he has never recovered. I can’t believe you want to let your daughter bring back these awful memories on his wedding day.” That’s how you deal with that lol
yes. great idea- lie! sure beats telling this unreasonable person the truth that she is being unreasonabe.. lying is so much better (sarcasm end)
Lol! I love it! Hilarious. 🦁😹
I don't know I think it's pretty funny to be honest. She could be sarcastic about it, not necessarily a lie. She could say something along the lines "How could you do this, you don't know if you're kid wearing a lion's costume doesn't bring up unpleasant memories for someone else!" kinda line.
Alternatively, inform the parents that in order for the lion costume to make sense they will need to dress as a witch and wardrobe respectively,
Wearing a lion's costume to the reception is ok but the ceremony no.
I was the only person in my family to graduate with a four-year degree (that took me six years), and celebrated the accomplishment with a party my family threw for me. At the party, my sister revealed her first pregnancy with her ultrasound in a card given to my parents. My hard work wasn't so special anymore!
Wow
She couldn't even wait a day 🤦🏻♀️
If it were my sister it would have made the day even more special. 💜 Her pregnant announcement might have been to share the joy while the family was together. Two exciting events in one day, both equally important. 💜(One does not invalidate the otber in any way.)
@@irene_f. But they're not of equal importance. A first baby is way more exciting than a college graduate. And I'm sure she did share it because there were a lot of people there and family was already together. But you really can't compare my relationship with my sister and yours with your sister. Apples and bowling balls.
@@itscalledlogic7 I believe we both have valid points and I do not wish to invalidate how you feel. It's true, every situation is different circumstances, so can be as you say- apples and orange. 🎉🎉Congratulations to you!🎉🎉🌸 I believe both are important.
Sounds like you belong in one of her videos. You could share your special day with her. you are sisters and both have done two great accomplishments. nothing wrong with announcing a pregnancy at your party when all your family was already there.
Dang. If she gets married on your 23rd…… we have to have a talk lol
Imagine she announces she's pregnant on her 24th 🤦🏻♀️
If that happened and I was the boyfriend, at the reception I'd roll out a cake and get everyone to sing happy birthday.
I thought this too! Sister seems like the Golden Child.😬
@@edwardskeva9307 YES!!
@@edwardskeva9307 You do not represent the norm, unfortunately. That's actually very thoughtful. Most men wouldn't even notice the faux pas, let alone care. I like you already! 😃🏅🏆🎁
Bride absolutely isn't a bridezilla for not wanting a lion at the ceremony. She's even ok with it at the reception! Be a freaking parent and tell the kid she can't wear the costume. As a parent I know kids can be stubborn, but there's a time to say no.
Some parents forget the "parenting" part of the title.
If it looks like kiddo will be a little fuss-budget about their non-lion clothes at the ceremony, tell the child that they blew it and that parents will be going to the wedding without them. And if they throw a tantrum at that point, tell the rugrat that they are proving their parents' point. When they grow up and learn to cooperate and behave, then they may get to go to fancy events. Stick with it. No whining or crocodile tears into a change of mind. And promise the babysitter a BIG tip.
Parent the child, FFS
@@jgw5491 The kid is 8 years old, so more than old enough to understand that.
@@mholtebeck - It didnt say anything about the child's age. It said "There is a child coming to my wedding in 8 days".
With the lion thing, that woman really isn't being a bridezilla because she's even trying to accommodate the spoiled brat and her parents. I would simply tell them it would be in inappropriate to wear that at my wedding and if the mother of the child refuses to change her mind I'd just uninvite them. Planning a wedding is stressful enough we don't need the entitled making it worse
The entitled make everything worse.
and i am sure the brat will roar between the ceremony for attention 🙄🙄
Make someone dress up as a hunter, and chase him away of the wedding...
My friends and i have a pact that any one wearing white who is not the bride, gets a bottle of red wine on them and the kids get given chocolate and told to hug them.
This is awesome "Oh Auntie Linda's pretty white dress is made out of napkins! You can wipe your face on her while giving her a hug. Doesnt she look like she needs it?"
Sorry of your name is Linda. It was the first name that popped into my head.
@@chrissyxx21 from this day forth! All bridezillas will be colloquially called "Linda."
@@PoochieCollins haha 😂
What a great idea!
@@kcanded I will be sure to post video evidence!
One of my bridesmaids didn't show up until the middle of the ceremony, wearing jeans and flipflops. I was literally married for less than five minutes when she came up to me and in all seriousness said, "My bad! I couldn't find shoes (she'd had over 7 months to get them). But I promise I'll be on time for your next wedding!" She was dead serious and couldn't understand why I was ticked. Sadly that was just the tip of the iceberg.
This sounds juicy. Please do tell. :D
I had someone tell my husband's niece at our wedding, that we shouldn't be getting married, that it wouldn't last long, and don't get used to me as her aunt, because we did not date long. True, we only dated 2 months before getting engaged, but we had been friends for 7 years!!! Oh...over 20 years later, we are Still happily married to each other.
Oh no, I HATE when people tell you that you are "in their prayers". Condescending much eh? Self-satisfaction much? Are you fishing for compliments? I always say: no thanks!
What if they’re saying it because you’re in the hospital or someone you know has died?
@@ninjaked1265 as someone who isn't religious it leaves me in a state of "not sure what to reply to this".
@@IsleNaK I can understand that. I know for the most part it is done with good intentions. I've done this too, I always mean it with good intentions not in a condescending rude way. It hurts me greatly when people lose loved ones, family, friends, even strangers alike. Losing people you love, wether you know it will happen, or extremely suddenly it's always very hard to handle. Sou prayers go out to those who lose loved ones. Though I try not to make people uncomfortable or feel worse because of it. What would be a good thing to say or do instead of saying you're in my prayers? I'm genuinely curious if there is a better way of going about being supportive and caring for someone who's recently lost a loved one.🥺💖
@@PinkPanther45518 Tweak it from a statement into a question; not "I'll keep you in my prayers", but "Would you like me to say a prayer for you?" My family and I are all Pagan, but my friend group is pretty evenly split between Pagans and Jews. Whenever the Pagans are sick, the Jewish friends ask if we'd be comfortable with them saying a Mi Shebeirach for us. In turn, the Pagan friends ask if they'd like us to ask for a blessing from Brighid, Sigyn, ancestor spirits, etc. We always say yes, I think most people would, especially if you're friends. The important thing is you _ask_ if they'd like a prayer, rather than telling them, as it shows mutual respect for beliefs and boundaries. This can even go for someone you know to be the same faith as you, as I know in times of hardship keeping religious faith can be a struggle and some people might feel worse seeing others have what they perceive as a stronger faith than them. If they say no, don't take offense - just offer to be there for them.
@@IsleNaK if it's done with good intentions, just take it as a show of support, answer with a simple "thanks", the same way you'd answer to a pat on the back. Honestly, when I tell people that (and it's not usually acquaintances, but people I know well and care about), it's because I want to show them I'm not blind to their suffering and I'm there to support them if they need it. Each of us has different ways of showing emotional availability.
Of course, if it's done to show off, then it's honestly pathetic.
What really gets me is the audacity of some people...I'm in awe of it
-sigh- That's america for you....
My sister got married on my 19th birthday .And when I wanted a cake she said why would you need one? Like I had decided to be born on her wedding day.But our sister in law got wasted and made a scene infront of my sister's friends and "her day" was fucked.😏
People should never ask to be a guest to a wedding… I find that so awkward and uncomfortable. It puts the bride or groom in a horrible spot.
Yeah, if they were important to the happy couple wouldn’t they have already been invited?
@@alylyon8073 So basically you’re eloping with a few guests? Sorry, it’s just that in my family a “real wedding” never has less than 50 people. Anything less than that and you will get asked if you are planning to have a “real wedding”.
I’m not judging. I didn’t have a “real wedding” either. By the time my husband and I were ready to get married, all we really cared about was spending the rest of our lives together. The rest is just an expensive party.
The lion thing - EXACTLY why I said “adult only ceremony” on my invitations! I didn’t want crying babies and kids running around during the vows…I spent a lot of money 🤷🏼♀️ and my MOH had a baby the week before my wedding so I offered up our hotel suite during the ceremony so dad could stay with baby while mom was standing with me and it worked out well. I obviously didn’t demand she continue with the wedding, it was her choice.
A week after?! Aren't you supposed to rest at home for at least six weeks after labour?
@@indigoeye3874 yes... It's painful and uncomfortable the first few days...
@@indigoeye3874 Yeah.... supposed to... I continued a med school semester a week after giving birth. What's a wedding? It was her/their choice.
@@RenataHargitai Wow, that sounds absolutely crazy. Here, most girls would not start the semester and just resume school after 1-3 years of maternity leave.
@@indigoeye3874 - she got accepted to medical school. She has no "maternity leave' if she's in school. And they would not allow her to pick up where she left off 3 years later.
I would have laughed my ass off if my sister came to my wedding in a T Rex costume!!😂😂😂
That third guy seemed pissy. He didn't even pick up the knife when it fell and then used the Dirty knife to murder that cake. And then Threw the knife away 😑
Hell look at his annoyed face. Dude doesn't even look like he want to be there
Arranged marriage?
The bride seemed a little off too
I can't quite articulate my feelings about the cake-killing groom... I've never seen that many red flags within that short a time period. Somethin' ain't right, y'all.
@@MeganVictoriaKearns But it could be anything, including uncomfortable on camera
I knew as soon as she put her hand up to shield her eyes while looking for "who the @#$% asked you," we were in for a great ride. Also, remind me to NEVER disappoint Charlotte.
As a mom, it's not so easy to just make a small child change. That being said, a reasonable mom would compromise and chat to the bride (it is their special day). If the bride was willing to let them go to the reception in the lion outfit, I'd get a babysitter to look after them during the ceremony. I think that's two people coming to the party to try make it work. Bride sounds super fair in her message 😊
This is the first time I can understand where the bride is coming from… But not for the reasons she’s upset. The kid that wants to wear a lions outfit…because “she won’t wear anything else” This is where the parents need to step up and do some parenting… It’s a formal wedding, your kid is not the boss… You tell them what they are wearing.
All of the bridezillas are always out of there ever-loving minds, But honestly a kid running around dressed as a lion is distracting… The real “bridezilla“ of this story is the lions parents for telling the bride they are bringing their child , that they will be in costume, and it’s out of their control 🤡
As I wrote earlier:
•How about: are the children paying for the costume? No? You, as the parents are? Well, then you, as the parents, also have the utmost power to tell your children "NO." Perhaps you could try exercising your power as a parent? 🤷🏼♀️ IDK, just a totally crazy idea, I know. 😆
I'm conflicted about the lion outfit. Personally I wouldn't care but i understand why the bride would, but realistically what makes it conflicting is that if the child is that spoiled they might throw a fit if they don't get to wear what they want. Which ultimately might ruin the wedding more than a happy child in a lion costume.. it's a complete parenting fail but I'd rather have a kid in a costume at my wedding than a screaming child the whole time
@@zarouliaall5390 You might also have a kid running around pretending to be a lion, though... A child throwing a fit is an easy cure - the parent can just grab it and leave hastily. But if the child is just playing, the parent would probably only attempt to reign them in, resulting in a long headache for everyone in the nearest vicinity.
@@zarouliaall5390 Then leave the spoiled brat home. If they can't behave in public don't ruin someone else's wedding because of it.
@@DC-nw3uc I mean yea i agree with you, I was just saying that bc the bride might not want the added stress of telling her friend she has to leave the kid home. If they're a good friend they should understand and accept the brides wishes anyway, but I can imagine it might be anxiety inducing for the bride to have to give an ultimatum. It's not fair to leave that up to the bride anyway when the parent should just be able to make their child wear appropriate clothing in the first place. But that clearly didn't happen so the bride is left in the middle of an unfair situation. Not a bridezilla by any means
Was feeling a bit down and feverish, but a Charlotte video dropped and soon there's smiles and feeling better. Laughter heals and that makes Charlotte the greatest doctor!
Same! Also hope you feel better.
Hope you feel better soon!
Jessica isn't just walking, she's RIDING down the aisle, how gangsta is that :'D I wonder if they had some dope track playing at that time, that'd be sick.
People upset about how dude is treating his fiancé like she's a deer he bagged, and I'm just over here fuming about how they've spelled Paisley and Chadwick.
Paisley is a pattern, people, not a name!
@@InteriorDesignStudent It's also a town just outside Glasgow in Scotland, where the pattern originated.
Aren’t those names weird enough without the “creative” (dyslexic) spelling?
@@InteriorDesignStudent really?? i know several people named paisley. didn't think it was capital c Common or anything, but i also didn't think it was rare or weird or anything
I hate it when people ruin names by adding leigh to the end, just don’t.
When I went to my sons graduation from the United States Marine Corps there was a teenage girl around 16 wearing a unicorn horn on her head and a tail. I could not believe that the parents allowed this at such an important time in their son’s life. There is a time and place for everything. When you watch men and women graduate from one of the toughest boot camps in the world, you dress nice.
And this wasn’t even a small child..but a TEENAGER?
Looks like the girl just couldn’t stand the attention not being on her, good grief…the parents need to tell her to grow the hell up.
Well, to be fair you don't know what was going on. It could be that she and her brother had a pact, that she would dress like a unicorn if he manage to graduate. Like a bet, you know. "You will never be able to graduate this! You will give up! If you do it, I will dress like a unicorn to your graduation!". Like honestly, me and my brother made so many questionable pacts...)
@@anastasiyat5913 We ate lunch at the same time after the graduation ceremony. That’s when I noticed her first. We were all sitting with our new Marines. Trust me, this was not a pact. I don’t even think they talk to each other. heck, I don’t think anybody talk to each other on that table. It was weird. Plus, there is no way a marine would make that pact.
@@vhoward29 there is absolutely a way “a marine would make that pact”, they don’t stop being people or having a sense of humor. I understand you saw it didn’t seem like it was agreed upon, but that doesn’t mean in another case it couldn’t be. A young boy saying he'll become a marine and his sister saying yeah right and there'll be unicorns when you graduate sounds like normal sibling banter in a lot of families. Again, not this case, but it’s silly to generalise all marines as being super serious and stoic.
@@JasminMiettunen When you enter the base, you are going to his/her place of work. This isn’t a college or a hobby. But, trust me that wasn’t it at all. I don’t even think they talked to each other. Plus, when they eat with their family they aren’t exactly the same person. There is a certain level of expectation. They seem the same, yet different. Boot Camp is a conditioning that works rather effectively. There is no way in hell that was the case. Her parents didn’t do the job of teaching her respect. They’re indulgent and aren’t doing that girl any favors.
"Who wouldn't want a T-Rex at their wedding?"
True that!
T-rex is ok, but not a lion? It's ok for an adult to wear a fancy costume, but not for a kid?
@@Ketutar Yes it is since that couple was clearly ok with it.
If any of my siblings are getting married, I’m am so going as a 🦖….. but I will be appearing in my normal human form for the wedding photos if required 😭
@@Ketutar The difference is: The couple in question didn't seem to mind, so why should the adult? These decisions can be made. The child wanted to impose on an adult that obviously did not want it. That is not a decision the child can impose on their hosts for the evening.
@@markcameron5513 the child isn't imposing anything. It is an child. The difference is that one bride is an adult who understands that what the guests are wearing doesn't "spoil" the wedding, the other bride is an petty bitch who tries to control everything.
I just heard: "I kept you in my prayers" and I just thought ....RUN!!!!
Exactly 😂😌😂
Yuuuup
HARD agree. "thoughts & prayers" is a huuuuuuuuge red flag in this century.
Hey Charlotte, I just wanted to let you know that you've been such a help to me recently. I been going through some really hard things and I always look forward to your videos, they make me laugh and make my days a little less hard. Thank you
The woman with the spoiled future furry child coming to her wedding is not being unreasonable.
Erm... please look up what a furry is, because children should not be engaging in such things (IMHO)
@@InservioLetum That's why she said Future furry LOL
@@InservioLetum What do you think furries do if I may ask?
@@InservioLetum a lot of kids are furries, you're just assuming furries are inherently sexual, witch is not true. Most furry convention are all age inclusive and all adult activities must take place privately and with age control. I'm not a furry but I had furry friends in middle and high school, they had fun making costumes and going to parties in them. Please don't treat it as a sexual activity, it's a harmful misconception.
I'm a little concerned for the bride whose husband looked like he was about to throw a tantrum, at their reception, because he couldn't cut the cake properly.
That's fear you're seeing, not hostility. He's not comfortable with crowds, feels cornered, and was clearly forced into this party. Watch his shoulders when the woman in blue 'shows' him how to cut it. If she's not the source of his discomfort, her family most likely is. He does not defend the bride's side, so she's perfectly safe and he trusts her. The rest of the room however...
He looks like a future abusive husband.
@@lillyess385 that’s what I was thinking too.
There should be a video of these two and boi, let me tell you, he didn't do a nice impression there. I think the video is called "Groom can't do anything" or something like that
Also, I thought part of the issue with that one was he dropped the knife on the FLOOR and then aggressively grabbed it out of her hand to just stab the cake again. YUM, dirty floor cake!
5:50 I'm sorry, that one had me laughing so hard.
It wasn't supposed to be a t-rex but an impersonation her sister as a "bridezilla"
As someone who has been accused of poor taste, the wedding pics of the women on the ground are in poor taste..
I just want to know who thought that this would make a good picture. It's not cute. It's demeaning to the women and I hope that the bride lost them all as friends. She would have lost me as a friend the moment she requested it.
With the red dresses it was really reminiscent of Handmaid’s tale. The added layer of misogyny is just…🤦♀️
For the lion outfit child i would un-invite the parents. Don't bring your brat then.
Tshadwick is going to mount paiseley.
The pregnant bridemaid may not be able to attend the wedding anyway if the due date is the wedding day. If the baby comes before the day wouldn't mom and baby be in recovery?
Exactly!!!
Very true! I would gently ask the bridesmaid if she wanted to step down from being in the wedding party so she can focus on her baby. Having a child can be very stressful to prepare for and being in a wedding could add even more stress if the Bride was neurotic about how she wanted things.
I think it will work out - new mom will want to stay home and bride will agree.
The solution is obvious for the actual wedding day, but I think the bridezilla in question just thought they were overreacting in thinking that the bridesmaid purposefully was trying to get pregnant to avoid being in the wedding. . . which I really hope so! Can you imagine if someone's first thought to be invited to be an attendant wasn't "I should politely decline" but rather "I think I'd rather get pregnant, go through giving birth, and then have 18 years of responsibility instead." lol
Who smokes when walking down the aisle? Charlotte, she's not walking
Just an idea: you should get a wedding veil and put it on when you make wedding videos. It could be a nice tradition!
Or a tiara
Both a veil and a tiara!
I think she would want to save that until she actually gets married?
@@japspeedgirl6216 How about a veil, tiara AND a T-Rex suit? A literal Bridezilla :D
@@InservioLetum What a good idea! Wish i thought of that too!
Don't know why weddings bring out the asshole-idness of some people. Just say no to them.
Woman brought her granddaughter with basket of flowers to my wedding. Told me that she was going to be the flower girl.
I told her NO, LEAVE NOW.
I had never seen this woman before. Turns out that she was from groom's family. This should have made me leave myself. Was an abusive marriage and he screwed around with my "best friend".
Weddings should be an enjoyable event for all.
I am sorry that it happened to you. I have survived abuse as well. Its not easy but damg it does make you grateful for the good people in your life and the eureka moment when you realise that you are strong and that you do love who you are.
@@chrissyxx21 Thank you for your kindness. You are deeply appreciated. Have a lovely day.
GOD that first story awoke a memory in me. My cousin planned her wedding on the same day I had my 18th birthday - which you know, is a big deal - despite knowing months in advance it's my birthday. At the very least she gave me flowers and announced my birthday and had the band play a happy birthday song, which is sweet of her but it just made me feel extremely awkward. And considering the fact that she had a giant party for her 18th birthday with a shitton of gifts that had combined value of thousands $ while I spent my 18th birthday at her wedding and didn't get that many presents because everybody was already buying gifts for her wedding, including my parents, I'm still pretty bitter about it :)))) I'm happy for her, but damn, 18th birthday is a big deal and I wanted to spend it with my friends out in the city but had to scrap my plans a year in advance because she didn't want to move her wedding day - which she could have had on literally any other day that wasn't my birthday.
If my bridesmaid had shown up as a T-rex I'd lmao thinking "why didn't I think of that?". (Tbh - I might as well have. 😂)
I would have probably peed myself from laughing. 😂😂 they either have really great or really bad relationship.
My one friend had a costume party wedding. Her side of the wedding party all dressed as fairys and the groom's party were all dressed like superheroes. Her brother came as a banana. 😂😂 it was a great wedding and definitely fit the bride and groom's personalities.
I loved the T-Rex holding the bouquet in its tiny little arms 🤣
You're fun. Your son is lucky to have such a mother ;)
What I’m realising with all this wedding videos is that nobody cuts the cake with a sword like we do in Spain… and y’all missing out 😅
They do that?! That sounds amazing. I'm actually planning a sword cake cutting for my medieval fantasy wedding
I'm sorry to say that the average American would be very giddy if handling a sword. They would probably treat it like a toy. There would be injuries. Probably some deaths. For context: I am an American. I am not joking (about any of this). It would be so very scary. Unless the person cutting the cake has the necessary discipline (which would be kinda rare here).
@Becca I don't think it would be that hard, as long as everyone is at a safe distance and nobody handling the sword is extremely drunk. If you're too immature to handle a sharp object safely, you're too immature to get married.
@@SkitAWulf242 Rule #1 (from someone with more experience than most--including myself): ua-cam.com/video/vttMXmAhfhg/v-deo.html
I completely agree about the immaturity, but from what I can tell, it doesn't stop people nearly often enough.
That first one reminded me about how I wasn’t invited to my stepbrothers wedding because they only had a very small wedding with their family and closest friends. And I was like: oh okay, we’re not family then? Alright. You gonna get the best seat ever on my wedding and then my other stepbrother did it too. Guess you do know where you stand with people in a situation like this.
A great morning starts off with a "Hey Everybody" from Charlotte 😊💕
@Julia57 just me Lol I was just about to say that when I checked the replies xD
@Julia57 just me Lol yeah she is :3
In regards to the kid wanting to wear a lion costume …I can agree that they are spoiled
And Idk man but I think parents forget that they can say um you know ✨No✨
What I’ve noticed about these entitled brides videos is that after they’ve started to plan the wedding, they think everyone’s actions are about the wedding. Like they can’t think beyond their wedding and someone getting pregnant or dying their their hair must be to get out of the wedding party 😂 like they expect their bridesmaids to pause their lives just because they’re in the wedding.
- Doesn’t get invited to the wedding
::wants to come badly enough to invite self
- Still Doesn’t get invited to the wedding
::says wedding is horrible idea, and her constant prayers are with you in your horrible, doomed future.
#blessup
#convenientChristianity “my feelings are hurt imma use God to give me the moral high ground”
Ugh dont remind me... I'm pretending that woman stayed in the bronze age where she belongs.
That’s ridiculous I hate that 🙄
Don’t be putting God into your manipulating gaslighting mess.
@@kellykade ^^^^
Charlotte the child dressed like a lion sounds perfect to end a wedding. The priest holds the lion aloft while they cue " Disney trademarked music from Shrek"
I think it would've gone a lot smoother if it were a bear costume... and the kid would bear the rings...? See what I did there?
@@m0t0b33 😂
Uh, you mean Lion King?
Whahahahaha I love your sense of chaos! You're FUN!
Do. Or do not. There is no try.
-Gandalf (HP & Chamber of Secrets)
@@hodgeelmwood8677 sorry but shrek marriage is like an onion and donkey hybrid
My former best friend had her rehearsal dinner on my birthday and her wedding on her future brother in laws birthday. We asked her multiple times if she could pick a different weekend (our birthdays were back to back in one weekend) and she absolutely refused with no real explanation why.
She forbade either of us from celebrating our birthdays all day because she needed us to run errands for the wedding, claiming she would do something special at the wedding for us.
Fast forward to the wedding, where they did nothing to acknowledge either of our birthdays and caused an embarrassing scene involving both myself and the brother in law before the night was done. I still consider it one of the most embarrassing evenings of my life 🙃
Okay, WHAT THE ACTUAL HECK?!
@diamondcrystal1016 I learned quickly after that that she was NOT the friend I wanted her to be and never would be. It's hard to admit after many years of friendship but some people just aren't compatible 🤷🏼♀️
@@jewelzm0ss I hate people who are THAT entitled.
@diamondcrystal1016 so do I! Especially because of this situation. I left out a lot of details but the entitlement was WILD
The bride and her entourage on their knees was supposed to be them "submitting" to the guys. Yuck. The spelling of Paisleigh and Tshadwick's names told me waaaaaaay more than I wanted to know. And the fact that she got made up like a deer and he hunted her down and this person thinks it's perfect tells me they're probably really, really close blood relations.
🤮 It's at moments like these where I think that living on mars doesn't sound too bad.
Those names are the whitest names I’ve heard of and I’m white.
@notconvincedgranny6573 "Tell me you're from Alabama without telling me you're from Alabama."
Tshadwick and paisleigh... I refuse to believe those are their real names. And the photo is ALMOST as bad as the ones were the women are kneeling. It's degrading and weird and the brides don't only seem okay with it... but like, happy about it
I think that photo is kind of even worse than the women on the ground. The bride looks dead! The image says o me that he killed her and he’s happy about it because her head will look great on the wall of his man cave.
Those look like Utah names tbh
I'm convinced it was a silly pose at a fancy dress party and someone made up the names and post as a joke.
His friends upon entering his den. "Oh God, this is not what we meant when we said to mount and stuff her."
You never know, there may be a reciprocal photo of her wearing the camo and tying him to the hood of her car.
Re: the child coming to the wedding wearing a lion costume.
if the wedding is at a Christian church tell the child's parents that lion outfits are not allowed in the church because of that whole "in ancient Rome Christians being fed to the lions" thing. Sorry, but it is not allowed.
The shining of the bald guy 😂
That made me laugh out loud lol..
Ikr like you can see he’s trying so hard not to laugh
I would love to have t-rex on my wedding. Actually, I think that presence of a t-rex would be essential
I’ve now taken to watching these so much that I’m giving whole ass responses to her rhetorical questions 🤣🤣 makes my morning
No way in hell would I pose like those bridesmaids!🤦♀️. Or for that matter, the bride! What is going on? Classy.
Yh but then you also have to factor in that there might be a lot of peer pressure. What if the mom or the grandmother came up with the idea. People would see something other people would do and think they could never be in that situation but you eventually find it's what you end up doing anyways. But I agree, I could never. But then at the same time it's also like you can never know either.
I have a feeling it’s a photo from some kind of sick competition…
@@silvertiger684 if we're talking about the blowjob pose, what mother or grandmother would request for that lol
@@silvertiger684 What kind of mother would suggest their daughter or son to pose like that? tf
My family would already be kinda horrified If me and hubby give each other some big loud full on kiss, they would absolutely never talk to me again if I get on my knees like that.
I’m getting married in two months and all these wedding videos are just amazing. They cheer me up so much which I desperately need because I’m going crazy. Thank you 😩💕
So the lion thing .. like how does the parent know the kid is already “insisting” that it’s gonna wear the suit.. if it was some sort of special needs/sensory situation then obviously.. but since it’s made clear it’s not then I’d probably just say it’s not appropriate for the ceremony but we hope to see y’all at the reception.
I never understood the whole "it's my day" thing with women, last I checked a marriage required "two" people. smh
I think there is so much time and effort in a women getting ready for her wedding day more than it is for men. The clothes are always going to be expensive, but there's also hairstyles and makeup they have to consider. And then there's the fact of the situation, if she planned the whole thing herself which can pay a big part in the whole "its my day" since they feel like they've done most the work, they just want everything to be perfect. But I do agree with you tho
I agree, it should be for both. Most brides don't want the groom to have a say because they have been planning their wedding since before they even got a man.
I never understood it myself. I wanted just a simple wedding, friends and family, and a nice dress that was unique but not expensive and I wanted my man to have as much of an input as me... at least, that's how it would've been had it all worked out.
Unless you are like my cousin..whom upon finding out i was recently engaged in 2020 demanded I not get married this year (2021) because it was her YEAR! 😂😂😂😂😮😮😮😮
I do agree with the other comment on here is that it is usually the bride who does all the planning and the
guy is like..just do it all.
I'm so glad that my fiance wants to be very involved and we can plan it together and make it OUR day.
In this case its her day not the spoiled brat of a kid.
@@christinabrenneman7641 Don't give in to your cousin. You two marry when you decide, not anyone else. It shouldn't be for others to decide.
It's my birthday today and so far everyone including my own daughter has forgot so this has really cheered me up 🤣🤣
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I just found this channel a couple weeks ago and am now obsessed! I went back and watched some of your older IO stuff, you definitely made the right decision making your own channel! You absolutely SHINE now. I am also thrilled for you over how much your subscriber base has grown since I joined. Thank you for all you do! ❤
The lion advice...give the child the option to wear regular clothing to the ceremony OR stay home with a babysitter.
I found your channel recently and now I am so addicted to your videos. It’s unhealthy 😂
Happens to the best of us! Lol
I think the T-Rex with the sunflowers in his little hands is just hilarious :D
The bride is not being a bridezilla if she does not want a bridesmaid at her wedding with a newborn child.
The bridesmaid would be under too much stress after recently giving birth and having to adapt her life to care for her newborn.
So she won't be at the wedding because of life ~ that's the reality.
But then again no one got pregnant for a day then gave birth the next day, how come she didn't know her friend pregnant? And due a day before her wedding? Like.. really?
@@kimineko4566 in the US engagements can last a year, plenty of time to get pregnant...
Finally someone who said it
I've never been this early, but here we are! Let's gooooo!!!
same
re: the lion costume, if you're ever taking a kid to a really crowded or poorly lit place and you're worried at all about keeping an eye on them, sometimes letting them wear their Halloween costume not only makes the adventure extra fun for them, but the kid is much easier to pick out in a crowd. this is nice for pictures too; you always know where your little one is in a photo! i was once nervous about taking my 4 year old god son to the aquarium because it was incredibly dark in some areas, so i let him wear his dragon costume and not only was he delighted, but i could see his little tail boppin' along the exhibits with no worries!
If you think a crying newborn will mess up your wedding, set up a room for them. Ask the church if they have a nursery or if the venue has a room. Then tell your friend you Love them and want them in your wedding. You understand they can’t be far from their baby so you have asked someone to stay with their newborn at the wedding venue that way they’re only away from them for a few minutes. This gives your friend the option to agree or back out of the wedding. Either way it’s their choice and they still feel like you love them enough to want them to be there no matter what.
I LOVE this!!!
My sister had a camo wedding, and my dad walked her down the aisle with a sawed off shotgun. She also chugged a beer before walking down the aisle since she was so nervous 😂
Heaven forbid the Lion Kid showedup there. He would have been shot and mounted on the best man's wall!
Lol! Well it wouldn't be my choice, but I bet it was lot of fun and showed that the wedding party has a good sense of humor. I bet the reception was a hoot.
@@lilyt5855 Nonono, the humour comes later when you go hunting with her. Everyone except the bride coordinates and they all show up in white wedding dresses. xD
9:43 Back when I was younger I had a unicorn blanket thing that you could wear and “Look like a unicorn” it draped over me like I tossed a blanket on my head, that was what I wore to my uncles wedding my brother brought a dragon costume my uncle found it very funny it was a close family and friends wedding and it was cold out so obviously that was the thing to wear. No one was hurt, we also wore normal clothes for a bit but it was very funny at the moment and looking back 😂
Well, okay, but to be fair, you don't always know the day on which you're going to become engaged. :-) But you sure as heck know what day on which your shower will be!
Well the fiance knew what day it was when he proposed.
@@neolithic3 Maybe. Maybe not. I'm not sure that I knew my wife's sister's birthday the day that I proposed. Actually, if I'm honest, now that I think about it, I couldn't tell you that date even now! I mean, I know approximately when it is, but not the exact date. Am I supposed to know the birthdates of all of my wife's siblings? Is that a thing?
The lion thing is ridiculous. Honestly if I ever get married, adults only. Get a babysitter.
@@makenzienohr4105 Exactly!! I would want people to just let loose and get drunk and not worry about some kid shitting his pants.
Yeah, I understand you're thinking on that. I did get pissed when one of my male cousins got married though. Myself and about 5 or 6 other cousins that were all teens and pre-teens worked our butts off in the kitchen making food for the reception, and served the bride's rude family full of Karens at the reception, including going to tables to see if they wanted refills on drinks. The bride said she purposefully chose the venue across the river in the next state because anyone under 21 was not allowed in the place after 10pm cuz she didn't want little kids there. But those of us that saved her a ton of money and were treated like hired help by her family missed out on most of the dance and party, after we worked all day for free. I know, people are talking about little kids, I'm still sore about it though. Joke is on her though, they divorced, and she ended up being a meth addict. Saw her mug shot on the news. Feel bad for her kids though : (
@@bluhevenlyII damn that sounds awful! No, everyone that attends my wedding shouldn't have to work for free. I kind of lmaod at that last part though, that shit escalated quickly 🤣 Karma is a bitch.
@@frummel403 It was several decades later, so Karma took a while, but yeah. Heh.
@@bluhevenlyII wow the ex wife just got her karma then😂 good for them, better they apologize to you and your cousins for treated y'all badly back then😀
The T-rex one is damn amazing, i would love that
The picture of Paisleigh is exactly the type of thing I would expect from someone who’s name is spelled Paisleigh.
Alle joden nog an toe, jij werkt ook niet in halve maten, he? :D
I can't get over Tshadwick!
@@It-is-me...Melsie so it was YOU!
I love the bridesmaid wearing the T-Rex costume...If the Bride and Groom are OK with it...Go For it Sistah!!... A T-Rex in the Wedding pictures...damn interesting to see.🐱🐉