My wedding officiant offered, as part of his services "Point me to the one or two most unmanageable relatives and I will befriend them at the rehearsal party and keep them engaged during the reception so that they don't cause drama." and we added a $200 bottle of scotch to his payment because he did such a great job at that.
I will never understand the "bride dragging/chaining/tying the groom against his will" joke - most of the time the guy is the one proposing. Like DUDE, if you didn't wanna get married you didn't fucking have to.
I'm so tired of this narrative that men are dragged into marriage and miserable. If your so.miserable there's divorce or idk, just don't ask in the first place.
Especially since men are generally the ones who propose!! Like no! You Asked for My hand, not the other way around, You convinced Me to marry You not the other way.
My husband cried during the whole ceremony (all he wished for was a white princess gown when I come down the aile - and I served that flawlessly!) and afterwards had our male photographer coming up to him to tell him, that he is really impressed by him showing so much emotion (they've known each other before and my husband spends a lot of effort to fit a very unnecessary manly male man picture - so yes, it was a surprise to everyone to see him so vulnerable) He surely wasn't dragged into that situation 🙄
@@jsmith-u5i And I get that. Sometimes 2 people aren't meant to be together. I'm talking about mostly these old men that have been married 50 years and they are like "I hate my wife, she's a miserable b^tch hahaha" like either leave or stfu because regardless of how you feel now you must have lived her enough to marry her at some point.
To make a woman terrified her soon-to-be husband is saying "I do not" the night prior to the actual wedding is so messed up I just don't understand what was going through their brains to think that this was a good or a funny idea at all I would immediately kick them all out of the wedding.
What I’ve learned for my wedding from this series: 1) always have some tough friends as a “no wedding gown/crasher” security team who will prevent anyone wearing white from even entering the venue. Also have some to quickly remove interruptions during the ceremony/crashers during the reception. 2) never have the bachelor/ette parties the night, or even week, before the wedding. 3) have trustworthy members of the wedding party defend the cake. 4) it’s better to have asymmetrical wedding parties than have unwanted members in the parties 5) the photos are for memories, not aesthetic (honestly crazy that needs to be said).
I like the idea of equipping some of the wedding party members with paint guns to attack anyone who shows up in white, like “you arrived in white but what colour will you be by the time you leave? “ x
We had an uneven bridal party and the bridesmaid with the biggest personality wound up with two escorts for the reception. Unbeknownst to us, all the pairs/groups decided to strike a pose before heading to their seats. So this bridesmaid struck a dramatic celebrity pose and the groomsmen pantomimed paparazzi taking pics. We didn't even find out about it until years later when we watched the reception footage. That's the beautiful, spontaneous sort of moment you can have when you pick good friends. Oh, and aside from a pair of cousins we both happened to befriend separately, many states and years apart, the 2 sides of the bridal party didn't even meet until just before the wedding!
My son got married on Sunday to a wonderful, stunningly beautiful woman who I am so glad to formally have in my family. Here’s some hints future mum-in-laws. Ask what the other mother is wearing, if the bride wants that co-ordinated with the bridal party, anything but, etc. when finding your dress, get it okayed by the woman your son is going to spend the rest of his life with. It’s not about you but your first formal way to welcome her and show you respect her as much as you hope she respects you. If you don’t like each other, try harder. Be the bigger person at all times because nobody, especially your son, wants to deal with That mum-in-law. My ex husband was there with his lady. We were all lovely with each other because a) it wasn’t about us and b) we are adults old enough to have children old enough to get married c) I like them. C) didn’t matter, it was just a nice thing that happened.
Wow, I love the way you think!! I'm a new mom and had my son this year, I am really looking to be this type of a mother in law to my future daughter in law. Families would be so much better to have someone like you and much less drama!! Congrats to your son on his new journey!! 😊😊
I have been this way with my daughter-in-law from the beginning of their relationship. He loves her, he's chosen to spend the rest of his life with her, I raised him with the expectation that he would make good choices and I have to give him the freedom to do that. I have four wonderful grandchildren now and would never do anything that might jeopardize my relationship with them. I don't like 100% of what she does, but I don't like 100% of what anyone does. She loves him, he loves her and that's what is important. I wish my mother-in-law could have done the same for me, but I recognize that her treatment of me is what has made me strive to be a good mother in-law. So it's all good in the end.
When it’s family… Honestly for me it was well meaning family members. They were so concerned that everyone have a perfect time, even if it sacrificed my very simple lifelong dreams…They can survive a few hours in slightly uncomfortable conditions or not come…it’s not their day!
For anyone who’s worried, it doesn’t get sad after 30. It gets SO MUCH BETTER. Dating when you’re financially stable, secure with yourself and established as an individual saves so much time. Found my wonderful guy after 30, and have never been happier. I also had lots of people tell me I was wasting my “prime years”. What a sickening and antiquated ideology 😅
That's IF you're financially stable, secure in youreself and established as an individual by 30. I don't know if I'll ever get there and I know I'm not alone in that sadly.
Ha! I have a story kind of like the "praying for the single girls" holier than thou bride...so my ex husband, after he had a thing with his assistant for months and lied about it the whole time when I confronted him, predictably he left me for her and then married her. About 6 weeks after our divorce was finalized, he called to tell me that he wanted me to hear it from him and not gossip that yes, he was indeed with the girl I accused him of cheating on me with. I asked when it started- he said "doesn't matter, I didn't love you anymore." Then he promised me that he would pray for me that I too, would find my true love like he had found his... 🤢 To this day (last I heard anyway) he tags all his social media with the hashtag "truelove." As if to convince himself, his family and friends and God that he was destined to leave me for her. All I can say is that I am a better, happier, and stronger person now and am more genuinely myself without him. Sooooooo thank God!?!?! 😆😆😆 💖
After 30 was the best time, stopped worrying about being alone, stopped caring about how other ppl saw me, traveled alot and on my own doing what I wanted, dated who I liked, stayed out all night, slept in the middle of the bed, and in general just enjoyed life.
The closest I got to "odd" at my wedding was having a Superman symbol on the fingernail of my ring finger -- my husband and I met in a Superman chatroom online. Oh, and we had a lady with a computer up in the church balcony transcribing the ceremony for our online wedding guests -- about 40 people from our chatroom group attended the wedding that way. (This was before live-streaming was available.) We had about the same number of people in the church as in the chatroom, so it was a very small wedding.
true story - at my cousins wedding when we got there I thought I got to the wrong venue because I saw at the entrance another beautiful bride who wasn't my cousin. I blushed and said congraulation to the bride and went out to search for the right wedding venue. long story short - it was the sister of my cousin's groom! the audacity!!!
@@santa_klaussss long story short they got divorced in 2 years, and now my cousin is gay and living with a woman and they are about to get married soon!
Was she at least embarrassed? I was just thinking that I would do that intentionally if I saw someone cosplaying bride like that, but idk is it worth it?
But why would she just be standing there? Normally the bride arrives after everyone is in their seats. So the fact that she was just standing there before the wedding should have given away that she was not the bride.
You’d have to swish all the flaring around your lower leg for every step so you don’t trip or ruin the material. Not my cup of tea. But to each their own
My husband is at it again. Just heard a shout from the other room: "New Charle Darble video!" Yep, I am very convinced he believes this is your name now.
@@mrs.h2725 yeah, that was the only thought going through my head. How do you walk without tripping? I mean it is cool and unique but she is even stepping on it in the picture.
I can’t help wondering if the author was giving an homage to the movie Monster In Law. You can make a lot of connections there, the three most obvious examples being that the groom-to-be has a mom that’s a psycho who hates the bride-to-be, the groom is a doctor for a living and the bride is allergic to nuts.
4:40 After we got engaged, my husband’s mother was talking about what she was planning on wearing (I’d had the ring on my finger for A WEEK!! We hadn’t even told everyone yet…). “Oh yes, I saw a lovely ivory dress that would be great for a wedding!” (Iv… ivory? 🤔 Ma’am, that’s a shade of white…) She didn’t understand the issue. Her name is……. Susan.
My mother in law showed up wearing a floor length black tie red carpet event beaded gown. In lavender. (Not white or cream, but my colors were periwinkle and cream lace. ) She stood out like a sore thumb. She didn’t bother to consult with my mom or my husbands step mom. Both my mom And my husbands step mom wore periwinkle complimenting mother of the bride appropriate suit skirt type outfits. They were very pretty. They looked down to earth and as how mothers of the bride and groom should look for a semi formal wedding. My husbands mom tried to look like a Barbie (she’s also extremely thin and starves herself) and ended up looking ridiculous. Oh, and her name is Susan. 😆
Not everyone is like that, I am puertorrican too and I agree that he is generalizing things, but there is a side culture that kind of glorifies this behavior unfortunately. Not everyone, not even the majority now but I am speaking from my experience. I have seen it and people laughing and celebrating this kind of behavior, particularly towards women but it goes both ways. Saludos!
honestly it's not even a Puertorican "thing" 🙄 I've seen this attitude everywhere. way to use your culture to excuse your lame humour and cover up for your toxicity
Comments like this are stupid. There are plenty of tacky Puerto Ricans. I mean.. if you're Puerto Rican you might not think it's tacky but tackiness is also subjective and I have seen plenty. Wearing jeans that are way too small with their pot belly hanging over.. being loud as hell in public.. etc. just saying.. it's all subjective and FORTUNATELY we cannot police every person we share a race/ethnicity with... 🤡
I'm one of the younger kids in the family, and when I was 10 my older sister got married. When she went to throw the bouquet I stood way off the side, out of the way. I wanted to see, but being a 10 year old boy I did not want to be in the line of fire. Well, my sister did some weird twist of the wrist when she threw it and it came sailing straight to me. I couldn't get out of the way for the other people and it was either catch it or get it in the face, so I caught it. Everyone laughed and they did a re-throw, but none of my other siblings ever got married until after I did.
My best friend isn't a fan of this bouquet-throwing 'tradition' (neither am I, btw), so, deciding that she'd have her bridal bouquet made of dried flowers (with a matching floral garland on the head instead of a veil), she simply booked the artist who made them to give a small master-class for all ladies present (7 in total, if memory serves) so that each could arrange to their taste a smaller neat bouquet for themselves with any of the materials and accessories in the colors used in the wedding decorations provided by the master. This was some years ago, a non-traditional, rather small and quiet wedding. There was none of that 'pitiyng poor singles' feeling or a girls rugby game, instead all the ladies brought home a nice small decor that reminds of that happy day every time one looks at it.
So probably in 2003 my mom threw a big wedding that costed like 2,000 dollar's and my grandma (dead) had payed for the wedding cuz she sweet- and my aunt rlly had to ruin my mom's big day, my aunt was into jokes but my mom wasn't, so as a "joke" my aunt dumped a bucket full of ketchup on my mom and in a attitude my aunt said "your just like that girl in the movie CARRIE LOL!" My mom ran into the house and cried. My grandma got mad at my aunt that she was kicked out of the wedding and didn't dare to come back.
That's also my question... cuz if i were the bride i would have called it off the moment i saw him that drunk. No amount of love can compensate for that disrespect hehehe
In my country it's not the traditional ceremony but the paperwork that gets you married so in a legal sense it wouldn't matter (you will have to confirm the process though which may or may not be part of the optional ceremony). Then, I'm not convinced he is drunk as it could be a medical issue like narcolepsy or partial paralysis.
That one looked like an outdoors ceremony. If that was indeed in Russia, most probably they had already got their marriage certificate before the ceremony.
My husband and I were invited to a co-worker's wedding, a person that we were close friends with. We attended the ceremony, and when we got to the reception, found our seating cards, but there were other people sitting in our seats. We told them they were in our places, but said they wanted to sit with their friends, so would we mind sitting elsewhere? Ok, we looked around the hall, and every seat was taken. There were 4 other couples, all standing looking confused, because there were people in their seats as well. turned out someone invited 10 extra guests without telling the hall. So there were no more tables or chairs for us, or food. (we asked a server if they could set another table, and they said they didn't have any more, or 10 extra meals) My husband and I had driven all day to attend this wedding and were starving, but there clearly wouldn't be a place at the table or a meal for us. Our choice was to stand around and watch other people eat or go home. We stopped at a restaurant on the way. Btw, there were only a dozen people at the wedding, but easily 100 people at the reception. How fun it was to eat at cracker barrel in full formal attire.
@Hawkhill Falconer Cracker Barrel is at least great. In fact it sounds like a pretty awesome time to end the day with splitting a coca cola cake with your man in formal wear.
@@Gaia_Seraphina we didn't want to disturb them with this problem on their wedding. We told the MOB, turns out a bunch of people who never bothered to RSVP just decided to turn up for the reception.
@@hawkhillfalconer3529 Well ... it was their problem though. A bunch of wedding crashers! And MOB wasn't a good organizer either. Uninvited "guests" should be asked to leave, not invited ones.
I was a COVID bride. We still wanted to get married but not endanger anyone. So we just had us, our parents, my hubby's brother, and the officient meet at a park. Honestly, it was so beautiful and special that I don’t feel like I missed out on anything. And we can always have an anniversary party someday if we want to.
I have a younger cousin from California who was also a COVID bride. She had her wedding streamed live from California. The only people actually there were close family members. It was a nice way for all of us to enjoy her special day without being too close to each other.
Agreed. But it does make me want to know the other side of the story. Like.... is she a two-bit tramp? Maybe moms is justified? Or is she really a monster-in-law?
I can't imagine she has a ton of loyal friends. The friend telling you all the gossip does the same when you're not around. Same with family unfortunately.
Agreed. Doesn't matter how amazing the person is - if their family is this terrible and they won't agree to cut said family off completely without exception, I wouldn't do it. Even if the MIL were technically correct and the DIL entirely in the wrong (which I doubt, tbh), her behavior and this nasty method of communication alone would do it for me and make me doubt her story.
Have to say: 1. Girl who almost had cake dumped on her had a gorgeous dress and I'm glad it wasn't ruined. 2. Too drunk groom's best man is a real one. 3. The only acceptable use of a "bride dragging the groom" topper I've seen was at a fake wedding for a murder mystery dinner.
I love those “bride dragging the groom away” cake toppers. Really let’s you know which of your friends are misogynists and that you can leave the wedding early bc in 2 years time they’ll be getting a divorce anyway.
Before I even watch this, I appreciate that you put out content nearly every day. I remember how you said that YT’s algorithm has put you in a “bridezilla” “ bad wedding” rut. Try over the top sweet 16 parties I’d watch that!!! Love your content!!!
I’ve always hated the bouquet toss. So at my wedding I also took my bouquet apart but instead of giving each single person a flower and praying for them to find the right man, I had written cards to both my family, my husband’s family, and the maids of honor and groomsmen letting them know how much I appreciated them and their help with our wedding and handed them the card with a flower from my bouquet.
I love how there was the bride not wanting attention. It’s an odd way of taking the attention away from her, but refreshing difference to the usual bridezillas. Lol 💖
I’m a little scared of what else could be coming out of the dark depths after seeing this video. Some of these people should not marry, or reproduce. 🤦🏽♀️💗
For throwing the bouquet, at my cousin's wedding they asked all of the married couples to dance. As the song went on the DJ asked those who had been married less than a day to sit down (if course the newlyweds), then those who had been married less than a year, and so on. The last couple still dancing got the bouquet and the garter. My family has continued this instead of throwing the bouquet but there were some pissed off girls at my cousin's wedding😂
@@hej.anneli I’m a wedding celebrant in Australia and it most certainly isn’t legal. You have to be in a state where you can legally agree to the process and sign legal docs. Not possible to competently agree to anything if you’re so sh!tfaced that you can’t even stand up!
My mom had to scream and drag my dad out of bed on the day of their wedding because he was so hungover LOL. Good thing it was just downstairs in my grandparents living room😂.
I used to work for a catering service and learned Mothers-of-the-Groom can be very difficult to please. More often had drama with HIS mama than any other "contributor". Mother-of-the-Groomzilla video PLEASE! She really needs more attention!!!
You can never go wrong with my Aunt’s advice ( which I strictly adhered to).....a Mother of the Grooms job is to “ wear beige and keep your mouth shut “. Never fails.
Another nice tradition is for the ladies who celebrated a silver (25 year) anniversary to wear a silver/light grey lace dress and the ladies who celebrated a gold (50 year) anniversary to wear a gold lace dress. It honors the longevity of their marriages while leaving white for the bride.
@@marthatassi293 Agreed! My aunt and uncle just celebrated 50 years in June. They’re both in ill health, but for their anniversary, they decided to get dressed up, and order UberEats. They’re two peas in a pod.
9:46 it's sad after 30 to not be married I'm 52, never been married & don't ever plan to. Nothing sad about it. I like being alone. Not 24/7 but pretty dang close lol 😂 I'm very comfortable with myself.
My sister married at 30 was divorced a few years later. She never wanted children. She's just turned 60 and has been very happily alone more or less ever since. I've been married for 30 odd years. My husband is my friend and companion. We are all happy. No woman NEEDS a man. At least today we get the choice without that word 'spinster' being whispered behind hands as they look pityingly at women who make that decision.
@@tkps I do have 2 children but I didn't marry their dad. Wouldn't trade my babies for nothing & I'm a grandmother of 4. My son doesn't have kids yet but he's young. 💞
The concept that a woman has to be married by a certain age is from the1800's and before, when life expectancy was much lower. It is outdated. Men do not have such age expectations for marriage; yes, it is a double standard some people have. Too many people get married because they think it is what they are supposed to do - to be normal. Normal for you is what ever you do, not what someone else does. The thought of marriage does not occur to me unless I watch a video like this. Marriage would be nice for the friendship and companionship, but not a need. Solitude is a need. I am not anti-people, just anti-stupid. The overlap is near 1:1.
I and an ex did semi crash a wedding by accident. We wandered in. But we just had a drink, spoke to some guests and wished the couple a good life. We were given a gift bag and were having a good convo with the parents of the Bride. Then left. I like to think it was fun and not disruptive.
Both of my parents were drunk af at their wedding and they both agreed that it was the worst day of their lives (my aunt is very dramatic). Still going strong more than 28 years later💖
So, when my brother got married his (now ex) wife was like 8 months pregnant. The cake topper included a baby crawling after the bride and groom. As for the fall-down-drunk groom...I feel like you can't actually consent to getting married. Like being that drunk would make it invalid.
In the UK drunk enough is certainly grounds to allow annullment on the basis of inability to consent at the time. Id guess officiants know that and could refuse to conduct the wedding at the time.
In my country, that marriage would not be legal. If the officiant or any witnesses declared that either party was drunk, the couple would have to go to the court and get married again---sober.
I was with a guy for 18 years. He was a child, and finally I got tired of being mommy, so, I left. At 45. I am 49 now and I love being single, I get to do what I want without anyone's feelings holding me back. Anc being recently disabled with an autoimmune disorder, I get to put this on my family too! I now don't let my family try to make things about them. If I ain't feeling it. I don't go to whatever gathering they try to guilt me into, saying" I just don't feel well enough to be social". Life us great if you quit letting others decide your worth and needs.my need it to do what I want. When I want. And screw the rest.
Hooray! Me too. I got fed up being his Mommy after 23 years. I realized she was dead and gone so all the hate from MIL was over. I didnt have to stay, I could go. So I did. I took my 10yr old daughter and my $$$ settlement and started my single life. 😉 He went on to date the internet, get fired from a job he had for 16 years, and destroy his credit rating. He filed bankruptcy and the bank took the house back. (That part about the house made me mad). When we were first married (6 months) he decided he was homesick and ran back to Mommy and Daddys house! Mommy got an attorney and he filed for divorce. That lasted one week. He came running back to me after he realized Mommy was going to put him on a curfew, control his money and screen his phone calls. 😂 When I divorced him MY MOM took his side. We never spoke again. She died in 2003 and cut me out of the will. My ex is now getting his second divorce I see. Ive been happily single for 25 years! I do what I want!
Can't wait till the day we get to watch the Potato queen roast her own wedding!! First, because Charlotte deserves the best of the best! & Whatever man is blessed enough to find/ keep her has gotta have one hell of a sense of humor. And we already know Charlotte can laugh at herself!! Not to say anything will go wrong or she'll be a bridezilla in any way! I just know hilarity will ensue!! Love everything you do Charlotte!!
@@lindyanne3936 I don’t know, because as a short man, I work really hard not to be that way. Nevertheless, I see those kinds of guys all over the place, so somebody must be putting up with it?
Actually I read somewhere that if one of the parties is drunk, the wedding is invalid on the grounds that the person is not fully in control of their faculties
Ok. My husband who has worked in the wedding invitation industry as a cutter and type setter for 16 years would like to point out the BEAUTY of the invitation that you presented at 2:12. He shot up from his chair and out "That's so beautiful! I love Copperplate Upper and Lower!" The script font is very similar to Markham. He loved when weird invitations would cross his desk and would save them for me.
Dude, I'm getting married next year, and let's just say these videos are a healthy reminder of what not to put up with. 💗 Also, thanks for the entertainment Charlotte! 😁
*another pearl of wisdom someone once told me: being married isn't about finding someone you can live with. It's about finding someone you can't live without 💖
@@a.j.9797 they're out there looking for you. I was married, the guy whom said it was my best man at my wedding. I believe it too. I wanted to die before her then not have her in my life. Sadly we're no longer together. No doubt the universe is unfolding as it should and as they say, life's wot happens while you're busy making plans. We're still friends. I'd rather still be friend then not have her in my life at all. Always strive to be happy 💖
At first I thought the dismantling of the bouquet for each girl was a nice gesture and got rid of the desperate nature of the bridal toss but the praying just shot the desperate level right back up with some added condescendence from the bride
I think the wedding dress goat yoga sounds hilarious. Stupid, harmless, and funny. I think that is why the poster said "unload" like give me the dresses you don't care about ( divorced?) Etc. Can't always find them at a thrift shop when you need one LOL
If I ever “crashed” a wedding, I’d just go for the food. I’d bring a present, duh, cuz it’s a wedding, but I would never try to ruin anything. That’s so rude. If you’re gonna crash a wedding, be polite and bring a present.
The polite thing to do would not eat as well. The food still costs money and can get extensive. If they couple didn't invite you, you shouldn't plan on adding to their expenses. You don't know what their plans were, if they planned for 100 people and order exactly 100 plates, you would have taken their planned guest's plate. True that most order more than planned, but not every bride/groom can afford that. My friend got married before Covid hit, a group of young adults crashed her wedding. She planned for exactly for who RSVPed (buffet style food), some of her guest couldn't eat because these brats took huge portions. She didn't even know they were until her sister asked her who they were, and she realized they didn't know them. One of the people who didn't get to eat was my friend's cousin who is diabetic, she had to leave mid reception for her to find food since her blood sugar was getting low. Be polite, if you haven't RSVPed, don't crash. Go to the ceremony, and if you get invited to join that's fine.
True, extra people at the ceremony are probably okay as long as they're well-behaved and the venue can accommodate. But uninvited / unexpected people who eat and drink at a reception are essentially *stealing.* It's like running out on the check at a restaurant, except you're also potentially ruining a couple's big day.
reminds me of my parents wedding story, another wedding reception was occurring in the next room and somehow the two parties peeps met and decided to just party hardy together.
I suppose for me it would depend on how drunk they are and what kind of drunk they are. Like my dad is a very happy drunk, he just wants to love everyone and smile at everyone when he's drunk. And I feel like that would be fine. But I'm a "take off all my clothes" drunk which... Probably isn't a good idea 😅
I would never marry anyone that drank so much they could not even stand up. I grew up in a home with an alcoholic father and I was determined I would never live with someone like that again and I never have and never will.
9:03 That video looks a bit creepy... Like, imagine that guy got drugged and is now unwillingly getting married to someone he doesn't even know. You can't get legally married, if you are unconscious!
I went to my cousins wedding and realized I was wearing the exact same dress as the brides maids lol I was mortified 🤦♀️ everyone kept asking me if it was my plan to do that. I was getting all sorts of side eyes from the brides maids lol it was super embarrassing 😳
Years ago, I went to an outdoor wedding on a 95-degree, sticky, mid July day, held in a cow pasture where the couple were going to build their future home. The bride was in a wheelbarrow, wheeled in by the groomsmen, and unceremoniously dumped in front of the tree stump altar. Then began that odd, 1990s tradition of the bride and groom just holding hands and looking at each other while an ENTIRE song by Martina McBride plays on a boombox and the sweating congregation just sits...watching the bride and groom watch one another, for about 3.5 agonizing minutes. When the couple (finally) said "I do," the groomsmen shot a potato gun and then swept up the corn-fed bridesmaids and made off with them over their shoulders. I've been to quite a few weddings and I can say with absolute certainty that was the most memorable one I've ever seen. 😳
The video of that Russian wedding would come in handy if they divorced and he wanted to claim he was too intoxicated to legally consent to getting married LOL
I used to have two friends who had planned to engaged on a certain date. She was verbally abusive to him which really bothered me. I told her, as a joke, that their cake topper should be the alien from Aliens in a wedding dress screaming at the groom crouched over in a ball covering his ears, representing what she is always doing to him. She actually really liked the idea.
The venom in that invite. I can't imagine being that sort of person. It was so disrespectful and just a horrible thing to do. It was just truly wicked.
The bride should name (in this case, post the photobombed pictures) and shame the wedding crashers. And the internet will probably do the rest to identify them. Not saying doxxing is good but people like those girls don't deserve the courtesy of anonymity.
That's a bit extreme. They're immature douchebags who crashed a wedding, not criminals. Telling *the internet* "Hey, track these people down, they deserve it" is giving someone the excuse they need to try and get someone fired and publicly post their address for shits and giggles.
The one with the stepmom (7:52) is from Tre Cool, the drummer of Green Day. Sarah is not disrespecting the bride here in any way. Her dress is blue-ish and Tre's suit is light green ish. Tre's daughter never had issues with Sarah's dress. So please don't judge that one if you don't know anything else than the pictures.
Me too, girl! I can't speak for everyone, but I spend every day happy that I only have to take care of myself and not a family. I'm so glad I didn't cave in to social pressure and feel like I had to get married and have children.
I am a martini girl, so there'd be a real chance of me climbing in there with him, into the opposite end, & joining in the olive vendor game, in my undergarments, if I had a few too many. And I would definitely have a few too many.
Do we know for sure the backstory is that he's drunk, & not, like, afflicted with a skeletal condition which he normally uses a wheelchair for? I ask, because there's an epic amount of stories & wedding-forum representation of wheelchair users who insist that they're standing for their ceremony if it's the last thing they (& their attendants) do. ...Though he could also just be drunk.
@@shatteredshards8549 it could also be the fact that ppl with conditions often find a lot of their friends + relationships among supportive spaces made up of ppl who share their particular challenges.
@@mysterylovescompany2657 Yeah. we do. Or it could be that this wedding appears to be taking place in Russia, home of the Angel Putin wedding dress and Nail Sunny.
I may have considered your theory if weren’t for the best man roughly shoving the groom’s head down in annoyance @8:43 as if he’s pissed and trying to wake him out of a drunken stupor. If it actually is a medical condition then the best man is out of line and what he did was unnecessary and cruel to say the least.
It's always been really sad to me that when it comes to the majority of weddings the women try so hard, plan and are excited for the event and a lot of the grooms/their party treat it like a joke. They get drunk and ruin something that's supposed to be special for both of them, but especially to the bride (most of whom dream of their wedding from a young age)
Because in those weddings the women are crazy about getting married and don't think, just "following their dream" 🙄 If your partner is not excited or, at least, with a nice attitude, he Is NOT ready to marry.
That's where I had mine ... bought a little archway at home depot covered it in white lights and tulle... it was super inexpensive but very beautiful 😍
Lmao. I was a bridesmaid at a wedding where the groom was still drunk from the night before. (He banned bachelor/bachelorette parties and then had one for himself the night before anyways. We just got a bridal shower that I and another bridesmaids had to practically beg him for.) He was so drunk from the night before that you could smell the alcohol seeping out of him. They divorced.
I just recently went to a wedding where the bride called for 3 specific single women to receive the bouquet on the stage with the words of love for these 3 women who are the best people she knows and love but “always single”. I want to say I know it comes from the place of love but I would be embarrassing af since all lady are at least 37 years old.
The picture in the thumbnail of the man in a mint suit with a brown shirt is Tre Cool (drummer from Green Day). His wife was actually wearing light green to match his suit. His daughter wore a Hayley Paige ball gown and looked amazing! It looks white in that photo but in others you could see it was clearly green.
charolotte, thank you, i had a rough few days, and have spent the whole crying over the loss of a pet and said i needed something happy and funny in my life right now or im jumping off a bridge, and your video came up. im laughing so hard the tears are of joy niow. thank you. i know you dont see there. but i needed you today
I'm glad I got married without my parents doing anything with it. I could see them sending those invites, but praising my husband and calling me a two bit tramp
My wedding officiant offered, as part of his services "Point me to the one or two most unmanageable relatives and I will befriend them at the rehearsal party and keep them engaged during the reception so that they don't cause drama." and we added a $200 bottle of scotch to his payment because he did such a great job at that.
Hope he liked scotch!
@@polarbearhero9803 Very very much a scotch aficionado
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@trapd00rspider 🤣
That man is the real mvp
Awesome, good guy!
I will never understand the "bride dragging/chaining/tying the groom against his will" joke - most of the time the guy is the one proposing.
Like DUDE, if you didn't wanna get married you didn't fucking have to.
Oh MY GOD THIS!
I hate the “ugh poor me Im getting married” thing. BITCH YOU ASKED FOR IT!
Yeah it's kind of disrespectful
Thank youuu! The majority of us women are absolutely COOL with being single! Trust me, women aren’t out here boo hooing trying to hunt down a man!
Yeah and which gender, by and large, gets actually forced to marry someone they don't wanna 🙄
Yes thank you! I have never understood this
I'm so tired of this narrative that men are dragged into marriage and miserable. If your so.miserable there's divorce or idk, just don't ask in the first place.
so, so true! Its so Yawn!!!!!
Especially since men are generally the ones who propose!! Like no! You Asked for My hand, not the other way around, You convinced Me to marry You not the other way.
I hope the bride calls off the wedding and says she’s “saving” the groom
My husband cried during the whole ceremony (all he wished for was a white princess gown when I come down the aile - and I served that flawlessly!) and afterwards had our male photographer coming up to him to tell him, that he is really impressed by him showing so much emotion (they've known each other before and my husband spends a lot of effort to fit a very unnecessary manly male man picture - so yes, it was a surprise to everyone to see him so vulnerable)
He surely wasn't dragged into that situation 🙄
@@jsmith-u5i And I get that. Sometimes 2 people aren't meant to be together. I'm talking about mostly these old men that have been married 50 years and they are like "I hate my wife, she's a miserable b^tch hahaha" like either leave or stfu because regardless of how you feel now you must have lived her enough to marry her at some point.
To make a woman terrified her soon-to-be husband is saying "I do not" the night prior to the actual wedding is so messed up I just don't understand what was going through their brains to think that this was a good or a funny idea at all I would immediately kick them all out of the wedding.
What I’ve learned for my wedding from this series:
1) always have some tough friends as a “no wedding gown/crasher” security team who will prevent anyone wearing white from even entering the venue. Also have some to quickly remove interruptions during the ceremony/crashers during the reception.
2) never have the bachelor/ette parties the night, or even week, before the wedding.
3) have trustworthy members of the wedding party defend the cake.
4) it’s better to have asymmetrical wedding parties than have unwanted members in the parties
5) the photos are for memories, not aesthetic (honestly crazy that needs to be said).
I like the idea of equipping some of the wedding party members with paint guns to attack anyone who shows up in white, like “you arrived in white but what colour will you be by the time you leave? “ x
@@HattielyEverAfter1995I love that idea lol!!! 😂
We had an uneven bridal party and the bridesmaid with the biggest personality wound up with two escorts for the reception. Unbeknownst to us, all the pairs/groups decided to strike a pose before heading to their seats. So this bridesmaid struck a dramatic celebrity pose and the groomsmen pantomimed paparazzi taking pics. We didn't even find out about it until years later when we watched the reception footage. That's the beautiful, spontaneous sort of moment you can have when you pick good friends.
Oh, and aside from a pair of cousins we both happened to befriend separately, many states and years apart, the 2 sides of the bridal party didn't even meet until just before the wedding!
DEFENDERS OF THE CAKE, ASSEMBLE
*cue heroic music*
we had our bachelor's 3/2 nights before the wedding, worked fine.
My son got married on Sunday to a wonderful, stunningly beautiful woman who I am so glad to formally have in my family. Here’s some hints future mum-in-laws. Ask what the other mother is wearing, if the bride wants that co-ordinated with the bridal party, anything but, etc. when finding your dress, get it okayed by the woman your son is going to spend the rest of his life with. It’s not about you but your first formal way to welcome her and show you respect her as much as you hope she respects you. If you don’t like each other, try harder. Be the bigger person at all times because nobody, especially your son, wants to deal with That mum-in-law. My ex husband was there with his lady. We were all lovely with each other because a) it wasn’t about us and b) we are adults old enough to have children old enough to get married c) I like them. C) didn’t matter, it was just a nice thing that happened.
Please, can you adopt me? I don’t cost much to feed..
I think mother in laws get a hard time. Mine was lovely and we miss her.
Congrats, Mama 😊 my son got married just over 2 weeks ago and this is exactly what I did..the wedding was amazing..drama is overrated Lol
Wow, I love the way you think!! I'm a new mom and had my son this year, I am really looking to be this type of a mother in law to my future daughter in law. Families would be so much better to have someone like you and much less drama!! Congrats to your son on his new journey!! 😊😊
I have been this way with my daughter-in-law from the beginning of their relationship. He loves her, he's chosen to spend the rest of his life with her, I raised him with the expectation that he would make good choices and I have to give him the freedom to do that. I have four wonderful grandchildren now and would never do anything that might jeopardize my relationship with them. I don't like 100% of what she does, but I don't like 100% of what anyone does. She loves him, he loves her and that's what is important. I wish my mother-in-law could have done the same for me, but I recognize that her treatment of me is what has made me strive to be a good mother in-law. So it's all good in the end.
The girl who offered to be hired to tell others that “it’s not their day” I WOULD HIRE SO FAST
I don’t understand why anyone invites problematic people to begin with. If you know they’re trouble starters then don’t invite them
I have done this job myself (for my sons wedding), it’s not easy.
When it’s family…
Honestly for me it was well meaning family members. They were so concerned that everyone have a perfect time, even if it sacrificed my very simple lifelong dreams…They can survive a few hours in slightly uncomfortable conditions or not come…it’s not their day!
It’s supposed to be the MOH. I was the bad guy at my best friend’s wedding and I loved every single second of it. It’s so fun.
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For anyone who’s worried, it doesn’t get sad after 30. It gets SO MUCH BETTER. Dating when you’re financially stable, secure with yourself and established as an individual saves so much time. Found my wonderful guy after 30, and have never been happier. I also had lots of people tell me I was wasting my “prime years”. What a sickening and antiquated ideology 😅
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you ❤
That's IF you're financially stable, secure in youreself and established as an individual by 30. I don't know if I'll ever get there and I know I'm not alone in that sadly.
Remember ladies, always have a designated wine spiller in your bridal party if someone shows up in white.
I would volunteer for that role on my friend's wedding.
make sure the wine is red, lol
Oh hell yes!!! I'd do that job all day every day, even for a stranger!!! 🤣
It's a must have in any emergency kit. Thank got my MIL is not a lunatic and my husband doesn't have any crazy exes. Really, it's such a blessing.
My God, that is such a good idea
Ha! I have a story kind of like the "praying for the single girls" holier than thou bride...so my ex husband, after he had a thing with his assistant for months and lied about it the whole time when I confronted him, predictably he left me for her and then married her. About 6 weeks after our divorce was finalized, he called to tell me that he wanted me to hear it from him and not gossip that yes, he was indeed with the girl I accused him of cheating on me with. I asked when it started- he said "doesn't matter, I didn't love you anymore." Then he promised me that he would pray for me that I too, would find my true love like he had found his... 🤢
To this day (last I heard anyway) he tags all his social media with the hashtag "truelove." As if to convince himself, his family and friends and God that he was destined to leave me for her.
All I can say is that I am a better, happier, and stronger person now and am more genuinely myself without him.
Sooooooo thank God!?!?! 😆😆😆
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Holy crap what a man!! 🤪
Ugh the audacity!
"No, honey, honey, you don't get it.....GOD wanted me to cheat on you!"
Looks like the trash took itself out. Praise the Lord and his miracles.
What a effed up male body part he is!
After 30 was the best time, stopped worrying about being alone, stopped caring about how other ppl saw me, traveled alot and on my own doing what I wanted, dated who I liked, stayed out all night, slept in the middle of the bed, and in general just enjoyed life.
The closest I got to "odd" at my wedding was having a Superman symbol on the fingernail of my ring finger -- my husband and I met in a Superman chatroom online. Oh, and we had a lady with a computer up in the church balcony transcribing the ceremony for our online wedding guests -- about 40 people from our chatroom group attended the wedding that way. (This was before live-streaming was available.) We had about the same number of people in the church as in the chatroom, so it was a very small wedding.
At my brother's wedding, he and his groomsmen and best man all wore ninja turtle socks!! ❤
The transcription is such a cool way to include your online community!
true story - at my cousins wedding when we got there I thought I got to the wrong venue because I saw at the entrance another beautiful bride who wasn't my cousin. I blushed and said congraulation to the bride and went out to search for the right wedding venue. long story short - it was the sister of my cousin's groom! the audacity!!!
huh? I don't get it, can you explain?
oh that's horrible, hope it worked out for them.
@@santa_klaussss long story short they got divorced in 2 years, and now my cousin is gay and living with a woman and they are about to get married soon!
Was she at least embarrassed? I was just thinking that I would do that intentionally if I saw someone cosplaying bride like that, but idk is it worth it?
But why would she just be standing there? Normally the bride arrives after everyone is in their seats. So the fact that she was just standing there before the wedding should have given away that she was not the bride.
Personally the thing I couldn't stop thinking with mermaid skirt lady was "how does she walk without tripping?"
Definitely. It looks great, but I'd be surprised if she gets through the day without falling down at least once.
That is what I was wondering too.
Derek Johns, Exactly!
😂 I was picturing that in my head
You’d have to swish all the flaring around your lower leg for every step so you don’t trip or ruin the material.
Not my cup of tea. But to each their own
If my groom had turned up in that state, there would have been no wedding. What an absolute jerk!
My husband is at it again. Just heard a shout from the other room: "New Charle Darble video!"
Yep, I am very convinced he believes this is your name now.
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Charle Darble! Love it!
It has a nice ring to it.
I spit out my water when Charlotte said, “she certainly isn’t copying anyone.” Lol…nope. That wedding outfit is definitely unique!
How the hell does she walk in that without stepping on the one-legged skirt flare thang?
@@mrs.h2725 yeah, that was the only thought going through my head. How do you walk without tripping? I mean it is cool and unique but she is even stepping on it in the picture.
The more I looked at the "dress", the more questions it raised
It's tacky AF is what it is lol.
@@denalihedgehog I'm
People who purposely mess around with someone's allergies should be brought up on charges.
I feel so bad for laughing at the “Cheap Two-Bit Tramp” wedding invite if it’s real. Whether it was a joke or not, it’s very well-written.
I think it's fake. I remember seeing this invite long ago and the photo of the groom and bride in the strapless dress that barely covered her n1pples.
There’s no time and no venue so I think it’s fake…
Oh, thank goodness. If it was real, then I would stew over how evil this in-law would be.
I can’t help wondering if the author was giving an homage to the movie Monster In Law. You can make a lot of connections there, the three most obvious examples being that the groom-to-be has a mom that’s a psycho who hates the bride-to-be, the groom is a doctor for a living and the bride is allergic to nuts.
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4:40 After we got engaged, my husband’s mother was talking about what she was planning on wearing (I’d had the ring on my finger for A WEEK!! We hadn’t even told everyone yet…).
“Oh yes, I saw a lovely ivory dress that would be great for a wedding!”
(Iv… ivory? 🤔 Ma’am, that’s a shade of white…)
She didn’t understand the issue.
Her name is……. Susan.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who had this happen 😂
My mother in law showed up wearing a floor length black tie red carpet event beaded gown. In lavender. (Not white or cream, but my colors were periwinkle and cream lace. ) She stood out like a sore thumb. She didn’t bother to consult with my mom or my husbands step mom. Both my mom
And my husbands step mom wore periwinkle complimenting mother of the bride appropriate suit skirt type outfits. They were very pretty. They looked down to earth and as how mothers of the bride and groom should look for a semi formal wedding. My husbands mom tried to look like a Barbie (she’s also extremely thin and starves herself) and ended up looking ridiculous. Oh, and her name is Susan. 😆
Man, the worst thing about my first wedding was the groom. But I got rid of that problem eventually.
I felt this within my soul.
I’m Puerto Rican and this tackiness is not a thing! On behalf of my people, WE DO NOT CLAIM THEM! 💗
Not everyone is like that, I am puertorrican too and I agree that he is generalizing things, but there is a side culture that kind of glorifies this behavior unfortunately. Not everyone, not even the majority now but I am speaking from my experience. I have seen it and people laughing and celebrating this kind of behavior, particularly towards women but it goes both ways. Saludos!
honestly it's not even a Puertorican "thing" 🙄 I've seen this attitude everywhere. way to use your culture to excuse your lame humour and cover up for your toxicity
Puertorican too here. Not one of us that bride
I am Puerto Rican too but you have to admit there is still alot of machismo here so yeeah… i think it’s 65% accurate lol
Comments like this are stupid. There are plenty of tacky Puerto Ricans. I mean.. if you're Puerto Rican you might not think it's tacky but tackiness is also subjective and I have seen plenty. Wearing jeans that are way too small with their pot belly hanging over.. being loud as hell in public.. etc. just saying.. it's all subjective and FORTUNATELY we cannot police every person we share a race/ethnicity with... 🤡
I'm one of the younger kids in the family, and when I was 10 my older sister got married. When she went to throw the bouquet I stood way off the side, out of the way. I wanted to see, but being a 10 year old boy I did not want to be in the line of fire. Well, my sister did some weird twist of the wrist when she threw it and it came sailing straight to me. I couldn't get out of the way for the other people and it was either catch it or get it in the face, so I caught it. Everyone laughed and they did a re-throw, but none of my other siblings ever got married until after I did.
My best friend isn't a fan of this bouquet-throwing 'tradition' (neither am I, btw), so, deciding that she'd have her bridal bouquet made of dried flowers (with a matching floral garland on the head instead of a veil), she simply booked the artist who made them to give a small master-class for all ladies present (7 in total, if memory serves) so that each could arrange to their taste a smaller neat bouquet for themselves with any of the materials and accessories in the colors used in the wedding decorations provided by the master. This was some years ago, a non-traditional, rather small and quiet wedding. There was none of that 'pitiyng poor singles' feeling or a girls rugby game, instead all the ladies brought home a nice small decor that reminds of that happy day every time one looks at it.
beautiful!
such a nice idea.
So probably in 2003 my mom threw a big wedding that costed like 2,000 dollar's and my grandma (dead) had payed for the wedding cuz she sweet- and my aunt rlly had to ruin my mom's big day, my aunt was into jokes but my mom wasn't, so as a "joke" my aunt dumped a bucket full of ketchup on my mom and in a attitude my aunt said "your just like that girl in the movie CARRIE LOL!" My mom ran into the house and cried. My grandma got mad at my aunt that she was kicked out of the wedding and didn't dare to come back.
That sounds so beautiful and artsy! I want one 😭❤
that’s a lovely idea! i love that everyone gets to be included and not be put into competition with one another ☺️
@@jennyduong3498 WOW
For the extremely drunk groom: is that even legal? I mean, surely they waited until he was sober to at least sign the wedding certificate, right?
You raise a good point... might not be legal
That's also my question... cuz if i were the bride i would have called it off the moment i saw him that drunk. No amount of love can compensate for that disrespect hehehe
In my country it's not the traditional ceremony but the paperwork that gets you married so in a legal sense it wouldn't matter (you will have to confirm the process though which may or may not be part of the optional ceremony). Then, I'm not convinced he is drunk as it could be a medical issue like narcolepsy or partial paralysis.
that's what I was wondering
That one looked like an outdoors ceremony. If that was indeed in Russia, most probably they had already got their marriage certificate before the ceremony.
My husband and I were invited to a co-worker's wedding, a person that we were close friends with. We attended the ceremony, and when we got to the reception, found our seating cards, but there were other people sitting in our seats. We told them they were in our places, but said they wanted to sit with their friends, so would we mind sitting elsewhere? Ok, we looked around the hall, and every seat was taken. There were 4 other couples, all standing looking confused, because there were people in their seats as well. turned out someone invited 10 extra guests without telling the hall. So there were no more tables or chairs for us, or food. (we asked a server if they could set another table, and they said they didn't have any more, or 10 extra meals) My husband and I had driven all day to attend this wedding and were starving, but there clearly wouldn't be a place at the table or a meal for us. Our choice was to stand around and watch other people eat or go home. We stopped at a restaurant on the way. Btw, there were only a dozen people at the wedding, but easily 100 people at the reception. How fun it was to eat at cracker barrel in full formal attire.
@Hawkhill Falconer Cracker Barrel is at least great. In fact it sounds like a pretty awesome time to end the day with splitting a coca cola cake with your man in formal wear.
Huh? And the bridal couple said nothing?
@@Gaia_Seraphina we didn't want to disturb them with this problem on their wedding. We told the MOB, turns out a bunch of people who never bothered to RSVP just decided to turn up for the reception.
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Well ... it was their problem though. A bunch of wedding crashers!
And MOB wasn't a good organizer either. Uninvited "guests" should be asked to leave, not invited ones.
Why didn't you insist on your seats?????
I was a COVID bride. We still wanted to get married but not endanger anyone. So we just had us, our parents, my hubby's brother, and the officient meet at a park. Honestly, it was so beautiful and special that I don’t feel like I missed out on anything. And we can always have an anniversary party someday if we want to.
I have a younger cousin from California who was also a COVID bride. She had her wedding streamed live from California. The only people actually there were close family members. It was a nice way for all of us to enjoy her special day without being too close to each other.
I don't think I could ever get married to someone whose mother has that much hate for me
Agreed. But it does make me want to know the other side of the story. Like.... is she a two-bit tramp? Maybe moms is justified? Or is she really a monster-in-law?
Same. Maybe if he realizes she’s toxic and agrees to keep her at arms length?
I can't imagine she has a ton of loyal friends. The friend telling you all the gossip does the same when you're not around. Same with family unfortunately.
Money? A doctor hubby? Just because MIL is nutz it does not exclude a posibility the bride is shalow af. 🤷♀️
Agreed. Doesn't matter how amazing the person is - if their family is this terrible and they won't agree to cut said family off completely without exception, I wouldn't do it. Even if the MIL were technically correct and the DIL entirely in the wrong (which I doubt, tbh), her behavior and this nasty method of communication alone would do it for me and make me doubt her story.
Have to say: 1. Girl who almost had cake dumped on her had a gorgeous dress and I'm glad it wasn't ruined. 2. Too drunk groom's best man is a real one. 3. The only acceptable use of a "bride dragging the groom" topper I've seen was at a fake wedding for a murder mystery dinner.
Yes, I wouldn’t want my dress ruined either! Yuck!
I just wanted to cry for the waste of all that beautiful red velvet cake... 😑
*plot twist* I’d marry that best man RIGHT THEN N THERE!! The bar is so low 😂 at least he’s standing…. Haha
I love those “bride dragging the groom away” cake toppers. Really let’s you know which of your friends are misogynists and that you can leave the wedding early bc in 2 years time they’ll be getting a divorce anyway.
Ok so they don’t show the rest of the video that’s at 6:49. The guy who ruined the cake,, the groom promptly punched him in the face.
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Before I even watch this, I appreciate that you put out content nearly every day. I remember how you said that YT’s algorithm has put you in a “bridezilla” “ bad wedding” rut. Try over the top sweet 16 parties I’d watch that!!! Love your content!!!
Charlotte should sometimes do a Top Ten just like David letterman use to do. She'd kill it. Charlotte's TopTen Extravaganza.
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@@noone8921 She already does that on the other channels, so maybe that's why she doesn't want to do the same exact thing on this channel.
I dig the bridezilla thing, but I enjoy the other themes she does. I wouldn't want Charlotte to skip all those for just the bridezilla content
Sweet 16s would be really fun!
I’ve always hated the bouquet toss. So at my wedding I also took my bouquet apart but instead of giving each single person a flower and praying for them to find the right man, I had written cards to both my family, my husband’s family, and the maids of honor and groomsmen letting them know how much I appreciated them and their help with our wedding and handed them the card with a flower from my bouquet.
That wedding invite sounds like it was written by Jane Fonda’s character in Monster in Law, which J-Lo’s character had a nut allergy 😂😂
That was my first thought as well 😂
She also called J-LO a two bit tramp 😂😂 so I feel it’s confirmed that this is fake news
That's exactly what I was thinking
Plus wasn’t he a doctor as well? Yup this is monster in law inspired lol. Still love it
I saw the wedding photo the MIL posted along with the announcement and was like wowww there’s some family drama dang
I am adoring that the one-leg mermaid "skirt" is caught under her other foot. One step, and BAM! she's down for the count
I love how there was the bride not wanting attention. It’s an odd way of taking the attention away from her, but refreshing difference to the usual bridezillas. Lol 💖
If my groom was drunk at the wedding ceremony, there wouldn't be a ceremony.
Tell it, sister!
I’m a little scared of what else could be coming out of the dark depths after seeing this video. Some of these people should not marry, or reproduce. 🤦🏽♀️💗
My man and I will do neither! 9 years strong.
For throwing the bouquet, at my cousin's wedding they asked all of the married couples to dance. As the song went on the DJ asked those who had been married less than a day to sit down (if course the newlyweds), then those who had been married less than a year, and so on. The last couple still dancing got the bouquet and the garter. My family has continued this instead of throwing the bouquet but there were some pissed off girls at my cousin's wedding😂
The drunk groom…I’d be sooo pissed if my future husband was so drunk he had to be held at the ceremony. 😂
How is that even legal? haha
@@hej.anneli I’m a wedding celebrant in Australia and it most certainly isn’t legal. You have to be in a state where you can legally agree to the process and sign legal docs. Not possible to competently agree to anything if you’re so sh!tfaced that you can’t even stand up!
My mom had to scream and drag my dad out of bed on the day of their wedding because he was so hungover LOL. Good thing it was just downstairs in my grandparents living room😂.
@@donavonseibert507 omfg 😂😂😂 lucky he didn’t have far to be dragged
Surely the marriage can't be legal if one party is blind drunk and unable to confirm consent....???
I used to work for a catering service and learned Mothers-of-the-Groom can be very difficult to please. More often had drama with HIS mama than any other "contributor".
Mother-of-the-Groomzilla video PLEASE! She really needs more attention!!!
You can never go wrong with my Aunt’s advice ( which I strictly adhered to).....a Mother of the Grooms job is to “ wear beige and keep your mouth shut “. Never fails.
Simple yet very accurate 👍
That is excellent advice!
Another nice tradition is for the ladies who celebrated a silver (25 year) anniversary to wear a silver/light grey lace dress and the ladies who celebrated a gold (50 year) anniversary to wear a gold lace dress. It honors the longevity of their marriages while leaving white for the bride.
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Agreed!
My aunt and uncle just celebrated 50 years in June.
They’re both in ill health, but for their anniversary, they decided to get dressed up, and order UberEats.
They’re two peas in a pod.
@@kitty62862 that’s gorgeous ❤️❤️
Odd that I never hear the word "LOVE" mentioned in any weddings these days. It's always about how good everything looks or how much money is spent.
9:46 it's sad after 30 to not be married I'm 52, never been married & don't ever plan to. Nothing sad about it. I like being alone. Not 24/7 but pretty dang close lol 😂 I'm very comfortable with myself.
My sister married at 30 was divorced a few years later. She never wanted children. She's just turned 60 and has been very happily alone more or less ever since. I've been married for 30 odd years. My husband is my friend and companion. We are all happy. No woman NEEDS a man. At least today we get the choice without that word 'spinster' being whispered behind hands as they look pityingly at women who make that decision.
@@tkps I do have 2 children but I didn't marry their dad. Wouldn't trade my babies for nothing & I'm a grandmother of 4. My son doesn't have kids yet but he's young. 💞
The concept that a woman has to be married by a certain age is from the1800's and before, when life expectancy was much lower. It is outdated. Men do not have such age expectations for marriage; yes, it is a double standard some people have. Too many people get married because they think it is what they are supposed to do - to be normal. Normal for you is what ever you do, not what someone else does. The thought of marriage does not occur to me unless I watch a video like this. Marriage would be nice for the friendship and companionship, but not a need. Solitude is a need. I am not anti-people, just anti-stupid. The overlap is near 1:1.
Same her. Never ever want to get married 😊
You are wise.
Susan is the Karen who won’t call the cops, passive aggression is her style guide.
Nailed it.
I and an ex did semi crash a wedding by accident. We wandered in. But we just had a drink, spoke to some guests and wished the couple a good life. We were given a gift bag and were having a good convo with the parents of the Bride. Then left. I like to think it was fun and not disruptive.
Lol that sounds sweet.
What those a**hole girls did was disgusting & malicious 😥
Both of my parents were drunk af at their wedding and they both agreed that it was the worst day of their lives (my aunt is very dramatic). Still going strong more than 28 years later💖
So, when my brother got married his (now ex) wife was like 8 months pregnant. The cake topper included a baby crawling after the bride and groom.
As for the fall-down-drunk groom...I feel like you can't actually consent to getting married. Like being that drunk would make it invalid.
In the UK drunk enough is certainly grounds to allow annullment on the basis of inability to consent at the time. Id guess officiants know that and could refuse to conduct the wedding at the time.
Might be doing the legal pet separately
@@toomanyopinions8353 that would solve the issue, yes
In my country, that marriage would not be legal. If the officiant or any witnesses declared that either party was drunk, the couple would have to go to the court and get married again---sober.
I was thinking that too. And why would you want to marry someone who’s so drunk at his own wedding he’s practically unconscious?
I was with a guy for 18 years. He was a child, and finally I got tired of being mommy, so, I left. At 45. I am 49 now and I love being single, I get to do what I want without anyone's feelings holding me back. Anc being recently disabled with an autoimmune disorder, I get to put this on my family too! I now don't let my family try to make things about them. If I ain't feeling it. I don't go to whatever gathering they try to guilt me into, saying" I just don't feel well enough to be social".
Life us great if you quit letting others decide your worth and needs.my need it to do what I want. When I want. And screw the rest.
Hooray! Me too. I got fed up being his Mommy after 23 years. I realized she was dead and gone so all the hate from MIL was over. I didnt have to stay, I could go. So I did. I took my 10yr old daughter and my $$$ settlement and started my single life. 😉 He went on to date the internet, get fired from a job he had for 16 years, and destroy his credit rating. He filed bankruptcy and the bank took the house back. (That part about the house made me mad). When we were first married (6 months) he decided he was homesick and ran back to Mommy and Daddys house! Mommy got an attorney and he filed for divorce. That lasted one week. He came running back to me after he realized Mommy was going to put him on a curfew, control his money and screen his phone calls. 😂 When I divorced him MY MOM took his side. We never spoke again. She died in 2003 and cut me out of the will. My ex is now getting his second divorce I see. Ive been happily single for 25 years! I do what I want!
Can't wait till the day we get to watch the Potato queen roast her own wedding!! First, because Charlotte deserves the best of the best! & Whatever man is blessed enough to find/ keep her has gotta have one hell of a sense of humor. And we already know Charlotte can laugh at herself!! Not to say anything will go wrong or she'll be a bridezilla in any way! I just know hilarity will ensue!! Love everything you do Charlotte!!
Ahh, Yes! He MUST be worthy to be her Potato King 👑
He better be tall - or super-secure in what he brings to the table.
I suspect Charlotte wouldn’t tolerate a short guy with a complex!
@@Rolbell does anyone tolerate that?
@@lindyanne3936 I don’t know, because as a short man, I work really hard not to be that way. Nevertheless, I see those kinds of guys all over the place, so somebody must be putting up with it?
He's gonna be the potato king 😆
Actually I read somewhere that if one of the parties is drunk, the wedding is invalid on the grounds that the person is not fully in control of their faculties
Ok. My husband who has worked in the wedding invitation industry as a cutter and type setter for 16 years would like to point out the BEAUTY of the invitation that you presented at 2:12. He shot up from his chair and out "That's so beautiful! I love Copperplate Upper and Lower!" The script font is very similar to Markham. He loved when weird invitations would cross his desk and would save them for me.
Dude, I'm getting married next year, and let's just say these videos are a healthy reminder of what not to put up with. 💗 Also, thanks for the entertainment Charlotte! 😁
Congrats! Hope your wedding goes as smoothly as possible...and you don't end up on a reddit forum or indeed a Potato Queen video :D
@@slinkywhippet thank you! I believe it will go amazing! 😊
*another pearl of wisdom someone once told me: being married isn't about finding someone you can live with. It's about finding someone you can't live without 💖
That's so true (not married but, definitely words of wisdom)💕
@@a.j.9797 they're out there looking for you. I was married, the guy whom said it was my best man at my wedding.
I believe it too. I wanted to die before her then not have her in my life. Sadly we're no longer together. No doubt the universe is unfolding as it should and as they say, life's wot happens while you're busy making plans.
We're still friends. I'd rather still be friend then not have her in my life at all.
Always strive to be happy 💖
At first I thought the dismantling of the bouquet for each girl was a nice gesture and got rid of the desperate nature of the bridal toss but the praying just shot the desperate level right back up with some added condescendence from the bride
Yeah, I had a small wedding (
I think the wedding dress goat yoga sounds hilarious. Stupid, harmless, and funny. I think that is why the poster said "unload" like give me the dresses you don't care about ( divorced?) Etc. Can't always find them at a thrift shop when you need one LOL
Plot twist: Nowhere in the post is there anything about the goats doing the peeing.
If I ever “crashed” a wedding, I’d just go for the food. I’d bring a present, duh, cuz it’s a wedding, but I would never try to ruin anything. That’s so rude. If you’re gonna crash a wedding, be polite and bring a present.
The polite thing to do would not eat as well. The food still costs money and can get extensive. If they couple didn't invite you, you shouldn't plan on adding to their expenses. You don't know what their plans were, if they planned for 100 people and order exactly 100 plates, you would have taken their planned guest's plate. True that most order more than planned, but not every bride/groom can afford that.
My friend got married before Covid hit, a group of young adults crashed her wedding. She planned for exactly for who RSVPed (buffet style food), some of her guest couldn't eat because these brats took huge portions. She didn't even know they were until her sister asked her who they were, and she realized they didn't know them. One of the people who didn't get to eat was my friend's cousin who is diabetic, she had to leave mid reception for her to find food since her blood sugar was getting low.
Be polite, if you haven't RSVPed, don't crash. Go to the ceremony, and if you get invited to join that's fine.
True, extra people at the ceremony are probably okay as long as they're well-behaved and the venue can accommodate. But uninvited / unexpected people who eat and drink at a reception are essentially *stealing.* It's like running out on the check at a restaurant, except you're also potentially ruining a couple's big day.
@@melissablackwood Exactly!
And nobody wants them in their pictures so no, don't crash at all.
reminds me of my parents wedding story, another wedding reception was occurring in the next room and somehow the two parties peeps met and decided to just party hardy together.
The “You’re regretfully invited” wedding invitation sounds like my mom when my wife and I got married
I hope you stood up for your wife.
Oh I’m disowned 😂
@@nervousbreakdown711 you spelled HAPPY wrong. lol
I love binge watching her videos their literally all I watch on here ❤
I would cancel the wedding if my fiance showed up drunk! OMG!
That wasn't drunk, that was comatose.😂
I suppose for me it would depend on how drunk they are and what kind of drunk they are. Like my dad is a very happy drunk, he just wants to love everyone and smile at everyone when he's drunk. And I feel like that would be fine. But I'm a "take off all my clothes" drunk which... Probably isn't a good idea 😅
I would never marry anyone that drank so much they could not even stand up. I grew up in a home with an alcoholic father and I was determined I would never live with someone like that again and I never have and never will.
Maybe he wasn't drunk xD but normally needs a wheelchqir.
I totally lost it with "Extra DIRTY" comment regarding guy in bathtub of olives. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Tell me you're insecure without telling me you're insecure." LMFAO!!
💕 😂🤣😂🤣😂 OMG I loved the wedding invitation 😂 I haven’t laughed like that in a long time
The guy that tore up the wedding cake needs his quack quack kicked.
🤣🤣
The guy who threw the cake over the people wasn't funny probably cost a lot of money to buy it, idiot
@@mirnaprol2074 can you send me the link please? I don’t really know what to type to find it :(
Love that your chair now chimes in with opinions. All this time your "broken" chair just wanted to co-host. 🪑💬💓
I love that she bought a new chair THAT STILL DOES IT lol
I know right it’s so 🤣 And the quack just keeps me 😂
Agreed - it’s about time chair let itself be heard….clearly it’s been trying
The Co-Chair, if you will. 😉
Lol
LOL that wedding invite literally sounds like the plot to the J-Lo movie "Monster in Law"
I literally thought of that movie when I read that note
I also doubt very much that her son is "perfect". I REALLY hope that was just a joke, and not a real mother-in-law and couple.
I was thinking this LMAO
I'm single af and I'm already putting the "it's not your wedding" services girl on my must list for my wedding
The journey your face went on when you saw the olive guy.... 😂
I love the person offering her services. I'd love to do this, & have a glass of red wine for anyone wearing white!
9:03 That video looks a bit creepy... Like, imagine that guy got drugged and is now unwillingly getting married to someone he doesn't even know. You can't get legally married, if you are unconscious!
I went to my cousins wedding and realized I was wearing the exact same dress as the brides maids lol I was mortified 🤦♀️ everyone kept asking me if it was my plan to do that. I was getting all sorts of side eyes from the brides maids lol it was super embarrassing 😳
Years ago, I went to an outdoor wedding on a 95-degree, sticky, mid July day, held in a cow pasture where the couple were going to build their future home. The bride was in a wheelbarrow, wheeled in by the groomsmen, and unceremoniously dumped in front of the tree stump altar.
Then began that odd, 1990s tradition of the bride and groom just holding hands and looking at each other while an ENTIRE song by Martina McBride plays on a boombox and the sweating congregation just sits...watching the bride and groom watch one another, for about 3.5 agonizing minutes.
When the couple (finally) said "I do," the groomsmen shot a potato gun and then swept up the corn-fed bridesmaids and made off with them over their shoulders. I've been to quite a few weddings and I can say with absolute certainty that was the most memorable one I've ever seen. 😳
The video of that Russian wedding would come in handy if they divorced and he wanted to claim he was too intoxicated to legally consent to getting married LOL
*makes note*
Yeah, theres no way that, that's a legally binding ceremony.
I used to have two friends who had planned to engaged on a certain date. She was verbally abusive to him which really bothered me. I told her, as a joke, that their cake topper should be the alien from Aliens in a wedding dress screaming at the groom crouched over in a ball covering his ears, representing what she is always doing to him. She actually really liked the idea.
The venom in that invite. I can't imagine being that sort of person. It was so disrespectful and just a horrible thing to do. It was just truly wicked.
It's from Monster in Law, the movie. Not the invite itself, but the whole premise of it is based on that movie.
My aunt had the bride dragging the groom as her wedding cake topper. Kinda reflects their marriage currently pretty well actually! 😂
No way!!! 30 is when the real fun begins! Enjoy your 30’s! Heck, 40’s, 50’s and 60’s. My friend’s grandma got married at 82! 🤯
why did the wedding invite one sound like something that Jane Fonda would do to Jennifer Lopez in Monster In Law?
That was my thought too! I mean the groom in that film is a doctor & she even calls JLo a two bit tramp at one point
@@paigecrossland4289 meanwhile, wanda sykes is just over it😂
@@laniarianna8398 haha yes 😂 she does not give two shits 🤣
The bride should name (in this case, post the photobombed pictures) and shame the wedding crashers. And the internet will probably do the rest to identify them. Not saying doxxing is good but people like those girls don't deserve the courtesy of anonymity.
Absolutely!! That one made me really sad for her.
That's a bit extreme. They're immature douchebags who crashed a wedding, not criminals. Telling *the internet* "Hey, track these people down, they deserve it" is giving someone the excuse they need to try and get someone fired and publicly post their address for shits and giggles.
The one with the stepmom (7:52) is from Tre Cool, the drummer of Green Day. Sarah is not disrespecting the bride here in any way. Her dress is blue-ish and Tre's suit is light green ish. Tre's daughter never had issues with Sarah's dress. So please don't judge that one if you don't know anything else than the pictures.
Well, as a mid thirties single woman, frankly I don't care that I'm not married.
Me too, girl! I can't speak for everyone, but I spend every day happy that I only have to take care of myself and not a family. I'm so glad I didn't cave in to social pressure and feel like I had to get married and have children.
Same.
Late 30s myself. I haven’t met anyone I want to marry. I’d much rather be in this situation than marry someone just for the sake of being married!
The pity turns to envy when you hit middle age.
@@atalanta9353 temporary. you stick by your choice
As a bride. I absolutely love these wedding ones! Makes me feel sane on my worst days lol
Omg I giggle so much when you put your face onto faces in the vids 🤣🤣
That video of the guy ruining the cake ends with the groom decking the dude.
"I humbly decline the offer of a 'groin olive' from your bathtub - thank you"
I am a martini girl, so there'd be a real chance of me climbing in there with him, into the opposite end, & joining in the olive vendor game, in my undergarments, if I had a few too many.
And I would definitely have a few too many.
Do we know for sure the backstory is that he's drunk, & not, like, afflicted with a skeletal condition which he normally uses a wheelchair for?
I ask, because there's an epic amount of stories & wedding-forum representation of wheelchair users who insist that they're standing for their ceremony if it's the last thing they (& their attendants) do.
...Though he could also just be drunk.
I mean, it could be coincidence that the woman on the far right is repeatedly folding herself in half while trying to stand upright.
I agree that it looks like a skeletal issue. I’d be concerned about the legality of the wedding if he is just drunk.
@@shatteredshards8549 it could also be the fact that ppl with conditions often find a lot of their friends + relationships among supportive spaces made up of ppl who share their particular challenges.
@@mysterylovescompany2657 Yeah. we do. Or it could be that this wedding appears to be taking place in Russia, home of the Angel Putin wedding dress and Nail Sunny.
I may have considered your theory if weren’t for the best man roughly shoving the groom’s head down in annoyance @8:43 as if he’s pissed and trying to wake him out of a drunken stupor. If it actually is a medical condition then the best man is out of line and what he did was unnecessary and cruel to say the least.
It's always been really sad to me that when it comes to the majority of weddings the women try so hard, plan and are excited for the event and a lot of the grooms/their party treat it like a joke. They get drunk and ruin something that's supposed to be special for both of them, but especially to the bride (most of whom dream of their wedding from a young age)
Because in those weddings the women are crazy about getting married and don't think, just "following their dream" 🙄 If your partner is not excited or, at least, with a nice attitude, he Is NOT ready to marry.
Yes! Of course it's the WOMAN'S fault. You're so smart baby, good job. @@aby99
If i ever get married, my future wife would be protected from toxic people
I'm so glad I want my wedding in my back yard with a small group of friends and family... Low key, no drama ! 💖
Very wise. It beats entering into marriage in debt and feeling like the wedding was the high point of the marriage.
That's where I had mine ... bought a little archway at home depot covered it in white lights and tulle... it was super inexpensive but very beautiful 😍
Lmao. I was a bridesmaid at a wedding where the groom was still drunk from the night before. (He banned bachelor/bachelorette parties and then had one for himself the night before anyways. We just got a bridal shower that I and another bridesmaids had to practically beg him for.)
He was so drunk from the night before that you could smell the alcohol seeping out of him.
They divorced.
“…to wait on the man god has for them.”
-Please don’t. God knows that’s… 😮💨 not in the ol cards for meh. 😂 🙌🏼
Save a prayer, leave me single. 😝 💗💕💞💓💖
Well sometimes the answer to a prayer is no
I just recently went to a wedding where the bride called for 3 specific single women to receive the bouquet on the stage with the words of love for these 3 women who are the best people she knows and love but “always single”. I want to say I know it comes from the place of love but I would be embarrassing af since all lady are at least 37 years old.
That sounds passive aggressive as if you are "always Single " at 37, its probably by choice.
I'm really glad my stepmom wore a dress I picked out for her. It was a knee length A line dress. Looked amazing on her.
The picture in the thumbnail of the man in a mint suit with a brown shirt is Tre Cool (drummer from Green Day). His wife was actually wearing light green to match his suit. His daughter wore a Hayley Paige ball gown and looked amazing! It looks white in that photo but in others you could see it was clearly green.
When I first saw the photo pop up, I thought it was pale blue. At most, it looked dove grey when I looked at it closely.
charolotte, thank you, i had a rough few days, and have spent the whole crying over the loss of a pet and said i needed something happy and funny in my life right now or im jumping off a bridge, and your video came up. im laughing so hard the tears are of joy niow. thank you. i know you dont see there. but i needed you today
💕 The ‘What not to do’ wedding compilation.
I'm glad I got married without my parents doing anything with it. I could see them sending those invites, but praising my husband and calling me a two bit tramp
That’s so hilarious, but so messed up 😂
@@Ilikefrogs.. I didn't find it funny.
I’m 99% sure that ‘invitation’ is a parody of the movie ‘Monster in Law’
The regretfully invited thing I remember seeing years ago as a joke; I really don’t think it’s a real invite…
6:00 AHHH!!!! it’s vampireapplogist!!! i love their tumblr 💖💖💖