The DIL gift one. If your son is so horrible that he can’t take care of himself and needs a “good housewife” to do it, then you have failed at raising your son.
I have seen mother do that to their sons (do everything for them), to keep their sons dependent on them. There is more going on than being a bad parent. It's about power over their kids.
Honestly, someone should make a business out of that. Hell, if I knew that was an option I'd pay someone to take my mother in law to another state for my wedding
Wellll TBH they were paying for ALLLL his needs while there EXTRA it didnt come out of the original 1000.00. So room, food, traveling, those are most of the expensive parts .. sooo its not a bad deal honestly,. tho they should disclose the mils voice to see if you wanted to listen to that for two days lol
My husband and I ultimately eloped cause... family. My husband's best man, his oldest friend, was a bestmanzilla. He insisted on tails and a top hat, like my husband was going to wear. My sister was my matron of honor, because that's what she decided, she insisted on her dress and dress color. I had no say. My flowers were picked by my mom, I again had no say. Showed them, we just went to Reno and got married, cancelled the wedding, and have been married for 20 years... totally worth it.
@@ashensilverlake1889 it was a blessing. We didn't really want a big wedding anyway. We were doing it mostly for the families. In 20 years I have never once regretted eloping. It's the marriage that counts, not the over priced party.
I eloped because of Covid but I’m planning a small wedding because I wanted to celebrate with friends and family. One of my friends isn’t coming because of circumstances. I offered to pay for her hotel, flight, ect but she hasn’t said anything. Another mutual friend isn’t coming now because they need to save money for a house. I legit told my husband the other day we should just go alone lmao.
The “For Dummies” books story. So if her son doesn’t know how to cook, clean and take care of himself, hasn’t she failed as a mother to raise a self-sufficient adult?? The joke is on her! She raised a useless adult 🤦🏾♀️
THIS. THIS is what I'm talkin about. You have enough audacity to try and "educate" me on how to be a "perfect" housewife when it's YOUR son that I'm doing it for?????? Oh. Uhhhhhhkay. 🤔✌🏾😒🙂
Yeah, those books need be given forth to her son, not the wife. Duh. "Oh you giving me those? I am sure you made a mistake with the name on the labels when you wrapped the gift."
I would have 100% given those books to MIL's son after receiving them, in front of MIL. So your mom didn't teach you these things and thinks I should do it? Fuck that, he needs the For Dummies series, not her.
As we were leaving my wedding after the reception my bridesmaid, which I thought was a good friend, pulled me to the side and said “just so you know, I don’t think your marriage will last very long. You two just don’t make a good couple”. I walked away and never looked back or said a word. I have been marriage 35 years and haven’t spoken to her since that night.
Almost everyone at our wedding (200 people) took bets my husband and me would never make it 7 years. 30 years later and here we still are. We have lived through so many divorces ( friends and family) coming to us for advice. We really have no advice to give.
@Rulya Mórrigan Ard Mhacha you’re absolutely right,they’ll say something crazy then wait for your reaction. To see if you’re going to let it slide/ignore it or if you’re going to get upset and get on their ass. If it’s the former then it’ll keep happening more & more. If it’s the latter then that’s when you’d get the it’s only a joke and an apology because they’re trying to save face,keep you off their ass,and trying to save the friendship as well!!!
Cooking, Cleaning, Sewing etc. are survival skills and are taught by the military. That MIL should have taught her son how to take care of himself. My mother taught me how to cook, sew (I can do it, I'm just not very good) and how to clean up after myself.
Yea the whole "he needs a housewife, he can't take care of himself" just reads in my mind as "spoiled manchild who is too dumb to survive on his own." Could never marry someone like that
@@stormwright8300 Same!!! My husband can hunt, fish, sew, is great with technical stuff, works hard, etc :) and he even has learned some cooking skills from me ^_^ ♥
The mother-in-law who gave the “dummies” books is going to try to be a third wheel in the marriage. If her son doesn’t stand up to her now and defend his fiancée, he never will.
My uncle is a master of ceremony. He told us of the time the officiant asked the groom, and he waited with a sigh before he said "I do". The bride burst into tears. He thought he was being funny. Very, very unfunny.
The bride who got the "for Dummies" books from her MIL should have made a big smile and said: "Oh, how thoughtful! I'm sure *enter the name of the groom* will find them very useful!"
Perfect! After all, if the woman raised her son to be unable to adult for himself, it's HER fault. And the wife is NOT his mother, and NOT his servant. She is his PARTNER.
To be honest, they should have had that discussion much earlier and maybe they found a compromise. To me the guys on the picture looked half dressed, maybe a vest could have helped if a full suit would have been out of the question.
The one about taking bets for how long it would last reminds me of when I got married. Granted, my husband was only 17 and I was 18 and had only dated 2 months before we got married (and no, I was not pregnant). We have been happily married for going on 48 years 😊
imagine being such a nightmare that your new daughter in law has to hire you, what is essentially, a babysitter to make sure you don't misbehave yourself.
Dealt with something extremely similar to the groomsman-zilla story for my wedding a couple weeks ago. My husband and I had the groomsman wearing the same black tuxedos and white shirts, but they were allowed to pick the pattern on their purple ties and vests. Best man (also the groom’s older brother) threw an absolute fit because he wanted a special, custom suit that was different from everyone else’s, and wanted to pick his own color and everything. Cussed us both out after we really kindly tried to explain the situation to him and give him options. There were problems before this too. He complained about how he didn’t want to take a half-day of PTO to drive down to our wedding and that he didn’t wanna pay for a hotel room. He constantly complained he didn’t want to plan the bachelor party or have anything to do with the groomsman because they’re “strangers”. We offered to give him a place to stay, pay for his entire trip, pay for his outfit, and more. He called us “entitled” for that, and complained that he was having to go out of his way and we weren’t willing to do “anything” for him. Ended up telling him he could attend as a guest and we’d be happy to see him then. Made one of the groomsman our best man, and found another groomsman that same day; best decision we could’ve made. The best man had been causing drama for months, and a massive weight was lifted when he became a guest instead.
When I moved in with my boyfriend, his mother showed me how they clean windows and hang up curtains, "cause it's quite specific, you know". As if I'd never cleaned a window or hung a curtain in my life. But yeah, she's now my mother-in-law and treats both me and my husband like little kids incapable of taking care of ourselves instead of the 36-year-old grown-ups with double masters both and two kids. It's ridiculous.
Oh as a black person I can tell you. "Nigga have you lost your mind? He not allowed back at the cookouts or family reunions. Don't call us if they do some "Get Out" shit to you"
With the groomsman trying so hard to wear a suit....and yet putting it off till the last minute to bring up this battle.....I am 100% certain Charlotte is right, he is into someone in the bridal party.
@@Beanz-on-Toast He mentioned it a year ago, but what happened between then and the day before the wedding? It sounds like it was radio silence, which means he wasn't fighting for it. Let's be real, if he was fighting for it that whole time, he would have been kicked out of the bridal party.
When my dad gave my sister away at her wedding and the preacher asked “who gives this bride” he turned around to my brothers and said “idk what do we think” now that was funny! We have older brothers and they’re very protective of us. Everyone knew my dad was joking and it’s a funny memory for everyone now
The groomman is clearly racist. Imagine a white person saying that about black people: I don't want to wear like this, this is how black people dress. He has a stereotyped vision of how white people act. He has a stereotyped vision of how black people act.
The groomsman brother also came across as racist on top of it. Like he was being disrespectful to his brother for marrying a white woman. And was being rather hateful the entire time of seeing white people or "white people attire". Dude has some issues.
@@shannonhill5676that’s what I was hearing too. 😂 But I checked Reddit & the bride responded to the post!! She is also black, but the groomsman complaining was dating a white girl & his son is 1/2 white. Bride thought it was weird too! 😂
Bride at cake shop looking at photos: No, no, I want more of a granite look. Think marble, think old cement. Like it has to hold up the parthenon. I've been dreaming of that since I was 7.
I've never seen a groomsman-zilla. He was right earlier on: it's not his wedding or his day. If he doesn't like the clothes, he can bow out and just be a guest.
@@evagengler9666 He used the wrong word. Too upset or didn't have the vocabulary. That particular style, no jacket suspenders, that package, is very bougie, you'll see it at a Yacht Club, the 1975 class Harvard alumni meeting, an Episcopalian Church social etcetera. Not white, never at a Texas BBQ, or a debutante ball. Sometimes, the word white is just shorthand, not racist.
Agreed! He's doing way too much for someone who is meant to just stand there and smile for a few minutes. He's rude to the bride saying she doesn't know how to dress and calling the groom all types of names. He sounds bitter and a Lil racist.
That best man zilla story got me going in roller coasters tbh. First I thought it was a case of the groom being the typical "nobody else can look good except me" like bridezillas do. Then I saw the concept of what they were aiming for and was like that's not so bad bruh.
If she wanted him to know those things, she'd have taught him in the first place. She didn't because that way he'd always need her. Now she'll spend their marriage constantly criticizing the way his wife does all those things she used to do for him. Hoping that one day he'll leave his wife and move back home and she'll be needed again.
I had to wear a best man outfit once that had slightly baggy pants and a tight jacket that stopped at the beltline. I looked like a Persian palace servant from 500 years ago. It was a little embarrassing, but oh well.
My best friend's grandmother made my maid of honor dress for best friend's wedding. They moved the date up 6 months and told grandma last minute while she was working on suits for another wedding, that was paying her. She had 7 days to make 5 dresses. None of the dresses fit, we were taping and using pins to hold them together, they were falling apart all night, and were the ugliest shade of red ever. My other friend in the wedding never said a damn word to anyone. We grabbed our big girl pants, some pins, and dealt with it.
If your son *needs* a housewife cause he can’t do those chores himself it’s cause YOU didn’t raise him to be self-sufficient. And maybe it’s just me but that wedding cake selling on Facebook looks more moldy than like marble to me.
Reminds me when my bf's mom started chuckling that they sent him to AZ to live by himself. She laughed how she didn't get prepared to live by himself and called how to do laundry... I looked her dead in the eye said "Don't worry I taught him, I did your job for you". She thought I was joking. I'm still not.
The MIL who gave the the bride the "For Dummies" books is going to be a pain in the behind. Lady It was YOUR job to teach your son how to do things for himself; not your job to teach his wife how to do things for him!
The huddle thing is a trend. Seen several videos with grooms doing it. As a bride, I would realize my own answer needs to be a big no. You're marrying a toddler who will always put you behind his toddler friends.
The best man complaining about the groom's guys not being allowed to wear a suit jacket and pointing out that their buddy with the beer belly would end up looking like Homer Simpson was gold.
I was at a wedding many years ago, 1992 I believe. By 6:30 the cocaine had run out, one brother was chasing another brother around the pool with a baseball bat, another brother tossed the bride out the front door in her wedding dress. Good times, I left. Turns out the groom had never divorced his previous wife so ...yeah.
Weeell... There are limits to that. You have to feel moderately comfortable in your outfit too. But not having a suit jacket should pass that bar for sure.
I can see where you're coming from but there's also a lot of brides and grooms who purposely make their bridal party look terrible and tacky simply to make them look better. It sucks when you have to wear a dress that makes you look like a whale or a suit that is powder blue
I would have straight up told him “You’re not the best man anymore”. That shit was ridiculous as fuck for someone who should be honored to be the best man
If I'd been the groom I'd have just been so done long before this and said, "Okay, you're right. You'd look better in a full suit. So come in a full suit. AS A GUEST."
Not really agreed. Guy definitely was a complete ass asking like that, but the groom’s “it’ll make me stand out” excuse (a male equivalent of “it’s MY DAY”) would make even some accomodating people seriously question and argue over that dress code. Also, Best-man wasn’t wrong either: the jacket-less shirt with the suspenders will make him and the other groomsmen look like effin’ staff/waiters, as it’s truly only half of a dress - and ridiculous in a wedding which is clearly not gonna be a casual event since the groom will be dressed up in full.
For the bride who got the "for dummies" books, I have the perfect response. Give "Etiquette for Dummies" to her as a Christmas present. I think the groomsmen would look better in a suit. However, I wouldn't go full tilt diva over it. It's not my wedding photos that might look low rent.
3:52 _"MIL generally likes Bride, but frequently makes half joking remarks about her son needing a 'good housewife' because he can't do anything for himself. MIL is a housewife for context"_ I love when "traditional" mothers never teach their sons how to do anything for themselves because hes their "special little boy" and then try to just pass them off onto another woman to care for like a small helpless animal unable to walk after being carried around in a purse its whole life
Was a SAHM and my son was doing his own laundry from the time he could reach the buttons, helping me cook, and cleaning his own room. I can’t imagine why a person would want to raise a helpless man child.
To be fair, my husband I were also laughing hysterically at the faithful part at the rehersal. Officiant got seriously angry. Married 22 years now....both faithful.
@@tammydewhirst647 oh okay. cause in your comment you wrote in this persons defense that you two also were laughing histerically at the 'faithful part'. which isnt the samee as just sorta giggling all theway thru the rehearsal vows so i thought maybe you guys were just very open or poly. id definitely be pretty concerned if my spouse to be laughed alone at the alter when monogamy was promised loool
I’m in agreement with that guy lol. He should bring his matching jacket and insist he gets to keep his shirt pressed in the bridal suite until ten minutes before the ceremony then put jacket on for party.
Lots of men get sweaty, some have body image issues, dress shirts wrinkle and get ugly fast, not letting those guys have at least a smart looking vest was rude. I bet the bride made sure her bridesmaids were ugly and plain compared to her. Talk to your wedding party and work it out so they're comfortable but it works with what you like. I have worn a bridesmaid dress after we all begged for straps so we didn't have to wear strapless bras. Too many big breasted women for that and we were all uncomfortable the whole night. Your wedding party are your best friends, do you want them to remember being miserable at your wedding? I barely remember my friend's wedding, but I remember washing the ton of hairspray out of my hair from the sh*tty stylist we had to use and I remember seeing that crap strapless bra in my drawer for years until I threw the $50 thing out, never having worn it again. I should have just worn clear straps. It was miserable and she picked the most ghetto hair person. We all looked tacky and stupid. Talk to your friends and pick things together, I did that for my bridesmaid so she wouldn't spend a miserable evening.
The shirts they were actually gonna wear were a darker color, but the fact that he's bitching about it the day before rehearsals..... Dude buy your own jacket! Lol
The first one wasn’t their wedding, just engagement photos. Still messed up though. I think I heard somewhere that it was supposed to be a “joke” cause his mom wasn’t a big fan of him marrying a white girl and sarcastically said they should do slave themed photos, so they did.
The first one is so smart, honestly. Having to navigate your narcissist parents on your wedding day sounds like the very last thing I would want to do.
My sister’s husband’s uncle literally wore overalls and a plaid shirt to my sister’s rehearsal dinner. For context, my brother-in-law’s stepmom is pretty bougie and booked the fanciest country club in town in a gated community on top of a mountain for her stepson’s rehearsal dinner. It was a sit-down dinner with a cocktail hour and open bar fancier than the actual wedding reception. They had m&m’s with their faces printed on them in their wedding colors in crystal bowls on every table. Like all out kind of stuff. But my brother-in-law’s mom’s side of the family are pretty country and from a very small town. Clearly they had no idea what they were walking into. I mean, to be fair the dude is an actual literal farmer so maybe it can be excused a little but I’m willing to bet that’s the only overalls and flannel shirt combo The Ledges has ever seen.
I love when the MIL want good housewives for their sons, because they can't do anything by themselves, how little you trust your son's skills?... Moms and Dads, if you want your boy to always wear an crispy ironed shirt: Teach him how to do it. If you want your son's house/kitchen/fridge/clothes clean: Teach him how to do it.
I went to a wedding 2 weeks ago, uninvited and unannounced. 😅 The bride chewed gum during the ceremony. 😬 Didn't go to the reception since I wasn't invited but got all the hot gossip during the after party: Groom's sister and aunt got drunk, talked shit about the bride, insulted groom's mother and knocked over the gift table. Groom's father accused his MIL of traumatizing her daughter by being a working mom. Also, the alcohol at the after party was stolen goods from the reception. 😂
Why? I'm often nominated to speak up for groups (usually in work contexts) because I'm confident and don't mind standing up to authority whereas my colleagues don't like it. What's the problem?
@@altinjpn Because I just don’t like people, I find more comfort in silence then I do sitting at a table with girls my age snorting glitter from pound shop. Yes that actually happened it’s not a made up story.
The groom and the father of the bride getting into a fight brought back memories of my best friends wedding a few years ago. Both mother of bride and groom got into a fight right before the ceremony started. Cops were called, mother of groom left. My poor best friend looked mortified. They went through with the wedding. Groom turned out crazy and they divorced within months. She just got married for the second time to a great guy and they had a beautiful wedding!
If I’d got those For Dummies books I’d say “oh great, [husband] could really use these, he never learnt and I don’t have time to teach him what with my career and own life”. Or I’d be like “oh we won’t need these, I don’t even do my own cleaning - my successful career means we can afford help around the house”.
Adding a vest would definitely improve the Urkel look. But damn, do what the bride wants or don't be in the wedding. Your essay texts to the groom aren't going to change her mind.
Yea personally I would have added a vest and tie but I thought it looked pretty good. Don't know why he's trying to convince the groom if the bride but it together tho.
At first I thought the bestmanzilla had a point but when I realized it was the day before the wedding.... uh yeah that's too late to be changing stuff. And the bride and groom are paying for everything so you really have zero reasons to complain. 🤷♀️
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Shoutout to the groom who stood his ground. Groomsmen wearing dress shirts and not jackets is actually a really cool style and it’s how I want my wedding to be
I could definitely get behind the look if the buttons all matched, but he was right; that kind of shirt needs a cummerbund or a vest to cover the lower buttons. It still wouldn't be a full suit so the groom would stand out if he had a jacket on!
I felt the guy’s pain dealing with his best man. I’d just go berserk and shout “ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!”, then replace him. Glad that we don’t have those kind of ceremonial stuff in our weddings. Everyone wears his/her own outfit…in a standard of course. We have “marriage witnesses”, one for the bride and one for the groom. They can be anyone.
My FIL was standing with my MOH, my mom and dad, my MIL, and my Hubs best friend. He stood there and said "I bet this will end in a disaster", completely serious. Hub and I have been married 9.5 yrs together for 11.5 yrs.
10:00 If I had my BM/MOH pulled this at my wedding I would straight up tell them to just not come to the wedding at all if they're gonna have this much of an issue with the outfits, and simply removing them from being the BM/MOH to a guest will no doubt just result in them starting to complain about no longer being the BM/MOH. I'm totally onboard with them having opinions about the outfits as well as politely voicing said opinions("It's not really my colour, but if that's what you want", "I'm not really a fan of the outfit, but hey it's your choice", or "I'm not really comfortable with that type of dress" etc. ) and i'd even encourage it as I'll of course want them to be comfortable with the outfit as well, but this is beyond that.
yeah unless it's something they physically can't wear (like thin materials with no jacket in the middle of winter or a girl with bigger boobs being asked to wear a strapless dress with no boning) it's really not that big a deal, especially since he said the guy could change out of it after photos
Wasn't the wedding, was the engagement photos lol...groom was pissed at his mother because she has a problem with him marrying a white woman so he did it on purpose!!!
Consulting with the boys is honestly hilarious 😂 I can just imagine them taking turns to pop their head up and look at the bride make a silly face and go back to the huddle 😆 I wish my bf had more guy friends so that this could be a thing at my wedding its hilarious 😂
Ok I've got to say that all our family members said that my husband and I wouldn't last because we decided on the 3rd date we wanted to marry each other (we did a year and a half later) my husband and I have been married for 27 years now and we are the only ones on both sides that our still married while most are on their way to getting divorced from their 3rd spouse 🙄
Start a bet between you and your husband who will marry and re-divorce first, you get 3 picks and 1 wild card whoever is right gets to plan the next trip/day out. At least it'll make getting wedding invites more entertaining.
My husbands family said we wouldn’t last. We got married at twenty one. They said we were too young, we hadn’t graduated college yet, didn’t have our careers together, didn’t own houses or cars etc. on and on it went. They thought we should have waited until we had all our ducks in a row. We didn’t wait. Nearly twenty five years and four kids later and we are still together. Lasted the longest out of the family. Husbands Aunt (who objected the most) still acts critical of me, but tells everyone else when I’m not around that our children are wonderful, so well behaved, etc. hmmm. Wonder how that happened? They didn’t come out of the womb as total angels, we did BOTH have an active hand in raising our kids. But according to them we were too young and immature to get married. Just because materially, we didn’t own houses and land and have established careers already. I’m sorry? I don’t see that as a persons worth.
I once saw a video where the groom, before the kiss, turned to the groomsmen and had them help him check his hair, make sure that his shoes are tied, give him a breath mint to make sure that he has good breath, and give him a pad on the shoulder to basically tell him, “You got this bro.” It was honestly kind of funny and sweet. The bride also found it funny
I was scrolling comments to see if anyone else was a housewife before making my comment lol. You don't have to be a boomer to be a housewife. I love my job it's the only thing I ever wanted to be.
The bestmanzilla was being ridiculous. If he felt that way then this was a conversation that should have been had months ago. Not the day before the rehearsal dinner. The groom did well in not getting stressed and keeping the nonsense at bay.
As a small town Canadian girl who just likes to be comfortable I find men who want to look bougie really fascinating. My boyfriend is Hispanic American and he definitely dresses better than me
This whole thing with women being "desperate" to get married has gotten out of hand---in most of these situations, the bride should just have turned around at the altar and walked away before saying, "I do"; it saves A LOT of grief further down the line.
So for our wedding I and my husband decided on colors (lavender and heather grey). I went with them for a brief moment to the suit shop so I could give them my opinion on what they had picked out but other than that, I left it up to them. They all looked great.
So...it's also a little presumptuous, Charlotte, to say that being a housewife was for the older generation, as if no woman in this generation would choose to be a housewife. Women can choose to be whatever they want; career driven, housewife, whatever...I've been married 23 years and in that time, have been a stay at home mom as well as a career person. We raised two kids that way, and switched on and off staying at home so that each of us could pursue our own careers and also get to stay at home and spend time with our children. I've never gotten irritated or offended by anything you've said, Charlotte, but this one was a bad look. I'm a little disappointed. My husband and I both work now that our kids are grown, but there was nothing wrong with me choosing to stay at home for a little while to negate the necessity of paid child care. Woman in 2021 can still choose to be housewives if that's what they want, and there's nothing wrong with that.
100% agree, groom sounds super insecure. But it was the way the best man was acting, not the fact that he wasn't in the right. So much aggression for a freaking suit 😄😄 and it was only for a matter of hours.
The DIL gift one. If your son is so horrible that he can’t take care of himself and needs a “good housewife” to do it, then you have failed at raising your son.
he should be the one to receive those books lol
Bride to be should buy her a "parenting for dummies" in exchange ^^
@@tdelioncourt1268 😄😄 I love it!
I have seen mother do that to their sons (do everything for them), to keep their sons dependent on them. There is more going on than being a bad parent. It's about power over their kids.
Say it louder for the misogynists in the back
That wedding date for mother-in-law is brilliant.....need to pay a little more though....but brilliant none the less.
Honestly, someone should make a business out of that.
Hell, if I knew that was an option I'd pay someone to take my mother in law to another state for my wedding
Gimme $3500! Cash!😏💵
Actually, that's what escorts are for. lol you can book one on a professional site online
Wellll TBH they were paying for ALLLL his needs while there EXTRA it didnt come out of the original 1000.00. So room, food, traveling, those are most of the expensive parts .. sooo its not a bad deal honestly,. tho they should disclose the mils voice to see if you wanted to listen to that for two days lol
Lol isn’t there a Julia roberts movie about wedding dates?
My husband and I ultimately eloped cause... family. My husband's best man, his oldest friend, was a bestmanzilla. He insisted on tails and a top hat, like my husband was going to wear. My sister was my matron of honor, because that's what she decided, she insisted on her dress and dress color. I had no say. My flowers were picked by my mom, I again had no say. Showed them, we just went to Reno and got married, cancelled the wedding, and have been married for 20 years... totally worth it.
That's awesome! Took out the stress and made your special day for the both of you. I can't believe they all were trying to control your wedding.
Sorry it seemed it had to go that way but congratulations and happy 20 years to you both 💞💖☺️
@@ashensilverlake1889 it was a blessing. We didn't really want a big wedding anyway. We were doing it mostly for the families. In 20 years I have never once regretted eloping. It's the marriage that counts, not the over priced party.
I eloped because of Covid but I’m planning a small wedding because I wanted to celebrate with friends and family. One of my friends isn’t coming because of circumstances. I offered to pay for her hotel, flight, ect but she hasn’t said anything. Another mutual friend isn’t coming now because they need to save money for a house. I legit told my husband the other day we should just go alone lmao.
I love this! Good for you guys!!!!
The “For Dummies” books story. So if her son doesn’t know how to cook, clean and take care of himself, hasn’t she failed as a mother to raise a self-sufficient adult?? The joke is on her! She raised a useless adult 🤦🏾♀️
THIS. THIS is what I'm talkin about. You have enough audacity to try and "educate" me on how to be a "perfect" housewife when it's YOUR son that I'm doing it for?????? Oh. Uhhhhhhkay. 🤔✌🏾😒🙂
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Yeah, those books need be given forth to her son, not the wife. Duh. "Oh you giving me those? I am sure you made a mistake with the name on the labels when you wrapped the gift."
I would have 100% given those books to MIL's son after receiving them, in front of MIL. So your mom didn't teach you these things and thinks I should do it? Fuck that, he needs the For Dummies series, not her.
Yep. These useless men are raised by mothers who "love" their sons so much that they do everything for them..and thereby ruin them.
As we were leaving my wedding after the reception my bridesmaid, which I thought was a good friend, pulled me to the side and said “just so you know, I don’t think your marriage will last very long. You two just don’t make a good couple”. I walked away and never looked back or said a word. I have been marriage 35 years and haven’t spoken to her since that night.
Almost everyone at our wedding (200 people) took bets my husband and me would never make it 7 years. 30 years later and here we still are. We have lived through so many divorces ( friends and family) coming to us for advice. We really have no advice to give.
Just so you know, I am a total **shole. Just so you know.
What a very unwanted opinion, glad you cut her out of your life. 🎉
@angelsandfaes she was probably in love with your man and jealous
@@kkkristinaaa 100%
"There is always a little truth behind a Just Kidding"
So true!!!
Yeah, I hate when people say something weird or rude and then go "just kidding!", just say what you mean or say nothing.
"I couldn't be arsed to teach my son basic adulting skills because he's a MAN so he needs a new mommy lol jk"
@@stonefox2546 Just what I was going to say. Sounds like a parenting failure to me.
@Rulya Mórrigan Ard Mhacha you’re absolutely right,they’ll say something crazy then wait for your reaction. To see if you’re going to let it slide/ignore it or if you’re going to get upset and get on their ass. If it’s the former then it’ll keep happening more & more. If it’s the latter then that’s when you’d get the it’s only a joke and an apology because they’re trying to save face,keep you off their ass,and trying to save the friendship as well!!!
Yes indeed.
Cooking, Cleaning, Sewing etc. are survival skills and are taught by the military. That MIL should have taught her son how to take care of himself. My mother taught me how to cook, sew (I can do it, I'm just not very good) and how to clean up after myself.
Yea the whole "he needs a housewife, he can't take care of himself" just reads in my mind as "spoiled manchild who is too dumb to survive on his own." Could never marry someone like that
@@stormwright8300 Same!!! My husband can hunt, fish, sew, is great with technical stuff, works hard, etc :) and he even has learned some cooking skills from me ^_^ ♥
Shit, how old are you and are you single? My fave leggings have a hole lol
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Give it up for Neil everyone!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Everyone should know how to do these things.
The mother-in-law who gave the “dummies” books is going to try to be a third wheel in the marriage. If her son doesn’t stand up to her now and defend his fiancée, he never will.
She's admitting that her son is a dummy, notice, cooking FOR dummies etc.🤣😂🤣😂🤣
sounded so desi to me. " MY SON DOESN'T KNOW SHIT BUT YOU COME WITH ALL POSSIBLE SKILLS "
She should have given those books to her son lol
I would’ve said thanks! I’ll give them to your son. 🤣
@@susanvinson2667 right! like turn round and go "thank you so much he needed these!" and then hand them to him.
My uncle is a master of ceremony. He told us of the time the officiant asked the groom, and he waited with a sigh before he said "I do". The bride burst into tears. He thought he was being funny.
Very, very unfunny.
Boy, that humor style of making his wife look foolish in company is going to stress that marriage.
The bride who got the "for Dummies" books from her MIL should have made a big smile and said: "Oh, how thoughtful! I'm sure *enter the name of the groom* will find them very useful!"
lol!
Perfect! After all, if the woman raised her son to be unable to adult for himself, it's HER fault. And the wife is NOT his mother, and NOT his servant. She is his PARTNER.
Oh, I made the same comment under a different comment. I guess I was too late. 🌹
GAHAHAHAGYAGGHHHHGYYHB IM DYING
And also add “but you shouldn’t have taken them out of your personal collection, I’m sure you’re going to miss them!”
I swear I zoned out for most of that suit argument and when I zoned back in it was still going geez
Me too 😅
I bet the groom did that, too 😂
XD damn
To be honest, they should have had that discussion much earlier and maybe they found a compromise. To me the guys on the picture looked half dressed, maybe a vest could have helped if a full suit would have been out of the question.
@@ulrikesextro4187 THIS!
The one about taking bets for how long it would last reminds me of when I got married. Granted, my husband was only 17 and I was 18 and had only dated 2 months before we got married (and no, I was not pregnant). We have been happily married for going on 48 years 😊
I always think whenever people get married that quick they're either divorced in half that or die together
imagine being such a nightmare that your new daughter in law has to hire you, what is essentially, a babysitter to make sure you don't misbehave yourself.
yeah I know, Michael Scott did it for free ahahahahahahahahahahahah
Dealt with something extremely similar to the groomsman-zilla story for my wedding a couple weeks ago. My husband and I had the groomsman wearing the same black tuxedos and white shirts, but they were allowed to pick the pattern on their purple ties and vests. Best man (also the groom’s older brother) threw an absolute fit because he wanted a special, custom suit that was different from everyone else’s, and wanted to pick his own color and everything. Cussed us both out after we really kindly tried to explain the situation to him and give him options. There were problems before this too. He complained about how he didn’t want to take a half-day of PTO to drive down to our wedding and that he didn’t wanna pay for a hotel room. He constantly complained he didn’t want to plan the bachelor party or have anything to do with the groomsman because they’re “strangers”. We offered to give him a place to stay, pay for his entire trip, pay for his outfit, and more. He called us “entitled” for that, and complained that he was having to go out of his way and we weren’t willing to do “anything” for him. Ended up telling him he could attend as a guest and we’d be happy to see him then. Made one of the groomsman our best man, and found another groomsman that same day; best decision we could’ve made. The best man had been causing drama for months, and a massive weight was lifted when he became a guest instead.
When I moved in with my boyfriend, his mother showed me how they clean windows and hang up curtains, "cause it's quite specific, you know". As if I'd never cleaned a window or hung a curtain in my life. But yeah, she's now my mother-in-law and treats both me and my husband like little kids incapable of taking care of ourselves instead of the 36-year-old grown-ups with double masters both and two kids. It's ridiculous.
That "slave/master" wedding is insane. I wonder how his family felt about it ... 😬
they have to be trolling but even that is too far, I'd never attend such a wedding.
Oh as a black person I can tell you. "Nigga have you lost your mind? He not allowed back at the cookouts or family reunions. Don't call us if they do some "Get Out" shit to you"
@@hawkeyemadi half my bio family is black too, ofc im white passing, but yeah ... that's an instant ban from the family!!!
That was literally my first thought. Like what dafuq is this shit
Shit I hadn’t even thought of that! Like, we’re they told beforehand? Did they refuse to attend? I pray to god they did refuse, smh
With the groomsman trying so hard to wear a suit....and yet putting it off till the last minute to bring up this battle.....I am 100% certain Charlotte is right, he is into someone in the bridal party.
I feel like he's a real life Barney from How I Met Your Mother.
Totally agree and I think everyone is overlooking his ‘other’ issues too! 🤔
He mentioned that he mentioned it over a year ago, defo not last minute he's been fighting for this for a while.
@@Beanz-on-Toast He mentioned it a year ago, but what happened between then and the day before the wedding? It sounds like it was radio silence, which means he wasn't fighting for it. Let's be real, if he was fighting for it that whole time, he would have been kicked out of the bridal party.
@@alisaishere Exactly
When my dad gave my sister away at her wedding and the preacher asked “who gives this bride” he turned around to my brothers and said “idk what do we think” now that was funny! We have older brothers and they’re very protective of us. Everyone knew my dad was joking and it’s a funny memory for everyone now
I like how the groomsman tried making the groom feel like shit for not letting him wear a full suit, and the groom really couldn't care less lol
Yeah that was so damn refreshing.
I can’t stand people who talk like that too 😂😂
The groomman is clearly racist.
Imagine a white person saying that about black people: I don't want to wear like this, this is how black people dress.
He has a stereotyped vision of how white people act.
He has a stereotyped vision of how black people act.
The groomsman brother also came across as racist on top of it. Like he was being disrespectful to his brother for marrying a white woman. And was being rather hateful the entire time of seeing white people or "white people attire". Dude has some issues.
@@shannonhill5676that’s what I was hearing too. 😂 But I checked Reddit & the bride responded to the post!! She is also black, but the groomsman complaining was dating a white girl & his son is 1/2 white. Bride thought it was weird too! 😂
I can't believe the groom was even entertaining all that conversation about suits for HIS wedding day 🤣 He's a good one!
“Awful mother in laws” needs to be its own video!
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@@CharlotteDobre there's a whole subreddit for it too, r/JustNoMIL
MotherS-in-law ... the mothers are plural, not the laws 🤷🏾♀️
@@moimeself1088 I consider myself schooled 🙄
@@Scarycats234 lol sorry, pet peeve 🤭🙈
Why didn’t that MIL train her son better if he can’t do anything for himself?!?!
Right? That'd be a big red flag to me.
She should give her books titled things like "Do-Over: Teaching Your Adult Children Independent Living..for Dummies"
Sounds like she doesn't think a man *should* know how to do a damn thing himself, pretty sure in her mind that's what a wife is for...
Because she's the kind of person who thinks housework is the woman's job
She should have bought him the "for dummies" books if she was going to stick her nose in.
I think they went for a marble look for the cake at 5:30 but to me it just looks very... very moldy. I love cake but I probably wouldn't touch that.
was just gonna say that! was just going to ask if there's anything wrong with my monitor and I was the only one seeing a moldy cake.
Bride at cake shop looking at photos: No, no, I want more of a granite look. Think marble, think old cement. Like it has to hold up the parthenon. I've been dreaming of that since I was 7.
That cake looks disgusting.
Zombie cake
It dosent look mouldy to me it looks like a really good cake.
I've never seen a groomsman-zilla. He was right earlier on: it's not his wedding or his day. If he doesn't like the clothes, he can bow out and just be a guest.
He dropped so many n-words, she missed blurring one out in editing. 🤣
He was really insulting white people, too. God forbid the groomsmen resemble the white men modeling these clothes, right? That would just be AWFUL!
@@evagengler9666 He used the wrong word. Too upset or didn't have the vocabulary. That particular style, no jacket suspenders, that package, is very bougie, you'll see it at a Yacht Club, the 1975 class Harvard alumni meeting, an Episcopalian Church social etcetera. Not white, never at a Texas BBQ, or a debutante ball. Sometimes, the word white is just shorthand, not racist.
@@heidikickhouse- he went on an awful lot about white men though..lol ...
Agreed! He's doing way too much for someone who is meant to just stand there and smile for a few minutes. He's rude to the bride saying she doesn't know how to dress and calling the groom all types of names. He sounds bitter and a Lil racist.
That best man zilla story got me going in roller coasters tbh. First I thought it was a case of the groom being the typical "nobody else can look good except me" like bridezillas do. Then I saw the concept of what they were aiming for and was like that's not so bad bruh.
Why didn't the mother-in-law buy all of those "dummy" books for her son instead?
jennerbug27, What? And miss a chance to show her contempt for her daughter-in-law??? How could you suggest such a thing?!
If she wanted him to know those things, she'd have taught him in the first place. She didn't because that way he'd always need her. Now she'll spend their marriage constantly criticizing the way his wife does all those things she used to do for him. Hoping that one day he'll leave his wife and move back home and she'll be needed again.
To a mom her boy is never in the wrong.....
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@@SonjaElizabethTeal AWW THANKS!
I had to wear a best man outfit once that had slightly baggy pants and a tight jacket that stopped at the beltline. I looked like a Persian palace servant from 500 years ago. It was a little embarrassing, but oh well.
My best friend's grandmother made my maid of honor dress for best friend's wedding. They moved the date up 6 months and told grandma last minute while she was working on suits for another wedding, that was paying her. She had 7 days to make 5 dresses. None of the dresses fit, we were taping and using pins to hold them together, they were falling apart all night, and were the ugliest shade of red ever. My other friend in the wedding never said a damn word to anyone. We grabbed our big girl pants, some pins, and dealt with it.
It's because of posts like this that I wish pics could be attached lol
He was being super extra, but that 💩 was tacky🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I laughed so hard at that comparison 😂😂😂
@@jocec820 You sound delightful! Get the big girl pants and some pins and you got all you need
If your son *needs* a housewife cause he can’t do those chores himself it’s cause YOU didn’t raise him to be self-sufficient.
And maybe it’s just me but that wedding cake selling on Facebook looks more moldy than like marble to me.
Reminds me when my bf's mom started chuckling that they sent him to AZ to live by himself. She laughed how she didn't get prepared to live by himself and called how to do laundry... I looked her dead in the eye said "Don't worry I taught him, I did your job for you". She thought I was joking. I'm still not.
Not just you, that cake was ugly af and definitely looked moldy😂
@@therealtrissmerigold it looked awful!
Yeah.. that was NOT a nice cake. What is Charolette thinking? Looks crusty, moldy and that red looks like raw meat.
I thought that! Not an appealing-looking cake at all. Though it may look better in real life, and clearly a great deal of effort went into it.
The MIL who gave the the bride the "For Dummies" books is going to be a pain in the behind. Lady It was YOUR job to teach your son how to do things for himself; not your job to teach his wife how to do things for him!
Exactly. MIL forgot that this isn't the 1950's. The fact that she has a grown ass son, with no survival skills says worse about her than the bride.
The huddle thing is a trend. Seen several videos with grooms doing it.
As a bride, I would realize my own answer needs to be a big no.
You're marrying a toddler who will always put you behind his toddler friends.
The best man complaining about the groom's guys not being allowed to wear a suit jacket and pointing out that their buddy with the beer belly would end up looking like Homer Simpson was gold.
I was at a wedding many years ago, 1992 I believe. By 6:30 the cocaine had run out, one brother was chasing another brother around the pool with a baseball bat, another brother tossed the bride out the front door in her wedding dress. Good times, I left. Turns out the groom had never divorced his previous wife so ...yeah.
OMG I can imagine the photo album 😂
As long as the groom is paying for the outfit, wear it. You're not there to look good, you're there to support your friend.
Weeell... There are limits to that. You have to feel moderately comfortable in your outfit too. But not having a suit jacket should pass that bar for sure.
@@nahadoth2087 I don't think I'd have an issue with a unicorn outfit. But a stripper's outfit with heels I will hurt my ankles in - no.
I can see where you're coming from but there's also a lot of brides and grooms who purposely make their bridal party look terrible and tacky simply to make them look better. It sucks when you have to wear a dress that makes you look like a whale or a suit that is powder blue
That Bestmanzilla story was EVERYTHING!🤣 You just know he didn't smile in any of the wedding pics.
Hope the bride who received all the “for dummies” books said, “your son will love these and put them to good use! What did you get for me?”
Bestmanzilla will continue to be a hyperopinionated pain in EVERYONE'S ass long after this wedding, I guarantee it.
I would have straight up told him “You’re not the best man anymore”. That shit was ridiculous as fuck for someone who should be honored to be the best man
It was his brother too... 😳🤯
If I'd been the groom I'd have just been so done long before this and said,
"Okay, you're right. You'd look better in a full suit. So come in a full suit. AS A GUEST."
Not really agreed.
Guy definitely was a complete ass asking like that, but the groom’s “it’ll make me stand out” excuse (a male equivalent of “it’s MY DAY”) would make even some accomodating people seriously question and argue over that dress code.
Also, Best-man wasn’t wrong either: the jacket-less shirt with the suspenders will make him and the other groomsmen look like effin’ staff/waiters, as it’s truly only half of a dress - and ridiculous in a wedding which is clearly not gonna be a casual event since the groom will be dressed up in full.
@@LucienSabre I always wondered what was the male equivalent of "This is my day" for men in weddings.
The bridezilla, groomzilla and wedding ones are my favourite! Such gems! 😂😂
For the bride who got the "for dummies" books, I have the perfect response. Give "Etiquette for Dummies" to her as a Christmas present.
I think the groomsmen would look better in a suit. However, I wouldn't go full tilt diva over it. It's not my wedding photos that might look low rent.
3:52 _"MIL generally likes Bride, but frequently makes half joking remarks about her son needing a 'good housewife' because he can't do anything for himself. MIL is a housewife for context"_
I love when "traditional" mothers never teach their sons how to do anything for themselves because hes their "special little boy" and then try to just pass them off onto another woman to care for like a small helpless animal unable to walk after being carried around in a purse its whole life
Was a SAHM and my son was doing his own laundry from the time he could reach the buttons, helping me cook, and cleaning his own room. I can’t imagine why a person would want to raise a helpless man child.
To be fair, my husband I were also laughing hysterically at the faithful part at the rehersal. Officiant got seriously angry. Married 22 years now....both faithful.
Seriously. All the reading into every little thing is getting tiresome.
genuine question ... can i ask why that was funny tho?
@@bm-ww8kb it wasn’t that the idea of fidelity was funny it was the day before wedding giddiness and nerves.
@@tammydewhirst647 oh okay. cause in your comment you wrote in this persons defense that you two also were laughing histerically at the 'faithful part'. which isnt the samee as just sorta giggling all theway thru the rehearsal vows so i thought maybe you guys were just very open or poly. id definitely be pretty concerned if my spouse to be laughed alone at the alter when monogamy was promised loool
That wedding cake for sale looks like something from the nightmare before Christmas or corpse bride.
With cat food inserts.
I thought it looked mouldy lol
Looked like Stale cheese to me. Like almost rotten.
@@emmaeglantine me too!
Looks like a zombie cake. Kind of rotten but not completely dead
Homeboy probably sweats a lot and needs a jacket to hide it or something.
I’m in agreement with that guy lol. He should bring his matching jacket and insist he gets to keep his shirt pressed in the bridal suite until ten minutes before the ceremony then put jacket on for party.
Lots of men get sweaty, some have body image issues, dress shirts wrinkle and get ugly fast, not letting those guys have at least a smart looking vest was rude. I bet the bride made sure her bridesmaids were ugly and plain compared to her. Talk to your wedding party and work it out so they're comfortable but it works with what you like. I have worn a bridesmaid dress after we all begged for straps so we didn't have to wear strapless bras. Too many big breasted women for that and we were all uncomfortable the whole night. Your wedding party are your best friends, do you want them to remember being miserable at your wedding? I barely remember my friend's wedding, but I remember washing the ton of hairspray out of my hair from the sh*tty stylist we had to use and I remember seeing that crap strapless bra in my drawer for years until I threw the $50 thing out, never having worn it again. I should have just worn clear straps. It was miserable and she picked the most ghetto hair person. We all looked tacky and stupid. Talk to your friends and pick things together, I did that for my bridesmaid so she wouldn't spend a miserable evening.
I was thinking it might be something like this. Sweat stains look terrible and can be very embarrassing.
The shirts they were actually gonna wear were a darker color, but the fact that he's bitching about it the day before rehearsals..... Dude buy your own jacket! Lol
@@e.k_liadon He wanted to buy his own, but was not allowed
The first one wasn’t their wedding, just engagement photos. Still messed up though. I think I heard somewhere that it was supposed to be a “joke” cause his mom wasn’t a big fan of him marrying a white girl and sarcastically said they should do slave themed photos, so they did.
I need this to be true so bad...
Oh okay that makes sense if his mother is a racist witch.
@Jelly Bean so true! It’s just wrong on every level no matter the “reasoning” behind it.
That's a joke that not many people are laughing at
That wasn’t sarcastic. It’s self hate and racist. It’s disgusting and embarrassing.
The first one is so smart, honestly. Having to navigate your narcissist parents on your wedding day sounds like the very last thing I would want to do.
My sister’s husband’s uncle literally wore overalls and a plaid shirt to my sister’s rehearsal dinner. For context, my brother-in-law’s stepmom is pretty bougie and booked the fanciest country club in town in a gated community on top of a mountain for her stepson’s rehearsal dinner. It was a sit-down dinner with a cocktail hour and open bar fancier than the actual wedding reception. They had m&m’s with their faces printed on them in their wedding colors in crystal bowls on every table. Like all out kind of stuff. But my brother-in-law’s mom’s side of the family are pretty country and from a very small town. Clearly they had no idea what they were walking into. I mean, to be fair the dude is an actual literal farmer so maybe it can be excused a little but I’m willing to bet that’s the only overalls and flannel shirt combo The Ledges has ever seen.
My favourite part of any Charlotte video is when she doesn't get the joke... Priceless my queen 🥔
I love when the MIL want good housewives for their sons, because they can't do anything by themselves, how little you trust your son's skills?... Moms and Dads, if you want your boy to always wear an crispy ironed shirt: Teach him how to do it. If you want your son's house/kitchen/fridge/clothes clean: Teach him how to do it.
The cake on 5:30 looks more like an artifact found on the bottom of the ocean haha.
I went to a wedding 2 weeks ago, uninvited and unannounced. 😅 The bride chewed gum during the ceremony. 😬 Didn't go to the reception since I wasn't invited but got all the hot gossip during the after party: Groom's sister and aunt got drunk, talked shit about the bride, insulted groom's mother and knocked over the gift table. Groom's father accused his MIL of traumatizing her daughter by being a working mom. Also, the alcohol at the after party was stolen goods from the reception. 😂
@9:20, Charlotte added the word loud and then continues to say that word is an understatement. I love you so much!
Try to avoid people who regularly claim: 'I'm not just speaking for myself, everyone else feels the same way'.
More like try to avoid any kind of people. I don’t like people, humanity is so much work.
You say something nice to someone and you get blocked.
Why? I'm often nominated to speak up for groups (usually in work contexts) because I'm confident and don't mind standing up to authority whereas my colleagues don't like it. What's the problem?
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What problem? They don’t like that you take the hard scary shit? Or you’re asking why I don’t like people?
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Because I just don’t like people, I find more comfort in silence then I do sitting at a table with girls my age snorting glitter from pound shop. Yes that actually happened it’s not a made up story.
So true!
The application for the mother in law i cannot 🤣🤣
That wedding cake looks like it's covered in mildew
Yeah, you've really gotta go out of your way to make me look at cake and think "No thanks"...but this one does it in spades.
I think it looks like a rotting body.
Disgusting, all right. It makes me wonder whose crazy idea it was, and if they were on something when they came up with the idea.
The groom and the father of the bride getting into a fight brought back memories of my best friends wedding a few years ago. Both mother of bride and groom got into a fight right before the ceremony started. Cops were called, mother of groom left. My poor best friend looked mortified. They went through with the wedding. Groom turned out crazy and they divorced within months. She just got married for the second time to a great guy and they had a beautiful wedding!
If I’d got those For Dummies books I’d say “oh great, [husband] could really use these, he never learnt and I don’t have time to teach him what with my career and own life”. Or I’d be like “oh we won’t need these, I don’t even do my own cleaning - my successful career means we can afford help around the house”.
Ohmegod, that groomsman was Beyonce level diva. Love it.
*give me more*
His dream is to be in a video clip singing "all the single men, all the single men"......
@@darrenrobinson9041 ha, indeed.
*all the singles hate me uhuhoh*
Adding a vest would definitely improve the Urkel look. But damn, do what the bride wants or don't be in the wedding. Your essay texts to the groom aren't going to change her mind.
I really don't understand what was wrong with that look anyway? I mean it looked good regardless if he was wearing a vest or not
@@deepakmenon6720 It's a matter of personal opinion/taste. I thought it was okay as it was but think with vests would be better.
With the top 4 or 5 buttons being jeweled & the bottom ones plain, it will look incomplete. Something to cover them (vest/cumberbun) would look best.
Yea personally I would have added a vest and tie but I thought it looked pretty good. Don't know why he's trying to convince the groom if the bride but it together tho.
Yep lol.
Ah, "Just kidding", the passive aggressive call of the toxic MIL 😆
In a lot of cases "Just kidding" is a way of saying crap but not taking responsibility for it.
Excellent Charlotte just fabulous xx
I love the wedding videos. People really reach deep inside themselves and bring out the extra crazy for the weddings.
I would have told that guy to forget about being in the wedding party, and he could wear whatever he wanted to wherever he ended up going.
At first I thought the bestmanzilla had a point but when I realized it was the day before the wedding.... uh yeah that's too late to be changing stuff. And the bride and groom are paying for everything so you really have zero reasons to complain. 🤷♀️
Why did he agree to be the best man if he didn't want to dress the way the groom wanted him to?
Hello There stumbled across your channel a while ago and seriously when I feel like having a good laugh I watch some of your videos! You are hilarious! Greetings from Europe! 🙂
That groomzilla would’ve been banned from my wedding if that was my wedding! Like wtf not your decisions! 😅
Shoutout to the groom who stood his ground. Groomsmen wearing dress shirts and not jackets is actually a really cool style and it’s how I want my wedding to be
Dude I actually like the way those groomsmen were supposed to dress 😭
I was thinking the same thing. A dude in suspenders and no jacket is casual but handsome
I could definitely get behind the look if the buttons all matched, but he was right; that kind of shirt needs a cummerbund or a vest to cover the lower buttons. It still wouldn't be a full suit so the groom would stand out if he had a jacket on!
Uncle Beau at Mike and Natalie's farce of a wedding 😂 God bless, 90 Day Fiance franchise.
I felt the guy’s pain dealing with his best man. I’d just go berserk and shout “ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!”, then replace him. Glad that we don’t have those kind of ceremonial stuff in our weddings. Everyone wears his/her own outfit…in a standard of course. We have “marriage witnesses”, one for the bride and one for the groom. They can be anyone.
My FIL was standing with my MOH, my mom and dad, my MIL, and my Hubs best friend. He stood there and said "I bet this will end in a disaster", completely serious. Hub and I have been married 9.5 yrs together for 11.5 yrs.
10:00 If I had my BM/MOH pulled this at my wedding I would straight up tell them to just not come to the wedding at all if they're gonna have this much of an issue with the outfits, and simply removing them from being the BM/MOH to a guest will no doubt just result in them starting to complain about no longer being the BM/MOH.
I'm totally onboard with them having opinions about the outfits as well as politely voicing said opinions("It's not really my colour, but if that's what you want", "I'm not really a fan of the outfit, but hey it's your choice", or "I'm not really comfortable with that type of dress" etc. ) and i'd even encourage it as I'll of course want them to be comfortable with the outfit as well, but this is beyond that.
yeah unless it's something they physically can't wear (like thin materials with no jacket in the middle of winter or a girl with bigger boobs being asked to wear a strapless dress with no boning) it's really not that big a deal, especially since he said the guy could change out of it after photos
Sometimes Charlotte's videos make me laugh so hard that people will slowly start moving away.
The plantation wedding…OMG… even my 85 year old Mum thought WTF when she saw that. There’s no way I would go to that wedding…!
Wasn't the wedding, was the engagement photos lol...groom was pissed at his mother because she has a problem with him marrying a white woman so he did it on purpose!!!
@@RedRoseSeptember22 if that was the case it makes sense… otherwise it’s madness…!
Never gift anyone a "for dummies" book. I understand why I would buy them for myself but it's not cool as a gift.
Consulting with the boys is honestly hilarious 😂 I can just imagine them taking turns to pop their head up and look at the bride make a silly face and go back to the huddle 😆 I wish my bf had more guy friends so that this could be a thing at my wedding its hilarious 😂
4:00 If the groom can’t do anything for himself, then his mother ought to finish raising him before he gets married.
the wedding cake at 5:18 looks like it is rotting.
I'm okay with people having their wedding ceremonies at old plantations because they're beautiful and historical. But what the f*ck!
Maybe those 2 just into bedroom cosplay and it got a bit too far... 🤔😉
@@chrisblanco8593 Yeah that's a possibility.
I don't know that I would want a wedding in a place where so much human suffering has taken place, no matter how pretty it looked.
turns out his mother was racist towards the white girl so they decided to troll the shit out of their engagement photos
Ok I've got to say that all our family members said that my husband and I wouldn't last because we decided on the 3rd date we wanted to marry each other (we did a year and a half later) my husband and I have been married for 27 years now and we are the only ones on both sides that our still married while most are on their way to getting divorced from their 3rd spouse 🙄
Start a bet between you and your husband who will marry and re-divorce first, you get 3 picks and 1 wild card whoever is right gets to plan the next trip/day out. At least it'll make getting wedding invites more entertaining.
My husbands family said we wouldn’t last. We got married at twenty one. They said we were too young, we hadn’t graduated college yet, didn’t have our careers together, didn’t own houses or cars etc. on and on it went. They thought we should have waited until we had all our ducks in a row. We didn’t wait. Nearly twenty five years and four kids later and we are still together. Lasted the longest out of the family. Husbands Aunt (who objected the most) still acts critical of me, but tells everyone else when I’m not around that our children are wonderful, so well behaved, etc. hmmm. Wonder how that happened? They didn’t come out of the womb as total angels, we did BOTH have an active hand in raising our kids. But according to them we were too young and immature to get married. Just because materially, we didn’t own houses and land and have established careers already. I’m sorry? I don’t see that as a persons worth.
I once saw a video where the groom, before the kiss, turned to the groomsmen and had them help him check his hair, make sure that his shoes are tied, give him a breath mint to make sure that he has good breath, and give him a pad on the shoulder to basically tell him, “You got this bro.” It was honestly kind of funny and sweet. The bride also found it funny
9:15 "No one is being extra loud but you." Char- "Loud is an understatement". It didn't even say loud!
Funny how there's a pic of Mike marrying Natalie from 90 day's
I spat out my water and screamed “uncle bo!” The most stylish man in Washington state.
🤣🤣🤣 if you know then you know!
Is that the mayo guy ?
@@EC-bh7ww Me too!!
Glad I wasn’t the only one who recognized them!
I'm a housewife, but by our choice. We decided together. Though I do write freelance content for a job, when I want to.
I was scrolling comments to see if anyone else was a housewife before making my comment lol. You don't have to be a boomer to be a housewife. I love my job it's the only thing I ever wanted to be.
Im a house hubby? Does that count?
@@thefifthaceassociation as far as I'm concerned it does :)
Nothing wrong with housewives :)
@@beeapple5369 Happy housewife here :)
The consulting with the boys is actually a traditional wedding joke. Its still funny to see it actually unfolds infront of your eyes 😂
Had this playing in my earbuds and Charlotte said “gotta love gig economy” LITERALLY as I was walking out of work after a gig 🤣🥴
The bestmanzilla was being ridiculous. If he felt that way then this was a conversation that should have been had months ago. Not the day before the rehearsal dinner. The groom did well in not getting stressed and keeping the nonsense at bay.
As a small town Canadian girl who just likes to be comfortable I find men who want to look bougie really fascinating. My boyfriend is Hispanic American and he definitely dresses better than me
“I just don’t know what to think of it”
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Popular Opinion: Every single one of ya'll agrees that my G Char's TOP made our day Better:
Most def 👌
Charlotte makes every day better, no matter what she's wearing.
Always YES!
Aaahhh! These wedding ones are my favourite!! Please keep them coming!! 🤣
The girl who got the for dummies books should have just gone, "Great! Thank! I'll pass it onto [husband]"
I'd totally hang out with the difficult MIL for 1k. Seems fair.
An old friend of the family divorced his wife after only 40 days...
Damn, that's quicker than Kim K's 72 day marriage!
This whole thing with women being "desperate" to get married has gotten out of hand---in most of these situations, the bride should just have turned around at the altar and walked away before saying, "I do"; it saves A LOT of grief further down the line.
So for our wedding I and my husband decided on colors (lavender and heather grey). I went with them for a brief moment to the suit shop so I could give them my opinion on what they had picked out but other than that, I left it up to them. They all looked great.
The Best-Man-Zilla put me through the FLOOR. “Has the Diva finally calmed down?” 😂😂😂
A friend of mine paid a man to go to her daughter’s wedding with her in order to make her ex jealous. 😊
that cake looks mouldy AF
So...it's also a little presumptuous, Charlotte, to say that being a housewife was for the older generation, as if no woman in this generation would choose to be a housewife. Women can choose to be whatever they want; career driven, housewife, whatever...I've been married 23 years and in that time, have been a stay at home mom as well as a career person. We raised two kids that way, and switched on and off staying at home so that each of us could pursue our own careers and also get to stay at home and spend time with our children. I've never gotten irritated or offended by anything you've said, Charlotte, but this one was a bad look. I'm a little disappointed. My husband and I both work now that our kids are grown, but there was nothing wrong with me choosing to stay at home for a little while to negate the necessity of paid child care. Woman in 2021 can still choose to be housewives if that's what they want, and there's nothing wrong with that.
11:40 No, I agree with the other guys. They shouldn't look bad. The groom still can stand out even if his buddies wear suits.
100% agree, groom sounds super insecure. But it was the way the best man was acting, not the fact that he wasn't in the right. So much aggression for a freaking suit 😄😄 and it was only for a matter of hours.
@@iulia.bianca.b no it’s not their wedding. they need to get over it. it’s one day
The Mother In-law date... Your eyes shifting to Naked man at the end...ahhh yes, perfect choice.🤣