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Why Am I Such a Control Freak? And How Do I Stop?
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- Опубліковано 3 сер 2024
- Are you a control freak? Do you KNOW that it’s getting in the way of your peace and fulfilment? If you are wondering why you are so controlling and you want to know how to stop then watch Personal Development Coach Mischaela Richter explain why we engage in controlling behaviour. She outlines 5 steps to help you shift your mindset, let go of control and GO WITH THE FLOW.
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❤. Thank you for sharing your experience and ways to overcome. I’m realizing my controlling behaviors is the result of my current situation. I didn’t want to believe it, cause how could I be wrong 😉..😂this actually relieved some anxiety ❤️Thank the Lord for you and thank you 🙏🏾
I got so much out of this video. THANK YOU for taking the time to share!!
I'm a Controle Freak and I found out today, after 53 years! All you say sounds like me. I thought i was crazy, a bad person, depressed ... Knowing makes me feel a lot better already. I'm going to implement your advice.
I'm so glad you found this helpful!
I'm 25 and answered yes to all those questions. I have to be in control of every situation in my life. But it's causing a lot of stress in my life.
First of all, good for you for noticing this. That’s a huge first step because you can’t change what you aren’t aware of! Which of the tips in my video can you put to practice?
I'm trying to let things out of my control, go. Can't change it, you shouldn't hold on to it.
@@allisonclark8787 yes, surrendering to what you can’t control will give you back your time and mental energy that you can focus on lifting yourself up in other ways!
Thank you Mischaela!
So My Brother Has Always Told Me Im A Control Freak Because He Is One. Of Course I Never Believed Him. Just Because You’re One Doesnt Mean I’m One. So I Thought It Would Be A Great Idea To Look Up Videos && Get An Accurate Definition or Signs && Symptoms Of A Control Freak. && Guess What My Brother Was Right. After Listening To You Speak I Have Concluded This Whole Video Was About Me. 🤦🏾♀️ I’m 32 && I Just Found Out I’m A Control Freak. I’m Ashamed. 😂 Great Video!
Really helpful thank you
Women who are control freaks are the BEST!
Loved your advice on how to stop being a control freak! Can't wait to try this out!
Great talk, thanks!
I really needed this
It makes me realize why there are some people who can't control their behavior. Thank you for sharing your knowledge about this topic.
Seah Altura it’s certainly challenging to control our behaviour when there are long running patterns at play, but it’s not impossible! The person has to be WILLING to change first and foremost because it takes time and practice to overcome old patterns.
Great video ❤️ so interesting
Great tips...thank you!
Thanks for the awesome helpful tips...
thank you for outlining the steps so well!
Thank you for saying so!
EXCELLENT VIDEO! packed with super valuable information. Thank you
I appreciate the kind words!
Loved this video. Thank you for your advice.
Thank you for tuning in!
hehe, sounds familiar. awesome tips, love them! thank you for sharing :)
That was great! I feel like i needed this...
I'm glad I'm not alone! Thanks for watching:)
Yes, have to close my eyes.. hold them up, and let it goooo. I need to do this exercise for sure at times. Very nice share, keep it coming.. hope we can inspire one antler, new Sub !!
Trust me I need to do this exercise on the DAILY. Thanks for watching!
Yes yes and YES lol I answered all of the above as well😂 I've gotten better and have come a long way but it's still there somewhat lol. These tips are super helpful♥️
It's something I have to work at every day, some days more than others. It's all about those three Trusts! Thanks for watching!
relatable!!
Does this serve me or does it not! Brilliant in letting go! Great video!
Thank you! It's a question I ask myself a lot!
I'm getting better!! Hahaha recovering control freak for sure. Thanks for this! Hahahaha I still need to chill TF out. Hope you've been well!
Ciara Rubin I need to remind myself every DAY to chill TF out!! Summertime activities help. Lots of floating on the lake going on and it doesn’t get more chill than that!
Yes. Yes. Yes. I know I’m a control freak! I guess I really SHOULD work on it. I guess. 🥴
Lol I get it! I feel that resistance too! There's definitely times where it CAN serve us and those around us, we just need to work on the times where it DOESN'T serve. Thanks for watching!
This sounds a lot like me...being an entrepreneur has turned me into a control freak for sure lol....thank you for these tips! I’m learning to let go a little bit more lol!
I HEAR YA on the entrepreneur thing! I can't even imagine throwing 'Mom' into that mix! Working on letting go as well. It's a daily practice!
If the title of the video read, How to expand your mind! It would fit.
It's wealth of truly usable information for any level.
Thank you for this lovely feedback!
Funny, light, a bit edgy video. Loved it! Already chilled the F* out a bit more :D
But yeah no, lately I have given up trying to control the things I have no power over and it took like exactly 51% of weight, anxiety and other nasty stuff off the shoulders.
Like you said, have a plan B, but dont go too far.
Where did you learn all this stuff?
Oh and cool name Richter.. like the scale. Your channel will surely make some waves of magnitude soon! :D
Thank you for tuning in! I learned a lot of it from being WILDLY curious about the human experience for most of my life, ie. listening to people, reading books, podcasts, retreats, etc. and I learned a lot from my coach training through the Coactive Training Institute (www.coactive.com). It's a life long process of learning though. Thank you for the kind words!
Thank you for posting this video. It was recently brought to my attention that I might have control issues by my coworkers. So the ceniario of being a manager is to delegate that is in the best interest of the company and not ones self. Please correct me if I'm wrong. I am told that asking others not to do things a certain way is considered controlling. I understand that people need to learn from their own failures but when they don't learn and one tries to give them guidance, is that considered controlling? I want to be a better leader and when I'm told I'm controlling it hurt. I been looking online and reading and educating myself about it and I do admit I have some traits that would label me as controlling and would like to learn more. I feel I have entered my second half af life as Richard Rohr states in his book Falling upward, but for a person in a leadership role, what is the line of managing and being controlling?
The phrase 'ask don't tell' comes to mind here. Do you know why your team members aren't doing what is asked of them? What is getting in their way? The more questions we ask, the more information we gather that helps us understand the other person's perspective. This will give you valuable info to use in tailoring your leadership of them. People don't respond well to authoritarianism. People want to be seen, heard and understood. Then they will be more likely to show up fully in their role.
Does this land? What does this bring up for you?
@@MischaelaRichter Thank you for replying back to my comment. This does land for me yes. What does it bring up for me you ask, well it brings up a very defensive side of me that I try to keep in check from reacting impulsively. It has taken a lot of work and time on my part to get to where i am today mentally and spiritually. I still have a long way to go. The work never stops. But back to the topic at hand, yes, I am aware of why team members are not doing their part and what is getting in their way. The environment is a very social atmosphere and a lot of the times people do not care to take responsibility for their actions or want to go into a victimized state of mind. In saying that we pride ourselves in caring about one another and we are very family oriented. And unfortunately, some take advantage of the kindness and hide behind it. Asking and not telling is something that I always try to be conscious of. I ask the questions that will hopefully lead him or her to their own conclusions of what we are trying to accomplish. Asking questions and being curious has sometimes backfired. Maybe i need to choose my questions more carefully and thoughtfully.
Thanks for watching! What surprised you about this video?