Getting close to the kids would require him to exhibit maturity and take on responsibility, he will continue to avoid that, so I doubt he will get close to them. It's very unfortunate
I was thinking the same thing..i feel like he will now that he has seen the proof they are def his kids. Praying he gets on the right path taking care of them babies and able to co parent with both mothers
@worldof2ndfluteclarinet353 it's not feeling a void. Kids love unconditionally and that's a wonderful feeling that he could have if he would take initiative to be in there lives.
@@suchalady9741 Children cannot consent to a concept they don't understand. The "love" feels unconditional because they literally have no other choice. Therapy is needed for that man instead of forcing dependent new lives to, like I said before, fill that void.
Reality just set in ... He thinks sex is love, but all he is doing is creating human beings he is not equipped for emotionally and financially. These women need to stop having kids with broken men!!
I don’t even think he thinks sex is love, I bet he just thinks sex is FUN!! He is still a kid and is finally seeing the repercussions of not taking responsibility for his actions.
The way he looked at Karamo while he was talking to him just touched my heart. He's a young man that needs guidance from another man how to be a real man. Our black men needs this kind of help.
First we gotta stop allowing ourselves to be called baby mommas and baby daddies. Realize there’s a difference between the two! This young lady showing no self respect say “baby momma”. I’m guessing that’s how her momma talks too. It’s some kids you can’t guide cause momma be ready to fight ya for saying anything to her babies. You see or hear it all the time. It’s always some parent “finna F someone up” for correcting they baby! 🙄
@@thesun-N-moon8885 these young people don’t care they want to go raw and feel good for a few minutes and have babies and not take of responsibility that’s exactly why she allowed herself to keep getting pregnant over and over by him he’s a dude who doesn’t want to be trapped to kids he wants to lay around with other women trust this won’t be his last 2 baby mamas and they will continue to go back
This episode HERE! We need more Karamos in our community. The vulnerability that young man showed had my eyes leaking. The way those two young ladies supported each other with GRACE. There is hope...
The irony is that there's this popular narrative that gay black men are somehow causing the destruction of the black family BUT it's the gay men and women who's helping their brothers, sisters and so on, help to financially, emotionally and mentally clean up the mess and support the children, abandoned or failed by their 'straight' parents. I personally know 4 gay black men who are just like this in their families but their families would still give more love and support to those who perpetuate this kind of dysfunction and messiness, than a college educated, smart and contributing gay man or woman in the family. It's insane!
All the more of a reason to BE AN INVOLVED FATHER instead of using it an excuse to be a baby daddy instead of a father! If we stop making excuses for these baby daddy or baby mommas maybe they will show up as fathers and mothers!!
Karamo is a great example of a father! A openly gay man that raises not only his son, that he didn't know he had for years! He also raises his nephew. That's 2 young men he raises as a working, single father
@@sorayaleblanc588 You didn't know he was gay, lol you need to turn your gaydar on 🤣! Shitttt 😎Stevie Wonder can see he sweet as a candy cain but he a good tv host, I give him props at least his show isn't a dam circus like Jerry Springer Or Maury .
He’s very immature. I’m going to give him a little pass. Just because he needs therapy. He needs to be uplifted. The ladies need to be uplifted as well. I love how another man asked this young man what his idea of being a father is like? Excellent!!
I can't even express how much this episode has me in my feelings. The way Karamo took that young black man into his arms and allowed him to be vulnerable. Then he taught him, pushed and encouraged him. We need more black men as mentors for young men like this💜💜💜
@Meesha’s Life. That’s great, it really but not enough. Boys will look for male role models in all the wrong places when older. Girls will look for love and validation in relationships at an early age and end up teen moms too. The cycle has to be broken - love from one parent is good but it’s not enough and children with an absent father WILL have problems later on. Good luck girl🍀🌸🌞
I know it has to be overwhelming finding out you got 4 kids at such a young age, but the deed is done.. those beautiful children need & deserve all the love. I’m glad the girls get along now because all their children are siblings and should be able to come up together.. praying for all of them 🙏🏽
These two young women are absolutely admirable!!! I really hope the young man get the help he needs cause I can see there’s a lot of pain inside and he’s really trying ❤wishing them all the best
I wouldn’t go as far as the word admirable let’s face the facts there age on there second child . But to put their difference to the side I can commend that but not the act. Wrong choice of words admirably far from that .
I think the discussion needs to be about physical intimacy and birth control. Though they are young adults they have this child like, aloofness about them. Like do you all really know what you are doing? NO! You have you whole lives to be intimate with someone. It’s not for the faint hearted. And you don’t just give it away. I love how Karamo, validate compassionately and never tears down a person. So crucial for these young adults and younger.
This is why we need father's in our lives this is just sad, to many men run from there responsibilities and dedicate there time and life to there "homeboy" and end up either in prison or dead and leave these young children alone.... S/O to the REAL FATHERS OUT THERE🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@julz7753 sometimes people change ,they bring their representative to meet u and once u are all in they flip.Some cases they show up he clearly has not been taught the fact he cried shows he has feelings, I pray he changes because the kids suffer in the end
We as when have to make better choices. They BOTH already knew he wasn’t a good man yet BOTH had another child with him. Not judging bc they are young, but I pray they ALL do better and I’m hopeful that they will.
So proud of all 3 of these young folks. The ladies are so mature and wise. And the young man just needs some support, guidance, and love. He's gonna be alright, too. He just needs to slow his roll and accept or seek some counseling ...and use PROTECTION!!!
To me everybody should consider contraception until marriage. Yes I get married women can become baby mama's too but it's a different level when creating a human with your spouse vs someone you go with.
He needs to completely stop making more babies ! Four are enough. He also doesn’t realise how blessed he is that his baby mama’s are civil & support each other. That alone is a huge relief. Best wishes to you Meesha & Diamond, look after those beautiful babies and give them the life you didn’t have. Break the cycle.
I feel for that young man. He needs to know that someone loves him and feel his worth. Young women same thing, y’all build you up and your kids and they will be better for it.
Welp I was not expecting to cry at the end 🥺 I hope he gets the help he needs so he can be a better father so that these kids can grow up feeling loved and love him back for being an awesome dad to them.
I love how u handle this situation giving that young man a chance and that he is willing to get some help .....I pray he get the tool he need so he can be the best dad to all 4 of his kids.....🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is emotional maturity & an inspiration? Still actively sleeping w/a deadbeat father. Literally setting urself up for 3 kids in ur early 20s with non education or financial stability? WOOOOWWW!!! The bar is in HELL at this point. Low!
He had me in tears it’s so sad we see this type of behavior all the time but hurt people hurt people and don’t realize. But let’s pray for our young ones on this stage because they recognize there wrongs and willing to do better
I loved the point where Karamo spoke to his heart and humanity and BROKE HIM DOWN! That's what he needed and it was so sad but so good at the same time. He's been through shyt and I pray God blesses him to heal for his own sake and the sake of his children.
We as parents needs to tell our children to love themselves by getting an education and know their worth they are worth more than having babies ,enjoying the world ,getting married before getting some man child.
Great job karamo 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾I'd love to see you interviewing young women like these two beautiful creatures cause they are not the only one struggling with these types of relationships. You're an inspiration to so many,including myself brother. May God continue to bless you abundantly🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿.
This episode was very touching. To see these young women support one another and this young man show his vulnerability. Brought Tears to my eyes. Praying they continue to move forward and raise these beautiful children . Also hope he gets the help he needs to address the pain behind his eyes. He’s a Good young man just needs guidance 🫶🏾🫶🏾
Right smiling like it’s cute to STILL be sleeping unprotected w/a young man who has 4 kids, u know he doesn’t take care of. Children having children. Then want to get in the comments & talk shyt. Grow up. Close ur legs. && take care of ur children. Break this horrible cycle!!!!
@@meshaaslife4232 ok ms mam 😂 I understand he was denying your child it was just funny how you hopped up like this was the Maury show 😂 but I’m glad everything worked out
I find it disgusting everyone is making excuses and feeling sorry for this young man but none of this empathy for young women who take on all the responsibilities and challenges being parents. He needs to grow tf up get a career and be a damn father.
Exactly!!!!! He made these children. Everybody knows how sex works….A BABY comes from it. U are suppose to HEAL before having kids. Which means u shouldn’t be f*ckin until u are in an emotionally/financially stable place. 1 girl said she is STILL sleeping w/him so what does that tell u??? Irresponsible. Sex is NOT a game. Having kids is NOT a game.
Yes. It’s called “Blk male worshipping” Notice most of the comments are from BW who are coddling him saying they feel bad for him. He won’t be an active dad and his kids will repeat the cycle.
👍up to these young ladies what a good example to all those crazy woman out there fighting over a man that has no respect for them I appreciate these two girls 👍👏
I’m 28 and have a 5 year old son, and currently 6 1/2 months pregnant with identical twin girls with a man that’s 40 that cheated on me since I was 21. I also have a 2 year old daughter with another man. ( We were broken up for 10 months when I convinced her) When I was 2 months pregnant with the twins he cheated on me with his 8 year old son’s mother and I finally after 7 years had the strength to leave him. Your life is truly what you make of it.
Leave him but quit having babies and protect your health. I don’t understand that. We’ve all been there, but we have to be smarter as women. #nojudgement. Just woman to woman advice.
@@EMM1908 Thats so true. We women HAVE to do better. Somehow it misses young women in the throes of intimacy and sex that having unprotected sex, unplanned children w/ several people, single-parenthood etc etc etc... is hard, depressing, irresponsible, and a way to get and stay stuck for a loooong time. I dont know how this reality escapes some. We have enough evidence before us confirming this, warning us, giving us chances and yet, young women are still ending up as single parents, co-parenting w/ more than one absent parent etc etc etc....Its got to stop! Ladies be wiser, stay protected, stay abstinate ( even better). We have choices in life and all too many young women KEEP choosing that which is not beneficial to them. Know this lasts a lifetime and it creates a generational problem for the children coming up. They see so they will (likely) do!!
Coming from experience I realized black men go through a lot I commend the young man for his courage whatever load he carries from his past is a lot all the kids at one time is a lot trying to ball with the homies and hoeing in the streets all while trying to provide for four kids even it's just pampers and wipes and formula here and there he's young and made a lot of mistakes it was a lot weighing him down and nobody knew those were real tears he was really hurting inside he probably use to being torn down on a daily Karama didn't down him or berate him he lifted him up and gave him encouragement and words of wisdom and that hug 🤗 he needed that I wish them all the best
Shout out to these two beautiful young ladies ! They are mature ! They’ll support him through this to help him become the father he needs to be … they’ll all be ok because they’re all willing to put in the work ! Karamo is amazing
21 years old with 4 children??? And probably more on the way? Where are his parents? Babies having babies! This is terrible! He is so lucky that the two ladies get along, he needs to be part of his children’s lives. He should coordinate play dates with all his children. He needs to be there for his children. Wow, this is a mess!!!
Wow, four children at such a long age. The need for therapy aside, some of his tears were from the weight of that responsibility and the realization that handling all of that will be hard.
All 3 of them love this situation they in🫣 start teaching your baby girls not to settle!! They knew exactly who he was & how he operated after the first kid & they still keep doubling back. Instead of fighting they agreed to just be sister wives🫤 everybody dizzy
THANK YOU! Ppl talking about they are so wise & mature. Where??? Pink outfit is STILL sleeping w/him. They are only 21 so there will be MORE babies eventually bc they don’t understand that SEX reproduces CHILDREN & neither is a game. Yes it’s good they aren’t fighting each other. But they don’t get an applaud for having common sense, that’s what u are suppose to do when u are a parent.
These 2 young ladies deserve a good man. Please stay supportive of each-other and continue being good moms. Not every guy with a D is going to be a father! I was with a guy that left me for another girl when I was 6 months pregnant . I was soo depressed and hurt. He would buy his daughter stuff but he wasn’t really around like a father. He would sometimes pick her up, take her to 711 and drop her back off. This is not what I wanted. I wanted him to actually take her places , appts, school, park ect. After leaving the girl he left me for, he went through a few more girls then rekindle with an old friend that he ended up marrying. That’s when things changed for the better. He started picking her up , taking her places and calling her. I wouldn’t say he’s father of the year, he still has a lot to learn, but I’m grateful for the changes he’s made and I thank his wife often for helping him.
I hope he gets help. You can tell that all of these young people are not ignorant. Maybe a little misguided, but not stupid. I hope they build something positive for the future and start making smart choices for those babies.
I just want to know what makes a woman lay with a man have a baby. The man wasnt worth shh** the first time, but you double back again and have another child.. why put yourself through the stress, the hardship,the struggle of being a single parent. because of your emotions because some unhealthy attachment
@Diamondd Janaee it does take two but that's still doesn't answer the question of wanting to know how anyone picks a no good man which happens, he plays you for a fool once and then you just choose to be a fool the second time
Young men and women need guidance and activities to stimulate their minds, inspire and encourage them to be the best they can be in this world. SEX is not the only thing that can be “fun” and something to do smh.
He’s a hurt young man and I pray he gets the help he needs and DESERVES so he can give his kids what he didn’t have. To not feel loved in life is really hard to live through, been living it for 41 years.
I love how the two young women can get along and support each others kids. One big happy family without the dad, at least until he grows up, cause we don’t have time
My ❤ is breaking for this young man. These are kids having kids, there are 7 lives at stake in this situation. I commend this young man for accepting the help and I commend this young ladies for bonding and setting an example. Isaiah 42:16 "WAY MAKER", God will not leave your or forsake you, stand on it. 🙏🏽 (The path won't be easy; there'll be “rough places” along the way. But God has promised that He will “turn the darkness into light” and “will not forsake” us (Isaiah 42:16). He'll be with us all the way. Paul said that God is “able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine.)
Nothing beautiful about how these young girls are in the comment section when people disagree with their choices. They seem to have “behaved” on the show.
This brought me to tears ... I'm in tune to my reality but being able to empathize, I felt the pain. Not being loved will drive a man into some shakey situations. Praying all involved get to experience the most important thing inside of this whole equation ❤❤❤ Godspeed 🙏
He said he doesn't feel loved, but if he gets close to them kids, he will see an incredible love like no other.
Getting close to the kids would require him to exhibit maturity and take on responsibility, he will continue to avoid that, so I doubt he will get close to them. It's very unfortunate
I was thinking the same thing..i feel like he will now that he has seen the proof they are def his kids. Praying he gets on the right path taking care of them babies and able to co parent with both mothers
let's please stop using CHILDREN to fill voids of love
@worldof2ndfluteclarinet353 it's not feeling a void. Kids love unconditionally and that's a wonderful feeling that he could have if he would take initiative to be in there lives.
@@suchalady9741 Children cannot consent to a concept they don't understand. The "love" feels unconditional because they literally have no other choice. Therapy is needed for that man instead of forcing dependent new lives to, like I said before, fill that void.
Im glad that the women are not fighting each other
Facts but you know Karamo ain't going for none of that
They are mothers and should ALWAYS set a good example for their children. Y'all have got to start taking these titles more seriously.
You ain’t worry that they chooses to be baby mamas? 😢
Grown woman take care of business and Karamo not having that on his show
If thats the best thing you can say. They both stupid.
Reality just set in ... He thinks sex is love, but all he is doing is creating human beings he is not equipped for emotionally and financially. These women need to stop having kids with broken men!!
I don’t even think he thinks sex is love, I bet he just thinks sex is FUN!! He is still a kid and is finally seeing the repercussions of not taking responsibility for his actions.
It's the lack of an endgame...children's lives are at stake, here...
Broke and immature men
Why don’t they use birth control? I don’t understand
This toxic pattern is going on far too long😥
The way he looked at Karamo while he was talking to him just touched my heart. He's a young man that needs guidance from another man how to be a real man. Our black men needs this kind of help.
First we gotta stop allowing ourselves to be called baby mommas and baby daddies. Realize there’s a difference between the two! This young lady showing no self respect say “baby momma”. I’m guessing that’s how her momma talks too.
It’s some kids you can’t guide cause momma be ready to fight ya for saying anything to her babies. You see or hear it all the time. It’s always some parent “finna F someone up” for correcting they baby! 🙄
@@thesun-N-moon8885 these young people don’t care they want to go raw and feel good for a few minutes and have babies and not take of responsibility that’s exactly why she allowed herself to keep getting pregnant over and over by him he’s a dude who doesn’t want to be trapped to kids he wants to lay around with other women trust this won’t be his last 2 baby mamas and they will continue to go back
Absolutely!!!
@@thesun-N-moon8885 him being a dude shouldn't be a excuse to lay up and have babies by women that he doesn't want to be with.
Yes he does and many like him.
This episode HERE! We need more Karamos in our community. The vulnerability that young man showed had my eyes leaking. The way those two young ladies supported each other with GRACE. There is hope...
Amen!
Amen
The irony is that there's this popular narrative that gay black men are somehow causing the destruction of the black family BUT it's the gay men and women who's helping their brothers, sisters and so on, help to financially, emotionally and mentally clean up the mess and support the children, abandoned or failed by their 'straight' parents. I personally know 4 gay black men who are just like this in their families but their families would still give more love and support to those who perpetuate this kind of dysfunction and messiness, than a college educated, smart and contributing gay man or woman in the family. It's insane!
@@spreadmorelove5235 Now that's a stretch!! All people have a role to play in this economy.
Yes I love this support
4 kids at 21, I’d be crying too.
😂😂😂😂
reallll😂
😂😂😂😂
fr lmao
Exactly , that’s ridiculous
He doesn't know what an involved father is because he never experienced it.. you can just tell😢
All the more of a reason to BE AN INVOLVED FATHER instead of using it an excuse to be a baby daddy instead of a father! If we stop making excuses for these baby daddy or baby mommas maybe they will show up as fathers and mothers!!
Women don't have mothers growing up sometimes. Do they walk off as often?
Karamo is a great example of a father! A openly gay man that raises not only his son, that he didn't know he had for years! He also raises his nephew. That's 2 young men he raises as a working, single father
Karamo is a dad to many! I love him
Wow! I didnt know he didn’t know he had a son…What age was the son when he found out. && yes he is a great father. I love when he talks about it!
I didn't no he was gay he is great man tho
@@sorayaleblanc588 You didn't know he was gay, lol you need to turn your gaydar on 🤣! Shitttt 😎Stevie Wonder can see he sweet as a candy cain but he a good tv host, I give him props at least his show isn't a dam circus like Jerry Springer Or Maury .
@@sorayaleblanc588 he looks gay, easy to spot 😮
You can tell he was really hurt for denying his kids. He has a lot of hurt. Love the support with the women with each other
No he's crying because now he has to face up to his responsibilities because all he does is sleep around
@@alexandersilva4218 lol ok if that makes you feel better.
@@alexandersilva4218absolutely agree. He realized he messed up big time living this reckless lifestyle
@@alexandersilva4218 I agree too! He realized that he fucked up. 😅 4 kids at 21? Jeez. I’m 21, and I couldn’t even handle have 1 kid! Let alone 4?!!
At the moment but will he change his ways? I kind of doubt it.
He’s very immature.
I’m going to give him a little pass. Just because he needs therapy.
He needs to be uplifted.
The ladies need to be uplifted as well.
I love how another man asked this young man what his idea of being a father is like?
Excellent!!
They are too young to have all those children.
@@kirascullark5224 It' too late to judge
@@Indigal it’s not judgement it’s a fact they need to learn and stop being ignorant and selfish having more and more children.
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@@kirascullark5224 I didn’t t know you had to be a certain age.. those aren’t facts love that’s your opinion
He wasn't ready and this is why it's so important to tell our young woman to value themselves more
Hell they ain't never ready..this been happening since the beginning of time.He needs to grow up in the head get a trade and support his children.
@@christinekelly7769 And the young woman as well. Nobody seems to dream anymore about their future, only the right now.😔🙏
And young men, it take 2 to make a baby
I can't even express how much this episode has me in my feelings. The way Karamo took that young black man into his arms and allowed him to be vulnerable. Then he taught him, pushed and encouraged him. We need more black men as mentors for young men like this💜💜💜
Period. But he better be a better father 2 weeks later.
@@bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 Oh absolutely! Put your money where your mouth is and don't mess up this opportunity to do what's right
21 with 4 kids!!!! Absolutely horrifying
exactly but our kids are very great & happy with they moms❤️
And all three of them will be making more.
@@wadilotus I hope not in this economy I heard yesterday on the news that the United States is about to run out of money 🤯
@Meesha’s Life. That’s great, it really but not enough. Boys will look for male role models in all the wrong places when older. Girls will look for love and validation in relationships at an early age and end up teen moms too. The cycle has to be broken - love from one parent is good but it’s not enough and children with an absent father WILL have problems later on. Good luck girl🍀🌸🌞
@@wadilotus definitely not i’m on birth control BEEN on my BC !
All of this mixing and meddling and no use of condoms. People no longer scared of STIs and STDs?
Apparently
That!!! These kids don't give a f**k
I know it has to be overwhelming finding out you got 4 kids at such a young age, but the deed is done.. those beautiful children need & deserve all the love. I’m glad the girls get along now because all their children are siblings and should be able to come up together.. praying for all of them 🙏🏽
He was having sex w no condom cheating. He knew he was making kids
To "find out" like he wasn't cumming in these women. Like they were placed here from some other entity. He created these kids.
It's a shame they all can't be one big happy family. If they can work at it, why should Caramo discourage it?
That’s a lot of responsibility 😂 got damn young man.
😂😂😂that’s what happens when people don’t use condoms
Man 4 kids at 21, that’s a lot even for a seasoned parent. I just pray he uses contraceptives and stops planting his seed everywhere
These two young women are absolutely admirable!!! I really hope the young man get the help he needs cause I can see there’s a lot of pain inside and he’s really trying ❤wishing them all the best
Yes they are behaving better than a lot of grown women would be in this situation.
I wouldn’t go as far as the word admirable let’s face the facts there age on there second child . But to put their difference to the side I can commend that but not the act. Wrong choice of words admirably far from that .
Admirable? She’s STILL sleeping w/the boy. Y’all literally applaud & accept any ole thing! && This is the problem.
@@ariamarshall5161 hey hello this is my opinion love
@@blessedone-tv5vc everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Have a nice day!
Both young women focused on their children and jobs and leave him alone
You mean both “girls”
And those *girls* need to get their tubes tied, ‘cause they are not gonna keep their legs closed.
@@wadilotus " Women " like she said, & we most definitely keep our legs closed, worry about your mother & not us 🥰
@@dimeepiecee why, cause my mother didn't go on a talk show making an azz out of herself and making black females look stoopid.
@@wadilotus so you must not know what reality tv is 😩
How do you allow a man to keep getting you pregnant when he’s getting someone pregnant? I mean are the women competing? 🤦🏽♀️😳😬 Yikes break the cycle.
Rachell there's 2 sides to every story please talk about what you know 😩
competing ? NEVER
@@dimeepieceewhen business is aired on live television. I can talk whatever I want 😂✌🏾
@@meshaaslife4232who really cares is entertainment! 😬
@@rachellbanks503 i’m glad we gave you some to laugh about today bookie now go about yo day and make some money
"I don't want to talk about the past".. 🙄 Just Handle YOUR business dude!! 🤦🏾♀️ Ladies, stop messing with him!!! Value Yourselves!!!
They wont listen! They will see the show and still mess with him.
@@snickers8970 💯
@@snickers8970 she’s for the streets😂
He talking about his child hood and why he don’t understand what love and fatherhood is
I think the discussion needs to be about physical intimacy and birth control.
Though they are young adults they have this child like, aloofness about them. Like do you all really know what you are doing? NO! You have you whole lives to be intimate with someone. It’s not for the faint hearted. And you don’t just give it away.
I love how Karamo, validate compassionately and never tears down a person. So crucial for these young adults and younger.
Exactly. Because there's more to life than pregnancy. They probably don't even have an orgasm. Nor do they know how to spell it.
Ugghhh omg yesss
This is why we need father's in our lives this is just sad, to many men run from there responsibilities and dedicate there time and life to there "homeboy" and end up either in prison or dead and leave these young children alone.... S/O to the REAL FATHERS OUT THERE🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Broken men create broken families and not even realizing its a Generational curse
Why would any woman have a kid with that kind of man? You get what you ask for!
@julz7753 sometimes people change ,they bring their representative to meet u and once u are all in they flip.Some cases they show up he clearly has not been taught the fact he cried shows he has feelings, I pray he changes because the kids suffer in the end
Sad case!
We as when have to make better choices. They BOTH already knew he wasn’t a good man yet BOTH had another child with him. Not judging bc they are young, but I pray they ALL do better and I’m hopeful that they will.
Karamo is an excellent example of what a man is! Holding him accountable.
So proud of all 3 of these young folks. The ladies are so mature and wise. And the young man just needs some support, guidance, and love. He's gonna be alright, too. He just needs to slow his roll and accept or seek some counseling ...and use PROTECTION!!!
To me everybody should consider contraception until marriage. Yes I get married women can become baby mama's too but it's a different level when creating a human with your spouse vs someone you go with.
@@Bri-Zee91 not a baby mama ex wife …
Those young girls are not mature.
You sound ridiculous. How are you proud of such a ratchet situation? Black people need to do better 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😡😡😡😡😡🙄
@@barbietingz1693 that's why I said it's a different level. But also you're now just an ex/baby mama.
He got lucky with these baby mamas!! What a baby boy he is!
very much lucky !
Exactly
He needs to completely stop making more babies ! Four are enough. He also doesn’t realise how blessed he is that his baby mama’s are civil & support each other. That alone is a huge relief. Best wishes to you Meesha & Diamond, look after those beautiful babies and give them the life you didn’t have. Break the cycle.
Tbh !!!
Karamo always has the right words 🙏🏽
Except when the pink sauce girl came through. He took the video down real quick.
And a few other episodes..
Not taking care of the kids but still sleeping with this man... is wiiiiiiiild!!!
i’m sorry ion think i asked you ? until you know the real stfuu pls 😘
Trying to make more obviously
He don’t want to be a father but yet he don’t want to wrap it up
Karamo is lending to the healing of our brothers, and I am so thankful for his work. What a Godsend
This young man needs a lot of support and counseling.
He needs to grow up, I wonder how he was raised because it’s wild having 4 kids at 20.
@@jollymollyramram9702 yes 4 kids at 20 years old. It speaks volumes. He really need to stop. Because child support will bury him
This was the best episode!! Praying for these young people!! 🙏🏾💕 I love how Karamo holds them accountable in a loving manner. He's a class act!!
Wow I can really appreciate the relationship these women have created and I hope the father recognizes his strength!
21 and made 4 kids. Now he wanna run and cry. Chasing the cat instead of the bag go get him every time
I feel for that young man. He needs to know that someone loves him and feel his worth. Young women same thing, y’all build you up and your kids and they will be better for it.
You are a mammy
I don’t feel a damn thing for him ! They know what they do !
Welp I was not expecting to cry at the end 🥺 I hope he gets the help he needs so he can be a better father so that these kids can grow up feeling loved and love him back for being an awesome dad to them.
I love how u handle this situation giving that young man a chance and that he is willing to get some help .....I pray he get the tool he need so he can be the best dad to all 4 of his kids.....🙏🏽🙏🏽
No prayer for the women he impregnated and are not helping with his children?
@Chey B. You’re so right about that.
@chey b absolutely 💯
i wish i had this emotional maturity at 21, what beautiful and inspirational women
This is emotional maturity & an inspiration? Still actively sleeping w/a deadbeat father. Literally setting urself up for 3 kids in ur early 20s with non education or financial stability? WOOOOWWW!!! The bar is in HELL at this point. Low!
@@ariamarshall5161 exactly because huh?
If you think this maturity or an inspiration, you're part of the problem.
He had me in tears it’s so sad we see this type of behavior all the time but hurt people hurt people and don’t realize. But let’s pray for our young ones on this stage because they recognize there wrongs and willing to do better
I loved the point where Karamo spoke to his heart and humanity and BROKE HIM DOWN! That's what he needed and it was so sad but so good at the same time. He's been through shyt and I pray God blesses him to heal for his own sake and the sake of his children.
That young man is in deep pain... God bless his soul...
Oh boo hoo that whining little boy...
I loved the way he encouraged this young man versus beating him down. Uplifting does make a difference!!!!😊
This really touched my heart. Our community needs so much of this healing
We as parents needs to tell our children to love themselves by getting an education and know their worth they are worth more than having babies ,enjoying the world ,getting married before getting some man child.
Exactly!👋🏽👋🏽
A lot of parent’s were single young father’s n mother’s so all they know is to celebrate & have baby showers😥😖
@@dawnlee866 💯💯 be so happy to be called glamma, Mimi or G-Ma … 😂
Facts 100%
It’s her ignorance and her youth . She seems like a nice girl and has a forgiving heart but that might play against her in the long run.
Great job karamo 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾I'd love to see you interviewing young women like these two beautiful creatures cause they are not the only one struggling with these types of relationships. You're an inspiration to so many,including myself brother. May God continue to bless you abundantly🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿.
This episode was very touching. To see these young women support one another and this young man show his vulnerability. Brought Tears to my eyes. Praying they continue to move forward and raise these beautiful children . Also hope he gets the help he needs to address the pain behind his eyes. He’s a Good young man just needs guidance 🫶🏾🫶🏾
She is smiling like life is a joke. Everyone is narcissistic these days, why sleep with him then? Girl bye!
So now it's illegal for me to smile 😩
@@dimeepiecee No but her truth still stand !!!
Right smiling like it’s cute to STILL be sleeping unprotected w/a young man who has 4 kids, u know he doesn’t take care of. Children having children. Then want to get in the comments & talk shyt. Grow up. Close ur legs. && take care of ur children. Break this horrible cycle!!!!
@@ariamarshall5161 Beautifully well stated!!!
She jumped up saying “like I said “ like this Maury.. girl sit down 😂
I said what i said it’s a lot of backstory to why i got up bookie😂
@@meshaaslife4232 ok ms mam 😂 I understand he was denying your child it was just funny how you hopped up like this was the Maury show 😂 but I’m glad everything worked out
@@Toriab aww
The first woman is so beautiful 🤩
Thaaank you ✨
Yeah she is I was just thinking that 😊
@@MellyMel603 thaaank you 🥰
I find it disgusting everyone is making excuses and feeling sorry for this young man but none of this empathy for young women who take on all the responsibilities and challenges being parents. He needs to grow tf up get a career and be a damn father.
Exactly!!!!! He made these children. Everybody knows how sex works….A BABY comes from it. U are suppose to HEAL before having kids. Which means u shouldn’t be f*ckin until u are in an emotionally/financially stable place. 1 girl said she is STILL sleeping w/him so what does that tell u??? Irresponsible. Sex is NOT a game. Having kids is NOT a game.
Yes. It’s called “Blk male worshipping” Notice most of the comments are from BW who are coddling him saying they feel bad for him. He won’t be an active dad and his kids will repeat the cycle.
Amen
It’s always excuses being made! It’s always some “curse” and not personal responsibility! 🙄
A Episode where young people didn't argue and get loud.. there's hope.. They all want better..
Reality hit him. Stop sleeping with these young ladies without a condom. This is your fault!!
👍up to these young ladies what a good example to all those crazy woman out there fighting over a man that has no respect for them I appreciate these two girls 👍👏
Indeed and so young but mature relationship between the ladies. Plus they were not ratchet or shouting. Kudos to them 👏🏾👏🏾
When he asked do you feel loved . That’s broke me 😔
Reality just hit him hard...4 kids ain't no joke ❤
I’m 28 and have a 5 year old son, and currently 6 1/2 months pregnant with identical twin girls with a man that’s 40 that cheated on me since I was 21. I also have a 2 year old daughter with another man. ( We were broken up for 10 months when I convinced her) When I was 2 months pregnant with the twins he cheated on me with his 8 year old son’s mother and I finally after 7 years had the strength to leave him. Your life is truly what you make of it.
Leave him but quit having babies and protect your health. I don’t understand that. We’ve all been there, but we have to be smarter as women. #nojudgement. Just woman to woman advice.
You went back to a man that cheated on you and got pregnant again no love you are the problem you need to leave that man
Wooooo I wish you and your children success in life.
@@EMM1908 Thats so true. We women HAVE to do better. Somehow it misses young women in the throes of intimacy and sex that having unprotected sex, unplanned children w/ several people, single-parenthood etc etc etc... is hard, depressing, irresponsible, and a way to get and stay stuck for a loooong time. I dont know how this reality escapes some. We have enough evidence before us confirming this, warning us, giving us chances and yet, young women are still ending up as single parents, co-parenting w/ more than one absent parent etc etc etc....Its got to stop! Ladies be wiser, stay protected, stay abstinate ( even better). We have choices in life and all too many young women KEEP choosing that which is not beneficial to them. Know this lasts a lifetime and it creates a generational problem for the children coming up. They see so they will (likely) do!!
Too beautiful to be putting yourself through so much trauma. I hope you and your children get the healing you will all need.
Love the mothers of the kids..they are young but are matured and great mothers ❤
Coming from experience I realized black men go through a lot I commend the young man for his courage whatever load he carries from his past is a lot all the kids at one time is a lot trying to ball with the homies and hoeing in the streets all while trying to provide for four kids even it's just pampers and wipes and formula here and there he's young and made a lot of mistakes it was a lot weighing him down and nobody knew those were real tears he was really hurting inside he probably use to being torn down on a daily Karama didn't down him or berate him he lifted him up and gave him encouragement and words of wisdom and that hug 🤗 he needed that I wish them all the best
Shout out to these two beautiful young ladies ! They are mature ! They’ll support him through this to help him become the father he needs to be … they’ll all be ok because they’re all willing to put in the work ! Karamo is amazing
21 years old with 4 children??? And probably more on the way? Where are his parents? Babies having babies! This is terrible! He is so lucky that the two ladies get along, he needs to be part of his children’s lives. He should coordinate play dates with all his children. He needs to be there for his children. Wow, this is a mess!!!
We do his job for him ❕
we do what he don’t do our kids know each other because of US not him !
@@meshaaslife4232 He should also be a part of his children’s lives. They deserve to know their father.
@@dimeepiecee He needs to do his best for his children. The children deserve the best, from you and their father.
@@dimeepiecee I am proud of you. Please take good care of yourself and your children. God bless you!
Wow, four children at such a long age. The need for therapy aside, some of his tears were from the weight of that responsibility and the realization that handling all of that will be hard.
He's young but he definitely can still turn this around.
4:22 when he said Is that the 2 month old I died lol. If a 2 month old that big!!!......
All 3 of them love this situation they in🫣 start teaching your baby girls not to settle!! They knew exactly who he was & how he operated after the first kid & they still keep doubling back. Instead of fighting they agreed to just be sister wives🫤 everybody dizzy
THANK YOU! Ppl talking about they are so wise & mature. Where??? Pink outfit is STILL sleeping w/him. They are only 21 so there will be MORE babies eventually bc they don’t understand that SEX reproduces CHILDREN & neither is a game. Yes it’s good they aren’t fighting each other. But they don’t get an applaud for having common sense, that’s what u are suppose to do when u are a parent.
@@ariamarshall5161they both are still sleeping with him they said plus he still sleeping with his gf smh
I feel so sorry for all of them. The young man is hurting because his trauma is so deep. Thank you Karma👍🏾😄
Babies having babies... my God! He needs to be held accountable.
And to hear that he thinks no one loves him...wow. just wow.
They don’t wanna raise their body counts but are ok with raising their baby count 🤷🏾♀️
until you know me personally don’t speak on me 😒
Oh so now you know me personally 😒
These 2 young ladies deserve a good man. Please stay supportive of each-other and continue being good moms. Not every guy with a D is going to be a father!
I was with a guy that left me for another girl when I was 6 months pregnant . I was soo depressed and hurt. He would buy his daughter stuff but he wasn’t really around like a father. He would sometimes pick her up, take her to 711 and drop her back off. This is not what I wanted. I wanted him to actually take her places , appts, school, park ect.
After leaving the girl he left me for, he went through a few more girls then rekindle with an old friend that he ended up marrying. That’s when things changed for the better. He started picking her up , taking her places and calling her. I wouldn’t say he’s father of the year, he still has a lot to learn, but I’m grateful for the changes he’s made and I thank his wife often for helping him.
21 with 4 babies?? Someone, get him a damn CONDOM!!!! Good job ladies.
Kudos to Karamo for always bulldog his guest up. And offering them the things they need.
He is so hurt and immature. The girls are as well it’s just a sad situation.
I hope he gets help. You can tell that all of these young people are not ignorant. Maybe a little misguided, but not stupid. I hope they build something positive for the future and start making smart choices for those babies.
I just want to know what makes a woman lay with a man have a baby. The man wasnt worth shh** the first time, but you double back again and have another child.. why put yourself through the stress, the hardship,the struggle of being a single parent. because of your emotions because some unhealthy attachment
Tawanna it takes 2, the man's a great actor ⭐️
@Diamondd Janaee it does take two but that's still doesn't answer the question of wanting to know how anyone picks a no good man which happens, he plays you for a fool once and then you just choose to be a fool the second time
Low self esteem
Young men and women need guidance and activities to stimulate their minds, inspire and encourage them to be the best they can be in this world. SEX is not the only thing that can be “fun” and something to do smh.
Respect for these ladies doing it right for the kids and calling the dad to attention atleast once before moving on with their lives with no regrets
dna tests can be paid for without going on tv and telling the world your business! I could never
A lot of chid support is needed......... I'm glad these woman getting well and grow as siblings
Child support needed reaaaal bad 🤝🏾
All 3 are really sweet. Stick together and raise them babies.
Thank u for hugging him karamo and ladies I take my hat off ❤
He’s a hurt young man and I pray he gets the help he needs and DESERVES so he can give his kids what he didn’t have. To not feel loved in life is really hard to live through, been living it for 41 years.
I love how the two young women can get along and support each others kids. One big happy family without the dad, at least until he grows up, cause we don’t have time
Yeah I’m proud of the two girls doing right about the kids. But the both have learning to do!
Awh I loved this episode❤️❤️
This was one of the best ones they both made them babies I’m so glad K gave him a hug he needed that
The smacking of the leg
Sorry Cortney 😩
@@dimeepiecee you’re ok boo.
I love Karamo! Karamo is so awesome!
My ❤ is breaking for this young man. These are kids having kids, there are 7 lives at stake in this situation. I commend this young man for accepting the help and I commend this young ladies for bonding and setting an example. Isaiah 42:16 "WAY MAKER", God will not leave your or forsake you, stand on it.
🙏🏽 (The path won't be easy; there'll be “rough places” along the way. But God has promised that He will “turn the darkness into light” and “will not forsake” us (Isaiah 42:16). He'll be with us all the way. Paul said that God is “able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine.)
THAT WAS FREAKING BEAUTIFUL ❤❤❤❤
Nothing beautiful about how these young girls are in the comment section when people disagree with their choices. They seem to have “behaved” on the show.
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@@jollymollyramram9702 LIKE I MF SAID.... BEAUTIFUL 😍❤️
That was dope! Thank you 🙏🏽
All we need is love and no somebody cares! Ashay
He looks disappointed. Like damn… a father of four at 21?! Yikes…
I’m so glad he agreed to therapy! 💗 they so young! But they got it very mature
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ glad the ladies are great together and right got to stop messing with him. Hopefully it gets better soon for them
This brought me to tears ... I'm in tune to my reality but being able to empathize, I felt the pain. Not being loved will drive a man into some shakey situations. Praying all involved get to experience the most important thing inside of this whole equation ❤❤❤ Godspeed 🙏
He really is scared. You can see his pain. I legit wanted to hug him too!!!
I am loving the host ❤ he said you going out there😂 show'em how to take responsibility💪🏾❤️❤️
😢 this episode was very touching
I'd be crying too the child support he's about to need for the court for those babies LAWD have mercy 😂😂
If he is still sleeping with any woman unprotected, the next time he may be welcoming multiples -- triplets or twins.
14:20 Karamo said clap!! 😂😂😂