When You Stop Competing You Win: Wake Up To The Larger Truth Of Who You Are (Authentic Confidence)
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I stop competing with others, and by doing that I've surpassed myself by being the first comment 0.5 seconds earlier than last video
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Congratulations 🎉
GG!
Lol Savy.
Nice one RSD Gabe!
Tyler is literally ripping his heart and brain apart and letting us taste it but we are too busy sucking in life. Love you bro.
Spewk for yourself my brother i love life ! Ahah 😊
@StaRFox /Thats so true my man
@StaRFox Why sarcasm?
@StaRFox I do, its part if the alpha mindset which very few people can resonate
@StaRFox i kinda teach the same thing on my channel man, i m all about evolving as human beings
I listen to your advice on how every1 is my friend Owen. Went out the other night, saw a cute girl and put my arms out and said hey whats up as if she was my friend. She came toward me and hugged me and said why does it feel like I know you. Thats never happened to me b4. Thanks bro!!
Nice bro!
Hmm... very cool...
Congrats brother, be natural, fun , charismatic, that should always do the trick
Keep it going carry on soldier!
Bollycast Podcast that’s so awesome. How good is it!
This is my fav video for this year - hope you enjoy it ! Watch the ENTIRE video before forming an opinion 💪. See you in CHARLOTTE NORTH CAROLINA Oct 9 ! -Tyler
Dude. You explaining your life in your beachfront apartment but being miserable made something click. I just broke down in tears because its like you've just opened the floodgates of my own being. I am so thankful for the message that you just shared. I have never felt more enthused and excited about life. I fucking love you
What you say resonates so powerfully with me. It would mean a great deal to be able to speak with you and share with you my story. I would like to genuinely connect with you. If you see this, reach out to me. Thank you,
Ian
@@Dan0101010101010 Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the single candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared
I wanna share those vibes. fuck yes I do
Tyler, it’s definitely my favorite video as well!! 💯 Kudos to you, the video production, sound edits, and of course the insights & wisdom you share.
You should know, that more people then you think, appreciate the effort that you put in from the production side of things, it’s not going unnoticed.
On that note, I can’t tell you how to live your life, but I really believe that if you take your time to respond to people’s comments and messages, you would do good to so many more people, and as a result, it would get you that many more followers as well.
A lot of people resonate with you, they look up to you, you make them feel as if you’re reading their mind. Why cut it off at the end of the video? Communicate with them after the video....🙌
I’m speaking for my self, and I assume for many others as well.
Who agrees...? LIKE and comment.
I'll definitely watch it entirely at least once :D
Modern day prophet, thank you for sacrificing your life to share what matters Owen, we appreciate it.
Pejman Ebadi I agree!❤️💯
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بهترین کسی بوده که واقعا منو کمک کرده ✌️
@@mohammadmianji311 chetori, it’s good to see another Iranian here!!
Tyler is back everyone! I felt like it took a while until the "new" rsd found its way but this video was epic, passionate and inspiring, thanks Tyler !
Mo Mo pick up is dead!!!!
One of your best videos man. Thank you once again for the massive value! -Mario
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I know Im randomly asking but does any of you know of a method to log back into an Instagram account?
I stupidly lost the account password. I appreciate any tips you can give me.
@Joshua Israel Instablaster :)
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0:00 = Intro
7:53 = Part 2: Do you live in a delusional fancy world?
16:43 = Part 3: How to escape the negative hostile world
33:16 = Part 4: Practical applications to implement
42:40 = Part 5: Final thoughts
Awesome video tyler
- GG
Thank you brother, much appreciated ur efforts
Make notes on every owen s video
Thanks!
Thanks✨💫
Came here to learn how to win life but leaving knowing how to be a dork. Best decision in my life!! Lets go dorks!!
Lifting Motivation Dork life❤️
The evolution of this man is a joy to behold. I came to Tolle years ago, I've had other teachers also. Thank you Owen for your courage and work, and for the ongoing revolutionary impact you're having in my life. Thank you for living it, not just talking about it, and continuing to have the humility to put your message before your ego.
Hey, from 2 years down the line!! Which teachers other than Tolle do you rate very highly, if you don’t mind me asking? Peace out ✌🏽
When I’m out, if I’m in the competitive frame, I compete for other people’s attention. When I am out in the collaborative frame, people compete for my attention.
It is funny how Tyler is able to release videos EXACTLY at the point when you need it
The way you ended that video was incredible. I really felt that presence. When you get there there's no words
Tyler: So to wrap this video up...
18 minutes later: Video ends.
Thank you for all your knowledge and experiences you share!
It is amazing
Hahaha
He talks a lot and we love it hahahaahahaha
Tyler, I truly believe you were born to change the world and you are doing exactly that. Your work is recognized brother man
I know that solidly in my heart I'll make it someday.. when I see people I considered my good friends switch up on me cos they're now finding decent successes in they own line of business that I'm not getting yet, I show love still.. as much as as possible cos I've come to realize that we live in a spiritual world in which events happen all with divine timing.. I'll make it someday, it's not slow for me, God's just perfecting it more for me.. negative energy slows us down, love propels us always..
" Events happen all with divine timing" Yeah sure buddy, enjoy sleeping with your eyes open
@@justspacing9031 lmaooooooo
@@pokeyaf That must have struck a nerve lol. You can stay butthurt and ignorant buddy , doesn't really matter to me
y'all need to rewatch this video and get into a collaborative frame
Kajotoni you’re doing well, ignore the haters. Don’t feed into it, you can’t beat negativity when they’ve practiced it to perfection. Focus on you man, and enjoy it. Like you said these hard times are just practice that will make you even better
It's amazing how this becomes more true each year
Tyler's in hustle mode again let's go!!! Motivate! Dominate! [Edit: And after watching, Collaborate!]
lol
let’s all be dorks together!!! 😂
A lot of buddies in my group are watching this content, resonating with it and our whole group is going into an upwards spiral.
Thisbis so powerful it almost made me cry when you said " just let me have fun with my children and play and just be silly" this is the most resonant and powerful teaching i have received sonfar because in my earlies i was that person by default and iam trying to get back there so hard i feel sontryhard and i couldnt figure out what it is and this hit me so hard. You probably just gave me access again to my true self. Thanks man. I was so obsessed about getting down this high value stuff and i noticed whenever i would let go of the resonating voice and right way to speak and so on and just be the loving little true me i would crush it but whenever that true me got rejected i would fall back into forcing and controlling cause i thought ok it seems to not work. But if i feel good about being me then it does work. I just want to be me and not be anything more or else. And that was my biggest teaching before this. " when people do not appreciate you its their business" and by using that frame i entered very high states before but not consistently. From today on i will just be a dork and have fun
The fact you filmed next to your old home where it happened, that really hit. Goddamn
Amazing video Tyler. Your style has really evolved into something beautiful.
Had my best day yet yesterday - thanks Tyler. The “we’re all friends” frame is amazing
Love the consistent uploads Owen!
I'm here to learn how to pickup codelle
@@Steallio lmao
Yep gotta agree on that one brofist❤
Definitely, hes got A TON of Wisdom. Btw just happened to mention your son while writig this. Have you heard of Kerrie Rivera's 300 children now REVERSED Autism with chlorine Dioxide? Heavily Censored on Google but tried it myself and Definitely a Good Detox With It, Apparently it selextively oxidizes parasites and chelates aluminum.
@@maxwellswanson9657 chlorine dioxide? Di u nesn carbon dioxide those carbon dioxide foot bathhs and heling with are legit!
Theres more love in the world because of people like Tyler.I for one really appreciate his effort.This video highlights a core practical fundamental of RSD today.If you can be present to the moment and have this affirmation in your head, "everyone is my friend and I'm in their head", then you don't need anything else in your "arsenal".You are then at the cause and not the effect in a collaborative environment.Allowing yourself to be influenced by Tyler will help you become a better person who makes a positive difference in other people's lives.Those people you make a difference to will appreciate your empathy and share the same with others.There will be a snowball effect and oneday there will be a real positive difference in the world and we all can be happy together.I've met people who's passion is to teach children and make a difference to the world.When I've asked them what motivates them, many have said that when they were kids and struggling, there was a teacher or someone who helped them, which resulted in where they are today.They now want to do the same for others.Kindness is contagious and will eventually come full circle.This really opened my eyes to the world in terms of real happiness as I always thought when I became a millionaire, I would be happy.Competitiveness between people does suit corporation's material objectives.The world/life is basically a struggle between materialism and spiritualism.Tyler, you found your true purpose in the last 20 years.Lets change the world in the next 20!
Tyler speaking the truth! We really are all just dummies.
That satori experience you describe is probably the Arising and Passing away. Its the 4th stage of insight.
4th state of conciousness?
Damn Owen is tapping into a different source then he has before ! He talking from love ! Super present energy
I litterally felt the love watching this! thank you so much Owen for sharing!
Tyler I just wanted to thank you for all the years of guidance you provided. Shaped me as a person for the better.
Starting my sunday morning with an italian espresso and Tyler spitting life lessons. Thanks Brother!
Bro I lived in Honolulu for 8 months went to that same beach every day with my girlfriend and never saw you once. Wish I could have said thank you for helping me overcome some of my mental blockages with women.
Keep going bro, young men need your wisdom 👏🏼👏🏼
My name is Mikhail
I live in small city in Kazakhstan nearby the caspian sea and using these advices here walking out and approaching to girls, it is actually works everywhere, whereever you live-London, Moscow, New York, Almaty, Tashkent, Bishkek, Baku, Beijing, Tokyo, Some small city in any country, it doesn't matter.
This video came into my life just a few days after I was realizing this exact thing you talk about. It is 100% true it's beautiful. Yes I have taken some nice drugs but the party environment and vibe itself was what made come into my mind about this. And some good LSD trips too hahah. Wish you all peace in our hungry minds.
I have been following RSD for 4 years now and I'm enjoying this transition to this type of content.
They are on this type of content for years (mid 2000s). It's just when they bring new coaches they focus on the instant success strategies in the beginning.
You are a FORCE Tyler. Excited to see your gift unfolding day by day.
He's Owenin it, cooking up some good ideas! Primo personality, Beautiful man right there inside and out and bringing that good out of others makes you more so! great content that the world needs so so much! Thanks Owen!
This video is perfect timing with the joker coming out this weekend.
Im gonna cry. This is my heart's biggest desire! Just to be open, silly, naive, spontanuous in a place where me and everybody else around just can be themselves! But I just can't figure out how to get out of this hostie frame and start enjoying life.
It's amazing how no matter what life struggles I'm going through, I can always find a video to help me deal with that exact situation when I tune into Tyler or RSD videos. Thanks again man. You are truly a life-saver. Cheers
Hey Owen. I usually don't bother writing comments. I have been following(on and lots of off) since your hawaii days around 2008 or so. (the blueprint decoded times and that mexico trip !) I havent watched your stuff for many years, I am not interested in anything dating-wise, but i have to say that that brainwasihng yourself with "we're in this together" mindset with people is some of the best life changing idea I have seen in my life. thank you !!
you are the only person I know that can present an outlandish idea in a somewhat pc manner lol
I love this video
thank you Tyler
I feel better watching your content now that I've been in and paid for a Transformation Mastery event :D Not just free-riding!
Bro. This just changed my life. I don't know if you truly understand, this has been an underlying issue and has had me in a rut for the past year. As soon as I embodied this ideal, my mood changed as well as all the negative symptoms i've been having. I'm aware that may sound shallow, I have some legitimate past traumas that caused this however. Now I see how to change it, and I am greatly thankful.
P.s.- before this video I thought of Tyler as just another pua. This video changed that perception.
Thank you, Tyler! Sometimes I feel so fucked up... but I don't wanna be a loser. And somehow you help me bounce back, pull a Charlie Harper(so to say)... and win!
This video is GOLD.
I love you Owen.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Thank you, Tyler. There are many so-called dating gurus and Red Pill coaches polluting the minds of men online by trying to turn women into the enemy. I'm glad you're singing a different tune. Loudly!
This was in my opinion one of Tyler's best videos! His message to all of us is quite urgent as he says. I have been fortunate enough to have had my own "epiphonies" as well. Once you truly realize what he is saying in this video, especially the last segment, your life will completely change. Everything will become so much easier and the only thing you will want to do is help others. I have been following RSD for a few years now and it is really cool to see the evolution in his message from just dating advice to the bigger picture perspective that we all have been suckers and have had the truth of who we truly are and what we are doing here hidden from us by the "control system." It's time to wake up and realize who we are and to come together, help each other and spread love because thats what we truly are! Thank you for all your videos Tyler!! Peace!!
We are lucky to live in a time when people who have “made it” can share what they’ve learnt. That it doesn’t solve their problems
Thanks bro...u definetely changed all my life with the videos u blocked and now even more with this amazing video.Its like everytime i need a new answer u are always there for me...thank you im a new person. Thank u so much.
Wow, this video has really hit home with me and actually made me cry. Not because I am sad of the life I have been living but because I have some sort of direction now to go forth with and I just know it's going to be so beautiful.
I know social media has put me in a mindset where I have to act, look or think a certain way, when really all I have to do is be the dorky self I was when I was little or how I am when I am alone with my best friend. Act that way around strangers. It just starts with me. Not being serious, and needing to laugh at myself more.
Taking these thoughts to my dating and relationship life and can't wait to see the change.
Watched the whole 50 min, soul opening.
My master. Since 2014 :)
Hi Łukasz, are you maybe from Warsaw? I`m looking for people interested in RSD to go out more systematically. Since RSD forum is down I find it hard to contact people from community. If you have time to go out on Fri/Sat maybe Thr let me know in this thread. I`m relatively new to RSD but I hope I will catch up soon on 4 day self help in Prague. Cheers!
So I wrote already so many reactions to rsd... but here I go again. I have studied political science... got my masters like 10 years ago... also studied and almost finished master philosophy... my hobbies are history .. studying sociology... history... etc. Since I work last 10 years I know all Tony Robbins ... nap9lian hill etc type of guys... but O M F G... NEVER HEARD OR SAW anything close to this guy. It’s the most colorful REAL AND HUMANE person that has ever lived. His frame and thinking is so original. Also because it has never been done or said before like the way that he expla8ns it. I know it’s original cause I ‘now literally every other social theory or whatever. It’s sheer genius. Love this shit so much. Can’t express it in words.
I was at an event the other day and all this happened. Shit was fuckin trippy man. I finally get what you mean by assume attraction! Shit is HEAVY man! I was just having fun and people were just gravitating towards me. The energy was centered around me but I wasn't even striving for that. I was just free! Shit was fuckin sick bro. Thank you big bro!
this video is helped me quite a bit with my depression. i got a lot more work to do, but i wanna say thank you
Thank you Owen, you have been a huge part of my life, will never regret the day i found your videos, funny enough i used to have the email of David D'langelo and had no idea that you guys were together at the time i used to read them and go this is bull shit it never works, its not possible. Thank you for all the time spent!!!!!
The concept of just being a big dork really resonates with me. People even call me a big dork and it makes me feel good lol.
Owen, sometimes i have no fucking clue what you are talking about..but you really believe it so I believe you.
Im actually tearing up from the end of the video.. it's soo relatable to me and my life and it's so beautiful and simple how presence affects you.
THANK YOU Tyler.
How crazy is that the first song is On My Own by Ulrich Schnauss, a song I listened to on repeat when I first read The Fountainhead that you recommended in one of your videos TEN YEARS AGO! I was 15 back then and you were still living here. That’s insane. Since then, I slept with over 120 girls, became my own boss, had great fun in Hawaii and now travel and surf in Indonesia. Thanks for all the stuff over the years!
At some point like a year after I found Max (i have already found the other guys from RSD) I was thinking this shit isn't working and stopped watching videos. A few months after I was in a social group and was just being there in the moment, not thinking or judging, just perceiving the social dynamics and that was the moment I knew you guys changed my life just with the free videos. Now I'm an executor. I go out and talk to people, which you couldn't make me do for the life of me before. Now it's fun. I don't even need to know the names of no one I meet. I just go out, have fun, and from time to time I see someone that says something like "Oh, It's you again! Hi! What was your name again? Wanna hang out?" That's an amazing feeling. I just want to have fun and help people with whatever I want, but before my mindset was that I wasn't enough and people won't let me help them and that was what was happening. Now it's just the helping people part. Can't find anyone to help. So now I'm building skills to get better so some doors can open for helping others. If I'm the best at something I can help someone get better at it.
This by far the most energetic video i have seen from tyler....for a moment i literally saw energy waves coming out of his body...Tyler you by far the most authentic and honest person i have seen on the internet:)
regarding competition:
"I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind."
Ecclesiastes 1:14
Completely true!
This is so for me. Finally "don't compare yourself to others" explained - you can be yourself and not take part in show-offs, and you'll reap your results by being authentic and attracting people with that.
dude, this concept changed my life... 3 years later..
Thankyou owen for this video. As you move up in status it's important to adapt this collaborative frame orelse you generate a lot of shit from other people. But when you're collaborative, it attracts people to you and you're like a light bulb in the darkness. I can imagine how much fulfillment you feel by getting this out in the world. It's like it has a higher purpose to it and the level of impact it can have is immense if many people adopt this frame in the world.
Tyler I have been following you for 4 years you have really transformed yourself shedding all the dark layers of self stepping into your true self you are my role model
When you've been through similar experiences and transformation, you don't just hear Tyler's words, you relive all of the similar experiences you had and it sparks that same life-changing empowerment feeling all over again. That i can only compare to exctasy. I'm just laughing at all the crazy things I've done. Tyler, much respect, your words are empowering, keep going and thank you.
You are my biggest mentor Tyler. I became so strong by listening to you and executing on things you preach. I hope I will get a chance to meet you one day.
You're starting to hit the spot Tyler 🔥✨👌🏽
Just finished the rest of the video, wow, Owen you really put your true self out there so to speak. Thank you for your bravery and for clearly not giving AF. We need more voices like you calling out the divisiveness in the media these days. Thank you, keep speaking your truth, the world needs it.
Competitive is scarcity mindset vs working together is abundance. Really you can’t be both since it is a state of mind. Love these concepts, hope to bring these into my UA-cam channel. Thanks for sharing your experience. I feel like Eckhart Tolle is my bible lol.
Oh man I wish everyone would listen to this... This world could be so blissful
I've experienced that when people are weird or don't share with your vibe and you also bring the oneness to it through stillness it doesn't hit at all, in fact it can become helpful in grounding within and make your energy more on point. Ofc, easier said then done but something to aim at!
“Let’s just love each other. I know that sounds crazy”
Lol.
Thank you! I noticed the release muscle very strongly and am working on allowing it to run my life. We are already enough as is, now just get out of your own way, unlearn all the bad habits, and LIVE
I just pretend to be in charge and have convinced myself I am.
Seems to work great for me
this is the most powerful thing i've ever heard in my entire life!! being competitive is just poison to the mind. there is no one to compete to!! seriously, you are like the next level raid boss of jordan peterson, robert greene, or any other person that discusses human psychology for self-development.
i have learned more from you than any other person or book that i have ever read in my entire life!! it's like shackles have been broken in my mind. thank you
This comment section are so light, thx guys, u make my moning brighter.
Peace.
Its funny how blueprint decoded is still the main source of Tyler's new videos. Great job Owen , amazing one.
Thats when you realize heaven right there
Another thing that came to my mind is that the reason why most people do not create content is because they are in competitive frame and too judgemental with themselves and others
Best video you've ever made bro.
That's beautiful 15:54 that wave. Also an extremely helpful video, Love you Tyler.
I felt a deep stillness once I finish the video .. let’s be happy and be collaborating
I lived in Honolulu with my ex in 2013 & 2014.. it was beautiful ! This was a very nostalgic and heart felt one.
It felt so good listening to that truth is being told big time!
I love how you ended this video. The power of now
At the end of the video I felt a combination of inner peace and optimism for the future. I love that you share videos like this with the world.
This is insane content! Happy you’re exploring & teaching new realms Owen 🙏🏻
When we fill in the blanks ourselves when it comes to applying all this to dating, the results and insights will skyrocket
Julian Steur couldn’t agree more.
Beautiful message. I have watched this video of yours more times than all your others. Thank you Owen, for everything ♥️
This is like reading Eckhart Tolle and thinking you've understood it. And then coming back to it a year later to see that you actually need some more experience to even begin to grasp the nature of this message... Thank you Tyler, we admire your wisdom :D
You just validated what I've felt many times, but then forgot over and over
Literally so thankful!! I had an experience tonight where I got rejected but then asked out again within the same second...literally no clue...and I didn't care. I was just happy that I was my fun and carefree self again like nothing mattered. I am super happy that you have videos like this on the internet! I had a super abusive bf who would correct everything that I did socially, even if I did nothing wrong. I would be the centre of the room's attention and he'd tear into me, I'd jokingly tease his friend about chest hair and he'd tear me down to the point where his friend had to apologise for his behaviour because he knew it was a jk. But im SO SO HAPPY! Because im going out and putting in the effort and I can feel my bubbly self coming back again! SO THANKFUL! It's so cool though, I feel like i'm learning a skill all over again. IM SO HAPPY & EXCITED!
Damned Tyler, bending down to.mainstream is one thing.
Leaving 1000s of guys in cold is another
I found your content yesterday and have been immensely enjoying it, and then you mentioned Reality Transurfing which is my favorite book of all time! You’re one of the real ones 💪🏻
Thank you for letting us be part of your journey, Tyler!
I was on a movie set the other day for the first time scoping out the scene. There was this super hot girl there. All the guys were chasing her validation. I saw her and we instantly caught a vibe because of this exact energy you're speaking on. I've recently been going through a lot of transitioning in my life and I'm coming out a one of the deepest depressions I've had in a while but when I came out of it, everything was different. I was able to recenter and speak to my psychiatrist and get on Lexapro which is helping along with my meditation and action taking and changing of daily habits. Now there isn't this resistance in my brain to action. I guess it's more serotonin. Either way I said that to say that I'm entering this new paradigm and it's super exciting. I've been going out for a while and been getting decent results but not what I want and I didn't know why. I'm learning now that it was a lack of congruence, not a lack of tactics or ability. Anyway though, back to the story, the other guys were there too and they were all in competition but I just caught a vibe with everyone and didn't join that energy and just made it fun for all of us. I was clearly the one the girl was most interested in but it wasn't about that. We still all had fun. It was hard to tell at that point that she liked me because the energy around was so weird because everyone was focused on taking taking taking. I even caught myself slipping a few times into the weird vibe but I was able to stay centered. The girl played distant a bit but I could tell it was just the environment making her feel a bit weird with all the guys chasing her and she's an actress so she was trying to learn at the same time but we were able to link energetically. The one thing I noticed is that I should trust the energy more and not pay so much attention to what everyone else is doing or competing as you put it. Just setting my intention and synchronizing with it and allowing and just vibing. It was amazing! She and I are going out this week. Dope content Tyler. This new shit is crazyyyy it's even more exciting because I'm just entering this paradigm and the content you're releasing seems almost like it's made exclusively for me. It's trippy af. Thanks Tyler!