Why Radhi Shetty REFUSES to Pretend Her RELATIONSHIP with Jay Shetty Is Perfect ❤️🔥

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  • Radhi Shetty reflects on the common assumption that her relationship with Jay is perfect, particularly after the release of his book. While she acknowledges that Jay is an amazing partner, she is uncomfortable with the idea of perfection and how it can create unrealistic expectations. Similarly, Radhi also faces the misconception that she is always happy and never upset. However, she explains that she chooses what to share with people, as she wants to share positive energy and not bring others down with negative emotions. Radhi recognizes the importance of being mindful of the energy we give off to others, as it can impact the people around us.
    #jayshetty #radhi #relationship #perfect #refuses

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  • @job6054
    @job6054 5 місяців тому +24

    Don't give these people your money or your time. He's a proven fraudster and she's been sucked in by him

  • @aslclasslorettachacon4943
    @aslclasslorettachacon4943 Рік тому +985

    I think it’s great that you’re being vulnerable and you’re telling the truth because in reality everyone goes through different emotions. No marriage is perfect. We are not perfect and emotional intelligence is very important!Sharing the truth with people that you are real and things are not always on the bright side. I think that’s amazing that’s coming, out of hiding.As a Counselor we all know perfectionism is it’s own disorder. I love you both just be real… just always remember it’s OK to cry.

    • @nanaaddae8623
      @nanaaddae8623 Рік тому +4

      Love this. Its good to know you're as human as i am too. Just be you. Imagine my shock when you showed being my husband in s day skit. I was like omg, he's so real like most men. My husband dont leave his stuff ar,however i wish he comes home after ive handled the home, cooking n 3 little kids all day ,he will ssy to me " how can i help you right now, what do you need" not sute of id switch thst for him tiding up after himself i want it all. But thid is what im blessed with n am making the best out of it. May 2023 was 13 yrars in marriage.
      I want to hugg you 10x.I can feel your emotions well i guess am really an empath. ❤

    • @JessicaCate-wc7fk
      @JessicaCate-wc7fk 10 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @JamesMullan-g7k
      @JamesMullan-g7k 9 місяців тому +2

      Vulnerability is definitely a strength.

    • @colincorn8678
      @colincorn8678 6 місяців тому +4

      is she the one married to the fraud?

  • @neledemeulemeester754
    @neledemeulemeester754 5 місяців тому +76

    How to NOT talk when you're talking

    • @tamlynn786
      @tamlynn786 4 місяці тому +18

      Right? She said a whole lot of nothing 😂

    • @AmrinDesha
      @AmrinDesha 18 днів тому

      No she did not. Unlike most of us in the comment You both just dont have the level of emotional maturity to understsnd the depth of what she said. ​@@tamlynn786

  • @Pedanticskepticism
    @Pedanticskepticism Рік тому +537

    I buckled under this pressure with my first relationship. Everyone kept saying how perfect my partner was and I kept taking it in and deduced that I am not perfect for him 😢

  • @tammiefi8716
    @tammiefi8716 Рік тому +379

    They both have these beautiful eyes. Thankful for them sharing what they have learned in relationship.

    • @shekar222
      @shekar222 Рік тому +5

      You can change the color of your eyes if you like the technology is available in the India and I have heard, soon in the US

    • @fruitsarelife7073
      @fruitsarelife7073 Рік тому +14

      @@shekar222 no I think people think it’s nice but don’t actually want to change their own to have that . Just because you compliment someone doesn’t mean you don’t think yours are beautiful.

    • @shekar222
      @shekar222 Рік тому +6

      @@fruitsarelife7073 Just because someone shares information doesn’t mean that they think that others don’t see their eye color as beautiful.

    • @shefk7325
      @shefk7325 Рік тому +19

      People can't understand that some Indians naturally can have coloured eyes lol

    • @ue2267
      @ue2267 Рік тому +10

      Jay shetty got his eye colour changed through cosmetic surgery. I recall watching a video of him doing a process couple of years ago.

  • @Shantaya
    @Shantaya Рік тому +3

    I appreciate your authenticity and truth. I question others who always seem "excited" or "happy" on social media, so your truth is a breath of fresh air.

  • @barbaraschultz1442
    @barbaraschultz1442 Рік тому +13

    Radhi, just be you. You do you and you will shine. Empathic feelings are normal, not unique. The world will learn whatever your learning. Some people have the same map, others have taken a different route. The world is a classroom!😊

  • @katiegirl33
    @katiegirl33 7 місяців тому +1

    This helped me form my own similar narrative. And her precious energy and tenderness has comforted me and my own tenderness to a level I can’t even explain. Overwhelmed with gratitude for yall sharing these real and raw moments 🤍

  • @JP-wx6uh
    @JP-wx6uh 5 місяців тому +103

    You both missed your lives' true calling.. You should have been actors, because you both would have won every possible type of drama award imaginable.

    • @pupplylove3003
      @pupplylove3003 4 місяці тому +6

      ?? They are not allowed to show emotion?

    • @saggiteightyfour8367
      @saggiteightyfour8367 4 місяці тому +2

      😂😂😂😂 dead

    • @tamlynn786
      @tamlynn786 4 місяці тому +6

      Right? Fakery fake fake both of them.

    • @Mrs.AD0099
      @Mrs.AD0099 4 місяці тому

      Jay is a liar thru and thru... there is nothing authentic about him. He's a fraud.

  • @chrissyg9576
    @chrissyg9576 Рік тому +9

    I just love ❤️ her!!! She has a heart of gold and is extremely genuine. Our world really needs more love ❤️ like hers!!!!!

  • @shamgarsimte5733
    @shamgarsimte5733 Рік тому +110

    Never hide your sad emotions. As much as you share your happy energy, it's okay to share your sadness too. Have the courage to make people realise what's real. Too much of anything is good for nothing.

  • @sharri5412
    @sharri5412 4 місяці тому +13

    All words ... some people are good at talking and convincing others

  • @mishi317
    @mishi317 Рік тому +38

    No relationship or person is perfect and I love that you have addressed this bc it's not reality. You guys spread joy, messages of positivity, and so much hope to others. 🥰

  • @Bluesnakes333
    @Bluesnakes333 Рік тому +66

    The pressure to be “the one who is always happy”. It’s so hard to “let others down” when you’re already battling with sadness

  • @Patogilvillalobos
    @Patogilvillalobos Рік тому +3

    I’m totally with you same happens to me as a happy artist everyone thinks I’m always happy, but I choose to share and contagiate that energy

  • @UnderworldgoddessMoon
    @UnderworldgoddessMoon Рік тому +8

    No one is perfect: the beauty is seeing the flaws and loving the other person imperfectly, as is. If there is an evolution of change, it has to happen organically.

  • @ForeverbelongtoJesus
    @ForeverbelongtoJesus Рік тому +5

    She is so beautiful, in every way

  • @Lifeangel2908
    @Lifeangel2908 Рік тому +7

    I seriously didn’t understand one word she said, I am just hearing “like, like like, like.. “

  • @ab6551
    @ab6551 Рік тому +16

    I love her energy ugh

  • @anastasijapilnikova5732
    @anastasijapilnikova5732 Рік тому +1

    THANK YOU 💓💞🥰🙏 Bravo For Your Real Strength 💓💞🥰🙏

  • @itsshayla
    @itsshayla Рік тому +2

    I love her rawness and vulnerability. It’s a beautiful balance

  • @lindajohnson2816
    @lindajohnson2816 Рік тому +54

    Thank you for being transparent because I’ve been married for thirty one years and it’s not easy, sometimes people think we don’t have problems but I let them know that’s not true. We chose happiness over being right..

    • @utebaumert6919
      @utebaumert6919 Рік тому +1

      Do you want to be right or be happy?
      (A Course In Miracles)

    • @syanibibi
      @syanibibi Рік тому +1

      ​@@utebaumert6919it's not like if i want chocolate or chip or samosa? is it?you take what is the best in the situation na. And now i think of choco croissant🤔Interesting

  • @TishKorau2417
    @TishKorau2417 Рік тому +6

    Your transparency is beautiful 💜😘

  • @mraravind1111
    @mraravind1111 6 місяців тому +8

    How do their eyes match?

  • @MrGearoid65
    @MrGearoid65 Рік тому +1

    Very honest. Thanks for being so upfront. ❤

  • @eyerusalemsolomon9954
    @eyerusalemsolomon9954 Рік тому

    I, for one, am happy that you are sharing this side of you. I think you can be the happiest and most positive person, but still have bad days and sad days.
    Telling us you too have bad days and sad days along with all your happy and cheerful moments will help the majority of us relate to you even more.
    Perfection does not exist in this world . We all go through stuff we wish we didn't, and anyone who thinks anyone's relationship is perfect and free of flaws is so wrong.

  • @Release-the-resistance
    @Release-the-resistance Рік тому +15

    Yeah but also it’s important to acknowledge how many repress negative emotion because all they see is people posting happy stuff and highlight reels. It’s important to just be REAL.

  • @aldenasuemia
    @aldenasuemia 4 місяці тому +8

    Like like like like like. Such rich vocabulary

  • @mashmanishgwalani
    @mashmanishgwalani 9 місяців тому

    Love the way she explained! Thank you!

  • @anabettypg1919
    @anabettypg1919 Рік тому +176

    I can relate to her to a tee , she absorbes the energy of the people around her , it happens to me as well , we suffer for others.
    Very empathetic people. She is awesome! 🙌🏻

    • @archanakumaridasgupta5536
      @archanakumaridasgupta5536 Рік тому +5

      I've become very restricted of who i spend time with for this very reason. I accept my limitations that i do tend to get slightly gloomy around anything that's gloomy or like feels off.

    • @a.p.5825
      @a.p.5825 5 місяців тому

      That's weak

    • @job6054
      @job6054 5 місяців тому +2

      Empath married to a true narcissist she's exactly what they go for. She makes him look authentic when he's not.

  • @richanarayan5166
    @richanarayan5166 Рік тому +2

    This is so so so true and relatable.

  • @anshulsharma996
    @anshulsharma996 Рік тому +2

    Emotional and honest talk .. ❤

  • @janelleespinosa6247
    @janelleespinosa6247 7 місяців тому +2

    These two love to talk about their relationship. They do surveys, and write their experiences down, it's just overkill

  • @mskaruhluheevon
    @mskaruhluheevon Рік тому +1

    Yes Radhi! ❤ I completely get this.

  • @sarahmurphy-nf4yl
    @sarahmurphy-nf4yl Рік тому +190

    I love this ladies vulnerability...she's so REAL ❤️

    • @fezs9027
      @fezs9027 Рік тому

      Lol

    • @job6054
      @job6054 5 місяців тому

      Unlike her fake fraud greedy narcissist husband

    • @joshuatruvillion3044
      @joshuatruvillion3044 5 місяців тому

      Yes it is to the right person

  • @maryw4609
    @maryw4609 8 місяців тому

    Thanks very helpful and honestly put❤❤❤❤❤

  • @stellaborealis4846
    @stellaborealis4846 Рік тому +6

    I didnt understand anything of what she said. 🤦‍♀️

  • @Pedanticskepticism
    @Pedanticskepticism Рік тому +10

    Your imperfect has to fit in to his imperfect was a load of BS I was fed! If you’re shy he should be outgoing what the what! I was a social being and both of my relationships systemically broke me down to the person I am today conflicted if I wanna be social or I wanna lock myself up in a room and never go out, now my struggle is to find my balance all because I have in to BS!

  • @Treesinus
    @Treesinus Рік тому +24

    Ever consider that people love how genuine you are and want to see how you express being upset’ so they could mirror that?

  • @angelitalee4727
    @angelitalee4727 Рік тому +1

    It’s good to share your woes and happiness. Pretentious is too much work

  • @laurenfarrell4588
    @laurenfarrell4588 Рік тому +41

    She's adorable 🖤

  • @Neonikita
    @Neonikita 6 місяців тому +12

    How can one say so little by talking so much

    • @ramdasshetty8178
      @ramdasshetty8178 3 місяці тому +1

      IT TAKES BRAINS TO UNDERSTAND HER.

    • @Neonikita
      @Neonikita 3 місяці тому

      @@ramdasshetty8178 shouting doesn’t make it true! You’re 🧢

  • @deepikaa.18
    @deepikaa.18 Рік тому +10

    She dint complete even one sentence. What is the point she's trying to make

  • @gloriasaliba3395
    @gloriasaliba3395 Рік тому +3

    Why is every second word “like” what has happened to the English language ??

  • @lemonwater8961
    @lemonwater8961 Рік тому +1

    It's glad to see the vulnerable side

  • @beautifullyme8958
    @beautifullyme8958 Рік тому +2

    They’re so beautiful together

  • @kahinaharrache5026
    @kahinaharrache5026 4 місяці тому +5

    I understand her ! I do the same ! When I’m depressed, I don’t talk to anybody because I don’t want to affect them with negative energy, so people think I’m always happy 😅

  • @zandyyoung3345
    @zandyyoung3345 Рік тому +14

    What you are saying shows that you and your husband are real people - of course all of us wants to be perfect but there’s no such perfect relationship unless the other partner is a dead and emotionless person. Being honest makes a person to be a real person- a person that you can say trustworthy and lovely to encounter such. Both of you are not only good to look at in appearance but also a pleasure to listen to and learn from. Wish you both all the best and happiness ❤

    • @Detlo33
      @Detlo33 Рік тому

      There is no perfection in life. Anyone who wants to be perfect is exercising futility. What we can do is strive for excellence each day, though, and that should reverberate through all channels of our life. Nothing and no one is perfect 🙏 🤲

  • @sharfa28
    @sharfa28 Рік тому +72

    She's so real. Everything about her.

  • @LateciaPearson
    @LateciaPearson Рік тому

    Beautiful! No one’s perfect but you and your husbands attempt to be is gorgeous❤ I commend you both!

  • @gerard-bergerturbofire
    @gerard-bergerturbofire Рік тому

    She seems so happy tho ! Such a positive person (and my wish I had such a great partner and awesome relationship)

  • @angelagraczyk2123
    @angelagraczyk2123 Рік тому +13

    She is a lovely & brave soul. I truly respect her courage to make the lives of others better despite her observable personal discomfort of being on "stage"

  • @farahdiba3444
    @farahdiba3444 4 місяці тому +2

    At least she didn't quote motivational speech from others and made it as if was hers, lol.

  • @kingdomseeker7
    @kingdomseeker7 Рік тому +9

    She is such a beautiful soul ❤and loving and is aware of how people can be affected by the way ❤you can spread love 💕 or pain.. Much love and kindness Radhi 💕✨💕✨💕✨💖✨💖✨

  • @yadiraelizabethpreciado1138
    @yadiraelizabethpreciado1138 5 місяців тому +3

    The truth should set you free- Jay Shetty 😆 Address the 🐘

  • @nalinisingh284
    @nalinisingh284 Рік тому +2

    Awesome 👏 ❤

  • @Sharëssablazéblazé
    @Sharëssablazéblazé Рік тому +3

    I never thought the relationship was perfect, especially in some of the videos he seems annoyed by her.

  • @veronikavolition6395
    @veronikavolition6395 6 місяців тому +7

    we knew no relationship with this guy could be easy when we saw him on 90 Day Fiancee

  • @buzzedbrain
    @buzzedbrain Рік тому +6

    But, he copy-pastes a lot.

  • @archanasrai2774
    @archanasrai2774 Рік тому

    You are gem of the person radhi.. so human !! What world need?

  • @unpackyourmind
    @unpackyourmind Рік тому +3

    I love her and Jay, but this short was all over the place... So many sentences started and not finished. Aaaah!

  • @tamlynn786
    @tamlynn786 4 місяці тому +3

    I get neglected wife vibes from her and a deep sadness.

  • @_Palesa_M
    @_Palesa_M Рік тому +5

    What was she saying?

  • @ruthann6235
    @ruthann6235 Рік тому

    "I choose" are two very important words. We could solve so many issues in the world if we embraced those two words.

  • @jbedi200
    @jbedi200 Рік тому

    Such a lovely soul and genuine.

  • @Sunshine-gu3re
    @Sunshine-gu3re Рік тому

    Yes Jay sir is inspiration and spirtual person to many people 😄🙌

  • @Jasmine_breeze
    @Jasmine_breeze 6 місяців тому +4

    Did she just admit that they pretend to have a perfect relationship for... views and money. Do you really call the lying person a guru? If he were a monk he could know that lying is bad karma.

    • @keerthi0613
      @keerthi0613 6 місяців тому +1

      When did she "pretend" to have a perfect relationship with Jay? No relationship is perfect. People just post their happy moments on social media & not the sad moments. That's it.

    • @Jasmine_breeze
      @Jasmine_breeze 6 місяців тому +1

      @@keerthi0613 as far as I am able to understand her: in the video you have watched. Her husband pretended to be a monk as well. Well, well, well...

  • @AstrologerAanchal
    @AstrologerAanchal 2 місяці тому

    Of course dear

  • @Solistastyle
    @Solistastyle Рік тому +3

    Wow. It's very unhealthy to be "sad around sad people" or label emotions as positive or negative.
    You need to find the beauty in darkness to actually feel peace, because life is made up of equal parts darkness and light.
    You need to do some volunteer work with underprivileged people, or victims of abuse. What they need is to be around positive people and they appreciate you more. Which is much more valuable than creating or presenting a happy facade.
    Holding space for people is the most valuable thing you can do for them and that involves not letting your emotions about their circumstances bring them down. Your emotions are yours and if you can be happy and share that happiness with others, who might need a little happiness, that's the most valuable thing you can give someone.

  • @Cookwithahvivah
    @Cookwithahvivah Рік тому +8

    You are one authentic person.....love you Radhi

  • @daniasharifi702
    @daniasharifi702 Рік тому +151

    She’s got a big lovely heart and you can tell by her eyes and expressions

    • @hghvhj9i9
      @hghvhj9i9 6 місяців тому

      Who writes these comments lmao!?

  • @m.r5072
    @m.r5072 Рік тому +1

    omg this is brilliant ✨

  • @rosemarydirisio1236
    @rosemarydirisio1236 7 місяців тому +1

    I don’t find deepness in their work conversations about them in a way .. sorry they seem lovely! I love spiritual growth ! So many I enjoy won’t mention names ! 😊 but I saw once Jay talking about bill Gates then I had no interest!

  • @petparker6557
    @petparker6557 Рік тому +7

    I truly love these guys.. What you put out in the world is what you get back.. It's hard though because those of us that are sad do feel alone because some people don't want to be around that because it makes them feel bad

    • @tiffanysalerno
      @tiffanysalerno Рік тому

      Jesus can handle all your sadness! “Pour out your heart to Him, our God is a refuge for us.” - The Bible
      I literally just did that with something I was sad about and though it didn’t immediately completely make me super happy, God did lead me to a Bible verse that gives me a roadmap to move forward, and I know with Him I’m not alone❤

  • @pratitylugun22
    @pratitylugun22 Рік тому

    Feelings are not supposed to control you.

  • @veronikavolition6395
    @veronikavolition6395 6 місяців тому +8

    He groomed her like this. 90 Day Fiancee explosed how Jay is a positivity addict, and needs to pretend everything is positive all the time, and wont acknowledge otherwise. He clearly has put this on his wife now too.

  • @queen.1111
    @queen.1111 Рік тому +4

    I don't get what she is trying to convey ?

    • @jayshettyshorts
      @jayshettyshorts  Рік тому +1

      Kindly watch this playlist : ua-cam.com/play/PLxoFyPwJ74RXMg-U2Se6FYpFwyfUH9uRC.html

  • @kosar388
    @kosar388 Рік тому +5

    Its not such an impressive speech to be shared

  • @sanityisrare
    @sanityisrare Рік тому +1

    She's straight saying without saying that she's sad

  • @BQ900
    @BQ900 Рік тому

    They are both so attractive and so enlightened. But she’s right. Even my perfect marriage has huge cracks where the super glue was applied.

  • @fauxdauteur
    @fauxdauteur Рік тому +3

    I'm not trying to be rude but Radhi and Jay look like siblings: same ethnicity, same skin tone, same eyes, same accent, same way of speaking. Interesting.

  • @thandovee6544
    @thandovee6544 Рік тому +4

    She’s so beautiful OmG 😻😻😻

  • @monicatata6725
    @monicatata6725 Рік тому +2

    It is very overwhelming to Be a multilayered Human Being, experiencing One Self as a Vessel of the all encompassing emotions that are accessible to One experiencing the integration of Spirit in Matter aka Human Experience, and to be confronted with expectations of one layer, one emotion, No variables, is very restrictive. Expansion is the Goal so Please Let us Feel all One is offered to feel, let Us embrace the diversity of possibilities the connection to the Source of Unlimited Abundance in all variants. 🐛🌿🦋❤️

  • @cmartinez07087
    @cmartinez07087 Рік тому +1

    I so identify with her!

  • @saggiteightyfour8367
    @saggiteightyfour8367 4 місяці тому +6

    She could have summarised this in 4 sentences

    • @TheRightSlde
      @TheRightSlde 3 місяці тому +1

      You did not have time for more than four sentences? She's not a robot

  • @tarynsinnen9116
    @tarynsinnen9116 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for putting words to what I have been feeling! I wonder if I am being not authentic, but you worded it so beautifully... Doesnt mean I am always happy go lucky, but thats the energy I choose to share with other people!❤️

  • @florenceraynaud9465
    @florenceraynaud9465 Рік тому +32

    She is so wise and authentic 🙏🏼💙

  • @soultaex8080
    @soultaex8080 Місяць тому

    I think this is always what we think is the best thing to do in theory but then reality checks in and we realised that we need people around us to make us feel understood, and being relatable and sharing pain and all the emotions within the extent that we allow ourselves obviously is the best way to be mentally healthy. Struggling isn't something that Is meant to be done alone, for anyone. We have thought for too long that as adults or parents we only need to show our happy side but psychology has proven that that makes kids feel excluded and completely lost in their feelings without having an understanding of it. I think creators and viewers both need to share experience that go beyond happiness and positivity because it's human and the internet needs to become more human as well. this is not to criticise, it's my honest opinion. I believe we can all grow with better emotional intelligence and mental health if we all share and accept emotions in this society.

  • @shivapologetically6317
    @shivapologetically6317 Рік тому +1

    Well in my 10 year of relation , evey day is not happy day , but before go to bed you resolve thing , those long conversation with coffee and your partner ( she made better coffee then me ) , and when she get sick you take care and vice versa . It was good and bad both but what last is love for each other
    P.s "after 10 year we realise we are not compatible '' s

  • @divyasasidharan2960
    @divyasasidharan2960 Рік тому

    i get it to not share all of it but for sake of sanity of others n urself opening up a bit is a kind thing to do. coz ppl do assume that others r all happy at all times n we r only sad beings

  • @starkid77
    @starkid77 Рік тому +2

    What fool thinks any relationship of ANY kind is perfect? I don't strive for perfection but I damn sure will thrive on the love and romance that is right for me.

  • @amandarecoveryjones8216
    @amandarecoveryjones8216 6 місяців тому +3

    They look alike....

  • @cheesepie455
    @cheesepie455 Рік тому +1

    Not sure why he left monkhood for an unreal worldly life. I m not sure why so much emphasis is put itno feelings ad emotions that arr soo flertimg and unreal in nature.
    Very disappointed in Jay

  • @Pympersona
    @Pympersona 9 місяців тому

    I totally understand what you are saying. Long hug to you, honey.✨🌹🤍

  • @riarai4u
    @riarai4u Рік тому +2

    I thought they were siblings becuase of their eyes

  • @AtithyanS
    @AtithyanS 6 місяців тому +3

    Bro he got caught

  • @loitran533
    @loitran533 7 місяців тому +2

    jay's a sSScCCCCAAAAAMMMMMMMM

  • @atefemazlumi6097
    @atefemazlumi6097 8 місяців тому

    but we should show our sad days too because it gives us permission to be human being and not just be one side and feel other not good enough or when theu see you they feel disconnected from word specialy when you have voice

  • @monaissakarim7569
    @monaissakarim7569 6 місяців тому +4

    Seems like she is gaslight

  • @rutulis
    @rutulis 5 місяців тому +1

    She says so much and nothing at all... she starts the sentence and never finishes.... just jumps to next thought....