Why would I want you to spend unnecessary money, when you have a coupon? That's dumb. Also, if you’re kind enough to pay for MY entire meal, why would I care?
That's what I say. every single guy I ever dated always paid for me. I could care less what they do. If they are as cheap but frugal and still likes to enjoy their money Why not? I'm as cheap as it comes and if I found a guy that thought just like me. I'd be happy. I have my own savings and it's the most I've ever had.
Why are the women so worried about the man coupons and paying for the date. Why should you care How he did it, he did it. HE PAID FOR THE DATE! BE GREATFUL!
Honestly, if my husband had used a coupon in our first date I’d a problem. I feel that more thought and effort should go into a first date. I don’t mind happy hours, but to slap done a coupon comes off as cheap especially because I’m hard worker myself and wouldn’t take my man out on a first date and slap down coupon, so I expect the same. However, if it was coupon to an amusement park, or discounted movie ticket I wouldn’t mind, but at restaurant it just comes off as tacky, and tells me you can’t even afford to to pay for your food; also the tip is 10% of the bill so can even afford to tip the sever/waiter? I’m also aware that some restaurants have memberships where you get discount on your food for being member, and I’m okay with that too. I’m also the kind of person that if you’re honest that couldn’t afford it, I’d at least pay my half or even just go get some groceries and we make our dinner or picnic, but coupon on first dinner date is a no. I’ve heard stories from friends and family, where men used coupons and voiding afford to pay the rest of the night for an amusement park, or didn’t have gas in their to get them or himself back home; or even after the coupon still didn’t have money to pay for her meal. I can understand why Loni is saying no; she’s also older and much more experienced than the other girls on the show.
Sometimes when you use Groupon, some places treat you differently and this is from experience. Unfortunately this has nothing to do with the place but the employee...
Yes to the guy in the audience for being REAL. A lot of people are too materialistic and petty and they’re never gonna be in a healthy good relationship because of that.
“He’s not a real man” ... I have more to offer as a person than just my money, so take your entitled mindset and shove it 🤷🏻♂️ Later in the vídeo she also said “if you can’t afford me you don’t get me” which is a perfect display of where all her priorities are centered - money.
loni being salty and close minded. dating shouldn't be something you have to afford to do. companionship is one of the basic human needs. going to the park, having a nice picnic, etc. all count as dating. if the other person is cool with you saving a little money, what does it matter? if the other person isn't, they're not the one for you but you wouldn't have known that had you not dated. and yes, the guy Jeannie was talking about did use a form of coupon/discount by going to eat during the times when the food was cheaper AND he let his girl know. loni is just being mad annoying in this segment, trying to be right instead of listening and understanding.
I think it's super nice if somebody regardless of gender, buys you a soda or candy bar. If a guy asked me out on a date then paid with a coupon, I see no issue with it. He does not have to pay for my meal or we can split the bill. I think it's just being considerate on both sides.
As a married women, I'd rather do more for less then less for more. Some of ya'll need to learn and stop trying to impress people by making yourself broke.
Jeannie Mai!!!!! When they do the next Crazy Rich Asians, you better be in it!!!!!! You're so fly that I can't even fathom why you weren't a part of the original cast!!!!! You're the picture of swag, beauty, wealth, and intelligence! Do that thang! Get your role!
What I dont understand is (and I understand not everyone thinks this) why is it wrong to want to be a wife and mother and stay home and raise your kids while supporting your man who works hard? If thats what you desire. Whats wrong with it?? As a Millennial myself, I am happy to raise my son and daughter and my husband works hard to provide for us. I also work from home as well.
Abbie Ruth SAME!!! not only that but I would like to be more involved raising my kid(s) and possibly home schooling for a bit or having them involved in extra activities etc. And with technology today there are more & more ways to work from home. I work from home now and love it.
I feel that okay, but I also say be prepared because life happens unexpectedly and you what to be able to continue to rise your kids. I also think negativity comes from the idea of being a stay at home mom is because many that even I’ve came treat their children like work and imply moms that work aren’t really raising their kids; which creates division between working moms and stay at home mom in general. My view is that raising a child stay at home or not is your responsibility and duty not work. Work is job you’re getting paid to do, and no one is paying you watch your child. Secondly, many working moms do wish they were fortunate enough to stay home and spend more time with their kids. I had sister that at one was a stay at home mom and working mom and she decided to be a stay at home mom because it was more complex trying to find a babysitter, working, coming home and taking her kids, not being able spend as much time with them and still having chores to do especially because her husbands job sent him it on the road lot. She eventually made the decision to be a stay at home mom, but at same time she still wants to make her own income in case of emergencies.
People think its wrong if it isnt the woman deciding to do so and just the man not wanting the woman to be independent/wanting to control her. A lot of times woman are put in the housewife box because of how domestic life used to be back in the day.
LOOOL IM DEAD 3:44😂😂💀this had me weak af, Man in audience: thats why u stay single everyone applauds 🐸☕️👀 Jeannie: give it up for the man who said u stay single Yass! Loni: THIS MY SHOW!!!😒 let me talk hahah Loni be all in her feelings😂😂 audience and co-host shading her like that!!
You have to measure the entire man. If he is financially strapped for a good reason I don't mind. But if he's cheap because I'm one of many I'm gonna pass.
She's never used Groupon before. You can travel, you can go sky diving, you can go to a nice spa. You can do a lot of things at a cheaper price with Groupon. I kinda get what she's saying, she doesn't want to see the smoke and mirrors of it all. I don't mind, I'm like did you find this on Groupon? Lol and then we take a about the things that we can do on our next date with Groupon.
Well even if he had the money , I'm the one looking for the coupon, I'm literally the one showing him the list of cheap options then the day I want to go full chic ,elegant , high class , I let him know so he gets prepared! That's my thing!
I dated a guy in the military and he would always ask for military discounts... it was just an uncomfortable situation when they said they didn’t have any lmfaooo 💀💀💀
I agree 100% with Jeanie. Anybody who has a good sense of money and numbers is sexy and who knows how to save and invest. If woman are having hard time accepting a coupon, that just shows that you as a woman do not have a good numbers sense which is a very unattractive trait. It shows that at the beginning if this person isn't onboard, then in the long run they will be a finacial liability rather than an asset.
All Loni is saying is it's attractive when a guy splurges on the first date. Meaning first impression shows he got a little coin. He can play it both ways. First date, I'm going all in because he thinks the date is worth it. After they're comfortable with each other, use them coupons boo!! But this first date, show me I'm worth a little coin. I agree with the coupon thing. I love saving money. I know we all do. But yall women be serious. Ya'll would be a little turned off seeing a man using a coupon on the first date, assuming he can't afford it & is just trying to hard to impress. Be honest......we like a man that splurges on us every now & then, because we ARE worth it. #MuchLove
Tokyoo Cox, I agree with what your saying, I would be a bit turned off, but I would not care if it was the second, third etc. I totally am for saving money, so if he can’t afford to go to a fancy place, than don’t take me to a fancy place you can’t afford. Their is no need to act like you got it like that if you don’t got it like that, if I like you it’s not going to matter at the end of the day.
Show you you're worth a little coin? If someone asks you out and gives their time, attention and whatever resources they have to provide you with a date, how dare you act ungrateful just because they paid for it with a $50 bill and a 50% coupon instead of a full $100 bill? You're obviously not worth a little coin, because you're focused on how they've paid for it rather than they've successfully paid for it.
@@fatimao2161 Exactly. Thats the point. Don't take a woman somewhere you can't afford. First date, is all about the positive impressions. & that start, is somewhere he can afford. Not everyone can live that "boujie" lifestyle. I sure can't. BUT I know what I'm worth on a first date. Once you get to know someone, thats when living that comfortable, so called "cheap" lifestyle, I'm 100% all about. I'm not ashamed. Again, nothing wrong with the coupon life. Anybody think differently, that's their own opinion. 💕But I'm glad we agree 💕
@@OneLoveRSR ok....aaaand that's your opinion. 🤷🏽♀️ To me it's not being ungrateful, when i know its a place he can afford to fully pay for. On a FIRST date. Hence why communicating beforehand is important. Also, don't take a woman to a place you can't afford...again especially on a first date. (Show her you tried to at least impress her, by paying the full bill. )But if she doesn't like the restaurant because it's not "boujie" enough, by her own standards, then that's STILL her opinion, & she can leave.Some women could care less about the attention he gives her. They, in the end, just want his money. It's not your relationship, so it's not your opinion to judge. It may be sad, yes, that she's using him, but, not your relationship. 🙂
My mum was a stay at home mum. Three kids. We are a lawyer, vet and nurse. I totally attribute our sucess to how we grew up. If you can stay at home, I say go for it.
3:38 Male audience member: "That's why you stay single!" Loni defensively & rudely: "This is MY show, let me talk." This hit too close to home for Mrs. Love #Humble
God is so funny..I commented on this months ago and I said I'd never date a man with financial issues...I started talking to this guy at work and our first conversation was so good that it was 8 hours long..4 hrs text and 4 hrs over the phone...the next day he lost his job...Our conversation was so good that i didn't want to stop talking to him. I learned how great of a dad he was, and how responsible, dedicated and sweet he was too. We still talk and I'm glad i made that decision. He recently got another job and ended up getting me one too when I lost mine. Had I judged him I would've missed out on him AND a job lol.
Loni "This is my show"...uhhhh since when did this become Loni Love TV? Peep Adrienne's face at 3:55 ! I thought it was called "The Real". Didn't appreciate her attitude on this segment. Ewww!
Am I the only one that wouldn’t care if I see that he has a coupon?! I wouldn’t be embarrassed by that, or want him to pay discreetly with one, I’d be like YESS boo lets save some coin!!
@@sosmcs specifically the recent video I referred to. Can you believe she just wouldn't acknowledge that black women have it the hardest in America? It's about the bette Midler tweet.
@@imbored6037 I don't think it's okay to say that black women have it the hardest. It would have made more sense that black women have it hard that they are one of the groups that has it the hardest in the US. It's about wording.
But Loni doesn't have it that hard and she DID persevere when it was difficult. And she was black during the struggles AND successes. Why should she have to lie to make you feel better? Race doesn't affect her much in her life. Studies show that in fact MOST black people say racism in their lives is either non-existent or has negligible affects. Those same studies however, show that people still see racism as a "major issue" (white people more than black people). It shows a large disconnect between perception and reality.
This is really the fist time I see a clip that takes 14:35 min. Please more of this type lenght of vid. Nice topic btw! Love the debate between the girls.
@@memimomomum Bro she was making fun of guys who don’t have money like that so they try to save it has nothing to do with her skin color it’s the fact that what she said was disrespectful and uncalled for
THIS IS HOW TO HAVE A DISAGREEMENT ON TALKSHOW!!!👏👏 They didn't agree in the first 8 mins of this clip but no shade. No scathing remarks. No outright dismissal of anyone's opinion, no rudeness and no one got cut off. Just peaceful fun disagreements. This is the show we need to see.
Here's my perspective as a guy: We will all go on ALOT of dates in our lifetime. It will be foolish to throw money around on dates when there is a high chance that this chick may not even be what you're looking for in a woman. So let me get this straight, you are expected to spend all this money impressing women (wining and dining) and pay for it all on your own to "be a gentlemen" when there's a chance that this woman may not even be what you're looking for? This is called being a fool with your money. Ladies, just like the guy who you on a date with isn't the only person you're seeing, the guy is also dating other women to see who grabs his interest more. But, to be frank, I prefer a free or cheap date as the first date because i'm getting to know you. Why would I spend $100 on someone I barely know? lol. If it were my choice, I'd choose something settle like a picnic or walk in the park and we can maybe catch a bite to eat if she's hungry. I don't believe first dates are about "impressing people". I believe they're about getting to know someone as an individual.
So funny, I am literally texting my partner as I watch this discussing if we have children if he would take half of the parental leave. Knowing that he happily would made me feel 1000% more happy to be with him.
I know this is old but Loni please stop tripping Lol. My dude (now husband)is paid and makes huge money LEGALLY and when we went on our first date he used a coupon and we laughed so hard because the bill was still like $250 but it really got me into him. And we did this for each other every time we went on dates now we are married and still do the same thing. Fellas, if she trips out about a coupon RUN...that B just want to be kept and you in for a roller coaster ride with that one. Ladies, sometimes listening to Loni's advice will keep you single always looking for a dude to always pay full price for a meal. Loni is just being stank. Tamera Voice: "LOOONII" LOL #chickplease
I just wanna know why it was important for you to specify So Clearly, in capital letters, that he makes huge money legally!?🤣🤣😂😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I mean only people who who've been accused of being _"illegal"_ will yell out _"legal"_ even when no one asked😂😂😂🤣😅👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
That's how she lime things. Who are you to tell her she's tripping or wrong. You're ok with a guy using coupons while others aren't. She didn't say the other women who are ok with it are stupid, she said she ain't about that life. Get yours and go on with your day
Are yall really talking about this woman's weight 🤔 none of you even have a profile pic and are not expanding on what it is your offering🤦♀️ Off the top of my head: loni is beautiful, brings college degrees, house, car, and her successful career.
I'm with Loni on this one. If the guy can't afford to date, then he shouldn't be dating. I'm not trying to hear all the excuses and I want to be able to order what I want. My salad is going to be a side dish, not the main dish. Yes, on the first date. I have low blood sugar so he better be prepared. I wish I would take a guy out. I came from a generation where the guy knew that he paid. They didn't dare allow the woman to pay. It was an insult. The only person I pay for here and there is my husband because I want to treat him sometimes. Otherwise he pays. Now my view as far as staying at home or not, let it be my choice...part-time, full-time or not at all. I'm still all about chivalry. Yes treat me with respect, open doors, let me go ahead onto the elevator, put me into the car and get me out the car and close the door, when walking near traffic be sure to put me on the inside and he walks on the outside (protect me), if a dog is running near us be sure to stand in front of me. Get my bags without asking. Know how to fix things and how to keep a yard. You get the idea. I grew up in a more traditional home down south. However there were some modern ideas that were sprinkled on me. I was taught to be independent but not from God of course. I know how to do general maintenance on a car, mow a yard, manage my own account, worked and went to school. Once I left home, I never went back because my parents did a good job in teaching me to be a responsible adult. I toughened things out and became a good problem solver. If a man treats me well, I will treat him better. Yes I can cook and will serve him his plate. Just do things that will make him feel appreciated. However, pamper me too. Then we'll both be happy.
Yea but that doesn't mean u gotta call a whole person annoying. Just say the way she cut Jeannie off was annoying or you didn't like what she was tryna say. I think there are viewers who can relate to each of the ladies' views. Some moms are actually feeling bad for not being able to spend more time with their kids due to financial situations, and Tamera's interjection is telling those viewers who relate that it is alright. As long as in their spare time, they spend quality time with them.
everything is wrong with being a stay home mom. how can somebody be ok with a man getting you everything you need?? Like how do you feel about not doing anything for your self? what do you teach you children?
@@DaniielaVergara In your world, you work and get a check. In Recettes, she doesn't work (if she chooses) and gets the same benefits. I wouldn't be so quick to judge/condemn! Also, she never said she wouldn't be working. If you wanted to get your POV off then cool but you missed the mark here.
@@DaniielaVergara Also, the kids is a low blow don't you think. She could prolly teach her hypothetical children a lot with all the time she will be spending with them...ya know...staying at home.
I'm a stay at home mum and my husband is the sole provider. This is something we decided together. I am teaching my children to be decent human beings. And you know what I am more qualified (Masters) than my hubby, and could probably earn more if I did work. But I want to stay home with my babies because I have all the time in the world to get a job but my children will only stay children for so long.
Even though Loni's comments came across dismissive and brash, I see her point. The first date is the first impression. If financial circumstances are an issue, then you BOTH should pick a place to go where you can BOTH afford to eat. That way it will be an even plain field.
Taneshae Davis Rich people stay rich because they save money. Using a Groupon says NOTHING about what you can afford, but instead it shows how smart you are with your money. Its superficial and shallow to assume that because a guy is interested in you, he should change his routine and spend more money on you. Money does not equate to love or interest at all. The fact that he’s paying for your meal should be flattering enough, but to go even further and request that he not save his hard earned money while doing that is just low, yet Loni says these men aren’t “real men.” A real man doesn’t let his pride cause him to go broke trying to impress some chick he may never see again.
@@Isaacthedondada I like men who save money because I save money as well. I use coupons, groupons and dollar menus at restaurants! But as I said in my statement, if 2 people really want to go on a date but their financial circumstances arent the best, they should decide TOGETHER what they would like to do! That way things aren't awkward and the money won't be an issue. However, I completely understand where you are coming from.
Using a Groupon doesn't mean your finances aren't in order, though. Maybe he's just a person that watches his money. I could see if Groupons only applied to crappy places...but you can find a Groupon for damn near anywhere.
@@shaedavis53 but hun using a groupon doesnt equal finances not being the best!! thats shallow of you to judge. why would he give the restaurant extra money when he doesnt need to? what benefit do you get from the restaurant getting more of his money for the same meal ?? stupid.
It’s just like, would you do this on a business lunch? If you have an important client with you? If it’s your best friend or your on the third or fourth date it’s chill
Loni love.. just because u got money now doesn't mean u gotta look down on people who dont have n e thing... ur saying saying that now that u have money... Money is not everything.. Love is everything whether u poor or rich... there is nothing wrong with a dude or a girl trying to save money as long as the heart is true... we all went thru struggles in life u bet u did too loni love so dont look down on people who are trying... I love u and the show but sometimes u loni love just forget what u been thru to be where u are now... I hope u r reading this loni love..
I love cheap dates! My husband and I’s first date was Denny’s. It wasn’t about what we do, it’s about forming a connection. We also are cheap and use rewards clubs to go to the movies and we get our candy and drinks from THE DOLLAR STORE!! Sue me, but those are some of my favorite kinds of dates!
I'm a millenial and I've been married since I was 21. I stay home and take care of my 4 beautiful children and my husband provides for us. My husband supports what ever I decide to do, work out side of the house or stay home.
Loni said that she's just talking about first dates, but hows he supposed to get any further if ur saying that if he doesn't have money he shouldn't date? Then he won't ever be with anyone until he gets more money. That's just wrong to say tbh. Because I bet theres men out there who believe that because they don't have money they can't find someone to love. Someones financial situation doesn't represent what kinda person they are or how they'll treat you. Plus someone don't have a choice but to be broke until they can figure something out. There's people out here struggling trying get food for a day and that's beyond their control so what? now they can't find someone to love? What shocks me is that Loni has openly expressed that shes been broke before. She knows the struggle, but she still says this?
My mum was a stay-at-home mum and that she was there every single day of our lives growing up for me and my two sisters. We turned out to be a lawyer, a doctor and a nurse. So sorry tamara, you can try and justify that working will mean you have a better kid but it really doesn't mean anything.
I’m with Loni & Tam 🤷🏾♀️ everyone don’t want to be in a struggle relationship. Jeannie & A never have and never would probably date a man without means at their big age. Let women have their standards, to each their own.
In my opinion I think that in the first date it will feel awkward to use the groupons and all that maybe the second day it will be fine as long as he’s honest about it
This is why I don’t go out with just anyone. I get to know them for a while and then go on from there. I want them to get to know me enough to feel comfortable being themselves and know that I’m not judgmental.
I'm a millennial and when I get married, if my husband wanted me to stay home, I definitely would. I would make sure to ask what his reasons were and if they were valid, I would do it. If he offers it I would want it to be my choice though not him demanding it.
Koojia Xyooj I totally agree, like she said if you can’t afford to take me out, don’t take me out. It is what it is, you don’t need to be extra if you ain’t got the money to be extra. I don’t understood why guys try to be fancy when they don’t have the means to be fancy with. Just go to a place you can afford.
I won't let a man use too much on me on the first couple dates, cause I may never see him again and I would feel like I exploited him. Coffee dates are great first dates if the chemistry is there we should do adventurous/expensive dates
I dont need a fancy date.... You can have a great date with smaller things. It is not a big of a deal. The important thing is if the guy is interesting enough to try it with him.
I’m with Loni on this one. I’m not in agreement with a groupon on the first dates. The first date is your first impression. It’s important to show you care for the person enough to spend money on them. For subsequent dates, a groupon is fine. the way I see it, it’s not even about the money to begin with. It’s about the hard work behind getting the money. If you’re willing to sacrifice something you’ve worked hard for, that shows that you truly value me and want me to be a part of your life. If you’re trying to be cheap, to me, that shows I’m not worth the value of your money. If a guy organized a picnic date that saved him more money than that groupon, I will be even more happy than I would’ve been if he had paid the full price for that date because I know it took him time, work and a lot of effort to organize the picnic. So I think the root of what Loni is saying is if the guy is serious about getting with you, he should show you’re more valuable to him than the money. And the groupon just doesn’t cut it.
Why tf would I care??? Lol I have taken a guy on a Groupon date. I paid for the 4th date...we went for Sushi (not on groupon) and go karts ($50 on Groupon instead of $68) lol he had a BLAST and thought it was dope 😂 I could've paid full price, I only saved 18 dollars but why over pay for something??? He got our 5th date off groupon after I told him about the 18 I saved lol we went to paint night ♥️ Loni trippin...
My brother told a girl off one time “Honestly, I’m using coupons because I wanna give you the best experienceS, plural... a date with me isn’t a one time thing and I wanna give you a good time!” and when she continued to protest “well then you go find the guys that only wants to **** one time and leave you, I guess that’s what you want and I’m gonna have to respect that but that ain’t me”.
Smart with money is sexy. Cheap is not sexy. Plenty of other things to do that do not cost a ridiculous amount besides dinner for date night. Museums, parks, food festivals, concerts, movies, etc. Everyone has their own preferences. Personally, I like to split the costs of dates as a female. I pay for the movie if he buys dinner. That makes me happy to show that I can contribute something. "No such things as a free lunch to me." Managing expectations and clear communication are much more important than fancy meals or showering me with gifts in any of my relationships, romantic or otherwise.
My boyfriend has known since the beginning we either take turns paying the bill or we go halves, I personally don't care how he pays for his turn or his half, I only care that we are equal in paying. As for the whole staying home my boyfriend & i have also agreed we will equally do housework, & we will both work. That's it, I'm for equal everything & that's what we are, the end.
Omg i dont care if he pays it in front of me or not but i think its smart and for people to think its bad then i hope your man has endless amounts of money to spoil your ass with. I coupon and my man coupons and we saving money to have a great future together
Why would I want you to spend unnecessary money, when you have a coupon? That's dumb. Also, if you’re kind enough to pay for MY entire meal, why would I care?
Exactly!.. #WhoCares
That’s a fair point, I didn’t consider it from that perspective
Yassi EXACTLY! If her ticket was paid for then whats the problem? 🙄
Yass But what if he's not paying for your whole meal though? In this day and age, guys want to go halfsies on the first date.
That's what I say. every single guy I ever dated always paid for me. I could care less what they do. If they are as cheap but frugal and still likes to enjoy their money Why not? I'm as cheap as it comes and if I found a guy that thought just like me. I'd be happy. I have my own savings and it's the most I've ever had.
Loni, you disappoint me with this “my show” mess.
Adrienne was kinda hurt when she said that
Didnt like the comment either
Why are the women so worried about the man coupons and paying for the date. Why should you care How he did it, he did it. HE PAID FOR THE DATE! BE GREATFUL!
Right! I mean imagine if he didn't have money like he "forgot" his wallet.... lol then y'all be washing dishes haha.
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@@Mel__21 That's funny!
“BE GREATFUL!!!” 😂😂😂
Honestly, if my husband had used a coupon in our first date I’d a problem. I feel that more thought and effort should go into a first date. I don’t mind happy hours, but to slap done a coupon comes off as cheap especially because I’m hard worker myself and wouldn’t take my man out on a first date and slap down coupon, so I expect the same. However, if it was coupon to an amusement park, or discounted movie ticket I wouldn’t mind, but at restaurant it just comes off as tacky, and tells me you can’t even afford to to pay for your food; also the tip is 10% of the bill so can even afford to tip the sever/waiter? I’m also aware that some restaurants have memberships where you get discount on your food for being member, and I’m okay with that too.
I’m also the kind of person that if you’re honest that couldn’t afford it, I’d at least pay my half or even just go get some groceries and we make our dinner or picnic, but coupon on first dinner date is a no. I’ve heard stories from friends and family, where men used coupons and voiding afford to pay the rest of the night for an amusement park, or didn’t have gas in their to get them or himself back home; or even after the coupon still didn’t have money to pay for her meal. I can understand why Loni is saying no; she’s also older and much more experienced than the other girls on the show.
Did she say “ this is my show, lemme talk” ? She big and bold with Tamar gone 🤔 hmmph
This is silly, I disagree with loni completely. Nothing wrong with coupons.
I like being treated but if I am going to take you seriously I need to know you can budget and handle your finances or at least be willing to learn
Loni is bougie I wouldn't care what he paid the date with a long as he paid for the date and long as we had a good time that's all that mattered.
Sometimes when you use Groupon, some places treat you differently and this is from experience. Unfortunately this has nothing to do with the place but the employee...
Kay You Yea and so...
That’s why she’s single and fat..
Yes to the guy in the audience for being REAL. A lot of people are too materialistic and petty and they’re never gonna be in a healthy good relationship because of that.
If you got a problem with me using a coupon pay for your own meal then, problem solved.
Well you better pay if it was your idea for the date you cheap ass.
If ur gonua be mad cause he's smart with his money, then throw ur own money away on ur own meal lmao. He's gonna save them coins sksj
My boyfriend could pull out a coupon and I wouldn’t even care only little children are bothered by a coupon
Exactly. Its a fucking groupon. Smh. Women are so superficial
LaDarius Baker yup!!!
“He’s not a real man” ... I have more to offer as a person than just my money, so take your entitled mindset and shove it 🤷🏻♂️ Later in the vídeo she also said “if you can’t afford me you don’t get me” which is a perfect display of where all her priorities are centered - money.
xris905 very true
Agreeeeeeedd
what you said is literally so hot, so is ur pic
loni being salty and close minded. dating shouldn't be something you have to afford to do. companionship is one of the basic human needs. going to the park, having a nice picnic, etc. all count as dating. if the other person is cool with you saving a little money, what does it matter? if the other person isn't, they're not the one for you but you wouldn't have known that had you not dated. and yes, the guy Jeannie was talking about did use a form of coupon/discount by going to eat during the times when the food was cheaper AND he let his girl know. loni is just being mad annoying in this segment, trying to be right instead of listening and understanding.
Exactly
Saving money is cheap now? Okay....
Right?
If she making me spend so much money how about making her pay the whole bill.
Who's cheap now?!
I think it's super nice if somebody regardless of gender, buys you a soda or candy bar. If a guy asked me out on a date then paid with a coupon, I see no issue with it. He does not have to pay for my meal or we can split the bill. I think it's just being considerate on both sides.
Especially since Loni has often talked about how poor she used to be and was barely getting by.
@@Rin_Mitsumono right!😂
Loni is trippen lol I agree with jeanie & adrienne!
Me too, I love a man who can manage his finance
Same me too I would love a man who know how to save
Me too also
Adrienne is such a real person, i love love love her
if ufeel uncomfortable with a guy saving money, then pay for urself, bish!
TEA
Preach😂
ChimneySweep07 exactly!!!
ChimneySweep07 yo dm this to Loni no neck ass
Exactly say bye to that bitch
Loni is like "this is my show, let me talk" I don't see your name in the title
It actually is her show lol
@@alexiscarrillo781 what do you mean? Am I missing something? 🤔
Who was she talking to when she said that?
@@alexiscarrillo781 Girl. Where? 😂
@Totododofodo one of. Not the owner of. It is not HER show. It's THEIR show get out my mentions and go back to Kansas todo.
As a married women, I'd rather do more for less then less for more. Some of ya'll need to learn and stop trying to impress people by making yourself broke.
Tiffany and Co. I hope you don’t have kids because I doubt they’d have a good education with your lack of knowledge of the meaning of basic words 😂😂
I ain't doing more for less what even 💀
Boom!! Amen girl!!
🕳 I understood it... you might be a little slow on this one 😬
She's not meaning labor guys she's meaning cost of activities. She said it right....
Lmao he said “ that’s why you stay single. “
Jeannie Mai!!!!! When they do the next Crazy Rich Asians, you better be in it!!!!!! You're so fly that I can't even fathom why you weren't a part of the original cast!!!!! You're the picture of swag, beauty, wealth, and intelligence! Do that thang! Get your role!
I know right!! I thought the same thing!
yes! Jeannie Mai on CRA pls! 🙌
#jeanniemaionCRA
Watched the movie last night, totally agree she could’ve played one of the brides friends
LatashaTrueHeart I’m a little late to the party, but I agree. I love Crazy Rich Asians and I love Jeannie😍😍😍😍😍
Recently got a deal on groupon for a boat ride for my date 15 dollars a ticket and we really enjoyed our night and she didnt care if i used groupons
14 minute girl chats is this a glitch?!?
They're old though lol
They are all old hahaha not foolin us
its old lol
Too good to be true 🙄
I didn't even notice lol
What I dont understand is (and I understand not everyone thinks this) why is it wrong to want to be a wife and mother and stay home and raise your kids while supporting your man who works hard? If thats what you desire. Whats wrong with it?? As a Millennial myself, I am happy to raise my son and daughter and my husband works hard to provide for us. I also work from home as well.
im the same. thats my desire.
Abbie Ruth SAME!!! not only that but I would like to be more involved raising my kid(s) and possibly home schooling for a bit or having them involved in extra activities etc. And with technology today there are more & more ways to work from home. I work from home now and love it.
I feel that okay, but I also say be prepared because life happens unexpectedly and you what to be able to continue to rise your kids. I also think negativity comes from the idea of being a stay at home mom is because many that even I’ve came treat their children like work and imply moms that work aren’t really raising their kids; which creates division between working moms and stay at home mom in general. My view is that raising a child stay at home or not is your responsibility and duty not work. Work is job you’re getting paid to do, and no one is paying you watch your child. Secondly, many working moms do wish they were fortunate enough to stay home and spend more time with their kids. I had sister that at one was a stay at home mom and working mom and she decided to be a stay at home mom because it was more complex trying to find a babysitter, working, coming home and taking her kids, not being able spend as much time with them and still having chores to do especially because her husbands job sent him it on the road lot. She eventually made the decision to be a stay at home mom, but at same time she still wants to make her own income in case of emergencies.
There is nothing wrong with that at all
People think its wrong if it isnt the woman deciding to do so and just the man not wanting the woman to be independent/wanting to control her. A lot of times woman are put in the housewife box because of how domestic life used to be back in the day.
why is loni acting the most boujee about the coupons ... everybody not rich give people a chance
Exactly!!!
How do you know she makes the least?
Lol why are you counting her coins? She was very extra on this one but funny though
ryan LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO THAT MADEEE ME LAUGH
that part!
LOOOL IM DEAD 3:44😂😂💀this had me weak af,
Man in audience: thats why u stay single everyone applauds 🐸☕️👀
Jeannie: give it up for the man who said u stay single Yass!
Loni: THIS MY SHOW!!!😒 let me talk
hahah Loni be all in her feelings😂😂 audience and co-host shading her like that!!
chantel shernelle LMFAOOOOOOO
Loni, that's not your show, it's e everybody's show, don't be mean like that!
You have to measure the entire man. If he is financially strapped for a good reason I don't mind. But if he's cheap because I'm one of many I'm gonna pass.
Coco T great perspective
She's never used Groupon before. You can travel, you can go sky diving, you can go to a nice spa. You can do a lot of things at a cheaper price with Groupon. I kinda get what she's saying, she doesn't want to see the smoke and mirrors of it all. I don't mind, I'm like did you find this on Groupon? Lol and then we take a about the things that we can do on our next date with Groupon.
They finally give us long clips but they are old😂 well they kinda listen
😅😅😅😅😅😅
I thought I was tripping for a min 😂
Can't win. 🙈
Loni needs to tone it down a bit she's like "It's MY show" when she wants to make a point she's not the only host
Well even if he had the money , I'm the one looking for the coupon, I'm literally the one showing him the list of cheap options then the day I want to go full chic ,elegant , high class , I let him know so he gets prepared! That's my thing!
I dated a guy in the military and he would always ask for military discounts... it was just an uncomfortable situation when they said they didn’t have any lmfaooo 💀💀💀
I agree 100% with Jeanie. Anybody who has a good sense of money and numbers is sexy and who knows how to save and invest. If woman are having hard time accepting a coupon, that just shows that you as a woman do not have a good numbers sense which is a very unattractive trait. It shows that at the beginning if this person isn't onboard, then in the long run they will be a finacial liability rather than an asset.
*THANK YOU*
@@jocelynpaul8615 i couldn't agree more. Nobody is looking to date a bill
BOOM! 🤜🏾🤛🏾
Romeo Reyes you right 👏🏾 and you mad cute lol ☺️
Adrienne actually admitted to it first about seeing being able to save money as sexy
All Loni is saying is it's attractive when a guy splurges on the first date. Meaning first impression shows he got a little coin. He can play it both ways. First date, I'm going all in because he thinks the date is worth it. After they're comfortable with each other, use them coupons boo!! But this first date, show me I'm worth a little coin. I agree with the coupon thing. I love saving money. I know we all do. But yall women be serious. Ya'll would be a little turned off seeing a man using a coupon on the first date, assuming he can't afford it & is just trying to hard to impress. Be honest......we like a man that splurges on us every now & then, because we ARE worth it. #MuchLove
its only attractive to gold diggers and people who are insecure in who they are like loni thinking more spending means he likes her more!
Tokyoo Cox, I agree with what your saying, I would be a bit turned off, but I would not care if it was the second, third etc. I totally am for saving money, so if he can’t afford to go to a fancy place, than don’t take me to a fancy place you can’t afford. Their is no need to act like you got it like that if you don’t got it like that, if I like you it’s not going to matter at the end of the day.
Show you you're worth a little coin? If someone asks you out and gives their time, attention and whatever resources they have to provide you with a date, how dare you act ungrateful just because they paid for it with a $50 bill and a 50% coupon instead of a full $100 bill? You're obviously not worth a little coin, because you're focused on how they've paid for it rather than they've successfully paid for it.
@@fatimao2161 Exactly. Thats the point. Don't take a woman somewhere you can't afford. First date, is all about the positive impressions. & that start, is somewhere he can afford. Not everyone can live that "boujie" lifestyle. I sure can't. BUT I know what I'm worth on a first date. Once you get to know someone, thats when living that comfortable, so called "cheap" lifestyle, I'm 100% all about. I'm not ashamed. Again, nothing wrong with the coupon life. Anybody think differently, that's their own opinion. 💕But I'm glad we agree 💕
@@OneLoveRSR ok....aaaand that's your opinion. 🤷🏽♀️ To me it's not being ungrateful, when i know its a place he can afford to fully pay for. On a FIRST date. Hence why communicating beforehand is important. Also, don't take a woman to a place you can't afford...again especially on a first date. (Show her you tried to at least impress her, by paying the full bill. )But if she doesn't like the restaurant because it's not "boujie" enough, by her own standards, then that's STILL her opinion, & she can leave.Some women could care less about the attention he gives her. They, in the end, just want his money. It's not your relationship, so it's not your opinion to judge. It may be sad, yes, that she's using him, but, not your relationship. 🙂
Why is Loni being messy at 3:50? That was so unnecessary
I think she got offended because they told her that
"that's why she stays single"
lol
Lizzie Robertson well he's not wrong
She's gross
That wasnt the first time she said that...
My mum was a stay at home mum. Three kids. We are a lawyer, vet and nurse. I totally attribute our sucess to how we grew up. If you can stay at home, I say go for it.
Adrienne's make up artist though!! Her make up is flawless!
Ikr
She does her own makeup
Her skin is so good that’s what y
3:38 Male audience member: "That's why you stay single!"
Loni defensively & rudely: "This is MY show, let me talk."
This hit too close to home for Mrs. Love #Humble
Lola N lmaooo
they say they want honesty, but they can't accept a man who use coupons. Tf? crazy
God is so funny..I commented on this months ago and I said I'd never date a man with financial issues...I started talking to this guy at work and our first conversation was so good that it was 8 hours long..4 hrs text and 4 hrs over the phone...the next day he lost his job...Our conversation was so good that i didn't want to stop talking to him. I learned how great of a dad he was, and how responsible, dedicated and sweet he was too. We still talk and I'm glad i made that decision. He recently got another job and ended up getting me one too when I lost mine. Had I judged him I would've missed out on him AND a job lol.
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I knew it was an old episode because of jeannie’s hair 😂😂
I knew it was old when I realized it was 14 minutes long, I knew their selfish ass producers weren't that considerate.
She mentioned Freddie...u didn't realized then...?!?!??
I really miss Jeannie’s old hair it had very nice styles and accessories
Or the description box
Yeah and she said she was a married woman.
Loni "This is my show"...uhhhh since when did this become Loni Love TV? Peep Adrienne's face at 3:55 ! I thought it was called "The Real". Didn't appreciate her attitude on this segment. Ewww!
PolishedwithTee I was thinking the same thing 😂😂😂
It was actually Loni’s show originally.
100000%
@@moeshamya when?
Am I the only one that wouldn’t care if I see that he has a coupon?! I wouldn’t be embarrassed by that, or want him to pay discreetly with one, I’d be like YESS boo lets save some coin!!
Most the ppl in the comments agree with you
I love Loni....I was rolling when she said..." what we going to do on the 10th date!" 😂🤣😂😁
Ooops! Loni forgot where she came from, just like that "I'm a black woman and I have no struggle" bs.
But she always talks about how she struggled. What r u on about?
@@sosmcs specifically the recent video I referred to. Can you believe she just wouldn't acknowledge that black women have it the hardest in America? It's about the bette Midler tweet.
@@imbored6037 I don't think it's okay to say that black women have it the hardest. It would have made more sense that black women have it hard that they are one of the groups that has it the hardest in the US. It's about wording.
@@danaflamenco tru
But Loni doesn't have it that hard and she DID persevere when it was difficult. And she was black during the struggles AND successes. Why should she have to lie to make you feel better? Race doesn't affect her much in her life. Studies show that in fact MOST black people say racism in their lives is either non-existent or has negligible affects. Those same studies however, show that people still see racism as a "major issue" (white people more than black people). It shows a large disconnect between perception and reality.
This is really the fist time I see a clip that takes 14:35 min. Please more of this type lenght of vid. Nice topic btw! Love the debate between the girls.
"You on the edge of millennial, honey"😂 Loni shady!
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Millenials are 37-25
XO OX 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣♥️
Loni was being nice, Adriennes not a millennial.
Elle Plow Plow she is Adrienne was born 1983 and the millennial generations started in 81
adrienne makeup this season is giving me life. that make up artist is on fire. she looks amazing
Such a classic clip Loni gets sooo triggered & it's hilarious.😂😂😂
Jeannie and A are the only ones i respect..
What about Tamara why not her?
Loni was mad mad
Lol she needs to put on a cape and be super mad
@@traciemathews166 Omg I'm stealing that 😂
@@MutetheCity lol. I've been using that for years now. My friends laugh all the time when I say it because it comes out right on time😂😂
stop perpetuating the angry darkskin black women on her , she can’t stand up for herself without people like you taking it the wrong way .
@@memimomomum Bro she was making fun of guys who don’t have money like that so they try to save it has nothing to do with her skin color it’s the fact that what she said was disrespectful and uncalled for
THIS IS HOW TO HAVE A DISAGREEMENT ON TALKSHOW!!!👏👏
They didn't agree in the first 8 mins of this clip but no shade. No scathing remarks. No outright dismissal of anyone's opinion, no rudeness and no one got cut off.
Just peaceful fun disagreements. This is the show we need to see.
Even though they’re old, still super happy they’re FINALLLYYYYYY uploading long clips❤️❤️ love you guys!!
Here's my perspective as a guy: We will all go on ALOT of dates in our lifetime. It will be foolish to throw money around on dates when there is a high chance that this chick may not even be what you're looking for in a woman. So let me get this straight, you are expected to spend all this money impressing women (wining and dining) and pay for it all on your own to "be a gentlemen" when there's a chance that this woman may not even be what you're looking for? This is called being a fool with your money. Ladies, just like the guy who you on a date with isn't the only person you're seeing, the guy is also dating other women to see who grabs his interest more. But, to be frank, I prefer a free or cheap date as the first date because i'm getting to know you. Why would I spend $100 on someone I barely know? lol. If it were my choice, I'd choose something settle like a picnic or walk in the park and we can maybe catch a bite to eat if she's hungry. I don't believe first dates are about "impressing people". I believe they're about getting to know someone as an individual.
Loni. this is why Y O U R single. stop talking over people
*Y O U ' R E
This is so annoying. Subtly implying that people in relationships don't have flaws.
@@kaylenejantjes8113 That's not even implied a little bit.
This is a girl chat if you don't expect people to talk over each other which they all do then why even watch
You're*
Like do it properly if you wanna be salty
So funny, I am literally texting my partner as I watch this discussing if we have children if he would take half of the parental leave. Knowing that he happily would made me feel 1000% more happy to be with him.
I know this is old but Loni please stop tripping Lol. My dude (now husband)is paid and makes huge money LEGALLY and when we went on our first date he used a coupon and we laughed so hard because the bill was still like $250 but it really got me into him.
And we did this for each other every time we went on dates now we are married and still do the same thing.
Fellas, if she trips out about a coupon RUN...that B just want to be kept and you in for a roller coaster ride with that one.
Ladies, sometimes listening to Loni's advice will keep you single always looking for a dude to always pay full price for a meal.
Loni is just being stank.
Tamera Voice: "LOOONII" LOL #chickplease
AGREE THATS WHY SHES SINGLE!!
I just wanna know why it was important for you to specify So Clearly, in capital letters, that he makes huge money legally!?🤣🤣😂😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I mean only people who who've been accused of being _"illegal"_ will yell out _"legal"_ even when no one asked😂😂😂🤣😅👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
That's how she lime things. Who are you to tell her she's tripping or wrong. You're ok with a guy using coupons while others aren't. She didn't say the other women who are ok with it are stupid, she said she ain't about that life. Get yours and go on with your day
@@tamtamr9081 She was singke by choice. She said it many times
“She’s holding on for dear life” 😂🤣 chiiile.
Loni has the highest standards all the time yet what does she offer?
lame jokes
black gay antifa 🙊💀
Her big belly
Exactly
Are yall really talking about this woman's weight 🤔 none of you even have a profile pic and are not expanding on what it is your offering🤦♀️ Off the top of my head: loni is beautiful, brings college degrees, house, car, and her successful career.
I agree with loni! Stop dating if you’re struggling financially. That’s selfish to the other person forcing them into your struggle 👏🏾
No one even uses paper coupons anymore. it is digital.
I'm with Loni on this one. If the guy can't afford to date, then he shouldn't be dating. I'm not trying to hear all the excuses and I want to be able to order what I want. My salad is going to be a side dish, not the main dish. Yes, on the first date. I have low blood sugar so he better be prepared. I wish I would take a guy out. I came from a generation where the guy knew that he paid. They didn't dare allow the woman to pay. It was an insult. The only person I pay for here and there is my husband because I want to treat him sometimes. Otherwise he pays. Now my view as far as staying at home or not, let it be my choice...part-time, full-time or not at all. I'm still all about chivalry. Yes treat me with respect, open doors, let me go ahead onto the elevator, put me into the car and get me out the car and close the door, when walking near traffic be sure to put me on the inside and he walks on the outside (protect me), if a dog is running near us be sure to stand in front of me. Get my bags without asking. Know how to fix things and how to keep a yard. You get the idea. I grew up in a more traditional home down south. However there were some modern ideas that were sprinkled on me. I was taught to be independent but not from God of course. I know how to do general maintenance on a car, mow a yard, manage my own account, worked and went to school. Once I left home, I never went back because my parents did a good job in teaching me to be a responsible adult. I toughened things out and became a good problem solver. If a man treats me well, I will treat him better. Yes I can cook and will serve him his plate. Just do things that will make him feel appreciated. However, pamper me too. Then we'll both be happy.
Use your coupon men thats more $$$ in our bank acct!
Exactly!
Get your own bank account
A woman who complains about how you pay for her food is a red flag, fellas. She's bossy. Run!
lmao Tamera is so annoying, when Jeanie shared HER experience with her parents not spending enough time with her she had to make it about herself.
As always, smh
That was her mom guilt
Yeah that was her guilt. I understood what Jeanie was saying.
Yea but that doesn't mean u gotta call a whole person annoying. Just say the way she cut Jeannie off was annoying or you didn't like what she was tryna say. I think there are viewers who can relate to each of the ladies' views. Some moms are actually feeling bad for not being able to spend more time with their kids due to financial situations, and Tamera's interjection is telling those viewers who relate that it is alright. As long as in their spare time, they spend quality time with them.
I would use coupons all day, everyday. Priorities.
*There is nothing wrong in being a stay at home mom but I have to be doing some kind of job at home that brings in some coins. Online or other...*
everything is wrong with being a stay home mom. how can somebody be ok with a man getting you everything you need?? Like how do you feel about not doing anything for your self? what do you teach you children?
@@DaniielaVergara In your world, you work and get a check. In Recettes, she doesn't work (if she chooses) and gets the same benefits. I wouldn't be so quick to judge/condemn! Also, she never said she wouldn't be working. If you wanted to get your POV off then cool but you missed the mark here.
@@DaniielaVergara Also, the kids is a low blow don't you think. She could prolly teach her hypothetical children a lot with all the time she will be spending with them...ya know...staying at home.
@@BGriff- I honestly don't even get what you are talking about. just leave it there, I said what I said period, just my opinion
I'm a stay at home mum and my husband is the sole provider. This is something we decided together. I am teaching my children to be decent human beings. And you know what I am more qualified (Masters) than my hubby, and could probably earn more if I did work. But I want to stay home with my babies because I have all the time in the world to get a job but my children will only stay children for so long.
Did anyone catch when Loni said “This is my show, let me talk” 🤨🙄
Even though Loni's comments came across dismissive and brash, I see her point. The first date is the first impression. If financial circumstances are an issue, then you BOTH should pick a place to go where you can BOTH afford to eat. That way it will be an even plain field.
Taneshae Davis
Rich people stay rich because they save money. Using a Groupon says NOTHING about what you can afford, but instead it shows how smart you are with your money. Its superficial and shallow to assume that because a guy is interested in you, he should change his routine and spend more money on you. Money does not equate to love or interest at all. The fact that he’s paying for your meal should be flattering enough, but to go even further and request that he not save his hard earned money while doing that is just low, yet Loni says these men aren’t “real men.” A real man doesn’t let his pride cause him to go broke trying to impress some chick he may never see again.
@@Isaacthedondada I like men who save money because I save money as well. I use coupons, groupons and dollar menus at restaurants! But as I said in my statement, if 2 people really want to go on a date but their financial circumstances arent the best, they should decide TOGETHER what they would like to do! That way things aren't awkward and the money won't be an issue. However, I completely understand where you are coming from.
Using a Groupon doesn't mean your finances aren't in order, though. Maybe he's just a person that watches his money. I could see if Groupons only applied to crappy places...but you can find a Groupon for damn near anywhere.
@@shaedavis53 but hun using a groupon doesnt equal finances not being the best!! thats shallow of you to judge. why would he give the restaurant extra money when he doesnt need to? what benefit do you get from the restaurant getting more of his money for the same meal ?? stupid.
It’s just like, would you do this on a business lunch? If you have an important client with you? If it’s your best friend or your on the third or fourth date it’s chill
Are my eyes playing with me😨👀?! A whole 14 minutes??? I clicked soooooo fast!😅
Oh wait....it's an old clip💔
Money doesn’t matter as long as you put effort and love to that. Saving money is one of the best things we could do, for the emergency.
Why upload these old ass clips?? I Confused 😶😶
Andrea Far I think they're trying out a new uploading format... so let's see what happens tomorrow & etc. with this lol
Andrea Far read the description
I mean the title is so ironic.
Here Loni is berating men for using coupon and talking about Gender equality at the same time🤷🏽♂️
Loni love.. just because u got money now doesn't mean u gotta look down on people who dont have n e thing... ur saying saying that now that u have money... Money is not everything.. Love is everything whether u poor or rich... there is nothing wrong with a dude or a girl trying to save money as long as the heart is true... we all went thru struggles in life u bet u did too loni love so dont look down on people who are trying... I love u and the show but sometimes u loni love just forget what u been thru to be where u are now... I hope u r reading this loni love..
I love cheap dates! My husband and I’s first date was Denny’s. It wasn’t about what we do, it’s about forming a connection. We also are cheap and use rewards clubs to go to the movies and we get our candy and drinks from THE DOLLAR STORE!! Sue me, but those are some of my favorite kinds of dates!
I always go with the expectation of going dutch. If he insists on covering the whole bill, I offer to help with at least the tip.
I'm a millenial and I've been married since I was 21. I stay home and take care of my 4 beautiful children and my husband provides for us. My husband supports what ever I decide to do, work out side of the house or stay home.
Loni said that she's just talking about first dates, but hows he supposed to get any further if ur saying that if he doesn't have money he shouldn't date? Then he won't ever be with anyone until he gets more money. That's just wrong to say tbh. Because I bet theres men out there who believe that because they don't have money they can't find someone to love. Someones financial situation doesn't represent what kinda person they are or how they'll treat you. Plus someone don't have a choice but to be broke until they can figure something out. There's people out here struggling trying get food for a day and that's beyond their control so what? now they can't find someone to love?
What shocks me is that Loni has openly expressed that shes been broke before. She knows the struggle, but she still says this?
My mum was a stay-at-home mum and that she was there every single day of our lives growing up for me and my two sisters. We turned out to be a lawyer, a doctor and a nurse. So sorry tamara, you can try and justify that working will mean you have a better kid but it really doesn't mean anything.
I’m with Loni & Tam 🤷🏾♀️ everyone don’t want to be in a struggle relationship. Jeannie & A never have and never would probably date a man without means at their big age. Let women have their standards, to each their own.
In my opinion I think that in the first date it will feel awkward to use the groupons and all that maybe the second day it will be fine as long as he’s honest about it
“Look at all the Groupon men!” - Loni 🤣🤣🤣
This is why I don’t go out with just anyone. I get to know them for a while and then go on from there. I want them to get to know me enough to feel comfortable being themselves and know that I’m not judgmental.
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I'm a millennial and when I get married, if my husband wanted me to stay home, I definitely would. I would make sure to ask what his reasons were and if they were valid, I would do it. If he offers it I would want it to be my choice though not him demanding it.
I totally relate to LONI BAHAHAHHA!
“Don’t tell me your plans. Just take me out!”
Koojia Xyooj I totally agree, like she said if you can’t afford to take me out, don’t take me out. It is what it is, you don’t need to be extra if you ain’t got the money to be extra. I don’t understood why guys try to be fancy when they don’t have the means to be fancy with. Just go to a place you can afford.
I won't let a man use too much on me on the first couple dates, cause I may never see him again and I would feel like I exploited him. Coffee dates are great first dates if the chemistry is there we should do adventurous/expensive dates
I agree with Loni. I don't think I'll feel OK with a coupon on a first date
stay single
I dont need a fancy date.... You can have a great date with smaller things. It is not a big of a deal.
The important thing is if the guy is interesting enough to try it with him.
I’m with Loni on this one. I’m not in agreement with a groupon on the first dates. The first date is your first impression. It’s important to show you care for the person enough to spend money on them. For subsequent dates, a groupon is fine. the way I see it, it’s not even about the money to begin with. It’s about the hard work behind getting the money. If you’re willing to sacrifice something you’ve worked hard for, that shows that you truly value me and want me to be a part of your life. If you’re trying to be cheap, to me, that shows I’m not worth the value of your money. If a guy organized a picnic date that saved him more money than that groupon, I will be even more happy than I would’ve been if he had paid the full price for that date because I know it took him time, work and a lot of effort to organize the picnic. So I think the root of what Loni is saying is if the guy is serious about getting with you, he should show you’re more valuable to him than the money.
And the groupon just doesn’t cut it.
Love you Loni, my fellow cancer, but I see why you single 🤣😂
loni got mad cuz the audience member said: that's why u single!
3:50 Loni with the "tHis iS mY ShOw" bit again..
I grew up with saving money. My husband learned from me to use coupons. He saved money with me.
Why tf would I care??? Lol I have taken a guy on a Groupon date. I paid for the 4th date...we went for Sushi (not on groupon) and go karts ($50 on Groupon instead of $68) lol he had a BLAST and thought it was dope 😂 I could've paid full price, I only saved 18 dollars but why over pay for something??? He got our 5th date off groupon after I told him about the 18 I saved lol we went to paint night ♥️ Loni trippin...
My brother told a girl off one time “Honestly, I’m using coupons because I wanna give you the best experienceS, plural... a date with me isn’t a one time thing and I wanna give you a good time!” and when she continued to protest “well then you go find the guys that only wants to **** one time and leave you, I guess that’s what you want and I’m gonna have to respect that but that ain’t me”.
"This is my show let me talk ok' 🧐🧐🧐
That's why Freddie took Jeannie to Loni's love court for taking back the jacket he bought her😅😅😅😅😅 Jeannie said it was too expensive. Go Jeannie 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The first impression is that the man knows how to look for good deals...
Sounds good to me 😂😂 And he'll have more money to spend on me later in life 😋
Smart with money is sexy. Cheap is not sexy. Plenty of other things to do that do not cost a ridiculous amount besides dinner for date night. Museums, parks, food festivals, concerts, movies, etc. Everyone has their own preferences. Personally, I like to split the costs of dates as a female. I pay for the movie if he buys dinner. That makes me happy to show that I can contribute something. "No such things as a free lunch to me." Managing expectations and clear communication are much more important than fancy meals or showering me with gifts in any of my relationships, romantic or otherwise.
Loni lowkey ain’t lying....
But you cant say that if you have the chance to spend less money you wouldn't do it...
I wish Tamar was still on the show. When Loni said that this was her show.
Tamar would have put her right in her place.
My boyfriend has known since the beginning we either take turns paying the bill or we go halves, I personally don't care how he pays for his turn or his half, I only care that we are equal in paying. As for the whole staying home my boyfriend & i have also agreed we will equally do housework, & we will both work. That's it, I'm for equal everything & that's what we are, the end.
Omg i dont care if he pays it in front of me or not but i think its smart and for people to think its bad then i hope your man has endless amounts of money to spoil your ass with. I coupon and my man coupons and we saving money to have a great future together