How to Deal With a Humiliating Loss
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Patrick Bet-David discusses how to deal with a humiliating loss to eventually come back victorious.
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“It takes guts and humility to admit mistakes. Admitting we're wrong is courage, not weakness.”
― Roy T. Bennett
My big public humiliating loss was having to shut my business down after 6 years, that was devastating to me and now I’ve moved to a completely different industry knowing the mistakes I will definitely never make again. Thank you once again Patrick! Yes ko tsavet tanem
So inspiring.... Guys, forget Trump or Biden. Please get the deeper message of this video, it will improve YOUR life directly.
The Lord Bless You Bet-David for those encouraging words! Shalom! 💯
This is the best video I've seen you do Pat (and you have a lot of great videos) but the fact that someone has the guts to get in the ring spoke volumes my brotha!
Patrick, you are a very bright guy. However, there are times when you trip over your own ego, and this was one of those times.
This election stopped being about Trump or Biden many months ago. This election is actually about the course our nation will take for decades, and maybe forever.
With the exception of the election of 1860, there has never been a presidental election more important to the PEOPLE and the course THEIR NATION than the presidental election of 2020.
Your speech today tells me one very important factor about YOU as a leader. Patrick, you are a leader who people work FOR and not WITH. "For" and "with" are not just a matter of simple symantics. Rather, these small, but powerful, words that determine an ideology of a leader.
I have been retired for many years, and I am content with the end results of my career. As I reflect on that career, I am happy I worked WITH leaders instead of working FOR leaders.
Thomas Ott you put it into words very well! Now that the worst is behind us, I think this country is going to be alright.
Can we get the balance right between a healthy respect for risk, and the ability to take action without analysis paralysis? I use this; *Habit 3; Begin with the end in mind*
Patrick, you are spot on! You are pretty much always spot on in your videos which is why I enjoy watching. Even if the candidate I voted for doesn't win, I have made it up in my mind to be at peace with the other candidate's supporters even after the election!
Patrick, you see, I also have "skin in the game" having worked on the production side for the ABC, CBS, KTTV, KCAL, and NBC networks over the course of 2 1/2 decades. I too know what it's like to take wins and losses in front of a massive audience.
Patrick, you have the #1 UA-cam channel for entrepreneurs and the quality of your presentation is at such a high level I hope that your technical support crew and staff are reaching as high. You are an inspiration to so many through your life example and career. Again, keep doing what you are doing with the quality presentation and content!
Picking yourself up after a huge defeat shows great character !
yes, and sending out childish tweets does not!
@@leongruneberg4844 who tweeted ?? Did someone upset you today boohoo for you
I have a Strong mind & strong drive.
Thank You Patrick ... sometimes you come across as a quite dim tool sometimes quite perspicacious this video is a Good even Great Motivation Cheers
Biden has lost before and will lose again so I think he is getting used to it
😃,what if he win...
@@me-wl3ir you can’t watch this channel and go for Biden lmao. He doesn’t like smart guy remember
@@juansebastiansuavitaagudel9241 im a fan of
mr. Trump
Hoping and praying he win....
Unfortunately im from philippines, so i cant vote...
@@juansebastiansuavitaagudel9241 how do you feel about your current guy in office?is he still taking extreme measures to run the place,I know people were divided on him
He won't know the difference. He thought he was running for senate
Going to be showing this to Biden tomorrow.
Blue check meltdown on Twitter is gonna be a one in a lifetime goldmine
@@1975mastergames How's it going with that meltdown?
Thank you for this msg. Blessings
Good morning brother
Thank you 😁
BY RUDYARD KIPLING
(‘Brother Square-Toes’-Rewards and Fairies)
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream-and not make dreams your master;
If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And-which is more-you’ll be a Man, my son!
PAT! That wasn't Belli! It was Taylor that bobbled the ball.
Yes sir I've been there!
And if you are retired...enjoy it THOROUGHLY!!!!
Patrick, where did you get that maroon jacket? And great content as usual.
It was Taylor, not Bellinger
Thought this was about Michigan losing to Michigan State LOL
worse moment, when someone took pictures of a part of my body you can't miss... then had cupcakes made all over NYC; to remind me of the event,; next my ex-broker sent me a beautiful birthday card which was what -- large brown cupcakes covered in brown toppings, just to remind me! At least mine are real! That was all I could say -- sometimes you need to laugh at yourself because the incident was unfortunate but funny. What every happened to privacy?
I don’t understand how you compare sports players and sports games to a position that is supposed to serve the people. Just my opinion though.
I was Chris Taylor not Belli just pointing it out lol
Presidential races don't mean anything. Both parties like all the time.
not a big deal, shit happens
Joe can now take the blame for shit
How to deal with TRAMPA.???
If you like trump, like this comment.
does Trump watch PBD?
Trump should watch
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What happens in your house matters 1000 times more than what happens in the White House.
That used to be true. Things are different now. We are at a crossroads.
Not true this time.kamala harris just endorsed communism
@Another Virtual Identity of Someone Who Isn't Me The US has fallen, China will take over. The Republicans and the Democrats will be returning the establishement and globalism will prevail. The best thing we can do now is simply live as independent as possible.
I'm not american but i can tell that what happens in a Presidential House can affect what happens in our house, in different ways
@Another Virtual Identity of Someone Who Isn't Me chill Alex jones
Life makes fools of all of us sooner or later. But keep your sense of humor and you'll at least be able to take your humiliations with some measure of grace. In the end, you know, its our own expectations that crush us
Great advice... I needed that.... thanks! 👍
There's an old saying in Tennessee - I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee - that says, fool me once, shame on - shame on you. Fool me - you can't get fooled again.”
Thank you.
@@ihavetubes lol bush
Fear of embarrassment and humiliation holds a lot of people back from greatness
Great quote I hear awhile back:
“Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will.”
@@christians131 this is true
This is why many sociopaths and narcissists climb very high in politics, business, etc. They aren't held back by the same fear. I read that some colleges are actually teaching classes geared towards helping one cultivate a more narcissistic mindset. Crazy huh?
Ryan Marcus not nearly as bad as it was for Hillary. At least he worked very hard to win. He wasn’t able to hide out in his basement while the msm and social media campaigned for him.
@@christians131 Indeed
The funniest was the Hillary loss, she thought she'd skated in, she deserved it. The arrogance so thick you can cut it with a knife.
Entitlement comes from being a Mafia boss (Killary Clinton Body Count)
I don't know what's funnier, her drunkenly assaulting 2 of her campaign aides when they told her she lost OR Bill checking out Ivanka at the Inauguration while Hillary caught him looking.
Poetry in motion 👏🏻😆
@@thisismagacountry1318 Hillary’s was so awful a downfall that I was watching through my fingers with my hands over my face... but there is an expression; If the seeds you sow in the first half of your life are weeds, that is what you will reap in the end.
If you love trump like this comment.
Just lick your wounds, then stand up, and go on
Pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice
@@WirelessPlum2 Well said.
Yes, not throw temper tantrums!
Nate Robinson needs this
@@alberteyenstine9499 FACTS imagine how nate feels, so embarrassing
I've had my biggest lost ever from 2018 to this year
I had everything... Business was going good I got comfortable and lost everything... I'm making my come back this year starting this month... Getting into momentum in 2021...i feel better than ever and this is the best time to get back to my feet... Lots of love from Kenya, Africa
Despite the economic crisis and the rate of unemployment now is the best time to invest
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I made two errors in a highly contested high school football game in 1989. I felt horrible that I contributed to losing that game. We later beat another rival for the first time, however I always remember those two errors. When I attended my 10 year reunion the overall impression from my former teammates was that I always played and practiced with a lot of heart; so yes, nobody probably remembers that I contributed to that loss but me. Great channel!
If Biden lose its going to be the biggest lost... But I still think Hillary lost was the most humiliating...
Trumps lost is the worse in history
If you are reading this, may you attract everything you’ve been patiently waiting for & be passionate to pursue it whole-heartedly. It will naturally flow into your life when you are ready to receive it. Hope our channel helps you on your journey 🙏
Pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice
“Desperation is the raw material of drastic change. Only those who can leave behind
everything they have ever believed in can hope to escape. ”
― William S. Burroughs
A difficult lesson in life is learning how to let go of broken relationships, our pasts, and even parts of ourselves
I expose my losses, it sounds stupid but it gives you power over them. Anytime someone tells me about my losses or failures I’ll agree because I told them it
I failed to summit Kilimanjaro the first time, it was very painful, my nose was on the ground flying home, but a year later I conquered top of Africa :-)
There's many losses but nothing compares when you lose your child ! I'll always think about what our life would have been given there was alternate timeline. I know she would made a huge ripples in this world at 6 years old she had a beautiful old soul !
Trump might be in his 70's but his energy is much younger. The man is non stop working!
Biden?.. C'mon man.
Yup!!!
How's it going for Trump?
@@leongruneberg4844 not the greatest but im praying he will win. I strongly believe in border control. Also guns. But you can have a completely different opinion. 😁
Dang hitting the deep topics. But quite important. Take your time heal and don‘t try to „outwork“ it following the „out of sight, out of mind“ tactic - cope with a loss, it‘s ok! And then you‘ll come back stronger 💪🏻
God bless you all going through hard times!
This video saved my life. I've had the worst failures and mistakes in my life, I could not get over. I've dealt with depression, anxiety, and desperation.
I am not an employer. But if i was i would ask in an interview ' what has been the worst mistake you ever made in your work life"
And i would likely employ the one with the worst story. Making a huge mistake means you are less likely to do so again. Never having made a huge mistake just means you have not been humbled yet.
Today, I miserably failed in my waterpolo game. I promise, I will come back stronger, and outwork everybogy else!
Connecticut for Trump
close but no cigar
As long as you have ever made an investment in life, loss is just standard.
❤💪TRUMP🦁2020✌100%👌🙏❤
Trump2020. Also, I'm a minority.
So valuable
Best advise about loss : Matt Sapaula “Celebrate a win or hang your head in a loss...24hs and move on! Let it go and move on.”
Ahhh, I’m a PRO at dealing with failure and loss. Can’t boast the same degree of professionalism 📜 at dealing with my wins though. 🙃
My most embarrassing loss was my Romney 2012 election prediction. I posted on Facebook for years that Obama was the worst president and that he was going to lose in a landslide against Romney and boy was I wrong and I lost a lot of friends over my hate for Obama. That was super embarrassing. I thought the Republican party was over after that election, you just never know what will happen in politics, never in a million years did I think Trump would win 4 years later. I'll tell you this, that 12 pack of beer went down real fast when Obama won in 2012 ahahahaha!
I invested overseas. A home a business a girl. Lost it all. Everyone warned me but I refused to believe. I lost 8 years of hard work.
I believe you will get it back it happens to the best
@Shaolin Hooper exactly, life keeps going
keep going it happens to everyone who has a business overcome it and show your haters that you are a success
Now you know better.
Now you're mentally stronger, And I'm sure you're not gonna let that happen again.
Life is a learning process. We get smarter and stronger day by day.
@@Not_Sure_ EXACTLY, mistakes are the best teacher, the only thing that is constant in life is change whether it's positive or negative change you have to get used to it and just keep changing, even the most accomplished people in human history have felt like idiots at one point or another, you just have to keep going and dig deep
1:22 - Hey Pat, just minor correction: that was Chris Taylor in CF not Bellinger. Bellinger was not in CF because of when he hurt his right arm during his HR celebration. But I love the analogy, love the content from a fellow Irooni!
Costa Rica for Trump 2020
Third times a charm I guess. It will be funny if you wins then again it would be funny if the other one wins as well.
No Matter who win tomorrow we live in the greatest country in the world 🌍 USA 🇺🇸 .
1:20 it wasnt Bellinger in centerfield. It was Chris Taylor.
Hopefully Biden watches this video.
yeah, so he isn't too tough on Trump. Maybe he could pull strings so Trump works in the library, not on the road gangs.
Be confident in defeat humble in victory
Joe Biden seems very humble in his victory. He just wants to unite and move on as your new president-elect.
L🤣L listening to your point of view of Bye-Den 3 tries to Trump's 1st win. Gotta see the silver linings as everything has meaning even glorious comebacks 2024(?).. Trump out survives he's legendary with people who will carry him in highest and lowest moments
Mike Tyson once said that Public Humiliation is the way to win a fight, Even Before You Enter The Ring!!
Winning is an Art
Patrick I concur, although I'm not a Dodger fan I know humiliating losses because I've rooted for the Braves for over fifty seasons. The era of analytic baseball I despise, the front office has taken the manager out of the game and replaces it with graphs, sabermetrics and algorithms.
So you lift a pitcher who's throwing heat and send in a guy who's flammable. Results a historic failure that makes every Bobby Cox fail seem tame in comparison.
I disagree. It's not a major loss for Trump.
He's not a professional politician.
However, should he win, it will be a humiliating loss for Biden/Harris & the Dems.
That been said, it pales in comparison to Hillary's loss.
That was the ultimate political humiliation.
Thank you 🙏 president Donald J Trump commander in chief America First vote 🗳 20/20
Could have used better Example than Biden and Trump 😂 Trump still believes he won, and Biden still asleep even after winning 😂😂
I'm trying to prepare for a loss but I am praying for a win. Win or lose I cannot enjoy the election. Too much to lose. Too much hatred. Too much division. Either way, China and Russia both win
If you guys don't know who he is, check out MMA fighter Ben Askren. One of the most humiliating losses in history lol, but the man took it on the chin (literally), and took it extremely well.
I missed my flights one after another and lost money. Not a very big amount but still it hurts because it was completely my fault. It was a costly learning experience and I don't want to experience it again.
To stick with your sports analogy using boxing as the theme. Biden didn't train, diet, or even improve his overall standing yet you presume he won and Trump is devastated? The final chapter has yet to be written.
It is better to have stepped up and lost, than not not to have had the opportunity to compete at all. How many people get to that level of competition? Congratulations to Biden AND Trump. Win or lose, I am proud of you both.
I have never lost. If you ain't first, you're last "Ricky Bobby"
Come out tomorrow in full force tomorrow, if you haven't yet voted.
Voting only takes 5 minutes.
I feel sad because I saw my football team lose to good team in a heartbreaking way and it makes me sad because we should’ve won but we didn’t and I find it hard to accept a loss like that
I lost my cannabis farm to my x-wife who doesn’t care for cannabis one bit; she just wanted the house and her mom moved in.
Trump2020
Trump 2020 from this Ukrainian girl. Voting tomorrow.
Not me seeking self help after losing semi finals match at worlds by points at the last minute 😅
Ask yourself...”Compared to what?”
The people have and will speak tomorrow November 3rd. I and several million Americans believe in the pathway that President Donald Trump has laid out for us. We have 4 years of a track record and we will get through this pandemic. He gave us real hope...Making America Great Again. The people will resounding speak volumes tomorrow and we will prevail!
hope but like any scam, nothing came of it.
I'm just about to send this link to someone who needs it. I think his email donald@maximumsecurityprison.gov (ha ha ha)
The question for success in achieving your dreams is: What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
Kobe said it in an interview with you...... Get over yourself!
Roberts still sucks even a broken clock is right twice a day.
Bellinger was not anywhere in that play lol.... wad Chris Taylor bro.... Awesome content tho!
Patrick can you help me please I’m at my wits end in life man.
The most Humiliating Loss we all have to worry about is whether or not we have accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as are lord and savior because the consequences will be huge if we don't accept the only son of God.
Breaking News: there is no god.
Great motivation video to overcome humiliation