3 questions to ask yourself about everything you do | Stacey Abrams
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How you respond to setbacks is what defines your character, says Stacey Abrams, the first black woman in the history of the United States to be nominated by a major party for governor. In an electrifying talk, she shares the lessons she learned from her campaign for governor of Georgia -- and some advice on how to change the world. “Be aggressive about your ambition,” Abrams says.
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We have learned that "Our mistakes are ours, but victory is a shared benefit" ... Question the other side! .....word!!!
The things that hold us back:
1. Finances
2. Fear
3. Fatigue
Take care of fatigue by committing to obtaining a healthier you. Meanwhile, stay on task toward financial stability - hard when you are unhealthy, but can be done. Financial stability comes with persistence and having a plan you are not afraid to adapt/change around issues and problems you incur -- which also requires letting go of your fears and prejudices about people, educating yourself, and implementing better ideas. Then finally, one day, you will discover you are motivated rather than tired; you are financially beyond your initial dreams rather than bottom-of-the- barrel-poor and you are fearless rather than fearful of taking on newer challenges-- AND yes, the NAPS do recharge.
These are the things that move as forward to :)
Jail for all fair fight bye bye
Being told no or not yet.
@@hamptonsudduth621Jesus Christ how do you sleep at night. God grant me the Serenity.
1. What you want?
2. Why you want it?
3. How you're going to get it done?
Thank you!
Thx
Choose one thing in life that you love and stick with it.
@O D Yap... 😟
Thanks
"I'm going forward because going backward isn't an option and standing still is not enough." Love these words. These are the words that I tell myself every day.
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@Lyric Anakin Instablaster =)
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"Fatigue is an opportunity to evaluate how much we want it." I've been so stress lately with all the things that I do but after hearing say these words, it made me think twice thanks
'You can't overcome something you don't talk about.' Strong line.
It's time she take control of her weight.
@@stannnleee3440 random rude comment
Every word that comes out of her mouth is a quotable quote. Such an incredible, feisty woman!
Rewatching. It's as resonating more than ever.
Yes i rewatched and took notes. My passion was awakened to overcome a legal issue as a woman.
I didn't think I needed this motivational talk this morning. But I couldn't be more thankful for this suggestion from youtube. Thank you for being so well spoken Stacey Abrams. Inspired.
“Dont allow setbacks to set you back “ 👍🏻
Is that supposed to be profound?!
YES.
I played a game for a while and then my phone touchscreen broke, and I lost a lot. Thinking back on it I also learned a lot during a time and can make it better the second time. For another game, I just deleted it because I thought I made a mistake in the beginning, but then I thought deleting it was a mistake. Then it occurred to me I hardly enjoyed playing it, and I knew after a while I would get tired of it, so I though, why waste my time on something I will potentially find unenjoyable and boring. There is no creative or pvp aspect to the game. which are 2 things I enjoy the most and usually why I keep games. The game I realized I wasted my time on was *Shadow Fight 2*. Don't download it you get addicted for no reason, and it gets too grindy very fast. It probably shouldn't take more than 3 months to beat, which is a very long time, but you could spend that 1-3 months doing something you like, something creative, or a pvp game. BTW shadow fight 3 is not as bad. The fighting makes more sense and there is PVP, AND you can not make a mistake early game that might cost you a ton of time later on. Overall Shadow Fight 3 is probably not something you want to spend a lot of time on, but it isn't bad to just hop on and duel real players sometimes, or play weekly events.
Tracy is a fighter in the trenches.That is where her best comes thru.She will fight and make the age turn.She doesnt need to be a president.
I don't know everything she stands for, but she is filled with hope and confidence and well spoken ideas.
I love her gusto. I love her determination. These are the people who change the world.
Listen in 2020 , these words were a promise then . Now we are rejoicing over the accomplishment of her will to fight.
I think that's an additional factor...seeing the rightness of your vision and how it can be achieved, knowing it's a matter of time.
She embodies Maya Angelou's "phenomenal woman." I will watch this again as continue to work with my two daughters to build our family business, unschool &homeschool my daughters and travel as we learn.. "Be aggressive about your ambitions. ....... If something doesn't work out we're [women] taught it's our fault......Know what you want, why you want it, and how you are going to get it done. " You can't overcome something you don't talk about. 3rd Fatigue "We accept position instead of power." It's a time to evaluate how much we want it. Then go back to "why." Amazing
“Do not allow set backs to set you back” powerful statement
This from the person that still won't admit she didn't win. Please!
@@Scott-nj9gq Kinda like the Orangeman huh?
@@pagielicious Yep...2 peas in a pod.
than they aren't set backs... stop thinking everything put into some "powerful" statement has meaning
You can lose weight. You can do it if you allow yourself not to be set back.
"Fear is paralyzing, terrifying, but energizing". Powerful words. Love this powerful, transparent, humble and vulnerable woman. Speaks very eloquently with a twist of humor. Go Stacey Abrams!
Stacey Abrams always inspires me. "Be aggressive about your ambitions". She is a leader. I truly believe she has what it takes to be president. 2024. Let's go!
She really needs to be Governor. I hope she runs again.
I have a suspicion that she will end up in an even more powerful position.
Yeah like supreme court so she can kill babies but biden is talking and everyone in fair fight is going to jail
@DAVID The one that was cheated was Trump....
Me too
Vernon Jones will be governor
Do not allow set backs to set you back!!
It cut deep into my heart💘
Going backward is not an option, standing still is not enough!
I love that one!
Hii
If you’re standing still you’re moving backwards
God Richess Blessing to you, you're such a strong and inspiring lady.
OMG - I've gobbled up as many interviews with Stacey Abrams as I possibly can and this TED Talk is the BEST. Thank you Ms. Abrams. I'm inspired and happy you are in this world.
She's so well spoken and humble wè need more people like her.
I voted for her. I never got to vote for someone who looks like me before :-) ill vote for her again when she runs again!
yes definitely
Every word that comes out of her mouth is a quotable quote. Such an incredible woman.
We definitely need more people like her but.....why wouldn't she be well spoken?
amen
"Don't allow your setbacks to set you back",..what a quote, you are truly inspiring maam...
She is so intelligent. Yes she is the MVP of 2020. I'd like to see her on Time Magazine as Person of the Year 2020.
That's good
Me too
Absolutely l saw and heard her speak in the UK l was blown away ...
She is so full of it....I'd like to see her behind bars!!!
“Finances are often a reason we don’t let ourselves dream.
You may or may not overcome those obstacles but you will be DAMNED if you do not try. “
Brilliant oratory. The most honest and guileless speech I hv heard in decades.
She is historic in her own lifetime - trailblazer, fighter, leader - what an inspiration for everyone. Stacey Abrams will continue making history and - in the process - continue making all of us and our country better and stronger.
A once in a lifetime Georgia hero.
left winger against our constitution, this is what you support?
@@MaryAnnMsbl34 are you a left winger?
Her parents talking to the guard at the Georgia Governor's minion....not pastors yet so they had some really choice words for the guard....do not let your setbacks to set you back. I bow down to this woman who has incredible intelligence, courage and just pure grit!
Watching this TED Talk, it’s easy to see that Stacey will experience much success, and will do much good in the world! God bless her!
Speaking from the future- this woman helped flip Georgia blue which allowed a democratic president have a democratic senate. She did SO much good and I can’t wait to see what she does next.
Stacey Abrams will never be Governor. Stacey Abrams will never be President. Stacey Abrams will always be miserable.
This has been one of the best ted talks I’ve watched in a long time...nevertheless, she persisted! ✊🏽
🆘 Liberal democrats Stacey Abrams nothing but a crybaby racist lesbian black woman that wants the campaign finance rules changed for her benefit. Abrams knows she can’t win if she doesn’t have enough money$$$ to run her lying 🤥 advertising. She lost the last Governor election in Georgia by almost 55,000 votes and she’s going to lose again unless the Democrats are allowed to cheat. She would be a disaster as Governor of Georgia.
Had a chance to help host a rally for her in Athens, GA at the historic Morton Theatre. Stacey Abrams is the real deal. She changed my mind with her sincerity, approachability, compassion, passion, and intelligence.
This speech is so inspiring. I can feel her passion for what she do.
Amen!
Ms. Stacey Abrams is so poised and unequivocally intelligent.
Listening to her makes me realize I can fail, fail again and fail some more, but I shouldn't ever give up.
al mi Yes, she did a beautiful job here. Unfortunately when on cable news she talks much differently and comes across as a hater and racist. Yes, blacks can be racist too.
Keeping your "whys" in front of you every day is so important!!! Thanks for the reminder, Stacy 🙏🏾
Strong, beautiful, humble soul, Stacy Abrams has, she is someone to be admired and respected... Wow...
This woman is amazing, i wish I could like this video 1000 times, God bless her!
I don't support people who do not support our constitution.
Love the quote: “Going backward is not an option and standing still isn’t enough!”
These two quotes keep me going everyday.
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
"Be the change you want to see in the world."
I wanted to be the change I want to see in the world, so I dressed up as a silver dollar for Halloween.
Both or these quotes are overly used.
-Wayne Gretzsky -Michael Scott
@Fuzzy Squid It was said by Mahatma Gandhi
I want Stacey to be my professor/best friend/life coach. Just read her book and I have no doubt this woman is destined for greatness! And by greatness, I mean she will be the first female U.S. President. Mark my words.
My grade 7/8 class zoned right in when she started talking. Great motivator, wise words.
How did they not elect this woman? - she's awesome.
Georgia purges people from the registered voter rolls if they haven’t voted in 4 years. In a very Republican state, this tends to purge more Democrats, because many often don’t see the point in voting. The dedicated work of Ms Abrams helped overcome that pessimism. And now that people see what’s possible, they may vote frequently enough to never get purged.
Actually, Georgia was staunchly Republican for years because many underprivileged people in this state did not vote and often showed little interest. She totally changed that. She was tireless to help people understand why and how voting is important. She totally made new voices be heard. Voter turnout out was amazing.
I love this woman and her audacity,
veracity,temerity and her carriage!!
You mean Courage?
@@johnashland3049 carriage: a person's bearing or deportment.
"her carriage was graceful, her movements quick and deft"
Did you just call her fat? Are you fat shaming her? Des gusting
@@bdan6954 She IS. Maybe if reality hurts you should stop living in fantasyland.
Stacey, I'm a white man from the northeast part of the country. Please know there are people from all demographics and areas of the country and world, I'm certain, that are inspired by you. Keep going!
Her words are so beautiful. I am so inspired. Great talk!
Stacey Abrams makes me proud to be a human being.
Us too. She's amazing.
Maybe you should send her $25 she can pay toward her credit cards. She can't manage her own money but wants to be in charge of ours. lol
How refreshing to feel that in this climate. I agree!!!!!
👏🏿
Such a smart, humble woman. Hang on Stacy..there will be more victories ahead for you in Georgia and in the USA.
I just want to get this talk framed. So motivating and empowering
selam getu right!
selam getu YES! Very powerful! It’s in my list of favorites and I listen often!
Well said!!!
Damn. This just gave me so much clarity. I feel like it renewed my focus in life. It's people like her who inspire others to dream hard and work harder! So happy I tuned into this!
the left wing doesn't do that. She is left wing
She will be greater than just a governor. God Bless
*Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible. ×*
Discover Your Awesomeness really like your cmt. :)
@John Hillman
Hadn't thought of that. I keep remembering that there is no space or time~ we are one in divine mind~ you have a great point tho!
This is the woman responsible for flipping GA blue. I can’t wait to see where she goes next. And her words apply to all regardless of what your aspirations are.
How is it that the relative of MLK was purged from the voting rules? If she is genuine about wanting all of us to belong, what is she doing to assure that all votes in Georgia are counted accurately and without being diluted by fake ballots. We have known that mail in ballots are vulnerable for many years. We have long known of the distortion by priority owned private proframs... We all know that numbered ballots according to each voting location and number of registered voters with tear off receipts with coordinating places representing the votes counted. We must have voting registration numbers that represent our Individual place as voters that can be checked and assured at any post office much as we do for various .gov inquiries.
@@Hands2HealNowSee that, no response. Because no is trying to create a space for you to spread the BS you heard from inadequate people and sources. Move on Laura, Biden won
@@SlugLife1918 😌 made my day. 👏
@@dlove3729 Thanks, you made my day too ✌
@@SlugLife1918 It's time for you and Abrams to move on. Brian Kemp won.
I started tearing up watching this... I just discovered the video today, in a tough moment in my life.
She needs to run for president! I wanna vote for her.
She has said that she plans to in the future.
She said by 2040, she will be President. And with Georgia Flipping to blue, people that didn't believe in her then. Are now lol.
@@pugdad2555 When she does run, I believe she will win. Besides having a warmth about her and being highly intelligent, she has the "it factor" -- a lot like the Obama's.
Empowering speech and she is endearing and has a natural sense of humor. She is a good talker . will be a good leader and politician.A very impressive strong woman.
Poise. Eloquence. Optimism. Energy. Thoughtful humor. I want you in a major leadership position in this country, Ms. Abrams. YOU are the change I would like to see!!!
Who is here after Georgia Senate Flip? Love you Stacey .
"Don't allow setback to set you back."
- Stacey Abrams
“As women we are taught when something doesn’t work out it’s our fault.” Wow! Powerful words!
Omg. Like I can't even right now.
🤣 who teaches you that?
it is your fault though. Women never take responsibility for their own actions.
nobody forced her to eat. She should control her own eating and exercise more. She is overeating.
Everyone is taught that. Its how the fucking world works. If you make a mistake its your fault.
Good information that addresses an issue that is commen for all, plus the courage of a Black Woman that decided to say I am stepping up to do something to bring about change for the better.
There are times when I ask myself - why I'm throwing my life away?
But then I cheer myself up by watching eight hours of funny cat videos on UA-cam
Exactly
🤣🤣🤣🤣me too
I find that sometime this is exactly what we need. For me it's Korean sap drama. Or comedy movie. This is when I let go my brain cell to dance and be merry.
She's my new hero! What an amazing combination of charisma and intelligence.
As a United Methodist pastor, I nearly spewed out my coffee laughing so hard when she said, “my parents didn’t think we were poor enough, so they became Methodist ministers.”
XD
“Permenant Poverity” 😂
She has ensured that all eligible voters in Georgia can have their voices heard. What a hero!
Thank you Stacy Abrams for your courageous efforts.
she wants us to unified, access for everyone to communicate and understand each other no matter what the colour is. what a brave woman to protect her beliefs and prove it to the world. awesome maam!
Wow I had no idea how inspiring Stacey Abrams is, it's incredible and I hope she runs again in '22
I like your style ...I don’t wanna be in the circus ...I wanna own the circus ...you go girl ...You own your power!!!
“What do I do next? And I’m going to do what I’ve always done. I’m going to move forward because going backwards is not an option and standing still is not enough.”
*applause after*
Me: that was deep
Right? This is the part that hit me the hardest
Always go ahead may you would have unlock the vicious trap
This is so uplifting and energizing - she is an extraordinary educator
❤❤❤ Stacey Abrams this talk was soooooo powerful!
Stacy, I was rooting for you ❤ love from Augusta 🙌
Stacy Abrams is Brilliant, Beautiful and Bold. This is the Best Ted Talk: "I'm going to move forward because going backwards isn't an Option, and Standing Still is NOT enough!" So inspirational!! I love you Stacy Abrams and I Stand with You!! You should be the Governor of Georgia and one day you will be.❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾
She is amazing! ☺️🤩
Stacey Abrams should be given a big position in the biden's administration. She became a force for Georgia turning Blue.
That's just not true. Georgia went blue cuz of suburban women....minority voting share actually went down compared to when she ran.
I hope so. She was pn list for VP. She gets it. More young people get it.
I think she’s going to run for Governor again
If she wants it. She may have bigger ideas!
Actually not. But you can thank the MSM for filling your head with crap
She's really funny. She managed to speak about a painful memory with humor and insight.
Guyomar Jkkk
She’s a great storyteller; she actually has authored several books.
@@smartmarketing173 She's a CHEATER too just like Donna Brazzile ...
Speaking about a painful memory with humor and insight is indicative of the mature human heart that is not 'hardened'. Guard against anybody who tries to 'harden your heart' against others by asking (and obtaining answers to the following contextual questions: 'who, what, when, where, why, who told you that, are you willing to put that in writing and how' . This protects everyone against being deliberately led astray by deceit and lies designed to harden human hearts.
“Do not let setbacks set you back”. Thank you Stacey
I didnt support the party you are affiliated with ;BUT I don't look at people based on their party, color, gender or financial status in society.
I saw on that stage a strong, proud, intelligent, well spoken and most of all determined human being.
If I turned away from this video based on any prejudices what so ever then I would never have been motivated or enlightened as much as I was listening to you.
I am not from the opposite side. I just didn't vote your side this time but my vote for you as a wonderful person has been cast 😊
You're life could have taken a different turn if you just walked away sheepishly and got back on the bus home. You didn't. You and your parents stood up for what was right and that is one of the basic principles America was founded on. I hope we can someday live by the basic principles again and expand upon them in a more positive manner.
Thank you for your courage and your inspiration. God bless you.
It was your vote that could have helped....
Thank you for being open minded. We need more people like you.
Agreed, we do need more people like you and if people in a particular party didn't so often see through certain lenses or generalize about certain groups in the U.S, then I would likely vote for the party she ran under/with. However, identity politics have consumed this party and is tearing it apart and unfortunately Mrs. Abrams participates in this religion.
gary smith That’s like writing on your car that you hate writing on cars.
She is a liar and going to jail for fraud everything she says she's fighting she is u will see soon sorry guys but it's over
Thank you, Stacey Abrams. You are a role model to all of us, people of color and women. Very inspiring, I hope I can achieve great things and fight for justice as well!
If you consider this absolute stain of a human being a role model, you should be locked up
My heart ❤️. Thank you for being and sharing you life and inspiration with us. Thank you Stacy Abrams.
Inspiring, I 'll be on this stage too one day ✨👍
Great woman, poised, personable and future first female president of USA!!!
Warri_Pikin O YESSSSSS😍😍Omg I wish she would run for President in 2020!
im gonna puke
Love Stacy! We are honored by her efforts on behalf of all citizens. Thank you!
This is why we can’t trust those who were born with everything handed down to them. The rich and powerful feel they are invincible. This is why we got rid of kingdom. We got rid of king. In a democracy, the poor and voiceless always need a heroine to give us some sense to the flight of justice and equality. Georgia diversified and I hope Georgia will grow a greater mixed demographic that truly represent the rest of the US. Diversity is strength and not a weakness. Stacey Abrams, your questions are what we all need to ask ourselves.
I love to hear what she has to say. It's important. I'm glad that she broke a record.
Such as beautiful soul and mind and oh don't forget HEART! Women all I can say is you WOW me and keep going because what you are doing we need more of!
Peace&Love😘
If I could like this 1000x I would! Stacey you inspire me to go after my dreams!
I believe in you because I BELIEVE YOU. Thank you for being open, honest, sincere, and authentic. Add to those basic values the fact that you are on the side of the people, and WOW, what a difference you are making! Keep on moving forward and reaching out to offer this country hope and a renewed sense of direction. You are needed! Thanks for being ready.
Thank you Miss. Abrams, your life story in a snap shot is the motivation I needed. There is too much to share but you left me asking some questions and will not allow set backs set me back. Thank you so much.
This is the tone I've been waiting for. This is the tone I haven't heard since Obama. Positive, real, strong, intelligent, resilient, fair and not at all indignant. Stacey Abrams gives me hope.
Amazing speech.......I love this woman , She is an inspiration!!!!
So many of us feel just like you!!! Thank you so much for making it happen!!! You are taking action regardless of all the obstacles that had and are facing you. So inspiring. Thank you.
Simply brilliant! Well poised, very well spoken! Ga's next Governor, her 'why' is strong.
Very very impressive speech.....
This was an excellent talk
Thanks Stacey Abrams for your courage and your wisdom. I have watched you when you were contesting for governor of Georgia. I will never forget that election.. I know you are born for greatness. I wish you all the very best in your effort for democracy. Blessings.
Stacey is a warrior and a true leader. I would be honored to have her as Governor of my state ♥♥♥
Shalom Governor Stacey !! My Beautiful Sister Stacey !! You Are So Amazing !! Just Phenomenal !! Much Much ♥♥💯😂💪 ✌
If you are reading this.
I hope something amazing happens to you today.
I really do. Amen 💝🌎
I stumbled across this video and I must say I'm encouraged by her message. We must move forward!!!!
Stacey Abrams