Dostoevsky - Walk Your Own Path, Face Your Errors
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In this video, I talk about Fyodor Dostoevsky, Crime and Punishment, truth, lies / self-deception, trust, walking your own path, learning, and the improvement of knowledge.
To walk your own path is to realize that you are always acting on your own knowledge. Even when you’re getting directions from someone else, you choose to take their advice based on your own understanding of the world. And when you realize that all of your actions always come back to your own knowledge in some form, and you decide to take responsibility for that, and you decide not to blame anyone else for your actions, then you’re walking your own path.
But to go wrong in your own way means that you realize that, at some point, you will come across an anomaly. And this anomaly will falsify or contradict your knowledge. And if you admit to being wrong, if you don’t ignore the anomaly, if you face your errors head on, then as Dostoevsky said, your errors can move you closer to the truth.
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Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky: geni.us/jseal
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This reminds me a mindful quote from Dalai Lama:
"People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road does not mean they are lost."
Thanks for sharing 🙂
A beautiful quote. Thanks for sharing 👍
Thanks for sharing this
This excuses bad behavior. Imagine a drug addict telling you he's following a different road by injecting heroin into his veins... Even their road can lead to a cliff or a forest. Telling someone they are walking in confusion should be heard.
@@JohnDoe-iu5xi “roads seeking fulfillment AND happiness.” That’s obviously not referring to self destructive behaviors of which the Dalai Lama has already said plenty about. Stop nitpicking to nitpick.
@@The_Riot Who are you to say that? What if that brings them happiness? Just because they are not on your road does not mean they are lost. And how dare you say to stop nit picking. What if this brings me happiness? I am not lost. I am on my own road. Do you see how absurd this is?
Life can be so confusing.. It amazes me to know there are people who are able to cut through that information or chatter in your head to sentences or concepts that make sense.. Thanks🌹
I agree! If you want the sharpest knife of all, it's Dr. Jordan Peterson.
@@rhythmdroid nah lmao
What makes life so confusing?
just like u did!
@@donthurtanyone overthinking is the cause
This follows the same reasoning as to why I stopped telling anyone what to do or what I would do. Even if they ask me directly. I found so much more peace in my mind when I stopped judging others for not doing the "right thing" or "not doing it the way I would do it".
Now whenever I have conversations about a tough situation someone is having and someone is deciding between A or B, we just talk about both options. Usually they will do what they were already leaning towards anyway and they will "make their decision based off their own knowledge"
Exactly! I used to get offended when someone asked me for advice and didn't act on it. Now I don't even bother. I've also come to cherish my agency more than anything and try not to judge people anymore.
Honestly, I am still struggling with that if someone is doing something that doesn't relate to my understanding, I just regard it as wrong and start judging them for being wrong. Also about giving advice to others!!
Yup, that's true! The more we walk on our path the more we realize that everyone has their own path too with different knowledge & opinion to the world. The more i try to understand myself the more i understand people are different and need to walk it's path whether they wrong or not and it's their right to upgrade the knowledge.. We just need to use different knowledge in different places and time i think this is what the meaning of time and place is relative (philosophical saying)
Man I stopped trying to tell people what they should do for about two years now. At first it feels like you have nothing valuable to tell the person but then you learn to listen properly. Generally speaking I find that people are much more willing to open up to me now. And it’s like we’re exploring their problems together.
I think it depends on the case and just giving up on trying to make things better or helping ppl is worse than putting up with having your advice ignored.
Just accepting that everyone has it's own path and that you should leave them alone can cause issues for you at some point.
An example would be with politicians.. by your reasoning we should just let them do whatever, no accountability from the public.
Or not try to correct and make ppl more informed about certain issues and as a rrsult their desinformation and ignorance leads to systemic problrms that also affect you.
On the other hand, if you have a friend that just wants to go and blow al hiis money on sweets and other stuff and not care about the future then , yes you can let him.ho his own path
My point is to accept that ppl are going their own way but not stop trying to make things better.
Note:
If you don't care how things will be later and take things as they are and, as long as you don't have regrets or get in a situation where there is no escape ( had you tried to communicate more or had you convinced some ppl that a trend is bad, maybe things would not have ended up like that) then i guess it worka out for you.
I often forget how powerful facing our fear and unconditional self-acceptance is. It's also my b'day today, not that it matters much, but a gift to myself is honouring the above two with a growth mindset no matter how difficult the current circumstances are. Thank you :)
Happy birthday
Buy a cake
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Happy birthday 🎉
Belated Happy Birthday 🎂🥳
Of course your birthday matters, it was the day a new universe came into existence 🙂
Happy birthday!
“going your own way” is much more difficult than it sounds. People often think they are thinking for themselves but in fact they are just being influenced by everyone and everything around them and not really relying on their own reasoning and objective observation of all data available.
Its not hard. All you got to do is admit to your own faults, failures and shortcomings. Accept this and take responsibility for yourself. Mea Maxima Culpa
To start thinking for oneself, one needs to first aquire knowledge to base their decisions on. Reading books by people smarter than you or surrounding yourself with those people is very important. It is impossible to not be influenced. You need to learn how to judge and sort the influences you encounter.
@@minimushrom and can we define this sorting and judging you describe? In the end dose this sorting and judging render you uninfluenced by others so you can think for yourself? Is that even possible? All of this requires a lot more examination to truly understand what it means to think for oneself. I think of it as clarity as the highest form of resolution. When the background is completely silent the sound is the crispiest and when the stage is motionless the dancers movements are most clear. I do believe in originality but paradoxically is requires submission to the God, to the eternal now. It is an act of submission rather than doing because it is our own masks, our own egos or ideas about ourselves that colors the background of our choices and direct our foreground decisions. Thinking for ourselves happens of it’s self so, but first we have to get out of our own way.
Do you think you have free will?
Thing is, in the end you are really thinking for yourself no matter if you’re being influenced or not. Still comes down to your own choice that you made. We all have choice. But i do get your point though and its interesting. I dont think you can ever not be influenced to some degree at any moment in life.
"I may not always be right, but I'm never in doubt"
Whoever said that
There's a quote about leadership, something like, You can be mistaken but you can never be uncertain.
Dan Pena
Man, i adore that quote!
thats bad. Nietzsche says doubt everything. Question, and be inquisitive. Only then will you learn anything.
@@mehakverma7043 "Acceptance is clear to the one that challenges all others." Take everything at face value until you've exhausted all known possibilities.
Genial! 7:25 👏👏👏, i quote:
"To walk your own path is to realize that you are always acting on your own knowledge. Even when you're getting directions from someone else, you choose to take their advice based on your own understanding of the world"
I love that insight!😎
Gives a lot to think about 🤔
Then as consequence 7:38 :
"And when you realized that all of your actions always come back to your own knowledge in some form, and you decide to take responsability for that, and you decide not to blame anyone else for your actions, then you're walking your own path".
One way of thinking that Dostoyevsky phrase would be that one does not "learn" from the solutions of others but with our own effort, that the tree only bears fruit after it grows, that we have to discover things for ourselves, that we will never know which is the "correct answer" because we always avoid the problem looking for the solutions of others, that only in security and certainty do we lose the effort that life entails, growing up.
All understanding is discovery, without understanding the solutions are not ours but fleeting.
@@pablogh1204 well thought out and written 👏
What you have written there is what I have come to believe over my 8 decades. If I had read what you wrote in my 4th decade I wouldn't have known what you were talking about.
So beautiful. And if you're following and deciding on your own knowledge, even if you went wrong, you're still on the right path.
how timely, I just saw a post online saying "the eyes only sees what the mind is prepared to comprehend"
This is so insightful.
I was about to move overseas with my girlfriend for 2 years with no thought as to what I wanted to do there. We ended up breaking up, as she moved before me and both needed to work on ourselves.
But now I realise, I want to go alone and make my own path. Accomplishments will always feel so much more significant when you can't rely on anyone but yourself.
Another aspect about going your own way, even if it's wrong, is about learning. Going the wrong way or failing, gives one the opportunity to learn from one's mistakes. We learn to learn. Going the right way when it's someone else's way, robs us of the opportunity of experimenting and finding out why the right way is right or vice-versa.
Nothing is a complete loss if you learn something from it.
Exactly my understanding.
"To go wrong in one's own way is better than to go right in someone else's"
That'll be best quote of my year.
I was just thinking about this earlier today. When we take accountability for all our actions we give ourselves the most power over our own lives.
I’m so grateful to have family and long true friendships with unconditional love, giving love back to those people really puts existence into perspective.
I keep telling my friends this. You have to be open to the possibility something you believe in may be wrong, or false.
this man is a total philosopher, inpires me to be so much better. I am grateful for you
A lot of people could use this advice today. Too many people, including myself sometimes, would rather be ignorant in your own world view because it helps you simplify and rationalize the world around you. It makes you feel safe, but there is no growth, and it makes it easier to see others as wrong when maybe they just have a different perspective. Great video
Failure to me is when I haven’t tried, and I’m tired of failing, success my only option
This is my moral philosophy. Live and die by your own decisions. Great Video. Jake UK
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Weird flex bro
Accepting mistakes
I love Dostoevsky's mind, as a practitioner of Stoicism.
Im from Venezuela and practically started to learn english to be able to watch your videos. You help me a lot man thanks!!
Mankind measures the depth of intellect based on things he knows, never truly accepting it's dependent on things he doesn't know of yet...
when the student said " i forgot what we were talking about" I felt that
Everyday in my life-
I think a lot of people like to go with the flow because it's got a proven track record and said path is already laid out.
As for your own path, it's filled with uncertainty and of course, there's a very real chance of you failing or being wrong. Ultimately, it is up to you to choose which one you embark on...
My life is crippled bcz of this.. I'm in a path where is a proven track record to success but my heart yearns for another path which might lead me to failure it's not predictable.. I'm stuck in btw
If you don't know where you're going, any road will take you there.
”Only dead fish follows the stream”
Exactly, there are people whose let other take decisions for themselves, instead of choosing their own path. They do it because they are afraid of failing when facing a hard question, like a moral question. The price paid is their own freedom of choice, they are chained by paths already trilled. Jordan Peterson talks about it a lot.
Actually for me I think what the whole conversation is about is a hat you are ultimately walking your own path. Whether you realize it or not. The only problem is being aware that you are walking your own path and choosing to be aware of what it.
Knowledge is not truth. It is a representation of truth.
When your understanding of truth changes your knowledge must also change.
it's the first time I'm writing a comment because the conversation in this video is so wise
I have a feeling that these dialogues between Young Student and Retired Priest are actually conversations which Author's past self(Young Student) would like to hear years ago. And The Priest is Author's present self, sharing knowlegde with his past self.
He’s talking about it in a limited area. Not in terms of directions to grocery stores or jumping off cliffs. But in terms of self identity and realisation. It’s also tied in with the concept of right and wrong as not being black and white.
Simply because going one’s own way implies self realisation, accountability and responsibility to oneself, and being true to one self. He’s saying that in the journey of being true to oneself it’s okay to make mistakes -in fact he would love you even more for it. It’s preferable to take up a job in a company that espouses the values you uphold, even if it pays lesser (and hence looks like a big wrong from the eyes of another person who prefers a higher pay package). The company might go bust, and you might be broke afterwards (and this might look like a mistake to most people around you) but it was still better to go down this path of self actualisation.
The other path of going right in someone else’s advice - in most instances, leads to loss of self, identity, and regret about whether one would’ve been truly happier if one has done what they really wanted to do. Eg., conforming to certain acts like homophobia because society is primarily homophobic and it would make your life easier if you just went along with it. Or marrying a person who looks right on paper. Or taking a job that pays more but makes your conscience burn. Always wondering what things would’ve been like if only -
What the OP could have explained to viewers through the Socratic dialogue would’ve been why it’s important to know oneself, and achieve self actualisation.
I have just learned about this lesson in my class few days ago . To be honest, I think it would be better and prouder of you to become successful when you learn anything and try to do things on your own
Beautiful and I appreciate the background music too!! It's our own mistakes, trials and tribulations that shape us into who we are. Just like a piece of coal under pressure and heat turns into a diamond. Truth is beauty and beauty is truth!!
When sometimes I don't feel like reading, I just watch a couple of your videos. It is so rich in knowledge and wisdom. Thank you, keep up the good work.
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According to me and what I learned...
To walk one's own path in life , one has to be willing to accept the changes happening within themselves and their environment, whether they may be positive or negative, it's is because of such experiences , one learns from them and grows and learns to trust his judgement and they know even if they fail they would have learnt something, this way of thinking has helped me walk my own path , I don't completely trust myself and I'm scared but even if I fail I have the lessons with me always.
Why in the world would anyone want to be wrong? I know I can learn from my mistakes - but I also know I can learn without making a mistake.
Mistakes can be made regardless of how we come to make them. Common sense says listen to your self first. Because we have been involved in our own experiences and have created an outlook of our life.
I think we naturally think about what others think and consider their opinions and ideas - but sometimes you just need to think what is best for you.
I have taken advice from others and found it to be helpful and beneficial and I have trusted myself and helped myself. I also have caused my self trouble and problems.
The one dilemma for me is how to handle the thoughts and actions of people who want to hurt me and others. They don’t want me or others to be right. So I am existing the best I am allowed.
It is difficult to live with people who don’t want freedom of thought.
I really enjoy having access to this very enlightening format. Thank goodness (the gods) there still are minds open to exchange.
I just found this sight recently and I hope to see more of this. ♥️🙏🏾. God bless the good in you and your organization.
Bro i wished all people talked like this, clear concise, patient and actually trying to help someone with a lot of questions. this took so much stress and anxiety away you have no idea than having conversation with people who get irritated and dismiss u.
I love finding anomalies... Used to hurt alot at first .. but now I see it as new knowledge.
This video touched me since I am exactly in the same situation, I decided to go on my own and leaving everything stable behind for sake of more fulfillment, however, I am in the position not sure if that is right or not and facing error maybe one the biggest fears for me to accept if turns to be, but I am trying to prepare my mind for that and most importantly no one to blame.
Me too. I'm considering leaving med school for a degree in psychology which I love and I'm afraid be of what'll happen if it goes wrong but this is a decision I'm making by myself and I'm willing to take responsibility for all outcomes
@@ella8764 I wish you good luck in it and remember most importantly to enjoy and love what you do, we dont know what will happen at least being fulfilled and happy is much way better than being miserable in something you never liked.
Me too. 👍🤙💪
Godspeed!
@@ella8764 I've come to believe this totally and absolutely: Follow your Intuition. It knows where you're going before you do.
When you become open
Your mind becomes a drop in the river(life), no conflict, stays present, accept reality and move on, don't cling to attachments.
Some things r worth keeping, like the attachment to education exercise diet kind acts and real world situations of known knowledge
This reminds me of a quote from Henry Fieildings literary masterpiece Tom Jones " it is just as possible to have been to school and no nothing,as it is to have not been to school and know something"
I CARVE MY OWN PATH
YOU FOLLOWED YOUR WRATH
Be honest to oneself is the most imp thing in life and it leads you to be yourself.
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Unfortunately in life it is not as easy to recognize when you were wrong. It's not as clear as seeing a green apple. Therefore it may take a long while before you learn from the mistake.
Glad that topics like this are being documented. No mumbo jumbo, straight truths.
Better to live with your own mistakes than by someone else’s idea happiness
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That song "You can go your own waaaay" 🎵
these videos give me so much comfort. these are concepts i believe and practice in my life, but the outside world constantly causes me to second guess myself. because in their eyes im not logical enough, when i know how practical it has been for me to follow my own inner compass. way more so than following what others do/have done/tell me to do.
The school system is completely screwed because of everyone is expected to do good all the time
Bro im feeling stressed goin college everyday man we are given work from beginning of the yr. i just wanna do my own thing man
@@manveersingh6927 In order change a system you must rebel for good of all
@@memazov6601 im rebellious by nature but im afraid of what might happen
@@manveersingh6927 Sometimes you have to take risk in order to expect change
I think the school system is screwed also because we tell every single child that they are a magical unicorn and "amazing" right from day one, for absolutely no reason. By the time they get to college they are anxious, confused, eager to go along with the crowd, and self-entitled as fuck.
this is a video which I will show my children when they grow up.
When you look back at the well-trodden path, the typical path, the all too boring and predictable path of the passive and fixed state of being human, your breath catches in your chest in sheer amazement at how you somehow could not see that choosing your own way was just a leap of courage away.
Life is so fascinating though. It’s like a movie, you have to be your main character but also stop sometimes and observe from the outside. No one knows what is going to happen which just makes it so exciting to experience. There’s no point worrying about anything, just simply take it all in like a breath of fresh air.
I’m really listening to the same guy talk to himself and I’m learning more than if I were to spend a day in school
A friend of my partner constantly comes to us with her sorrows and bad news it doesn't help that she is a miserable person but at the end of the day its her journey.
It is better to perform one's own duty imperfectly than to master the duties of another
an absolute masterpiece
UA-cam was recommending me this video for days. Finally i am watching it. You happy now?
I am so greatful for having come across this channel
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Wisdom is subjective.
Freedom in thought and presuit of wonder. Are great
4:15
Why should we study history if wisdom is subjective, and showed by checked each time.
6:10
Be open to change.
Not being open to change is stupid
הדוגמא הכי טובה זה ים המלח.
עוד 10 שנים זה משתנה.
והאם ניתן לאנומליה לנהל את חיינו
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Our blue print is how we see the world and accept the truth of the matter
Loving the dostoevsky content lately mate. Much appreciated.
This is aligned with growth mindset. Cool
This was strangely beautiful to me... We do always act on our own current understanding of the world, even if we are trusting someone else's judgement - it's always based to our own knowledge about the world, including people and whom we can trust. As one of those cheesy "coffee lucky quotes" said, "You can trust yourself only, and that is, not always." This idea is brilliant, but moreso because it's the truth. Thanks again for the great video. This Dostoevsky guy was very wise apparently ;)
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After watching your videos for a week. I will have to thank you for helping me tap into myself more.
These are great videos! I also love how engaging and thought provoking the comment section is, for the most part. Cool stuff!
Love this series so much, it will make a difference in my life
Great video. The only downside to learning the truth is that you might have to go through a lot of agonizing pain, mental, physical or both.
It's amaze me that even we try to not make mistakes or wrong we still make mistakes and i think there's a paradox here. There's no one (i think) want to make mistakes voluntarily and we always angry and go to judging state even we do make mistakes, i reach a conclusion mistakes is the only way we go to higher perspective, higher knowledge and growth mindset. Mistakes are common and I don't think mistakes are mistakes i mean mistakes is not a bad things, even i think mistakes is a good things. We just need patience and compassion to greater evolution of human beings.
Trust is based on a track record of benevolence and/or a methodology that consistently produces desired RESULTS.
I definitely agree with the student. He makes more sense than his senior.
Morning Roadies , rock this weekend and keep blessing.
Today I got my answer "why I should not blame anybody for my life".... key is to experience the truth by Yourself
There is not to loss if you take a wrong turn for yourself then right in someone else’s. For your wrong turn is a learning opportunity. But when someone is wrong to you. You blame them.
As always I love the conversation it makes complex concepts more malleable to understand
I think we have to separated things into 2 kinds
1. Things that you can achieve using information, such as going to a grocery store. In this case you better ask someone who know the direction than wasting your time doing trials and errors.
2. Things that you can achieve using experience and knowledge, such as how to contruct a building. You cannot rely only on what people told you because of the complexity. There are a lot different ways to do a thing and "the best" is subjective. For example, even though some solution is proven to be success, it turns out to be useless when used by a person who don't "realize" the pain behind it. It is like when you have a greatest sword in the world in your hand. You can prove to the world how great your sword is. But then you pass it down to your kid, and it becomes a useless sword. Then you blame and "punish" your kid that he is incompetent! Dostoevsky would suggest that the kid better walk his own path and be "compentent" in his own way.
I am liking this dialogue format of narration.
The dialogue in these videos really help in understanding the message you're trying to pass across
People sometimes try to help , genuinely , but it's just that the best they can offer you won't suffice , thus making it harder on you unintentionally.
As always, perfect
Making mistakes our own mistakes is how we learn in the beginning, then we learn to learn from other's mistakes so as not to repeat the same mistakes as others have - a quickening in evolution.
“Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.” - Otto von Bismarck
I am honored.
CGP Grey has a wonderful quote about how your opinions should be separate from your identity and how if you want to always be right then you have to be ready to change your mind.
I was going to google what " anomaly " means but this kid just read my mind
Not errors but negative results. The difference is control. Objectivity and restoration. Life is a balancing act.
Willing to go wrong is perfectly okay. To be on someone else's path being right in their eyes while you know it is wrong traps your soul. I'll rather die than follow the trends of weak modern politics.
Thank you for the video.
@FreedomInThought : love that you're reflecting on this theme and that you have synthesized this to share with us all! It really speaks to me and the internal Renaissance of soul I'm going through..
Also love the beautiful souls who've commented on this thread...really uplifting to see that there are so many of us reflecting and working to more authentically follow our own unique paths through life
Walking your own path is the key to self improvement ! Keep an open mind and learn from your mistakes, accept those mistakes and cherish them cause they are the key to the truth !
The comment section is a quote of the day
I've always tried to take my own path. But....
1. Sometimes i didn't admit to my mistakes. I was arrogant & wasn't conscious about it.
2. Sometimes, I've been rude to my elders, teachers, parents.
3. Until last year, i used to think that the people who are not on my path, were going in wrong direction.
But thank god 🙂 I'm better than yesterday 😁
I was going to like this comment but i hate emojis
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@@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777 btw.... A trusfrated former jee aspirant here!
Wish I had been raised with stuff like this
A person misleading you isn’t always lying or doing it out of malice
They could simply be an ignoramus.
Knowledge is justified belief. Certainty is always Enough for a specific use case.
Simply Brilliant!
This video just changed my mind
here's the paradox for me. I met anomalies in my life. So i change the perceptions about certain things, assuming im wrong. But later , i understand it was not my perception was wrong, its people around me acted the way that scenario turn to me "a anomaly" based on who i am. So , later this led me to showing myself as not who i am, and people got wrong opinion who i am. anomalies can described as shocking moments in life. I must say , some anomalies serve you, some of them make it hard to live. Since just knowing truth isn't enough. We must know how the truth serve us. So sometimes truth is the bliss , sometimes "ignorance is a bliss"
Choose to cooperate at times, other times find your own way.
I like these teachings..
Consciously I’ve done my life my way with unknown motivations by others and circumstances. And I’ve lived long enough to realise I am what I know is a smidgeon . I am a knowledgeable fool laughing. And choosing to do it my way was the experience. And that option too an illusion.
This is pretty simplistic for today's environment. The question is no longer whether to trust one person, but how to aggregate information from various sources of different levels of credibility, and integrate it with your model of reality. Bayesian reasoning is a useful tool here; wish they video mentioned it.
But that's a pragmatic factor that doesn't get past the root problem. You can try to do the best evaluation of all the people communicators possible and still be entirely unable to account for the complexities of the world around us that threaten our epistemological work. So we have to turn to Doestoevsky's proposition that our existential experience is all we have access to for knowledge. We can't blame fraudulent sources when we go wrong, lest we never get a better knowledge. Sure, Bayes can help to do that, practically, but he's no help if we haven't resolved to own our every error and misstep beforehand.
You make this so easy to process through those dialogs! Thank you!