What is Monsters: Menendez Even Trying to Do?

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  • @strangestparticle
    @strangestparticle 18 днів тому +5764

    I think Ryan Murphy does it purely for the aesthetics. He likes hot men, he likes horror. So he's always finding ways to put these two things together.

    • @gabriellaberman
      @gabriellaberman 18 днів тому +484

      Yeah, I agree. He REALLY has a type as well. So many of the actors he casts for the “hot” roles look the same. This show is no different

    • @akinaneon-xz6oj
      @akinaneon-xz6oj 18 днів тому +410

      Why not just make up characters losely based off of real people like he did in the beginning of AHS then? I feel like that's more respectful than making fanfic.

    • @FurTheWorkers
      @FurTheWorkers 18 днів тому +224

      Definitely, but he should do that with fictional characters and not real life tragedies

    • @asinussum
      @asinussum 18 днів тому +123

      I could already see him adapt Killing Stalking at some point... which would be truly horrofing

    • @noctap0d
      @noctap0d 18 днів тому +73

      @@asinussumOh no no no no, don't give him ideas 🤢

  • @copperclaw3638
    @copperclaw3638 11 днів тому +768

    Im a male csa survivor the show acting like it cares about abuse while constantly fetishizing the two brothers with a completely baseless theory felt like a slap in the face

    • @avery8359
      @avery8359 9 днів тому +62

      Yes! Even during the trial scenes, the characters were played more strategic and sneaky than upset and depleted while detailing the SA they experienced from their own parents. Idk I just thought it was very disrespectful to the brothers and their family, and full of harmful misinformation to the audience. Also wishing you love and healing❤

    • @zzulm
      @zzulm 8 днів тому +6

      Thank you for sharing your pov

    • @argent5196
      @argent5196 7 днів тому

      @@avery8359for real..

    • @superealme
      @superealme 6 днів тому +15

      it was wildly uncomfortable to watch. i’m glad to see that those who have also been victims found it strange as well, and it wasn’t just me being offended for them

    • @joaquinjovane
      @joaquinjovane 3 дні тому

      what are your thoughts on hetalia

  • @AA-qb7ni
    @AA-qb7ni 18 днів тому +2269

    Ryan doesn't care about the facts of such a sensitive case. Just the aesthetics.

    • @spacegirlfriend42069
      @spacegirlfriend42069 17 днів тому +48

      Fr. And with the possibility of a retrial shows like this can harm the judicial process by making it harder to get an impartial jury

    • @bbsugarsmurf19
      @bbsugarsmurf19 16 днів тому +26

      he's so incredibly shallow

    • @chaaaargh
      @chaaaargh 15 днів тому +17

      + shock value

    • @tophers3756
      @tophers3756 13 днів тому

      ​@@bbsugarsmurf19 I was just about to say that. I'm gay, but he seems like the type of surface level gay person I can't stand.

    • @jupiterzombies
      @jupiterzombies 10 годин тому

      @@spacegirlfriend42069 couldnt be a worse time to make it, since theyre currently appealing with new evidence for manslaughter charges

  • @sarahshroom
    @sarahshroom 11 днів тому +467

    Had no interest in meeting them because he "already knows their perspective"????? 😭 god the audacity of this man is outstanding

  • @donnawhite7203
    @donnawhite7203 18 днів тому +2944

    It's just exploitation. Plain and simple.

    • @peppermint23
      @peppermint23 17 днів тому +37

      I think if this show was fictional, it would've worked quite well as it delivered a pretty clear central thesis in spite of its flaws: there are no perfect victims. I thought it got that messaging across quite effectively more or less.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 17 днів тому +39

      @@peppermint23yeah, I pretty much agree with that. I like the show, if I pretend the brothers aren’t real. The minute I start thinking that they exist, that they lived this, well a version of this, then had the most traumatic events of their lives portrayed in sometimes reprehensible ways without having any control over it for all to see then well, I don’t feel good about it.
      And I stand with the brothers, I believe them. But I think the last scene, the boat scene is the creators telling us their perspective, which is that they think the brothers planned it. And it makes me sad that they chose to end on that scene more than the fact that they made it because I feel like it’s damaging to the brothers as it could very well not be an accurate representation and yet it’s a negative one with which the viewer will now walk away. It would be a different story if that scene was placed elsewhere in the series. But because I feel that it’s the creators telling us they don’t believe the brothers version of it, at least not the self defense defense, then it makes me wonder what it is that they know that I don’t. After all, I’m sure they researched this case extensively, so when I think about that I just wonder if I’m being a sucker believing the brothers or something. Not that it really matters what I believe anyway, but still, I’d rather not believe a story that isn’t true.

    • @eveykrushensky2928
      @eveykrushensky2928 12 днів тому

      Capitalism

    • @gabrielleagilar5872
      @gabrielleagilar5872 12 днів тому

      @@peppermint23

    • @salmanedy
      @salmanedy 8 днів тому +2

      Yeah and I'm supposed to believe that Ryan Murphy did a great job on Ratched even tho the original work is a so stark and realistic.

  • @thelittlehobbit4698
    @thelittlehobbit4698 8 днів тому +105

    We shamed girls for writing fanfiction about One Direction because the boys were real people that deserved respect. It's time to do the same to Ryan Murphy, because the man is writing nothing more than smut, without care about the lives he is affecting, and showing it to millions

  • @RiSK907
    @RiSK907 18 днів тому +2689

    there is something creepy and fetishistic about the constant homosexual undertones to Monsters. Ryan Murphy clearly fetishizes gay murderers. Its understandable in Dahmer, although I feel it is fetishized to an unnecessary level in that show as well, but it is now clearly a blatant pattern after Monsters. All of this coming from Ryan Murphy makes it all the more gross in my opinion, he gets off on it and he couldn't make it more obvious.

    • @Eamonshort1
      @Eamonshort1 18 днів тому +87

      Yup he did the same thing in American Crime Story season 2. Although, that performances of Cunanin was great.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 18 днів тому +10

      I don’t think two instances make a pattern nor do I think there are constant homosexual undertones on this season.
      I challenge you to walk me through each “homosexual undertone” of each of the 9 episodes. I mean, it should be fairly easy since it’s constant according to you, and you only have to mention one per episode, so really only 9. Go!

    • @melinaalba63
      @melinaalba63 17 днів тому +20

      Interestingly, at first I thought that too (I even wondered whether there would be a reveal that they actually had a relationship, I didn't know the case at all before), but after maybe two episodes I kind of liked how close they were portrayed, even the way they touched each others faces etc. (though obviously not the shower scene). Because to me, it mostly didnt seem like some insinuation of a relationship or romantic love, it simply made me believe and feel how incredibly deep their connection and love (brotherly love!) For each other was, despite both of them fucking stuff up.
      So in the end, except for the few scenes where they were explicitly shown to be romantic with each other, I think the show profited from depicting the two like this.
      Although it was entirely unnecessary to even insinuate that there was romance, that was just for people to fetishize and speculate.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 17 днів тому +28

      @@melinaalba63yeah, I agree with the part where you say it was nice to see them physically close. Idk how the real brothers are, but the physical closeness portrayal on the show sold it for me on how bonded they appeared to be which I thought was nice as well. It made me wish I had a sibling with whom I was deeply bonded.
      There were only 3 scenes that showed a possible sexual relationship between them, the shower scene, the dance scene at the party and the kiss scene at the hotel (to a lesser extent). And I personally can’t help but feel conflicted about their existence. Because on the one hand this allegation actually *was* a perspective thrown around at the time, therefore adding it is simply doing justice to the many perspectives that existed at the time. It’s there for the same reasons all the other ones were (the financial motive, the we feared for our lives explanation, the they premeditated this perspective, the we were abused claim, etc), just to showcase all the different viewpoints thrown around at time. So with that in mind, I don’t have a problem that they added it. But when I remember that these are real people and one of the most traumatic events of their lives is being revisited and thrown with that comes the allegation that they might be sexually involved? They who are actually possible victims of sexual abuse? I mean, that is just wrong. I can’t imagine being a victim of sexual abuse for years then have my story portrayed for all to see, without my control over it and being sexualized that way, or in any way really.
      I think if the brothers never existed and this show was complete fiction it would’ve been a good show. But being that these are real people then I struggle to see it in a completely good light or even a good reason for it existing in the first place. Perhaps it should’ve never been made.

    • @kexiusfray9950
      @kexiusfray9950 17 днів тому +81

      I think he not only does this, but he’s very much aware there’s a market for it. Think about the overlaps between true crime watchers, people similar to ‘Ted Bundy wives’, fanfiction readers, and women who fetishize gay men through fanfiction
      As a queer man perhaps he avoids taking accountability but can also make a lot of money off these groups in the process

  • @lavaghoul
    @lavaghoul 12 днів тому +416

    in Scream Queens, another Ryan Murphy production that’s supposed to be a horror satire/comedy, one of the characters makes a comment about the menendez brothers “crawling into bed with eachother” that’s played off as a joke. That one little line he wrote tells me he has NEVER taken this situation seriously. the harmful conspiracy theories about this case are and always have been jokes to him

  • @nicolehall694
    @nicolehall694 18 днів тому +1564

    I am terrified for his take on Ed Gein.
    Gein's crimes are like no other and Ryan Murphy will cover them with vile, exploitive glee

    • @dand1253
      @dand1253 17 днів тому

      We don't even have proof of Gein taking more than one life! He's a bizarre, tragic figure, and I shudder to think what kind of Troma bullshit Murphy will weave out of that.

    • @TreySarver
      @TreySarver 17 днів тому +96

      And Zoomers in the comments section will be defending Ed Gein

    • @handler65
      @handler65 17 днів тому +108

      i can’t believe he’s doing ed gein. No one ever talks about him. I personally think he’s the worst of them all

    • @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare
      @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare 16 днів тому +78

      @@handler65 albert fish was worse.

    • @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare
      @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare 16 днів тому

      @@handler65 Ed Gein only has 2 confirmed murders.

  • @RigB0n3
    @RigB0n3 18 днів тому +1875

    Some days I feel like Ryan Murphy needs jail time for his crimes in TV. Because what is the thought process behind this? I think another reason he pisses me off, is because he makes so much stuff sexual when they don't need to be. I just cant fathom whats going on in his head.

    • @katrinamack444
      @katrinamack444 18 днів тому +107

      it all started w the rubber man. should’ve never let that man continue writing

    • @Ric_1-t9e
      @Ric_1-t9e 18 днів тому +1

      Dahmer was so historically inaccurate and politically charged that he’s defamed innocent people and disrespected the families and victims of Dahmer. He should be blacklisted.

    • @shanmarie000
      @shanmarie000 18 днів тому +61

      someone on twitter said he has to force a ship with everything he makes and it’s so true

    • @Noproblem396
      @Noproblem396 18 днів тому +2

      Huh didn't Blue is the Warmest colour win several awards and accolades, a standing ovation at Cannes and critically hailed as a great queer film?🤔

    • @RigB0n3
      @RigB0n3 18 днів тому +31

      @ That is a terrible movie, are you joking pls tell me you're joking 😭

  • @kostantza1
    @kostantza1 17 днів тому +564

    I asked my mom showing her the Netflix poster, "What would you say this series is about?". She said "Something like Brokeback mountain?". I said "It's a true crime story, what would you say it's about?". She said "Looks like a crime of passion case." I said "It's a story about two brothers killing their parents after their father abuses them for most of their life". She looked again at the poster, her face slowly morphing into mild disgust and asked "And why is it like *that*?"
    Like, the sheer fact that the real Erik Menendez says on-screen "I can't remember a time my father wasn't f***ing me", and yet gets constantly presented as a vulnerable twink, not to mention the running with the incest theory (especially knowing the COCSA that happened between the brothers) made me feel physically dirty, not even exaggerating.

    • @Noah-lo9vb
      @Noah-lo9vb 13 днів тому +32

      Holy shit, I just looked up the Netflix poster and jfc. That's so actually horrifying.

    • @leonardosomma4196
      @leonardosomma4196 12 днів тому +1

      100th like 09/11/2024 19:07

    • @claudiajanethurquidezreyes1789
      @claudiajanethurquidezreyes1789 12 днів тому +17

      For real i didnt knew about the case until i Saw the series, but when i Saw the poster I thought it was a couple of homosexual murderers.

    • @avery8359
      @avery8359 9 днів тому +14

      I know!! Why are they shirtless and holding each other on the cover like wtf?!!? Ryan Murphy hates to see an accurate, non-offensive depiction of real life people I guess.🤷‍♀️

    • @themirrorsofmymind
      @themirrorsofmymind 8 днів тому +1

      "And why is it like *that*?
      Were you trying to make the word "that" appear as boldface type?
      "And why is it like *that?"*

  • @MarTheWorstGaymer
    @MarTheWorstGaymer 14 днів тому +237

    I think it's so sickening of Ryan Murphy to say he wants to talk about male sexual abuse, but then go on to wildly and shamelessly sexualize the same people. Don't even try to act like this is sincere. Especially since he apparently didn't see any point in talking to the actual brothers and didn't see not getting any answers from family members as a sign just not to make the show. Everything about it just disgusts me.

    • @DiamondKingStudios
      @DiamondKingStudios 7 днів тому +4

      It’s really hard to advance awareness of issues when the spokespeople for those issues turn out to be fairly inept at their job, like Murphy was here.

  • @robynnorfleet4626
    @robynnorfleet4626 11 днів тому +131

    Someone should check Ryan Murphy’s basement

  • @tasonjodd
    @tasonjodd 17 днів тому +425

    As talented as Guadignino is, I think an American Psycho remake in itself is painfully redundant. The 2000 film by Harron is as close to perfect as filmmaking gets. Having a female director was brilliant and bold because of the themes and main character. I feel as if remaking it will reduce everything not only the film is about, but the novel by Ellis as well. It’s unnecessary and will profit off its iconicity, nothing else. I cannot imagine Patrick being played by anyone else.
    But I’ve been wrong before. I do hope they scrap it but you have convinced me to watch E5 of this series I’m glad there’s one gem in there because I was conflicted with watching this series having a feeling it would only make me angry knowing the case fairly well. Thank you, your Ryan Murphy critiques are always spot on

    • @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare
      @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare 16 днів тому +12

      well movies don't feel real these days, all the actors have fake teeth, fake hair, stiff faces, fake lips, lashes and noses, no one looks like a person you'd see walking down the street anymore, it's such a shame really.

    • @tasonjodd
      @tasonjodd 16 днів тому +22

      @@The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare that is definitely part of the issue, could not agree more. The original film felt like you were watching a bunch of asshole Wall Street men have actual interactions with each other and women they clearly did not give a shit about, even when it reached the “campy” (or baroque lul) level of dialogue that’s sole purpose is to be satirical. I don’t think writers are capable of pulling that off anymore. At least not the ones who get most of the work for big Hollywood films. They refuse to take risks.
      I know you were mostly talking about appearances but I think that’s also made more obvious by how utterly fake their dialogue sounds. Almost all movies I watch that were recently made I am so aware that what I’m viewing are actors on a soundstage or green screen.

    • @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare
      @The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare 16 днів тому +2

      @@tasonjodd no you are completely right and also I just noticed Tae hehe

    • @tasonjodd
      @tasonjodd 16 днів тому +1

      @@The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare 😏🫰

    • @ILikeTheIvy
      @ILikeTheIvy 16 днів тому +3

      Its not a remake of the movie though, its going to be closer to the book than the movie

  • @RigB0n3
    @RigB0n3 18 днів тому +607

    I actually had to pause the video and walk around at hearing 15:32. I can't believe he actually said that, ESPECIALLY knowing that the relationship between the brothers ISNT facts, like this feels like slander, but I know alot of people wont see it like that

    • @Joshpower57
      @Joshpower57 18 днів тому +13

      The show took mostly viewpoints from multiple angles. The most outrageous part was the accusation of incest between the brothers, but the accusations from the brothers about the father isn't factually based either. They never reported it in therapy, but told the therapist they killed their parents. Deposition from the workers stated they never saw or heard any kinds of abuse the brothers were talking about, only family and friends who stood to make money from their release stated they were abused, but even if that's true, the premeditated murder doesn't have any evidence showing they were going to be killed by their parents... The Netflix series did a pretty good job capturing everything and the brother didn't take the stand in the 2nd trial because he was recorded talking about how he would manipulate the jury. I think your bias is coming through on this one

    • @RigB0n3
      @RigB0n3 18 днів тому +86

      @@Joshpower57 I'm not gonna entertain this

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 18 днів тому

      Yeah, cuz it’s not.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 18 днів тому +29

      @@Joshpower57make money from their release?? How can the relatives make money from their release?
      Also, did you actually read Norma’s book?

    • @RigB0n3
      @RigB0n3 18 днів тому

      @@thatgirlwearingglasses4133 Whatever u say bud 🫡

  • @sehajkaur7194
    @sehajkaur7194 18 днів тому +1217

    I absolutely despised the way the final episode ended, with the brothers discussing and pre meditating the murder when its clearly something the Menendez brothers disagreed with in the trials multiple times, they never had an actual plan to kill their parents, and the fact that this is the last impression that we as viewers get is so harmful, this is the thought process that we are forced to walk away with... IMO the episode should've ended with the brothers being separated with the milli vanilli song playing that scene was so emotional i started BAWLING.

    • @mihaelabiolan819
      @mihaelabiolan819 18 днів тому +7

      I agree!

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 18 днів тому +32

      You know I cried too, it was really sad. Funny thing tho, while you’re bothered by the final scene on the boat, I’m bothered by the choice to use milli vanilli. Because as you may know, they were a fraud, right? So, while I know they were really successful exactly when the murders occurred, I feel like they were purposefully chosen with the intention to say that as far as the creators are concerned, the brothers (and subsequently their point of view , which in this case is a history of abuse) were a fraud, much like milli vanilli. And that heartbreaking moment, the one of them being separated after they apparently asked to be together only to then be transported at the same time to two different locations and get to find out right there and then on the bus (cuz apparently that’s exactly how they found out), was turned into mockery with that song choice. Like, don’t get me wrong, it got to me, I cried, I was so so sad for the brothers. But I also know that sometimes writers speak to us very directly via their song choices and I can’t help but feel like that milli vanilli song choice was so very deliberate. What do you think?
      Meanwhile the boat scene was just yet another perspective, you mention the brothers disagreed with it being premeditated on the trials, right? Well, that doesn’t mean they’re telling the truth, does it? The fact of the matter is that we don’t know much of anything, we can only speculate based on very little evidence or we can just pick a side, a perspective. But the fact of the matter is that we don’t know if the brothers premeditated this or not. If they feared for their lives or not. If they did it for money or not. If they were abused or not. We simply don’t know. We just choose to believe them… or not.
      So, if the creators want to end the show where the boys are plotting to kill their parents, well, then so be it. It’s not like we can say that didn’t happen. Tho I personally think that final scene was to demonstrate the creators perspective. I believe that they believe the brothers premeditated their parents murder and that is why they ended the show with the parents excited about their future while surrounded by juvenile sharks (I mean, can they be any more obvious?) with both of their children plotting to kill them on the other side of the boat. It was almost like an after credits scene in which the creators were saying, “well, we gave you all of the perspectives from the time when the murders occurred across 9 episodes, and now here is ours. And what can we do, right? They’re allowed to have their own take on it. I mean, if I’m right and that’s how the creators feel, then it makes me sad because I believe and support the brothers. But I can’t in good conscience say with certainty that I know what happened. Only the brothers know.

    • @suga3774
      @suga3774 17 днів тому +4

      thats sooo fcked up.

    • @TreySarver
      @TreySarver 17 днів тому +28

      Ok but over here in reality is was premeditated

    • @James-gr5un
      @James-gr5un 17 днів тому +9

      @@TreySarverI don’t think these clowns know what premeditation mean any sense of planning in court will be considered premeditated

  • @ricky7321
    @ricky7321 17 днів тому +410

    There’s someone in the comment section replying to like 90% of people and trying to defend the portrayal of the brothers and the blatant lies throughout and that to me represents exactly why the show should have never been made. This isn’t “just a show”. It’s a real story, with real people. They aren’t fictional characters. Erik and Lyle aren’t “fictional victims of SA”. They truly were abused. Say what you want about them murdering their parents, but they have a right to have a say in how their SA is portrayed for the public. Especially when one brother is blatantly portrayed as a closeted gay man (he’s denied this COUNTLESS times) and both are portrayed as incestuous.

    • @wellthisisinteresting4912
      @wellthisisinteresting4912 17 днів тому +64

      it's probably Ryan lmao

    • @ricky7321
      @ricky7321 17 днів тому +29

      @@wellthisisinteresting4912 that’s what I was thinking 😭

    • @soph996
      @soph996 13 днів тому +36

      After I read your comment I scrolled through a big chunk of the comments again and tried to find that commenter and boy, it wasn't hard. This person needs to just take a minute to think about this critically and stop riding Ryan Murphy. Heck, maybe it is Ryan Murphy bc I can't imagine anyone would stand behind this project as much as he does

    • @shai.thecreator
      @shai.thecreator 7 днів тому +4

      omg i thought no one else noticed, they keep going on every comment that’s criticising the show and defending it. Even more reasons why this show shouldn’t have been made bc those type of people aren’t “defending” the Menendez brothers out of sympathy or bc they care how abuse is portrayed but bc they have a weird sort of fetish of them instead. Ryan Murphy somehow got the same set of weirdos who obsessed over Dahmer to be weird abt this too.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 5 днів тому

      Is that right?

  • @chaoticfangurl567
    @chaoticfangurl567 16 днів тому +106

    While Cooper was amazing as Erik this show was done in bad taste. The brothers were overly sexualized, there were unnecessary scenes depicting incest due to how close Erik and Lyle were and it was done in so many different points of view that it was like it was trying to leave you conflicted what to believe

  • @sarahshroom
    @sarahshroom 11 днів тому +40

    I just.. if Ryan Murphy wants to write like this, why not just create your own characters?? I guess for the sensationalism of the names but.. jfc. So much of this could be solved if these weren't real people

    • @socksbenjelloun5196
      @socksbenjelloun5196 9 днів тому +3

      yeah i mean he literally did that with american horror story lmao

    • @Ishbikes
      @Ishbikes 13 годин тому

      @@socksbenjelloun5196lol

  • @DaughterofAslan16
    @DaughterofAslan16 18 днів тому +360

    Thank you for this! I pretty much agree with everything you said, except pertaining to episode 5. Yes it was well done, but they still added things in that Erik never said. In fact they completely went against things he’s said. He’s had to explain over and over that he is not gay, but ep 5 had him explicitly say he fell in love with a boy and had sex with him. So I can’t stand even that one episode.

    • @personperson4708
      @personperson4708 18 днів тому +107

      Yes, I wish more people would pick up on this! He's said that he understands that people in the gay community identify with him and he says there's nothing wrong with being gay, but Erik also says that he's categorically not gay

    • @Jana-fs2qf
      @Jana-fs2qf 18 днів тому +64

      Erik did say that he did experiment with a boy multiple times in his life, but that he was not gay. He does say in the trial that he was always confused & didn’t understand “why it stopped hurting so much”. It’s heartbreaking all around. The actual lie is the relationship with his prison mate.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 18 днів тому +8

      Yeah, well, it’s not a documentary, so…
      Also, according to the actor who played Erik, Lyle did see episode 5 and congratulated him saying he really did capture Erik. That’s not the same as saying that he confirmed the entire narrative of that episode but it’s certainly more positive to him, his brother, than it is to you. Unless that actor is lying.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 18 днів тому +2

      @@Jana-fs2qfinteresting. What did he mean by stopped hurting so much tho?

    • @Jana-fs2qf
      @Jana-fs2qf 18 днів тому +35

      @@thatgirlwearingglasses4133 Erik said towards the end of his abuse, his father penetrating him didn’t hurt like it used to, so it caused him to be extremely confused about his sexuality and whether he enjoyed it or not.

  • @melissadwiggins
    @melissadwiggins 16 днів тому +170

    This is why I refuse to watch this mini-series. To portray them as being in a sexual, incestuous relationship? How disgusting, after you've been raped by your father your entire life! I refuse to watch that play out in front of me after I know what those boys really went through.

    • @bronxmami1404
      @bronxmami1404 10 днів тому +8

      Exactly why I haven’t watched

    • @based-ys9um
      @based-ys9um 10 днів тому

      You do know there isn't proof of the rapes?

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq 18 днів тому +460

    Cooper Koch really needs to be in more projects. The entire episode where Erik is speaking to his lawyer, which is shot in one long continuous take, really showcases his acting range.

    • @closelaugh185
      @closelaugh185 18 днів тому +17

      being sad and gay isnt really Daniel Day Lewis levels of range

    • @melinaalba63
      @melinaalba63 17 днів тому +40

      I don't know if it shows his range but it definitely shows that he is able to leave a very lasting impact on many people with his acting. Would be interesting to see him in more stuff.

    • @visionaryannie
      @visionaryannie 17 днів тому

      @@closelaugh185 shut up

    • @Luna-rw3uo
      @Luna-rw3uo 17 днів тому +4

      Once again 🪄 and yesss that monologue is breathtaking.

    • @visionaryannie
      @visionaryannie 17 днів тому +28

      @@closelaugh185 no one cares if someone’s gay or not. his acting was top tier

  • @saulitix
    @saulitix 18 днів тому +390

    I'm glad that you also found The Hurt Man as such a powerful episode. I wish the rest of the show wasn't mostly shit.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 18 днів тому +1

      You say this like it’s not the way most people feel about that episode. He even mentions how literally everyone agrees how powerful that episode was.

    • @saulitix
      @saulitix 17 днів тому

      ​​@@thatgirlwearingglasses4133 I watched the show with someone and they HATED that episode, and I do not use Twitter so I really don't know most people's perspective on this episode. I wasn't trying to make some kind of "unpopular opinion" comment or anything like that.

    • @tasonjodd
      @tasonjodd 17 днів тому +10

      ⁠​⁠​⁠@@thatgirlwearingglasses4133 ? No…this original commenter didn’t do that at all-they just said they’re glad meeptop did as well. At no point did they “say it like” that’s not how other people felt about the episode. They are solely talking about themselves and the experience they had with the episode and disliking the rest of the series. Weird comment to leave guess tone/intent will always be difficult for some people to decipher online

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 17 днів тому

      @@tasonjoddyeah which is why you couldn’t decipher it. Ep 5 is so well liked that one might even be inclined to say it’s universally liked if they were a fan of hyperboles to make a point, which I’m not and yet here I am. I guess there is a first time for everything. 😄
      Seriously tho, it’s no surprise this UA-camr liked ep 5 so this person going “oh I’m glad you liked it” comment is so unnecessary because it’s such an obvious thing for anyone to like that episode. I mean if they had added actual insights on the episode to discuss their shared appreciation for the episode taht would be a different story. But then just going, “oh I’m glad you liked it” and basically leave it at that implied there was a level of surprise which doesn’t make much sense since, as I said, this ep is universally liked.
      Now go on and send me a reply where you reiterate how you can’t decipher tone while trying to convince me that’s actually me who can’t. lol 😉

    • @tasonjodd
      @tasonjodd 16 днів тому +4

      ⁠​⁠​⁠@@thatgirlwearingglasses4133how about instead I send a reply you don’t get to dictate what is a “necessary comment” on a UA-cam video. The original commenter didn’t have to add any new insight to the conversation. They simply made a comment. Not sure what you’re so up in arms about seeing as how you did the exact same thing and proceeded to double down. But I do like when people double down when they’re wrong, it’s entertaining. Here this is for you: 🍪

  • @Emma__O
    @Emma__O 18 днів тому +535

    The worst part about this show is that it's getting all the credit for why the brothers might go free despite all of Murphrot's obvious efforts to slander them. Previously, he compared them to Jeffrey Dahmer and accused them of having sex with eachother. The intention is paper thin.

    • @RigB0n3
      @RigB0n3 18 днів тому +117

      This! Like the nerve to create a show out of this, and saying "we're presenting all the facts" then showing a relationship between the brothers when thats NEVER been confirmed as fact 😭. Making their lives actively worse just for a check

    • @Joshpower57
      @Joshpower57 18 днів тому +17

      They shouldn't be released. They both killed their parents, fantasized about it and never spoke to their therapist about ever being abused, but were comfortable with discussing murdering their parents and threatening the therapist? It's insane that people are actually believing two manipulative murderers, but hey it's 2024

    • @Emma__O
      @Emma__O 18 днів тому +6

      @Joshpower57 Wow! You're an idiot.
      They did not threaten Oziel, that man is a proven liar.
      I believe evidence and the experts. The evidence and experts say they were abused and killed out of fear, that's manslaughter. It was a huge miscarriage of justice that they got sentenced to firste degree murder.
      But hey, keep sympathizing for a rapist and his pedo wife.

    • @Jana-fs2qf
      @Jana-fs2qf 18 днів тому +96

      ⁠​⁠@@Joshpower57When did they fantasize about it? And even if they did… MANY abused kids fantasize about unaliving their abusers. Erik told his therapist after months because he was extremely suicidal and hallucinating. That’s why. Have you only watched this show?

    • @Jerry_Gallo
      @Jerry_Gallo 17 днів тому +12

      @@Joshpower57 It's 2024: people've forgot to use their brain.

  • @agahnim0196
    @agahnim0196 17 днів тому +134

    Hey, i like homoerotic thrillers as much as the next guy... but i'd really prefer if Murphy stuck to pure fiction.... he could do more, without disrespecting real human beings.
    But it wouldn't be as popular... cause, you know, people are stalkers...

    • @0.0dots
      @0.0dots 15 днів тому +1

      Gross but do you

    • @agahnim0196
      @agahnim0196 15 днів тому +10

      @@0.0dots Hey! What's that over there? Oh! It's the joke..... flying right passed your head!

    • @0.0dots
      @0.0dots 15 днів тому +1

      @agahnim0196 okay? You want a cookie for that or lol

    • @agahnim0196
      @agahnim0196 15 днів тому +2

      @@0.0dots I always want cookies! :D

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 14 днів тому

      @@agahnim0196what’s a homoerotic thriller?

  • @_uncredited
    @_uncredited 18 днів тому +292

    It's the most TV-show looking TV-show. There are a million ways you could present this story, but we get standard modern cinematography. Shallow depth of field with oversaturated everything. Blurgh. And everyone has a squeaky-clean wardrobe with perfect hair because they director can't stop playing with his dolls. It's disgusting to look at. But not in a good way.

    • @velmad3894
      @velmad3894 18 днів тому +2

      What situation would disgusting be "in a good way"?

    • @_uncredited
      @_uncredited 18 днів тому +66

      @@velmad3894 A lot of styles. Faux documentary. Grindhouse. Lynchian. I'm not saying it should be an esoteric art piece, but you can have a 'dirty' or look to a project that can set it apart. I think the iPhone-Ad style used here is, pardon the pun, phoned in.

    • @amirahazhar4192
      @amirahazhar4192 17 днів тому +10

      ​@@_uncredited you're spot on - marry me.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 17 днів тому

      @@amirahazhar4192weird comment.

    • @RatEatRat
      @RatEatRat 16 днів тому +14

      ​@@thatgirlwearingglasses4133it's not even remotely that serious.

  • @thefinalball
    @thefinalball 18 днів тому +147

    you nailed it man. It's all about money at the end of the day with these shows, and that's why I refuse to watch any of this new true crime stuff... exploiting real people with horrific stories for entertainment and money? That's not right at all.

    • @sooz5703
      @sooz5703 16 днів тому +7

      Me too. I refuse to watch them. I'll watch trial footage if i want to know things.

  • @roryreviewer6598
    @roryreviewer6598 18 днів тому +148

    It was really off putting to me that they chose to make us feel sympathetic to the Mendez’ SA struggles only to rip the rug out from under us at the very end. It plays into a very harmful stereotype that SA victims lie about their experience for attention or w/e. If they were going to go that route they should have at least kept the audience in the know the whole time and not make us get so emotionally involved in that part of the story.

  • @bamabat8435
    @bamabat8435 14 днів тому +47

    7:59 That's Ryan Murphy for you. The only project he's ever done without exploitative levels of homoeroticism was The People vs. O.J.

    • @jordishima
      @jordishima 9 днів тому +8

      And it’s only because he couldn’t shoehorn a postgame locker room scene in.

  • @hoxenoslol
    @hoxenoslol 10 днів тому +17

    Hi, I'm a survivor of CSA who works as a peer supporter for other survivors of CSA. Once when I found out about the romanticized incest that was a result of the CSA I immediately canceled my Netflix subscription. I don't fault you for making a career out of criticizing disgusting exploitative media. I do fault the people that purposely make disgustingly exploitative media, especially of real people with real trauma. I have lived my whole life seeing romanticized and unfair representations of CSA survivors. The fact is that (according to the media) if you're a male CSA survivor, your abuse was horrific and you turn out to be a serial killer. If you're female, you were only abused by a step dad in your teen years and turn into a prostitute and somehow get blamed for your CSA. This is the only representation of CSA up until the last few years.
    One of my big problems with this show is that it acts like it's giving a new perspective, but it's actually doing the bare minimum on that by rehashing the original story, which is SO coloured by the bias of the time in terms of CSA representation. At the time the boys could only be seen as monsters. By todays standards, post metoo, it feels so tonedeaf to make something like this. I was hurt and disappointed that this is going to be how a new generation views this story, which by today's standards, show the boys to be in the right now that we understand this kind of trauma better. Much like a battered spouse defense, the boys were fighting for survival, and we criminalized them, exploited AND changed their story to suit a narrative, and made money off them, instead of protecting them. There's a line in Spotlight (the most respectful movie ever made about CSA) "If it takes a village to raise a child, it takes a village to abuse one." We as a society are all adding to the abuse these brothers went through, and it's disgusting and so fucking sad. I can't even imagine my story getting sensationalized like this... I'm not sure I'd want to live, in all honesty. Seeing someone take my perpetrator's side, or romanticizing my relationship with my perpetrator or my siblings. It makes me genuinely sick. I feel so bad for them, and I genuinely don't blame the brothers for what they did. There are more adults in a child's life than just the abusive parents. EVERYONE let them down, and we continue to do so.
    I think the reason that the creators think they can do this is a sheer lack of empathy. Something I say in my sessions all the time is "They don't have to live with it every day" in reference often to family members who minimize the abuse. Non survivors just... cannot understand the weight of the trauma. Or they can understand it while they talk to us but not the WEIGHT of living with it every day. It's incomprehensible. The fact that they didn't even talk to the brothers... It shows that there were no victims of CSA involved... and what you showed of the tone change... I think that's evidence of people who don't realize what it's like to live with it every day. The sad thing is that it would probably make a compelling story, but it's a perspective no one wants to hear. And that's what I feel rolling off of media like this... No one REALLY cares about the real experience of being a CSA survivor. Only what has been rehashed for decades. What is sexy and romantic. It doesn't matter what the reality is. Anyway, sorry for this rant and thank you for the video.

  • @davemac9563
    @davemac9563 17 днів тому +118

    Ryan Murphy is like those sick tumblr accounts I saw back in 2012 or 2013 where they romanticize Dharmer because he was catching, and make Ted Bundy look like an icon to admire because of how handsome he was. I swear if he does a Ted Bundy netflix special, he’s gonna be pushing it officially

    • @jordishima
      @jordishima 9 днів тому +2

      He’s making an Ed Gein show

  • @thetruthlies7
    @thetruthlies7 18 днів тому +183

    Knowing that he's making a new show on Edward Gein, I really hope Ryan Murphy doesn't make it sexual for some reason. And I also hope he doesn't make Gein seem like some playboy cutie with masculine muscles, Gein was a very miserable and pitiful human being.

    • @_uncredited
      @_uncredited 18 днів тому +2

      He absolutely will. There's already fanfiction 'essays' written about Gein's 'skinsuits' that suggest he tried making them because he wanted to be his mommy and was secretly trans from boyhood. You know he'll go all in on that nonsense.

    • @kat8559
      @kat8559 18 днів тому +85

      oh god. they're going to imply that ed gein was trans, aren't they. they're going to make him buffalo bill, aren't they. jesus christ someone stop ryan murphy please.
      props to channel medusone in her real housewive's video for doing actual research about ed gein and dispelling some of the myths about him

    • @Jess-Rabbit
      @Jess-Rabbit 18 днів тому +8

      Did he not have sexual feelings towards his mom tho? He was a very twisted person so I'm pretty sure there were some incestual things going on. Hence why he was trying to dress up in women's clothing and skin after his mom died

    • @wellthisisinteresting4912
      @wellthisisinteresting4912 18 днів тому

      Oh but we know that he WILL make it sexual

    • @thetruthlies7
      @thetruthlies7 18 днів тому

      @@Jess-Rabbit Alot of Ed Geins case has just been made up, specifically regarding his mother. Nobody will truly know why he did the things he did, because so many of his confessions conflicted with each other. All we do know is that Augusta Gein was a gross sexist who isolated him from women and that after she died, Ed went insane. Why he wore the skin will probably never be solved, because he gives like 7 different conflicting reasons.

  • @flowerbloom..
    @flowerbloom.. 6 днів тому +7

    I remember cleaning my room while watching The Hurt Man, once I realized that the camera hadn’t cut away from the scene, I was sat for the rest of the episode, it was truly breath taking

  • @mismismism
    @mismismism 18 днів тому +88

    Ryan Murphy is trash, he's a vulture in the worst way at this point, exploiting actual tragedies involving people that are still alive constantly and people really need to wake up and stop supporting it. He's absolutely gross. And yes, it's about him as a person along with the writers and others involved, they chose to take part in this exploitation for a check, that's disgusting and should be called out. Making popular entertainment is not an excuse for doing real harm to real people that are still alive to live with the consequences and trauma "entertainment" like this causes them. Ryan Murphy and everyone else in the cast and crew, get to go home to their money off making fan fiction out of real trauma while the actual humans involved have to live with the damage.

  • @Bread-nx9fo
    @Bread-nx9fo 12 днів тому +18

    I just dont get why he did Dahmer so oddly, he did OJ Simpson pretty well but Dahmer and Monsters: Menendez is just exploitation and true crime snuff.

  • @paintedfingernail2308
    @paintedfingernail2308 18 днів тому +248

    The guy who played Lyle(Nicholas Alexander Chavez) is a perfect candidate for the upcoming American Psycho remake, and it's a shame that we found out through a terrible show like Monsters, where he was meant to depict both a victim and perpetrator, which was unfortunately written by Ryan Murphy. I think your choice of editing really sold it to me, great video!

  • @sehajkaur7194
    @sehajkaur7194 18 днів тому +199

    Netflix putting out the monsters show weeks before a documentary about them is so incredibly greedy but I guess I should be glad that they are finally being allowed to tell their story even if it meant putting money into the pockets of the same people who exploited the hell out of their trauma? I just hope that the newfound hype leads to the brothers finally being released. They have been through enough already.

    • @RigB0n3
      @RigB0n3 18 днів тому +7

      HBO also released one, I haven't heard anything about it yet, but I hope its more truthful than what Netflix is putting out

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 18 днів тому +1

      Greedy?? You mean they’re trying to make money? Omg the monsters, how dare they, huh?
      Get real. 🙄

    • @sehajkaur7194
      @sehajkaur7194 18 днів тому

      ​@@thatgirlwearingglasses4133 everything is done for profit I know that, but Netflix releasing a dramatized true crime show and a very real and well researched documentary just withing days of eachother feels a little too exploitative

    • @OliviaBattleAngel
      @OliviaBattleAngel 15 днів тому +13

      @@thatgirlwearingglasses4133do you think businesses can’t be greedy because their goal is to make money? genuinely curious because to me that seems like it lacks any semblance of common sense or critical thought

    • @god.usopp2yearsago115
      @god.usopp2yearsago115 13 днів тому

      @@thatgirlwearingglasses4133the two are not mutually exclusive.

  • @kainlives7958
    @kainlives7958 9 днів тому +12

    He dehumanized the Menendez brothers but humanized dahmer. Pathetic

  • @TheLewinator902
    @TheLewinator902 15 днів тому +58

    They Cast Charlie Hunnam as Ed Gein for season 3, they are definitely gonna Sexualize him in some way, and you’ll have teen girls on TikTok simping for him saying “Ed Gein is a victim!”

    • @hyde1893
      @hyde1893 13 днів тому +6

      i'm disturbed, i've never seen him sexualised before. but we know ryan murphy will find a way to do it.

  • @Hugebull
    @Hugebull 15 днів тому +16

    If you want to see both sides in a story such as this, watch "Manhunt: Unabomber."
    Where Paul Bettany is the Unabomber and Sam Worthington is the man who caught him.
    It's perfect. It is the perfect show.

  • @elypz9404
    @elypz9404 18 днів тому +52

    while i understand the different perspectives they were trying to portray in this series, it wasn’t the wisest choice. people don’t do research on these topics for themselves, they just take what they’re presented and run with it, leaving room for tons of misinformation and just straight false claims to circulate around the internet.

    • @shannonoreilly4695
      @shannonoreilly4695 16 днів тому +8

      It’s a valid narrative choice, but it just didn’t work because it was so poorly done. Sometimes I wasn’t even sure whose perspective I was supposed to be watching. And don’t even get me started on the choice to focus so heavily on the perspectives of Jerome Oziel and Dominick Dunne, two absolute frauds and liars, over the perspective of Robert Rand, a journalist who has been communicating with the brothers since before they were even suspects and is still in contact with and advocating for them 35 years later. It’s just utterly disgusting and in bad faith. Chloe Sevigny who played the mother even said she used Dominick Dunne’s writing as a source and Nicholas Chavez who played Lyle made reference to a comment that was proven to be a fabrication as if it was fact. The lack of legitimate, unbiased research that went into this series is just a complete embarrassment and disservice to the story.

  • @shannonoreilly4695
    @shannonoreilly4695 16 днів тому +43

    Ryan Murphy has made it VERY clear since the show’s release that he has absolutely no interests in who the Menendez family was and that he was trying to capture a “moment in history”, but he did such a horrible job of it and the show fails completely even as a piece of entertainment. It felt like a cartoon.
    The research was also laughable. They clearly used Dominick Dunne’s writing as a primary source, even though Dunne was a prosecution shill and has been exposed as paying people to make shit up to make the brothers look bad. Marti Shelton admitted in 2004 that Dunne paid her $1,000 to lie and say she heard Lyle say he’d “snowed the jury”. She admitted in 2004 she’d never heard him say that. He also paid people to lie and say he saw the brothers high five after their testimonies, which conveniently was never captured on camera… because it never happened. It’s not surprising he produced such a meanspirited, bad faith adaptation considering he used a mean spirited, bad faith book as his source. It’s just an embarrassment for everyone involved.
    The Menendez brothers deserved better. Shows like this just further the false narrative that there was no evidence they were abused when in reality it’s the exact opposite and the prosecution, judge and media made it their mission to bury the abuse evidence. They snowed the media.
    I also find it really interesting that you point out the show portrays Dominick Dunne very unfavourably, but they used his writing as a primary source. It’s genuinely so bizarre and just furthers the idea that this show had no idea what it was trying to say.

  • @julia-nu4fj
    @julia-nu4fj 9 днів тому +11

    imagine already having a shitty, horrible life and then a show comes out on netflix where you're shown kissing your brother

    • @Ishbikes
      @Ishbikes 13 годин тому

      Well did they ever say they did those things? Or did Ryan just add it? Idk

  •  17 днів тому +32

    i hate ryan murphy. making money out of victims. disgusting.
    also yeah, i loved cooper koch's acting but i love him too, because he's constantly advocating for the brothers.

  • @sooz5703
    @sooz5703 16 днів тому +16

    I'm pretty raw from watching the trial footage from 1990 (maybe not good for the soul as it's so heartwrenching). Had no intention of watching Monsters, thank you for your thoughts on it. Sounds just awful and no doubt it would piss me off too.

  • @thoy.3729
    @thoy.3729 12 днів тому +7

    As much as I dislike him and his exploitation, Ryan Murphy is a great director for FICTIONAL series and films. Grotesquerie was phenomenal and his aesthetics are very good but he should never have touched the Menendez brothers or Dahmer with a 10 foot pole if that was the way he planned to portray them. Dahmer as misunderstood, and the brothers as cold, calculated killers.

  • @danirezaeva3934
    @danirezaeva3934 16 днів тому +49

    Sometimes i watch iranian films, and soviet films, and films from other countries that have/had heavy censorship, and then i watch western movies and i think "hey, maybe censorship is actually a very good thing for art" because, frankly, an artist thrives in an environment where he has to do mental gymnastics to put into screen, music, canvas, printing press what he is trying to convey.
    And this is why İranian or Soviet cinema are some of the most celebrated and lauded pieces of art.
    *İm not saying we need authoritarian regimes, but maybe a little more self limitation as an artist.

    • @sergiolozano3789
      @sergiolozano3789 8 днів тому +3

      I think something like the show is a result of Ryan Murphey and other big studio heads just being around "Yes" men and not having anyone to make them think twice. Probably why every big show feels the same

    • @danirezaeva3934
      @danirezaeva3934 8 днів тому +1

      @sergiolozano3789 completely agree.. it wasn't an accident either. When corporate or economic interests are the M.O. of art, then this is the exact result. It has become a much rarer occasion that I see an authentic and genuine film created for the totality of art come out of the USA. A24 can be a contra, however it only brings the aesthetic of artfulness but is in all, still in the service of capital.

    • @bigchungus8287
      @bigchungus8287 7 днів тому +1

      I think the idea of mental censorship works better. Allowing yourself to not put out every idea that comes to your brain

    • @xadalau9758
      @xadalau9758 3 дні тому

      Soviets had guidelines on How to make world war II movies tastefully, as half the country either fought or Lost family members in It.

  • @amyisafoxfull3350
    @amyisafoxfull3350 17 днів тому +26

    Anyone truly interested in true crime KNOWS netflix fictionalisations are inaccurate, misleading, unhelpful. I would argue that true crime should always remain with documentaries to avoid this dramatic unauthentic element - it's hurtful to victims living and does an injustice to those dead by not being as 💯 truthful as possible.

  • @Athena-vs4cv
    @Athena-vs4cv 12 днів тому +9

    I watched this series after the Netflix documentary. Seeing it after the brothers' real life testimony about their childhood SA and r*pe (in Erik's case, continuing up to a week before the killings) turned my stomach. The creator took a heartbreaking, brutal story about two abuse victims and turned it into voyeuristic, incestuous abuse p*rn. The series offered no real insight or analysis of the individuals involved, their story or the crimes. It was shockingly two-dimensional. Plus, the tonal whiplash between farce, horror, heist, melodrama and dramedy was insane. I hope the brothers sue Netflix for defamation as it will surely leave many viewers thinking they had an incestuous relationship. And someone please stop Ryan Murphy before he makes more of these!

  • @hudsonclarkk
    @hudsonclarkk 17 днів тому +20

    exploit a tragedy and make money off of it. while conveniently leaving out the victims story. gross.

  • @Emma__O
    @Emma__O 18 днів тому +126

    Waiting on Murphrot to get Weinsteined at this point

  • @albusdumpy
    @albusdumpy 16 днів тому +13

    Could’ve been so much better if they just took inspiration from the case and made their own characters out of it.

  • @din720
    @din720 2 дні тому +3

    I generally don’t agree with the dramatization and serialization of real life crime. It can be done well I do recognize. However, when the perpetrators are sexualized to the point they are in these shows, it really grosses me out

  • @ILikeTheIvy
    @ILikeTheIvy 16 днів тому +10

    Both great actors, shame it was a bad script given. It felt more like a comedy with random clips of abuse, opinions, lies, etc.. its called "the lyle and erik menendez story" then why arent we getting their story? Who cares what people thought, at the time male abuse was made into a joke (still is) and called liars that men couldnt be r*ped? Like are you kidding? We barely even saw or heard just how evil those parents were. Ryan has done damage like he did with dahmer. Sexualizing SA victims, sexualizing a cannibal serial killer... we see it online, many dressing up as the brother's for Halloween, making edits of them being together, reinforcing that they are liars or wanted money. Its sick and tiring and dumb. How he reacted to the real brother's reaction to the show is telling... he doesnt care. Doesnt care about child abuse. He never met the brothers.

  • @amberd.883
    @amberd.883 17 днів тому +12

    I also felt conflicted over whether Dahmer should have existed and it looks like that's the same question posed by this show so you saved me the time of watching it.. Subscribed because of this video. Please don't quit UA-cam.

  • @ChrisIsPan
    @ChrisIsPan 17 днів тому +7

    I appreciate the acknowledgement of the videos monetary attribution and feeling guilty about promoting shows like these, however a perspective I'd like to bring attention to is one I share. I have not watched The Menendez Brothers show nor the Dahmer show, nor do I have any intention of doing so based on my beliefs about giving monetary gain to people whom I think are exploiting very real and traumatic events. Therefore videos like these made by educated people about these kinds of shows are beneficiary to people like me who want to educate others about how harmful media that fictionalizes real events without having to financially endorse the shows.
    Of course I can acknowledge that I can't just copy what people say, so it's also important for me (and people who also don't want to watch the shows) to watch other videos contributing other perspectives to gain more knowledge and shape my own perspective.

  • @socksbenjelloun5196
    @socksbenjelloun5196 9 днів тому +5

    this may be a minor thing but to me the fact that they are called "monsters" and grouped with DAHMER is so upsetting to me.

  • @marsbones398
    @marsbones398 10 днів тому +6

    That ending felt a little cowardly. Make the art you want. Or don't, but own it regardless. You're making a decision, not being forced into indecision. You want to continue making these because it benefits you personally, that's fine, but don't pretend otherwise.

    • @talmiz101
      @talmiz101 3 дні тому

      Are you talking about the series or this video?

  • @gabrielgarbow3784
    @gabrielgarbow3784 17 днів тому +6

    The final line of your video is absolute perfection.

  • @giovanaragozoniconrado1238
    @giovanaragozoniconrado1238 8 днів тому +3

    I don't know how interested you will be, but there is a series of Brazilian crime movies on prime video called "the girl who killed her parents/the boy who killed my parents" (I think there's a third one too). It's pretty interesting, it's about a famous crime and the 2 versions of that history

  • @SlamJamMusic
    @SlamJamMusic 8 днів тому +4

    the hurt man was sooo insanely painful to get through, but i think what really made me realize the disdain the showmakers had for the brothers, was the smallest microaggression of playing music in the credits. that completely took me out. they should have cut to silent, darkness. the music coming in after the episode took me out so bad i actually laughed when i heard it. big misstep.

  • @Eamonshort1
    @Eamonshort1 18 днів тому +80

    I really dont care for Murphy. There's so many great artists in our queer community. The fact that he is the one that deals directly with themes of homosexuality (and, in general the othering of queer people at large) that most people are familiar with, really isn't great for us. It's like he plays in to every suffocating stereotype of what a gay man is like.
    And honestly, you refering to some of his writting as "tasteless" couldn't be a better characterisation of him in his work, and from what I've seen, as a person in general.

    • @miro.georgiev97
      @miro.georgiev97 17 днів тому +14

      I feel like "tasteless" understates just how bad his writing really is. I'm not sure what word would adequately convey the badness of it all better, though.

    • @Eamonshort1
      @Eamonshort1 10 днів тому

      @miro.georgiev97 That's true. It doesn't maybe convey the staggering degree of his flaws. but I would say it is the one that applies to absolutely everything he's done. But, you are correct. One could definitely add modifiers to better capture it. Like grossly tasteless, socially harmful tastelessness, amorally tasteless, and definitely, definitely EXPLOATIVLY tasteless, etc.

  • @magiccookies420
    @magiccookies420 18 днів тому +11

    Ngl I had my problems with this show, but I thought the acting was solid on all fronts

  • @binnieache
    @binnieache 16 днів тому +5

    i am so glad i’m not the only one who was reminded of american psycho while watching monsters it is so incredibly uncomfortable it just shows how much ryan murphy actually cares about this story

  • @UdoADHD
    @UdoADHD 17 днів тому +13

    12:44 yes!! If Ryan started the series from the reporter perspective then SHIFT and REMAIN in a better perspective, he could accomplish what he thinks he did. But he had the perspectives flip flop and validates all the sides. Nope. That doesn’t work for a situation like this that happened in real life.

  • @RykerJones28
    @RykerJones28 9 днів тому +3

    One of the irritating things about Murphy is he's so prolific its becoming harder to find shows to watch where he isn't involved.

    • @LilithsCosmicLounge
      @LilithsCosmicLounge 7 днів тому +1

      Exactly!! We can’t escape him!! Especially on Netflix!!

  • @qunaqunowski
    @qunaqunowski 18 днів тому +53

    I've binge watched the entire series with my gf and I can confirm our necks are absolutely broken from all the tonal whiplash we went through. It was actually stunning how awful this show was, how many weird jokes and campy montages they were able to shove in this excuse of a "documentary". We've had fun watching it, but for all the wrong reasons. It felt like I was watching a hilarious dark comedy that touches its subject so poorly it made it feel almost "trivial", just to remember this was supposed to be based on REAL people and their very REAL experience and trauma.
    I thought Dahmer was bad, but after watching the weird Menendez fanfiction I grew to apprecittate the consistent tone of Dahmer (which I'm glad you mentioned in the video). I just can't take Monsters seriously because of how we cut from sappy badly-to-mediocre acted monologues about stuff we already know to some goofy montage where the creators play with Menendez brothers like Ken dolls in a comedy movie.
    Don't even get me started on how they tried to be all artsy and deep with the shitty uncut 40 minute episode of Erik just talking about WHAT WE ALREADY KNOW. It was lazy, cheap, boring and the fact that it is the highest rated episode on imdb (it's wild that any of these episodes have a rating above 4) is honestly wild.
    I hate that Lyle was basically Patrick Bateman, I hate that Erik came off as a 14yo girl's idea of a sad little submissive boy, I hate that their dad was honestly a hilarious and charismatic character even during the darker moments because it made me feel like I was not supposed to care.
    It's sad, because now when I actually want to get into the case of Lyle and Erik, it's stained by a silly little cutaway gag of them having facial reconstruction surgery and fleeing the country. It's not just predatory like Dahmer, it's straight up just people playing around with tragedy and trauma of real ass people trying to come off as a genuine attempt to do... Something? The only way they may have succeded at doing what they wanted is if their goal was to make a show worse than Dahmer in every single way.

    • @lilblackies
      @lilblackies 17 днів тому +6

      I,m so glad I watched the documentary first. Because when I started the series, I couldn't go past 10 minutes. I shut that shit down with zero remorse! I was DISGUSTED. The Netflix documentary really focus on their testimony and it was so hard to watch I had to take several pause.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 17 днів тому +2

      It’s not a documentary in any way shape or form.

    •  17 днів тому +1

      wow! great take. i agree with you.

    • @arbyswitch5580
      @arbyswitch5580 16 днів тому

      Why watch garbage trash "critically" when you could have quit watching it a lot sooner tho? Like what that one person who responded to your comment did

    • @chaaaargh
      @chaaaargh 15 днів тому +2

      @@thatgirlwearingglasses4133 you keep saying this, such a dense take considering no one that has criticized this show ever said it was.

  • @hugodiaz3685
    @hugodiaz3685 18 днів тому +12

    Can we just watch in a loop Screm Queens season 1?
    Still his best work and one of the few that are rewatchable

  • @peppermint23
    @peppermint23 17 днів тому +8

    See, exploitation issues aside (which was a huge issue for sure), I had a totally different reaction to the tonal shifts and actually interpreted the show as taking a VERY clear stance with a central thesis: there are no "perfect victims."
    This point is hammered home quite strongly not only through the amazing episode five, but also through our authorial stand-in, Leslie, who time and time again desperately tries to educate people this very topic in spite of so many characters having such black and white stances on the brothers. The fact that the brothers acted outlandishly and cartoonishly at times, to me, was less of a "oh see, they could've been those monsters indeed!" coin flip kind of moment (though on the surface, it did seem those scenes were presenting it that way), and more of a reminder that we are complicated, multifaceted people. Yes, maybe Lyle DID throw a tantrum over a car, but does that make him any less of a victim? No. Yes, maybe they DID act foolishly and impulsively and violently, but does that mean they were sociopaths? Also, no. I could, of course, be giving it more credit than it's due, but by the end I felt so much empathy with and sympathy for the brothers that it just cemented for me the writers did side with them and ultimately want us to (not for murdering their parents, per se, but for suffering at their hands and being misunderstood, imperfect victims who reacted to abuse in an imperfect way).
    Now, whether or not this succeeded overall is totally up for debate of course, and I can understand why it didn't work for a lot of people too. The show is absolutely imperfect and not without its flaws.
    I appreciate your analysis either way and you absolutely make a lot of excellent points that I agree with! I think if this show had been purely fictional it would've worked quite well.

  • @theuzi187
    @theuzi187 10 днів тому +4

    Its just the glamorization of serial killers. Audience wont "like" a real life killer unless they are portrayed by a hot person. Thats when you get a lot of fans pretending theyre them or creating content based on them.

  • @Cherylinna
    @Cherylinna 16 днів тому +4

    I really like your breakdowns, & the way you went through this series was the best review I’ve seen on it. Wish there was a poll to submit recommendations for you to rip through. Otherwise, Just a happy supporter. Cheers 👏🏻

  • @brickellrich1
    @brickellrich1 18 днів тому +12

    Damn man, God bless you! I mean it with great sincerity that you are truly, officially the absolute best UA-camr out there.
    Very briefly: I suffer(d) from severe anxiety/panic, OCD and some depression, but honestly, watching your videos every time they come out seems to outright cure me somehow.
    You offer brilliant analysis, a human touch that many can relate to, a thorough and fair critique of the movies or series being discussed, humor and plenty to be entertained by and to think about.
    It’s a godsend. Can I please implore you to make like A LOT more videos? There are many other movie/TV UA-camrs out there, and a great number of them are fabulous, but damn, you take the cake!
    Please keep up the amazing work and I hope and pray to see a lot more!

  • @michellecgb
    @michellecgb 17 днів тому +12

    I said I wouldn’t watch anything else by Ryan Murphy after Dahmer and the way he didn’t care about the feelings of the victims’ families, and I’m sticking to it. He’s exploitative, period.

  • @noctap0d
    @noctap0d 18 днів тому +10

    Look, I do think adaptations from real life can benefit from more comedy. A great example is "The Dropout", which I think it can be considered as a "dramedy" of sorts. The thing is, the writers in that show knew what aspects of the story could be dealt in a comical manner (all the Silicon Valley shenanigans, for instance) and what aspects should be taken seriously (for example, the experiences of the people who worked at Theranos). The result it's a very effective show that highlights the crimes of Holmes and Theranos while putting a mirror to the viewer so we can see what type of behavior can cause the conditions for something like Theranos to happen.
    Sadly, I don't think Murphy has been able to accomplish such thing but more importantly I don't think he cares.

    • @Eamonshort1
      @Eamonshort1 18 днів тому +1

      Very well put, I couldn't agree more.

  • @raquel_becks
    @raquel_becks 18 днів тому +36

    This show had SO much potential to be good. Great cast, great production values, but I just KNEW Ryan Murphy would find a way to fuck it up.
    I thought all the actors did a good job, but the cast was wasted with the script. Having Javier Bardem, someone who is known for playing psychopaths, but instead Jose is reduced to mostly just a "tough, strict" but loving dad without really going into how brutal he was. I'm not just talking about his treatment towards his children, but his treatment towards adults, colleagues, everyone that knew him spoke of what a horrible person he was. Yet, we don't really see any of that. Kitty is mostly just a neurotic, alcoholic enabler, and we see her being "driven to drink" by her "horrible" kids, but we don't get to see how abusive and neglectful she was towards her kids. And the brothers, ESPECIALLY Lyle are just these caricatures. Showing Lyle do drugs? Where was the evidence of that? Being obsessed with Milli Vanilli? Where did that come from? lol
    When it was announced the show would have a Rashomon effect, I was already reluctant. However, the show made it 10x worse. The main problem with it using the Rashomon effect, was that it wasn't really the Rashomon effect at all. Take the first episode for example. One could argue "well this is Oziel's perspective", but it's not presented to the audience as being Oziel's POV. Had the episode ended with Oziel in court saying "that's what they told me happened", then okay. But to someone who's never researched the case, without knowing this is Oziel's POV, the audience will just see the events of this episode as "the truth" since there's no narrator.
    They sort of do this in the beginning of episode 2 when they show the police incompetence and show the brothers' hasty coverup of the crime and trying to incriminate themselves. However, this gets thrown out the window quickly when the start the brothers' spending spree lol.
    Meanwhile, episodes 4 and 5 which focus on the brothers recounting the events, at this point, since we just saw the brothers in the last 3 episodes being SO unlikeable and untrustworthy, so by the time we're seeing the brothers's POV and telling this story to their attorneys, it's just that, "a story". This is later amplified during the later episodes when they're in court, and Lyle's "practicing" his testimony and the attorneys are coaching him.
    One could argue that the shower scene Dominick Dunne talks about in episode 7 is just Dunne's POV and we can see him as an unreliable narrator, but what about the other scenes from the earlier episodes that imply incest or Erik being gay where Dunne's not narrating? Or the later episodes where the brothers are continuing to be obnoxious shitstains with no narrator presenting this? This isn't the Rashomon effect at all.
    That's not even counting the obvious inaccuracies and inconsistencies presented in the show. The show puts tons of emphasis on Billionaire Boys Club (something that was largely discredited during the first trial, and not brought up at all in the second trial, iirc), the screenplay (which wasn't admitted in evidence in either trial), Erik "messing up" on the stand (which did not happen), and the Norma tapes (which still get brought up in the second trial scenes, but weren't allowed in the trial in real life since Lyle didn't testify). The show shows Leslie being a "crazy" attorney but doesn't show the bigotry and homophobia and misconduct from the prosecution (Lester Kuriyama's also nonexistent for some reason). We don't see many prosecution witnesses being caught lying. We don't see the corroborating evidence the defense brought forward at trial (and if we do, they're just seen as liars that Lyle paid). The show emphasizes the spending spree, but doesn't show the brothers lacking direction in life after the killings and not knowing what to do with the money. We see the crime scene brutally depicted from the prosecution's POV, but we don't see it from the brother's POV. The second trial scenes are insanely inaccurate, as we see prosecutor David Conn presented as some slick, noble prosecutor seeking justice for Mr. and Mrs. Perfect while we don't see him relentlessly mocking Erik on the stand, calling his abuse "the silliest story ever told in a courtroom" and saying "Lyle has black, dead eyes that deserve to be dead". We see Erik's throat injury consistent with CSA that he obtained at just seven years old, instead happening at 18 with him tripping on a popsicle (and it's supposed to be comedic?!).
    Aside from the few vulnerable moments we see from the brothers, these are FAR outweighed by the negative portrayals of them. We have VERY few moments where we see Lyle looking out for Erik as an older brother and wanting to protect him. We don't see the abuse depicted AT ALL (obviously I don't want them to include CSA scenes, but they could show it like L&O did, nothing graphic). We don't see the brothers as PEOPLE, even before the crime (even though he did this with Jeffrey fucking Dahmer the previous season, he had no problem humanizing him). Instead, the brothers are reduced to these caricatures, even worse than the depictions from the 90s made-for-tv movies.
    One could say they "didn't do their research", but I believe they DID do their research (knowing small, minor details such as Kitty lifting Christmas trees or Erik and Leslie playing hangmen), but still intentionally made an inaccurate portrayal. It's one thing to use "creative license" on some things, but to make a show about real people 90% fictional is just disgusting. If he wanted to make a fictional show about creepy, incesty brothers who kill for money, he could've changed their names and made it fiction.
    I don't really get what Murphy's objective was with the show. I wouldn't be surprised if he's an abuser himself.

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 18 днів тому

      What psychopaths has Penelope Cruz’s husband played?

    • @janicemoriarty2578
      @janicemoriarty2578 17 днів тому +2

      @@thatgirlwearingglasses4133no country for old men was excellent

    • @thatgirlwearingglasses4133
      @thatgirlwearingglasses4133 17 днів тому

      @@janicemoriarty2578 oh ok. I’ve never seen this actor before so lm curious if it’s an exaggeration or if he’s really known for playing several psychopaths.
      Side note- it’s so weird to me because the dud does NOT look good in this show in my opinion but I’ve seen in in interviews and such and omg he’s actually quite attractive. It’s crazy how actors appear to completely change even their looks when they’re playing characters!

    • @ivylinmoon7211
      @ivylinmoon7211 16 днів тому +5

      Best comment ever, cause really all the abuse being told in court was not shown at all. And the court room scene was so inaccurate

  • @phillhill6530
    @phillhill6530 13 днів тому +4

    I think a better version of what they tried to do in this show is the Aaron Hernandez show on FX. To me it felt like they really were able to show the complex way different life events affected him while still acknowledging that he was a bad dude.

  • @drereviews8868
    @drereviews8868 18 днів тому +18

    Bro went meta on meta on meta

  • @queenxx1690
    @queenxx1690 16 днів тому +6

    2:33 Not only Copper Koch was good but also Nicholas he had even harder thing to do because he was already written as asshole and not as Lyle really was and i think he also did great job

  • @ghostophelia2245
    @ghostophelia2245 17 днів тому +6

    I think its point was to tell the story from everyones pov. Including the parents, the public, friends, the brothers, leslie, the cops, the press. Its very confusing and winds up saying nothing.

  • @valeskhaconk2550
    @valeskhaconk2550 12 днів тому +5

    Wen i firts watched that series i thought it was completely fictional. And i thought it was really wierd and fetishy but wen i realized it was based on a real story i was dumbfounded

  • @cleverlydevisedmyth
    @cleverlydevisedmyth 12 днів тому +4

    I've had three close guy friends who were molested by their older brother when they were young. This happens more than anybody speaks about. It just is blocked out by everyone because it's weird to talk about. I had a roommate who was still friends with the older brother who molested him= he would piss himself in his sleep EVERY night, and in the morning say it was because he was having flashbacks of the time his brother r@ped him as a kid. But he was a meth addict and his brother gave him free drugs so he returned to him again and again. This happens a lot. It's just NEVER spoken about honestly. All 3 of these boys I knew were manly, straight, kinda thugs? if that 's a thing, tough street guys, no one would've thought them gay. But they did gay stuff when drunk or high because they wanted to re-enact their abuse as adults in order to deal with it in a more positive way, by choice, with their friends, I assume? It's a complicated issue NO ONE deals with.

  • @bostonsandatot4948
    @bostonsandatot4948 17 днів тому +6

    @6:33 Calling on the 80s weepy voiced killer case as inspiration

    • @langleymiller
      @langleymiller 8 днів тому

      No that is literally what the 911 call sounded like. He was actually dead on with it.

  • @jacobk.8929
    @jacobk.8929 18 днів тому +10

    I was waiting for this video

  • @Fanpirecullenists
    @Fanpirecullenists 17 днів тому +3

    I’m by no means a true crime person, however when shows like this come out I always go back to Mindhunter, my favorite true crime show that I feel is actually handled well I would love to see a video on that if you’ve ever looked into it I think it would satisfy the things you disliked (and rightfully so) with this and Dahmer

  • @Quackervoltz
    @Quackervoltz 13 днів тому +3

    The only time I cared about this show while my dad watched it was when I realized to my horror that Nathan Lane and Lauren Lopez from Starkid were in the show

  • @explore_with_em_x
    @explore_with_em_x 8 днів тому +2

    I’ve just finished watching it and the way they’ve made victims of Childhood sexual abuse look like an absolute monsters is just another step so far back for victims. They never told the story here. They glamorised Abuse and trauma and made 2 very broken men look unhinged. I hated every minute of it.

  • @priscillacassie3754
    @priscillacassie3754 11 днів тому +1

    Dharma and the Mendez brothers on different planets . Not comparable- however happy to be enlightened

  • @Randomaccount9470
    @Randomaccount9470 12 днів тому +5

    Yeah Dharmer was kinda fxcked up
    I was thinking what if my family members were victims
    That would be so fxcked up

  • @LarryXLR
    @LarryXLR 9 днів тому +4

    The fact that the public is completely changing perspectives on convicted murderers because of a humanizing Netflix series is disturbing.

    • @ashleybanks-wm4cg
      @ashleybanks-wm4cg 4 дні тому

      The fact anybody man or woman can scream abuse and have all the horrible things they did as a human being be forgiving is completely disturbing Someone can be a POS or horrible human being but they just have to claim they are a victim or scream abuse then they are automatically believed and not seen as someone who would lie 100% majority of abuse and SA cases are lies id say as much as 80% as for the brothers idrc

    • @ashleybanks-wm4cg
      @ashleybanks-wm4cg 4 дні тому +1

      The fact anybody man or woman can scream abuse and have all the horrible things they did as a human being be forgiving is completely disturbing Someone can be a POS or horrible human being but they just have to claim they are a victim or scream abuse then they are automatically believed and not seen as someone who would lie 100% majority of abuse and SA cases are lies I'd say as much as 80% as for the brothers idrc

  • @svenskhund3603
    @svenskhund3603 3 дні тому +1

    Once i saw they were suggesting the brothers had homosexual relations i knew this dude had some kind of sick mind about this stuff.

  • @guineppe3405
    @guineppe3405 14 днів тому +3

    If Ryan Murphy really wanted to tell this story, he could have done it using his American crime story series and made it a more accurate representation of what happened and actually said something about male sexual abuse and how it affects people. Instead he framed the brothers as “monsters” in the same vein as jeffrey f’n dahmer when they were also victims

  • @Goosiegoober972
    @Goosiegoober972 4 дні тому

    Honestly I hope you do review the upcoming Ed Gein one cos I was curious about this Menendez series but couldn't bring myself to watch it ethically. I was happy to see you review it since it gave me all the info and insight I wanted to know about it without directly giving it views.

  • @annettelouise6781
    @annettelouise6781 18 днів тому +12

    All the Menendez news lately keeps reminding me of Ben Stiller in Cable Guy. The clip you showed of Lyle (?) crying has clinched it.

    • @user-hc2tu7ul7j
      @user-hc2tu7ul7j 18 днів тому +5

      Omg I think about that all the time. I love Zoolander, but I’m really sad that Ben stiller made fun of them (parody) in the film.

    • @annettelouise6781
      @annettelouise6781 18 днів тому +2

      @@user-hc2tu7ul7j I have wondered if he regretted it later. I mean it was making fun of a real crime at the time. But bless his heart I give Ben Stiller a pass for being immature at the time. Cable Guy still one of my fave movies.

  • @randalturner6234
    @randalturner6234 9 днів тому +1

    It’s strange that the man who made this perspective of the Menendez brothers never mentions that strange moment that lasts for .05 of a second that to me looked like Erik’s look of, “is she believing this? Oh yes she bought it” the actor should have an Emmy. Also he never mentions the absolute last scene which gives a totally unexpected different perspective from the parents.

  • @TwoBs
    @TwoBs 11 днів тому +2

    The moment I started seeing posts online that made cutesy little aesthetic images/memes of these two actors in these roles, basically romanticizing them _as_ the brothers and how they were portrayed in this series… it kinda’ just sealed the deal for my initial impression that this is nothing more than a fetish with these shows at this point and I don’t know how to feel about it other than being a bit disgusted. Feels incredibly exploitative.
    Don’t get me wrong, the cinematography is done rather well. Some have critiqued it harshly, but I can go along with it. Great choices for the music, even. The actors and actresses were phenomenal and acted to the best of their abilities that made it incredibly believable, but obviously, they’re not to blame with how the brothers are portrayed. They’re just playing out the “character” as they’ve been told by the director. It’s just … the story - the story and the way everything is done with what exactly it focuses on is the issue. It’s all so really fckng bizarre.

  • @simulationone
    @simulationone 11 днів тому +2

    I refuse to watch ‘entertainment’ stuff based off of real serial killers it’s distasteful😅

  • @Olivia_1500
    @Olivia_1500 13 днів тому +1

    I think it would be really sick if you talked about Your Honor on Netflix. I’ve been looking for a good analysis on the series and I think it’s the type of show you’d love to talk about.

  • @CrumbisBumbis
    @CrumbisBumbis 18 днів тому +40

    all my homies hate Ryan Murphy

  • @zachclark3519
    @zachclark3519 17 днів тому

    your videos scratch an itch for me i can’t quite describe. awesome stuff man

  • @fefejones81
    @fefejones81 10 днів тому

    I loved it. I love that two things can be true and once. I love that we don’t know who the monster is. I love getting an idea of who Jose Menendez and Kitty were. I thought it was great!