Lovely video! This popped up in my reccommended in spite of how few views it has (at time of writing) but im glad that it did. I hope that other trans people can also stumble across this as I did.
If an adult human female is uncomfortable with being a woman, or hates being a woman, or is in denial about being a woman, would you call that internalised misogyny?
I would say that, regardless of what life experiences have led them to feel the way they do, they still deserve love and support , whether it is internalised misogyny or anything else that led to that point.
@@transfitnessCIC I agree with that, although we might have differing views on what the word "support" means in this context. If internalised misogyny were a cause or a contributing factor to a female person's denial of being a woman - I would be interested to know whether you accept that possibility or not - would "support" mean supporting their internalised misogyny? Or would "support" mean helping them to overcome it?
I'll expand on my above response: whatever that woman has gone through in earlier life has led to the point that she would be at in the scenario of internalised misogyny and how she feels about her identity. She would deserve the utmost love, care and support to help her find a solution that fits FOR HER. Whatever that solution may be, it would be my position to offer love and support with no judgement for whatever her solution would be for her own wellbeing. It's her life, her choice and she deserves to know that she is cared for in whatever situation that would make her feel at peace with herself and her identity - because hopefully she can make a choice for her, and not out of fear that she has to do something she doesn't wish to. Her life, her choice.
@@omp199 give them enough love and support so they can either realize being a woman is a wonderful thing and stick to it, or decide that it's not for them and move on to greener pastures. Either way, the love and support they receive would ameliorate their personal turmoil and show them that they should do what's right for them, whatever that may be. Whether they hate being a woman or hate themselves for being a woman doesn't much matter when both are solved with positive attention and a reexamination of their likely negative self image. Internalized misogyny also comes with a whole host of other issues, so address the basics like their general opinion on women, and their presumed location and worth in society, and show them how they should treat themselves and should be treated. With time, they'll figure it out healthily, and whatever option they land on is what's been chosen Also stop liking your own comments, it's a peeve
@@eg_manifest510 I used to be never liked my own comments. But i realized, because of the youtube-bot its unfortunately necessary , if someone has a controvers opiion . And no, to be trans, or homo, is not controversal in these times. Its controvers to criticize lgbtq, etc ... those postings are easily considered as transphob, or homophob, and is marked as hatespeech in youtube - and this increases the possibility to get shadowbanned a lot ! So unfortunately - to have the same right as every trans etc has - meaning: to has a voice, even if some people dont like it , its necessary to like the own comment - its not because i am love with myself - or to make it appear as if so many people are agree with me. Its just for the reason: thats how the youtube but works, when it comes to the shadowban probability.
Lovely video! This popped up in my reccommended in spite of how few views it has (at time of writing) but im glad that it did. I hope that other trans people can also stumble across this as I did.
Thank you - it's more views than many of my others so am a little confused as to why it's popular at present!
as a trans person in a third world country I appreciate your contribution to stabilize my chaotic mental state
Sending love to you.
If an adult human female is uncomfortable with being a woman, or hates being a woman, or is in denial about being a woman, would you call that internalised misogyny?
I would say that, regardless of what life experiences have led them to feel the way they do, they still deserve love and support , whether it is internalised misogyny or anything else that led to that point.
@@transfitnessCIC I agree with that, although we might have differing views on what the word "support" means in this context. If internalised misogyny were a cause or a contributing factor to a female person's denial of being a woman - I would be interested to know whether you accept that possibility or not - would "support" mean supporting their internalised misogyny? Or would "support" mean helping them to overcome it?
I'll expand on my above response: whatever that woman has gone through in earlier life has led to the point that she would be at in the scenario of internalised misogyny and how she feels about her identity. She would deserve the utmost love, care and support to help her find a solution that fits FOR HER. Whatever that solution may be, it would be my position to offer love and support with no judgement for whatever her solution would be for her own wellbeing. It's her life, her choice and she deserves to know that she is cared for in whatever situation that would make her feel at peace with herself and her identity - because hopefully she can make a choice for her, and not out of fear that she has to do something she doesn't wish to. Her life, her choice.
@@omp199 give them enough love and support so they can either realize being a woman is a wonderful thing and stick to it, or decide that it's not for them and move on to greener pastures. Either way, the love and support they receive would ameliorate their personal turmoil and show them that they should do what's right for them, whatever that may be.
Whether they hate being a woman or hate themselves for being a woman doesn't much matter when both are solved with positive attention and a reexamination of their likely negative self image. Internalized misogyny also comes with a whole host of other issues, so address the basics like their general opinion on women, and their presumed location and worth in society, and show them how they should treat themselves and should be treated. With time, they'll figure it out healthily, and whatever option they land on is what's been chosen
Also stop liking your own comments, it's a peeve
@@eg_manifest510 I used to be never liked my own comments. But i realized, because of the youtube-bot its unfortunately necessary , if someone has a controvers opiion . And no, to be trans, or homo, is not controversal in these times. Its controvers to criticize lgbtq, etc ... those postings are easily considered as transphob, or homophob, and is marked as hatespeech in youtube - and this increases the possibility to get shadowbanned a lot ! So unfortunately - to have the same right as every trans etc has - meaning: to has a voice, even if some people dont like it , its necessary to like the own comment - its not because i am love with myself - or to make it appear as if so many people are agree with me. Its just for the reason: thats how the youtube but works, when it comes to the shadowban probability.
If I may suggest the audio is a bit quite.
That's possibly just me, but I will bear that in mind. Thank you!