ENTJ Rant: Class & Love
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Mark 8:36 (NIV):
"What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?"
You are who you hang out with simple as that .
Really love ur mindset 💖 I hope to see more of ur perspectives, waiting for new videos 🫰🏻.
Very long time ago. A lot has changed, but I plan on posting a totally different type of content in the near future
@@TrueGenerations change is inevitable, looking forward to the new updates :)
Bingo. I appreciate your candor. You’re nailing the lessons on self-reliance. If you’re ever experiencing negative self talk, try to examine your superego. I was trapped there for decades. Love exists. It blooms. It blossoms. Like a garden it must be tended to. Keep on keeping on.
Ok INFJ here. Narcs CAN'T love. Its all about their own need for money, power,attention and control. They aren't capable of feelings. Having low Fi is luckily something else.
Clothing/class/respect: for BOTH genders. How you respect yourself teaches others what level of respect to give you. Look at the British royal family. When people talk nonsense about them the protocol is "never complain never explain". You simply don't feed the trolls. Everyone has a right to give negative feedback but the royal will not beg for approval nor whine about disapproval. They rise above it. Accept meghan markle that begs the press for attention with lies and fake drama....0 self-respect. She NEEDS control, attention and to be respected to feel good about herself. While catherine respects herself and is devoted to others. Meghan needs designer clothes,big house and jewelry to try and convince others of her higher status....she purely HAD for being harry's wife. But it looks bad and shows 0 class. Catherine owns clothes from Zara... not expensive but it shows she respects herself. Her value comes from within....clothes and the opinion of others are irrelevant. She could wear a garbage bag and look royal. Meghan had on an extremely expensive designer dress and she looked like a flaming bag of 🐕💩. Extremely trashy....in designer wear.
And yes society conditions us to want surten things and accept surten behaviour. And it may be weird but I guess I am a sigma, but life is much easier when you step outside of the framework society has created for us. And unfortunately most people don't love....themselves nor others. They lust...they like...they tolerate...they use/exploit and ab*se. But to me love is acceptance of your authentic self, love is devotion and care, love is mutual personal growth etc. Nowadays relationships are temporary when a better option walks by. People are toxic and superficial. I'd rather be alone and love myself in a non toxic steady life.
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I’m an ENTJ Christian. The way I see life is there are two options, to Seek and you will find life in Jesus Christ or to maintain your desire to stay dependent on mother. People can deny that all they want, but in life I think there’s two paths, either towards the womb or away from the womb. The further you go away from the womb the more you’ll see God and less you’ll see mom.
I'm watching to understand my ENTJ fiance. He is very mature, and we have figured out how to be happy. I am INFP. He is the best boyfriend I ever had and we always have something deep to talk about. I can really imagine him saying the things that you said.
Love conquers all and yes God is love that is true we have the ability to reflect God's most dominate quality Love . If you respect yourself others will treat you that way .
23:00 exactly what I needed to hear. This video is a gem 💎
INFP here tryna understand my ENTJ boyfriend better. We get eachother so we’ll it’s amazing but we’re definitely opposites in a lot of ways
"There is a world to enjoy and there are people to take care of."
A thousand times, YES!
Glad you agree! Thanks for liking the video.
ayyy, i'm not alone because people generally don't like my person - i'm alone because i'm not willing to subject myself to relationships that hurt my development. That's 100% the reason.
Nah, i think you got something right. I think the best quality in a person is independence. If you know your friend/partner/loved one is independent and they still choose to hang out with you and stuff then it's the good shit.
Find an INTP. They're relaxed, loyal, don't require much affection, and will give you all the room you need to grow while they're off doing their own thing.
I’m a INFJ who loves my ENTJ husband with all my heart. We have been married 26 years and I stand behind all his goals and dreams in life. I agree with everything you’re saying and I wish more people were willing to look inside themselves and grow the way you are growing each and every day to be your best self. I have been trying to improve myself body and mind a little bit each and every day!
INFJ here . . . Very interesting input . . . I agree with you in what it means to be classy; too many times I see people on social media oversharing to feed their insecurities and egos . . . Showing off their brands, bodies, expensive meals and vacations . . . Also finding any excuse to post half-naked selfies. People are doing this because they don’t have enough love, respect, and self-validation that they feel compelled to acquire it externally through likes, comments, followers, and DMs. The less love they have for themselves, the more desperate they become in their attempts for approval, which translates as someone looking non-classy. Being classy is loving yourself and knowing your strengths and weaknesses and having enough validation for yourself that you don’t have to beg for it. Too many young people these days are just apathetic, nihilistic, and narcissistic. They don’t know the meaning of love because they don’t love and know themselves. People in my generation just treat each other like crap, as you said, which is correct. It’s hard to find someone that’s genuinely nice and has etiquette in dealing with other people and is considerate of your feelings. People just think of themselves.
Even others imitate them not knowing the reason they’re doing it just to fit in with the crowd. The sheep of the devil aren’t sheep, they’re goats. Even when they’re sheep to goats, they’re still goats in God’s eyes.
Currently dating an entj guy, that's why i'm here, and i've seen he's way more serious than you! may be he's mistyped haha
I appreciate your logic about the fact that a lot of people fear being alone and that causes to make a mess of their lives. Case in point!
Thanks, Charity! And we appreciate tuning in and being with us!
I don't think I've ever met a ENTJ guy (watched) you're super cool dude. I'm a ENTJ lady. You're definitely intense and direct. I subscribed. 💕
As an INTJ dating an ENTJ and listening to your videos to learn more about my ENTJ I found this exceptional. You’re just the right amount of cocky, even in a rant, when you are not meaning to be. It would be fun to have a conversation with you. I did not figure you for a Christian, not that NTJ’s can’t be, but it is the type less likely to believe. I’d like to see more rants like this. Gives some real insight no matter how many years later. My mini rant
I am XNTJ (not sure yet). For now, I consider myself a person interested in spirituality. I used to believe in Christianity but it was more of a belief imposed in my brain by my religious family, rather than a self-reasoning. I also believe that some traditions should be maintained.
I’m an ENTJ Christian. The way I see life is there are two options, to Seek and you will find life in Jesus Christ or to maintain your desire to stay dependent on mother. People can deny that all they want, but in life I think there’s two paths, either towards the womb or away from the womb. The further you go away from the womb the more you’ll see God and less you’ll see mom.
INFP here...especially in the English language love in my opinion is not well defined. Greek is such rich language and has a word for nearly every type of love. i think you beautifully explained how in order to have class you need to develop "philautia" self-love and "agape"
He’s totally relatable esp. on the thirst for knowledge.
I fell in love with your words
What about them?
@@TrueGenerations now i feel pressured
That wasn’t the intention. You aren’t obligated to answer. I’m not even sure I agree with this video anymore. It’s over 5 years old. A lot has changed. Which is why I asked.
@@TrueGenerations I think it's not about the content of your words that affected me. It's more the intention of this video and the words you passionately expressed. In my view you just wanted to be supportive and exchange your thoughts that have so much depth. Even though I didn't agree with your words in some times I felt this kind of energy that made me feel very safe(?) I guess. In addition, I think your opinion, just believing in love, is pretty heartwarming during my cold environment where I just see manipulation, ignorance and egoism. I hope that this text is kind of understandable when you consider that I am non-native English speaker with no skills :D
I definitely agree with what you just said. The good news is that those qualities can be found in nature, life, and through experience. It is sad to say that you’re less likely to see those things in people these days. Sure, it’s out there, but it’s more of an endeavor than it was years ago.
And your English is good!
I love this video. All the points you have stated are things that I've personally have thought of and had lead myself to conclude as well. Thanks for your insight. Finally realizing there are people that have the same perspective as me on life. Sincerely, INFP female
It's not class, it's adaptability. It takes introspection to reflect and apply. The accomplished ENTJ is very comfortable being him her person. Another word is enlightenment. As ENTJ, I'm always looking to enhance myself.
Damn i have this same mentality but being an asian entj female is very tough. People mostly misunderstood and try to manipulate for having strong willpower.
I like your rant... This video is very NiFi driven
Introverts are not afraid of solitude.
He is ENTJ and I'm INFP why do I feel like I think the same way if we are so different?
I find your mind to be very attractive😂
Your very bright. I agree, let’s function from a state of love or honestly and have principles
I'm also an ENTJ and agree with most of your points, and as you pointed it out it might just be maturity thing as I'm only 20 years old, but I disagree with the giving respect thing. Yes everyone deserves common curtesy, but I believe respect is earned and isn't something that should be given out to everyone. I expect people to give me common curtesy, but I don't expect to be given respect, I want to earn that respect just as I think people should earn my respect.
*when you know you have to share this video with your nfp friends but can't cuz they'll get offended*
INFP here, this video is far from being offensive. If anything it helps me realize I’m not the only one who feel similar way about these topics. I don’t whole-heartedly agree with all his views as I’m not a Christian but I totally get where he is coming from and I respect it.
Catholics are NOT taught that everyone should get married and have children. But we do have our biological imperatives which are hard-wired into us. I am intrigued by your statement that love brings freedom to people's lives. You are on to something. God is love and those who dwell in love dwell in Him. He came to set the captives free.
I am INTJ
Entj atheist here. I normally avoid commenting on videos, but I just wanted to say that I appreciate that you made the important distinction that we don't need to divide ourselves on the basis of religious belief. I think that's something that both sides get too hung up on. Like yourself, my whole aim in life is to be the best person that I can be and improve the world in what way I can. I actually only found your channel today because I was thinking hard about restructuring my circle of friends, because I wanted to be empowered and not feel like I'm trying to drag everyone upward. Not that it's bad to try to help people, but that it's emotionally draining to be around unambitious people although they may be fun. Best regards man, I love your channel- your rationality is Appreciated. Greetings from Trinidad :)
13.40. GOLD, that is pure GOLD. Thank you so much for the video man , keep posting..
From a fellow entj
This is actually very interesting I was just thinking about this the other day because so many people are making these “how to spot a narcissist “videos. When most people just need love and healing and therapy. I believe very few people are truly narcissist. Just unhealthy toxic behaviors. I haven’t been able to spot a confirmed ENTj in person as a INTP. It does seem like y’all have similar features and speech styles.
Cool rant! Even as a fellow entj it interesting to see others opinions
I'm just eating these videos up. I like your thoughts on narcissism and love, especially when you mention that love is a choice, and the highest virtue, so to speak. Reminds me of C. S. Lewis's The Problem of Pain.
You are f’ing amazing. LOVED this one! Wow...
Thank you, Claire.
I really like all of your videos but this one put me(INFP) in a coma! lol. ENTJ talking about love with logics! I understand perfectly "logically" that your point is to have less focus on self and more focus on something greater than self. I found this video very interesting especially because this point of view explains what happened with ENTJ partner. When I was talking to my ancient ENTJ partner on relationship and love, he said "Go spend your time and energy to help others instead. Do some charity work like planning a tree. I think it's very selfish of you to think about yourself and me over and over when you can actually do something productive with it". I was like ...... ????? literally on pause for 10 seconds. "What he just said has got nothing to do with what I just said. I am speaking about us from my heart not about saving the planet!" Do u get the picture? Heart versus logics. right there. lol.
I'm an INTP and I can see where he's coming from. Mutual love exists on its own, it doesn't need constant reminders to be real. I suppose this is why INTP's and ENTJ's are said to make the best couples. I can definitely see it, because I had an INFJ boyfriend with emotional needs that drove me into the ground. ENTJ's it is!
I'm getting this douchy vibe from you but in a good way xD I'm profoundly confused right now :D
I do think you are correct in your view on narcisism-love spectrum.It takes conscientious thought to actually move from one end of the spectrum towards the other one.
That's really interesting. You're onto something about how narcissism blocks freedom. It is a very narrow view to life in general. A limitation for sure. I think as ENTJs grow and get more thoughtful about where their lives are taking them, they stumble on truths about the heart and it is very easy for a person who is constitutionally given to think of their goals and be very goal oriented to see self as utmost in those plans. It's difficult to include others. This is awesome for you to see that! It's also very hard to come at it from logic but that is the tool that you have in spades (Te ftw). As an INFP, I have no idea how to assist in this process but I admire you thinking on this wavelength.
Don’t go poor trying to look rich.
thank u for showing me the way
What a difference when you believe you have some ability to influence your reality. Oh, what enviable gifts are willpower, consistency or a credible goal. (INFP)
I'll give you that you are classy. Watching your Ni at the beginning as you tried to talk out class and knew what you were wrangling, was amusing, but you did get your point across by the end. And that last minute or so, where you said you cannot force belief? Solid Gold.
Anyone that blasts you for that has some serious thinking to do.
My disagreement with you would be about women especially or men even, dressing modestly. Class, as you said, is inside, what you are made of or what you make of yourself, not your money or your clothes or lack of them. It is self respect, even in a jog bra and running shorts, even in a mini skirt. We may agree to disagree, but as you respect respectful persons, I think you'll come to see it is the love or narcissism that makes clothes classy or not. Dressing modestly is also an act, unless it is genuine to the personality.
Thank you for sharing. I do believe it is worthy. I have to agree with you on the phones, but I see how this is so new in our society and we are going to suffer the learning curve like anything else in this world. Kinda has to be done, is just gonna happen, and we will learn, with time.
***** I shall have to go back and rewatch that particular part. Later though. My button is pushed with anything that smacks of puritanism, and I kinda miss things... and there was a lot to think about. At the moment I'd rather go watch your talk on the mbti tests as it is something I've been trying to sort for a while now.
***** I missed the 'thing' where you said you were being subjective and don't think dressing modestly was necessarily classy. I've since gone back and rewatched. I see your upbringing shining through. And so far as I know, I operate NiFeTiSe, though I think I'd get along with and really enjoy INTP's and watching videos, I felt I did share some common ground with them. I can sit and listen to their ramblings, as well as your own, and enjoy them immensely.
***** No, I didn't think you disapproved of Ti, not at all. I agree that maturity goes quite a ways in getting along. Try as I might, it has come to my attention that I am not clear at times. Yes, INFJ and it has been an educational journey thus far. And I come across as more intense and contradictory than I really am and will talk with less reservation to those I think can take it, that is to say, I tend to let Fe slide more with NT's. I'd probably look like a rather different person to you in person, especially in a crowd. Having spent months learning mbti functions and figuring out how I work, I am continuing on to explore the other fifteen types as well.
***** Different maybe than your impression of me in writing. Could you pick me out in a room full of people, having no idea what I look like, but with the ability to hear me talk, or watch me not talk? That's all I meant. I don't know that I could pick people out from their writing either, I just think it would be a neat experiment. Dealing face to face is important for relationships as you've said. So much nuance gets lost with the written word alone, though I think a meeting of minds online is precious, even when their won't be any irl meeting.
Super brilliant
You are so attractive to me but I'm aware you are very different from me.An ENTJ male has been following me for 4 years now but it is long distance. Don't know maybe just playing me or what but he is always there. But he saw me online first and that's b4 we found out about MBTI. There are so many things he isn't saying unless I ask but when I disappear he will do all his might to talk ti me again. I respect ENTJs a lot. I like the shared intuition I guess. It is funny bec I can be very scared of him but he also fascinates me. We are like dom-sub type of attraction or opposites, me the sub of course. I'm an ENFJ-T btw. Keep up the good work!
Excellent video. Love is sacrifice, but it is a sacrifice that does not compromise the integrity of the giver. ......We have (for the most part) lost the ability to reason in our society. The heart (in a selfish way) is "king" and objective reasoning comes second, if at all. Honorable protocol (the norms and standards that help to govern our natural wildness) between people and toward legitimate authority is held in derision. . . . It is a very sad thing to see. (Although, from another angle it's fascinating to see because it only proves the Truth!) . . .Just some thoughts that your video sparked. Keep up the good work -from one Christian to another.
I fell crazy
I.love.this.video. :) Seems raw
Fabulous - thank you.
Well done, Damon Grey. I also recommend to watch HarvardX course on youtube with Michael Sandel "Justice", based on different philisophical points of view (Aristotle, Kant, Rawls with the veil of ignorance, modern points of view, ...). I think that the constant deliberating is necessary to discover new points of views or to reinforce exising ones.
God IS Love, Amen! Your "rants" are pretty interesting, lol *Hypnotoad* O_O
Wow I’m learning Estp female I just met a male ENTJ and fascinated by our communication and I have live a very controlled life :( so anyway I say that to say I am very feminine and respect a man as a leader yet I don’t bite my tongue and love are shared confidence but admire his intelligence ... but this side of mistreating people I can connect the dots he’s has mention things that now hearing this makes me say ahhh so we shall see 😆
Such a Te/Fi user POV.
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You should read "Was that Really Me?" by Naomi Quenk about inferior Fi. This "rant" was a lot about that, in my opinion.
Sorry, just observations. Your video was posted in the INTP females FB group for us to analyze...haha.
I am an INTP. Don't really have many opinions on these subjective terms.
I cant believe that my fellow ENTJ is saying that love is a channel to freedom
LOL Yea bro, I kinda cringed at that shit too, was like “WTF is this guy saying??” -ENTJ
Your laughter hhh My guess is u come off serious & logical but there’s a cheeky goofball side to u. Random. =p I like the honesty of this video. Self-respect & developing one’s self. Overcoming fear of loneliness is wonderful. One learns to be whole & when u choose to be with
someone, it is with genuine sincere want (wanting to give, share, care) & more than just needing. My guess is honesty is sincerity to ENTJs? Well for everyone too. I believe that God’s compassion & mercy encompasses everything if one chooses to live & open themselves to living life that way. Spirituality is possible & inherent goodness is there in everyone if we’re not too hard-hearted. Also love for me has always been KINDNESS- one of my biggest value that can get riled up, messed up, misunderstood as an
INFP.
I agree with much of what you said, but I think you're missing the mark here - if God IS love, as you have stated, then it only logically follows that the primary focus of our energy needs to be on God FIRST. We don't need to spend more time loving ourselves. We live in a narcissistic society; a lack of self love isn't the problem. We need to spend more time loving GOD. Period. And if we love other people, it is only for God's sake, because if God is the source of all this love, then what good is it to love other people without doing it for his sake first? That's like saying "God is love, but if you don't love God that's okay. Just love yourself and other people and ignore the source of all love to begin with." Which makes absolutely no sense. All of the questions you have about the loss of class, modesty, etc is all because people no longer believe in, let alone love, God. Simple as that.
I think you've missed the mark. This video wasn't about spirituality. I specifically avoided that in this video. I seriously doubt that I said anything about "loving ourselves MORE." Which obviously, if the other video (made on the same day) is about narcissism, that would contradict my point.
+MBTV +MBTV Thanks for your fast response. The point I am trying to make is that if we really want to grow as humans, the focus actually needs to be taken off of ourselves completely and directed towards God instead, because we can't overcome our flaws without him. If you were an atheist, I wouldn't have bothered with this because what I am saying would be irrelevant and likely ignored anyway. But since you brought up the topic of God, I am expanding on that point. I would also argue that topics like class and love are interconnected to spirituality and so can't be avoided...but anyway, thank you for sharing your thoughts.
They can be avoided, as I just did avoid them. The point of this video was less focus on self, more focus on something greater than self. All topics are interconnected, but you don't have to talk about all topics when you talk about Water. Water->Life->Creation->etc. It's called segmenting.
"What happened to this (class)?" First, what is class? Class is decency and being respectable (google definitions/smilies). What happened to class? People stopped caring about class. Why? It was too hard to maintain a fake exterior with a crumbling interior in the family. The children saw the reality at home, and compared it to the image of perfection their parents projected, and it was a lie they had to maintain until they broke free and went for being "real" or "authentic" even though cursing and revealing clothes are hardly forms of expression. Class needs a better definition. You might say that it needs a more refined definition. Class is refusing in every way to descend or even to stagnate.
That helped me so much Iam so proud and arrogant ENTJ I want to change I will apply those rules - thanks for sharing. / Im catholic and dont believe in evolution either
Hi 5
Look it's John Mulaney!
I want person with your thinking in my life and just talk and talk.
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I really enjoyed your thoughts on the love - narcissism spectrum, however, I also think that it could be possible for narcissism to grow with love. When you love someone, it's as though you would need that person in your life. Could creating situations to satisfy that need eventually turn into narcissism?
No you’re just narcissistic, not pathological. You’re just imitating their manipulations instead of working hard or being patient or just dealing with the struggles of life, you get what you get and don’t throw a fit. Narcissists want their mother to enable them and meet their needs without having to seperate and individuate. The narcissist can’t manipulate his mother because he would be exposed quickly trying to manipulate the mother in that context, but if the narc abuses a man or woman then it just looks like abuse. Without the context of the mother son relationship people don’t know the motivation for why the narcissist is manipulative to the victim. The narc still wanting to be a baby so he has to turn other people into his mother and the less they look like his mother the better get away with it like a criminal to hide his shame. Lots of narcs are homosexual or if they’re a woman a man hating lesbian to hide their shame of still wanting to be babies dependent on their mother. It’s not even right to say they were too scared to seperate, it’s just a choice they make, a selfish choice to manipulate someone into being their mother long after the mother is finished with that stage of development. If you do what they do, you’re acting like a baby.
Amen
What is classy? Not having an ironing board in the back on your room... 😝.... My ENFP enneagram 8 wants to play with you so much. I do agree with people settling for less than what they deserve. What people don't get is that love starts with yourself and when you learn to love yourself you can love others and give back. Anyway I am too hyper to watch the whole thing. I am Christian too. Ok I am bored bye.... Wait one more thing society has their priorities all twisted.... Money, Sex, Beauty.... when it should be God, Self Love, Family, Friends, Giving back... Omg I want to debate you so bad... I can read what you are really saying between the lines.... huh... 🙃😏😝
Ohhh you have said so many contradictory statements in this video... I am unto you buddy...
or maybe they are in love.
good vd bro
Te.... lol
GOD is within! we are gods!