@@кирзк that happened to me and now i’m better i found real friends and got back ones i had before and now it’s all okay and i know that it will be for you too 💜
Same! my school PE life was a disaster! Always made me anxious of being left out and then it really happens every single time. once, I cried during a school fair in middle school because my only "friend" in the class took leave and I was left all alone but then some other girls accompanied me after they saw me distraught, LoL school was horrible, and the teachers made it worse. Nonetheless, It was nothing too serious but not pleasent either.
that is so true tho , they always have secrets and today they were talking about someguy and it made no sense at all i called out to them for 4 mins and got ignored
I'm so tired of only existing when one's missing/not there. Can't even explain how much this hurted me and made me cry. They even avoid me and talk about smth without me. I really can't explain how much times this happened to me. I can always relate in these type of videos
But even there Ron and Harry were a different duo as well as Ron and Hermione. I think that in every situation a person just gets left out not on purpose but cause the other two team up in a convo and when you walk together its hard to stick together. It doesnt mean trios dont work out…
I feel bad for anyone who is going thru that because I have too. It sucks but you’ll get thru it. I just wanted to say not all trios fail,my friend group is a trio and none of us are left out. So you’ll eventually find someone or multiple people who treat you with respect like you deserve.❤❤❤
Hey guys.. just wanted to share my experience of being in a trio.. At first everything went well.. then one day everything changed and my other two friends started hanging out together more often... in school just existed... slowly and gradually it has now com to a point that my one friend has started spreading rumours about me and tells evryone that i was the one who broke this friendship.. i am so mentally disturbed right now.. but i m glad my mother is there to support me😅
@@livewithlivvy I'm sorry I'm in a trio rn- We have had it from a very younge age so I was a bit stupid so I kept demanding they include me until they finally did and now we are all best friends SOMETIMES TRIOS CAN WORK 🤯🤯 hard to believe?
@@BarneyTheDinasourum no? cause your not the one feeling left out, someone probably feel left out at least twice. try to see from other point of views. 😹😹😹
I was once part of a trio and I had to live several uncomfortable moments in which I felt left out but at the same time I felt that I had to ignore that and be loyal bc they were my friends after all and I loved them. I don't talk to any of those friends anymore. I felt that this would always be the case with trios. But even though I'm not good at making friends (which was one of the reasons I didn't want to leave that trio) I promised myself that in the future I would never be the person who makes a friend feel unincluded. Then in college, when I had to make a group for an online project in the pandemic I brought together two friends who didn't know each other to form the group. We spent so much time talking, for so many months, that they both became friends too. Now we are a trio of friends that works so well, like each of us love each other a lot and make sure that none of us feels left behind. I don't feel any tension, i don't have akward moments. So yes, trios can work, but only with the right people for you.
This is so relatable I have a trio friend group and two of my friends are always leaving me out just because they now each other for more time than me, like it hurts😢
If you have the right people it will work, Im in a trio man I use to be in a circle and quadros and they never worked out, but in my trio we truly worked out because we understand and love each other like we be in the ride or die situation. (And also the pick thing, we don’t pick anyone so it’s fair we ain’t that stupid to let someone feel left out.)
Not everyone and just because yours didn't work out doesn't mean every trio doesn't work out I'm a part of a trio and I'm never left out nor my friends are
that’s not true in the slightest, I’ve been in a trio since I was in preschool, we’ve stayed friends even though we had separate classes and things we’ve even talked about it and all three of us have never once felt like a third wheel or anything.
Not all trios are like this i have two besties and we are trio....but we All love each other...when there is one missing in our group we feel very boring....all u need is a heart to love 💕 and we three have that that's why this year we celebrated our 10th anniversary of friendship ✨ #forever trio
@@borokadevenyi2253 i know in most of the trios this actually happens but in my case it's not like that we don't have any backup friend if anyone is missing in our group we just postpone every plan because we are made to be together ✨😊
This is so true, i had 2 friends and i was always left out.Whenever at class,i never got to sit with my friends.They were always ''laughing'' and ''giggling'' together without telling me anything or what happend.i was considered the lonely child and i still am to this day.
This is so true! I am literally in a trio and I feel so excluded! Like all my other friends can even see that I’m being excluded! They never invite me to their birthdays and come over to my house. They pretend they don’t hang out together, but I know they do without me! And when ever we are together and introduce ourselves they just tell them that they are each others best friends and leave me out! 😭
Same for me it was like they send me pictures of them hangi g out and they didnt even tell me and said that next time i jave to stand with them when they say that🙄
Awww, that’s so sad 😭. It’s the same with me girly your not alone I bet your one of the most best people on this planet and would make a really good bestie ❤
i was a part of a trio once and i was the one being left out, it was really sad. after some time of changing my social groups and friends i ended up being part of a trio again and i was afraid the same thing would happen. they had been friends for ten years so i just thought they wouldn't care for me as much as they did for each other. now i'm so glad i gave it a go! the three of us have been friends for five years and it works perfectly, we are equals and we can't imagine our lives without one of us being there. this is a proof that trios can also work with the right people! so don't lose hope! a couple of days ago a new girl entered our friend group too so we are four now and i really hope it works well with her too :)))
I so happy it worked for someone else too! I'm in a trio with my platonic soulmate and her boyfriend, that is also slowly becoming a really close friend of mine. In the beginning we were only me and my platonic soulmate. Then, this guy that we've know for nearly a year and we were friends with notices that something was wrong with my soulmate, tells me, and thanks to him we were able to help her just in time (i won't go into details about what happened to her). Fast forward, with me being in the middle like "just kiss already", they finally got togheter. Me and my soulmate have a special bond, we cuddle a lot, call each other pet names and sometimes kiss. We always told everyone that got involved with one of us romantically about it right from the start. Well, this guy understood it and accepted it completely, and we appreciate each other and trust each other. So, now, after some time passed, i'm not being left behind by any of them, they invite me every evening chat in vocal on discord, every saturday we hang out, and they are the first to ask to me to be there. When we're out i'm not being the third weel at all. Today is also my birthday, and first thing they asked was "well, what do you want to do on saturday, so we can celebrate?". I just love them both, and it's the proof that trios work, with the right people
You have to be mature enough to maintain a trio! Trust me, me and my friends we’ve been friends and a trio for over seven years now, when one of us is going through something it is the responsibility of the other two to come and help her out, love and care makes a lot of difference yall
the worst thing to go through is to be the one left out in the trio for the longest time and then they drop you and they become best friends and then hate you…
Dw happened to me I got ignored and they made fun of me but a month before me and them were the inseparable trios but now I only have one person to rely on which is myslef 😢
my friends always sit in the front seats and i sit in the back😢 they talk and i sit back there silently. it makes me sad cause one of them has been my friend for over ten years and we knew each other long before we met our other friend but she just kind of took over.
In most cases they never work, I’ve been any many trips that didn’t workout. But I realized it’s not the number. It’s the people. I have a trio of GOOD people that aren’t toxic, and so far it’s going AMAZING! You just have to find the right people! ❤❤❤
We've been friends in trio And we've been together for 10years I'm so happy they're my friends we don't behave like separate but one mind set and we also continue this trio forever we trust each other and without them I'm nothing my date start's with them and end with them so I'm happy with trio ❤
I'm in a trio and it works perfectly! We love eachotyer equally. I was once in a roxic trio where there was a duo but one always said i was the bestest friend even thiugh she obviously liked the other more. So im happy im nit with them anymore they were extroverts where i was introverted. They always made me do thins i didn't want to abd if i declined they said "Then your not my friend"
Me being a kpop addict : Isn't that Ryujin,Chaeryoung, and Lia from Itzy? If anyone didn't know they are not a trio, they are 5 members that love each other.
The first picture is a k-pop group called Itzy. They are perfectly fine and love each other there are 5 members and are all like sisters! They aren’t just any friends they work together
just saying but pls refrain from saying "they this or that" we don't know them and like many other groups we don't know what happens behind the screens. They could just act and pretend as that is normal in kpop
@@Iera_Thaumaturgy i don’t really think they are bad people. I know we don’t know them that well but I’ve known them for over two years and there is no complaints about fans saying their rude or anything. Please just let me speak without the need to say that we don’t really know them. I didn’t mean to cause anything honestly. Let me say whatever I want and correct the editor I wasn’t trying to be rude or anything….
I've had 2 experiences in my life with trios, so if u want to know how it works most of the time just read this. (Not quite accurate, but i guess something.) Trios usually start with 2 friends and then one comes along, but It doesn't mean it's gonna turn out bad. I never got left out even though I was the one who came along and enjoyed being in this trio a lot. I still am in this trio for almost a year and we all enjoy talking to eachother and making sure no one is feeling uncomfortable. The other time I've had 2 friends and then I just decided they had a lot in common and thought it would be a great idea to make them meet eachother. Then suddenly we were a trio. Even though no one was left out, I didn't like being friends with one of them for a long time and understood I should stop communicating with them. And of course, since I got out of the trio I got replaced. But I didn't mind, (still dont), because I see that they all are in a happy relationship between each other. Just because once you were in a bad trio, doesn't mean it will always be like that. Maybe trios is just not for you. Have a nice day/night :)
Yeah it's true ,i was in trio for 5 yrs yet I was left alone so I left them and became a loner with no interest in making new friends nor spending time with others ,bt sometimes it breaks my heart and now I'm just envious of others friendship 🥺
I recently moved and left my bff and im in a new school so I have new friends.I always feel this in my new trio.My two other “ best friends” have so much in common and no matter how hard I try to fit in with them I always feel left out…Like if one of my “best friends” missed school the day would be boring but when I miss school they always tell me how much fun they had together…. I miss having one best friend that I loved and we laughed together every night 😢…
I am in a trio!, we laugh altogether and we each take turns taking so we don’t end up like this. It’s been 3yrs since it’s been happening, still going on with our friendship.
in the first pic, the three girls are part of a 5 membered kpop girl group, basically the girl in the front is not sad bc of the others in the back, she is just tired from their many schedules
I’ve had to go through this shit and it hurts, but also, one of these photos I’m pretty sure is of a trio where 2 of them killed the 3rd one, but I’m not too sure. It was a really messed up story.
ayo isnt the first pic of the kpop group itzy, i think i recognised chaeryeong's beautiful eyes ^^ the girl sitting next to her is Ryujin and the girl ahead is Lia
This is so true for mw😢 Im in a trio right now and im the one being left out because i joined late and theyve been friends for 9 years and they keep talking about their past and all the things they did before ma and they used to talk about their old school like all the time.Tehn my old boy bestie moved here and he gave me company and he noticed i was left out from my trio so he kept hanging out with me and gave me a lot of company ❤
The first photo I understand, before my friend group expanded I always had to be the friend who sat alone and my other friends got to sit together. Or if I tried to sit with one it would become a rlly big deal :/
im sure you dont know the first 😭😭 The first girls are a kpop group called itzy and they all love each other very much. Infact they are a 5 member group and there was a girl sitting next to the girl infront. And its her best friend!
I’m in a trio, but one of the girls in there are kinda toxic. Whenever I speak to someone, she interrupts me or she says I can’t get involved with their “private conversation” so I feel like I can’t talk to them. My bestie always tries to make me feel included but the other one just excludes me. It’s unfair.
Ok but when all 3 people in a trio can be a duo no matter who in that trio they're paired with, that's the perfect trio. (I would know because that's how my trio is 😀)
my friends and i were in a group chat ...........so i asked something in the group both of them saw the message and didnt reply so i asked them ''are u guys there?'' they saw the text and still didnt reply...........ignored me just like that.....if one of them is absent the other girl will cling to me otherwise they both only hang out with each other
We used to be a trio,and it didn't work out. I was left out everytime and I have the same problems as you. If one of them is absent,the other one will cling to me. Then,we became a group of 4 and I'm still left out. The other person who just joined literally fitted in so perfectly as if she knew them for her whole life. I've been with 2 of my besties for 5 years. The other one just joined a month ago and they are like glue,God! When we are asked to choose a partner,I luckily have someone in that group. Since it's 4,we divide ourselves into 2 and 2. You deserve so much better than that,don't cling onto them! I know it's gonna be hard,sometimes life is hard. Just stop hanging out with them!
If it makes you feel better, I was in a trio once and we had a group chat with some other friends we were friends with but then one day one of my best friends just started randomly deleting me from GC and then one of the friends we were friends with kept adding me back. I then asked why she kept deleting me and then she ignored me and deleted me again. It happened around 3 times before I stopped getting added.
Sometimes people (like me) don't mind being the left out one in a trio, just because we know that no matter what they still care about us, and some people don't need constant affirmation and constant time with another, we can be fine on our own
Hey guys! Srry I haven’t been posting in a while…I was on vacation and I couldn’t post videos for you guys! But tell me what I should do next! ❤️❤️❤️
That's kind of rude :/ I think you should do your favorite singer!
@@rxsita_roblox245 that’s just rude just bc u don’t have a lot of subs don’t mean u can be rude
How is that bein rude?
Yeah you should never post again this cringy tiktoks
@@armywithluv55 think before u type :/
The worst pain is when your trio has a duo and you just exist EDIT: this is literally a year later, my own trio just fell apart
And I'm also the one who's holding that pain 😣
I am literally crying
my trio also has a duo and im just a backup friend.. i dont wanna let them go tho, theyre my only “friends”
@@кирзк that happened to me and now i’m better i found real friends and got back ones i had before and now it’s all okay and i know that it will be for you too 💜
@@youtubesssss1234 glad you found better friends! and ty!
“There's always a duo in a trio.“
-Wise person
mhm ye that so called wise person must not know that some ppl are genuinely nice and include everyone in a trio- 💀
Fr
I was in a trio, all they did was act like besties and then, there was just, me.. 😔
Agree
@@xcherryx2692 same
“Pick Your pairs” always made me cry in PE when I was young 💀
Ikr
Btw I ruined 69 likes
Same! my school PE life was a disaster! Always made me anxious of being left out and then it really happens every single time. once, I cried during a school fair in middle school because my only "friend" in the class took leave and I was left all alone but then some other girls accompanied me after they saw me distraught, LoL
school was horrible, and the teachers made it worse. Nonetheless, It was nothing too serious but not pleasent either.
Happens to me every day :(
Now i like to pick random person in PE classes and embarrassed them
me too
The thing that hurts the most is when they were talking about something and you ask them what it was, they respond by saying: "nothing" 😢💔😔
Fr 😢
Bro I can't handle it anymore
I totally agree. Happened to me yesterday…
that is so true tho , they always have secrets and today they were talking about someguy and it made no sense at all i called out to them for 4 mins and got ignored
@@ToniaNkwenti-tz7sj I’m sorry 😢
Trios do work, just with the right people
-somebody wise
Honestly I want to believe that but I've never seen such a trio and also after being the left out in a trio, it's hard to believe
@@Moose_coffee I know it's hard to believe, I've been in a really good trio for years and we're all still friends, they do work sometimes
@@jessicaspittal754samee
@@jessicaspittal754 nice to know they do, wish you all the best
@@Moose_coffee thank you! :D
i lowkey feel bad for anyone who’s left out in trios because I went thru the same shit. But i learned that not all trios work out
Happens to me daily, people seem to just forget about me 😀
@@MariSoSwag21 love that u put a happy face
@*Purple* me 2 😭
@@MariSoSwag21 .
@@BarneyTheDinasour ?
I’m literally done with trios,I’ve always felt like the backup friend.
Edit:Thank you guys for the likes🤍,I wish you all well.
Same
Exactly you only exist to them when one’s missing…
@@Collynsgraceeeee Right.
@@Collynsgraceeeee fr
same💔
Some trios work but some don’t and it’s one the worst feelings ever..
finally someone said that some work💀
@@BarneyTheDinasour yea I had two trios. In one trio we had a toxic friend so Friday we unfriended her, but my other one we are perfectly fine
Yea trios dont work it's sad and melts my heart cause I don't work in a trio 💔❣️
@@BarneyTheDinasour Well obviously, but some is not most. Things are rarely 100%
@@universedonut159 ik some is not most- 😀
I'm so tired of only existing when one's missing/not there. Can't even explain how much this hurted me and made me cry. They even avoid me and talk about smth without me. I really can't explain how much times this happened to me. I can always relate in these type of videos
Same girl 😢
same it’s sad
The second last one made me feel that’s how I’m treated in my trio 😢
Ah yes just because a girl is standing a tiny distance away from them she’s left out
@@valqxothey don’t have to be close to be a “complete trio” you can tell by body language that they’re being left out.
She summoned a whole Fandom with the first pic
I was hoping most of the comments were gonna be about it but I saw like none
@@HUH-LIPSO same
Ikrr midzy🖤
@@HUH-LIPSO mhm
who?
Chaeryeong and Ryujin never let Lia be left out!
Yes but the pic was put in for the video's meaning as there they are 3 maybe you don't get the whole meaning
Fr
I was looking for this
was waiting for someone to say this actually
Trios dont really work and if that do its rare
The golden trio of Harry Potter laughing in the corner
Actually, they each felt left out at some point.
Cause they weren't all girls
But even there Ron and Harry were a different duo as well as Ron and Hermione. I think that in every situation a person just gets left out not on purpose but cause the other two team up in a convo and when you walk together its hard to stick together. It doesnt mean trios dont work out…
@@richa3714 Exactly.
Hahha true 😂
I feel bad for anyone who is going thru that because I have too. It sucks but you’ll get thru it. I just wanted to say not all trios fail,my friend group is a trio and none of us are left out. So you’ll eventually find someone or multiple people who treat you with respect like you deserve.❤❤❤
Hey guys.. just wanted to share my experience of being in a trio..
At first everything went well.. then one day everything changed and my other two friends started hanging out together more often... in school just existed... slowly and gradually it has now com to a point that my one friend has started spreading rumours about me and tells evryone that i was the one who broke this friendship.. i am so mentally disturbed right now.. but i m glad my mother is there to support me😅
NOT THE PIC OF CHAERYEONG, LIA AND RYUJIN 😭😭😭💀
IKR I WAS LIKE
“HMMM THEY LOOK SORTA FAMILIAR..”
@@sunooluv_2 I WAS SHOCKED
@@y0um3_20same
HELP FR. STAN ITZY!
I THOUGHT I WAS BEING DELUSIONAL OR SOMETHING LOL
every trio has a duo hiding inside..
oh really guess u dont know something called being genuinely nice to eachother and including everyone in a trio-
@@BarneyTheDinasour bro have u ever been in a trio before? theres always someone left out maybe u dont see it
This is true w my friend I try to include my other friend in though...
@@livewithlivvy I'm sorry I'm in a trio rn-
We have had it from a very younge age so I was a bit stupid so I kept demanding they include me until they finally did and now we are all best friends
SOMETIMES TRIOS CAN WORK 🤯🤯
hard to believe?
@@BarneyTheDinasourum no? cause your not the one feeling left out, someone probably feel left out at least twice. try to see from other point of views. 😹😹😹
the worst pain is when the duo's in the trio avoid and corner you because they need to talk secret!!!!......😭..I hope everyone stays happy personally
Experienced this a LOT of times. Even found out they talked sh!t behind my back.
@@jhaikamorallos3375 same, and they said I was the one leaving them out.
@@kkumaki If they say that infront of me, I would tell them all day what they did to me while crying💀
@@kkumakifr like bro it's not my fault i had depression and you're making it worse
@@jhaikamorallos3375 I had that thought
I was once part of a trio and I had to live several uncomfortable moments in which I felt left out but at the same time I felt that I had to ignore that and be loyal bc they were my friends after all and I loved them. I don't talk to any of those friends anymore. I felt that this would always be the case with trios. But even though I'm not good at making friends (which was one of the reasons I didn't want to leave that trio) I promised myself that in the future I would never be the person who makes a friend feel unincluded. Then in college, when I had to make a group for an online project in the pandemic I brought together two friends who didn't know each other to form the group. We spent so much time talking, for so many months, that they both became friends too. Now we are a trio of friends that works so well, like each of us love each other a lot and make sure that none of us feels left behind. I don't feel any tension, i don't have akward moments. So yes, trios can work, but only with the right people for you.
This is so relatable I have a trio friend group and two of my friends are always leaving me out just because they now each other for more time than me, like it hurts😢
HELP THE FIRST PIC OF CHAERYEONG RYUJIN AND LIA😭😭
I didn't realised so when I saw lia I was like, she kinda familiar
Kpop stans: 👁👄👁
ITZY ALWAYS AT THE CRIME SCENE 😭
Fr whyy😂😂😂
Huh?
Omg frrrrrr
Fr
stan itzy tho!
Chaeryeong and Ryunjin would never let lia feel left out
They wouldnt
the chaeryoung and ryujin one was so funny and out of context, All ITZY members love eachother
I am not the only one who notices this❤
❤
If you have the right people it will work, Im in a trio man I use to be in a circle and quadros and they never worked out, but in my trio we truly worked out because we understand and love each other like we be in the ride or die situation. (And also the pick thing, we don’t pick anyone so it’s fair we ain’t that stupid to let someone feel left out.)
i’m always that just one person simply existing in a trio ://
then leave that trio-
ik sometimes it's nottthat simply but like tell them how u feel and find urself a better friend-
That hurts truly like they just don't care about you
@@BarneyTheDinasour finding a better friend is easier said than done
Those who are saying that trios work out, they're a part of the duo in the trio
fr
Not everyone and just because yours didn't work out doesn't mean every trio doesn't work out I'm a part of a trio and I'm never left out nor my friends are
that’s not true in the slightest, I’ve been in a trio since I was in preschool, we’ve stayed friends even though we had separate classes and things we’ve even talked about it and all three of us have never once felt like a third wheel or anything.
No. My trio works perfectly. We are all fine
Not everyone’s experiences are the same
the out of context use of lia, chaeryeong and ryujin pc is sending me
😂😂😂😂
LMAOO
😂😂😂😂
I KNEW THAT PIC HAD FAMILIAR FACES!!!
LITERALLY
We can all feel the pain in the smiles of the leftout ones cuz we were one of em 🥺
Yes I’m one of them too 😢
She summoned whole fandom with first pic 💀
Not me laughing at Lia being the “left one out.” ITZY is a big family and none of them are left out.
Yup♡
#SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet
Fr that’s what I was thinking 😂
honestly it's like some friend groups that has odd numbers cuz there's always that one person left out
Yea. Me 😊
Edit: for some strange reason I’m just there for backup
@@just_a_weird_kid-tehe aww I'm so sorry 😭
@@AllthingsYeji nah I’m used to it. Besides, that way I can talk to my crush without being interrogated.
@@just_a_weird_kid-tehe ong ur right bro I cant even look at a boy without being shipped ✋
I love how u said EVERY speaking for everyone even the people who are just genuinely kind and include every in a trio
Not all trios are like this i have two besties and we are trio....but we All love each other...when there is one missing in our group we feel very boring....all u need is a heart to love 💕 and we three have that that's why this year we celebrated our 10th anniversary of friendship ✨
#forever trio
slay girl ❤
been looking for this comment! there are triоs that DO work, but it requires so much effort and work on your relationship (but it’s worth it)
maybe you just don't notice because you're not the backup friend
@@borokadevenyi2253Maybe they don’t notice they are the backup friens
@@borokadevenyi2253 i know in most of the trios this actually happens but in my case it's not like that we don't have any backup friend if anyone is missing in our group we just postpone every plan because we are made to be together ✨😊
This is so true, i had 2 friends and i was always left out.Whenever at class,i never got to sit with my friends.They were always ''laughing'' and ''giggling'' together without telling me anything or what happend.i was considered the lonely child and i still am to this day.
Sameee😭
This is so true! I am literally in a trio and I feel so excluded! Like all my other friends can even see that I’m being excluded! They never invite me to their birthdays and come over to my house. They pretend they don’t hang out together, but I know they do without me! And when ever we are together and introduce ourselves they just tell them that they are each others best friends and leave me out! 😭
Same for me it was like they send me pictures of them hangi g out and they didnt even tell me and said that next time i jave to stand with them when they say that🙄
Im always the one left out and then they tell me why im quiet, but if i speak they both ignore me:(
Im so sorry for ppl who go thru this, ilysm
I’m so sorry ;(
Same mahn
They are like are you okay? Why are you sad? I'll be like nothing.. Then they'll go back being their duo... Don't even try to spend time with me
@@cloudyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy fr bro, but im so sorry that you go thru this
Awww, that’s so sad 😭. It’s the same with me girly your not alone I bet your one of the most best people on this planet and would make a really good bestie ❤
i was a part of a trio once and i was the one being left out, it was really sad. after some time of changing my social groups and friends i ended up being part of a trio again and i was afraid the same thing would happen. they had been friends for ten years so i just thought they wouldn't care for me as much as they did for each other. now i'm so glad i gave it a go! the three of us have been friends for five years and it works perfectly, we are equals and we can't imagine our lives without one of us being there. this is a proof that trios can also work with the right people! so don't lose hope! a couple of days ago a new girl entered our friend group too so we are four now and i really hope it works well with her too :)))
I so happy it worked for someone else too!
I'm in a trio with my platonic soulmate and her boyfriend, that is also slowly becoming a really close friend of mine. In the beginning we were only me and my platonic soulmate. Then, this guy that we've know for nearly a year and we were friends with notices that something was wrong with my soulmate, tells me, and thanks to him we were able to help her just in time (i won't go into details about what happened to her). Fast forward, with me being in the middle like "just kiss already", they finally got togheter.
Me and my soulmate have a special bond, we cuddle a lot, call each other pet names and sometimes kiss. We always told everyone that got involved with one of us romantically about it right from the start. Well, this guy understood it and accepted it completely, and we appreciate each other and trust each other. So, now, after some time passed, i'm not being left behind by any of them, they invite me every evening chat in vocal on discord, every saturday we hang out, and they are the first to ask to me to be there. When we're out i'm not being the third weel at all. Today is also my birthday, and first thing they asked was "well, what do you want to do on saturday, so we can celebrate?".
I just love them both, and it's the proof that trios work, with the right people
If I till my friends that I always feel left out they will say “Omg you are trying to act like your the victim!”😐
“There’s a reason a relationship is only two people”
-probably someone
it’s always even numbers that work out like 2 and 4
*In every trio there's always a duo*
I once heard someone say, " One girl is a girl, two girls are best friends, and three girls is a fight waiting to happen."
Chaeryoung and ryujin will never make lia feel left out
Exactly
You have to be mature enough to maintain a trio! Trust me, me and my friends we’ve been friends and a trio for over seven years now, when one of us is going through something it is the responsibility of the other two to come and help her out, love and care makes a lot of difference yall
FINALLY SOMEONE WITH ACTUAL SENSE
Dude half of the ppl in the photos are happy and having a good time LIKE👏
That's literally me my two friends always ignore me and make me feel left out 😢
the worst thing to go through is to be the one left out in the trio for the longest time and then they drop you and they become best friends and then hate you…
Dw happened to me I got ignored and they made fun of me but a month before me and them were the inseparable trios but now I only have one person to rely on which is myslef 😢
Unseparetable* idk
Is no one gonna talk about the first pic having Itzy's mid-line (Lia, Ryujin and Chaeryeong)
YESS
You just summoned all of the midzy fandom 😂
💀
We are a trio now I knew it how much pain my other BFF is having. Thank you soo much for reminding me 💀💀😑☹️☹️😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
i love how the first pic is of chaeyoung, lia and ryujin🤌
where all my midzys at?
my friends always sit in the front seats and i sit in the back😢 they talk and i sit back there silently. it makes me sad cause one of them has been my friend for over ten years and we knew each other long before we met our other friend but she just kind of took over.
how u doin now ?
NO BECAUSE I'M GOING THROUGH THE EXACT SAME THING EXCEPT THE OTHER "FRIEND" IS MY BFF'S BOYFRIEND AND HE DOESN'T LIKE ME FR 😭
Real
It really hurts when you are the third one who doesn't get so much care from them 💔🥺
“Trios don’t work out”
Normal people:I always feel left out
K-pop stans(me):ITZY
In most cases they never work, I’ve been any many trips that didn’t workout. But I realized it’s not the number. It’s the people. I have a trio of GOOD people that aren’t toxic, and so far it’s going AMAZING! You just have to find the right people! ❤❤❤
We've been friends in trio And we've been together for 10years I'm so happy they're my friends we don't behave like separate but one mind set and we also continue this trio forever we trust each other and without them I'm nothing my date start's with them and end with them so I'm happy with trio ❤
lia: peeking and spying on ryujin and chaeryoung to not be left out
them not letting her be left out:
edit: thx for 80 likes!
ITZY STAN????
My bias is ryujin:(
@@ST4R165 mines yuna;)
@@ST4R165 mine is Chaeryeong
@@leleart8319 shes one of my biases too!! my names lia but thats not the only reason shes my bias:)
Bro the first one is 3 ITZY members
RyuChaeLia ❤ they'd never leave a member out
I'm in a trio and it works perfectly! We love eachotyer equally. I was once in a roxic trio where there was a duo but one always said i was the bestest friend even thiugh she obviously liked the other more. So im happy im nit with them anymore they were extroverts where i was introverted. They always made me do thins i didn't want to abd if i declined they said "Then your not my friend"
They do work, if you have the right people.
Me being a kpop addict :
Isn't that Ryujin,Chaeryoung, and Lia from Itzy?
If anyone didn't know they are not a trio, they are 5 members that love each other.
Lmao. Same.
Yess
I knew this but I was like if I write a comment abt it I would probably get hate for some reason
When there's pairwork you have too leave one out
The first picture is a k-pop group called Itzy. They are perfectly fine and love each other there are 5 members and are all like sisters! They aren’t just any friends they work together
tysm for tell me! I didn’t know lol
just saying but pls refrain from saying "they this or that" we don't know them and like many other groups we don't know what happens behind the screens. They could just act and pretend as that is normal in kpop
@@Iera_Thaumaturgy i don’t really think they are bad people. I know we don’t know them that well but I’ve known them for over two years and there is no complaints about fans saying their rude or anything. Please just let me speak without the need to say that we don’t really know them. I didn’t mean to cause anything honestly. Let me say whatever I want and correct the editor I wasn’t trying to be rude or anything….
A trio always works out if you have the right people.
-wise person
they do work you just have to find the right people which can be very hard 😢
chaeryeong, ryujin and lia always work out
I've had 2 experiences in my life with trios, so if u want to know how it works most of the time just read this. (Not quite accurate, but i guess something.)
Trios usually start with 2 friends and then one comes along, but It doesn't mean it's gonna turn out bad. I never got left out even though I was the one who came along and enjoyed being in this trio a lot. I still am in this trio for almost a year and we all enjoy talking to eachother and making sure no one is feeling uncomfortable.
The other time I've had 2 friends and then I just decided they had a lot in common and thought it would be a great idea to make them meet eachother. Then suddenly we were a trio. Even though no one was left out, I didn't like being friends with one of them for a long time and understood I should stop communicating with them. And of course, since I got out of the trio I got replaced. But I didn't mind, (still dont), because I see that they all are in a happy relationship between each other.
Just because once you were in a bad trio, doesn't mean it will always be like that. Maybe trios is just not for you. Have a nice day/night :)
Yeah it's true ,i was in trio for 5 yrs yet I was left alone so I left them and became a loner with no interest in making new friends nor spending time with others ,bt sometimes it breaks my heart and now I'm just envious of others friendship 🥺
The first picture is literally me on the bus everyday
I recently moved and left my bff and im in a new school so I have new friends.I always feel this in my new trio.My two other “ best friends” have so much in common and no matter how hard I try to fit in with them I always feel left out…Like if one of my “best friends” missed school the day would be boring but when I miss school they always tell me how much fun they had together…. I miss having one best friend that I loved and we laughed together every night 😢…
I am in a trio!, we laugh altogether and we each take turns taking so we don’t end up like this.
It’s been 3yrs since it’s been happening, still going on with our friendship.
Yeah same here
But seeing others comments make me sad
in the first pic, the three girls are part of a 5 membered kpop girl group, basically the girl in the front is not sad bc of the others in the back, she is just tired from their many schedules
I feel bad for the left out ones🥺💗.... Y'all deserve more love!! I was on of them.... We deserve more babies🥺
As a trio some work and some dont, but mine works and the best trio ever!
I feel so bad for people who got left out I went through the same thing they just left me behind🥺✨
I’ve had to go through this shit and it hurts, but also, one of these photos I’m pretty sure is of a trio where 2 of them killed the 3rd one, but I’m not too sure. It was a really messed up story.
The duo is just using me in our trio...
No sincere feelings
🥺🥺🥺
ayo isnt the first pic of the kpop group itzy, i think i recognised chaeryeong's beautiful eyes ^^ the girl sitting next to her is Ryujin and the girl ahead is Lia
yeah
This is so true for mw😢
Im in a trio right now and im the one being left out because i joined late and theyve been friends for 9 years and they keep talking about their past and all the things they did before ma and they used to talk about their old school like all the time.Tehn my old boy bestie moved here and he gave me company and he noticed i was left out from my trio so he kept hanging out with me and gave me a lot of company ❤
The first photo I understand, before my friend group expanded I always had to be the friend who sat alone and my other friends got to sit together. Or if I tried to sit with one it would become a rlly big deal :/
im sure you dont know the first 😭😭
The first girls are a kpop group called itzy and they all love each other very much. Infact they are a 5 member group and there was a girl sitting next to the girl infront. And its her best friend!
OH 😅😅😅
@@Srinivasankurra and im sorry what happened to you :(
everyone : talking about how they felt left out in their trio
me : looking for any comment where they recongnised the girls in the first photo 😭✋
@HyeinJeans♡ hi bestie~
@HyeinJeans♡ hi midzy 😯
ikkrr 😭
ITZY feel so sorry for Lia in that photo
@@Ev_1eee yeah🥺
Harry, Ron and Hermione- The Golden Trio 💛
Yessss
Some trios do work like the golden trio in harry potterb❤
Real. My twin sister and my friend like each other way more than they like me and it hurts 😢
Well...I am the left out one in the trio...the one who's always the backup if one of them leaves
Same😭
Then leave the trio and find ur self a friend
Everyone; so true!!!
Me; ryujin and chaeryoung never let lia be left out!!! Itzy midzy 4ever
I’m in a trio, but one of the girls in there are kinda toxic. Whenever I speak to someone, she interrupts me or she says I can’t get involved with their “private conversation” so I feel like I can’t talk to them. My bestie always tries to make me feel included but the other one just excludes me. It’s unfair.
same
I searched up videos for trios for matching ideas with my best friends and now these are all over my fyp. Thanks algorithm.
Ok but when all 3 people in a trio can be a duo no matter who in that trio they're paired with, that's the perfect trio.
(I would know because that's how my trio is 😀)
I swear to God, the first one really got me😢
Bro that's itzy they never leave eachother out
Trios never work
Shows Itzy as the first picture
STAN ITZYYYY
my friends and i were in a group chat ...........so i asked something in the group both of them saw the message and didnt reply so i asked them ''are u guys there?'' they saw the text and still didnt reply...........ignored me just like that.....if one of them is absent the other girl will cling to me otherwise they both only hang out with each other
Literally me
Omg exact same here
We used to be a trio,and it didn't work out. I was left out everytime and I have the same problems as you. If one of them is absent,the other one will cling to me. Then,we became a group of 4 and I'm still left out. The other person who just joined literally fitted in so perfectly as if she knew them for her whole life. I've been with 2 of my besties for 5 years. The other one just joined a month ago and they are like glue,God! When we are asked to choose a partner,I luckily have someone in that group. Since it's 4,we divide ourselves into 2 and 2.
You deserve so much better than that,don't cling onto them! I know it's gonna be hard,sometimes life is hard. Just stop hanging out with them!
If it makes you feel better, I was in a trio once and we had a group chat with some other friends we were friends with but then one day one of my best friends just started randomly deleting me from GC and then one of the friends we were friends with kept adding me back. I then asked why she kept deleting me and then she ignored me and deleted me again. It happened around 3 times before I stopped getting added.
i can relate so much
It hurts being the left out one in a trio..
when it's 4 people and they exclude you even from the trio ☠️
It’s the true friends that can be a trio.
Sometimes people (like me) don't mind being the left out one in a trio, just because we know that no matter what they still care about us, and some people don't need constant affirmation and constant time with another, we can be fine on our own
But some people purposely get left out and it hurts. I speak from experience
I always feel left out when i was "tying" my shoes my hair covered my face so i cried a little bit since my friends are there
I’m so sorry
I’m so sorry you had to go through that
“But you paired with her last time!”