So true, What all i have are just backstabbers and the one friend whom i truly trusted was one such. I felt so bad I can't even express. We dont talk to each other now. But I really cried a lot. Why can't I ever get a god friend. 😭😭 Am I too bad ?
Don’t forget when they CONSTANTLY talk about it amongst themselves and when you ask what they’re laughing about they say “oh you’d have to be there to understand”
yeah my friends do that they always say something COMPLETELY random and I laugh about it (because I don't want to be left out ) and they are like "why are you laughing, you would have to be there to understand it" and I just have to walk away so they don't see me cry
You’re a very sweet, kindhearted person. Make sure you stop letting people take advantage of it early on in life. There will always be lots of people who love you, but hiding and sneaking between them will be people trying to use you for your kindness. Just make sure you don’t use that kindness on people who are nasty to you and make you feel small❤
Same because here's my story I'm also disappointed at my friend because at the end of story Same yesterday it was Friday and I saw my friend who has another friend talking to her and I was just standing saying hi while they were sitting down in the cafeteria and I just hear them kept of talking while I was just standing there wondering that this is a trio and I was disappointed and wanted to unfriend her but I can't decide what to do if my friend is a fake friend since we got of the cafeteria they were almost letting me out like they wouldn't care about me. After than we were walking and my friends were talking that my other friend squished an apple to make an apple juice I was talking but they were talking more than I did to my other friend. I'd rather have a real friend more than a fake friendship, also my friend was also having another friend come by her side and its been 3 or 4 times she'd left me out and there was another girl like I think its been 4 or 3 months ago, when I was walking to the cafeteria I saw my friend she has another friend who was talking to and they kept on talking without me I ways get left out even when we make groups she'd already left me out and there was 2 boys in her group when we were making groups. 😕💔 I remembered when we first met she said she would never leave me but she lied she think I did not remembered but I clearly still remembered what she said when we first met. My real friend lives on a long distance away from me so I couldn't get to see her since I'm stuck with my fake friend. She'd also left me out with her other friend. She was also doing the fist bump like we did when we first met and she was more happier talking with her other friends than me.
this usually happens when you find a person that has the same personality and stuff as you, but you introduce them to your best friend, then they slowly start to you, get mean to you, stop talking to you. as much I can't explain how relatable this is.
Yes, that happend to me. We were talk about it and they said they are sorry and they wanna talk to me again but they keep ignoring me they don't care about me.
I have experience of this. R E L A T E It sucks like you and your bff have fun together until you or the bff meets someone new then that person slowly takes you or your bestie away..
Fr like today I was hanging out with my friend and I have this other friend she looked sad so I was like right she built different with her crusty lip and stuff and honestly I couldn’t even breathe when we where done TYSM FOE TH LIKES IVE NEVER GOTTEN THAT MANY
I used to feel that way when my separate friends started meeting and we became a big group, I’ve always been extremely quiet and am fine with mostly listening so long as nobody points out my quietness or ignores me, if I felt ignored or left out I’d quietly leave to cry and nobody ever noticed now I’m more into the group although I’m still quiet towards the newest members
i am a 3rd friend in a trio,ive felt this many times and whenever the two sit together they gossip about me,ive heard it. when one of them leaves to go home my other "friend" just ignores me the whole time we were waiting,both of them were my friends and still are,but im worried theyre talking shit behind my back. edit:thank you everyone for the support in the comments i really appreciate it :D i have confronted my friends and they have apologized.
okay, I know I’m in no position to talk, but personally you should confront them. Maybe get evidence of them doing it and tell them that your not going to be the second choice or sm. It’s really hard to talk to them about it (esp because they probably will act innocent) but you could try :) gl!!
Leave them. I 'was' in the exact same situation and trust me there's no hope for "these PPL" to change. Just cut them out from your life. Maybe it will hurt initially:) but eventually it would be the best decision for yourself
@@chloewue honestly i’m in the same position u could try and ask them if they like hate u or something like that and it’s ok if it’s awkward at least there not leaving u. u could try and find other ppl to become friends with as a group and just go for them if there great yes this advice isn’t the best just hoping this helps think of better ones ❤
Just leave them or use them. I understand if you arent a "user" type but try to be for example you say " hey can I borrow a pencil and he gives it to you" Then he will ask you" hey can I borrow a rubber?" And you will say oh sorry I don't have it even if you do. I am friends with a manipulator. He manipulated me since first grade. Now we are 9th. We plan to go to the same highschool and since my mom tells me that I'm like a "friendly" guy I will get lots of friends and leave him to be alone just like he leaved me. If you actually readed this you are a legend.
Fr I have this friend and I thought she was the best friend anyone could have and then she starts hanging out with my Guy friend and he’s a rlly good friend of mine. But now I always just sit there watching them having the best times of their life. And then when he’s absent or smth the only thing she wanna do is hang out w me. And it’s got to a point that I feel used. Whenever I hang out w other ppl to not be sad she tells me I’m being rude by leaving her out. She makes me feel worthless tbh. This is a reminder to never let anyone treat you like their second choice or their “backup” or something you are worth more than you will ever imagine ❤️❤️
Nah bro the exact same thing happened to me. My shit best friends on the LAST FUCKING DAY OF SCHOOL were talking actual shit about me . Then I confront them and they just say “oh no we’re talking about her cousin Gracie. Isaac (one of my “best friends”) met her on the weekend and she is so weird..” I WANTED HER TO STFU. Weird enough, the same thing happened with her and her other friend Charley . IM NOT SURPRISED HER FRIENDS LEFT HER 😂
Sometimes this happens in our trio, but we just tell every detail while laughing, so we all basically go crazy laughing over a story that hasn't even been told yet
Fr, I used to hang out with 2 friends when I was about 10 and one was pretty nice and one would always go have secret conversations with the other, I could tell the nice one was trying to be nice and felt bad but didn’t wanna leave my other ex bestie. 😕
Fr my friends are just like that they ignore me saying mean things to me and later on act like they didn't do anything wrong and if I say anything to them I know I will later on will feel bad and I was always a loner in at home,outside,school at everything and everyone treats me like a trash not even one good person treats me good cuz I'm not good at studying and they make fun of me for making yt videos and not getting views and subscribers which is really hurtful as I put so much effort but I guess they are right so I am kinda used to it so if this happens to u be strong cuz someday u will find loyal friends and if ur not good at studying that doesn't mean ur not worth anything ur worth million and billion just love ur self I'm so happy that my comment made other people feel good cuz all of y'all are amazing and u don't need to change urself for anyone and for me I'm trying to be better at studying not because I think I'm worthless if I don't study but because I'm trying to get the better version of me and trying to make my future better and soon my problems will go away if I work hard enough and for now it's getting worse and worse day by day that I want to suicide cuz it's too painful but I will try my best to survive as it is affecting my personality but I can't suicide as I'm a Muslim and it's Haram so I'm hoping one day this pain will go away :) I have been seeing some comments saying I'm overreacting and I'm a lier they probably deleted their comments but like guys seriously those ppl who commented this won't know how I feel and how hurtful it is and I didn't posted this comment to get attention but to get ppl to know their worth and how amazing they are so before saying mean things plz think before u speak
I can relate… I moved to another country where they don’t speak my first language so it’s sometimes hard for me to communicate with them and I met two friends who kept taking about things that happened when I wasn’t there and I was just left out.
(Let’s call them A. and R. bc I don’t wanna use their names) I used to be in a toxic trio.here’s what happened.I introduced 2 of them and every since then they basically ignored me.they just had a conversation and all I would say was “woah” “so cool” “mhm” “ikr” or sometimes just sat there.the worst part is if R. wasn’t here,A.would just start talking to me and make feel like I’m actually their friend and I would be very happy.then the next day A. would act like I didnt exist..I felt like a second option I was a backup friend.I made new friends and I rarely talked to them.one of them left the school,and then A. tried to start a conversation with me.I called her a shameless person and i told her I ain’t her friend.I kinda feel bad for because now no one talks to her and she’s all alone,but it’s kinda her loss.Im Never trying to ever go on another trio again or try to be in a group with an odd number because I don’t want to go through what I used to..(plz like my comment so I can have an notification)
@@Islam4lifer You choose better option than trio.. Am still in trio but no one cares me.See what happened in my life that there was only one BFF of my and she also consider me as her BFF. Once in 8th grade there was a new admission her name is S. We go to her so we can just friends and comfortable her but we become trio. ..then my own best friend starts ignoring me they just talk to me for Study notes and assignment... I can't leave my first Bestfriend that's why I can't leave that group... 〒_〒
this literally touched my heart directly . as a friend who has been the 3rd person it feels just we dont fit in with them cus there's nothing special for us anyways... .
Same. I feel the pain. I always try to hang out with them as much as possible but it hurts so bad when I see them talking about it and feeling left out and unwanted
I'm also in a freind group of three and whenever its partners they never pick to be with me and sometimes it makes me mad/annoyed and if I'm rly mad I start to cry idk why but I also have some other freinds but they have different partners so I'm like mostly with the girl I hate and they're like:Ya BuT u PicKeD tO bE WiTh hEr when I didnt even have a choice they never talk abt smth them two did without me bc they domt hang out much bc my friend doesnt talk only to me and the other friend and the other friends parents is mad that that freind doesnt talk so they dont hang out unless it's at my housd
Not alone it was the worst in yr 6 I would come home feeling cornered with countless days no sleep because I was crying to figure out a solution there was no one else I could hang out with in my grade and it was horrible Now we are all in high school and I have an amazing group of friends, the ppl that hurt me still go to school with me , some of them , but I rarely talk to them Goes to show you will get through this and find good friends that value u for who u are
I'm always the third friend aswell, they either make plans and not bother inviting me, or not even ask/tell me things. I'm probably going to find better friends, or at least find someone else to apprentice me
Same. I’m not as good friends as them, and they’re always really judgmental/mean to me and each other. Luckily I have some nicer friends, but I don’t share any of my classes with any of them, and I share almost all my classes with my 2 other friends, which is very disheartening
You should find better friends fortunately some friends and me never go thro this but I do have friends that do this to me so I'll probably dump them as friends and find better ones
Same here even I am the third friend. They ignore me and when I confront them then they act as if they didn't did anything wrong and they just start to tell that we 3 are bestfriends and that I am imagining things.
I’m still in one and we fight every other day and it’s just getting annoying now. Like 2 people be talking bad about the other behind that persons back and it’s just not right and it’s personally happened to me a lot.
@@amaneymohsin9676 I'm so sorry about that. They don't really sound like loyal friend's and i know what it's like to have friends that aren't loyal. If it gets way to much for you, you should tell them and if they won't listen, then you can be sure about them being fake friend's.
Those are the worst one. The ones with 4 or 5 were the ones i was in but sometimes bigger bc in hs i was cheerleader so i always had my whole team to choose from whenever i wasnt getting along with someone lol
Why is this so relatable cuz I’m in this freind group but I am always the one that no one really cares about and I always need to invite myself cuz they never do like if we go in Mac Donald’s or sun and the saddest fact is that I am the sweetest one and still tries to make everyone happy so they don’t feel left out like I do
so true I also try not to make the others feel left out but instead I'm the one who is left out just because I had some good moments with my friends I felt as if I shouldn't forget those moments and end the friendship Some good moments are not worth the pain and sorrow my friends gave me but.... let's stay strong for a better future where these friends don't exist 💖💖💖
You know what's worse, when you were a happy duo for almost a decade and then as a trio you are the left out one under a span of 6 months. edit: I hope that everyone who is feeling like the third wheel in a friendship, talks it out with their friends and then if the friend is willing to make up for it and is sorry, you guys can work on it. But if they dont see it and says you are overreacting.Please get a new friend. You guys deserve better.
The same happened to me we had 7 years of friendship this year new friend joined us and now they are duo and I am always left out I am thinking of ending it can u tell me what you did ?
Some ppl might call me toxic but I'll tell it anyways so we were a trio at start it worked out perfectly then me n another friend in the trio (lets call her mango) we both love kpop so me n mango started to talk more to eachother n my another friend in trio (lets call her banana) she felt leftout we didn't rlly noticed it and coutinued n at our mid exams preparation time mango was not present because she had fever our teacher told to read in partners so me n banana became partners it was fun studying with her n i realised that we were ignoring such a fun person next day i explained everything to mango she didn't rlly got it but she said yea we were wrong for me again our teacher told to work in partners me n banana went to ask can we make a group of 3 ppl for studying our teacher said yes we were so happy n more ppl were studying in groups n from that time onwards i included both of them at our last exams many things changed mango prefers banana more than me banana prefers me more than mango as for me i prefer both of them (i know its kinda long but if u read just reply to me cuz i wanna tell more😅)
There are 3 types of people in a trio 1. The favorite It's pretty obvious that both of their other friends in the trio consider them to be their best friend. Even if they have a favorite they will sometimes purposely act like they like the one they don't like, more. They don't realize how easy they have it. 2. The BeStIe They are the favorite's best pick out of the 2. They are always with the favorite, always in their conversations, and never get left out. They also have it easy (not as easy as the favorite) 3. The "Outcast" They are always left out, ignored, and often get insults from the other 2. I would give tips but I can't. I'm currently the outcast and it's really hard to find your way out. Praying for your luck during the journey!
1= k 2= c 3= me ( new friend group ) 1= me 2= s ,a Old friend group when I was with them I was the favourite I always tried my best so they would never feel left out
My friends are like that and I straight up told them, “trios don’t work..” they got mad and said I was overreacting and I was being annoying. I said that I felt left out and then they said “ok.? We had a good time and that’s all that matters” I was heartbroken 💔
That's the problem.. people nowdays don't care about others emotions.. until they don't go through the same shit.. Hope you will get some good friends one day ❤.
this happened to me and I left that group then they came crawling back like "the group isn't the same without you" and "we miss you" and "why did you leave us" LIKE BTCH YOU DIDN'T EVEN ACKNOWLEDGE MY PRESENCE WHEN I WAS THERE,SO DON'T ACT LIKE YOU CARE NOW JUST BECAUSE I WAS THE GLUE IN THAT GROUP! I did stay with one friend and she is a whole new person she got her life together but the other girls need their shit together Edit:I didn't think so many people could relate, ty for the support 🥺😊
The same happened to me. I was friends with these two girls, then they just kind of went off on their own, could say they cut me out. Then I made friends with this other girl in my year and then the other two came back to me one day saying that they missed me and wanted me to join their group again, but they didn't want my other friends to come with me and that they were going to tell them to back off. I said to them that if they wanted me back in the group, my other friends had to come too, otherwise no. I carried on being with my other friends.
On God same thing happened to me. Like how can you say "come back" "we miss you" when you ignored me and treated me like garbage the whole time i was with you????
I completely HATE people like that, they ignore you, never wait for you, don't care about you, you feel like you don't exist. I would cry in the bathroom, wishing I was with my old friends and wishing I could be cooler. I hate this SOO MUCHHH
i can relate.. but i have been stronger. if ur reading this and ur going through the same thing, find friends that support u through all times, ur worth so much more than to cry over fake friends! stay strong! ❤
I got bullied a lot and would laugh WITH the bullies. They'd turn to me confused "you realize we're laughing at you right?" ..."Yeah it was funny though?" ...Confused the hell out of them and made more than a few of them give me a wider berth. :P
This is why friend groups over 2 never work. Everytime in my life when I've tried and trusted people and made a trip of friends, I always have to end things. I hate it.
Fours work if there is 2 sets of best friends, but trio's never work like if u go on a roller coaster the two besties will always sit next to each other and then you'll get left out.
Well that's sad :/ Who do u think is getting left out? If it's you in so sorry But then you shouldn't really be in that group Try finding a new one! If this helped I'm glad
it started as just me and my friend, then this girl came and started hanging out with us, which i have no problem with. she became sad when me and my bestie would hang out without her, (even tho me and bestie have been together for whole life)
when i was younger, i start crying. now when im older, i start "ignoring" these people. pretending to be in my own world until they "snap" me out of it. and was like "huh? oh okay", even though ive heard everything. 💀
Same. Had some rude girls who slowly started to get mean. Before they were ok ish. I just wanted friends and people to be kind. I have better friends now, but one of those mean girls recently apologized. I expected, cuz she was amazing, and used to often lean away from the group(cuz they were and still are mean). The other actually nice girls stopped being friends with them, and now I'm friends with the kind girls. I can talk to the girl that apologized, cuz she's still friends with the mean girls, and one of them threatened her to make sure she said nothing to me. But we smile at each other and wave once in a while. I told her to get out of there....but she wont
to anybody who is currently/has gone through these types of situations, you are still awesome and such and dont let those people bring you down. do whats best for your mental health! maybe even ditch them. yer don’t deserve those people.
Thanks, i had a friend and both of us were friends for 6-7 years , and now she always ignores me. Everything was started when A (let's just say A, bc I dont want to expose) When A wanted to join our friend, we started to became 5 , And then lately theres only me , my old friend, and A , and now they both ignore me and never invt me again I ever got rlly sad but then I realized they r just not good for me, and than crying in the corner, it'll be better to find new friend that you deserve
I’m so sorry for everyone going through this it’s the most worst and painful feeling EVER! I’ve been through this 2 times and if you are too it’s best you say you don’t want to hang out anymore because you feel left out and maybe talk about it to them as well if u want to but if they still do it then just leave without saying anything and try to make new friends
Same last year my class asked all my class to go out not me tho and still talk abt it I had to go through counselling bc of there immaturity:( you also have to look happy in front of them when they were never happy for u
Are you really happy with them ,ask this question to yourself if it makes you feel like that you are not happy with them then first try to talk to them if you cannot then try talking to other people there will be someone waiting for you and will value you , always remember people can be bad and good it's up to you who you choose ✨
2 things that are worse is when you met someone first and then became friends...but the third person comes in and takes your spot so your ignored. The other thing is when you try to find other friends because your "friends" are ignoring you so you TRY to find a best friend but everyone already had best friends so your the only one without a best friend... :(
My BFF has another BFF and I was not hers. It was so painful to hear that my best friend was laughing and talking about things with her... And I didn't even know what was it. I was home bored, and they called me how great time they have, are together somewhere... It's really painful when person that knows everything about you, and is for you the best friend, has you only as some friend from school... I always feel alone, that I cannot trust anyone, and I probably have some serious psychical problems... I know about social anxiety, little depression (not chronic or some really hard depression), Anxiety attacks. I had those so much that sometimes I don't even know if I have one or I just feel anxious since I got used to it. I am afraid to tell my parents since I'm scared they would be afraid... Uh.. okay. Thanks random person on internet if you read this.
Your not alone. Five of my best friends dumped me and the sixth one moved away yesterday (literally yesterday). I reslly hope your doing well. I know that it feels real shit rn but itll get better. Whether it takes 10s, 10 days, or 10 years. Thinking of u 😔
I made a friend whom I considered my closest. But even to this day , she hangs out with her desk mate and other than that she just ignores me or uses me when it's needed. When I'll be talking to her she'll suddenly look around , play with others , laugh with others or do some other work of hers. She won't even notice if I stopped talking in the middle. I tried that multiple times and she just ignores me or goes "oh" "hmm" we had an inside joke (or atleast I thought we did) because I was a year smaller than all my classmates , I should be everyone's little sister as well as hers and while we were filling our examination forms , she saw my birthdate and went "You wrote the wrong year" I just wanted to slap her at that exact moment. Even after all that she didn't know my age , my full name , birth day , any of my friends . She always comes to talk to me whenever something happens with her crush or she tells me everything crazy that happened. But when I say so , she's uninterested or says "Oh okay". Yesterday she blabbered on with how her crush gave her a chocolate and then I was telling her abt how a prefect was being rude to me. She again looked around and ignored. I told her openly at that moment to never talk to me again if she's uninterested in what I talk and only wants to use me. She still doesn't care that much. I feel like I took a lot of weight off of my shoulder. Sorry for the long para. I read yours and I could relate so much. Anxiety hits so hard all of a sudden that I wanna cry. I have only one true friend currently but she's in another class. The ones whom I thought were my friends always message me asking for help in their assignments ,portions , exams etc. I'm not smart but they know that I go all limits to help. I call everyone or try to dig up everything just to help. But when I ask them for even the most simplest help , they leave me on read .
@@Pudding_zip I get this. Even I had a friend who always says her stories and doesn't even let me speak even if I do she shows no interest. I know all her past and she doesn't know anything of mine neither she asked nor wanted to know. Idk why people are like this. Conversation should be both the sides.
Fr tho, I'm the third girl in the trio... My best friend made a new friend closer to her age and when all three of us were hanging out at the mall I felt so left out they were the one talking the whole time and laughing while I just sat there... Then both of them make fun of me even my best friend and they laugh AT ME idk why or what I did wrong... So i made new friends but they ditched me and ghosted me so I'm use to it honestly bc this has been happening to me all my life so far, when I was 9 I had 2 friends and they both stabbed me in the back, then I moved a million times lost more friends then a few years later I turned 11 made a new friends then they left me for other ppl, when I turned 12 I only had one friend left my best friend then I made 2 new friends but one of them were toxic and would take my best friend away from me and make fun of me and the other one just left and I never saw her again now I'm 13 almost 14 and I only have one friend left the same best friend I've been talking about but I don't see her that much anymore only like once a week for 2 to 4 hours and that's it... So honestly I'm use to it now, ppl forget about me all the time they ditch me or make fun of me or back stabb me and I'm tired of it but I'm trying to stay positive and not to give up hope and not doubt myself so much.... So everybody reading this comment plz don't give up don't doubt yourself and always be kind you are an amazing person and you are strong don't ever forget that and don't let others bring you down!
no need to keep such friend....pretty sure you would lose nothing if you just cut them off entirely...just stay with your new friends who actually treat you better.
hey! i hope you're doing good. i know, it's hard what you're going throught right now, but i just want to let you know, that i have been in the same situation, and I'm not making this about myself, I'm just trying to tell you, that i know how you feel and tbh, it's such a horrible feeling to feel, when you feel like nobody understands you and you don't have anybody to call your actual "friend" but just know that all of these things happening to you is only a test of your patience and it's only gonna make you stronger and stronger. I used to feel that i need to please them or change the way i am just in order to make them like me, but no, you don't do that. what you do instead is focus on yourself and your self-growth. you need to know that all those people are not good for you, your mental, emotional and physical health. you shouldn't be going around all the time and trying to make friends or find your people, belive me when the time will be right, you will eventually find them or they'll find you. people who will respect you, will make you feel included, would understand you and your feelings and will definitely make you feel happy. so, just focus on yourself and I'm sure you'll find your people, you will find the bestest friends ever and all of those people who are making fun of you rn will be regretting it one day and even if they don't ( they sure as hell will tho) you shouldn't care ( ik, it's hard not to care cause it's human nature) but you will grow and will be very more mature than you already are, and will be very very happy and successful in your life. I'm telling you all of this as a big sister, who's been there and has felt everything you're feeling right now. so, just know that you are loved and so much more, wish you all the best with everything in life, i love you.
As the person who is left out most of the time, I feel this and it actually hurts a lot more than you may think so to anyone else out there who is in that position, you deserve better
fr, even though this was forever ago i still remember it like the back of my hand. in 5th grade, i was in so many trio friendships, they’d be laughing at something and every time it would be “you wouldn’t understand” 💀
As a person with a trio group this is so relatable, I am that one left out, the one that walks behind the two. The one not included, and yet, I manage to be helpful and polite to them and they basically bully me. They all act like they have the worst problems ever and it’s like they got cheated on by their trashy bfs while I’m the one being tossed and played around like an object and having to consider sewer slide because I feel unlikable and that no one enjoys me at all. Oops I vented ☠️☠️
I feel so thankful for my friend circle. They never make me feel left out, even though I'm the boring person ever. Good people exist, and I hope you get some real friends someday! :)
Lucky, i remember times in 2grade and my two bestfriends would always keep secrets from me lets say one was lilly and the other one was kinzy and im bella "kinzy! Kinzy! (Whispers in kinzys ear)" "HAHA" "whats so funny?" "sorry we cant tell you"
this is actually one of my biggest fears either being left out or replaced or making someone feel left out or replaced so thats why im always scared to make a friend group
This was 5 years of my life I was in a trio and whenever they only had one spot to take someone they would take each other and my “best friend” was part of this and then I relived how bad she was and how toxic I’m still friends with the other girl but we’re in a new trio and me and the other girl have both been the ones left out and now the one from the previous trio is kinda the one who gets left out and I feel horrible because I know how it feels 😢
Same with my 2 friends on the weekend they had a sleepover on the weekend and I didn't knew about anything so the next day at school they were talking and laughing about the sleepover and I came over and "what you guys laughing about" and they respond "oh nothing, we just had a sleepover on the weekend" making me jealous and then I started laughing because I loved how they we're but then they said "What you laughing at you weren't even there!?" Feeling so much pain in the inside...
i can relate to this so bad. This happened to me recently in my gc full of all my friends. they were talking about something and I was just reading the texts cause I was cooking, 2 minutes later when no one was talking I decided to randomly tell them that I was cooking corn and how it looked so good but none of my friends even replied to me. I wen't back to cooking until I heard a notification sound from my phone to find out that they were continuing to talk about something and ignored me.
If they keep ignoring you then let them ignore , you try talking to other people ,sometimes there are so many good people in our surrounding but we don't know that because we don't talk to them or open up but when you open up sometimes it's just a new beginning of a friendship . find someone who values you and listens to you but it's not like they have to be the one to listen all the time it's your role too to listen to them ✨
What's worse is when it's more than 2 friends. 2 friends just hanging out without you is fine but if it's your whole friend group without you it's the worst. Edit: Thanks for the likes!
Thats me I may have talked abty trio but there's this one other girl who's kinda latching on to our trio and its like my two friends and that other girl are in their on trio now.
As the 3rd friend, I literally knew the leader of the friend group for 6 years, and she still chooses someone who ignores us over me, and they always talk about their sleepovers or some shit. It's so fucking depressing, and to add they didn't even notice or care that I was gone for 4 days.
I’m that 3rd person in this friend group that’s been going on for 3-2 years now. This girl yells at me if she gets mad, she is always doing stuff with the other girl in our friend group. I can’t even trust them. This video really touched my heart 💜 I’m really sorry for everyone else.
DONT BE FRIENDS WITH THEM!! toxic friendships/relationships can get very serious very quickly. you -DO NOT- want it to get to that point. i speak from experience
I feel this way. I’m in a friend group of 5 and I’m always left out. They’re all super rich and my family isn’t. They all can afford expensive things and I can’t. Because of this they don’t like me much. 💔
I am in a group of 5, but recently dropped them. All they care about are their crushes. Like I have one, but they make fun of me because of it. But I have other friends
as someone who never experienced being in a trio but someone who experienced something similar to this, it's horrible when two people you know leave you out of plans and pretend like you don't exist. Especially when you're the one who brought them together.
My friend zaina has felt this because she thinks she is a third wheel cuz only her two other friends wouldn't hangout with her. when her best friend in the trio is away she would hang with zaina
As a person who experience it everyday and I don't know why it happens only with me like where ever I go people have have other bffs and me here thinking them as they are my bffs.. this shit hurts 💔
This is the most relatable thing ever. Tha you get the whole "Oh, we would've invited you but it was soo last minute" LIKE I DONT CARE, EVEN IF I COULDN'T MAKE IT AN INVITE STILL WOULD'VE MEANT A LOT!!!!!!!!
Oh trust me it would. I get a a LOT of invites but I don't have the permission to go. It would hurt becuz you will get an invite, really want to go there and then you don't have the permission so you will be sad that you missed out. So it is better to know after that event ended even though it still hurts
been through it too 😭 I was in this friend group of 4 actually, it was originally a trio but then the other 3 left me out, so I just decided to leave, and now they remain a trio and I’ve noticed that their trio is sort of undiversed which kinda makes me sad for them :(
I used to be a trio but then one of my besties moved away and the other one was my bff but replaced me and ignores me even though her bff moved away to japan so I have no bff. I was so many peoples bff but I was never theirs. I still am alone today.
You did the right thing ✨but still stay nice to others don't let your character down if you will be nice to them it will make them feel that you really don't care 😌✨
Actually though 3 Years I was the talk in school, having the time of my life. being friends with everyone. 3 Years later everyone just... Don't like me anymore, to the point where almost everyday I feel just plain sad.
You know, I met my friend in 5th grade and he introduced me to his friend, so all of us would just hang out and see each other outside of school, so you can say that we were a trio and everyone in that trio made sure that nobody was left out no matter what, I guess that's why we're still best buddies to this day
That’s me in EVERY friend group I’ve ever had, Once two of my friends went on a walk and when I saw them at school the next day that’s all they could talk about and when I tried to join in the conversation they walked away. I also had a friend group which they would call behind my back and talk smack about me.
For the people who are dealing with getting left out in a friend group remember that you don't need friends and if they meant to go it's always for the best cz God has a better plan for you and he will give you the people who will truly care for you ❤
This reminds me of my BEST friends bonding WAY more with my other friends in class, because of the seating arrangement and they say "We fr made a new friend group hahahah!" and they always have fun and laugh in class, while I sit in front of the class, trying to laugh and go to their row to feel included, but then I get called to sit back in my seat, sitting there alone, once again.
Glad to know it's not just me who feels like this. But the difference is I'm on a larger group of friend, it's like 7-8 people and I hate it when it happens, they'll ignore me and continued talking to themselves without including me. I always tried to talk to them but they just have zero interest in me and just responded with "yeah" or "wow" as if they didn't listen at all. Sometime I also hear from my other friend that they talks about me when I'm not there. I don't know what is wrong with me and why they hate me, but that actually makes me so depressed and overthink. It's just so painful😔😭 Edit: thank you so much for you guys in the reply who cares about me and left some encouraging and advice comments!😭❤️ You guys really made me feel a lot better, ILY so much guys I really mean it:")))
TW:kinda venting When I tell them something that makes me sad, kinda venting to them like saying "I'm sick, I have the flu. I'm also emotionally drained" she says "oof. Anyways." Like. Atleast PRETEND like you want to listen. :/.
I used to be in a friend group like that too... Then I left that friend group because when I said hello they just ignored me.. Of course I am in a new friend group and things are turning out alright.. I hope you find better friends too 😊
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, don't worry. The problem lies with them. I'm sorry if this means going out of your comfort zone but I suggest you find some new friends. You deserve to be treated better than this, not like some outcast. Trust me, I've been where you are now and I'm so much happier now that I've left my old 'friends'. I sincerely hope you move on from them and find good people to hang out with. You're so worth the time and effort that your current friends aren't giving you
It’s sad when you’re the only one who’s left out,it’s like they don’t even know you exist but for me, it is when I have a best friend but she start talking to another person. Day by day she started ignoring me and my texts,when I ask her about it she’ll be like “oh sorry I was talking to someone else” or “oh I am busy “I think all of those people do not understand me, not even one bit.
Don't suppress your feelings..let them know what you feel and if they shows no concern even after having an open conversation, leave them. It's best for both you and them ...
So i had a trio group, we three were the bestest friends and helped each other no matter what. But in middle school, a girl joined that completely changed EVERYTHING. She didn't mean to, but she is like the PERFECT girl someone has ever met, my friends got attracted towards her and REPLACED me, they didn't realise it but it always felt like I was left out, they later on realised that they were doing wrong. Both of my friends apologized me, and the girl was sorry to because she didn't intentionally wanted to steal my friends, turns out that girl was kind. Now I'm happy and almost about to end middle school with my three friends, we are like the best group ever!
Same except another friend joined who was a friend of the first girl that joined. We used to be such a happy 4 but now they’re the happy 4 and I’m the unhappy 1
This is like so relatable because literally all my friend groups except one has been a trio and there is always two people who r closer than the other. Most of the time my friend were really nice and like instead of just laughing together they like explained the story to me and honestly that feels so much better than having to just stand there and be silent. It's also so annoying when two friends team up on you or like think that they r better than u, this has only occurred in one friend group thankfully, I honestly feel much better on groups of two, four or more, it's just harder to be left out I feel. Its also like real annoying when u say something in ur opinion pretty funny and understandable and ur friends just look at u and shrug, pretend not to hear and pretend to not understand and then ur other friend says something that's like not at all that funny and unclear or just starts mock stuttering and your other friend starts laughing.
Dude I thought I was the only one lol like if I mess with one friend they said I take it to far and the other buts in and agrees and they start being rude and saying I’m in the wrong and I’m like ok I guess you guys can joke around something that I TAKE PERSONAL but if I say I do then you guys call me out saying I’m sensitive like you guys so only you guys can joke like cussing me out but if I do the same it’s not ok makes a lot of sense 🙄
That is why I want to distance from my friends. I love them over all things but I have a feeling like I will distroy their friendship that works so well and I would hate that, but I'm afraid of being alone so I don't really know what to do. I just think distancing from them would work rlly good
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This is genuinely the worst feeling in the world. Having fake friends hurts more than having none.
So true,
What all i have are just backstabbers
and the one friend whom i truly trusted was one such. I felt so bad I can't even express. We dont talk to each other now. But I really cried a lot. Why can't I ever get a god friend. 😭😭 Am I too bad ?
I am effected in this thing
Having no friends is better than getting batrayed
yeah when I was in middle school 2 of my friends used me
@@elijahrevmarbella7123 yes
Don’t forget when they CONSTANTLY talk about it amongst themselves and when you ask what they’re laughing about they say “oh you’d have to be there to understand”
Fr, they ALWAYS CONSTANTLY make you feel bad.
fr..
IKR LIKE, that litterally the DEFINITION the DEFINITION of a fake friend or fake friends
yeah my friends do that they always say something COMPLETELY random and I laugh about it (because I don't want to be left out ) and they are like "why are you laughing, you would have to be there to understand it" and I just have to walk away so they don't see me cry
SO TRUUE!!!!
My embarrassed self would’ve probably said “your laughter is contagious” just to lighten the mood 😢
My spite full self would've said " I'm laughing at you and the toxic energy you bring to my life"
Anche io
I would say your “laugh is so ugly it’s funny”
I'd say "it's my mirror neurons"
You’re a very sweet, kindhearted person. Make sure you stop letting people take advantage of it early on in life. There will always be lots of people who love you, but hiding and sneaking between them will be people trying to use you for your kindness. Just make sure you don’t use that kindness on people who are nasty to you and make you feel small❤
"In every trio there is always a duo"
-A wise man
That me in the video I am the 3rd friend 🥲
Not always tho
“In every Quartet there is a trio”
Being left out in a trio hurts more when u are the one who actually started the group
Even worse when it's more than 5 people. Honestly I am always that one friend in a massive group of people, I'm basically the laughing stock.
Same!!!
Yeah it's me
Same because here's my story I'm also disappointed at my friend because at the end of story Same yesterday it was Friday and I saw my friend who has another friend talking to her and I was just standing saying hi while they were sitting down in the cafeteria and I just hear them kept of talking while I was just standing there wondering that this is a trio and I was disappointed and wanted to unfriend her but I can't decide what to do if my friend is a fake friend since we got of the cafeteria they were almost letting me out like they wouldn't care about me. After than we were walking and my friends were talking that my other friend squished an apple to make an apple juice I was talking but they were talking more than I did to my other friend. I'd rather have a real friend more than a fake friendship, also my friend was also having another friend come by her side and its been 3 or 4 times she'd left me out and there was another girl like I think its been 4 or 3 months ago, when I was walking to the cafeteria I saw my friend she has another friend who was talking to and they kept on talking without me I ways get left out even when we make groups she'd already left me out and there was 2 boys in her group when we were making groups. 😕💔 I remembered when we first met she said she would never leave me but she lied she think I did not remembered but I clearly still remembered what she said when we first met. My real friend lives on a long distance away from me so I couldn't get to see her since I'm stuck with my fake friend. She'd also left me out with her other friend. She was also doing the fist bump like we did when we first met and she was more happier talking with her other friends than me.
@@xoxomaddss fake people I'm went through this so much that I can just guess whose real or fake
this usually happens when you find a person that has the same personality and stuff as you, but you introduce them to your best friend, then they slowly start to you, get mean to you, stop talking to you. as much I can't explain how relatable this is.
Yes, that happend to me. We were talk about it and they said they are sorry and they wanna talk to me again but they keep ignoring me they don't care about me.
This has happened...but I got over it really quickly because I try not to get too attached. Childhood habit, I won't let them into my heart
frrr alwayys xX
I have experience of this. R E L A T E It sucks like you and your bff have fun together until you or the bff meets someone new then that person slowly takes you or your bestie away..
Trueeeeeee
No one do that please. Never let anyone feel left out
Fr it sucks when that happens
Fr like today I was hanging out with my friend and I have this other friend she looked sad so I was like right she built different with her crusty lip and stuff and honestly I couldn’t even breathe when we where done
TYSM FOE TH LIKES IVE NEVER GOTTEN THAT MANY
I hate when it happens
I used to feel that way when my separate friends started meeting and we became a big group, I’ve always been extremely quiet and am fine with mostly listening so long as nobody points out my quietness or ignores me, if I felt ignored or left out I’d quietly leave to cry and nobody ever noticed now I’m more into the group although I’m still quiet towards the newest members
Im the third wheel. XD but im optimist so ig im ok with that😐
When someone cries their not weak, they've been strong for to long
- Johnny Depp
Dayum never thought abt it that way…
Its true
This comment made me cry lol
I cry everyday it’s just too much pressure
i am a 3rd friend in a trio,ive felt this many times and whenever the two sit together they gossip about me,ive heard it. when one of them leaves to go home my other "friend" just ignores me the whole time we were waiting,both of them were my friends and still are,but im worried theyre talking shit behind my back.
edit:thank you everyone for the support in the comments i really appreciate it :D i have confronted my friends and they have apologized.
okay, I know I’m in no position to talk, but personally you should confront them. Maybe get evidence of them doing it and tell them that your not going to be the second choice or sm. It’s really hard to talk to them about it (esp because they probably will act innocent) but you could try :) gl!!
@@raniiiiiya okey,thank you for the opinion,they are my only friends so i wanna confront them without them leaving me,idk how tho.
Leave them. I 'was' in the exact same situation and trust me there's no hope for "these PPL" to change. Just cut them out from your life. Maybe it will hurt initially:) but eventually it would be the best decision for yourself
@@chloewue honestly i’m in the same position u could try and ask them if they like hate u or something like that and it’s ok if it’s awkward at least there not leaving u.
u could try and find other ppl to become friends with as a group and just go for them if there great
yes this advice isn’t the best just hoping this helps think of better ones ❤
Just leave them or use them. I understand if you arent a "user" type but try to be for example you say " hey can I borrow a pencil and he gives it to you"
Then he will ask you" hey can I borrow a rubber?" And you will say oh sorry I don't have it even if you do. I am friends with a manipulator. He manipulated me since first grade. Now we are 9th.
We plan to go to the same highschool and since my mom tells me that I'm like a "friendly" guy I will get lots of friends and leave him to be alone just like he leaved me. If you actually readed this you are a legend.
“She’s so weird! “
“ I hate Mia so much.”
“ why are you talking about me?”
“ oh not you, a different mia.”
Fr I have this friend and I thought she was the best friend anyone could have and then she starts hanging out with my Guy friend and he’s a rlly good friend of mine. But now I always just sit there watching them having the best times of their life. And then when he’s absent or smth the only thing she wanna do is hang out w me. And it’s got to a point that I feel used. Whenever I hang out w other ppl to not be sad she tells me I’m being rude by leaving her out. She makes me feel worthless tbh.
This is a reminder to never let anyone treat you like their second choice or their “backup” or something you are worth more than you will ever imagine ❤️❤️
Nah bro the exact same thing happened to me. My shit best friends on the LAST FUCKING DAY OF SCHOOL were talking actual shit about me . Then I confront them and they just say “oh no we’re talking about her cousin Gracie. Isaac (one of my “best friends”) met her on the weekend and she is so weird..” I WANTED HER TO STFU. Weird enough, the same thing happened with her and her other friend Charley . IM NOT SURPRISED HER FRIENDS LEFT HER 😂
me too
My sis and MY
Me too
My sis and MY FRIEND:
Lexie is weird
ikr I hate her
Me:are you talking about me?
No not you 🙄
Oh ok....
"Them laughing"
this is why I'm glad my name is somewhat rare where I live. it's easier to catch ppl talking trash
me being the 3rd freind and trying to hide every emotion but cries very easily 💀
𝐁𝐫𝐨, 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞.
Same
Same bro
Like so true
SAME
“..I am just a freak!” The feeling when your left out in every friend group…
Sometimes this happens in our trio, but we just tell every detail while laughing, so we all basically go crazy laughing over a story that hasn't even been told yet
Fr, I used to hang out with 2 friends when I was about 10 and one was pretty nice and one would always go have secret conversations with the other, I could tell the nice one was trying to be nice and felt bad but didn’t wanna leave my other ex bestie. 😕
🥺
This is very true and I hate when friends do that also if they do that just don’t hang out with them anymore. That’s all I’m gonna say about this.
I have to leave the friend group and I was all alone. My mum tried to get people to help me and talk to me but now I only got my sister
Thats lucky for you
“In every trio there is a duo”
edit: why tf is this comment getting noticed 4 months after i posted it💀
That hits hard
True
So true
Out of the million existing languages in the universe , you considered speaking facts today.
correct
Fr my friends are just like that they ignore me saying mean things to me and later on act like they didn't do anything wrong and if I say anything to them I know I will later on will feel bad and I was always a loner in at home,outside,school at everything and everyone treats me like a trash not even one good person treats me good cuz I'm not good at studying and they make fun of me for making yt videos and not getting views and subscribers which is really hurtful as I put so much effort but I guess they are right so I am kinda used to it so if this happens to u be strong cuz someday u will find loyal friends and if ur not good at studying that doesn't mean ur not worth anything ur worth million and billion just love ur self
I'm so happy that my comment made other people feel good cuz all of y'all are amazing and u don't need to change urself for anyone and for me I'm trying to be better at studying not because I think I'm worthless if I don't study but because I'm trying to get the better version of me and trying to make my future better and soon my problems will go away if I work hard enough and for now it's getting worse and worse day by day that I want to suicide cuz it's too painful but I will try my best to survive as it is affecting my personality but I can't suicide as I'm a Muslim and it's Haram so I'm hoping one day this pain will go away :)
I have been seeing some comments saying I'm overreacting and I'm a lier they probably deleted their comments but like guys seriously those ppl who commented this won't know how I feel and how hurtful it is and I didn't posted this comment to get attention but to get ppl to know their worth and how amazing they are so before saying mean things plz think before u speak
thankss💗💗💗
Ty!❤
I can relate… I moved to another country where they don’t speak my first language so it’s sometimes hard for me to communicate with them and I met two friends who kept taking about things that happened when I wasn’t there and I was just left out.
@@cloudyheavens9659 same bestie! ❤️
Its very relative..
This hurts a lot. Especially when they say “oh it’s just an inside joke, you wouldn’t get it.”
There's always a duo in a trio group.
-Wise man
(Let’s call them A. and R. bc I don’t wanna use their names) I used to be in a toxic trio.here’s what happened.I introduced 2 of them and every since then they basically ignored me.they just had a conversation and all I would say was “woah” “so cool” “mhm” “ikr” or sometimes just sat there.the worst part is if R. wasn’t here,A.would just start talking to me and make feel like I’m actually their friend and I would be very happy.then the next day A. would act like I didnt exist..I felt like a second option I was a backup friend.I made new friends and I rarely talked to them.one of them left the school,and then A. tried to start a conversation with me.I called her a shameless person and i told her I ain’t her friend.I kinda feel bad for because now no one talks to her and she’s all alone,but it’s kinda her loss.Im Never trying to ever go on another trio again or try to be in a group with an odd number because I don’t want to go through what I used to..(plz like my comment so I can have an notification)
@@Islam4lifer You choose better option than trio.. Am still in trio but no one cares me.See what happened in my life that there was only one BFF of my and she also consider me as her BFF. Once in 8th grade there was a new admission her name is S. We go to her so we can just friends and comfortable her but we become trio. ..then my own best friend starts ignoring me they just talk to me for Study notes and assignment... I can't leave my first Bestfriend that's why I can't leave that group... 〒_〒
My trio works, you just have to find the right people
Tbh not all, is gonna work if you find the right people
The sad truth
this literally touched my heart directly . as a friend who has been the 3rd person it feels just we dont fit in with them cus there's nothing special for us anyways... .
Same. I feel the pain. I always try to hang out with them as much as possible but it hurts so bad when I see them talking about it and feeling left out and unwanted
Same. They talk about things they do and it hurts.
Dont worry I’ll take y’all to buy anything y’all tf want❤
I'm also in a freind group of three and whenever its partners they never pick to be with me and sometimes it makes me mad/annoyed and if I'm rly mad I start to cry idk why but I also have some other freinds but they have different partners so I'm like mostly with the girl I hate and they're like:Ya BuT u PicKeD tO bE WiTh hEr when I didnt even have a choice
they never talk abt smth them two did without me bc they domt hang out much bc my friend doesnt talk only to me and the other friend and the other friends parents is mad that that freind doesnt talk so they dont hang out unless it's at my housd
@@catsandcookies443 MEET YA AT DA MALL HUN IMA BUY YA THE WHOLE MALL FORGET ABT EM💗
I needed these comments. It’s 9:47 and I am in bed crying because of my friends. Good to know I am not alone
Don't cry there's a lot of people who feel the same pain you're not alone
Not alone it was the worst in yr 6 I would come home feeling cornered with countless days no sleep because I was crying to figure out a solution there was no one else I could hang out with in my grade and it was horrible
Now we are all in high school and I have an amazing group of friends, the ppl that hurt me still go to school with me , some of them , but I rarely talk to them
Goes to show you will get through this and find good friends that value u for who u are
I'm here to.
Don’t worry, you are never alone we all understand
Thanks UA-cam comments ❤️x u made my day just a little happier ✨🫶🏻
The feeling when the duo isn’t listening so you stop talking😔
relatable. im the third friend. during free period they’re either going to ignore me or go off to another person. cant deal with this.
I'm always the third friend aswell, they either make plans and not bother inviting me, or not even ask/tell me things. I'm probably going to find better friends, or at least find someone else to apprentice me
Same. I’m not as good friends as them, and they’re always really judgmental/mean to me and each other. Luckily I have some nicer friends, but I don’t share any of my classes with any of them, and I share almost all my classes with my 2 other friends, which is very disheartening
Leave them. Find new real friends you deserve better
You should find better friends fortunately some friends and me never go thro this but I do have friends that do this to me so I'll probably dump them as friends and find better ones
Same here even I am the third friend. They ignore me and when I confront them then they act as if they didn't did anything wrong and they just start to tell that we 3 are bestfriends and that I am imagining things.
I seriously can't stop getting into 3 person friend groups and it's terrible. I relate to this so much it's sad.
I’m still in one and we fight every other day and it’s just getting annoying now. Like 2 people be talking bad about the other behind that persons back and it’s just not right and it’s personally happened to me a lot.
@@amaneymohsin9676 I'm so sorry about that. They don't really sound like loyal friend's and i know what it's like to have friends that aren't loyal. If it gets way to much for you, you should tell them and if they won't listen, then you can be sure about them being fake friend's.
Same LITTERALY same
Those are the worst one. The ones with 4 or 5 were the ones i was in but sometimes bigger bc in hs i was cheerleader so i always had my whole team to choose from whenever i wasnt getting along with someone lol
Same
Why is this so relatable cuz I’m in this freind group but I am always the one that no one really cares about and I always need to invite myself cuz they never do like if we go in Mac Donald’s or sun and the saddest fact is that I am the sweetest one and still tries to make everyone happy so they don’t feel left out like I do
Omg Hugs from another Stay 🫂 Stay strong. And i also always make sure that nobody doesn't feel left out unlike me. We got Eachother okay??♡
so true
I also try not to make the others feel left out
but instead I'm the one who is left out
just because I had some good moments with my friends
I felt as if I shouldn't forget those moments and end the friendship
Some good moments are not worth the pain and sorrow my friends gave me
but....
let's stay strong for a better future
where these friends don't exist
💖💖💖
same bro😭
YES that’s me. i’m just giving up on people
Nauurrrr stay doesnt deserve to be sad!! 💓💓💓💓
Always a duo in a trio. I’m always the 3rd wheel. And I’m the reason they are friends
The exact reason I don’t bother making friends anymore
Yeah i'm with you mate , atleast we aren't scared to lose them ^^
Same preach
@@emyblondeau8947 EXACTLY
Me too 😊💔
This made my mindset get stronger as well, thank you so much 💛
You know what's worse, when you were a happy duo for almost a decade and then as a trio you are the left out one under a span of 6 months.
edit: I hope that everyone who is feeling like the third wheel in a friendship, talks it out with their friends and then if the friend is willing to make up for it and is sorry, you guys can work on it. But if they dont see it and says you are overreacting.Please get a new friend. You guys deserve better.
It hurts even more when you started to group and then just get left out..
@@acatnamedapplejack1539fr
The same happened to me we had 7 years of friendship this year new friend joined us and now they are duo and I am always left out I am thinking of ending it can u tell me what you did ?
@@prathanasundas5612I understand your pain bro 😥
Some ppl might call me toxic but I'll tell it anyways so we were a trio at start it worked out perfectly then me n another friend in the trio (lets call her mango) we both love kpop so me n mango started to talk more to eachother n my another friend in trio (lets call her banana) she felt leftout we didn't rlly noticed it and coutinued n at our mid exams preparation time mango was not present because she had fever our teacher told to read in partners so me n banana became partners it was fun studying with her n i realised that we were ignoring such a fun person next day i explained everything to mango she didn't rlly got it but she said yea we were wrong for me again our teacher told to work in partners me n banana went to ask can we make a group of 3 ppl for studying our teacher said yes we were so happy n more ppl were studying in groups n from that time onwards i included both of them at our last exams many things changed mango prefers banana more than me banana prefers me more than mango as for me i prefer both of them (i know its kinda long but if u read just reply to me cuz i wanna tell more😅)
This so relatable....I am always left out between my friends,they usually ignore me and i hate the fact that I don't even have a real friend 😭😭
Same girlll It hurts 😭
Same i feel you
I feel upou
ikr
we can all be each others freind
but
i will only have bts army freind😎
yoongis swag
hairflip*
I have experienced this.. once it’s the worst feeling in the world it’s sad and painful…
Girl just explained my whole life 💀
Dang that’s a lot of likes 👁️👄👁️
Same
Fr same 😭
never felt the same
Same
Same
There are 3 types of people in a trio
1. The favorite
It's pretty obvious that both of their other friends in the trio consider them to be their best friend. Even if they have a favorite they will sometimes purposely act like they like the one they don't like, more. They don't realize how easy they have it.
2. The BeStIe
They are the favorite's best pick out of the 2. They are always with the favorite, always in their conversations, and never get left out. They also have it easy (not as easy as the favorite)
3. The "Outcast"
They are always left out, ignored, and often get insults from the other 2. I would give tips but I can't. I'm currently the outcast and it's really hard to find your way out. Praying for your luck during the journey!
1st person - j
2nd person- e
3rd person- me
1= k
2= c
3= me
( new friend group )
1= me
2= s ,a
Old friend group when I was with them I was the favourite I always tried my best so they would never feel left out
Same
I used to be 3. Everyone was ignoring me but soon they started to like me. If your friend group feels fake, start to hang out with others
I used to be the outcast but i’m not anymore
Nahhh come on now.. i just was like "yay im not emotional anymore" and i started tearing up on this🗿
Meh tooo🥺
Lol same 🙂🙂
I'm still emotionless🤙🏼🤙🏼
@@lingling8964 same 🤙
@@justsomeone61 slay💪💪
I hate when this happens, but I'm happy someone understood and made a vid abt it
My friends are like that and I straight up told them, “trios don’t work..” they got mad and said I was overreacting and I was being annoying. I said that I felt left out and then they said “ok.? We had a good time and that’s all that matters” I was heartbroken 💔
I would just pretend they weren’t there, play with other people that aren’t as toxic. Those “friends” are just straight up toxic.
They aren’t your “friends”
@@pumpkinpopz that would be what I would do, just ignore them, pretend they don't exist and hang out with other friend that are actually nice
That's the problem.. people nowdays don't care about others emotions.. until they don't go through the same shit..
Hope you will get some good friends one day ❤.
Dump their asses
this happened to me and I left that group then they came crawling back like "the group isn't the same without you" and "we miss you" and "why did you leave us" LIKE BTCH YOU DIDN'T EVEN ACKNOWLEDGE MY PRESENCE WHEN I WAS THERE,SO DON'T ACT LIKE YOU CARE NOW JUST BECAUSE I WAS THE GLUE IN THAT GROUP! I did stay with one friend and she is a whole new person she got her life together but the other girls need their shit together
Edit:I didn't think so many people could relate, ty for the support 🥺😊
The same happened to me. I was friends with these two girls, then they just kind of went off on their own, could say they cut me out. Then I made friends with this other girl in my year and then the other two came back to me one day saying that they missed me and wanted me to join their group again, but they didn't want my other friends to come with me and that they were going to tell them to back off. I said to them that if they wanted me back in the group, my other friends had to come too, otherwise no. I carried on being with my other friends.
On God same thing happened to me. Like how can you say "come back" "we miss you" when you ignored me and treated me like garbage the whole time i was with you????
I completely HATE people like that, they ignore you, never wait for you, don't care about you, you feel like you don't exist. I would cry in the bathroom, wishing I was with my old friends and wishing I could be cooler. I hate this SOO MUCHHH
At least they tried to get you back..
@@Pongocity. They are crawling roaches, they will only repeat what they did previously
whenever that happens I start to tear up and my brain is like: " DO NOT LET IT GO, DO NOT LET IT-"
**tears flow**
Oh lol 1.2K likes? Thank you all 😭
SO ACCURATE
Gurl i am the same way i just cry for no reason it's almost like i can't control it
Why are we so accurate-
same gurl that is so accurate
Don't think about NOT crying. Think about OTHER things. For example, "I just got a new promotion!" "I passed a test yesterday!"
i can relate.. but i have been stronger. if ur reading this and ur going through the same thing, find friends that support u through all times, ur worth so much more than to cry over fake friends! stay strong! ❤
girl just explained my whole life in 60secs
I’m in a group of four but somehow the trio gets on well and then there’s me
i just say “your laugh is so weird so i’m laughing”
I got bullied a lot and would laugh WITH the bullies. They'd turn to me confused "you realize we're laughing at you right?" ..."Yeah it was funny though?" ...Confused the hell out of them and made more than a few of them give me a wider berth. :P
Lol
This is why friend groups over 2 never work. Everytime in my life when I've tried and trusted people and made a trip of friends, I always have to end things. I hate it.
Over two can work, it’s just when it’s an odd number that it doesn’t because there’s always an outlier
Fours work if there is 2 sets of best friends, but trio's never work like if u go on a roller coaster the two besties will always sit next to each other and then you'll get left out.
im in a trio rn
@@TheLettuceArchon hope you don't get left out and that everything works out x
Tbh not never, i have a group with 2 others and we never leave one of us out
I feel it so much and my Best friend is feeling it to 😭😭
This is insanely true.
Please if you are in a trio group, please, please! Do not let this happen.
It can majorly affect the group.
This feels like it happening with my gang a bit and this is relatable…
Well that's sad :/
Who do u think is getting left out?
If it's you in so sorry
But then you shouldn't really be in that group
Try finding a new one!
If this helped I'm glad
it started as just me and my friend, then this girl came and started hanging out with us, which i have no problem with.
she became sad when me and my bestie would hang out without her, (even tho me and bestie have been together for whole life)
@Sagarika Mohapatra we do invite her to some things, it’s just we want to be just us sometimes, and she gets offended by that
@@bananna_309 try to make her understand. Please don't let this happen further.
when i was younger, i start crying. now when im older, i start "ignoring" these people. pretending to be in my own world until they "snap" me out of it. and was like "huh? oh okay", even though ive heard everything. 💀
Same. Had some rude girls who slowly started to get mean. Before they were ok ish. I just wanted friends and people to be kind. I have better friends now, but one of those mean girls recently apologized. I expected, cuz she was amazing, and used to often lean away from the group(cuz they were and still are mean). The other actually nice girls stopped being friends with them, and now I'm friends with the kind girls. I can talk to the girl that apologized, cuz she's still friends with the mean girls, and one of them threatened her to make sure she said nothing to me. But we smile at each other and wave once in a while. I told her to get out of there....but she wont
Same bro
to anybody who is currently/has gone through these types of situations, you are still awesome and such and dont let those people bring you down. do whats best for your mental health! maybe even ditch them. yer don’t deserve those people.
Ty for the motivation
Thank you.I needed that I’m sick of being pushed down by my friends.
Thanks, i had a friend and both of us were friends for 6-7 years , and now she always ignores me.
Everything was started when A (let's just say A, bc I dont want to expose) When A wanted to join our friend, we started to became 5 , And then lately theres only me , my old friend, and A , and now they both ignore me and never invt me again
I ever got rlly sad but then I realized they r just not good for me, and than crying in the corner, it'll be better to find new friend that you deserve
Thanks this happened to me in real life. And I've never been supported😊
Thank you so much. I really appreciate this❤
I'm so sorry if you had such kind of friends! 😢
I used to :(
i’m not even in a trio group but there’s two people is my group that always go out without asking and constantly laugh.
laughing isnt “mean” unless theyre actually being mean
this is always me. we're friends enough to hang out but not enough to get invited anywhere
same…
I feel this …
This is how I feel every time I meet up with my best friends during the weekend
:(
Same
Then sorry you are not best friend for them
I’m so sorry for everyone going through this it’s the most worst and painful feeling EVER! I’ve been through this 2 times and if you are too it’s best you say you don’t want to hang out anymore because you feel left out and maybe talk about it to them as well if u want to but if they still do it then just leave without saying anything and try to make new friends
a trio always contains a duo.
It’s the worst feeling also when they talk about plans infront of you and don’t invite you
i feel that all the time
omg bro i hate it
Exactly.
Same last year my class asked all my class to go out not me tho and still talk abt it I had to go through counselling bc of there immaturity:( you also have to look happy in front of them when they were never happy for u
I feel that 😭it hurts
Hurts so much when I see my friends posting photos of them hanging out and not even on of them asked me to go with them.
True that, is painful
No one cares
Are you really happy with them ,ask this question to yourself if it makes you feel like that you are not happy with them then first try to talk to them if you cannot then try talking to other people there will be someone waiting for you and will value you , always remember people can be bad and good it's up to you who you choose ✨
@@syedawania8510 can I get your Instagram? I wanna talk to u. It's okay if u can't. I'm sorry if I asked too much
@@syedawania8510 okay thanks
2 things that are worse is when you met someone first and then became friends...but the third person comes in and takes your spot so your ignored.
The other thing is when you try to find other friends because your "friends" are ignoring you so you TRY to find a best friend but everyone already had best friends so your the only one without a best friend... :(
This is me in my trio
EXACTLY
It just hurts me on how much I can relate to this
Same
Same
My BFF has another BFF and I was not hers. It was so painful to hear that my best friend was laughing and talking about things with her... And I didn't even know what was it. I was home bored, and they called me how great time they have, are together somewhere... It's really painful when person that knows everything about you, and is for you the best friend, has you only as some friend from school... I always feel alone, that I cannot trust anyone, and I probably have some serious psychical problems... I know about social anxiety, little depression (not chronic or some really hard depression), Anxiety attacks. I had those so much that sometimes I don't even know if I have one or I just feel anxious since I got used to it. I am afraid to tell my parents since I'm scared they would be afraid... Uh.. okay. Thanks random person on internet if you read this.
Your not alone. Five of my best friends dumped me and the sixth one moved away yesterday (literally yesterday). I reslly hope your doing well. I know that it feels real shit rn but itll get better. Whether it takes 10s, 10 days, or 10 years.
Thinking of u 😔
I made a friend whom I considered my closest. But even to this day , she hangs out with her desk mate and other than that she just ignores me or uses me when it's needed. When I'll be talking to her she'll suddenly look around , play with others , laugh with others or do some other work of hers. She won't even notice if I stopped talking in the middle. I tried that multiple times and she just ignores me or goes "oh" "hmm" we had an inside joke (or atleast I thought we did) because I was a year smaller than all my classmates , I should be everyone's little sister as well as hers and while we were filling our examination forms , she saw my birthdate and went "You wrote the wrong year" I just wanted to slap her at that exact moment. Even after all that she didn't know my age , my full name , birth day , any of my friends . She always comes to talk to me whenever something happens with her crush or she tells me everything crazy that happened. But when I say so , she's uninterested or says "Oh okay". Yesterday she blabbered on with how her crush gave her a chocolate and then I was telling her abt how a prefect was being rude to me. She again looked around and ignored. I told her openly at that moment to never talk to me again if she's uninterested in what I talk and only wants to use me. She still doesn't care that much. I feel like I took a lot of weight off of my shoulder. Sorry for the long para. I read yours and I could relate so much. Anxiety hits so hard all of a sudden that I wanna cry. I have only one true friend currently but she's in another class. The ones whom I thought were my friends always message me asking for help in their assignments ,portions , exams etc. I'm not smart but they know that I go all limits to help. I call everyone or try to dig up everything just to help. But when I ask them for even the most simplest help , they leave me on read .
I relate
Bro, is it illegal for your best friend to have another best friend? girls fr-
@@Pudding_zip I get this. Even I had a friend who always says her stories and doesn't even let me speak even if I do she shows no interest. I know all her past and she doesn't know anything of mine neither she asked nor wanted to know. Idk why people are like this. Conversation should be both the sides.
Fr tho, I'm the third girl in the trio... My best friend made a new friend closer to her age and when all three of us were hanging out at the mall I felt so left out they were the one talking the whole time and laughing while I just sat there... Then both of them make fun of me even my best friend and they laugh AT ME idk why or what I did wrong... So i made new friends but they ditched me and ghosted me so I'm use to it honestly bc this has been happening to me all my life so far, when I was 9 I had 2 friends and they both stabbed me in the back, then I moved a million times lost more friends then a few years later I turned 11 made a new friends then they left me for other ppl, when I turned 12 I only had one friend left my best friend then I made 2 new friends but one of them were toxic and would take my best friend away from me and make fun of me and the other one just left and I never saw her again now I'm 13 almost 14 and I only have one friend left the same best friend I've been talking about but I don't see her that much anymore only like once a week for 2 to 4 hours and that's it... So honestly I'm use to it now, ppl forget about me all the time they ditch me or make fun of me or back stabb me and I'm tired of it but I'm trying to stay positive and not to give up hope and not doubt myself so much.... So everybody reading this comment plz don't give up don't doubt yourself and always be kind you are an amazing person and you are strong don't ever forget that and don't let others bring you down!
no need to keep such friend....pretty sure you would lose nothing if you just cut them off entirely...just stay with your new friends who actually treat you better.
hey! i hope you're doing good. i know, it's hard what you're going throught right now, but i just want to let you know, that i have been in the same situation, and I'm not making this about myself, I'm just trying to tell you, that i know how you feel and tbh, it's such a horrible feeling to feel, when you feel like nobody understands you and you don't have anybody to call your actual "friend" but just know that all of these things happening to you is only a test of your patience and it's only gonna make you stronger and stronger. I used to feel that i need to please them or change the way i am just in order to make them like me, but no, you don't do that. what you do instead is focus on yourself and your self-growth. you need to know that all those people are not good for you, your mental, emotional and physical health. you shouldn't be going around all the time and trying to make friends or find your people, belive me when the time will be right, you will eventually find them or they'll find you. people who will respect you, will make you feel included, would understand you and your feelings and will definitely make you feel happy. so, just focus on yourself and I'm sure you'll find your people, you will find the bestest friends ever and all of those people who are making fun of you rn will be regretting it one day and even if they don't ( they sure as hell will tho) you shouldn't care ( ik, it's hard not to care cause it's human nature) but you will grow and will be very more mature than you already are, and will be very very happy and successful in your life. I'm telling you all of this as a big sister, who's been there and has felt everything you're feeling right now. so, just know that you are loved and so much more, wish you all the best with everything in life, i love you.
@@dinkybansal688 Awwww… that is so sweet ❤
hun you're not alone. I wish i could be friends with you...
Are you me or what literally same even also in third grade
As the person who is left out most of the time, I feel this and it actually hurts a lot more than you may think so to anyone else out there who is in that position, you deserve better
fr, even though this was forever ago i still remember it like the back of my hand. in 5th grade, i was in so many trio friendships, they’d be laughing at something and every time it would be “you wouldn’t understand” 💀
Ik one of my friends always says to me -my name- doesn't get it
This video is the same that my friends do to me
As a person with a trio group this is so relatable, I am that one left out, the one that walks behind the two. The one not included, and yet, I manage to be helpful and polite to them and they basically bully me. They all act like they have the worst problems ever and it’s like they got cheated on by their trashy bfs while I’m the one being tossed and played around like an object and having to consider sewer slide because I feel unlikable and that no one enjoys me at all. Oops I vented ☠️☠️
that's it i'm getting my dagger.
bailey, DROP THEM PLEASE.
BE BESTIES WITH YOURSELF
Get new friends please
I feel so thankful for my friend circle. They never make me feel left out, even though I'm the boring person ever. Good people exist, and I hope you get some real friends someday! :)
Lucky, i remember times in 2grade and my two bestfriends would always keep secrets from me lets say one was lilly and the other one was kinzy and im bella "kinzy! Kinzy! (Whispers in kinzys ear)" "HAHA" "whats so funny?" "sorry we cant tell you"
It’s the fact that everyone will most likely talk to you if you’re the only option left.
This is so relatable except when I ask them what they’re laughing about they usually tell me to go away 💔
this is actually one of my biggest fears either being left out or replaced or making someone feel left out or replaced so thats why im always scared to make a friend group
This was 5 years of my life I was in a trio and whenever they only had one spot to take someone they would take each other and my “best friend” was part of this and then I relived how bad she was and how toxic I’m still friends with the other girl but we’re in a new trio and me and the other girl have both been the ones left out and now the one from the previous trio is kinda the one who gets left out and I feel horrible because I know how it feels 😢
Basically you were in fake friendship
I’m so confused
@@Evie_Rae same
This is so hard to understand
@@21LUKEE. yeah pretty much
Same with my 2 friends on the weekend they had a sleepover on the weekend and I didn't knew about anything so the next day at school they were talking and laughing about the sleepover and I came over and "what you guys laughing about" and they respond "oh nothing, we just had a sleepover on the weekend" making me jealous and then I started laughing because I loved how they we're but then they said "What you laughing at you weren't even there!?" Feeling so much pain in the inside...
i can relate to this so bad. This happened to me recently in my gc full of all my friends. they were talking about something and I was just reading the texts cause I was cooking, 2 minutes later when no one was talking I decided to randomly tell them that I was cooking corn and how it looked so good but none of my friends even replied to me. I wen't back to cooking until I heard a notification sound from my phone to find out that they were continuing to talk about something and ignored me.
I'm sorry
@@karlijnvandenberg475 For what?
@@classictriovlogs he meant to say that he felt bad for you
If they keep ignoring you then let them ignore , you try talking to other people ,sometimes there are so many good people in our surrounding but we don't know that because we don't talk to them or open up but when you open up sometimes it's just a new beginning of a friendship . find someone who values you and listens to you but it's not like they have to be the one to listen all the time it's your role too to listen to them ✨
Ikr😭
"why are you so clingy?!"
"I..I'm afraid it'll happen again"
so true🥺😔
What's worse is when it's more than 2 friends. 2 friends just hanging out without you is fine but if it's your whole friend group without you it's the worst.
Edit: Thanks for the likes!
That’s me :/
I have a friend group of 4 they share inside jokes and stuff but I am never invited
Literally me 😢
Literally me!! There’s like 7 of us and only 4 out of the group went on to hangout together
Thats me I may have talked abty trio but there's this one other girl who's kinda latching on to our trio and its like my two friends and that other girl are in their on trio now.
As the 3rd friend, I literally knew the leader of the friend group for 6 years, and she still chooses someone who ignores us over me, and they always talk about their sleepovers or some shit. It's so fucking depressing, and to add they didn't even notice or care that I was gone for 4 days.
We all had that one person immediately come to mind.
That one person is meh /:
(In my friend group)
Ye
There’s 2 in mine
I’m that 3rd person in this friend group that’s been going on for 3-2 years now. This girl yells at me if she gets mad, she is always doing stuff with the other girl in our friend group. I can’t even trust them. This video really touched my heart 💜 I’m really sorry for everyone else.
Thats me we used to be besties but I was always left out so now we are only friends
Me too :(
DONT BE FRIENDS WITH THEM!! toxic friendships/relationships can get very serious very quickly. you -DO NOT- want it to get to that point. i speak from experience
@@laineyqueen7677 I try to avoid them but my siblings are friend with their siblings so I’m kinda stuck but yea I get it…
That’s why whenever my two friends start talking (I’m not going to tell you from where) I just start to slowly walk away
Sameee bro sameee
Same..
Same
Yeah but i don't know if it's right or wrong because she was my friend first then her's
I feel this way. I’m in a friend group of 5 and I’m always left out. They’re all super rich and my family isn’t. They all can afford expensive things and I can’t. Because of this they don’t like me much. 💔
I am in a group of 5, but recently dropped them. All they care about are their crushes. Like I have one, but they make fun of me because of it. But I have other friends
Same but I didn't have a friend group and am now in year six
as someone who never experienced being in a trio but someone who experienced something similar to this, it's horrible when two people you know leave you out of plans and pretend like you don't exist. Especially when you're the one who brought them together.
𝐄𝐱𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲!!
Exactly omg
WXACTLY
That happened to me but now they are nice
@@PinkielovesKanaoWHY DOESN'T THIS HAVE MORE LIKES
This hurts me so bad... because I relate to this too much, sometimes my friends treat me like shit and like I don’t exist
I get the feeling ❤
My advice is to make peace with being alone
It’s much better than being around toxic waste ❤
Ditch them then… I know it’s hard tho
Hits different when you are highly sensitive 🥲.
I am and my friend Vanessa hit me right on my chest and i cried and they ignored me
@@monicacost161 omg are you okay?? Did she hit you physically or mentally? I am sorry if this is making you uncomfortable
Omg for reaaaall ☹️
Yep after something like this happens I get so stressed I often just go to the bathroom stall to cry it’s so pathetic 🥲
Ikr
My friend zaina has felt this because she thinks she is a third wheel cuz only her two other friends wouldn't hangout with her. when her best friend in the trio is away she would hang with zaina
As a person who experience it everyday and I don't know why it happens only with me like where ever I go people have have other bffs and me here thinking them as they are my bffs.. this shit hurts 💔
"What are you laughing about when you weren't even there?"
Me : *"You."*
💀💀
I’ve never related to something so accurate in my life
Why is that SO relatable 🥲
This is the most relatable thing ever. Tha you get the whole "Oh, we would've invited you but it was soo last minute" LIKE I DONT CARE, EVEN IF I COULDN'T MAKE IT AN INVITE STILL WOULD'VE MEANT A LOT!!!!!!!!
Oh trust me it would. I get a a LOT of invites but I don't have the permission to go. It would hurt becuz you will get an invite, really want to go there and then you don't have the permission so you will be sad that you missed out. So it is better to know after that event ended even though it still hurts
Its always last minute 🙄
@@foreverfaith7892 every. single. time.
been through it too 😭 I was in this friend group of 4 actually, it was originally a trio but then the other 3 left me out, so I just decided to leave, and now they remain a trio and I’ve noticed that their trio is sort of undiversed which kinda makes me sad for them :(
I used to be a trio but then one of my besties moved away and the other one was my bff but replaced me and ignores me even though her bff moved away to japan so I have no bff. I was so many peoples bff but I was never theirs. I still am alone today.
@@clarissexoxo25 Awh I’m so sorry about that :( I’m always here for you if you need anything, or need to vent ❤️
@@theneneproject thank you so much
And then my parents wonder why don’t hang out with my friends after school..
everyone ingnore me and how can I feel happy even if I hang out with them.I feel like they just left me behind.
From nursery class i have understood that trio never work and never will work atleast for me. Its better to have one friend atleast u r not left out 🙁
That’s literally how I feel when they are like talking about what happened and how much fun they had and am just there feeling so left out 😢
I used to hang out with people like this but then I switched friends and now my self esteem is so much higher! Don't let people treat you bad!
You did the right thing ✨but still stay nice to others don't let your character down if you will be nice to them it will make them feel that you really don't care 😌✨
@@syedawania8510 Thank you but I tried that. The girl I hung out with wouldn't let me have any friends but never wanted to hang out with me.
Four words in this song that absolutely shatter me *” I’m just a phase.”*
Edit:Omg TYSM for all the likes! I never gotten this many 💖💖💖
Actually though
3 Years I was the talk in school, having the time of my life. being friends with everyone.
3 Years later everyone just... Don't like me anymore, to the point where almost everyday I feel just plain sad.
actually it’s “I am just a freak” but people mistaken it as “i’m just a phase” no hate!!
@@thatonewavetoearthgirl oh ok ty for telling me
@@who202 same bro when I was new everyone talked with me and adored me till someone new showed up
Don't cry I am just a fish
Everytime I'm in a friend group no matter how many people I'm always that friend
You know, I met my friend in 5th grade and he introduced me to his friend, so all of us would just hang out and see each other outside of school, so you can say that we were a trio and everyone in that trio made sure that nobody was left out no matter what, I guess that's why we're still best buddies to this day
How old are u now?
I'm happy for ya :)
I happy for u cause I'm in the worst trio on earth and it's like it isn't even a trio it's a duo cause I am always left out
@@Tommy06235 is it a must to ask?
Lucky
“wHAT aRe you LAUghing at”
Me:Your face (Suga teaches me)
*Continues to laugh*
But no actually I would say that
Suga is a savage teacher (I army too 💜)
Something I would say [ savage meow's training]
Who is suga
Y’all are Stans…
Army forever 💜💜
That’s me in EVERY friend group I’ve ever had, Once two of my friends went on a walk and when I saw them at school the next day that’s all they could talk about and when I tried to join in the conversation they walked away. I also had a friend group which they would call behind my back and talk smack about me.
For the people who are dealing with getting left out in a friend group remember that you don't need friends and if they meant to go it's always for the best cz God has a better plan for you and he will give you the people who will truly care for you ❤
From experience, the 2 friends would not have met without the left out friend...
This is literally so true
@@Spud-j8x ikrr they always leave u out even though ur the one to intoduce them
exactlyyyy
fr
And then then start bully and backtalk be :/
This reminds me of my BEST friends bonding WAY more with my other friends in class, because of the seating arrangement and they say "We fr made a new friend group hahahah!" and they always have fun and laugh in class, while I sit in front of the class, trying to laugh and go to their row to feel included, but then I get called to sit back in my seat, sitting there alone, once again.
Why is this every line to line detail to detail the same thing thats happening to me like even the front bench part
@@iambadatdrawing bro me too
@@zenoyt2 fr
If you relate to me then I'm sorry for that. Life's shitty sometimes.
Ikr!!!!!😭😭😭😭
Glad to know it's not just me who feels like this. But the difference is I'm on a larger group of friend, it's like 7-8 people and I hate it when it happens, they'll ignore me and continued talking to themselves without including me. I always tried to talk to them but they just have zero interest in me and just responded with "yeah" or "wow" as if they didn't listen at all. Sometime I also hear from my other friend that they talks about me when I'm not there. I don't know what is wrong with me and why they hate me, but that actually makes me so depressed and overthink. It's just so painful😔😭
Edit: thank you so much for you guys in the reply who cares about me and left some encouraging and advice comments!😭❤️ You guys really made me feel a lot better, ILY so much guys I really mean it:")))
TW:kinda venting
When I tell them something that makes me sad, kinda venting to them like saying "I'm sick, I have the flu. I'm also emotionally drained" she says "oof. Anyways." Like. Atleast PRETEND like you want to listen. :/.
I used to be in a friend group like that too... Then I left that friend group because when I said hello they just ignored me..
Of course I am in a new friend group and things are turning out alright..
I hope you find better friends too 😊
It can be something much darker honestly. You should look into it more
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, don't worry. The problem lies with them.
I'm sorry if this means going out of your comfort zone but I suggest you find some new friends.
You deserve to be treated better than this, not like some outcast. Trust me, I've been where you are now and I'm so much happier now that I've left my old 'friends'.
I sincerely hope you move on from them and find good people to hang out with. You're so worth the time and effort that your current friends aren't giving you
Literally me. It’s the most aggravating thing
They always say “you weren’t there so don’t worry about it. 😂”
It’s sad when you’re the only one who’s left out,it’s like they don’t even know you exist but for me, it is when I have a best friend but she start talking to another person. Day by day she started ignoring me and my texts,when I ask her about it she’ll be like “oh sorry I was talking to someone else” or “oh I am busy “I think all of those people do not understand me, not even one bit.
I feel you
Don't suppress your feelings..let them know what you feel and if they shows no concern even after having an open conversation, leave them. It's best for both you and them ...
Same!!
So i had a trio group, we three were the bestest friends and helped each other no matter what. But in middle school, a girl joined that completely changed EVERYTHING. She didn't mean to, but she is like the PERFECT girl someone has ever met, my friends got attracted towards her and REPLACED me, they didn't realise it but it always felt like I was left out, they later on realised that they were doing wrong. Both of my friends apologized me, and the girl was sorry to because she didn't intentionally wanted to steal my friends, turns out that girl was kind.
Now I'm happy and almost about to end middle school with my three friends, we are like the best group ever!
Same except another friend joined who was a friend of the first girl that joined. We used to be such a happy 4 but now they’re the happy 4 and I’m the unhappy 1
@@Itznush1 im sorry to hear that 😔
@@artsyinsights it’s fine it’s gotten kinda better
This is like so relatable because literally all my friend groups except one has been a trio and there is always two people who r closer than the other. Most of the time my friend were really nice and like instead of just laughing together they like explained the story to me and honestly that feels so much better than having to just stand there and be silent. It's also so annoying when two friends team up on you or like think that they r better than u, this has only occurred in one friend group thankfully, I honestly feel much better on groups of two, four or more, it's just harder to be left out I feel.
Its also like real annoying when u say something in ur opinion pretty funny and understandable and ur friends just look at u and shrug, pretend not to hear and pretend to not understand and then ur other friend says something that's like not at all that funny and unclear or just starts mock stuttering and your other friend starts laughing.
Dude I thought I was the only one lol like if I mess with one friend they said I take it to far and the other buts in and agrees and they start being rude and saying I’m in the wrong and I’m like ok I guess you guys can joke around something that I TAKE PERSONAL but if I say I do then you guys call me out saying I’m sensitive like you guys so only you guys can joke like cussing me out but if I do the same it’s not ok makes a lot of sense 🙄
That is why I want to distance from my friends. I love them over all things but I have a feeling like I will distroy their friendship that works so well and I would hate that, but I'm afraid of being alone so I don't really know what to do. I just think distancing from them would work rlly good