The WORST Woman Ever? How Giga-Chad Ruined His Life
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- If you invite the wrong woman (a total train wreck) into your life, it can end VERY badly like it did for this jacked fitness model.
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excellent advice as always sir thanku 🤜
Your audiobook was great btw!
rich says nobody hates a looser! people only hate on winners!!! & hes dead right!!
the guy is winning at life..its hard but if u like the nice things in life u have to do the work!!
people don't like winners cos there to lazy to get off there arse and put the hard work in..I see it all the time
@Bill Gates Dude, why are you even here?
@Bill Gates Ok, cool. But why are you angry at Cooper?
I'm not interested in 100% of Rich Cooper's or anybody's advice but some of it is good, for example: Work on yourself (personally and professionally), Chase Excellence, Watch for red flags with everyone, relationships with certain types women are more problematic than others, try to be the best version of yourself, Remove toxic people from your life. This is great advice for any man.
I'm always suspicious when a woman always trash her exes, but she was a perfect little angel who can do no wrong.
@Elvir Doko Not sure thats right. I was with a woman for a year, and when she mentioned ex boyfriends she always seemed to take some of the blame.
@@RedEverything yeah just like those few women who pay bills , or split the bills. It's not only us who are getting red pilled bro, the woman are also updating their finessing skills.
If she is sincerely apologetic about the mistakes she commited at the past, watch her actions closely. If there is only remorse talk or actual action plan on a permanent basis.
100 percent. This is a fact.
@@Ladliju1 “women are updating their finessing skills”. You nailed it bro. People make the mistake of conflating human nature (differences between men and women) with intelligence and that is a dangerous assumption. Woman can and will and are adjusting. Good insight on your part. More guys need to start putting emphasis on actions versus words.
@@greymatters14 Imagine my shock, while still being bluepilled at the time, finding out that my sweetheart used to fuck a married man before she met me. Good Lord im so grateful for the redpill community being the father I never had.
One thing all these 'abusive , loser ex's' have in common is...she chose them.
Tom Leykis shout out.
You're not supposed to say that.
YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO SHOUT IT! Let those in the back hear you.
Dam right
you are correct , .... That's why some experience with women are crucial and not to mention reading at least one psychology book and actually have some healthy boundaries. Some men do absolutely "everything" getting the pussy like it was the last pussy on the planet, like buy her manipulation to get a rewarded and play into their games. If you give up your own boundaries and values , don't expect to get reward from a normal healthy individual
Totally. Any time a woman tries to pull me / approaches me first I'm highly suspicious.
Cheerleader for Miami Heat = professional "train" conductor
More like team bicycle , everyone’s has had a turn on it!
Choo CHOO OOOOO!!!!
And maybe professional rail tunnel?
CheW CheW 🚂🚂🚂🚂🚂 🤪
Oh damn
My daughter is 13. Agree 100% with Rich that at 7 she was the sweetest person around. Now at 13 I have to remind every once in a while who's house she lives in, who's food she's eating, who bought the tablet she's always using and so on. She gets the message but after a bit of time the attitude starts to appear and then I give her another reminder. It's a cycle.
Damn, I am so happy that I have a boy who is and always has been just the chillest sweetest dude ever at 17. I guess women are born this way. They just call for a strong hand. Again and again. It is so strenuous.
@@DocFischer it's exhausting. To be expected to regulate and ungrateful adult in the same way as a child and then be told you're the "bad guy" even though it's how women naturally want to be treated. Who has time for this?
Damn. Mine is 8 and already a handful. Disrespecting me. Probably got that from mom who left me for her Chad. Never marrying again
@@DocFischer good to know, my boy is only 12 and still sweet and funny and positive as can be. I'm really hoping that will stay through the teen years and beyond. Any tips?
My daughter is nine and a little princess, but I am absolutely terrified of the future. Especially when I'm very old fashioned in the common sense idea that "you get respect when you give respect" and when you disrespect, you get....
Society will never admit that women will openly try and destroy a man’s life if the man doesn’t do what she wants.
That’s the truth
Like spoiled children they've become
It is our fault....who gave them "rights"
Basicly... ,,be a real man and do ... " means - do what I wanna do, get
@@e.paradigm7415 Social media has made things 100 x worse….narcissistic spoiled brats
“Speaks 4 languages, has 2 degrees”
Goes great with “Filed for bankruptcy”
Modern women are amazing. They can really do it all. Imagine being able to be bankrupt and in debt, yet be strong and independent at the same time. Truly impressive. On top of that, she can even tell her creditors to F off in 4 different languages. Now that is a real boss babe.
"Can women have it all?"
Damn right they can 🤪👑🤣
Hahahaha........
😏
That's rich ;)
@Tango Salsa um, yeah?
Paternity fraud is skyrocketing. Father need to conduct Paternity test before signing the birth certificate.
Nah it always existed and it was a lot more common when our society was poorer
I just turned 30, my dad informed me that my mother was being sketchy around the time of my conception and that he isnt sure im his.
@@RedEverything so go get tested.
@@Shyhalu Yes!
And pay for their own paternity tests. There are online business selling fraudulent paternity tests that women can buy to lie to the ''father''. Some of them seem quite legit too.
What most women want;
" The power and benefits of a man
The privilege and entitlement of a woman and the
responsibility and accountability of a child!"
Damn
Unfortunately,
most likely she has a npd or bpd disorder
PERFECT 🔥🔥🔥
Hit the nail on the head so hard it went through the fking board
mostly anyways lol
As a rule, if a woman, especially if you know her to be unstable, demands that you get her pregnant in short order she’s usually already pregnant by another guy.
Very often they are pregnant by another guy anyway (30-40% nowadays) and this will soon become the majority. Society's final collapse will follow shortly after that.
I am 65 years old with life experience on marriage and dating. If you decide to get married, it is impossible to know what you will be getting. You don't know because THEY CHANGE. They are all sweet and giving at the start. She is capable of becoming pure evil if they decide to wander.
Don't ever sign the marriage license.
@Tango Salsa yeah “hope”. Unfortunately that “hope” can ruin your life financially if it doesn’t work out.
a license...hmm... making something illegal, legal.
you just invited the government as the 3rd party, guess who owns the future "product" of your "marriage".
Did Adam have a license?
To add on to this ; there’s this age old saying.... Men marry women thinking they’ll stay the same and they always change - women marry marry thinking they’ll change and they never do
I’m 33 and I fully agree with you
Im a teen are you sure my friend?
So, simply, don't ever get married.
I am divorced :)
Having been raised by a single mother, I never had these life lessons when I was young. I had to learn everything the hard way. UA-cam didn't exist back then. So glad that people like Rich are helping to offer guidance to struggling young men.
Yeah, he's doing gods work
@@davidhenderson5051 more like the absent dads work.
@@jacobwiebe1460 Amen
@@jacobwiebe1460I just want to remind you, out of respect for the fathers that lost custody in divorce court, that not every child of a single mother has an absent dad.
My dad divorced my mom because she's nuts. But in 1982, where I'm from, the mother ALWAYS won custody. So my dad was given visitation rights every other weekend. That's only 4 days a month to teach a boy to be a man. But he was there those 4 days, not absent. Still not enough but more honorable than an absent dad. He did what little he could with what little the system allowed him.
@@nightmaster6381 thanks. Your respectful reminder does not detract from my point though. Some dads can influence a child more in one day a week than other dads do everyday.
My mom trashed talked my dad ALWAYS (now divorced). Even though he worked night shift and had 2 jobs at one point just to provide for us. Now that I am a bit older I realize that she really provided next to no value in that relationship and SHE was the one who should have been contributing more.
Lillian Reardon in Atlas Shrugged is the queen of this type of woman. Brilliant archetype of a woman who tried to keep a brilliant man under control like they do with race horses.
Very similar situation with me as well man.
That's all wives
Same here. Headfuck.
My ex did that to me to the point my 3 daughters haven't spoken to me in 4 yrs
He is going to be hurt the worst when the ‘daughter’ tells him he is not her dad and reopen wounds he is now suffering from.
Yup. "You can't tell me what you do, you're not my real dad." This will inevitably happens in her teen. The mom will defend her to the bitter end.
@@iamgroot8954 yes those words do come out 13-17
but their welfare is dependent on you.. stand your ground,
then they know their own and your boundaries, even if means you say .."you don't like it get out". Your "rulership" of the house will be challenged...but that is just rebellion - dad or not. Many a generation had to deal with this too, nothing new under the sun ! Tough love... they will see you as "my stepdad" eventually. Love conquers all. It's your greatest gift to give, they will not see it as such at this age though.
@@safeway3168 you a stepdad bro?
Exactly
My mom tried to make me scared of my dad because he was such an "evil man", she always threatened me to sent me to my father when I was not listening. I never had a bond with my mom and always wanted to be far away from her. Even had nightmares about her at a young age. She went from disaster boyfriend to another disaster. Trying to fix their lives and neglected me and my sisters. Lately she's hanging out with "an old friend" who awfully looks like me. She said "he doesn't want to meet us, because he wants to keep it simple". I'm at a stage where I actually don't care. I now live half way across the world with no toxic mom around me. I've learned a lot and for those out there in similar situations. I'm doing great. Work on yourself, talk to friends or a professional about it and give it peace. Finally had the courage to telling my mom about it and she cried the whole conversation. She didn't admit and I still don't have a connection with her but at least I got it off my chest. Don't have nightmares ever since. 1 step closer to excellence.
Well done. A successful future is on the way for you.
Do you still keep in touch with your dad?
Glad you confronted your mom early of what she did.
Nothing shall remain hidden, truth is the antidote, to set you free and heal.
@@illyrian8991 I contacted him like a couple of months ago, we mail some back and forth. There's a huge barrier between us. The thing that bother me a little is everything has to come from my side. But I'm still in the fase of closing this chapter for me.
Keep ya head up boss
the fact that she was poor financially and 11 years older than him should've been the biggest No-No for the dude, but sometimes these women know how to totally take over a guy's mind and heart which makes it hard for the man to think rationally.
Its often the need of a man to play the hero
One of the criteria for high earning men should be to analyse not just what she earns, but how she spends things, her attitude to money. Of course passion and lust usually takes over logic.
Where was his mom. I mean, any "serious" gf, you bring to mom. Any mom would be like get rid of that bag of shit
Take over his meat muscle you mean
She manipulated him with her pussy ! Obviously he did not have any wisdom
You called him “saucy, and juicy as hell” one too many times for me bro 😂
😂😂😂😂
Ikr lol
he's gotta be watching moreplatesmoredates channel
Super gey
NO HOMO, BRUH.
This is going to get a little personal but this is what I' think Rich is talking about (I can't do what my Dad did) we moved to Alberta in 68 my parents split up in 1969, I was 5 my Dad went back home to Ontario and as far as I knew left me behind, he came back a year later wanting his TV back (my mother said) so he drove 2500 miles to get back his TV?? we started moving after that, every year a new place, it was difficult cause I was always having to make new friends, when I was 9 (my Dad showed up out of no where) he found us through my moms sister, then when I was 11, 13 and again at 15, I always wondered why I never received a birthday card or Christmas present, never a phone call, I started therapy 6 months ago after my cancer surgery, had a conversation with my mother shortly after, my therapy was becoming more than just about the cancer, some things as a grown man didn't add up, side note (my mother suffered Mental illness was in and out of hospitals most of my older sisters life), so when I was 5 my father wanted to take me with him back to Ontario, (she wouldn't let him (I was her welfare check) when he came back a year later, it wasn't his TV he wanted, when I was 9, my Aunty called him, told him the abuse I was suffering at the hands of yet another drunken boyfriend, this happens again and again, I didn't know every time he came, he was trying to rescue me, I was a kid, I hated him my whole life, thinking he had left me behind, found out my mother throw out birthday cards, then we'd move again so he couldn't find me, found out he took her to court twice, couldn't prove her unfit, no one asked me, my mother called my father everything from child molester to worst of unimaginable wreakening, my father sits on a pedestal now, a healthy one, no one will ever take him off of it again, I just wish at 5, I would have woken up in the car, on our way home, my life would have been a whole lot better
Thanks for sharing, Steve!
Damn, that a tough story, Steve. Hope you have the chance to heal that one with your dad, for good. That shit sits deep in the soul. Ther might also be the parallel to the cancer, which is often caused by deep frustration with life and the lack of inner joy it brings. All the best! And thanks for sharing.
Thanks for sharing
Thanks for sharing , bro. I hope you can enjoy the present and future with your father and you can heal.
This is why I have no sympathy for the mentally insane they do so much damage to people and society that I firmly believe that they don’t deserve to leave the hospitals. Some should just be put out of their misery
Chad needs to understand that if he stays in this relationship for "the well being of the child", he is teaching her to stay in a dysfunctional relationship. Furthermore, he may be the male hero of her 7 year old life now but when she enters the combative years where she is trying gain control of her own life SHE will remind him that he is NOT her father. If you had a positive impact on this child while you were fathering her she may reach out to you after she matures (or not), either way you are both better off.
Chad is intellectually challenged
@@calbakingno discernment.
"More red flags than a Chinese communist parade" i literally f**king laughed out loud. Im stealing that one 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Honestly its been said alot over the past few months or yrs , or so not sure ?
Yes its funny though, I just didn't laugh cause I picked it up on my human social media redundant radar lol.
Man I think it’s gonna hurt like hell when your daughter eventually throws it in your face that you’re not her real dad then you’re left with nothing. I think it’s best to just move on now
The reverse is often true too. The daughter tells her biological father that her real dad is the new step dad.
Agreed
naah, if she has morals and is raised well, she won't do that.
Biological father or not, your father is the one that raised you, that took care of you, not the one that spermed you and ditched you.
Keep that in mind.
Remember gents, YOU are the prize! Don't bend the knee...it's the beginning of the end.
We always have been. Society did its best to tell us weren’t worthy. That we had to play their game. Well now, the tables have turned
It's time we rise up and gain our glory, what is rightfully ours... Our biological destiny and birthright
Yup, when you realize how many abilities you actually have (and that you have the power to acquire more, plus to increase your assets in multiple ways), there's no way, shape or form any media outlet can make you think otherwise. I wish every man started to see their unlimited potential and stopped thinking they need a woman to be worthy...
So true.
I heard that song the other day “girls run the world “ by Beyoncé and just laughed. Who discovered electricity, built infrastructure, developed planes to fly, went to the moon …I could go on, but men. I don’t hate women of course but it’s sad to see how many women treat guys like sh*t when they live in the world we built.
Woman with kids, controlling woman, daddy issues.....this is a pile of dynamite
Extremely well said.
That’s why she DEMANDED he put a baby in her when she did. So when they went back and look at the timeline she could say “that’s impossible, that’s when we had sex to get pregnant”. When in reality she’s asking YOU to cover up her mistakes for her.
Exactly what I was thinking.
Just like King David wanting Uriah to go home and have sex with Bathsheba to cover up his mistake. 2 Samuel 11 : 2 - 27
That woman is horrible, even if she is hot as stated.
Sounds like the guy won a lottery to hell and divorce court.
Scary that a giga chad can fall prey to female shenanagins.
You can be a giga chad and Bluepilled at the same time
@@RedEverything Exactly. The famous blue pilled alpha
Winning the genetic lottery and going to the gym plus taking juice is not enough to make it.
Giga Chad’s can be the biggest target on the market.
He was young, he was thinking with his tiny testes.
The moral of the story is: women are never to be taken lightly.
Never underestimate a woman! NEVER
The most dangerous decision a man will make is the decision to get married. This has a high probability of ruining his life.
@@thecount_1957 some are very harsh yes
@@MCC876 it looks like that yes
They are the part of the team that is most likely going to send you down the river in a high pressure situation. Think of them like a crew that has a high risk of mutany. Be the captain of your life and own ship
I really wished marriage was more important in our society.
But it's not. I can't invest in marriage when I know she will leave or cheat eventually Anyway
The value of marriage has been intentionally eroded....much like currency, by a corrupt and parasitic legal system.
She will do both, don't worry.
Being alpha isn’t about how you look, it’s about what’s between your ears.
A mix of it all
Why even alpha? But when you conquer alphas, you are the overlord. The conqueror.
That is why I don't agree with the modern definition of alpha male. It's incomplete and built on the wrong premise.
100% correct...its not about physical appearance
@@mcnstein646 competent mentally and physically. Physically capable of being violent when it's necessary, not intimidated by other men. All of this is possible if you live an active life of meaning where you push yourself out of your comfort zone and to excel. If you want women to want to smash you, you have to be a bit of a specimen. Good shoulder to hip ratio, good posture, good health, good muscle to fat ratio
20! im making my 16 year old son read your book.
Funny comment, i was just thinking when would be a good age to start my son reading a book on this red pill stuff. As well as teach him myself.
@@animeink5822 18 or older is the perfect time.
No earlier since women are focus typically in younger men then 18 example 15 year old gut gets gf who manipulated him etc (now would’ve been a good time to have read that book .) so I recommend when you notice him taking an interest in girl 14-16
@@svnsetexe7326 wel I had my son when I was 22. His mom told me everything a man wants to here. I love you. Want to spend my life with you. Build a life with you. Please have a child with me. I believed her. Then a year after he was born she left me for a guy I once considered a brother. I raised my son on my own. And I would never want his to be taken advantage of by a women like I was. He is red pulled as much as I can red pill him.
Please don’t!
I was raised by a single mother but every single day of my life she warned me about women and that they would be conniving and try to get pregnant and literally had me scared to death when I went off to college I thank her every day for that knowledge And it kept me out of the hands of the crazy. My dad was in my life to a limited degree but he never warned me like my mother did.
Maybe because your mother did the same in her time and she knows what's coming!
Come to think of it, my mom warned me stay away from woman who get kicks from bossing others around.
She probably have done that in her teens.
My mom and dad both taught me humans were pathetic and not to be trusted they were both shit. It's true shit people can teach you the best how not to get messed up in others crap.
She knows...😉
I'm wondering about his legal access to this seven year old girl. His ex-train wreck sounds unstable, so what's to stop her from one day just deciding to deny him access to his "daughter" on a whim?
As soon as i heard “Miami” i knew this was gonna go down hill lol. Certain cities don’t produce good wives like nyc, LA and miami is at the very top of that list. Miami women are there for a fun time not a long time
Man, he screwed up royally. This is a difficult one. I would say move on and don't look back. Plenty of men walk out on their biological children I don't see why you'd be obligated to raise a child that's not yours. I know it sounds harsh, but you'd never be able to have your own family and kids if you chose to keep that train wreck in your life. Good luck.
I have a DNA negative daughter in the Philippines as well. The sweetest thing, but not mine biologically. I found out when she was 6, and I'm the only father she has known. Tough situation.
Lesson to guys: Always get the test done, and get it done early.
Love you work Rich. Read your book and did a quick review. One day I'll share with you how 2 years ago you played a role in changing my life.
@@cewemahbebaschannelindones1624 This, curious to know. Definitely a tricky fkn situation...
Hard to give up on kids especially when there biological father disappeared, it’s not like it’s there fault there in this situation.
I was in a relationship with a single mother and to this day I still stay in contact with the daughter ( she’s 12 now and I’ve watch her grow up (she sort of stole my heart right since the day I first met her at 3 years old ) , but I’m over 50 and have son of my own and don’t want any more so I don’t even think about the fact she not actually mine .I can understand it’s harder for younger guys who want there own kids and don’t have the time or resources to spend on someone else’s child
My advice on how to handle this if you are wealthy:
Remain a father to her - do not change anything. Take her and her mom to Cebu or Bocaray on vacation but being along a young hotter Pinay as your gf.
Introduce the cheating mom as your maid to that hotter Pinay and also in the resort. Let her face the humiliation. Bang that younger chic in front of her and tell her to clean up the mess.
See how it works out -
@@satyakammisra That's pretty stupid and a waste of time.
I felt that bit about single moms
In my younger years, mum always guilt tripped me by using the phrase "you're acting exactly like your father"... That always made me feel terrible and docile. When I became a teenager and I started gaining my independence, she kicked against it terribly, sometimes limiting my freedom, till one day I just snapped, I walked out of the house while she was ordering me to stay in.
When I got home that night I could see the fear in her eyes cos she felt I didn't want her involved in my life any longer. I apologised and reassured her that I wasn't going to abandon her but i also warned her about the limiting factor, was imposing on me.
Now she makes a conscious effort to not come off as clingy...
Ps. Fuck Obedience before sacrifice
Sacrifice then apologize, they always get over it
Obedience is greater than sacrifice...however that is scripture regarding your relationship with the most high....not your mom. Glad you stood up to her...keep watching red pill content and don't become a son husband. You doing good if you are learning from the manosphere. Men like myself did not have the internet to tell us this stuff, be thankful!
how about do whats right for you and dont apologise for it
@Owen Elbe, mothers can be the worst at using shaming language at their sons. They are bitter at their husbands, even though they are partially to blame, and take their frustrations out on their sons. Be careful, men.
Apologize for doing nothing wrong?? Wth are you doing!!?! You still submissive
No they don't
This is why guys need to be red pill aware because of foolish women like this. It’s our job as men to save the younger generation from these train wrecks with the knowledge we gain from the Mano sphere. Get the unplugged alpha guys and I will recommend the young bucks get it too
Your not Chad if you go after a woman like this
-10 Reason why this man isn’t Alpha.-
1) Married a woman 11+ years his senior.
2) Obtained citizenship through marriage.
3) Needs testosterone to build physique.
4) Takes demands from women.
5) Wife is impregnated by another man.
6) He was cukholded by his wife.
7) Cant have kids bc of prior drug use.
8) Uses the phrase “Try 2 make it work”.
9) Raised by a single mother.
10) Paid Rich for a sponsored advice.
Remember the part of needing someone to marry fast in order to not be an illegal immigrant.
Rich, what you're saying about single moms who bash the father of their kids is true, my ex gf's mom was telling her horrible things about her dad for years, but when she turned 18 and decided to find him, it turns out he's the most caring father ever - he left when my gf was a baby because ex-wifey was a manipulative emotional vampire who had lied to him about being on the pill. The icing on the cake: when crazy single mom found out that her daughter had met her dad, she kicked her own kid out of the house saying "you're dead to me".
If you know more stories like that, they'd be a cool topic for a video.
This video gave me a great idea. I'm going to create a catfish dating profile of a hot 31 year old woman and say im twice divorced with multiple kids, with multiple tattoos, recently bankrupted with BPD and daddy issues and just see how much interest I get
Any results? Update pls.
Tons of interest no doubt, depending on the looks. I'd hit it but I'm not on dating sites cause I get filtered out.
You’ll probably get more messages than you even have time to answer!
I would still hit it. Just wouldn't date
With a good picture, the majority of men would go for her.
Just turned 40 this year, but still kept really fit, doing my best to invest my money properly, stocks, cryptos etc. Sometimes I wonder If I missed something by not having kids and a family already and then stories like this remind that hmmm actually this is fine. It's just too bad our "great masters" destroyed the family core model and f*cked up women's mind...
+ the fact you can still likely have kids for atleast another 10-15 years
I just turned 41 and I agree with you 💯 percent
I’ve seen some of my buddies go through the divorce ringer - it ain’t pretty
Stay single my friend..you are doing well...this coming from a twice divorced male! Lol
Buy Rich's book, guys. I've read it twice already. Every man *MUST* possess this knowledge.
What's the title of the book?
Unplugged Alpha
Also read The Rational Male books. Those books are a big influence on Rich's Red Pill way of thinking.
I bought the book but couldn't find anything that I didn't know. But I'll pass the book around for those in need.
Yup, waiting for the audiobook
Leave her and start a new life
You're still very young and can easily do better!
many young men are blind and without guidance....a new type of man will emerge from this chaos and dysfunction...
That bit about single moms lying to their kids about their dad is absolutely correct. My mother tried to pull that shit and tell me that my dad didn’t want to see me after the divorce, but I literally have memories of going to see him during that time even at 2/3 years old
Leave her and leave the country, go start a new life and career in a former British colony like Canada or Australia, maybe even the UK itself. There are plenty of opportunities there too.
UAE is also a good place and it was also a British colony.
I hear "Borderline Personality Disorder", or see any BPD traits. PLUS DADDY ISSUES? PLEASE RUN! WE SHOULD ALL RUN! DON'T LOOK BACK.
Exactly..run as fast and far as you can. Those poor 4 kids will have issues as well.
Get snipped like I did and never buy the cow....You will never get wrecked.
Does that reduce testosterone?
@@KA-vs7nl Not on me...Only thing I noticed was volume seems a little less...No big deal...As for sensation no different....Not a bad recovery...For a couple weeks you have a slight discomfort that feels like you were hit in the balls...Very minor.
@SR 71 To me, personally, that's the most reassuring knowledge about vasectomies.
Be careful, I had all sorts of complications from mine. The instances of PVPS (post vasectomy pain syndrome) are much higher than they claim. My first vas didn't work all the way, so I had to get a 2nd one, and several years later I got chronic epididymitis from the back pressure, so I had to get a reversal to ease the pain. Insurance doesn't cover a reversal, so that was out of pocket for me. But, I also got nerve damage down there and sometimes get pain when I ride my motorcycle too long. Another guy I know had to get a reversal too because of his chronic pain. The literature the doc gave me said there was only a 2% chance of chronic pain, but afterwards, when I did more research, it seems to be more like 20%. Just, do some more research before you get one and accept that there's a 1 in 5 chance that you'll have problems afterwards.
@@jnordne2 Been 3 years since mine and I am 100% issue free.
I guess everyone is different.
I rolled the dice and got lucky.
These videos were not around back when he was 20. For me, the internet was not around, I'm 57. Today the word is getting out, even though the system is trying to suppress the truth. That's because marriage is an institution worth a lot of money (wedding, honeymoon, new car, new house, kids, divorce lawyers). The guys didn't know until now.
The Rational Male was not published until 2013. I did not find it until March, 2018. Like you, I walked around for half a century not knowing red pill truth. 🤦🏼♂️
The best thing about the internet is instantaneous and sometimes anonymous communication with strangers from any location in the world. My dad didn't teach me shit, and if not for guys like Richard Cooper I might be in prison or dead.
I'm in same the boat. I had no guidance and had to learn the hard way. But I've also had my own suspicions of women's true nature since I was 21 and my girlfriend of 3 years dumped me to go ride the CC in college. I'm 36 now, never married and no kids. And I couldn't be happier. I still like women. Still date. But I will NEVER get married.
Yeah I think a lot of it has to do with the shape of the economy now. It's much harder to become financially independent and stable now than it was back then so men are not as quick to throw away all their hard work on something as risky and volatile as a woman.
@@RedEverything All my dad taught me was how to spot fat chicks before they become fat chicks. (look at their calves, and their mother)
Respectfully.... This story is a red flag, not sure if I believe it. Too much rage bait.
Sometimes true life is stranger than fiction. I promise you everything is 100% the truth.
Well i guess we know who this story is about lol alan valdez
That woman will continue to be a problem in his life for as long as he is playing daddy to this little girl. She’s going to torture him with this little girl and he’s going to torture himself by watching daddy‘s little girl act like her mother with all the issues. 🗣That baby is not yours it’s time to realize you got a get out of hell free card and run for your life‼️
Chads are people too. Apparently they don’t have the common sense of a donkey but bow down to their hardships
Comment of the month
If a woman speaks negatively about a former man, and revealing next to no positive attributes, it's begs the question of her life choices and what characters she spreads her legs for.
She's projecting her nastiness on the exes women project a lot, a way for them to escape the responsability
I made this mistake. Thinking that I'm noting like the ex she described. Felt she would be better. So many red flags to start with but again, I'm not like the ex. Well the same thing happened to me that she did to her ex husband and the ex before that. She belongs to the streets. I chose to saw reality better than it was. She would have best been a sex playmate. Dial back the attachments guys.
I have a small romance with Young Mother in separation, during divorce process. IT was funny experience when I said to her: Come back to husband, you already have the son with this man. I gave her a 3 weeks of rollercoaster and what happens? When I cut contact, she call me an actor, but not blocked me finally, I understand the second red flag when I saw her divorced mom. After this, I still clearly open eyes when I go even fo one night stand.
why is he being called Chad when he’s a blue pilled man running headfirst into a red flag parade.
My daughter is 7 now and totally agree, super funny, sweet. Personality is really growing and thoughtful, playful. Amazing.
There is nothing to think about it. If he has some dignity, he has to leave.
I'd love to play chess vs you in person someday while we discuss... anything. I notice the board in the background; mine is glass.
I can confirm that single mother’s lie about the father of their children. My mother was one of them.
It's true, girls at 7yo are very sweet, when "girls reach 13" they change totally, girls are difficult to raise. I would not keep raising her. She will eventually is going to look for her bio father
Read your book, downloaded the audiobook. Finished in 2 days.
I let my 16 year old son listen to your chapter on red flags.
You packed a lot of info into a neat package. No fluff. Just truth bombs, stats, men’s health, female nature, red pill truth and reality. Good shit. 👌🏼
I'm 24, about to get my engineering degree, I thought I have met crazy women, but this is just a different level. Thank you brothers for sharing your knowledge and experiences.
FUCK YEAH. Failure leads to clues. Not your kid, not your problem. Make better choices and you will have better results.
This guy doesn’t seem bright
Looks like being deported was better than staying with her. 😭😢😥😓
You know you have a good mum when she doesn’t tell you heaps of bad stuff about your father. She let me figure that out on my own
He wanted residency so he compromissed which is costing him now , when you do a deal with the devil be prepared to go to hell . Im not preaching i have made these mistakes my-self
She can't be covered in tats and be a 17/10, she'd be a 4/10 at best. Each to their own though
Be prepared to listen these words when she hits puberty"You are not my father. Stop acting like one"
As long as he's happy fathering the girl, and the mother isn't using her to manipulate him, he'll be fine. But he needs to know the child may become a pawn by the mother at some point, so he has to be prepared for the relationship to end. Love the child in the moment and be grateful for any constructiveness that occurs. And the same risks occur with a blood relation child. Toxic women can destroy any relationship men have with young, naive kids/young adults.
I say cut bait . It’s just not a situation that will end well. Plus why should he use his finances to raise a child that’s not his? Terrible for the little girl though she’ll be heartbroken but that’s in her pos mom. Man some women out there are just low life street walkers with not one stitch of decency.
It's totally fine to be a positive male role model in her life. Keep being her father and teach her how to be the best person she can. That's the win out of your situation.
no its not, why should he raise a daughter that isn't his? Why?
Another case proving that there is no such thing as alpha...
Just heard your book twice on audible, mad props to you from Mississauga.
Rough spot. Sounds like he has some serious deeper work to do, matching up with someone that wounded.
As far as the child. Walking away from the child will ultimately be more damaging for the child, at least at this age. When the child is a little older, she’ll understand and you can step away more easily if that feels right. And he can still have another child of his own, I believe.
I would be concerned about the crazy woman in the picture who’ll just do more damage over and over.
I tried to connect with my father as an adult to see for myself what kind of man he was, but he turned out to be exactly what my mother said he was. Not the slightest bit interested in being part of my life. The funny thing is, though, she's the female version of that. She walked away from both of her kids as teenagers because we got in the way of her precious career as a.... wait for it.... hardware store manager. At least my father built several very profitable businesses from the ground up. 😂😂
No one deserves two shit parents josh I hope your life is great anyway.
Sorry to hear that. I hope your in a better place in life that doesn't cause you to dwell on your past. I was raised in the house with 2 shit parents as well.
The pedestal of “playmate” makes it feel like you’ve really achieved something. I can understand why when he was young he ignored all the intuition, but damn. Feel sorry for this guy.
Feel sorry? Dude married this chic after 3 months!! Cmon, he was asking for it
that borderline woman with 4 kids ... been there , well almost , I accidently met her X , he told that the same day they should move in together in a new flat, she had met a new flame and ordered the guys from moving company to halt and just place his stuff outside the on the pavement and ended the relationship with him. I took a rethink and found out that if I looked closely there were red-flags from here to the moon..... it was my responsibility to look for them, and I initially failed
My gf is older than me guys i need an honest opinion. How much of an age gap is too much when the girl is older?
I am 62, single with no children, that is my background. Ideally, the lady should be 10 to 15 years younger than you. But, in your case at the most she should be 5 years older than you...and you will be playing with 🔥. Remember, women age much quicker than men because of the delicacy of their skin, so...beware and good luck.
Too much of an age difference would be 6 to 10 years older than you.
@@alejandrobustamante7964 thanks that makes me feel better. My pool of women to date are often much older because when i go out to bars everyone is over 21 and i am exactly 21. She is only about 3 years older
@@calebbroege1333 3 years older than you at your age is perfect, no problem. If it gets serious the two of you can mature together over time. But...learn from other people’s mistakes and be very careful in your situation. Become aware of “red pill” knowledge and apply it accordingly.
@@alejandrobustamante7964 oh i am aware. I don’t really plan on marriage with anyone. Still tossing around the idea of kids though since i know she wants some and im not opposed
The 7 year old little girl calls him Daddy, she knows him as such. Not long ago, he thought he was her Dad, nothing has to change. He should accept her as his own and be a Daddy FOR HIS OWN SAKE. Being a father is the best thing I ever did. Yes, my daughter was a sweetie at 7 and became difficult at 14, but that’s part of it. By the time she was 16, the hardest part was over, and now she’s almost 40 and we’re as close as ever. Similar story with my son, it’s part of life. If he can get over his ex’s bad behavior without blaming an innocent child, he’ll never regret being a father. Hell, he’ll probably shell out tens of thousands on her wedding and be happy to do so!
lol
That woman had more problems than a Pregnant Nun!!!..That chik should have been a one nighter and move the hell on and maybe not even that..Leave that heartache and misery for that guy..because you are that guy...Get out of that TRAP and start over hopefully your more knowledgeable...Because right now your trying to catch a hand full of falling knives..
This guy’s chief concern in the divorce is “paternity by estoppel”. A guy may be held to be the “father” of a mimor child if he has assumed and created a parental relationship with a minor child. The specifics vary depending on the state, but some of the most common factors are the length of time, holding the minor child out to the public (i.e. calling the child yours to other people) as being your child, and living together. The fact that the mother lied about the paternity of the child typically does not defeat the claim because the court focuses on the best interests of the child not the mother’s misconduct. That is how a guy can be stuck paying child support for a kid that is not his.
Maybe some people have no intuition 🤔
I screwed up an had a toxic women. I thought was the one ☝️ 🤦♀️ She was Bi-Polar, Older than me & Daddy Issues too.
Oh just COME ON!
As soon as I hear tattoos, BPD, daddy issue, which the two actually go together. And she did what?
Take her clothes off for some past job was it?
And on top of that she has children from who ever?
RUN!!!!!!
You are only YOUNG, and foolish once in your life. But after that.... Totally on you. Don't do that same mistake again...
Very smart advice
Big difference between men and women. Men tell their friends you screwed up, fix it. Women look for validation that the man screwed their life up so they can avoid responsibility.
If he continues the relationship with the daughter one day she will use the "your not my father you can't tell me what to do"
The answer you seek young one is in your face. To tell you would defeat the purpose of of free will. Now choose wisely.
I call bullshit on that email. Giga Chad claims that his baby mama’s pregnancy is what granted his US citizenship. I’m a lawyer but not an expert in Immigration Law. But from what I’m able to gather, siring a child in the US with a US citizen does not and can not lead to citizenship. If you are an immediate relative of a U.S. citizen, you can become a lawful permanent resident (get a Green Card) based on your family relationship if you meet certain eligibility requirements. You are an immediate relative if you are:
1) The spouse of a U.S. citizen;
2) The unmarried child under 21 years of age of a U.S. citizen; or
3) The parent of a U.S. citizen (if the U.S. citizen is 21 years of age or older).
Under these requirements he could not have obtained citizenship.
Even if he could become a citizen through a daughter, his status would change through the paternity test showing he is not the father. The government would revoke his Green Card. It would have behooved him to not challenge paternity if that was the case.
So none of that made any sense. Sounds like the dude’s in this country illegally. His work visa must be expired and if caught, INS will deport him back to Mexico.
The sponsored emails have a number of words limit. Long story short, after getting a temporary green card, they would not give a 2nd interview until further evidence of marriage was presented. If you file for divorce while having a temporary green card, you better have a good reason, like physical abuse or something like that. Being man. That's just not gonna happen. I actually called the police once after being hit on the face, while it was recorded by the building surveillance and they still did nothing about it.
When i finally got the 2nd interview, so many years have passed already, that the moment the permanent green card was recieved, i was able to apply for citizenship the very same day. When i finally had a passport on my hand, that said i am a Us citizen, and no one could take that away from me. Thats when i thought it was the right time to act and find the truth.
I hope this explains a lot to you, mr. "I know it all, deport this Spik immigrant"
Total time of marriage was 7 yrs.
@@AlanValdez_TV There was obviously a lot missing in that email and it made me suspicious. Thanks for the explanation and clearing up any doubt. That makes a whole lot of sense now. However, your closing comment was entirely unnecessary. By suggesting I'm racist, anti-immigrant, or a xenophobe, you couldn't be farther from the truth. Best of luck to you!
@@Mr_Rob_otto there was absolutely no reason whatsoever to believe i was in this country illegally. If you actually pay attention to the video, it's understood that we got married within 3 months of meeting each other.
Furthermore, there is no reason to assume the information given is false. You just had a prejudice.
@@AlanValdez_TV he said he was no expert but did list good points. If Chad is Mexican he can go back there to his homeland.
I think everyone has a right to know who thier parents are. I'd still would raise the girl but I would start treating the mother like shyt forcing her to dump me.
My mother threatened my father she would deport him if he didn’t send her money and leave his current wife. (She was the side chick)
Now 20 years later my mother is living in a nursing home after having a seizure caused by all the coke she was doing with the money my father would send us.
I hear this kind of shows are popular in China because you keep mentioning Chinese parades ; ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
If he goes on steroids Hes not right on head either.
Doing that shit is inviting a heart attack ao the age of 40. Stay away from that shit.
Knew where that was going when I heard BPD, that's the reddest flag of all.
Get the Unplugged Alpha.
I finished the Audible before my paperback arrived.
17 out of 10 covered in tats LOL
Two of my friends are getting married soon. What should I do guys? Try to convince them otherwise or simply watch their destruction?
naaah you can't do that bro... some men have to figure out these things on their own sometimes... and believe it or not some marriages are actually a success although it's not as common in this day an age... Just be there to guide them accordingly if things ever hit the fan in the future
@@Monk_Mode_Master Thanks for the response. Yeah, they should make their own decisions as men. I'll definitely be there if they need me, im always loyal to my friends.
@@RedEverything recommend them to some videos from this channel. So they can wake up a little before they tie the knot
Dont make other people's issues your own even if they are family/ friends. They will resent you for trying to help. Better to let them self destruct and be a friend after the fact than to destroy the friendship now.
@@nophone9311 I appreciate that man. I needed some sound advice. My mind is at ease now.
I don't think he should keeping being a dad to a girl who's not his, because he has no legal protections on that relationship. Mom can up and leave at any moment and take the kid with her and won't even have visitation rights. It's a shit sandwich either way you slice it, but that doesn't mean you should take the largest piece.
Run don’t walk for the door. And here’s what can happen next. You continue to develop an attachment to the kid and the mom will then weaponize the child to further damage you. I’ve been through this. The only win is a swift exit.
I was told when I was 34 that my sperm count was low and my chances of having kids wasn't good. That was 7 kids ago.
I’ve yet to meet a woman who says any of her past relationship failures were her fault. It’s ALWAYS HIS fault. Zero accountability.
I've yet to meet one who takes responsibility about anything to be honest, including the smallest things. It's just not in their program code.