3 Ways To DEAL With That FEELING Of EMPTINESS
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
- Each and every single one of us is born into this world with a hole. Not a physical hole. It's that feeling that we're still missing something. Many of us try to run away from this feeling by turning to the many vices available. Alcohol, sex, drugs, porn, television, food, video games, and the list goes on and on.
Yet each and every time we find ourselves back at square one. Having to face that terrible feeling of emptiness.
I'm here to tell you that if that empty feeling is something you're struggling with right now, that there are solutions. There are methods of dealing with it. And that's what we're going to cover in this short little video!
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I don't know how to explain it. All my life I've felt like I never really belong here. I feel so... Alone in this world if that makes any sense.
@@zoya4756 All I can say is don't do it. The world needs you. Find those that want to be your rock, and if it helps talk to someone. Get those feelings out, it might help.
@@tayziecox5221 Thank you for your support. I'll try.
It’s a little of dramatic but i kinda get it :/ ...
Yes. I feel I was put here in earth by some terrible mistake.
It's true. Whenever I feel lonely and out of place, i try to inundate myself with work or retreat back into my own world of imagination where I could have success and perfect relationships. But when night comes, I'm just left with a huge hole inside and it fucks me up really bad. No matter what you do, it only solves the problem temporarily
Yes we humans are donuts
O really
that's why I love eating ass so much.
Jackson Hayes understandable, have a great day..of eating ass!
Jackson Hayes that escalated quickly.
Torus*
It's at the point where I'd rather be painfully sad than feel empty. I'll feel anything but nothing. But it's a lot harder to feel happiness. I'm not even sure what that feels like.
Same here...these days, the things I used to enjoy and love doing, watching my favorite TV shows, eating my favorite foods, I don't feel anything...and idk why and I hope I can start feeling something again because I want to live not just exist
Uncomfortably numb
I rather feel nothing than sadness
Same I used to be really sad because my life was horrible but now that its finally getting better, I feel nothing. Its like I gave up so long ago I just don't care anymore
punching bag
thats what happened to me
I wonder how many of us here had some free time. No friends nearby. No one calls/texts you and you don't call/text anyone. Yes, you feel lonely and you're finally convinced that no one (except yourself) understands you. You feel too small in this vast universe and the thought of death (all's temporary) often visits your mind. Ones who relate get the drill. Bold move perhaps, trying to kick your depression with a video on UA-cam. Wouldn't be fruitful for those with chronic depression. Better seek a therapist. It really helps and there's nothing to be ashamed about in seeking help. Not everyone is equally sensitive.
At last! One who feels the same.
im right there bro. Feeling lonely, empty and friends dont seem to care, exist or understand
This is exact how I feel but I dont know why or how to deal with it
@@heyguy2367 try nice relaxing music, try creating something... drawing in a piece of paper what you feel, write it down. express it somehow.. express it to whoever you think. You might get surpised that someone might actually listen
I get a therapist in 3 months, but now i have to wait and somehow stay alive.
I already wait 1 years but yeah..
My favorite thing about videos like this is that it reminds me that I'm NOT the only one going through stuff like this and I feel better again. :)
reallive571 Why in the world do people feel better knowing that others are suffering?! That only ever makes me feel more angry.
TARZAN HEDGEPETH He means that he is not weird or spaced out or alone and he gain motivation by realizing that there is hope to fix it.
He doesn't mean anything bad
Yeah me too
@@tarzanhedgepeth354 I also felt a little bit better after saw this video and realize I was not the only one feeling this way. I thing that you feel better because you realize that you are not alone and because if other people feels the same and they can live with this kind of holes and even overcome the anxiety that this emptiness cause you mabye you also can do the same
Same. It makes me feel that I'm not alone, however NO ONE should ever have to go through this
I’m tired of being alive 🚶🏽♂️
Me too
Tooo
Keep living in the meantime... These feelings will pass. they always do. Keep breathing in and out.. Things do get better. .
@@Plethorality i hope so ... but my theory is.. people just compromise with what they have . They stop dreaming. This is how these feelings go away. This is a cruel world for a stubborn dreamer like me .
Yeah I Know How You Feel Man
I never realized a feeling of emptiness is something EVERYONE has. knowing this now, gives me more confidence to talk to others about mine. thank you
Read the Quran (The holy book of Muslims) and you will find the truth of this life! Read it before you die!!!⚠️⚠️
@@mohamedhafez8713 Religion has literally no effect on your psychology.
Thank you. I'm up at 2am crying my eyes out, feeling that hole. Looked outside my window at the world and said "I feel empty, I feel lost." for the first time in a very long time... And that lead me here... I know I can do all these things. I've done them before. Now I need to get back to it. I need my health back. I'm going to do a guided meditation now and get some sleep for a busy workday tomorrow. Thank you so much for this video. I really needed it.
h3arty Hey, are you feeling better now?
h3arty i hope you managed to get your life back together.
@Jacob Lowe or even breathe
@Jacob Lowe I don't think she meant it literally...
I hope you’re doing better now ❤️ all the love
it's mind blowing that this topic is not talked about much despite that everyone experience it
1. Improve yourself. Have healthy sleep habits. Exercise and eat healthy food. Take care of the body.
2. Create something. Draw. Paint. Dance. Write. Sing. Anything creative, anything that lights up your life and yourself. Redirect your focus onto your craft. The feeling will fade away. The creation is always there to wait for us to finish it.
3. Meditate. Helps to improve focus, awareness and being present in the now. Same vibration as prayer. Observe yourself and face the feelings head on. Looking at it and saying.... hmmm... it's an interesting experience
Help others
not all heroes wear capes
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.
Something about your comment that's strangely relatable. I couldn't ever put it into words
Thank you!
Hey! If you're watching this video, most likely you are feeling down or empty? I just want you to know that you're beautiful/handsome, and you're important to this world. Your face isn't ugly, don't cover it, your skin isn't paper, don't cut it, your life is not a movie, don't end it. I know its unoriginal, but its true. You're amazing, and I hope you have a fantastic day/night. Much love and support ❤
❤
Thank you.
No need to thank. It’s something that people should do regularly. 😊
Thank you ❤
blue orange No need to thank. :)
But like I’m not even sad or depressed, my life is amazing
It’s just I have a constant feeling of sadness even though I’m not sad
Whenever people look at me I smile but I always have to force my smile
magie incroyable - gfx vfx | Thanks
Dont force anything bro stay true to yourself you will be happier
that constant feeling of sadness despite not knowing what you're sad about is basically what depression was like for me. i don't mean to scare you, but i do recommend getting diagnosed, because getting help is better than suffering not knowing what it is. and honestly, if you feel like you have to force your smile, just don't smile at them! there's nothing wrong with it.
@Monodam same
Me too!
I'm feeling empty right now and this is helping me already. Thank you.
Improvement Pill you just motivated me to ask that girl out...
And she said yes
Pelletier William let me save your life, check out about MGTOW. you can still pump and dump but don't marry. find out about woman nature and always be aware, no kidding.
Fernando Cavalee you could talk to women to get to know them you know. ditching them everytime you've had a taste isn't really getting to know them.
KX Ti As a muslim reading our holy book the Qur'an makes me feel better. For all of u that don't read Arabic or are non-muslim i advice u to try to listen to it I promise you you'll feel better. Just try it. Type in youtube quran and listen you'll feel better 💙💙
But why am I not ok, but my best friends are; My family is? I'm happy for them, I just dont know why I'm not ok
Edit: You guys are so sweet. Things are getting for me, slowly but surely. I appreciate the support and you know what things are going to get better for you guys too. I promise. Lots of love, stay safe 💜💜💜
+Lizzle 2 cents
I feel you. I'm happy that they don't feel empty, but at the same time I wish I didn't feel that too.
They probably feel the same way you do. but don't show it
I feel like I don't even have a family
@@xiaokeaimiao sorry guys
Looks like you're a bts fan ...
I feel so lost and empty. And I am having mixed emotions. Like I want to cry then suddenly I'm afraid. I can't understand my self.
Ashley Jermaine its normal dont worry you just have to fall in love with that emptiness thats all
Mr Nobody how can you fall in love with a black hole if it takes your feelings
@@mileypercocet2211 Yeah..
Hyd?
u gotta accept this as a part of u after u will be able to focus on ur life u gotta accept who u are and how u are its the first step to self peace
I really noticed an improvement on myself after watching all of your videos! I stopped smoking and started exercising way more and that alone made me feel so much better
The fact that you overcame your smoking addiction is fantastic and extremely impressive! Props to you!!!! 🙌
Improvement Pill
What is really impressive is that you helped somebody to quit smoking, anybody could make anybody quit smoking by putting them in solitary in jail, but not everyone can help others quit smoking through inspiration.
Nice job!
I think the hole exists because we keep chasing end-goals instead of journeys. That's why creating something or running a business bring so much value to our life. There is always something waiting for us, there is a reason to wake up in the morning.
There's always seems to be a bigger goal, and that's why we need to focus on small ones, and build up to the bigger goal eventually
Leander Uka when the hole is big enough you will be able to tell its there as if it was a physical object and would be able to measure it. You feel the emptiness and it makes you frustrated and all you can think about is "what is this hole and why is it there"
Why do we exist in this universe tho
This is the best comment I've heard in a long time, I always seem to see an end goal, maybe that's what I've been doing wrong the whole time
I haven’t been happy in the longest
My best friend left me behind and now I feel lonely...
Dude,i feel you with all my heart
Meditate. It could reduce feelings of loneliness.
@helloit me The long-term effects will be visible when you do it daily. It's like exercise: No matter how much you exercise in one day, you will not see results if you don't do it regularly.
Me and my best friend used to be so close but she seemed to have just forgotten me. I think she just used me whenever something better came along she left me or I was always the second choice. It hurts currently I have no one (why I'm watching this...) but I hope you have found a friend.
Smh get over it.
"A baby feels hunger: well, there is such a thing as food. A duckling wants to swim: well, there is such a thing as water. Men feel sexual desire: well, there is such a thing as sex. If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world. If none of my earthly pleasures satisfy it, that does not prove that the universe is a fraud. Probably earthly pleasures were never meant to satisfy it, but only to arouse it, to suggest the real thing."
- C.S. Lewis
Wow 😍
Might wanna read up on C S Lewis before you start wowing too hard.
*applause as one tears fall into my cheek*
Well .... that leaves us absolutely nowhere on how to deal with the day to day struggles of feeling empty. Thank you?? I guess??
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when this video finished i started feeling that emptyness
Improvement Pill your**
Improvement Pill you sure are can not stop watching your clips
PLANA same
A 4th way to fill the hole is to stop focusing primarily on yourself by helping other people. It creates the much needed human connection many people are missing in this modern day.
Jake S so true i was always there for anyone and friends but in return nothing
@somauk Most of the times when you help people a lot you would feel like you need to stand up for yourself before giving a help, which you gotta help yourself first then 'if you can help people' then do it , but emptiness doesn't fade away when you help people, it just comes and goes back subconsciously. I don't mean by being narcissist, but to help people you need vital-self energy to use for yourself then spread this positive energy that you obtained to everyone.
Thats a waste of energy And even if it did help all that would go away as soon as they betray you
Just wanted to let you know that this doesn't help at all. If anything, seeing all that human suffering that is completely preventable is sad. Knowing you can do nothing to truly help or make an impact is sad. It's only ever made me feel smaller and shittier.
I think this it we should actually do the opposite
Religion made me find the purpose of my life, it's made me the best version of myself and I truly believe that with faith anything in this world can be accomplished.
Hope you guys find peace 🌍🌷
I wish I could believe in Religion but my mind won't let me due to how many plot holes and how much false evidence there is. I wish I could just direct my attention towards it and find meaning
it true, back at 2018 I was religious and my life felt very happy and calm
@@saulmoses8698 "plot holes" "false evidence?" Don't you think its desrespectful saying that to a religious person right after they tell you they are one? Smh
@@mm_2175 They were just being honest about their experience with life. That’s like saying the religious person was being offensive to atheist. LOL people can be honest about their experiences it’s not disrespectful just because it’s different from another person.
@@mm_2175 not only he was honest but he also explained his expirience in a very kind way so theres that :)
If the hole is inside you, you can't fill it with materialistic things, those are not the things that make you happy. That hole is the pure happiness we're missing. Not the temporary happiness like going to a concert or hanging out. Is the happiness you feel with yourself at all times
Yes you are correct,
We can not fill those emptyness with materialistic things from the outside.
Where did u get this knowledge? Have u heard it from someone else or just an idea of yours? I would like to know.
Exactly how I’m feeling ..
Let me fill you
@@leanhanleleanah6929 you're not funny
sometimes, i think a hug is enough to fill that hole a bit, haven't hug anyone for 4 years now.
Hey just wanna let you know if ur reading this your beautiful and keep going strong :)
Madiso n and I can read
Madison Turner hey just wanna let you know you don’t help only the 14 year old boys that girlfriend left them
Sakkra101 yes u are
Monodam • lol
Sakkra101 lol
This made me cry man, i thought I was alone man. I’m having arguments with someone i have a crush on, I’ve done weed, and nothing makes me laugh as hard as a few years ago. I moved countries and i miss my bestfriends. Thank you sir..
Liviii-kun {リビ} Same
Relatable
Hows your life in the new country? I moved countries too and i cant bear it anymore.
right now I'm sitting alone and I've been in a new school for so long with no-one to talk to, I miss my all my friends, and I feel isolated. I used to sleep a lot but now all I do is just sit at home on youtube or something "trying to fill the hole" but when my computer dies I have nothing. I used to draw all the time and I loved creating new things, but now I haven't actually drawn in almost a year (about 10-11 months besides some doodles). In the beginning of the school year when people asked me what I like to do I said "I like to draw" even though I really haven't in forever, but that's all I could think of to say. I could transfer schools but its been a whole year and I haven't seen anyone in a while and I don't even know if my old friends would like/want me there, but if I stay where I am now, I will just be mindlessly waiting for school to end, day in and day out while saying hi to a few acquaintances but know one to really talk to at lunch. in my current school Ive gotten to know everybody and everyones nice, but again there's no one for me to really talk to. I won't be sad if I stay, but I won't be happy either, ill just be in a school knowing that people like me but would rather not talk to me at lunch. Although if I transferred to see my old friends, I would be going into the unknown, not knowing if I would be alone for the rest of the year with absolutely no-one to talk to or not. I don't know if I should remain here or not because its really uncertain for me if I leave but if I stay I will be bored out of my mind with no really friend for 3 more years.
I just realized how long this comment is 😂
lol sorry if u actually took the time to read this, I just wanted to write this down
edit: writing it down made me feel better 😁
How’s everything been since writing this comment buddy?
The only problem is when you feel empty, depressed, and insecure it’s hard to over come the emptiness even when you try to make ur self a better person, and you start to see results but put your self down and start right back where you started
Yes it's hard to kick start yourself out of it, I know too well. Take a look this way you get time, might have something over here that helps, I'm trying, all I can do. Your name made me hungry!
This is why there are religions throughout the world. We need something to fill that feeling of emptiness and religions (more or less) help people focus on something outside of themselves
+Vlad i believe so 2! i am starting reading the bible tommorow
Bible>quran
Spark721
read it, it will help you cure your religion
Exactly why everyone should stop acting religiously and start meditating
Vlad I remembered that in my religion meditation is actually encouraged and now I know why
Nah, I was just hungry.
It’s JJOLO I wish haha
hehe
fuk off
Thanks for making me laugh
😂 thanks bro you made me laugh
That video actually made me feel better. You know sometimes I feel really lonely. Like I see everyone my age going out with friends and having fun and all and I'm sitting at home watching Netflix or simply playing video games and there's always this feeling of loneliness inside of me thinking it will always be that way.
Read the Quran (The holy book of Muslims) and you will find the truth of this life! Read it before you die!!!⚠️⚠️
I remember when after 1 minute, you would only have around 20 views. Now it's 200?! You're growing so fast, man! Keep the amazing content up :)
SQUUUAAAAAAA
ImStorm and now he has more than 3K in 20minutes.
mx 2017 literally the most irrelevant thing about his content
Love from india
Yeah, i remember his first NoFap videos. Only 3-5k views at the time, i think. I always commented that he deserved a bigger channel. Now the success has come.
"The hole" isn't necessarily something negative. It is our incentive.
Is it an incentive when you accomplish difficult goals and feel empty at the end of it?
Yes, because you always want more. I never said it was healthy. Of course you have to pause at some point and realize you filled a part of the hole and try to be happy about it
mrvn Maybe for some people...
Would anyone like to hear Gods word and get their holes filled?
Grammar Officer Hanes im not apart of any church and im very serious about this.
Starting meditating three days ago. Five minutes in the morning, five before bed. It's actually working already. Thank you
I was gonna request you to do a video about dealing with depression and quarter life crisis but this helps. Keep up the good work mate!!
***** Do you have a twitter account that we can follow?
As a muslim reading our holy book the Qur'an makes me feel better. For all of u that don't read Arabic or are non-muslim i advice u to try to listen to it I promise you you'll feel better. Just try it. Type in youtube quran and just listen to it 💙💙💙💙Nocturnal Nerd
ameena stuff yea me too i saw this video by accident and tried to help the ppl who truly feel that they have a whole in them. Thank u for your respond 💙
People have no clue about "the hole" until they descend into depression, which unfortunately has no cure. People with depression cannot fill their void with the materialistic things healthy people do.
ArminVonLiberty Depression has no cure? I'm pretty sure that is false. Otherwise pretty much everyone in the world would be depressed right now. You can go into a depression for many reasons... and you can get out of them in many ways.
Awesome. I started travelling the world riding rollercoasters, ended up working at a summer camp, visiting Niagara Falls, Burning man 2018, spending New Years in San Fran, and turning 25 in LA! I also started vlogging and I’m so thankful that I did!
man i just love your videos....
Could you possibly make a video about you, whou you are, what you do, where is this wisdom coming from (I would highlight this), etc. etc. ? :O
I want be the one helping others. The one people asking for advice. The one who is balanced, happy and admired... like You.
I had such a shitty day. this video came just in time. bless you, man. that gave me a drive of motivation.
I had a bad day today as well. Then UA-cam recommended me a video about how to grow Instagram followers to 1M within a year. Eventually, I clicked on the video and watched. It seemed interesting. I then clicked on the Channel and come up with this video. It came just right!!! Awesome!!! I feel better now.
Fill the whole with FLEX TAPE!!
Blastpokemon5’s Ghost jump into it 😁
I'll take your entire stock
IQ IS HIGH AF
I was crying but this made me laugh. Thanks honestly
CREATE!!! That's what is missing from most people's life!
can i create hentai
will it fill it
SOME BODY Yes, send me a copy of it ;)
SOME BODY it is.
You're creating art.
(Seriously tho, I know a hentai with ending so depressing, it makes you cry)
*CREATOR
I have school tomorrow... a few hours ago I broke down because I realized how LONELY I actually am. The people I consider friends are fake and I feel like there's no one out there that understands me and likes me for who I am. Out of the seven billion people on this planet it is truly hard to believe that I'm the only one with this hole. Reading these comments that are relating to the hole makes me feel less lonely. I wish we could all be friends. Goodnight.
All this told me was “you’re empty deal with it” even if i do frequently meditate, it doesn’t feel like anythings changed, the hole just gets bigger and appearently theres nothing i can do about it except dwell on privately and then keep moving. I mean, what the hell
THIS TOO SHALL PASS
Read the Quran (The holy book of Muslims) and you will find the truth of this life! Read it before you die!!!⚠️⚠️
You forgot the most important thing of all
actually there are 2 editions to that
first and most important,
it is *human* *connection*
*human* *bond*
creating relationships with people who trust you and you can trust them
people who will make that hall inside you fade away more quickly then any of the other things you mentioned,
and dont get me wrong
I'm not saying they are not important, if i didn't had my drawing and my guitar and my passion for learning and developing my self, and of-course meditating for 20min every night before sleep
i wouldn't make it
i just know that this world of our species rely on our humanity, witch we are often forget..
the 2nd most important thing is
*exploring*
go out there,
enjoy the world and what it has to offer
travel
meat new cultures and new people from different places around the glob
if its activity that involve people it is even better
go volunteer
go help strangers
that is the 2 most powerful tools there is to this empty feeling
and i know people wont read that long massage
so it wont get any attention
but if even one person will read this and be inspired by my words
i've done my thing here :)
thank you for your vid´s, they have profound impact on so many people
I actually consider exploring and doing things to help people as part of "creating". All activities can be catalogued as consuming or creating, and those are definitely creating. Of course, human relationships are important, but they become rather uninteresting and unsatisfying when you are not creating and discovering. We need to flourish all the time!
ron . f . karger no money ma dude
This is some serious waste of time
Problem is, people aren’t permanent. The reason why I’m watching this video is because someone I love dearly has been taken away from me. We aren’t allowed to communicate in any form. She filled the hole, and I trusted her with everything, but she still left anyway. She’s the reason why the hole is larger than it was before.
But I agree with you about creativity!
We should not depend on other people to fill our hole
Bcoz they r not gonna stay everytime with u
Me: I need to do my homework now!!
Emptiness: Think again
1:04
My paranoid ass: "It means it can be bigger too haha"
It hurts
Matthew 5:3 "Happy are those conscious of their spiritual need..."
This spiritual need is something we were all born with but not everyone is aware of it or willing to understand it. If this need is not fulfilled the "empty feeling" will never truly go away.
Cat Feliciano Amen sister!!! It’s so sad that people think the hole will never go away. They just need the one thing that was made to fill it.
That's what I was gonna say! ❤️
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.
HAIL SATAN!!
I have everything. Nothing is wrong. My existence is pain. Life makes makes me feel tierd.
I have discovered recently that the thing which eliminates emptiness is gratitude.
Take a piece of paper and write down what you have, even little things. For instance you have eyesight, ability of hearing, smelling touching. And compare with the people who don't have. Write down anything you have and write why you feel gratitude for this thing. The most important thing is feeling it from deep inside of heart.
You will feel fulness, I swear!
How do you feel it from deep inside the heart if you dont feel anything at all?
emptyness is gift fill it with power
wise words
I filled the hole with love but now it shattered and im left empity again
Read the Quran (The holy book of Muslims) and you will find the truth of this life! Read it before you die!!!⚠️⚠️
When you can both write and erase with the same marker. Magic 💫
Great points, but I think the best way to shrink that hole is to have goals/purposes which you are passionate about, and work towards those in processes which you love.
Genuinely caring about other people helps too
I wish I can go back in year 2015 and re do all the bad decisions that I've made which eventually led me to this dark, lonely place in the universe where I think only I can see. It's scary seeing everyone else leave you behind and you're stuck in a big unknown rock and it's really true that you start to fill yourself with alcohol, smoking, junk foods and all other craps to temporarily fill that void. It's this time when you are trying to live your past and forget the present. I don't know if I am making sense but this is what I feel.
Man, thank you so much for your help.
I was feeling that 'hole' for a couple of weeks ; didn't know what to do.
But after watching this, I am much better.
Thank you again mate.
Please do make such videos!
:D
Thank you for remember me it. I need to meditate.
Reminding it to me*
Alymari 211217 I love you
yeah me too , do meditation
Testicle Twang
*reminding me
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.
I just discovered your channel and I have to say, as a psychiatrist who works with a LOT of young people and an awful lot of folks with chronic emptiness, you really nailed it. I LOVE this. I also adore your approach and your animation. I'm going to recommend all my patients struggling with emptiness watch this lovely video. Thank you!
Never share this with depressed person. It pisses them off to another level.
Victor Heisenberg This doesn't make me angry. It's nice to hear about people whose lives this video has affected and that others can find peace at some level. It's only that I've tried so much over the past decade and none of this is new to me. I cling onto hope but some days are harder than others. The only thing that keeps me going is the thought of the next temporal fix. That's what this video feels like: a series of temporal fixes. I have accepted that my life carries no meaning and that I must stay dynamic in order to confront the next big challenge, but there might come a day when I can't fight anymore. So again, this doesn't make me angry but I can understand how it could to others.
Bagel Burger try listen to Paul Washer video "terrifying truth" or sth like that. There is a hope 😊
Or it can help them
This video is actually really helpful for me who is working with depression on a daily basis
@@arinaz318 That is the best comment.
I'm happy i saved it and watching it again. makes me be productive every day on what i love to do tq
This video made me focus more on other things. I love you man you’ve changed my life. I’ve kept myself motivated to exercise and be healthy. I’m currently living with my father because of his work and its hard cause I’m separated from my mom and I have 3 friends that keep my from sadness. But you have changed this feeling inside me. Thank you🙏
This helped so me so bad thank you this was the slap into reality I needed
Thank you for the tips homie!
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We Are The Empty :o
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this man serves emotional content but brutally honest. very refreshing
Thank you for this, I feel this hole eating away at me everyday, every hour, every time I check the time on my phone. It's a lonely feeling.
Great video man! Remember when you had 15k subs and look at you now. Keep spreading the wisdom!!
IImproveMe He definietly deserves it! Love your videos:)
I feel like I am dying a little bit everyday and all of my “friends” don’t care about me so here I am living life on repeat.
If you have everything in this world but are still searching, then your answer is not of this world.
Methods Over Motivation i like that
so just off yourself already ? nobody will care ?
Who tf has everything
But you cant have everything in the world...
Then what's the answer if it wasn't of this world? 'if I had everything'?
I actually started meditating today, I’m going to try to do it every morning for 10 minutes. Thank you 🙏 I luv ur videos 💕 they are very motivational and inspiring ✔️💯😇
I have never seen someone explain it so wonderfully
The best video to become who you were when we were as kids!! Thanks man!
Lol This video poster is a chuclehead then, if you can't or refuse to be an adult then you have head problems!
Kekistani Kekfrog lol😂😂
If one does a lot of evolving work, after 50 years of age, they may notice as I have, the "hole" becomes whole.
The feeling of emptiness is a learned feeling. Think about it... If I can make you feel empty and have something to fill it, you may buy it.
Disagree about we are born this way, but do love your videos and respect the amount of work you put into them.
I experience that deep emptiness everyday too it's like trying to fill a void with ideas and no matter how much stuff you throw in there's almost no limit to how endless this feeling is when trying to fill it
you're amazing sir! 😊
Don't heal the inner Trauma, just do stuff to avoid Feeling it. Great advice👍
Thank you so much for this video, I’ve been depressed for about a full week, and I’ve never felt this down about life ever before, and these tips honestly opened my eyes. I’ve been thinking “oh life is meaning less and horrible,and this feeling will stay forever”, but these tips opened my eyes to the fact that I was causing most of my own problems, and I intend to start fixing them. In short, thanks for the help.
Thank you so much for this I realized I shouldn’t spend so much time crying about this feeling I should think about why I have this feeling and what could make it better and it helps... I wrote a list with things I am proud of, things that inspire me and things I want to do the next time
Thank you !
after watching the video:
"How do i meditate"
Close your eyes and don't think about anything, within a couple of minutes-images will flash before your eyes like a slide show. It's really cool!
@@Emeraldcity70 whenever I try not to think of something, my thinking speed goes 2x...And most of them are scary stuff from horror movies which I used to watch ages ago
sometimes i feel like i already died and life is some kinda of hell. just keep going we all die at the end. enjoy what small things that make you happy
Nah find out truth you don die your body will pass but youre not your body
Why don't people call me the way they used to? I'm getting so comfortable with my own solitude it's scary.
I’m so lonely that I slept with my 4stroke carburetor last night
Sense of void and depression have a huge gap between them. Voidness has been a blessing in disguise for me( that's how I feel).
I needed this! Thanks a lot!
I wish Improvement Pill reply with this comment.
Improvement Pill Woodrow, is that You?!
Improvement Pill u just fill somebody's hole
Jacobo harris howard 😂👏🏼
Sasuke
I'm trying to fill my hole with food and alcohol. I used to live a very healthy life and I know I can go back to it. It's hard to let go of these bad habits especially when you feel so lonely and lost, but I did it once so I can do it again! Everyone who reads this: No matter where you are right now in your life, you have the power and control over everything that happens. You're always one decision away from a totally different life. You are loved! 💚
The hole is not just empty again but might feel even bigger after realizing filling it didn't work
Thats true i wake up and feel even more lonely then i was before every day
I get this In a bad way after I finish work. The danger time for me is between about 4.30 and 7.00 in the evening and normally results in me craving alcohol. I am going to stop this now though.
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Do you know, I think recently I have worked out what it might be. I think by this time of day I am actually tired. With working from home now because of COVID, I have been having a sleep around 17.00 for an hour or so. When I get up I feel okay again. The only problem is I can be a bit groggy.
I started meditation, and making my own projects, like writing, reading since March. It's helped me a lot to be motivated.
This is the best video I have ever watched, in my life.
Try to fill that hole by listening to The Beatles "Fixing a Hole"
D.K. Gonzales yeah it actually works
This all makes sense. As a kid, I wish someone had told me about this, which would have prevented me from almost eating myself to death.
Any chance of a video on how to become "that guy" who when they walk into a room, everybody notices their presence and authority?
Hope that makes sense as a topic.
Love your videos btw! :D
Edward Turner If you say you're that guy, you're suddenly not that guy
deep
hmm i am no expert, but i only had this happening in school, everytime i went in somewhere, EVERYBODY noticed.
i was a pushover most of the time in school, but the second i had my first girlfriend everything changed.
i made lots of effort to get to know people, they automatically started liking me because i was so interested in everybody. At the same point i was pretty full of myself, self-confident to the max.
seems a little harder once you get out of school, but i think it is something with your self-confidence.
is presence = charisma? if so how does one develop it?
Jack-Rhion Turner Part of it is having made peace with your vulnerabilities. when you accept your brokenness, then you will have no weaknesses that other people can agitate because you accepted yourself completely. you will have addressed it and released the pain of it. being free enough to share that brokenness with others frees you from the pain of rejection. the pain of rejection won't be an echo of your vulnerabilities anymore, it will be that your personality isn't right for that person at the moment. but keep growing and becoming more confident about your vulnerabilities, and your presence will demand attention and a response from people.
“I said nothing for a time, just ran my fingertips along the edge of the - that had been left inside me.” Haruki Murakami
This video really helps . the fact that you are giving the solucion to our questions is a step to make that circle become smaller .Thank you
Stop running away from the hole and embrace it ( try to locate it and hold your attention on it, feel it fully), sounds weird but try it, youve been running away from it all this time anyway and it clearly doesnt work...
So i penetrate the hole?
I think yours tips are useful however it's not true that the hole is always there. Everytime I was falling in love, experienced spiritual high or simply was peaceful, happy and connected with my body, mind and emotions - the hole was gone. And it's true what others said, that we don't come to the world with the hole but it developes thruough life.
I love people that motivate others. Improvement pill whoever u are. Im here for u too
“The greatest and most important problems of life are all in a certain sense insoluble…. They can never be solved, but only outgrown…. This ‘outgrowing’, as I formerly called it, on further experience was seen to consist in a new level of consciousness. Some higher or wider interest arose on the person’s horizon, and through this widening of view, the insoluble problem lost its urgency. It was not solved logically in its own terms, but faded out when confronted with a new and stronger life-tendency.” C.G. Jung
Whenever i smile i feel a deep sadness inside me idk why i just feel liks why am i smiling? I also think "am i depressed i must be!"
Thank you! Finally, the help I've been searching for. First of all, I love your description of the emotional hole, and your three steps for dealing with it are what all the other emotional eating videos are missing.
Its more like a feeling thats something is missing instead of something i have to fill because there is nothing. At least for me.
Sjodiek same
Holy Spirit..
I felt it for 4 years tried to do suicide so many times then I found my love at that point which saved me and was happy. Did feel empty but it went away when I was with him. I did so well in my studies. Topped in university. But now he is staying away from me and I can't bare it. I don't know what to do. I tried and tried to not feel like this. Want to do my work but I m not happy inside. I don't feel the enthusiasm in my heart.