How I Learned To Love Myself
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Learning to love yourself more is one of the most commons things that we struggle with. Improving the amount of self love we have will often times increase our levels of confidence, decrease the amount of validation we need from others, and bring more happiness into our lives. So today I'm going to show you how I approach this issue. This is how I learned to love myself.
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*When you help others, you’re helping yourself grow as an individual.*
Vice versa also true
@AddictedToMusic103 can you rephrase your question
AddictedToMusic103 idk what you mean by why so much attention, but a person is going to learn if they want to. You could attempt to help and succeed. But a lot of people won’t listen because they’re allowing their ego to control them. What I’m trying to say is, people will always learn if they want to. If they truly want change, they’ll allow it. If they don’t listen and you’ve tried many times, then, you’d have to let them learn the hard way. Sometimes you gotta let those people go, because they can manipulate your energy and have you thinking and or feeling low. Hope I helped in any way.
No-one desires to help another. Instead they want to dominate them......
@Ro 3D Puppetteer nice english pleb...
What if Keanu Reeves looked up this video on how to love himself.
He won't he already loves himself lol.
I Like UA-cam.
well, you don't really know what's going on in a person. who knows? everyone has personal issues and everyone has something keeping them from loving themselves.
@@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 the unending loop of paradox would create a singularity
@@ruatsangawhite7261 ok
@Jonathan Rodriguez why could he be suffering while his rich and what not come one don't be silly now😂
Being socialy awkward is like the hardest thing to deal with 😩
That and waking up everyday feeling useless
Yes to both comments
Not the hardest thing but I agree
That's because being socially awkward makes you rejected when you try to socialize. So it hurts a lot to develop social skills when you are undeveloped. Maybe you can try to focus on your effort or the intention more.
Try nofap, trust me
Who else here can’t appreciate themselves and end up loosing their confidence and interest to anyone. Who’s with me😞
Same i always thought that no one would love me..
People are always disappointed when you don’t try hard enough and they’re disappointed when your best isn’t enough. It does something to someone eventually...
Same, but for a person like me, I do work, have passions, have loyal friends, I still feel like I am not enough, I don't get it XD
I LOVE YOU
@Gabrielle Pangilinan SAME.
Why does Keanu look like Jesus in some of these illustrations? 😂😂
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i JUST THOUGHT THE SAME THING HBANALXbmsjskhsjsksmsiskxxm-
because he is
Reincarnation
Cz he is ...duh ! Right ? :p
Half of this video is basically about how Keanu Reeves is a literal saint. And Im okay with that.
Becoming Saint is actually very safe .
It is possible..Megatron also fears Predaking.. 🙄
Yes
"No matter how hard you try, no matter how smart you are, you will be remembered for your evil deeds."
Nyehehhehe
"If you hate yourself, change your personality"
Yeah, swell advice you got there..
He didn't say that you should change your personality he said that if you hate yourself that means that you hate something about yourself and you should do the opposite of that so you can love yourself more
Only you can find the way
@@arwa7518 ...thats exactly what changing your personality is. Just because you hate something doesn't make it wrong or bad. You can hate something because you have been shamed and bullied into a distorted perception of yourself. So this advice is really harmful since it tells you to change things about yourself that might not even need changing.
@@submissivekoala fucking love this reply
@@submissivekoala Got em'
It’s not about what you can do as someone else, it’s about being able to accept you as a whole with whoever you are. I looked up to extroverts and tried to be one even though I’m an introvert. I used to be truthful and confident in my independence. I ended up becoming too selfless, suicidal, and worried about not being the most people pleasing personality. I couldn’t become someone else because it’s not who I am meant to be. You can be lazy, thick, skinny, loud, quiet, shy, and own yourself. Being happy with the light and dark within you is the ultimate happiness. You just have to let yourself believe that you can change, but don’t do it to for/to become someone else, do it because you want to be a better version of You. Nobody else will be You except for you.
Thanks I needed to hear that
Awesome 👏
Perfectly said
Soo true
Well written ❤
you just wanted an excuse to draw keanu reeves, didn't you
I wouldn't blame him haha
This is an example...be the one who you like
@Crippling Depression yeah thats my question too
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Lol
When you asked me to chose a celebrity Keanu Reeves was my first Choice! Hes totaly my favorite actor!
Keanu Reeves is a great person
Same!
Is he still dating that trans actress
@@jakeyu2404 yeah
same
Taking up traits from someone else's personality u like and then loving yourself for owing that is more like toxic positivity. You just need to love and accept yourself just as you are.
I totally understand what you're getting at. But the thing is, I can never look at something from one point of view. So my question is, what about people like, psychopaths? Pedophiles? Cannibals? Narcissists? Etc etc what about them? They're just being themselves when in our opinion they're doing 'bad' things. I know, there are factors that may make a person have dangerous tendencies. But my question remains, we should accept ourselves for what we are, but what if that real self is, for the lack of a better word, dangerous and toxic?
Does it all come down to 'be yourself but not like that'? Who gets to decide what's acceptable and what's not? And why?
@@user-youdontknowme wow. I guess at this point it would be all subjective POVs
@@amoora2235 😅 ikr
It gets very fuzzy when we start thinking about it. From a religious point of view, limits of morals and such are quite clear. But I would love to hear from a non-religious point of view.
@@user-youdontknowme that's also right. But for that, they could have just said we need to eradicate our toxic traits and love ourselves as we are. When we say we need to change ourselves for being able to love ourselves, that's kind of- like we are not embracing our own selves.
@@rtl6042 you're right too. But then again, isn't he in a way embracing himself by doing what he wants to do? Like, he wants to incorporate the things he loves in his own character and love himself for it. So isn't he just doing what he wants and accepting and loving himself the way he wants?
You can do you and love yourself for it, and he has the choice to do what he wants to do. Is there a rule that only living with what traits you were born with is self acceptance? Don't we all acquire traits and habits and hobbies etc as we grow up? Isn't he just consciously choosing what he wants within himself and then being happy because he now is the best version of himself according to him?
“Think of someone you like”
Me : Azula from Avatar the last airbender
Oh, okay I’ll take over the world
Don’t want to make this too personal, but back in December I was going through a bad depressive period. Around December 23 I decided to start some kind of change. I didn’t have many friends, so I was spending all of my time in my bedroom. I thought I would start small and start being productive. So I started a storyboard (that I’m still working on), I played my guitar more, and I focused on improving my anatomy and perspective skills while sketching. By the time my winter break ended and I had to start my classes again, I still had a lot of anxiety issues but I had built up a lot of moral and was learning a lot about my personality and general. I was really happy about it. I think it was around this time that I found your video about your self improvement journey through high school, and I’m a sophomore, so when you mentioned that you realized that you went through high school with no memorable moments, I started thinking how my high school experience has basically been the same way so far. It took me a while to start working through my social anxiety, but about three weeks ago I started using my hobbies to communicate more with my peers. I brought portraits that I painted and gave them to people, I started embroidery and would give people the demos that I had made, and recently I started bringing my guitar (apparently lunging around a huge guitar case let’s other guitarists realize that there’s another guitarist in the area). This semester has definitely been a huge improvement, and your videos definitely made me realize some things in my life that I needed to change, so thanks! (Sorry if this went on forever!)
That sounds amazing! If you don't mind me asking, how did you find the self-discipline needed for all of this? I want to make some similar changes, but I always end up procrastinating or just doing something easier etc. Do you have any advice?
Milica Mandić Tbh, procrastination used to be a huge problem of mine. I would constantly be telling myself that I could just do the task another time. I guess the key to be more self disciplined would be consistency. When I was going through that depressive phase, for example, I had terrible hygiene. Like, I would probably shower once every two weeks. I started making progress by basically forcing myself to shower every night. Eventually it became routine. I don’t think self improvement is an easy thing to accomplish, but it’s definitely worth it. I also used my anxiety basically as motivation, which sounds strange, but it was basically a way of me using my negative traits in a positive way. I’m not sure if this works for everyone, but one example of me using my anxiety as motivation would be during one project I had for my drivers ed class. We were supposed to turn in a packet and PowerPoint presentation about different cars. It was a group assignment and the people I got paired up with were just straight up lazy and didn’t do anything. I was able to finish the PowerPoint and packet by myself, but the day before the due date, I lost the flash drive. I was freaking out pretty bad, but I decided to just start the whole thing over with the few hours I had left. I think that usually I would have just decided to tell the teacher the situation and not turn in anything, but I started thinking about how embarrassing it would be to have nothing finished when we all had a week and a half to work on this. When I turned it in, it wasn’t a perfect score, but at least it wasn’t a failure. Since then I’ve been using that anxiety to any project I start, and I put as much effort as I can into it. I hope this helps!
Wow, thank you, that helps!
@@sarahawesomesause1149 Great me too, I'm using the pain ("shyness, lovesickness" ) as my motivation to do martial arts 5 times per week and go deep in myself. It works: Now I can say I'm an optimistic person.
Improvement Pill Thanks, really appreciate it!
"just be a social butterfly" uh-huh okay
Not that easy though
Yh but to love yourself you have to practice and leave the things keeping to hate yourselves isn't it clear
What if I've social anxiety?
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@@cherrae1887 easier said than done for some.
@@AngieAJ it's my experience tbh, ik it's really hard but not impossible
Me: *looks up this video*
Me: hmm....
Me: *Starts hating myself just a little bit more*
me: don't go down that path, there are people that will make your life difficult don't make it difficult for yourself.
Same 😢
Exactly!!
It’s also important to recognize that Keanu has gone through a lot, continuously. Serious struggles.
It’s frequent that the kindest people are the ones who have gone through some not-so-kind things. Real, raw humanity. ❤️
I can say this is true. Thank you
I can say this is true. Thank you
Imagine telling that story to someone...
"Yeah my plane just had to do an emergency landing but Keanu Reeves was on the plane as well and he drove all of us to our destination."
That would be the best story ever!! 😂
We would be like: suuuuuuure......
That guy: no for real!
"Yeah and he started playing country music on the ride"
@@charlossen and everyone clapped. :)
I didn’t know those stories about Keanu! So sweet!
The advise you’re giving here is simple, yet useful. Thank you!
He is the sweetest man in the world. We have to award him. Noble prize of existence. NOW!
In the Matrix he took 1 million dollars of his pay to give it to the other actors in the movie
Yeah, Keanu is amazing!
Namjoon taught me how to love myself
The longest relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself! love yourself like nobody else ✅✅✅
that´s because he left the matrix
he knows we are all one
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Indeed Mr. Smith
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You: “Keanu Reeves-”
Me: *claps loudly*
😂😂😂 lol dude SAME!!!!
Why does this have little likes???
See when I think about “changing yourself.” I think “force yourself out of your comfort zone to make friends. Or push my self in a situation where I have to fake being confident all to somehow love myself. Though your video changed my stupid thoughts and it makes so much sense that if you really wanna love your self just be a better person and try not to brag! I wrote a lot but I just wanna say thanks for this. :]
You can do it , it’s not necessarily faking it but look at it like It’s something you can practice and work on and over time you will build it and it’ll become easier also you’ll feel better with each goal . I’m trying baby steps sometimes we just got to face our fears
This video is more "making others love me" than loving myself. It's like I would need to become an entirely different person than what I am to feel happy and loved.
I promise you you don’t have to create a whole new personality to do random acts of kindness and boost your mood. Anyone can do that in any number of ways
Another reason to love Keanu is because he uses his riches to help others. He realizes its an enormous privilege to be rich and knows not everyone can be where he is. Its like having a superpower.
Truth!
Thank you, improvement pill.For always being there for us.
U read my mind!
He was there when I got laid for the first time. In the same room. Great guy.
Also, when doing a presentation, imagine your favorite person smiling at everything you say :)
The only person you are gonna be with your whole life is yourself. Why spending time on judging yourself when you can try to love yourself little by little💜
Thank you bts for showing me how to love myself💜💜
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@@Michaelhehe love your name😅😅
AMEN!
Keanu Reeves is like Jesus lowkey
lol
*HIGH KEY*
But if not wrong, I ever heard he is not christian but buddhist. Cmiiw
Elon musk taught me to work hard and give something back to this planet. To keep going even when no one believes in you because there is always someone who does and that's you.
I wish I could give you more likes
@@dmax1 I gave it, your comment made me do so😅
@@Jayyk09 thanks lol
this dude told us something we all knew but didnt realize
Have searched the whole internet for practical self-love advices and this small single advice worths a thousand times more than all of them together.
Thank you.
I don't understand how I started to hate myself. I'm not a bad person, but suffer from extreme depression and low-self esteem. Even my husband is ignoring me and distancing away .
U just lonely its normal we all feel lonely from time to time but don't hate yourself I know u say u don't know your source of hating yourself but u being depressed about is pointless just try to do things that u love or in other words love yourself and your husband will not ignore u.
Same here..
Im sorry I feel for you ik this feeling
me : *admires zuko *
me: soo uhh how can I *checks notes* learn firebending and get a best character development and redemption arc in history?
Well, Zuko was abandoned by her mother and leave to marry another man. His scar was caused by his father and even his sister is as insane as his father. His uncle died leaving him all alone with no "normal" family to lean onto. He has all the rights to turn into evil after having a horrible past with no normal childhood but instead of walking onto the dark path, he befriended Aang and his gang, his mortal enemy. He improved his skill and became a fire lord. Despite his horrible past, he never forgets her mother. He searched all over for her and in the end, he accepted her new family. Zuko has a lot of humility and improvement as person too!
My favourite character in this show (and one of the best i have ever seen) is uncle Iroh : the wise old man living his life the way he wants to while helping those he meets along the way…so many of his quotes are pure gold... yeah i'm a fanboy :p
I just love how this character is so well written because he has such a great development through out the series. Zuko is constantly misunderstood (technically at first was a villain not entirely though ) and just wants to be accepted by his father since he doesn't obtain the honor that Ozai practically stole from him , Zuko goes and obeys the orders that have been given to capture the avatar in order to get his honor back. But I simply adore the redemption arc especially when Iroh helps Zuko long the way . I'm talking also about the episode where Aang's bison goes missing but Zuko manages to locate Appa later Iroh appears in the exact moment then gives a epic speech that made him question who he was ...at the end of the episode Zuko his blue mask off and throughs it out to the ocean (that in away is saying that he is letting part of that past , talk about symbolic ). Including the Zuko Alone episode
@@iliash2025 I know right. Me too I'm such a fangirl and Iroh always gives the most epic and wisest speeches in all of the series
I'm sorry but the best character development and redemption arc has to go to Arthur Morgan from RDR2
how did i end up here from bonelab
This reminds me of something I've learned with Ali Abdaal! "Choose yourself "! We tend to be told to be ourselves, but we can, if we want, choose ourselves, and there's nothing wrong with neither choices(stay you or change)... thanks for the video, now I attached this concept to the idea of self love!
YOU SHOWED ME I HAVE REASONS I SHOULD LOVE MYSELFFFFFFF
I just came back from listening to that song 😭
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“Love myself, love yourself” ~ kim namjoon 💜
Army❤
Beatrice Beatrice 💜💜
Kim Jong Un?🤣🤣🤣
@@coolmancoffeedan9028 ?????
@@coolmancoffeedan9028 ?
My friend met Keanu Reeves and they talked about life, I’m so jealous
This is my most favorite UA-cam channel . Always motivating, genuine advice, boosts my mood when I feel low. Keep up the work man, you are doing awesome ❤
*sees the dark shadow*
Brain: *keanu*
*Is actually keanu*
Me: 0.0 oh gad yes
Same
Briliant. Keanu Reeves has cracked the code. That guy is working God's plan. An epically great human
Hey man, i cant thank you enough for making this video
Im always mad at myself for giving upwhen it gets too hard, even tough i know i can do it.
And because of thid video i realised what was holding me back.
It was my own fear of making it too hard that caused me to always want to give up before it gets hard.
So thank you man, i really needed to realise this
This video makes so much sense, it's unbelievable. It's almost like I had this idea in the back of my mind , but the video helped bring it out.
I hate my self and I don't speak to anyone I just stand there and waiting to someone to talk to me 😢
Hello, you shouldn't hate yourself
That's an amazing attitude "WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO TALK TO YOU"😂
You can't just become a different person. People usually can't just swap personality traits out. I feel like the advice should go more towards how you can love who you are before you say "You need to change to be able to love yourself"
Yeah but the thing is, you can change. You are the way you are because of experiences, so you should be able to have new experiences based on what you want to change yourself. Go after what you want in life, it isn't easy
If you admire a trait, chances are that you were already meant to be that sort of person with that specific trait. We admire traits for a reason. You're not really 'changing' yourself. Call it improvement.
Right
@@user-eo5en5tm6h Interesting
I think there's a huge difference between changing to someone you're not and changing to a better version of yourself.
The LOVE you give to others is a reflexion of the LOVE you have for YOURSELF
This video boosted my motivation to an extent where words can't explain. Thank you so much.
Love your yourself = being a magnet . Watching improvement pill's conversation skills is loving yourself. Your videos motivated me to work on myself. Thank you for your help.
He looks like Jesus
Mars well he really does in real life
@@kossiscott1002 yeah i know XD
Except he’s so much better
It's because he is-
Ok yt comment section is glitching it’s say you have 5 comments yet it shows me an infinite number of comments
That's amazing! I just uploaded an interview with an awesome life coach talking about this exact topic. I love it that people are interested in knowing more about what self love is and how to truly love themselves. It's critical for our mental, emotional and social health.
thank you so much, i have anxiety,depression,ocd not to mention very low self steem but im trying to really change myself into being more confident and happy
Careful you don’t want people to pretend to be someone there not. You can’t take traits that disagree with who you are
i kinda thought that too but i honestly don’t know what is what anymore i j wanna love myself
Identity is defined by what you do, the more you so something the more it becomes your identity
- Mark Manson (Subtle Art of Not giving a F**k)
- James Clear (Atomic Habits)
Just what I desperately needed. Thank you so much improvement pill.
this is the realest advice i've ever heard
I love your videos. Your channel and many other self-improvement and spiritual channel are changing my life. Heres to the 2020s and how amazing it'll be for me and others.
Out of all the self love videos I’ve tried to watch on here this is the best! I love the fact about using a favorite character and/or person you look up too and try to use the traits yourself:) thank you so much
Dude, you've been hitting the GYM! you look so muscular in comparison to old videos
There are persons I admire because of their UNIQUE personalities and traits that doesn't mean I have to start behaving like them. You are giving people an unhealthy way for self love, I don't think this was intended. Yes, it's okay to have persons as inspiration or role models but we must always remember that each and every one of us are unique. In my opinion, the key to loving yourself is taking time to actually appreciate yourself that includes self-care days, positive affirmations, praying etc. Self-love also means picking up on our bad habits. It's a lot more to self-love and it varies for everyone. Hope everyone's doing well
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You Do Not Need to be Someone You Are Not
JUST you are FINE
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Today I ordered a rope from eBay and planed to kill myself. But this video has made me think, if I help others and try become a better person I might be happy again. Thank you
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U still alive?
how r u doing now? hope uve improved n hv become simwat happier...not worth killing urself jus to feel pain in after life...
Hey there, if you can just stick with it for a little longer, throw out the rope - or, better yet, help someone out using it, maybe you're at the local docks by the beach and someone needs help getting their boat tied down. Or maybe a friend wants help decorating their porch, suggest stringing it up around the ceiling of it and wrapping some led lights around the rope. Just so long as you don't use it negatively. Please don't do any harm to yourself. You are a living human being just like everyone else.
Always remember that you are loved, spread your love further to others to let them know they are as well and let this cycle become a cycle. 💙
Are you alive? Please let me know if yes!!
Wow, I have asked this question for years and this is the most straightforward answer I've gotten. I'll try it. Thank you! ❤️
did it work?
I was just on a 1 hour long call with a friend arguing about how she needs to love herself and at the end I finally got her to agree to do something with me (I’m still planning it) anyway I think this channel is gonna be really helpful so thank you
This is actually brilliant. Thank you!
I'm going to start being more confident, outgoing and happy. 💪🏽
This is the best video you’ve made in my opinion. Thanks for this. It’s a good sign to me that I’m on the right path. Keep on going man💪🏽
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Exactly, Man! Use your love for others to understand your deep needs!
such a simple concept that ive never thought of mindblowing! I feel like now I'm going to make a list of all the traits i like in others and try to emulate that thank you for a great video!
Loving yourself is the key to a happy life guaranteed.
YOU'RE BREATHTAKING!
This should have a billion views !
This motivated me to keep making videos. I just got to 10K. THANK YOU IP!!❤️❤️❤️
Thank you.
I have a terrible lot of bad throughts about myself, and this cleared up for me what to do.
I didn't expect for this to be actually helpfull, I was binge watching.
This video is very easy to understand and so helpful! Thank you! Loving oneself IS the key to everything!
I've been struggling with this for a long time, but your video broke it down so easily where I can take practical steps, thank you thank you thank you!!!!
This is a hot take I have never thought of before, it's pretty helpful. Thanks Improvement Pill!
Most importantly, you must perform these acts with a loving intention that is genuine.
This really helped me so much, I’m gonna watch this often to remind myself of these things. Your channel is very useful, thank you so much.
A different perspective on a topic that has been covered so much. Great video. Thank you.
Thank you for teaching me something valueable.. i was oblivious to the mistake i was making in my relationship... thanks for making me realise.
Thanks Man... I appreciate it! Lots of love!❤❤❤
'Stop being like that' , wow! Thanks, never thought about it
I will keep this video in mind for the future. Thank you...
i was thinking about your channel like 5 minutes ago and now you posted so thanks 🤩
one of the most delighted videos one you tube.
You told me something I needed to hear all year.
I have a lot of traits I don't like to see on other people. It's only natural I hate myself
Whenever You upload a video,
You bring a smile on my face
That's beautiful, thank you and btw the drawings r so cute ✨✨
You explained it in a very simple way. Yes I too can love myself. Thank you.
This is the ever best advice i 've been given! Thankyou so much!
Man, this video... this is probably the most important video of my entire life. You helped me wake up the mindset that I used to have, which unfortunately I had forgotten a long ago. Huge thanks to you, YOU'RE BREATHTAKING :)
This kinda seems like the equivalent of telling depressed people to just cheer up.
not really, this actually gives advice
“Just cheer up” is much more vague than “start doing kind things day to day”, don’t you think?
@@LloydRhodesBrandon not really, what i got from this video is if you wanna be a person you love just do what other people that you love do, but if it were that easy i think we'd have a society of perfect people by now :-)
pellopellopello1 That’s fair. I have wrestled on and off with depression for years. Motivation is dead when you’re depressed. However I think a point that the video doesn’t touch on really is how momentum can be gained; if you can push yourself to do just one little nice/cool thing today, it’ll be half as difficult to do one tomorrow, half again the next day, and so on. Momentum is such a powerful thing. I didn’t understand that for a long time. I waited until it felt easy to take action. But that doesn’t happen until you start taking action when it isn’t easy xx
Yall are breathtaking
You’re great in delivering the message.this is the best video that I’ve watched about this topic.Great perspective
How is pretending to be someone else helpful in learning to love yourself? I'm not a wealthy celebrity who can afford to pay for rides for dozens of people whom I've got nothing in common with aside from a common destination.
I suspect that the narrator doesn't actually love himself, he loves the idea of pretending to be someone else. This is not the same thing. It is also not healthy to force yourself to behave in a particular way that is against your nature.
Exactly what I wanted to say
the title literally said "how i learned to love myself". its based on his own experience. he is just sharing how he did it to himself, and using it as an advice to anyone else. we all have our own cope mechanism, and its up to us if we will strive to be better
Totally agree with you, I almost clicked the dislike button.
Im an awesome person but sometimes i fail and fail bad; I came on here to look for ways to love myself in such scenarios!
I agree. It will make someone never feels enough if he follows the advice in the video.
The only reason he used Keanu was because he is a popular figure who people know and can easily refer to as he tells his story. If he used a nobody he saw down the street people wouldn’t really know what type of person that individual is and will probably be disinterested cause nobody cares about a nobody. Keanu reeves on the other hand - you seem so narrow minded I feel really bad for you
This person makes it sound easy and fast, but it truly isn't, breaking out of your shell and breaking old habits its truly difficult for people that had been either hurt or who has a traumatic experience. So please if you are like me and have a hard time to do these things, just know you are not alone and also take your time❤️Progress takes long. You do not change from one day to the other and thats fine!
So happy i found this video i could cry.
Thanks IP i have never watched a video of your channel but now I loved your channel, it is necessary that it has to be a real person