How craving attention makes you less creative | Joseph Gordon-Levitt
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2019
- Joseph Gordon-Levitt has gotten more than his fair share of attention from his acting career. But as social media exploded over the past decade, he got addicted like the rest of us -- trying to gain followers and likes only to be left feeling inadequate and less creative. In a refreshingly honest talk, he explores how the attention-driven model of big tech companies impacts our creativity -- and shares a more powerful feeling than getting attention: paying attention.
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"I'm an actor so I'm a bit of an expert on..nothing" gotta love his sense of humor.
That joke was practically a necessity for the crowd to let go of their preconceptions and... pay attention.
That wasn't a joke. Just because people laughed doesn't make it a joke. It just makes it true.
@@tectomes
He stands before an already receptive crowd.
Actors, after all, are pretenders. Not artists. It's a skill, not a talent, and interest in it often manifests more readily in narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths (I'm no psychologists, I just see a very distinct difference between disconnected from reality and disconnected from people.
@Carl Bailey You gonna be okay, bud?
The opposite of getting attention is not paying attention : it’s giving attention. The opposite of being worshipped is worshipping. But I think with being worshipped and worshipping, both have the same (not opposite) outcome : unhappiness. So where is the fallacy here.... What is the difference between JGL focusing on his craft when he’s acting, and a Taylor Swift fan empathically feeling the hurt and the anger when their idol is attacked.
“If your creativity is driven by a desire to get attention, you are never going to be creatively fulfilled”
Well said:/
I'm gonna be that guy.
It's fulfilled.
EDIT: Thx :)
Jenn G. E. This is not profound information at all
dang i felt tthat
@@ashcatchum The statement is a good reminder.
"See your peers as collaborators not competition" ... this is the entire problem with many work places. And people refuse to help each other!
100% agree!
The thing is.. in a lot of workplaces.. they want us to see each other as competitors. All that matters is how much money we bring in.
Literally in this world. We don’t help one another and we’re at each other’s throats
As the proverb says: “among two fighters the third benefits”
This is the problem with western culture. Western culture inspires unhealthy competition, being #1, big money , me me me
this is the social dilemma explained in 15 min
kinda except he didn't go into the cryptic and dangerous world of surveillance capitalism and its ability to change people's behavior and values without them knowing, not to mention the deep sadness that comes with realizing that many of world's smartest people are working not on curing diseases or solving climate change... but selling more ads :(
gotta admit, I clicked because Joseph Gordon-Levitt had my attention
Same 😂
Ok. People, don't like this comment anymore because the like count is 420!!
Same here
Same
I was going to comment this but at least it was said lol.
I’m not an actor, but I took some classes many years ago. Our teacher used to say: “Be interested, not interesting.” This has been most useful advice for me when interacting with people and with the world.
to be interesting is to be interested, that is the number one rule of Dale Carnegie.
@@baodau2230 you're literally too stupid to insult
Nathan Drake I think he was kidding dude...lmao
wow that's a very, very useful advice.
What a great advice, thanks
This is one of those things that most people probably know instinctively but need to be reminded of often, myself included.
Yeah, sometimes idk how to verbalized my feelings
Exactly! Putting to words what you believe in is not always easy.
@@miguelangel-lb2ij it'll become more clear as you exercise your humility and open/honesty with yourself.
@@Kinobambino Thanks for the words, I'll really take it into account
"the more I go after that powerful feeling of paying attention, the HAPPIER I AM. But the more I go after the powerful feeling of getting attention, the UNHAPPIER I AM." - Joseph Gordon - Levitt.
FOREVER MY NEW LIFE STATEMENT
Agree !
How are you Kimberly
but what abt the people that have fulfilled their lives around other people, and worrying about others,, "paying attention" to their needs and what other people have to say, learning and learning etc. and so forth.. what if maybe,, they want to be paid attention to. Sometimes those who do not get to speak, need to be heard, seen. (not arguing nor disagreeing to your comment, just analyzing.)
actors can sound so wise and smart when not being interviewed by E news.
evil corp
I know, right? It even seems like they are real people
This guy sounds idk robot
@@NameNik223 They are real people. You can’t fully blame the media because the masses decided it was okay to dehumanize actors, models and other successful people. They are human and so many internet trolls forget that when they decide to treat celebrities like they aren’t real human beings with feelings and emotions just like you at the end of the day.
@@aurorajudith-ramirez7389 My comment was sarcastic
“Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.” - Albert Einstein
That Albert was a genius 👍
Yeah this one’s good too :)
Value to whom? The commune? Screw that.
Easy for him to say...
14 years old and this is deep
Funny. A week ago I deleted social media to focus on my music because I felt I was doing it just for the attention, I found this video today. I feel less stressed knowing I am creating for myself and not for others. It comes for naturally and sounds much better than when I produce just to get other people’s approval. Good talk, Mr. Levitt 👏🏼
What's different in your music when you make it for other people? I'm curious, because I would think that regardless of who you're making it for, you'd know what sounds good or not.
@@-JaggedGrace- it's not so much about what sounds good or not, it's about taking chances... one's more inclined to take chances and try something new and different when it's for themselves vs for other people, and there's always going to be greater fulfillment attached to that whether it sounds good or not... with other people, one might create something more in line with what they know the masses would enjoy, vs taking the risk of producing something off the beaten path that might not have the same reception amongst the masses... it might still sound good but it just won't feel as good... when one stops caring about such things, life becomes a lot more enjoyable.
@@23Guitardood That makes a lot of sense to me. I agree now.
I feel this, I deleted Instagram and in a couple of months my paintings have improved so much.
Thankyou for this
“If you want to live a happy life tie it to a goal and not to people or things” - Einstein
Ironically, sounds like an instagram quote. People and things are an essential part of our existence too. And while goals are def imp, it's actually a pretty toxic way to live day to day, especially if you have a static one - because you'll feel incomplete before it and directionless after. Just sayin xD
Is this really from einstein? Lol it doesnt really make any much sense cause a "goal" could be a thing or a person also.
@@gambasfile7157 a goal could be a person? if you're talking about getting in a relationship then it can't be because if they're not interested from the first glance then its over my friend. women lie when they say looks don't matter, they're the same as men. looks are very important and other factors play a part also such as personality and character but they come secondary when looks are not there. a goal is something which is entirely 100% by your own effort and other people have choices to be with you in whether relationships, friendships or business.
Humans are social animal
He as a public person and being able to admit to his insecurities and everything... Gotta admire how humble this guy is and the way he uses this to create connection with the audience.
Exactly!
Totally agreed!
Júlio Barboza Chiquetto STOP GIVING HIM ATTENTION!!!!! Jk i totally agree
Yeah man, anytime I've seen JGL, he's on-point as a real, positive, high-quality human.
And in the end isn't this whole performance just him getting attention
Wow I remember working with this guy at a greeting card company, super creative guy, said he wanted to be an architect or something.
didn't he date that one freaky chick with the bangs? she was hot
@@broadwayzjm5257 Same girl who is paranoid about disaster to happen??
Lol i loved 500 days of summer
Glad he’s okay now.
Those were great 500 days
I'm so glad I've found this, I'm a musician who is taking a break from social media as it was making me unhappy, anxious and unproductive, Joseph has explained so succinctly what the problem is, I am happy when I'm creating and unhappy when promoting and now I know why. Thank you x
i agree, the promotion side feels gross and self obsessed
Straight facts
@Laurel Kardison Cos your in the wrong market like me, try making music with kids you'll be a lot happier !!
My daughter is a musician and is doing the social media break
Keep going! Do what you love!
The irony is, we can't even make a youtube comment without craving attention. Back to liking in the shadows to work on the Zen state of paying attention.
Take your like, you dirty attention craver >:v
And the platforms feed into it by boosting whichever content gets the most engagement, so we viewers end up feeling like we’re doing the creators a favor by commenting on their videos. Which, of course, only leads us to become hooked on the attention we get for our comments, and the cycle continues...
Then don't comment for attention but for the need.
Charismatic habits:
1. Hand gestures
2. Raising energy
3. Vulnerability/ Authentic expression
4. Change of tonality
5. Humor
Ironborn4 what?
What’s with this obsession with charisma these days? Jesus
@@majestycrush Jesus had charisma.
@@majestycrush because without charisma, people will not take you as seriously as you want them to. Superficial? You can say that. But in the end we humans judge by appearances and impressions. It's unfortunate but charisma is a necessary skill to master if you want to get what you want in life
Nice
"I try not to see other creative people as my competitors. I try to find collaborators."
i changed my entire perspective regarding music production with this new perspective about a year ago.. and i can definitely say its helped with creativity and overall positive energy in my craft
It is so helpful! Now i look at all those people in a different way and I'm like "oh my god i wanna sing with this dude, i wanna draw smth together with that! People I do love you!!!"
@@Xitaychin yea its a great word thou im suprise. I think I wanna stan him.💖
If we would just bring up children with that kind of mindset...
He speaks so beautifully, I just loved that, every single world is pronounced so clearly and adorably, plus his charisma of acting, after this speech I became to admire him mor
I feel like Joseph is intuitively tapping into something much deeper regarding how powerful of a tool attention can be. If we take Jungian psychology and shadow work, which is the basis of the most successful models of therapy imo, it's essentially controlling what we pay conscious attention to, and bringing forth into consciousness that which we do NOT want to pay attention to (aka our shadows, the parts of us we resist so much we don't even identify with) in order to integrate them, and Joseph bearing his shadows and wholeheartedly owning them so openly to a very large group of people is a very powerful thing. Which is why group therapy or partner programs like AA (or church, really) work so well. When a large group all pay focused attention to the same thing and keep each other in check, deep synergy and transformation can happen that are greater than the sum of their parts, but both externally and internally in every individual. So I hope no one takes this to mean attention is a bad, evil thing that we should never desire. it's just a powerful tool that you can remind yourself you always have the choice to direct.
Haven't finished your comment but give it a thumbs up the second I read Jungian psychology
But ended up agreeing specially in the last part
The church part... Yeah religions offer just that, tho The Bible did say this was going to happen and only one path would remain true
@@gsahara8405 oh ffs
I agree with you about the transformational power of a community that focuses shared attention on a particular aspect of life (like AA, Church, and I would add human rights groups, etc). And to your point about paying attention to the thing we *Don't want to pay attention to, I have found community essential to the process of developing self-compassion as a therapeutic tool. I can't imagine how one can exercise compassion if they don't receive it or watch someone else recieve it. Which again requires paying attention just as much as accepting attention.
*me on vid 10 of my YT binge: “I’m so glad I’m not addicted to Instagram.”
But if you're on a YT bing, aren't you paying more attention than you're getting? So that's a good thing, right? Right?
Lmao good point I got a problem
😆😂😂😂😂😂
Joe Rothwell facts. I have no other social media but I’m addicted to watching UA-cam.
I think all my followers are bots lol I don't know but I look at it as a photo journal
ok this algorithm is getting a little to specific
too*
DUDE, I'm legitimately afraid. 😳
@Bigfoot nice!
Perhaps we should reverse the time 😜😜😜
U a tiktoker?😂
Only after deleting my Twitter and Facebook accounts I realized how many times a day I stopped what I was doing to think "Ah, that would be a nice post". For a while it was very difficult not to go back to social media.
super relate hahha
Metoo
Yes, I stopped posting on Twitter last year after a bad breakup (I needed to to learn self control) but during that time beforehand I was thinking that everyone would find my reposted song lyrics cool and me as well which never happened but since leaving fb and Twitter - I have more time to actually talk to people. It was strange how it worked out - took some months but I got there
I don't use these apps cause I don't need it.
More than the need is always harmful no matter how good or bad something is.
But they're good if used in balanced amount and can help others in emergency situations.
Love this line 9:14 "If your creativity is driven by a desire to get attention you are never gonna be creatively fulfilled "
"...if we can just stop competing for attention then the internet becomes a great place to find collaborators."
Not gonna happen babe
It is sad that even in science (at least in Germany) often it's only about impact factors. Today's publishers are instagram and facebook for scientists...
@@Squids_Vlogs It's happening right now. It's all about where you avert your attention.
The opposite of getting attention is not paying attention : it’s giving attention. The opposite of being worshipped is worshipping. But I think with being worshipped and worshipping, both have the same (not opposite) outcome : unhappiness. So where is the fallacy here.... What is the difference between JGL focusing on his craft when he’s acting, and a Taylor Swift fan empathically feeling the hurt and the anger when their idol is attacked.
it's a very catchy statement from Joseph.
The best flow I ever had was when I didn’t care about anyone or anything.
That's how it works. Best when you include yourself on the list of things you don't care about.
@@SnootchieBootchies27 I'd say that this "not caring" is usually a consequence of flow, not the setting for its emergence, though if you're generally over-concerned with things I think that would make sense.
Well, it is unfortunate that you have not been able to reach a strong state of flow while simultaneously caring about the world around you. To do so, one must simply be capable of shedding all outside concerns during (emphasis on during) the action/whatever it is that one is paying their attention to. All outside concerns are dropped to increase the effectiveness and efficiency of the human doing the task. (Shed all your concerns for a limited time, then come back to reality and care for your loved ones when the action/task you were using flow for is finished)
P.S. When humans are legitimately in a state of "not caring" as in the circuitry in their brain that regulates emotion is removed or destroyed leaving one incapable to attach feelings to thought or thought to feeling, there is not a single sense or reason to perform any actions such as paying attention for them for they truly are incapable of caring for anything. Flow is when one is able to use the machinations of the human brain to focus and hone in on a particular target without letting the focus falter from distractions. Successfully reaching flow is when human and task alike are synergetically in motion, in other words, their focus is so disciplined during the flow-state that distractions are unable to hinder the action the human is doing.
There's a book on this subject. I haven't read it yet but hear it's quite good. "The Subtle Art of not giving a F*** "
I guess every flow is like this.
I think most artists would love to give their undivided attention to their work, but the "getting" of attention so often determines who has enough confidence or money or resources to live within their creative flow to begin with. Attention means more than just the great feeling of being praised -- it is a gateway to survival, wealth, and power. It's no wonder that we descend into competitive practices within our creative industries, because we still have the fear of going hungry beneath it all.
Agree!
I've always loved him as an actor and it's really refreshing when someone this successful is both so humble and helping to spread some great concepts and important messages. These talks in general really get you thinking and I love it when one of them gets me engrossed in the topic. Thanks for providing these!!!
When someone shows such a severe lack of toxic ego and is so self-reflected, they have my attention 👌
same here
This only works when someone auch is already famous or has had/is having enough of attention by others , u won't be interested in honest self reflection of a beggar
@@Odin_Borson i think it's got to do with the work they do? If someone is doing some work, but remaining humble you'd feel a bit in awe of them, but not if they're not doing work
@@bhadrakadabra Not all those scientists, military leaders, social activists are getting who are working for countries honestly ,who are truly doing the job crucial for our survival and protection; but how many of them get the attention, recognition ? The work factor comes in the last , attention is given to what entertains you , to ur senses. Attention and honesty in work has no relation .
@@Odin_Borson i didn't say it's just for actors. Also i definitely respect health workers so much, the amount of work and effort they put in is a lot. I dunno why you think they don't get attention for the work they do, or recognition. Of course actors do get lots of it because they're constantly in the limelight. I appreciate anyone who stays humble despite working hard, doesn't matter what they're doing
Honest and ballsy. Social media is mostly just bad news.
I love this quote I came across on the internets - “I am in competition with no one. I hope we all make it.”
The internet can be good if you are able to ignore the bull. Turn off your TV.
That's a really nice quote! Thanks for sharing it :)
love the quote too
Love that quote
We live in a soceiety
He has given every artist the key to creating authentic art. When no one is competing with one another, but collaborating and paying attention only to THE ART.
Thinking that we need attention outside makes us paranoid of other people, so instead of tapping or developing our skills and selves, we want to get what's them or what they have or who they are. Instead of being creative and journeying within, we journey other's people destiny and envy their creativity.
We are all too old asking for attention as ADULTS ?
“People love to get offended and I don’t want to get canceled”
Rocky(rachel) is on suicide watch for sure after this lol
Seriously.
Twitter stans' culture
Im still freaking impressed that he just gave a 13 Minute talk without any note and barely slides (that like didn't even say very much) or anything with nearly no "uhm" or "ehm" and just riding the wave. Crazy
He IS an actor, after all - his communication skill must be excellent for him to excel at his job
That might actually be one thing actors are supposed to be experts on, contrary to his self-deprecating joke
He is an actor....
It's only because he's an actor. Public speaking is a skill you can train.
@@TheMarijaSunshine yea I agree its hard to stand up in a crowd with ppl that you'll see for the first time. It hards to hide nervousness.
I gave up social media in 2020 because I'd struggled for years with this draw for attention because in my real life I don't crave attention, but on social media I felt all the feelings of failure when I wasn't getting any. After the initial struggle of quitting, I felt freer than I thought I would and I've never missed it.
What I learnt from this video is to be humble and live in the present...
Dude seems like a genuine guy.
You gotta watch the battle between him and Seth rogen lmao
Young SnakeBDK what happened?
he may be but remember he is a good actor too .....
He is
How do i know?
He was on my campus
Anyone hears that wavering in his voice? That way you get when you’re nervous talking in front of people? Thats adorable to see in a celebrity. It goes away when they clapped tho.
Yes yes I think it was really important for him to tell people about this observation.
the quality of this ted talk is best I've ever seen , lights, camera angles, focus, his flawless words, content and sound perfect.
As an actor and filmaker, you'd expect that tbh.
I really needed this. I’ve watched a LOT of videos about seeking validation and I’ve talked to my psychologist about this, but it’s the first time I actually see an actor talking about this and it’s exactly what I need right now as an actress. Recently, I’ve been feeling like I’m never really IN the scene, I’m always thinking about what people are gonna think of my performance and I KNOW this is terrible. So this video helped a lot, thanks💖
Try deleting social media off your phone for like a week and see how different you feel. Its WILD y’all
I don't use social media and I don't have a smartphone, just a regular cellphone to make phone calls and SMS.
And I don't feel anything special about it.
Hr Gwea its the difference from being used to it and not having it for a week
I wonder how would the feeling change if that week turned into a month.
Addicts won't resist.
@@hrgwea UA-cam is a social media, you are social-media-ing right now
e-mail is also social media, internet forums are social media, the telephone system is social media, newspaper are social media. . . .
And yet, nobody calls those form of communication social media.
UA-cam has never been social media either, because it's about spreading content, not people.
Social media are websites that allow people to advertise themselves.
Stop reading comments and pay attention
Uncle Kevin hahaaaa guilty
Uncle Kevin yeah but I paused for an another attention assist thanks lol
Stop commenting and pay attention
Why you gotta call us out like that
good ‘ol uncky kevin
I'm happy I gave my attention to this TED talk. I've loved his acting since his days in 3rd Rock. What a humble guy. I admire him for being vulnerable and saying it like it is. Thank you Joseph!
This is the most quiet/least responsive audience I’ve ever seen on TED. He gave some wise advice 👍🏽
Perhaps it was him setting the tone of "I'm not doing this for your attention even though a part of me still likes it" and also striking a nerve with a common issue
Probably they have been paying attention instead of getting attention 😉
I’m surprised by how even an amazing actor like him could still be nervous in the beginning of the Ted talk
I've seen in a few videos of actors sharing their experiences with being in front of a camera for a movie set vs. being in front of a live audience like in Theatre. Some people prefer one over the other, and vice versa. It's some wild stuff.
A movie/TV actor does a 10-30 second cut, in front of crew he knows, repetitively over and over until they're satisfied.
It'd be easy to do that and still be uncomfortable public speaking.
Theater actors, however, wouldn't have this excuse.
@@onikin Most good and professional actors have experience in theaters
Love that he was nervous 😍
There’s no script
3:08 That was me clapping from the comfort of my house, surprised it was caught on film
I love that phrase he just talked too. Glad you clapped 👍
Are you here to get attention? :)
Michael C what did he say?
Moments like these are when I love the internet most 👏🏾 Good one 😂
Fapping*
This "flow state" he mentioned has been very hard to achieve for me, undoubtedly ever since I got a smart phone right around college. Pre-phone addiction I remember being able to read, and write, for hours. Flash forward to the present and I am struggling to even make it through a magazine without checking my phone, or heck even just watching a 20-minute TV episode that is designed to grab my attention! Awareness is the first step though.
it is so true that nowadays people live off attention, especially now that social media became a big part of us. i mean attention could be good because it is some type of feedback, but i totally agree that too much can make people wholly addicted without knowing how it negatively affects their life.
“Live to express, not to impress.”
live to shut up, observe and learn.
live to excrete, not compete
@@Roopfert nothing wrong with compete, depends on the context.
"The more I go after that powerful feeling of paying attention, the happier I am. But the more I go after the powerful feeling of getting attention, the unhappier I am." - Joseph Gordon, TED
This more phrase like me
You're the guy who clapped aren't you? lol
👍.... Great Quote & Message tho.
I definitely tend to Stay Away from Attention Seekers... 💜
Joseph is a good communicator. I don't have much proficiency in listening english, but i somehow was able to understand the whole talk by him without subtitles.
I love his emphasis on his personal experience, I'm glad he didn't feel superior and try to make himself sound like he couldn't relate at all
"Stop compete, let's complete."
My motto is related with this.
@Eric T. Duckman It's because I see the life I live today feels like a competition. "I want to be the most..", "I want to be better than...", and so on. Feels like other people are our rivals. In fact, in this whole world we need a collaboration to make our dreams come true, we need a company. So when facing a shortage, we might need to ask other's help to complete it (learnt by them or etc)
We are all have the strenghts and weaknesses, why don't we strengthen each other to reach our goals by the collaboration? I complete you with things you might not be able to do, and you too.
Then
"Stop compete, let's complete"
That is my explanation of my motto. Thank you.
Fitri Asriyanti He was suggesting an alternative version based on grammar - the intent is the same
The more time you spend on social media, the less time you spend creating things. Every time we choose to do something, we also choose not to do other things. Time spent cannot be regained, so it's important to choose something that matters to you personally. In that way, you will have less regrets looking back.
You said it so well!
_[existential screaming]_
Moderation is key with everything especially social media. Instagram and other media fuel my creativity and educate me but too much of it ruins your creativity and fills you with misinformed education
Not if you create things on social media.
really needed this. thank you
I was going through so much pain and discomfort and while it couldve been more than just social media, but I didnt even see social media as a problem and I think thats when I was in the thick of social media addiction.
10:30 What I got out of it was this: When I'm doing homework, I have to see it as a 'collaborator' more than a 'competitor'. I have to not compare my grades to my friend's grades. Just focusing on doing the best that I can in whatever I'm doing.
If every student think like this, there can only be... Happy & Smart student in this world
100% half my Uni life I spent comparing my grades and the attention of my professors. Then something just clicked, and then I realized that I needed to enjoy my learning experience, my colleagues were my friends too and they became my collaborators. When grades and being competitive didn't matter anymore, but _learning_, being happy and helping others took priority, my grades went up... I ended up happy and with a good GPA.
@@papl20 great! I'm happy for you. Any strategies that you used?
There’s nothing like an emotionally mature celebrity.
Had to just double-check it was really him.
ikr😂
Why is that?? I don't get it lol
@@aldos2889 don jon
Aldo S I saw the name in my notifications and it was a TED talk so I did not understand why he would be doing this. I thought it must be someone with the same name.
@@nmart1n ow okay, I thought you meant something funny or a joke that I didn't understand
As a former influencer, I wish I had heard this before I began. I don't regret the journey, but I absolutely did lose my creativity (and my mental wellness). I've never felt more present and productive since I've quit.
The youtube algorythm has some good timing
"This to me is the beauty of the internet. If we could just stop competing for attention, then the internet becomes a great place to find collaborators"
-Joseph Gordon-Levitt
sums it up nicely. The internet was fun and interesting until it turned into the constant rat race it is today.
I agree
I could not agree more.
that's a big "if"
Super humble. He doesn’t even like the applause. Just feels as though he’s grateful to be on that platform able to share his ideologies among others.
💯
He’s starting to understand humility.
I’ve caught my flow with my art and writing and it’s been amazing. I feel so much better and confident in my art. Just focus on the creating part.
Im so thankful with this TED Talk. This is very helpful for anyone that has a desire to crave for too much attention.
In many ways, craving attention is "taking" and paying attention is "giving".
not in many ways. It is that. seeking attention is taking regardless. Paying attention you are giving. No in many ways. It is.
@@edgarorozco3513 Ha ha! You're right Edgar. Thanks for insisting. 👍😉😂
🤣 y'all
It all depends on your motivation. If my job is to bring awareness to a worthy cause, then seeking and attracting attention could be a selfless and meaningful act. It could be more of an act of giving than simply paying attention. It all depends on whether I'm craving attention for the benefit of myself or for the benefit of others. Paying attention to something that brings no one else any value could actually be more of a selfish act. Again... it's the person's motivation that matters. Is it selfless or selfish?
this was a wonderful comment.
My favorite character from inception! ❤️
The one introvert in the crowd clapped alone. I’m with ya man!
Summer really changed his life.
Very honest talk from a guy with high level of self-awareness ! Thank you for your sharing.
I like how TED makes speeches that makes you wanting to to hear more...
@Dun Mealder It can only give you clarity, but the choice to change is solely up to you.
III-GabeN-III true
Love it. He comes across very genuine. Open and honest. Aware of his platform and using it right.
Couldn't have said it better.
I bet he has been through this relate feeling like paranoid and anxiety so he can truly understand and put the words into right order for people to understand the true value of paying attention.
The opposite of getting attention is not paying attention : it’s giving attention. The opposite of being worshipped is worshipping. But I think with being worshipped and worshipping, both have the same (not opposite) outcome : unhappiness. So where is the fallacy here.... What is the difference between JGL focusing on his craft when he’s acting, and a Taylor Swift fan empathically feeling the hurt and the anger when their idol is attacked.
@@prezrickard is teaching the opposite of learning, or is it the forgetting of knowledge? Perspective is the true message here.
KD_MaK : How is perspective the message, that is so broad. Please explain, I’m seriously interested.
It was beautiful to see him being vulnerable throughout the talk. It really touched me. Thank you
I 've had this problem all my life and I'm 73. You hit the nail on the head and I understand how wonderful the opposite feels and will always be working on it. The humbleness of this talk coming from YOU extremely helped. Thank you so much. AND as a cute side note I realized (as a 73 yr old) how much your face resembles ROY ROGERS. It's be great if they had a movie made based on his life and you played his part. Man would you get a lot of attention then. Bless your little heart.
Imagine being Rocky right now and hearing that JGL had a crush on you.
@Flick I was searching for this :D
I'd eat my own elbow
I thought this too! That somewhere in the world there is a girl watching this going.....wait! I used to go by rocky and I went to a summer camp when I was 8!!! 😆
I know a woman who turned down will smith because she thought he was too goofy when they were teenagers. It happens lol
@@LowKeyDee1620 he was goofy! That's hilarious! 🤣
So true, it's unfortunate how many people are completely addicted and don't even know how it negatively affects their life.
True
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Absolutely affected me too
@@mailife2875 great image link!
👍🏽
He’s been one of my all time faves since middle school.
The "consequence" of losing creativity as a result of widespread democratization of talent is not "unintended" it's VERY intentional, and is the sole purpose of the exercise.
I felt it. Everytimes i was trying to write something as a means to get an attention,my writing always messed up and the reader knew that i'm just giving them a blank message to show how smart i am. But,when i wrote something only because i want to,my writing becomes pure and they actually praise it. Even though i wasn't expecting that.
awesome
Omg same
Same for me
I'm the same!
i used to do the same. but when i decided i didn't want to do it for attention anymore, i realised that writing isn't something i'm even into. crazy, isn't it?
this guy's aging like a fine wine, i swear! he's 39 years old and this was posted last year and he was probably 38 then but damn.. he lookin' like he's 27 or something. amazing video. great message. love this guy.
Playing music feels way more fulfilling when I’m alone. I just want to make something beautiful in the moment, it doesn’t even matter if no one hears it. I’ve been sitting on a few songs I’ve written over the last few years, and just wondering what I should do with them all. They feel more special to me now, and I don’t really feel at a loss for not sharing them. I just want to get better. It’s Almost like they’re these little gems I’ve been holding on to, waiting for the right moment to share them with the world. It just doesn’t feel like the right moment yet.
Wow, you expressed so completely and perfectly what I feel about my music. Thank you.
First time ever watching this and for so long needed it.
This came into my mind:
Pay attention, don't try to get it, because If you cannot give yourself attention and you try to get it from others, it will never be enough. But if you pay attention of what you do and how you do it and keep a track on it, you will notice if you are doing something or not, if you are advancing or not for yourself. And It's ok to stay put sometimes, is ok to have better days than others because that's life, be kind to you and others, don't wait for someone to come and make you happy.
Straight out truth. The cycle of getting attention is literally vicious. Thank you for genuinely speaking about it. Love it.
I think you commented becouse you wanted attention
@@stopsign593 Yeah Maybe I did...😊.....While appreciating what I thought was praiseworthy content...thats it
P.S. I pressed like on your comment so cheer up!
I've always had the biggest crush on Joseph Gordon-Levitt, and now I'm crushing even harder. This was a very needed and insightful Ted talk.
Someone finally said it vavvuavus
Facts
You got a cute smile. Enjoy life and keep smiling.
he’s so humble is beautiful
ive always loved him, this makes me love him more
Bruh after saving Gotham, Robin straight up started giving TED talks..
batman*
@@tikuwork4966 *Robin
@@Dxntoo bruce wayne retired and this guy was given the position of batman
@@Dxntoo he didn't become the batman yet in the movie
@@narwhal5447 yeah, which makes him Robin, no?
this dude kinda look like joseph gordon levitt
Maya Eagles 🦅
ummmm...
Whooa, you got a sharp eyes!
He also speaks a bit like him, now when you mentioned it ...
I thought this was Edward Norton
This guy is awesome, it takes guts to accept those feelings and even more spirits to express them out in public.
genuinely one of the best ted-talks i've heard! love everything he sharess ❤ thank you!!
Love his transparency. Awesome message that’s helping me open up my own eyes!
didn't cody ko make a video on you
@@isbakernation ya lol
Not anyone can be transparent and honest like that when sharing about Attention!
I don't know man, look at your channel
the fact that joseph gordon levitt understands the 'cancelled' internet concept....what a time we are in
i would think that most people understand it. it's really not that complicated lol
we live in a society
@@ethanmiller9130 OMG really
bibimos
This talk actually changed my life in 2020 and sent me on a journey through some deep self development. Thank you Joseph 🧡
Please do share more. Would love to know. I’m hoping it would do the same for me.
Yes, tell us more. Ir World be useful
It feels so genuine and vulnerable it hurts.
bro I swear to god the man is such an awesome public speaker. he looked so fucking confident up on that stage. wow...
Ben Bry he’s a fucking actor dude
Kaine 😂😂😂😂😂
His voice was shaking at first
@@ricafauni7221 Still very confident
Ben Bry he seeemed nervous to me
Since last year, I'm free of this addiction called: Instagram.
How are things going right now? I mean, I tried to quit it for a couple of months and understood how much time I used to spend on it. Without it I was happier and focused, but somehow I later realized that Instagram it's not as bad as it seems: ig stories are terrible, you spend tons of your days on them so when I turned back to Instagram I stopped watching them and instead tried to focus on what was on my feed.
Now I'm pretty satisfied with this social media
Corinne Vasta social media eats into so much of a persons time. i used tumblr and was constantly on it. i had an urge to hop back on it shortly after getting off of it. that’s addiction. it ate into so much of my day everyday. i uninstalled it 2 or 3 years ago and haven’t used social media since. i’ve been much much more productive with my time.
Im still not using some app for social media. The only thing I do, is to check things on facebook. But thats even on my web browser...
It a self control thing and everybody hast to decide, how you want to spend your lifetime.
Me too
@@nxght6694 I agree, but remember UA-cam is still a social media
This is one of the best Ted talks I've seen in a few years. Great job! It also helps that I want to marry the speaker and his voice simultaneously 🖤
When a famous actor (who gets used to get attention easily) said that seeking attention can kill your creativity and what matters to u, so it must be 100% true. Start from now, I ll never do something to get attention,but pay attention to what i've been doing n working (including my comment on this channel). It must be one of d correct tools to not worry so much bout what people think bout us.
This guy saved Gotham, he knows what he's talking about
😂😂😂😂😂
Sure does 🤣
LOL
What? I dont get it
@@lucassousa1252 He plays John Blake in Dark knight rises
This video should be watched by every creative tbh. My biggest issue personally is being scared my creative work wont be good enough to others, so I don't even try sometimes. I always feel better and do better when I'm doing what I love, not what other's love.
It's why I've stopped trying to make concept art that looks like everyone else's in order to get into the games or movie industry. I'm happier for it.
3:07 cracks me up everytime
“Do nothing out of contentiousness or out of egotism, but with humility consider others superior to you, as you look out not only for your own interests, but also for the interests of others.” ~Philippians 2:3, 4
Bless