This Is How A Deaf Person's Voice Sounds, If You Ever Wondered

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  • So, this is what a Deaf person's voice sounds never having ever heard sound before... imagine trying to learn to talk without ever hearing sound!
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    This is how I sound... not how all Deaf people sound... those that could talk clearly usually are hard of hearing, and I'm not hard of hearing, so that's probably part of the reason why I couldn't speak clearly, and also I didn't really have speech therapy until later in 7th grade, 12 years old.
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    Hi guys! :) I was cleaning out my MacBook the other day and came across this old video from 2 years ago and thought why not post on UA-cam too. I asked people on my insta story to suggest words for me to use for a voice receptivity quiz for my Dad which was also a challenge for me as some of the words were words I don't voice often so it was a challenge for both of us. 😅 I so appreciate that my Dad works so hard to understand my voice and not only that but continues to learn and improve his signing to better communicate with me.
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    Anyways, thanks for watching! :) If you have any questions, feel free to ask!
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    Instagram @signedwithheart

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  • @Abdul-kd5lp
    @Abdul-kd5lp 3 роки тому +32744

    was i the only one who thought the old guy was the deaf one at the start?

    • @iremuc4045
      @iremuc4045 3 роки тому +2010

      I just realized he’s not the deaf one 👁👄👁

    • @jin2135
      @jin2135 3 роки тому +505

      That's what I thought too

    • @loretta2539
      @loretta2539 3 роки тому +188

      yupp.. me too

    • @heruuuuu
      @heruuuuu 3 роки тому +381

      Wait he isn't?

    • @Edward-ho2bm
      @Edward-ho2bm 3 роки тому +30

      yh

  • @imadoge5036
    @imadoge5036 2 роки тому +32234

    At the start I was like: he has a good accent for a deaf person

  • @lucianoarebalo41
    @lucianoarebalo41 2 роки тому +5851

    I like how laughing is universal, even people who can’t hear laugh and can’t know what a laugh sounds like laughs just like the rest of us

    • @peterbell3199
      @peterbell3199 2 роки тому +334

      Great point, I had never thought about that before, but you’re right, laughing must be instinctual instead of learned.

    • @halinaqi2194
      @halinaqi2194 2 роки тому +351

      Same with people born blind, they smile when happy.

    • @neillynch_ecocidologist
      @neillynch_ecocidologist 2 роки тому +76

      @@halinaqi2194 Like a deaf person laughing, motor reflex actions that we evolved to perform with our full array of senses / abilities which we can still perform even should a sense fail to develop embryologically. The genes / anatomical structures are still there to allow for laughing / smiling - even in a person born deaf / blind.

    • @sosu2441
      @sosu2441 2 роки тому +14

      Blind people didn't missed the mouth when eating

    • @ThreeWhiteSoldiers
      @ThreeWhiteSoldiers 2 роки тому +25

      @@justvibing2171 i think it's kind of basic instinct. like how baby alredy know how to breath (or hold breath underwater), sneeze, laugh, afraid of things etc.. and I also find it amazing and mindblowing

  • @purrsolus
    @purrsolus 2 роки тому +468

    "They had us in the first half, not gonna lie"
    - Sun Tzu "The Art of War"

  • @motifity3416
    @motifity3416 2 роки тому +7175

    At the beginning I thought, "wow, for a deaf person, that guy is extremely accurate at voicing words"

    • @flohwalzer
      @flohwalzer 2 роки тому +138

      SAME LOL

    • @ether2275
      @ether2275 2 роки тому +277

      they had us in the first half ngl

    • @d43d3
      @d43d3 2 роки тому +25

      Same here hahahaha

    • @kindameaninless
      @kindameaninless 2 роки тому +73

      wait what the fuck i was watching the whole video thinking both were deaf bruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhh

    • @F34RDSoldier805
      @F34RDSoldier805 2 роки тому +27

      It seems weird to think, but what if a deaf person steps on a Lego or stubs their toe. Would they make similar sounds as non deaf people. Like a ahhhhhh, or ooooo, or breath in closed teeth. Because I feel like we make these sound based on when we heard from others, so what would the default sound of stepping on a Lego be? Is that weird to think about? Idk...
      Thinking about it maybe they would mimic others faces in moments of pain and make whatever sound they can while making the face? Or maybe just the face with no sound? I have never seen a deaf person get hurt like stubbing their toe or stepping on a lego before but I'm a little curious. Am I thinking too far into it....

  • @tpsu129
    @tpsu129 2 роки тому +15939

    Your voice is so beautiful that my computer's closed caption calls it music.

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  2 роки тому +4197

      Haha, really!! That's funny. My dad does tell me that my voice is like music to him. 😄 Thank you.

    • @doriot543
      @doriot543 2 роки тому +21

      Same!

    • @luminatrixfanfiction
      @luminatrixfanfiction 2 роки тому +159

      @@signedwithheart Have you thought of getting a cochlear implant? I speak as normal as your dad because I have a cochlear implant. If you're interested in knowing more about it, let me know and we could communicate in private.

    • @fairlyadorablepancreas3746
      @fairlyadorablepancreas3746 2 роки тому +56

      @@luminatrixfanfiction cochlear implants only have significant benefit of done before the age of 7. After that speech has developed to a large extent and the risks of an invasive procedure outweigh the benefits.

    • @luminatrixfanfiction
      @luminatrixfanfiction 2 роки тому +138

      @@fairlyadorablepancreas3746 That's patently false. While it is true that younger kids adapt better and faster at younger ages to the cochlear implants, there is no risk to getting it at older ages.
      Speech can be developed with intensive speech therapy at any time, but again younger kids learn and adapt faster.
      The only time in which cochlear implants have little to no benefit is if the recipient has an undeveloped cochlear organ or no cochlear at all at birth.

  • @ryanturner3176
    @ryanturner3176 2 роки тому +768

    Really nice to see this in a fun and positive way.
    The scene where the deaf main character in “A silent voice” tries to be understood and fails is heart breaking. And I didn’t even realized I had internalized it as something tragic rather than something incredibly fascinating.

    • @mannyescuela3511
      @mannyescuela3511 2 роки тому +33

      I absolutely love that movie it was such a masterpiece. And also why I decided to look up videos like this

    • @user-hk3ux8yg1p
      @user-hk3ux8yg1p 2 роки тому +7

      Nishimiya Shoko

    • @bartologomez9309
      @bartologomez9309 Рік тому +2

      That movie is what brought me here

  • @MetallicAddict15
    @MetallicAddict15 2 роки тому +1210

    I understood "pumpkin" way before he did, but on everything else I had no clue and he got most of them on the first go. Very impressive!

    • @westerxxx9220
      @westerxxx9220 2 роки тому +18

      I’m Russian so English is not my native language, but i understood discriminate and inspire as well. It seems like I watched too many eng youtube videos 🗿

    • @millionelectricvolts6117
      @millionelectricvolts6117 2 роки тому +10

      @@westerxxx9220 good for you! it actually does help learning other language if you watch people speak it 🙂

    • @westerxxx9220
      @westerxxx9220 2 роки тому

      millionelectricvolts I think this is the best way to learn foreign languages (in case you have no opportunity to live in country where people actually speak this language).

    • @mohammedhusain6446
      @mohammedhusain6446 2 роки тому +1

      I didn't understand how she know it will pronounce pumpkin

    • @Eyes0penNoFear
      @Eyes0penNoFear 2 роки тому +8

      He has an advantage in that he knows her and has spent time with her.
      My wife is Deaf and when she voices I can understand her so much better now than when I first met her.

  • @abyxis
    @abyxis 3 роки тому +13757

    Wow. This actually explained a lot to me. I always wondered why deaf people who couldn’t hear generally didn’t talk either. But now when I think about it. You can’t exactly learn a language you can’t hear. And without being able to hear yourself volume becomes an issue, and you cannot tell if you are saying the words correctly. Awesome video.

    • @teddybear4914
      @teddybear4914 3 роки тому +437

      Yeah very true but I wonder if the results are different if you just lost your hearing at like age 13

    • @Akhimed
      @Akhimed 3 роки тому +693

      @@teddybear4914 Yea then you will be able to talk and even learn new words but maybe you will lose the sense of volume over time but I don’t know.

    • @abyxis
      @abyxis 3 роки тому +33

      @markhd098f interesting. Is it because of anxiety or something like that?

    • @chinmaykhaladkar1558
      @chinmaykhaladkar1558 3 роки тому +34

      How does it work for people who became deaf from a condition or injury? Can they still speak?

    • @RockyAbduljabar
      @RockyAbduljabar 3 роки тому +206

      @@chinmaykhaladkar1558 Yes, an acquaintance lost his hearing because of a fever. He can talk, but the volume sometimes is not balanced.

  • @peachmangopiesi5461
    @peachmangopiesi5461 2 роки тому +5980

    It's so amazing how she managed to pronounce the words without having any idea how each letter sounds like. I mean, I'm trying to put myself in her shoes and I feel like I won't be able to pronounce any of those words at all! It is like a person with visual disability trying to describe what colors are like.

    • @raccoonmoustache
      @raccoonmoustache 2 роки тому +232

      Well man, I dare you to describe me a color without using other colors! It’s actually impossible! And how would you know if my “red” is like your “red” and what if I have always knew this color I’m pointing out is named that way? You get what I mean?

    • @joschmo4497
      @joschmo4497 2 роки тому +158

      @@raccoonmoustache Shades of each colour have a wavelength, and also more practically, hexadecimal code. You can define colours
      Your perception of it might differ, but what is output does not differ

    • @JastwatchingYT
      @JastwatchingYT 2 роки тому +79

      Actually you can try to put yourself in her situation.
      Try reading a poem in Cyrillic (I'm assuming you can't read Cyrillic)
      Попрыгунья Стрекоза
      Лето красное пропела;
      Оглянуться не успела,
      Как зима катит в глаза.
      Помертвело чисто поле;
      Нет уж дней тех светлых боле,
      Как под каждым ей листком
      Был готов и стол, и дом.
      Все прошло: с зимой холодной
      Нужда, голод настает;
      Стрекоза уж не поет:
      И кому же в ум пойдет
      На желудок петь голодный!
      Злой тоской удручена,
      К Муравью ползет она:
      «Не оставь меня, кум милый!
      Дай ты мне собраться с силой
      И до вешних только дней
      Прокорми и обогрей!» -
      «Кумушка, мне странно это:
      Да работала ль ты в лето?» -
      Говорит ей Муравей.
      «До того ль, голубчик, было?
      В мягких муравах у нас
      Песни, резвость всякий час,
      Так, что голову вскружило». -
      «А, так ты…» - «Я без души
      Лето целое все пела». -
      «Ты все пела? это дело:
      Так поди же, попляши!»
      This really shows how hard it is when having visual and if you saw somebody try to lip-sinc it might be easier but still a hard task.

    • @joschmo4497
      @joschmo4497 2 роки тому +47

      @@JastwatchingYT What if I can read Cyrillic tho?

    • @iris-kw7ry
      @iris-kw7ry 2 роки тому +75

      My grandmother actually can't see colors, only black, white and grey. She knows every color and that grass is green and blood is red, that my hair is blonde and that some colors go well with others while some others don't. It's not easy describing a color to her so what I usually do is describe the feeling or tone it has

  • @andrewbond4353
    @andrewbond4353 2 роки тому +213

    This is so amazing to see how she sounds words, when you realize she has never heard them spoken, we take things like this for granted

  • @SMG2fanatic
    @SMG2fanatic 2 роки тому +74

    I know this may be a “well duh” thing, but I always feel happy when I see a deaf person signing with their hearing parent. Obviously it’s necessary, but it’s so cool to think how their parents need to learn a new language as an adult (which is notoriously difficult) and it’s fueled by love and may be a skill they would have never learned otherwise.

  • @JCstone1000
    @JCstone1000 3 роки тому +5320

    Your Dad melts my heart seems like such a kind soul

    • @hipeople5667
      @hipeople5667 3 роки тому +13

      Romans 10:9

    • @thedeaforc
      @thedeaforc 3 роки тому +10

      Plus Dads' are push over for their daughters

    • @RuNZiT1
      @RuNZiT1 2 роки тому +36

      That’s her dad?! Sheeeesh. She’s a cutie

    • @youwantmyname9208
      @youwantmyname9208 2 роки тому +5

      @@RuNZiT1 just because the dad is in his 70s-80s?

    • @mikorabago1816
      @mikorabago1816 2 роки тому

      Same 🥺

  • @ajcurtis5525
    @ajcurtis5525 3 роки тому +3290

    I’m Deaf too and a lot of people tell me “you don’t sound deaf” it’s important to note there’s not one way that we all “sound” just like hearing peoples voices are different and articulate things differently so do we.

    • @juankroosfrausto7411
      @juankroosfrausto7411 3 роки тому +328

      Theres a difference between being born Deaf and Going Deaf.thats all I'm going say .

    • @annieesther8405
      @annieesther8405 3 роки тому +102

      Some manage to learn to talk and others either don't, or lose the ability to speak due to lack of practice. It depends on many factors, especially degree of hearing loss.

    • @jiujitsusean
      @jiujitsusean 3 роки тому +53

      There is definitely a “sound”...and if you are deaf, how would you know if deaf people do or don’t sound alike?? 🤔 hmm I’m calling bs

    • @mufradr
      @mufradr 3 роки тому +26

      @@jiujitsusean its called "learning" he learned when he was groing up, that deaf poeple sound different (probably be reading adults lips) or maybe he turned dead later on. there are some differences

    • @jiujitsusean
      @jiujitsusean 3 роки тому +17

      I’m not saying that there can’t be “differences” in the way different deaf people sound but to say that there isn’t a “sound” is willfully ignorant. Maybe at the extreme ends of the spectrum there are less differences but at the general or “average” range there are more similarities than not. I don’t mean to speak from authority but I was an aid for a high school hearing impaired class and I immediately noticed the common “sound”. And for those who assume a negative bias on my part you are mistaken, I’m just looking at the reality of the subject. I mean no disrespect and those with an open mind definitely recognize that.

  • @CountingStars333
    @CountingStars333 2 роки тому +93

    She looks so happy.... I love her. The father is also such a wonderful person.

    • @Avighna
      @Avighna 2 роки тому +1

      .. That's a little creepy

    • @probot6515
      @probot6515 2 роки тому +13

      @@Avighna They don't mean romantically.

    • @Avighna
      @Avighna 2 роки тому +1

      @@probot6515 and how do you know what they mean?

    • @probot6515
      @probot6515 2 роки тому +15

      @@Avighna Context.

    • @nithen8179
      @nithen8179 2 роки тому +2

      @@Avighna its called context, dude

  • @MrMLBson09
    @MrMLBson09 2 роки тому +284

    I'd protect these two with my life. So damn wholesome

  • @TerminusHostilia
    @TerminusHostilia 2 роки тому +4501

    She doesn't even realize that what's she's doing is practically magic.
    But this is very beautiful...both helping the other perfect a new skill.

    • @katiealvarado7115
      @katiealvarado7115 2 роки тому +67

      It’s like teaching a blind person to write no input you can’t tell of what you’re doing is getting your message across or not

    • @legendarygaming5045
      @legendarygaming5045 2 роки тому +42

      @@katiealvarado7115 you can learn a blind person to write if he remebers the movement of each letter to write it, but reading would be impossible if it isnt the braille

    • @JTheMelon
      @JTheMelon 2 роки тому +17

      @@legendarygaming5045 Basically the same thing here, you just need to memorize the correct mouth and tongue movements to speak words correctly
      Edit: I never said this was easy lol

    • @sreek2457
      @sreek2457 2 роки тому +23

      @@JTheMelon it's much more complicated than that...to produce the correct sounds of a speech you must know how and when your tongue touches the inners of your mouths...it will take a lot of effort..but i think it's doable.

    • @randomizedindividual
      @randomizedindividual 2 роки тому +5

      Magic? I’m confused?

  • @kakalimukherjee3297
    @kakalimukherjee3297 2 роки тому +1334

    My brother is deaf, and he can actually speak, and his speech can be understood. All thanks to my mom. I didn't expect the girl's voice to sound so familiar. I'm thrilled.

    • @Iamlegend91
      @Iamlegend91 2 роки тому +13

      How did you teach him to speak?

    • @kakalimukherjee3297
      @kakalimukherjee3297 2 роки тому +226

      @@Iamlegend91
      Nope. My mom taught him to speak. It's by a process called speech therapy.... touching certain points in the mouth with the tongue produces certain sounds. It comes to us automatically, but that knowledge has to be given to deaf people manually

    • @irenesolodova6588
      @irenesolodova6588 2 роки тому +94

      Oh , my sister is deaf since early childhood. She’s attended a special school for deaf kids and that’s why she’s able to talk now. Our mom did play a role in teaching her too.
      My sister talks exactly like that girl on the video , and though I’m not surprised to hear that tone of voice , it’s kinda fascinating.

    • @kakalimukherjee3297
      @kakalimukherjee3297 2 роки тому +31

      @@irenesolodova6588
      Sorry to hear that. What I find familiar here and common in all deaf people is the low pitch of the voice.

    • @irenesolodova6588
      @irenesolodova6588 2 роки тому +22

      @@kakalimukherjee3297 exactly. I always wondered what was the reason of it. I suggest it’s because they’ve never heard anyone’s voice.

  • @gregoriusbernardus8065
    @gregoriusbernardus8065 2 роки тому +516

    her smile was pure. i'm so happy to see it. She has a good personality despite her disability. I hope she live a happy life with people that love her.

    • @mariapappas-rogich6235
      @mariapappas-rogich6235 2 роки тому +16

      I am currently taking an ASL class …my teacher is deaf and she would be so sad and angry that you referred to her deafness as a disability …deaf people do not consider themselves disabled…

    • @starving5469
      @starving5469 2 роки тому +43

      @@mariapappas-rogich6235 deafness is literally a disability its fine if you dont want to be called disabled but being deaf is still a disability

    • @femalesupremacistoverlord6800
      @femalesupremacistoverlord6800 2 роки тому +12

      @@mariapappas-rogich6235 That’s their right I suppose but hearing is an *ability* so to not have that ability makes one…

    • @berserk322
      @berserk322 2 роки тому +6

      @@mariapappas-rogich6235 please calling a spade a spade is not a crime. It is in all sense a disability.

    • @Eyes0penNoFear
      @Eyes0penNoFear 2 роки тому +11

      @@mariapappas-rogich6235 you are exactly right. My wife is Deaf and it's a huge cultural faux pas to refer to a Deaf person as disabled.
      I try to use phrases like, "she doesn't hear," vs "she can't hear."
      Pay no mind to ignorant UA-cam commenters who are more interested in proving themselves right about semantics than caring about others.
      Edit: speaking of cultural faux pas.. capitalized Deaf where applicable.

  • @R0ckst4r0ck3r
    @R0ckst4r0ck3r 2 роки тому +9

    We have a deaf person where I work and I have a much more true contact with him than with most of my colleagues, I don't always understand him from the first time and I dont speak the sign language, but we always end up understanding each other and we end up doing checks and laugh. Big respect to people with any kind of disablement.

  • @iamthatiam363
    @iamthatiam363 2 роки тому +1326

    I can't imagine learning to pronounce any word without any way of knowing what it sounds like or even how to pronounce letters to begin with.
    I'm impressed at her attitude towards this problem.

    • @thisisgettingold
      @thisisgettingold 2 роки тому +8

      Maybe to her it's not a problem it's an opportunity, or something like that.

    • @iamthatiam363
      @iamthatiam363 2 роки тому +8

      @@thisisgettingold well I'm sure everything is an opportunity but an opportunity can be amplified when labled a problem...like putting more weights on a bar to lift🏋‍♀️its all growth.😜

    • @thisisgettingold
      @thisisgettingold 2 роки тому

      @@iamthatiam363 right or a math "problem" is just something that needs an answer... Either way I always get inspiration from people that face the challenges of life unflinchingly. Seems like a great dad she's got too which is super cool.

    • @JastwatchingYT
      @JastwatchingYT 2 роки тому

      @@iamthatiam363 Попрыгунья Стрекоза
      Лето красное пропела;
      Оглянуться не успела,
      Как зима катит в глаза.
      Помертвело чисто поле;
      Нет уж дней тех светлых боле,
      Как под каждым ей листком
      Был готов и стол, и дом.
      Все прошло: с зимой холодной
      Нужда, голод настает;
      Стрекоза уж не поет:
      И кому же в ум пойдет
      На желудок петь голодный!
      Злой тоской удручена,
      К Муравью ползет она:
      «Не оставь меня, кум милый!
      Дай ты мне собраться с силой
      И до вешних только дней
      Прокорми и обогрей!» -
      «Кумушка, мне странно это:
      Да работала ль ты в лето?» -
      Говорит ей Муравей.
      «До того ль, голубчик, было?
      В мягких муравах у нас
      Песни, резвость всякий час,
      Так, что голову вскружило». -
      «А, так ты…» - «Я без души
      Лето целое все пела». -
      «Ты все пела? это дело:
      Так поди же, попляши!»
      it's so hard that we don't even know where to begin.

    • @iamthatiam363
      @iamthatiam363 2 роки тому

      @@JastwatchingYT 😅🤦

  • @leokim1458
    @leokim1458 2 роки тому +749

    She is so lovely, didn't get frustrated once and was smiling all the way. A heart of gold that one.

    • @itv5610
      @itv5610 2 роки тому +6

      @dearnaomi no

    • @youwantmyname9208
      @youwantmyname9208 2 роки тому +6

      @dearnaomi no they have cthulhu

    • @largeboi4678
      @largeboi4678 2 роки тому +7

      @dearnaomi Religion doesn’t dictate personality

    • @bbbbbbb51
      @bbbbbbb51 2 роки тому +5

      @@largeboi4678 true, but values in religions can greatly influence how you'll see the world, your place in it, & as a final result, how you'll act.

    • @bingus454
      @bingus454 2 роки тому +2

      @@bbbbbbb51 but you can’t blame personal morals on them being religious or not

  • @isforme2789
    @isforme2789 2 роки тому +40

    The love and positive energy is so touching. Glad she has a loving and supporting family. She will go places 🥰

  • @kempokiai
    @kempokiai 2 роки тому +2

    This whole exchange is so wholesome! I love it. Thanks for sharing!

  • @WORDversesWORLD
    @WORDversesWORLD 3 роки тому +3923

    Its fun just watching you guys, and you did good dad!

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 роки тому +395

      Aw thanks! So glad you enjoy watching our videos!! ☺️

    • @kenmakozume3385
      @kenmakozume3385 3 роки тому +5

      WAAAAHT!?!??!?!

    • @WORDversesWORLD
      @WORDversesWORLD 3 роки тому +9

      @@kenmakozume3385 Its spelled what?

    • @WORDversesWORLD
      @WORDversesWORLD 3 роки тому +14

      @@alice_128 LOL, just referred to him as that because I've never heard him called anything else..

    • @user-ou7wt3lx8m
      @user-ou7wt3lx8m 2 роки тому +2

      @@WORDversesWORLD that your dad g?

  • @SmashTactics
    @SmashTactics 3 роки тому +577

    they are so adorable

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 роки тому +103

      Aw, thanks! ☺️

    • @rokukou
      @rokukou 2 роки тому +34

      Ikr this is so cute for some reason. Maybe the way there is no frustration, just smiles and laughter.

  • @maribelsalazar6058
    @maribelsalazar6058 2 роки тому

    The love and care is evident. It warms my heart, thank you for showing us.

  • @charlesjirkovsky14
    @charlesjirkovsky14 2 роки тому +39

    I love that though she speaks differently, her laugh just sounds like laughter.

  • @musadan-azumimohammed8140
    @musadan-azumimohammed8140 3 роки тому +788

    I actually have a deaf student now. I am a lecturer of Mathematics and I'm willing to do my BEST to make him understand Mathematics. He has the zeal. Nice video

    • @aphr0d
      @aphr0d 2 роки тому +19

      I bet he would appreciate if you learned a bit of sign language too!

    • @Western-spy
      @Western-spy 2 роки тому +38

      Just wanted to say that if you are, as a teacher or a lecturer, trying your best so that your student understands the subject regardless of his physical abilities or disabilities - you are a wonderful person, I bow to you and I am proud to share space on this planet with a man like you.

  • @peteypete9357
    @peteypete9357 2 роки тому +414

    I can't imagine how difficult it would've been to learn this much. She is a genius.

  • @aliahmad-iw3xn
    @aliahmad-iw3xn 2 роки тому +5

    Her smile says it all. Sending her much love and support ❤️

  • @thomaskite7222
    @thomaskite7222 2 роки тому +3

    Love that he immediately knew the more positive words like Caring and Lord. Very cool, and very heart-warming!

  • @gawni1612
    @gawni1612 2 роки тому +2122

    That's a trip. How do you teach someone who can't hear the "K" sound?

    • @illillyillyo
      @illillyillyo 2 роки тому +367

      /k/ is a tough one to teach because it’s hard to see the position of the tongue. Lots of children first pronounce k words with a t until they get a bit older. I wonder if she could pronounce /g/ or the ng sound. They’re produced in the same part of the mouth as /k/ is. Anyway, if I were teaching her (and I’m in grad school for speech-language pathology), I would show her a diagram that would show where to place the tongue. I would also tell her that it’s very similar to /t/, just pronounced in that back part of the mouth.

    • @ArsonBeanTanks
      @ArsonBeanTanks 2 роки тому +129

      @@illillyillyo I work in child care and this was super common, but I actually had one child who did the opposite. Ex instead of "dog" she'd say "gog" etc.

    • @daphneducharme3020
      @daphneducharme3020 2 роки тому +38

      Have a deaf person touch your throat. That will help them feel the vibration of the word you are saying.

    • @k4keko
      @k4keko 2 роки тому +17

      'K' can be tricky even if you can hear. I learnt that my way of pronouncing it was wrong when I was 23. I pronounce it with the tip of my tongue and I used to have no idea that it can be pronounced in any other way.

    • @daphneducharme3020
      @daphneducharme3020 2 роки тому +3

      @@k4keko Yeah it can be tricky. I also used a mirror to help the deaf students speak as well that way they can see the placement of the tongue.

  • @byunteangoo8269
    @byunteangoo8269 3 роки тому +553

    This make me feels very warm for some reason

  • @anonymous_end_user
    @anonymous_end_user 2 роки тому

    Aww man. The interaction between you & your dad are amazing. You are both extremely beautiful! Brought tears to my eyes.

  • @edladd212
    @edladd212 2 роки тому +3

    It’s beautiful watching you both interact. Lots of love there.

  • @alviantifk6190
    @alviantifk6190 2 роки тому +230

    She doesn't hear, so she doesn't know how the words actually pronounced and how they sounds like. She can only learn how to say words by looking at her interlocutor's mouth, lips and tongue movement.
    This is fun by the way

    • @reBlink
      @reBlink 2 роки тому +9

      Oh really? I thought she can hear everything and is just dumb.

    • @ILoveMaths07
      @ILoveMaths07 2 роки тому +6

      @@reBlink What do you think 'deaf' means?

    • @reBlink
      @reBlink 2 роки тому +3

      @@ILoveMaths07 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @nodezsh
      @nodezsh 2 роки тому +3

      @@ILoveMaths07 I know that it was context-deaf of them and that sarcasm doesn't translate well via text, but: That was sarcasm.

    • @sbraypaynt
      @sbraypaynt 2 роки тому +6

      @@reBlink the sarcasm was not at all obvious to be fair

  • @Francois176
    @Francois176 2 роки тому +126

    It must be so hard to pronounce words with no feedback. Still amazed at her

  • @timweatherbee4308
    @timweatherbee4308 Рік тому

    This video is absolutely precious. I'm continuing to pray for you

  • @Austin_H7
    @Austin_H7 2 роки тому

    So cool. Her positivity just kinda had me smiling the whole video. Thanks for posting.

  • @eklectiktoni
    @eklectiktoni 2 роки тому +272

    I've been learning Korean (English is my first language) via online courses. Some of the courses don't provide good audio (or any at all). It makes it very difficult to know if I'm pronouncing the words correctly or not. I imagine that's a tiny example of what it's like for a person who's never heard sound to try pronouncing words.
    Thanks for this enlightening video.

    • @Max_Power_
      @Max_Power_ 2 роки тому

      Maybe Google Translator can help you to listen the pronunciation?

    • @possiblyrei
      @possiblyrei 2 роки тому +18

      @@Max_Power_ I would say Papago is a better translator and speech synthesizer for Korean

    • @am32074
      @am32074 2 роки тому +5

      So use papago and then watch korean content like songs, variety shows or UA-camrs that had the korean subtitles on (some UA-camrs put both korean and English sub on top of eachothers) so you can read along and you can pause and try to imitate them :D

    • @dawnriddler
      @dawnriddler 2 роки тому +2

      use hinative, hellotalk or tandem, where natives can send you how the word or sentence is pronounced

    • @SwimmingInSunlight
      @SwimmingInSunlight 2 роки тому +3

      When I was learning Chinese, my teacher showed us diagrams of the tongue placement for new letters and it was really helpful for committing pronunciation to muscle memory, I wonder of there'd be a similar resource for Korean

  • @joshuawaddell6640
    @joshuawaddell6640 2 роки тому +31

    I cannot fathom the daily challenges a deaf person must face. God bless her, she seems like such a sweetheart.

    • @Eyes0penNoFear
      @Eyes0penNoFear 2 роки тому +2

      Especially with the pandemic. Masks make communication so much more difficult for deaf people who read lips. (No this is not a political statement about masks etc. My wife is deaf and it has made it so much harder for her to communicate.)

  • @foreducation408
    @foreducation408 2 роки тому

    Two pure heart souls doing a conversation, such a great video thanks for making it

  • @ratfishx2739
    @ratfishx2739 2 роки тому +1

    this is so wholesome - this video makes me so happy - the fact your able to live your life without ur disability affect u at all - i cant even fathom what thats like :)

  • @KR-kj9oi
    @KR-kj9oi 3 роки тому +44

    My father passed away in 2013 and it still hurts to watch such kind of videos
    Thank you for the video, you both have happy and beautiful smiles ❤️

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 роки тому +25

      I'm so sorry 😔 I can't imagine how hard it must be. Praying for you right now. Thank you for your kind words. 💛

  • @FunScientifix
    @FunScientifix 3 роки тому +258

    You're such an inspiration

  • @watchingvideosnow
    @watchingvideosnow 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you, the interaction between the two of you and loveliness soothes my soul ❤️ wish I had / I'll have a parental connection like that.

  • @brendonlay8722
    @brendonlay8722 2 роки тому

    This popped up in my recommended. I love it. Very cool. This melted my heart. What an amazing father.

  • @jacobpaint
    @jacobpaint 2 роки тому +45

    She’s lovely, that seems so frustrating trying to make sounds that you can only feel but not hear. I imagine you must need to have a positive disposition and patient people to help so you are able to stick at it.

  • @LolaSkates
    @LolaSkates 3 роки тому +33

    You have an amazing father!!! I couldn’t understand a word you said, but big big hug to your father for being so kind and supportive

  • @Tienvdoan
    @Tienvdoan 4 місяці тому

    Kudos to dad. You’re so loving. And his daughter, her voice is beautiful.

  • @mountainman971
    @mountainman971 2 роки тому +1

    Dunno how this ended up in my feed but, it was awesome! Very inspiring.

  • @wavychico2.0
    @wavychico2.0 3 роки тому +58

    She did so amazing🥺

  • @vernayaduscha4121
    @vernayaduscha4121 3 роки тому +39

    I don't know much about the subject, but your sign language seems to be on another level sir

    • @LemonFlavoredRain
      @LemonFlavoredRain 2 роки тому +20

      If that’s his daughter, I imagine he had quite the drive to learn!

    • @katiealvarado7115
      @katiealvarado7115 2 роки тому +8

      And judging from the way she speaks she was probably born deaf so he’s had plenty of time to practice

    • @chesscomsupport8689
      @chesscomsupport8689 2 роки тому +1

      Looked like he was throwing gang signs

  • @chelnahtheegghead
    @chelnahtheegghead 2 роки тому +12

    This was so cool to see!! Thank you, UA-cam algorithm. :) It’s interesting to think how this is like learning a second language for her-I can’t imagine how I would sound to a native Spanish-speaker when I try to say anything in Spanish. 😂 I’m impressed with her dedication to practice the words she’s saying; it’s inspiring me to get back on DuoLingo to practice the advanced phrases more!

  • @jn8922
    @jn8922 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for this video. It was very educational. Its actually amazing that she can say those words without being able to hear herself. That level of intelligence amazes me. I also learned how we take for granted so much when we learned to speak as children - we mimiced tone, volume, inflection... So many things go into speaking to another person that I never realized. Even being drunk affects our volume control and ability to articulate - this video made me think of so many aspects related to speech and hearing.

  • @Stubbies2003
    @Stubbies2003 2 роки тому +47

    This just goes to show that it is a challenge for both the hearing person and deaf person. Your dad did a heck of a lot better than I would have in figuring out the words that is for sure. As the old adage goes. Practice makes perfect.

    • @Waseemmmm
      @Waseemmmm 2 роки тому

      Practice makes progress.*

  • @rhondamoore9842
    @rhondamoore9842 2 роки тому +17

    Many years ago, I worked for the federal government. At my office, we had a large number of deaf employees. During lunch time, many of them sat together in the cafeteria. It was the loudest, most fun table of all! My assistant was deaf, and I learned a lot of sign language from her, so it would be easier for us to work together.

    • @juliarunn5009
      @juliarunn5009 2 роки тому +2

      Deaf people are surprisingly loud 😂. Even for me, with hearing aids, I am very loud when I don’t have them on bc I don’t know how much noise I’m making.

    • @Smitology
      @Smitology 2 роки тому +4

      @@juliarunn5009 I'd say it's for a similar reason why a person with normal hearing talks louder when wearing headphones, and they cannot hear their own voice.

    • @Eyes0penNoFear
      @Eyes0penNoFear 2 роки тому

      @@Smitology my wife is deaf, and she talks louder when she's listening to music through her cochlear. I guess it's universal 😂

  • @StellariaEclipse
    @StellariaEclipse 2 роки тому

    This is so precious, but also very informative. Thank you for this!

  • @richkaliboy9331
    @richkaliboy9331 2 роки тому

    I'm so happy shes making imporvments. all the love!!

  • @VictorbrineSC
    @VictorbrineSC 2 роки тому +17

    Goes to show that literally all our senses work together to "build" us overtime, as in speech for example. As babies we can only cry, but with our hearing, we record all the sounds around us and our brain learns how to immitate them, added with the "original tone" of our own voice, letting us speak and do different tones, noises, accents etc.

  • @theoroinvictus
    @theoroinvictus 3 роки тому +106

    really endearing! I’ve learned a lot from you in a short time

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 роки тому +20

      So glad!! Thanks for watching!! ☺️

    • @febrinaangreta1726
      @febrinaangreta1726 3 роки тому +1

      @@signedwithheart Too Weird why deaf can't be spoken?

    • @skay2124
      @skay2124 3 роки тому +2

      So they’re both deaf?

    • @peachiisaturn
      @peachiisaturn 3 роки тому +1

      @@signedwithheart can you show her this? ua-cam.com/video/PQiNn97DNDc/v-deo.html

  • @parys4uapp306
    @parys4uapp306 2 роки тому +6

    She is so amazing. I LOVE HER SO MUCH. She has a beautiful smile and is just amazing.

  • @BraulioPianoTutorials
    @BraulioPianoTutorials 2 роки тому

    This was really awesome to watch. Thank you for sharing.

  • @destinbarton8003
    @destinbarton8003 3 роки тому +8

    I love that you felt comfortable enough to share your voice with us!! Thank you so much!! I cam see pumpkin being a hard word to say but you say it perfectly!!

  • @RonHutchCraft2
    @RonHutchCraft2 3 роки тому +108

    Hey first comment, another awesome video from Ashley, thank you for this!

  • @KILLERSMITH111
    @KILLERSMITH111 2 роки тому

    This girl is my new Love... Nothing but respect for her!!
    The guy is very smart...
    I feel proud of them both

  • @grahamlloyd2838
    @grahamlloyd2838 7 місяців тому

    This is a great video! Thanks for posting!

  • @dawn8293
    @dawn8293 3 роки тому +5

    Such a fun family moment! It had me laughing, enjoying almost being there with you guys. Your dad seems so sweet!!

  • @johntemple2347
    @johntemple2347 3 роки тому +31

    Hello I have a deaf daughter too and this was kinda inspires me

  • @harshprasad4111
    @harshprasad4111 2 роки тому

    That's very sweet to watch. Much love to both of them. ❤️❤️

  • @carazy123_
    @carazy123_ 2 роки тому +29

    This is really cool! At first, I couldn’t understand any of them, but when I focused more on the way you enunciated than on trying to actually understand the word, I could start to see the patterns line up. Thanks for sharing this with everyone guys!

  • @ZJ7909
    @ZJ7909 3 роки тому +7

    I have taught both my boys ASL. My oldest only learned a few words and phrases. When he was young. But my two year old knows 30 words and can sign I love u. He has really taken off with ASL. My neighbor that recently moved in is deaf. I always wanted to learn another language. This brought me to your channel bc I want to be able to communicate better with her. U and ur dad seem to have a lot of fun. And ur videos make me laugh a lot. I love the videos. Have a great day.

  • @stormychai
    @stormychai 2 роки тому +6

    That's actually really impressive that while being born deaf, you are able to pronounce words pretty well. When I first started watching some of your videos and hearing you speak, I couldn't understand the words very well. But now I can understand better just after listening for a little bit! Totally awesome, and by the way, you have the sweetest laugh ever, it made me laugh too!!❤💎 Thank you for sharing your videos!

  • @MikeOrkid
    @MikeOrkid 2 роки тому

    You guys are incredible!

  • @wildefoxy298
    @wildefoxy298 2 роки тому

    Just can't imagine how hard it is. Really inspiring video! Everytime I watch smth about deaf people I think of learning sign language. I love foreign languages, and I consider sing language as foreign as well, so I hope one day I'll be able to say more than just "Hi".

  • @trackclubbabe
    @trackclubbabe 3 роки тому +5

    you & dad are the best. this made me smile!

  • @keriima6076
    @keriima6076 3 роки тому +34

    You are absolutely amazing. You inspire me to keep going in life, and to be grateful for everything I have. Thank you soo much.🌺❤️❤️
    And I really admire your, and your fathers honest, happy smile. You have happy personalities 😄. Keep smiling ❤️

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 роки тому +15

      You're so sweet, thank you 😌💛 Life is hard but life is good. One day at a time, and everything always work out. 😌 Thanks again for your kind words. Have a great weekend! 💛

    • @keriima6076
      @keriima6076 3 роки тому +3

      @@signedwithheart you're right. Thank you, wish you the same. ♥️

  • @KienDLuu
    @KienDLuu 2 роки тому

    This is such a lovely video. Made me all warm and fuzzy inside for some reason. Thanks for posting. :)

  • @stewartborndy7169
    @stewartborndy7169 18 днів тому +1

    YOU 2 ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!!! GOD BLESS!!!!

  • @lisah.1448
    @lisah.1448 3 роки тому +47

    Love Dad!

    • @signedwithheart
      @signedwithheart  3 роки тому +15

      So glad you love him!! 😄 I love having him in my videos too!

  • @deanmoncaster
    @deanmoncaster 2 роки тому +11

    She's gorgeous!

  • @carmelinabridges4143
    @carmelinabridges4143 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this video! We just watched Bluey episode Turtleboy which had a deaf child in it, prompting a conversation with my kids! They commended the child couldn't speak, so we talked about how he may but it might sound different. We talked about varying degrees of hearing impairment and how that might impact. I wanted them to hear how a deaf person may speak so they can have understanding if/when they hear someone speaking in this way but I didn't want to attempt to mimic! Im so glad you made this video! It really helped my kids understand and appreciate how much more work someone who cannot hear has to work!

  • @LallaBadrae1
    @LallaBadrae1 16 днів тому

    Thank you so so much. Words can not describe how graceful this was. Sigh. Goodnight ♥️😘

  • @drdathan7014
    @drdathan7014 3 роки тому +11

    You inspired me to learn asl and to take a class in college. Thanks you guys are awesome!

  • @ilovefood8324
    @ilovefood8324 3 роки тому +7

    Such a sweet dad and daughter❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @adelpap3236
    @adelpap3236 2 роки тому

    Their relationship was heartwarming to watch 😊 really enjoyed this

  • @paullysle8237
    @paullysle8237 2 роки тому +1

    Sorry to hear of your dad passing he was a legend

  • @PicklesFiona
    @PicklesFiona 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you for sharing this. ♥️

  • @Trollika_Devi
    @Trollika_Devi 2 роки тому +5

    She has such a beautiful smile. Seems like a fun person to hang out with as well :)

  • @ako9434
    @ako9434 2 роки тому

    I cried...I also am amazed by this. This is wonderful

  • @murataht
    @murataht 2 роки тому

    That’s great ! And eye opening ! Thanks

  • @korisolomon
    @korisolomon 3 роки тому +3

    I JUST LOVE THIS CHANNEL!

  • @Soy_Preinaugural
    @Soy_Preinaugural 2 роки тому +53

    My stepsister is deaf, and I grew up with her using a “Deaf accent" through childhood. I didn’t know until I was older that some deaf folks choose not to fully use their voice when interacting with the hearing world! I love her musical voice 🤟 *if I was insensitive in any way, please feel free to educate me; and, please be respectful 🙏

    • @Eyes0penNoFear
      @Eyes0penNoFear 2 роки тому +1

      My wife is deaf and she generally only likes to voice when around people she is comfortable with.

  • @mavis9262
    @mavis9262 2 роки тому

    Spreading love and good vibes to you guys! Great content ❤️

  • @timweatherbee4308
    @timweatherbee4308 Рік тому

    I love these videos they are precious memories of your dad who loved you so very much

  • @lxix_lxix
    @lxix_lxix 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for sharing your voice! I know you cannot hear it, but you sound beautiful! The collective sounds in "pumpkin" are really hard to pronounce altogether, so don't feel badly for not getting it right away. You're doing great so far! And thank you for helping me and others like me learn ASL!

  • @whiteguy4120
    @whiteguy4120 3 роки тому +4

    I admire this man so much.

  • @rdpproducoes8233
    @rdpproducoes8233 2 роки тому

    This is beautiful!

  • @Arphix
    @Arphix 2 роки тому

    i don't know how your video got in my recommended youtube list but I'm happy my curiosity made me discover it instead of dismissing it. You and your dad seems to have a great chemistry. Also, I like how you went into this challenge with humor and educational purpose at the same time ^^ I hope this kind of videos help unstigmatized the difficulty for deaf peoples to go with day to day interactions.