"My 3 Baby Daddies Won't Save Me..." Black Woman Cries That She Can't Hold a Job Because of Her Kids

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  • @Renzo_Renzy8op
    @Renzo_Renzy8op Місяць тому +436

    I ain’t got no sympathy this is common sense. Two parent households have always been better!

  • @1heavydutyshorty
    @1heavydutyshorty Місяць тому +278

    She had 3 baby showers where all her cheerleaders at now that she needs help ?

    • @lauraleigh5562
      @lauraleigh5562 Місяць тому +39

      I never heard it put like that. That's 💯

    • @Dr.J.Kelleytv
      @Dr.J.Kelleytv Місяць тому +24

      This is a super valid point were they at frfr I bet she had a million people at them 3 showers

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +25

      You asking where they at they doing the same thing she doing, pookie and ray ray, drama, broken homes

    • @ftwnoobbuster
      @ftwnoobbuster Місяць тому +13

      HAHA I know right?! Lol none of them want to babysit 🤣🤣

    • @fudgematthew33
      @fudgematthew33 Місяць тому +14

      They're staying in their lanes. They're not obligated to help her clean up her mess.

  • @chrismifflin3862
    @chrismifflin3862 Місяць тому +239

    A weak family unit creates a weak society.

    • @gimpinainteasy
      @gimpinainteasy 29 днів тому +5

      Which is our exact problem.

    • @captainhoopla7773
      @captainhoopla7773 28 днів тому +1

      Another persons child ain’t my concern 😂

    • @Battlered713
      @Battlered713 28 днів тому +1

      And yet they can’t figure out what the problem is.

    • @Battlered713
      @Battlered713 28 днів тому

      And yet they can’t figure out what the problem is.

    • @Battlered713
      @Battlered713 28 днів тому

      And yet they can’t figure out what the problem is.

  • @saradavis9137
    @saradavis9137 Місяць тому +275

    I’m grateful to be a married woman. The baby daddy agenda sounds exhausting as hell and unhealthy for all involved.

    • @Djd271
      @Djd271 Місяць тому +35

      @@saradavis9137 they do it to themselves they act like they were forced to do this lol 😂 it’s astonishing

    • @Missbusybee2010
      @Missbusybee2010 Місяць тому

      Well this is what these liberal feminists want…to run around being free with their bodies with with whoever without commitment and this is the likely outcome!

    • @thebigjay2066
      @thebigjay2066 29 днів тому

      The baby daddy agenda or rather epidemic is basically all about the Black woman chasing down and lusting after men that don't want them.

    • @Cali_DetroitConnect
      @Cali_DetroitConnect 29 днів тому +10

      Same here! I could NOT see myself trying to manage one let alone THREE children alone.

    • @Nanakesewaa
      @Nanakesewaa 29 днів тому +1

      🤝

  • @butcherbay186
    @butcherbay186 Місяць тому +86

    She doing all she can to NOT say the word "HUSBAND". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

    • @blackestknight1.0
      @blackestknight1.0 Місяць тому +8

      I've met women like this. Mention marriage and they will tell you that's too much of a commitment

    • @butcherbay186
      @butcherbay186 Місяць тому +6

      @@blackestknight1.0 yep. Hey I say LET THEM STAY WHERE THEY LAY🤣

    • @lindamcmahon2471
      @lindamcmahon2471 Місяць тому

      They don't want man to control them

    • @fudgematthew33
      @fudgematthew33 29 днів тому +2

      @butcherbay186 in her defense, her mother was probably a single mother. If that's true, she grew up not knowing what a father or a husband looks like.

    • @leemajorsherod1
      @leemajorsherod1 29 днів тому +4

      ​@fudgematthew33 Once you know better, it's on you to do better. The scapegoat of well, "My parents was this, so I never had a chance" is 🐂💩.

  • @Underratedcommentator
    @Underratedcommentator 29 днів тому +26

    Birth control? Condoms? Marriage? How many times can you make a “mistake” before it becomes your fault?

  • @Kymfucius
    @Kymfucius 29 днів тому +16

    As a teenager, I promised myself I would not shack up with nor have a baby with a man that didn’t think enough of me to wed me. I wanted what my mom and dad had...a family consisting of a husband and wife first. Then, become a father and mother. 38 years and 5 babies later, I'm still married to my 1st and only husband, the father of ALL 5 of my children! Despite what I was told, I knew this feminist mentality was a train wreck. Ladies, stop this mess for your children's future depends on your behaviors. 😢

  • @Cozywisdom
    @Cozywisdom Місяць тому +156

    The black America is screwed, a husband has been removed from the equation.

    • @Dr.J.Kelleytv
      @Dr.J.Kelleytv Місяць тому +4

      It’s like it’s not even an option it literally wasn’t an option for this one

    • @Bourneman89
      @Bourneman89 Місяць тому +21

      We keep promoting fornication over discipline and structure. Just self destruction at its best.

    • @513gposey
      @513gposey Місяць тому

      A line has been drawn too deep in the sand. Black ppl feel like anything white ppl rep, they have to be the total opposite or they "actin white" smh.

    • @JAM2USA2018
      @JAM2USA2018 Місяць тому +11

      Democrat Party is the baby DADDY for all three

    • @ljmorris6496
      @ljmorris6496 Місяць тому

      That's due from an attack from the outside that removes men from homes. If we keep thinking that we're living in a post racial society since the '70s, think again..

  • @DefiesAllStereotypes
    @DefiesAllStereotypes Місяць тому +197

    It's been 60 years since Blk women have gone from the most married, to the baby mommas of the universe. They've had nothing but examples of how hard it is to be a single mother in that time.

    • @fudgematthew33
      @fudgematthew33 Місяць тому +26

      And, still, they haven't learned.

    • @ljmorris6496
      @ljmorris6496 Місяць тому

      Sound so silly or looking for a White woman. If you have a nation that's hellbent of not seeing your people succeed, who's fault is it?. who benefits off of baby mamas/daddy or incarcerated Black men?.
      Yes, it's personal responsibility also but look at the total situation before mounting a high horse..

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Місяць тому +14

      and yet, they REFUSE to make the change and expect MEN to make a change by accepting a woman with multiple baby daddies

    • @beeblack2210
      @beeblack2210 29 днів тому +8

      Black women are the number one woman in America🇺🇲 that's not married and number two women in America🇺🇲baby mamas single parents it's sad.

    • @Higfsyourvioihb
      @Higfsyourvioihb 29 днів тому

      As a black woman, we live in a fantasy and the void we feel inside drives us to make these horrible decisions. Black women suffer from low self worth

  • @danellisrael1683
    @danellisrael1683 Місяць тому +415

    3 Baby daddies and you on social media crying looking for sympathy??? Congratulations you played yourself... 😂😂😂

    • @Babyfasejones444
      @Babyfasejones444 Місяць тому +6

    • @Painintostrength
      @Painintostrength Місяць тому +21

      Have nerve to be crying!!!!! should’ve thought about that 🤷🏾‍♂️ it’s not nobody’s fault on social media. It’s none of our business and we do not care at all!!!

    • @LBrownoffical
      @LBrownoffical Місяць тому +13

      Baby momma dreams ain't all they cracked up to be

    • @Painintostrength
      @Painintostrength Місяць тому +2

      @@LBrownoffical lmbo!!!! Hell naw

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +20

      That’s what they all do have kids by random dudes then be like why is my life not going good, maybe because you sleep with random thugs that’s already got kids and baby mommas 😂😂

  • @deepoetmusic
    @deepoetmusic Місяць тому +47

    Depending on a village to help after you made your decisions is wild. "The village" concept was effective back in the day. Entitlement ruined it.

    • @inettawalker9387
      @inettawalker9387 28 днів тому +3

      Until they got sick of the BS 😕 ijs

    • @victorhayes5471
      @victorhayes5471 27 днів тому

      The village would also likely be very vigilant against this kind of irresponsible behavior too.

  • @KingOcho-xr4dq
    @KingOcho-xr4dq Місяць тому +142

    No sympathy. Too bad the kids will grow up damaged

    • @LouieTzepher
      @LouieTzepher Місяць тому +5

      And that’s how the cycle continues without break and the generational curse.

    • @lyndawest923
      @lyndawest923 29 днів тому

      And it is too bad for all of us. They will become the school dropouts, imprisoned, and teen parents. No value added to society.

    • @ChrisMusson-kv8ph
      @ChrisMusson-kv8ph 28 днів тому +2

      One will end up dead or in prison.

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield 24 дні тому

      Pookie jr is going to look great in his Orange jumpsuit 😂

  • @cole3495
    @cole3495 Місяць тому +219

    If you can't manage your fertility in the 2000's, there is nothing no outsider can say.

    • @havok5538
      @havok5538 Місяць тому +13

      Thank you for a commonsense observation

    • @randylahey8207
      @randylahey8207 Місяць тому +12

      Thank you for pointing out the obvious everyone seems to sneak around. Whole lot of people out there who apparently can't do anything but raw dawg it, no matter the consequences. You'd think she'd have understood after the first kid, but no, it took three...

    • @Akwardturtle
      @Akwardturtle Місяць тому

      Yes, but these women choose the struggle. 1 because they want to "Trap" a man or 2 to get back at a man thru a child.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Місяць тому

      it's very simple. get married to a man who wants to raise a family with you. simple. that was all women have to do.

    • @kathryneprickett2083
      @kathryneprickett2083 Місяць тому

      @@randylahey8207 *7 kids. I went to her channel.

  • @trombonefellow
    @trombonefellow Місяць тому +36

    That's the problem with having multiple baby daddies, even if they do step in it's going to be for their child only not the others.

    • @tonyebiere551
      @tonyebiere551 29 днів тому

      yeah but how about each one stepping up to their own child?

    • @BDAthleticInsider
      @BDAthleticInsider 29 днів тому +5

      @@tonyebiere551How about have a baby with a person who actually wants to be a father first. She picked those men to lay down with

    • @anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808
      @anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 29 днів тому +1

      *Do you know why women have kids with different men?* 🤨
      It's too maximize child support. Yes, it's about the money. 😮

    • @tonyebiere551
      @tonyebiere551 28 днів тому +2

      @@BDAthleticInsider I think the men just wanted sex but failed to use protection. I do not believe anyone of them intended to procreate with this lady

  • @sanuraholmes9233
    @sanuraholmes9233 Місяць тому +148

    3 kids by 3 different men. How many did it take for you to figure out what I'm doing isn't working. 3 and none aren't helping this is on me as the mom.

    • @ahmedanderson5480
      @ahmedanderson5480 Місяць тому +18

      3 crusty dusties needed a place to stay.

    • @juliansearcie1758
      @juliansearcie1758 Місяць тому +9

      Feel sorry for the kids having no father's and a poor character mothev

    • @TyroneDewayne
      @TyroneDewayne Місяць тому +12

      In her mind it’s all three of their fault.

    • @inquizative44
      @inquizative44 Місяць тому +5

      I don't think she sees any problems with 3 baby daddy's. Just the inconvenience of not working when she wants to. We celebrate her strength and independence. If you notice when young Black girls talk about their future. They usually say how many kids they want when they become a mom. They never mention marriage. Men are just sperm banks. Ask Eboni K. Williams. Raising children with half the parenting is normal. No where else but it's normal in our community.

    • @sanuraholmes9233
      @sanuraholmes9233 Місяць тому +4

      @inquizative44 As a mom, I'd have to check myself. It's on me. I'm picking the same dudes if I'm getting the same outcome

  • @Me-tj4ln
    @Me-tj4ln Місяць тому +186

    I'm not sure why we as black women see nothing wrong with procreation without the commitment of marriage!! I'm married and I don't have any kids (by choice).

    • @BuffKangaroo1
      @BuffKangaroo1 Місяць тому +54

      Black women do what they want and no one can tell them anything

    • @TyroneDewayne
      @TyroneDewayne Місяць тому +21

      It’s about the power dynamic. Those that know SM homes see being a SM a position of power versus a position of submission. Which that word is misunderstood by those that didn’t grow up with a father that can lead. It just means buy into my plan and trust my lead. Those that don’t have that in their development have a difficult time trusting in that way. So they marry a beta that they can run or be a SM. Either they are in the position of power.

    • @dead_or_alive2649
      @dead_or_alive2649 Місяць тому +8

      Yes and if we could only get your traits to become the normal trend. You’ve decided to be accountable, make good choices that fit the life you want to live and haven’t thrown away your critical thinking abilities. Not that you need a stranger on the internet to tell you but I’m old school. Great job and I wish you all the happiness this crazy world has to offer. So many in our society nowadays have forgotten that choices do have consequences. Whether we like it or not

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +13

      They like broken homes and the baby momma and baby daddy culture it’s all apart of their drama

    • @warrencalloway9616
      @warrencalloway9616 Місяць тому

      The whole purpose of marriage is for the perpetuation of bloodlines, there is no logical reason to marry a woman if you're not going to have children with her 🤷🏾‍♂️ people need to realize that the primary reason for getting married has always been for the perpetuation and furtherance of bloodlines👍

  • @addie9783
    @addie9783 Місяць тому +32

    I try to be as empathetic to people ; as I can. I am a widow. The same FatherI became a widow at 35. With a 3 year old and a 4 year old. My Mother passed away shortly after my husband. I did not have a big foundation of support. My Mother in law was a great help. It was hard but I made it. I worked , went to school. Now they are in their 20's . I'm so Proud of them . I wish this Young lady the best. I pray her situation gets better.

    • @lajaunescott9273
      @lajaunescott9273 29 днів тому

      Don’t pray for her women like this needs to talked down on. You should not support bad behavior and poor adult judgement.

    • @kelvinbowie535
      @kelvinbowie535 29 днів тому

      Your situation is different you made the right choice you just had a unfortunate circumstances. These women continue to make bad choices then cry about it and want help.

  • @dave0051
    @dave0051 Місяць тому +65

    I know someone who has 5 kids from 4 different men. Never married any of them. It's like she never figured out what happens when you have unprotected sex with multiple men.

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +18

      People who have multiple baby mother/fathers never stop sleeping around for a fact

    • @inettawalker9387
      @inettawalker9387 28 днів тому +2

      They don't even have the kids either, someone else stepped in and took custody.

  • @Kellypenelly
    @Kellypenelly Місяць тому +32

    These women just be having kids just because. Can’t blame everything on men. It’s sad how these women just get pregnant and struggling

    • @Madison-sr5nl3ie6y
      @Madison-sr5nl3ie6y 29 днів тому +1

      🤷‍♀️

    • @TheIncredibleHoosier
      @TheIncredibleHoosier 29 днів тому

      They love the feeling of warm skeet inside them by random men

    • @rudyflores9395
      @rudyflores9395 28 днів тому +1

      But she looks like she hasn't eaten in days & she's driving a 1979 Pinto wagon.

    • @42killac
      @42killac 28 днів тому

      I’ve noticed that most women can’t moral word rhymes with court and potential human being because most want to be mothers. So in thier mind it’s like damn the dude I want to be a mommy now meanwhile men are focused trying to be the best version of themselves. They keep it now your a fathers by default so use protection or stay abstinent that’s the safe way

  • @chrismanning1171
    @chrismanning1171 Місяць тому +73

    I plan to tell my daughter to wait until she is married. No accountability in this woman.

    • @Neddie2k
      @Neddie2k 29 днів тому +4

      My kid is 7, I we already talking about marriage, call it brainwashing, I started early.

    • @lyndawest923
      @lyndawest923 29 днів тому +2

      Yes, and live in an environment that support those beliefs. Because even if you tell her, but there are an abundance of people who do not share the same values, she will be at risk of falling into a bad situation.

    • @chrismanning1171
      @chrismanning1171 29 днів тому +1

      @@Neddie2k Nothing wrong with that. I started my daughter out early telling her about how important education and sports are and don't be concerned about boys. Not to long ago I told her that she is special to my wife and I and we want to see her exceed her mother and dad. That she is going to college and getting pregnant is not in the plan. And that we a proud of her accomplishments and that we love her.

  • @Lumpygrits76
    @Lumpygrits76 Місяць тому +43

    😬😬😬 That’s 4 grown people with 4 different schedules. She’s painted herself into a corner.
    She reminds me of my sister in-law.

  • @travionkaneon2510
    @travionkaneon2510 Місяць тому +72

    I wonder why these women think there story is different than the next woman? Like, she surely not the 1st woman to be in this situation.

    • @BuffKangaroo1
      @BuffKangaroo1 Місяць тому +15

      They think the world revolves around them

    • @DefiesAllStereotypes
      @DefiesAllStereotypes Місяць тому +9

      They have no less than a billion different examples in the last 40 years alone of how hard it is to be a single mother.

    • @steadmoney3431
      @steadmoney3431 Місяць тому +3

      A lot of them think their special lol

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +8

      They all like sharing the same baby daddies basically, sad world we live in

    • @ohsoyouthinkyoucandance
      @ohsoyouthinkyoucandance 28 днів тому

      @@michiganpyroaddicts4482lol you said it

  • @Teffy2105
    @Teffy2105 Місяць тому +13

    Black women: you don’t have no kids? What’s wrong with you.
    Me: I don’t want baby mama’s I don’t want to be a baby daddy. I’m good stack bread, travel, peaceful life.

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +2

      That’s why they go after the dudes with multiple baby mommas and kids because they know it will ruin they kids lives and start drama

  • @arielmarbury467
    @arielmarbury467 Місяць тому +119

    She doesn't think getting married should have been her first thought. Wow. She is so LOST!!!

    • @IceMan_97
      @IceMan_97 Місяць тому +8

      She let him hit it raw now she a single mom!

    • @detroitvcw
      @detroitvcw Місяць тому

      Women have a disdain towards men. That's the undertone in these types of conversations.

    • @calvinabrams3666
      @calvinabrams3666 Місяць тому +5

      Like the majority of them✌🏽

    • @detroitvcw
      @detroitvcw Місяць тому +5

      "You got 3 kids and 3 baby daddies..you single mom..you say you gone have his kids..if he's here on nah..And you single and pregnant (looking for a step daddy)..showing off the baby".

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +3

      She never planned on getting married or having a real family that’s the problem she just wants to sleep around and do her

  • @kendrickbell8525
    @kendrickbell8525 Місяць тому +14

    I JUST had the same conversation about this with a female about this, she got a potential promotion at her job but the work hours won't permit her to look after her younger kids. She has 5 but two baby's fathers not helping.*Cue the "Single Mom" song*🎶

  • @paulbahn4577
    @paulbahn4577 Місяць тому +14

    Actions have consequences, consequences that can last years.

  • @japotts1943
    @japotts1943 Місяць тому +8

    Baby daddies not helping now. Wants to go back in time and tell her younger self to assure her future self to have kids when she's financially stable, but the dad's still not present 🤔 😂

  • @manuelmezaR34
    @manuelmezaR34 Місяць тому +162

    She’s not a single mother, she’s a breeder with three kids from different daddies

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +26

      Exactly they go after the dudes with multiple baby mommas and kids on purpose to enter the drama

    • @topnotchtx
      @topnotchtx Місяць тому +5

      Facts.😂😂😂

    • @OSESAMTHEORIGINAL
      @OSESAMTHEORIGINAL Місяць тому +12

      Lmao breeder is wild but accurate 😂

    • @kathryneprickett2083
      @kathryneprickett2083 Місяць тому +6

      @@manuelmezaR34 *7 kids. I found her channel last night.

    • @LouieTzepher
      @LouieTzepher Місяць тому +1

      Zero lies detected in this comment.

  • @nancykorensek4083
    @nancykorensek4083 Місяць тому +39

    Anton, you are the first content creator to use the word "helpmeet" when talking about marriage that I have ever seen on the internet. Congratulations, sir, you get it! Married forty nine years to the same man and I'm not going to say that there haven't been difficulties but we have always been a team. Still are.

    • @zion_lion340
      @zion_lion340 Місяць тому +2

      KS always did too

    • @lauraleigh5562
      @lauraleigh5562 Місяць тому +2

      That's a record in this day and age. 🎉

    • @wisdomandlove1661
      @wisdomandlove1661 29 днів тому +1

      Congratulations>>The world is waiting to see your book on how both of you made it work, because we now live in a world where it is very rare to get married and stay married for that long.

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 Місяць тому +19

    Keisha only wants Pookie.
    Good Men get Used.
    That's the truth.
    Keisha rejected every Good Man that wanted her. Friendzoned them. Paid them no mind.
    Gave Pookie everything.
    Had his kids.
    Put up with all the bs from him.
    After all that, now she wants a Good Man. But she only wants a Good Man so he can be a Stepdady.
    I have no sympathy for these Keisha because they like being victims with a babydady story.
    They could of had a Good Man from the jump would have stuck around to be a father.
    But he's a lame, he corny, he not a thug etc.
    Lay in the bed you make...

  • @CeeDubyah
    @CeeDubyah Місяць тому +31

    I wanna know the 3 dudes who decided to have babies with
    ...thissss

  • @saje1988
    @saje1988 Місяць тому +27

    A team? You mean a husband? You still haven't learned.

    • @anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808
      @anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 29 днів тому

      *If she gets married now, she may no longer qualify for benefits.*
      That is why she said "team" and not husband.

    • @saje1988
      @saje1988 29 днів тому +1

      @anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 Well that's ignorant and that's why she's currently in the predicament she's in. The benefit is the HUSBAND not the government.

    • @anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808
      @anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 29 днів тому

      @@saje1988 *I agree, but we are fighting a culture, and cultures take a long time to reform.*

    • @rudyflores9395
      @rudyflores9395 28 днів тому +1

      Sht being stupid or playing stupid pays off.

  • @1heavydutyshorty
    @1heavydutyshorty Місяць тому +99

    You let him hit it raw without a second thought now you a Single Mom.....

    • @user-mg8fn1bq9d
      @user-mg8fn1bq9d Місяць тому +20

      She said she gon have his kids...don't care if he's there or not...

    • @detroitvcw
      @detroitvcw Місяць тому +6

      🎶You got 3 kids and 3 baby daddies..You a single mom..you say imma have his kid(s) ,if he's here or nah..and you single and pregnant (looking for a step daddy)..showing off the baby🎶🚼

    • @preciouscry
      @preciouscry Місяць тому

      Why you dissing? Dame you vicious.

    • @StevenSanchez_95
      @StevenSanchez_95 Місяць тому +10

      @@preciouscryit’s a song

    • @StevenSanchez_95
      @StevenSanchez_95 Місяць тому +6

      @@preciouscryby brandon jamal

  • @AngelaStarr
    @AngelaStarr Місяць тому +12

    🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ Why do they keep doing this to themselves and their children???

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 29 днів тому +1

      @@AngelaStarr right then they will say there wasn’t no good black men, there’s thousands of black men with no kids and no baby mommas

    • @rudyflores9395
      @rudyflores9395 28 днів тому +1

      FREE EVERYTHING did you see she wasn't driving a shty PINTO

  • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
    @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +5

    Crazy how people think having multiple kids and multiple babymothers/fathers is normal, sounds like an excuse because you want to sleep around

  • @Mr.3000TX
    @Mr.3000TX Місяць тому +22

    They turn to the internet for attention and validation. There are a bunch of people on the internet just like her.B Birds of a feather…….

  • @jayburns94
    @jayburns94 Місяць тому +43

    1 child in most cases is a mistake but 3 from 2 additional dudes!!!!????? Part of me doesn't feel sorry for her, I feel sorry for those kids because of the mother they have!

    • @butcherbay186
      @butcherbay186 Місяць тому +7

      Aint no "mistake" having kids.... most of them are ADULTS. Hold them ACCOUNTABLE.

    • @LovelyLiz_TV
      @LovelyLiz_TV 29 днів тому

      Facts!

    • @rudyflores9395
      @rudyflores9395 28 днів тому +1

      But I love my food stamps & Gov. check I mean my kids I loves my children's.

  • @2punish1
    @2punish1 Місяць тому +4

    Being a baby-momma (not a wife) is a badge of honor in the Black community. A baby-momma put financial strain on the next man that wants a relationship because baby-momma and the kids come as a liability.

  • @johnwilliams5680
    @johnwilliams5680 Місяць тому +26

    This is unacceptable and the women applaud this behavior...

    • @steadmoney3431
      @steadmoney3431 Місяць тому +4

      That’s why who even cares anymore

    • @fudgematthew33
      @fudgematthew33 29 днів тому +2

      @@johnwilliams5680 but Simone Biles got dragged for having a whole husband. We're so lost, it's not funny.

    • @johnwilliams5680
      @johnwilliams5680 29 днів тому +1

      @@fudgematthew33 facts! They were dragging her for being married cause they miserable

  • @amac23557
    @amac23557 Місяць тому +7

    The teeth and the lisp I can’t get past
    6:32-AD…”Aww s#!+”🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @thecritic147
    @thecritic147 Місяць тому +72

    Who knocked that up??? Ewww 🤮

    • @hkmai
      @hkmai Місяць тому +18

      Black dudes

    • @kidplayed
      @kidplayed Місяць тому +4

      🐒 🙈

    • @zion_lion340
      @zion_lion340 Місяць тому +10

      You hear that lisp? That top is gon be 🔥🔥 lmfao 🤣

    • @duncanmugambi6213
      @duncanmugambi6213 Місяць тому +1

      😂😂😂😂​@@zion_lion340

    • @Bourneman89
      @Bourneman89 Місяць тому +15

      Ninjas will hit anything. Classic

  • @steveyj3002
    @steveyj3002 Місяць тому +9

    At what point do you look at other people struggling and tell yourself to not make the same mistakes 🤡🎪

  • @tyreeknyc1980
    @tyreeknyc1980 Місяць тому +26

    I just went on this broad "IG" and it is so repulsive, that those tears of sadness are well deserved.

    • @Tre38843
      @Tre38843 29 днів тому

      @@tyreeknyc1980 What is her Instagram?

    • @lockhart1895
      @lockhart1895 27 днів тому

      What is it

  • @Ohyoucansing2
    @Ohyoucansing2 Місяць тому +12

    Whatever happened to woman’s intuition I guess it failed her in this instant😂

  • @kathryneprickett2083
    @kathryneprickett2083 Місяць тому +22

    I JUST WENT OVER THERE...SHE HAS 7 KIDS¡!!!!!!!!!!!! 7 KIDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @jameshendley1975
      @jameshendley1975 Місяць тому +12

      7 kids smdh

    • @SNPDemon
      @SNPDemon Місяць тому +5

      You just went over there? Like that's your friend or something? If so you're disloyal

    • @kathryneprickett2083
      @kathryneprickett2083 Місяць тому +9

      @@SNPDemon Ummmmm, I meant her channel. I went over to her channel.

    • @djhayes3105
      @djhayes3105 Місяць тому +4

      What, I know you lying.

    • @kathryneprickett2083
      @kathryneprickett2083 Місяць тому

      @@djhayes3105 Brittanyplus7 is her UA-cam channel. I couldn't believe it.

  • @Arguewityamama
    @Arguewityamama Місяць тому +9

    The fact that she’ll go to the food pantry, before asking their fathers for food to feed the kids is insane. I c to

  • @MukadisAymen-ui8fy
    @MukadisAymen-ui8fy Місяць тому +5

    That's the problem must society today trying to normalize having kids without marriage the society have been destroyed unfortunately and it's sad 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @jlg2926
    @jlg2926 Місяць тому +15

    How bout not having kids till you’re married.

    • @Trump4life5
      @Trump4life5 Місяць тому +1

      Marriage don’t work it’s the same thing

    • @uwaohi2386
      @uwaohi2386 Місяць тому

      @@Trump4life5 Thats not true tho

    • @gracenmercy579
      @gracenmercy579 29 днів тому

      @@Trump4life5that is not true if understand the Word of God and what the Bible says. Been married to my husband for 24 years two kids ages 21 and 16 it’s only through the grace of God.

    • @Trump4life5
      @Trump4life5 28 днів тому

      @@uwaohi2386 you in denial

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield 28 днів тому

      To much of a Commitment they will rather be a baby mama then be a wife

  • @davidmilner8778
    @davidmilner8778 Місяць тому +14

    The Sistahood at its best! Whoa me! What embracing and celebrating the Single Black Mother Culture look like!🤔🎯

  • @NYRyder1983
    @NYRyder1983 Місяць тому +23

    Parenthood was never designed for one parent. It takes two. Baby mommas chose to have babies, but then complain about lack of help. Take some accountability, girl.

  • @MemoryChronicles
    @MemoryChronicles 29 днів тому +4

    After the first child she should’ve known how hard it is to raise a child by self, but no! You go have 2 and 3 because most times these types of women want what they want. Birth control is literally free if you can’t afford it or don’t have insurance. Somewhere in her mind she wanted 3 kids at all costs then come run tell us about her poor choices in partner selection and being a voluntary single parent and the afterthought of what she-herself chose.

  • @Itellthetruthhere
    @Itellthetruthhere Місяць тому +48

    Not all black women have kids. I have zero kids & a virgin. I’m talking to a guy who is celibate & we waiting until marriage. Told him I need a ring and wedding before anything. He doesn’t have kids & is an electrical engineer. We both college educated.

    • @juliansearcie1758
      @juliansearcie1758 Місяць тому +19

      Of course not all who said all ..?. Statistically a large number of them do have children by a small minority of men..

    • @StevenSanchez_95
      @StevenSanchez_95 Місяць тому +1

      You’re either in a relationship or not?

    • @MichaelNoMyers
      @MichaelNoMyers Місяць тому +7

      Great…. Now to get the other 99.5 million of y’all on board.

    • @garygreen7104
      @garygreen7104 Місяць тому +9

      When you say not all black women have children, what was your point in pointing out the obvious thing that everyone knows already?

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +5

      Yeah some don’t have kids but to many of them do have kids and they all share the same baby daddies so that’s there problem

  • @taipan1234
    @taipan1234 Місяць тому +6

    Black Women LOVE Pookie..

  • @99ways2tarot
    @99ways2tarot 29 днів тому +4

    A BW who got married first and had my 3 children by my husband. We divorced and it was hard enough dealing with one father that I was once married to. It's embarrassing that we have gotten to this point. I'm still shocked when people ask me how many fathers there are for my 3 children, like it's become a norm to expect more than one.

    • @christopherjackson7670
      @christopherjackson7670 29 днів тому

      @@99ways2tarot that’s how far we’ve fallen. You hear a chick has multiple kids. The standard question even if it’s not asked is how many fathers. Insane.

    • @PassportLife
      @PassportLife 29 днів тому

      3 children by 1 man who makes $50k +/- a year is less in child support vs. 3 children by 3 men who make $150k collectively..... That's the game.

  • @Ali01007
    @Ali01007 Місяць тому +62

    She set her life 10 years back and don’t get me started with that leeeeeth

    • @Goldcoast030
      @Goldcoast030 Місяць тому +4

      You know what these single mothers do in their spare time. 👀

    • @_MoneyMike_
      @_MoneyMike_ Місяць тому +1

      @@Goldcoast030😂😂😂😂

    • @hdhd7402
      @hdhd7402 Місяць тому

      😲😲😲

    • @detroitvcw
      @detroitvcw Місяць тому +5

      10?!? 15-20 minimum. No support system! Most opportunities you'll never achieve if her aim was high

    • @Cam4Jess
      @Cam4Jess Місяць тому +3

      What is that?

  • @landojr2383
    @landojr2383 Місяць тому +13

    That weekly daycare bill definitely ain't no joke which is why I only had 1 son but she knew that and still had 2 more kids smh that's tough lol

  • @consumerdebtchitchat
    @consumerdebtchitchat 29 днів тому +21

    I am 57. No kids. No credit cards. No student loan. Credit score above 800. Own my own condo. Will retire in 11 years with a 30-year State pension. Will have a multiple six-figure savings account plus social security to go with retirement.
    Worked my ass off to get to this point in life. I think the problem is many women don't really want to work that hard. They want the easy way out which is to pray that some man will come in and rescue them if they keep having kids.
    The quality men they're looking for are not attracted to women with multiple baby daddies. I'm not attracted to men with multiple baby mamas..
    live your best life. Just don't be upset at the consequences of your decisions..

    • @ljmorris6496
      @ljmorris6496 29 днів тому +9

      And will pass away with housecats and your estate turned over to a bank...

    • @penelopecrawley8253
      @penelopecrawley8253 29 днів тому +4

      Sounds like a sad life 😩🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @jwaddell318
      @jwaddell318 28 днів тому +3

      @@ljmorris6496 This was a harsh comment but we are ALL thinking it. Very sad life. If you have no one to share all that hard work with then what's the point.

    • @Tiff2525-k8k
      @Tiff2525-k8k 28 днів тому +1

      Exactly, she's not in a better position just cuz she has money

    • @rudyflores9395
      @rudyflores9395 28 днів тому +1

      So your saying your going to help her out with a large amount of MONEY Bless your heart did you see how thin she was thanks for helping her out.

  • @ChrystalFitness
    @ChrystalFitness 28 днів тому +3

    She would do anything for her kids except what they need…a stable 2 parent home.

  • @Cahluvca
    @Cahluvca Місяць тому +3

    Multiple unplanned and out of wedlock kids = no sympathy given.

  • @Its_zoey25
    @Its_zoey25 29 днів тому +3

    This why I’m never having kids or getting married!! I couldn’t imagine being a single mother!! Hell no ain’t no way

  • @lauragriffin6512
    @lauragriffin6512 Місяць тому +3

    If she didn't figure it out after the first baby or even the second baby, she is the one who is sickening.

    • @rudyflores9395
      @rudyflores9395 28 днів тому +1

      But she's very thin did you see her rib cage poor poor woman

  • @Tre38843
    @Tre38843 Місяць тому +59

    BUT WHY AREN’T THE 6 FEET TALL MEN WITH ALL THE SWAG AND DRIP💧NOT HELPING THESE SINGLE MOTHERS THEY CREATED? 🤔🤔

    • @user-mg8fn1bq9d
      @user-mg8fn1bq9d Місяць тому +10

      The BBC correspondent is on to another story...

    • @gtgt9655
      @gtgt9655 Місяць тому +12

      Because they have No Idea what a Father is...
      Plus its hard to be up in the club chasing booty when you gotta raise kids... So they just bounce...

    • @OvernightActivist
      @OvernightActivist Місяць тому

      They was just droppin D off

    • @havok5538
      @havok5538 Місяць тому

      6' 4"
      Never created a Single Babymama
      Settled for Brain 🧠, Handjobs and Females I really liked....made sure we used that new invention
      Contraceptives 😊
      Waited 2yrs into Marriage before the 1st child

    • @christopherjackson7670
      @christopherjackson7670 29 днів тому +1

      @@Tre38843 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @pjp7259
    @pjp7259 Місяць тому +3

    That’s why my wife and I were married ten years before we had kids!!

  • @ellindamartin5601
    @ellindamartin5601 Місяць тому +2

    Im so glad she is coming forward and saying the truth , please pray for her situation to change , because the children suffer too , and God bless her ❤️🙏

  • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
    @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +6

    Okay let me have more kids because it will totally benefit my first kid 😂😂😂, no common sense you people down bad these days

  • @ahmedanderson5480
    @ahmedanderson5480 Місяць тому +12

    It takes a village to raise a kid

    • @kayjohnson9786
      @kayjohnson9786 Місяць тому +5

      It takes two responsible adult.Always hear Americans saying that.Those day long gone .Not even outside the U.S. some people have that.Thats why most plan their family.

    • @juliansearcie1758
      @juliansearcie1758 Місяць тому +1

      Or just one good father

    • @charlziedouglas-mo7uc
      @charlziedouglas-mo7uc Місяць тому +3

      The way how things going it looks the village is tired of these baby mamas. The village is actually running away from pookies' and Ray Rays' kids.😂

    • @StevenSanchez_95
      @StevenSanchez_95 Місяць тому

      @@charlziedouglas-mo7ucthat way

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield 28 днів тому +1

      Yea the village is tired of pookie jr

  • @Kingkongthugpassion2667
    @Kingkongthugpassion2667 Місяць тому +3

    She complaining but she ain't saying nothing about giving the kids to their father cuz she don't want to give up that big tax return

    • @steadmoney3431
      @steadmoney3431 29 днів тому

      My brotha I’m rockin wit you 💪🏾

    • @rudyflores9395
      @rudyflores9395 28 днів тому +1

      Not to long a ago wasn't it $1500 per kid

  • @davillain1975
    @davillain1975 Місяць тому +10

    🗣 Sounds Like She Doesn’t Even Get Child Support, Not That It Matters 7

    • @keithjones6603
      @keithjones6603 Місяць тому +2

      Kinda hard getting child support from pookie and ray ray when the ain't got jobs smfh.

    • @marlondowell8570
      @marlondowell8570 29 днів тому

      It's always back pay

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield 28 днів тому

      Pookie ain't no money he broke 😂

    • @rudyflores9395
      @rudyflores9395 28 днів тому +1

      That's what she says but it sounds & smells like BULL SHT to me. She wasn't driving no Pinto wagon

  • @user-rj2yp8ld2h
    @user-rj2yp8ld2h 28 днів тому +1

    There was a time when fathers took care of their children even out of wedlock. Grandma once said, "I don't care about the woman or the women, just make sure that you take care of my grandchildren.".

  • @Scaoticvlogs886
    @Scaoticvlogs886 Місяць тому +4

    When they have help they push baby daddies out,so no I don't give a shit suffer .. my baby mama has three Baby dadies three kids and she is still not settled,no goals no no aspirations no idea where her life is going,at age 40 lord,she has moved from one house to another house more times then she can even keep a job,she drugs abused and suffers from bipolar & paranoia,she has the worst trust issues,she sleeps with knives under her pillow in her draws & in her son's room there is a knive,all for protection,she's thinking someone is out to get her..😭😭😂 she's Australian indigenous influenced by the broken, systematic African American Such as this one .

  • @dandrelewis814
    @dandrelewis814 Місяць тому +1

    Social Media Has Ruined Alot Of Our Women....

  • @Obamabush3296
    @Obamabush3296 Місяць тому +9

    3 bd ? Really ????

  • @Aaron-sv1rm
    @Aaron-sv1rm 29 днів тому +1

    The village doesn't owe sh*t - the village has bills & jobs to go too as well. Part of being an adult is holding others accountable. Take those men to court, make the state hold them accountable for their part in raising their child, and most importantly...get your paper.

  • @pla4825
    @pla4825 Місяць тому +5

    People really have to hold themselves accountable for their own life and the decisions they make. It’s really sad when people both men and women do not have they life in order and they bring children into this world to screw up they life too

  • @christopherjackson7670
    @christopherjackson7670 29 днів тому +1

    She didn’t make the video to be funny. This is nothing short of HILARIOUS!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tyresejackson8192
      @tyresejackson8192 29 днів тому

      Im telling u i ain't got no kids im sitting here laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @SpinALotDJ
    @SpinALotDJ 28 днів тому +3

    !! 0:25 BUT THEY DID TELL HER NOT TO BE FAST AND CHASING BOYS, SHE JUST DID NOT LISTEN! SO SAD, TOO BAD. NO SYMPATHY FOR HER CONSEQUENCES !!

  • @Godsend77
    @Godsend77 Місяць тому +2

    She says that like someone didn't tell her that very thing. She didn't listen then, she wouldn't listen to herself if she could go back in time.

  • @bwanaimmortal1369
    @bwanaimmortal1369 Місяць тому +23

    Man single mothers complain too much. I'm a single father, it ain't that bad. As adults we figure shit out and keep it pushin.

    • @rudyflores9395
      @rudyflores9395 28 днів тому +1

      But but she's pushing the wrong way

  • @Elephant-n-da-Room
    @Elephant-n-da-Room Місяць тому +2

    You let him hit it raw
    You didn't have 2nd thoughts
    Now ya ah singke mom
    🎶😎🍿

  • @got2getit204
    @got2getit204 Місяць тому +4

    I bet when they were hitting it from the bike were was this attitude!

  • @fredwilkins4644
    @fredwilkins4644 Місяць тому +2

    Why don’t u just give all 3 men custody of the kids? You obviously can’t handle the arrangement you have now, but of course she’s not gonna do that, it’s amazing how she wants us to feel bad for a situation she willingly put herself in.

  • @charlesrogers8420
    @charlesrogers8420 Місяць тому +4

    This is why BW will vote for Kamala……keep the government subsidizes going for unscrupulous people.

    • @steadmoney3431
      @steadmoney3431 Місяць тому +1

      Exactly!! To keep the benefits going for shameless people

  • @Vam0629
    @Vam0629 Місяць тому +1

    She is completely lost. No guidance whatsoever or if anything the wrong guidance and examples.

  • @Bloom2Grow
    @Bloom2Grow Місяць тому +4

    It’s hard feeling sorry for these women who have not 2 but 3+ baby daddies. Like, you didn’t learn after the first one? It’s no one else’s fault but hers. Yeah, I blame the men too because if you have sex then you better understand the consequences and what comes with sex. No excuse. She better put her phone to use and figure out how to monetize her platform to make some money while she’s at it. SMH.

    • @bondson0094
      @bondson0094 Місяць тому

      She is the gate keeper.... yes the men are at fault as well but we don't know the circumstances many women keep their children away from the men if they have issues with them, we don't know if they are Pookies and Ray Rays in an out of Jail.... bottom line the woman controls her body ...she has to open up to a man to get pregnant the main blame falls on her.

  • @jondoe4307
    @jondoe4307 Місяць тому +2

    So what i get is you dont make good decisions for yourself and you ABSOLUTELY NEED a man to save you from yourself because if you had one you wouldn't be in this position.

  • @klistopher4222
    @klistopher4222 Місяць тому +16

    I wonder did the men want kids at all.

    • @SNPDemon
      @SNPDemon Місяць тому

      She prolly just got some fye head 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @zion_lion340
      @zion_lion340 Місяць тому +1

      I don't think so, it was a fun time while it lasted. Kids came and all 3 bounced up out the equation

  • @gilbertigabe7331
    @gilbertigabe7331 29 днів тому +1

    Smh. Consequences of promiscuity????.

  • @Solider7
    @Solider7 Місяць тому +3

    I don't feel sorry for her. I do feel sorry for those 3 kids for having a mother who like so many other parents, was too damn stupid to keep her clothes on.

  • @terencew7716
    @terencew7716 Місяць тому +2

    Ladies be careful who you have kids with!!

  • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
    @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +3

    And those baby daddies have baby mommas and other kids themselves, you signed up for broken homes so you have to live in it. Most case for many of you black women

  • @jboogy1021
    @jboogy1021 Місяць тому +1

    Do women realize them felling whole or happy doesn’t translate to their children’s happiness?

  • @dru8570
    @dru8570 Місяць тому +3

    Family and friends probably was behind her and helping her but she kept having kids.what did she think was going to happen?

  • @jamessanders8895
    @jamessanders8895 29 днів тому +2

    Why are these women constantly putting all of their business on the internet? A lady doesn't air dirty laundry in public, she washes it and puts it away at home. America needs Jesus Christ more than ever. We need to get rid of single mother culture and bring back the family unit. Three generations live under our roof, and it's such a blessing when you can depend on grandparents for child care.

  • @Itellthetruthhere
    @Itellthetruthhere Місяць тому +3

    Some white men would tell you that they grew up with moms who had children by men of other races who have never been married. I met some who have told me this is their upbringing. So it’s not just black women.

    • @MCLottotv
      @MCLottotv Місяць тому

      So what! White men are the original baby daddies. All those children they left behind with black women during slavery!

    • @bondson0094
      @bondson0094 Місяць тому +2

      no but. a great many do..... its in the culture no way to sugar coat it.

  • @brendap8385
    @brendap8385 28 днів тому

    At this point, I'm ready tired of hearing them complain and cry on social media about how hard it is. Should've thought about it beforehand.

  • @sharronewilson4761
    @sharronewilson4761 Місяць тому +3

    This why THEY bloodline is decreasing, guys yall got opinions ✈️

  • @user-zw8co4bm6p
    @user-zw8co4bm6p 27 днів тому +1

    My heart goes out to her.

  • @dynodon9182
    @dynodon9182 Місяць тому +8

    She is the perfect example of why Welfare to Work will always fail. And only fatherless families need a community.

  • @user-qv8df9vj2o
    @user-qv8df9vj2o Місяць тому +2

    They think a career is making babies with several men then living on child support. Career 😂

    • @michiganpyroaddicts4482
      @michiganpyroaddicts4482 Місяць тому +2

      That’s what they do find guys with multiple baby mommas and kids and join the broken homes I’ve witnessed it myself

  • @EricMiller-o5r
    @EricMiller-o5r Місяць тому +12

    Her message is falling on deaf ears. She got with 3 men 3x and want understanding from the world. No need for her to cry young and dumb. She knows about marriage, and what the consequences are for unprotected sex can lead to, not to mention her poor choices in men. Your problem lady, not the world's. Now your struggles begin.