Breaking down the most heartbreaking song on TTPD

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024

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  • @issofsar
    @issofsar 13 днів тому +34

    Taylor is an old school singer/songwriter. She doesn't need to riff or belt out her lyrics. The lyrics carry the emotions.

  • @JenniferOcon-n2w
    @JenniferOcon-n2w 13 днів тому +43

    The end of this song…our field of dreams, engulfed in fire, your arson’s match your somber eyes and I’ll still see it until I die you’re the loss my life. 😩 like being stabbed in the heart. Love love love this video!

    • @dancashio
      @dancashio  13 днів тому +6

      just too many emotions! thank you so much

    • @samfrikinrocks
      @samfrikinrocks 13 днів тому +5

      It's the most devastating part for me! Immediate tears, no matter what.

    • @carolpruitt164
      @carolpruitt164 8 днів тому +1

      How does she capture heartbreak so beautifully? I could never put into words how it feels. She is such a talented songwriter

  • @yara5502
    @yara5502 10 днів тому +15

    Taylor actually has a massive vocal range, she just doesn´t use all of it for storytelling, emotive and style choices. She also has excellent vocal technique and uses her voice like an instrument to tell stories and also the reason why she can sing live for over 3 hour shows several days a week without losing her voice. Se also is a master of vocal cadance and inflections. There is a reason why Taylor can sing any song in any genre but other singers have problems covering her songs.

  • @tracydurbin8188
    @tracydurbin8188 11 днів тому +21

    Bland goodbye is worse than a fight.

    • @dancashio
      @dancashio  11 днів тому +3

      100%!

    • @neilwritesstuff
      @neilwritesstuff 9 днів тому +10

      Especially when it started with a valiant roar. The anticlimactic-ness of it all is a weird thing to experience

  • @pixi78
    @pixi78 11 днів тому +10

    Dan! I was today years old when I discovered you had a UA-cam channel!!! I follow you on the Gram and TT but had no idea about YT! At least I can go back and watch ALL your content….so fun 😊

    • @lubalethudube186
      @lubalethudube186 11 днів тому +1

      Same!! He popped up as a suggestion and I was like wait I know this guy what’s he doing here!

  • @graceczajkowski5378
    @graceczajkowski5378 13 днів тому +21

    Gasp! I had always thought of the “legendary” line to be like Barney Stinson legendary. I didn’t even consider the meaning to be in the mythical sense! 😭💔

    • @emmavink
      @emmavink 13 днів тому +4

      Especially heartbreaking when you consider everything that went down with ratty Matty.
      The image she had of him in her mind for a decade was a complete fabrication. He was such a let down and such a betrayal.
      This song sounds like a pretty and sad love song... It's actually fking BRUTAL 😭😭😭

  • @giuliadilorenzo8686
    @giuliadilorenzo8686 6 днів тому +2

    the 'something counterfeit is dead' gets me every time. Like it was NEVER real but it LOOKED real. I can't.

  • @inksplat
    @inksplat 11 днів тому +9

    I feel the SAME WAY about now she sings “a million times” - that ‘times’ is heartbreaking, even more so than the end of the song imo!

    • @dancashio
      @dancashio  11 днів тому +3

      right?!

    • @tracydurbin8188
      @tracydurbin8188 11 днів тому +1

      Not to put to fine a point on it, but it sounds like petulance too-

    • @ladymarmaladebakes
      @ladymarmaladebakes 9 днів тому +1

      Every time I hear that line I can I almost see her rolling her eyes like….yeah, yeah, you keep saying it, but do you actually mean it? Like deep down she knew he was just saying what he thought she wanted to hear😢 Heartbreaking 💔

    • @taralovesdiamondart
      @taralovesdiamondart 5 днів тому +1

      @@ladymarmaladebakes I feel it's more in retrospect. He's said it a million times... made her believe it right up until he broke her heart. Now she's left reeling, trying to understand how someone who said they loved her so much could treat her that way. (Whatever it was he did.) Like she's trying to figure out if she built this thing up in her head to be something it wasn't.... but he told her he loved her about a million times, so maybe it wasn't her. That's how I take it any way.

  • @taralovesdiamondart
    @taralovesdiamondart 5 днів тому +1

    Dan - another great lyric break down. I posted this below in a reply to someone, but I thought I'd repost it here for everyone else. I think this song is about not just the breakdown of their relationship, but the loss of the wedding and future he promised her. Starting with 'waltzing back into rekindled flames'. The waltz is the traditional wedding dance. She calls him "you standup guy" - because he stood her up, "You Holy Ghost" - because he ghosted her at the (hypothetical) altar. All of these things come from the bridge - "talking rings and talking cradles ... I wish I could unrecall how we almost had it all". After waiting for 6 years for Joe to marry her, here came Matty saying he would marry her in a heartbeat and they could start a family. This song is the wedding that didn't happen. And the future he promised her that didn't happen. At an actual wedding when either the bride or groom is a no-show and the guests are awkwardly standing around wondering if the reception would still go on or be cancelled - after all the food has already been paid for and someone needs to eat it. Her wedding never even got that far so she's pictured dancing phantoms (ghostly wedding guests) on the terrace at her imaginary reception, being embarrassed for her for being stood up at her nonexistent wedding. Anyway, that's my take on it.

  • @kelcar75
    @kelcar75 13 днів тому +6

    This song is my favorite of all time. That bridge is the most heartbreaking ever. 💔

  • @sophicarne
    @sophicarne 10 днів тому +4

    I love you at the board connecting the strings for us.. and kinda putting the songs in "order"

  • @Spookymama08
    @Spookymama08 9 днів тому +4

    All the stages of grief covered in this album!! ❤

  • @tracydurbin8188
    @tracydurbin8188 3 дні тому

    I think about this song A LOT. It tells so much with so few words, really. First of all, the flames are 'rekindled' and they 'know the steps' which tells you how much we don't know at all about how deep this was and how long it simmered. I went through similar and it was so devastating at the time. Glad to see you here--I love coming across your IG.

  • @anamarthaguevara
    @anamarthaguevara 13 днів тому +15

    😭😭 at the end. I would like to see you reacting to “How did it end?” 🥺❤️❤️

    • @dancashio
      @dancashio  13 днів тому +2

      I love that song 💔

    • @iteachlit
      @iteachlit 11 днів тому

      Ohhh, that one.
      Only if he immediately gets to do “So High School” as an emotional palate cleanser. Good sequencing job on that one, Ms. Swift-*thank you.*

  • @sebastianswain4329
    @sebastianswain4329 13 днів тому +4

    Love it Dan ❤.
    Love the content and your reactions.
    Keep up the fantastic work 😊. 👍😁

  • @LisaCSRyan
    @LisaCSRyan 14 днів тому +8

    This song gives the "on the floor, miserable, crying" all by itself... would love to see you do "So Long London".

    • @dancashio
      @dancashio  14 днів тому +1

      honestly!

    • @mymfard4663
      @mymfard4663 13 днів тому +6

      The first time I heard "you are the loss of my life" line, I thought she meant he was like the biggest loss she has experienced, but now I can only hear it as "you were a waste of time" similar to "good riddance" in the smallest man..."

    • @emmavink
      @emmavink 13 днів тому +3

      ​@@mymfard4663exactly!!! Anyone who thinks this song is about Joe hasn't been paying attention for the last 6 years 😅 6 years isn't a get love QUICK scheme in any world.
      The ratty cracky Matty references across this song are actually crazy. The imagery alone between Cardigan/Betty and the line "dancing phantoms on the terrace (standing in my front porch light), are they second hand (kiss you on the porch in front of all your stupid friends) embarrassed"... Is lyrical genius 😭😭😭

    • @emmavink
      @emmavink 13 днів тому +6

      Yeah... But So Long London is just sad. And she wishes that guy happiness and love in his future.
      This song is fking brutal and she absolutely doesn't wish this other man anything good for his future 😅

    • @emmavink
      @emmavink 13 днів тому +4

      ​@@mymfard4663yes. Cracky wasn't the man she loved the most... He was the man that took the most from her 😭😭😭

  • @musicandmania
    @musicandmania 11 днів тому +2

    I watch all your reels they are my favorite and for god knows why, tonight i finally found your channel here 😭

    • @dancashio
      @dancashio  11 днів тому +1

      Ah thank you so much, welcome to my UA-cam!

  • @pixipretty808
    @pixipretty808 8 днів тому

    Really enjoyed this - I've listened to loml so many times and felt like I couldn't uncover any more links, but the painting theme that carries through was one I didn't pick up on in relation to the conman/counterfeit art line. Thank you, this was brilliant!!

  • @Spookymama08
    @Spookymama08 9 днів тому +1

    You got me with the Wicked reference!❤

  • @annaolsson5441
    @annaolsson5441 8 днів тому

    When you look at her live performances she has a much larger range than people realise - check out rep , like try to hold your own against those Choirs but she chooses to use it in vocal control, emotion and storytelling because there is where she shines like a diamond.

  • @claredallolio2935
    @claredallolio2935 13 днів тому +6

    All too well next please Dan - 10 min version obs ❤

  • @taralovesdiamondart
    @taralovesdiamondart 5 днів тому

    One last comment, sorry for spamming - I tend to comment as the video goes on.. LOL The one lyric "and all at once, the ink bleeds" pretty much sums up the entire anthology. For Taylor turns her pain into art and her masterful pen must have nearly run dry trying to process all her emotions in this time!

  • @ivetteferrer97
    @ivetteferrer97 5 днів тому

    Next one the Prophecyyy! ❤

  • @emmavink
    @emmavink 11 днів тому +1

    The "dancing phantoms on the terrace, are they second hand embarrassed" are her "all her stupid friends" that she will kiss him in front of on her portch from Cardigan 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @taralovesdiamondart
      @taralovesdiamondart 5 днів тому

      I think this song is about not just the breakdown of their relationship, but the loss of the wedding and future he promised her. Starting with 'waltzing back into rekindled flames'. The waltz is the traditional wedding dance. She calls him "you standup guy" - because he stood her up, "You Holy Ghost" - because he ghosted her at the (hypothetical) altar. All of these things come from the bridge - "talking rings and talking cradles ... I wish I could unrecall how we almost had it all". After waiting for 6 years for Joe to marry her, here came Matty saying he would marry her in a heartbeat and they could start a family. This song is the wedding that didn't happen. And the future he promised her that didn't happen. At an actual wedding when either the bride or groom is a no-show and the guests are awkwardly standing around wondering if the reception would still go on or be cancelled - after all the food has already been paid for and someone needs to eat it. Her wedding never even got that far so she's pictured dancing phantoms (ghostly wedding guests) on the terrace at her imaginary reception, being embarrassed for her for being stood up at her nonexistent wedding. Anyway, that's my take on it.

    • @emmavink
      @emmavink 5 днів тому +1

      @@taralovesdiamondart I like that interpretation. It may not fit everything in the first half of the song, but I like how some of the imagery matches up.
      I'm just not convinced Taylor wanted to get married to Joe or he to her for the entire 6 years.

  • @KristinHa
    @KristinHa 7 днів тому

    No. You cannot tell them. I mean, you can tell them but sometimes a person just has to experience their lesson ~ you can tell them, but will they hear you?

  • @Mittnamn53
    @Mittnamn53 13 днів тому

    I love it Dan! Keep em coming. I’d love for you to do Mirror ball

    • @dancashio
      @dancashio  13 днів тому +1

      I'll add it to the list! thank you!

    • @emmavink
      @emmavink 13 днів тому

      ​@@dancashioI HIGHLY recommend reacting to the Long Pond Studio version of Mirror Ball if you can. The nuances in the lyrics and her delivery just turn a lovely song into MAGIC 🥰

    • @carolynnewcomb2153
      @carolynnewcomb2153 13 днів тому

      @@dancashioI second the request to react to the Long Pond version of Mirror Ball…or any Folklore song! It’s fun to include the discussion she has about each song first, then the listen. It adds so much to the understanding, esp for those who don’t know Taylor’s songs well, or the lore!

  • @ivetteferrer97
    @ivetteferrer97 5 днів тому

    And when she says low down boy? That’s making reference to london boy 😢

  • @anabelenramirez2341
    @anabelenramirez2341 9 днів тому

    I link "Mr steal your girl then make her cry" to Guilty as sin, is like Matty was "slide into inboxes" and painting this skys even before the Joe breackup. She was cuestioning her 6year relationship and oh.. he (Matty) appears out of nowere in the form o lovebombing.

  • @Music_Saved_Me
    @Music_Saved_Me 13 днів тому +6

    I love Taylors music but ive never had the room in my life to be a full blown swiftie but dan you are trying so hard to change that lol

    • @dancashio
      @dancashio  13 днів тому +3

      🤣 huge investment of time

    • @emmavink
      @emmavink 13 днів тому +2

      I am also an on-the-fence Swiftie. There is a lot of her ultra pop stuff I'm not the biggest fan of... But that is only one part of a huge discoriogrophy and her other work is just incredible.
      And no one can claim that her ultra pop doesn't slap even if it isn't everyone's cup of tea 😅

    • @inmyReputation-Era
      @inmyReputation-Era 13 днів тому +1

      You can 100% be a full on Swiftie without loving every single song she’s ever made.

    • @emmavink
      @emmavink 12 днів тому

      @@inmyReputation-Era I hear you and I sincerely appreciate your lovely words. It's incredible Swifties like you that keep me tapped in 🥰
      There is just really sadly for me a particularly toxic element of the fandom that keeps me from giving over fully.
      And not just the ones she wrote a song like But Daddy I Love Him about. The arguments I've had with Swifties who refuse to accept that pure lyrical analysis leads to a song being about Matty and not Joe (loml is especially infuriating... Because apparently a cinephile is the same thing as an actor despite the fact that it's the 1975 who have 2 full music videos in black and white with a 20s themed story), or another song DEFINITELY based on pure lyrical analysis and song/context analysis where she is expressing trauma about John Mayer somehow being twisted into a reference about a mere sad breakup song with Jake Gyllenhaal really, really turns me off.
      I don't mind having fun with different possible interpretations of lyrics.... But when a songwriter is literally saying on a song that she doesn't know if an age gap was morally "legal" or at the very least ethical or not and her ex was trying to manipulate and convince her that she was mature beyond her years so the fact that she was still a teenager wasn't actually sexual exploitation....
      But they try to make that song a reference to Jake Gyllenhaal... My entire body just nopes the heck out of that level of obsession.
      And I promise, I know this is not all Swifties... But it distances me from the fandom for sure.

    • @xoxolovechristielynn
      @xoxolovechristielynn 12 днів тому +1

      ⁠@@emmavinkjust take what you love and that’s good enough! I’ve been a diehard fan since before her debut album (MySpace days lol) and I know not all of her catalog is for everyone. My only advice would be to revisit songs that you don’t necessarily love, because sometimes they can REALLY grow on you lol. But if her pop stuff isn’t your fave, I heavily recommend Folklore, Evermore, TTPD and honestly even Red, Midnights and some of Lover. There are some gems in those albums that really feel like they fit into other albums sonically because she was experimenting with her sound so much. I can’t not recommend 1989 also, you have to check out those vaults if you haven’t already. 🫶🏼

  • @hannahpreece3651
    @hannahpreece3651 9 днів тому

    He doesn’t sound like much of a loss.

  • @melindatintle9728
    @melindatintle9728 11 днів тому

  • @Kramseth
    @Kramseth 13 днів тому +3

    13th like!!!

  • @taralovesdiamondart
    @taralovesdiamondart 5 днів тому

    After calling him a cinephile, she then starts alluding to different movies - A Field of Dreams, The Wizard of Oz etc. You know how she keeps her songs vague and generic so that listeners can put their own interpretations on them, but there's usually a specific lyric to let the other person know that, yes this one's about you. If he's a cinephile, I'm wondering if we need to go back through folklore, evermore and Midnights to see every time she mentions movies (ie Exile) if it might be about Matty when we all assumed it was Joe (or someone else). Yikes!

  • @LL-ex1gp
    @LL-ex1gp 13 днів тому

    Do you think it’s written about Joe, Matty or both? I still can’t decide, but lean towards both …

    • @xoxolovechristielynn
      @xoxolovechristielynn 12 днів тому +8

      I am genuinely positive it’s about Matty. The Smallest Man is 100% about him and this song has many parallels. The references to rekindled flames, and being “just kids”, Mr. Steal your girl, (because I believe she genuinely struggled with feelings for him while in her relationship with Joe, as described in songs like Guilty as Sin etc. And even some songs on Midnights are quite suspicious, which they were writing together during that period when she wrote Midnights…) I also feel that none of the songs about Joe are remotely angry. The most anger we get from her toward him is in So Long London, when she says “and I’m pissed off you let me give you all that youth for free.” The rest of her songs about the breakup with Joe really seem to be from a place sadness but acceptance.

    • @crawfish70510
      @crawfish70510 12 днів тому +3

      Matty

    • @user-yn1xs8qw6z
      @user-yn1xs8qw6z 9 днів тому

      Matty

    • @mariakarlsson240
      @mariakarlsson240 9 днів тому

      Yeah, here are my two cents on the matter: I believe the sad but accepting songs are about breaking up with Joe because it was probably a long time coming, and she had accepted that it had to end. The angry, heartbroken songs are probably about Matty because the end of that relationship was a shock to her. Also, the songs about longing and wanting out of a relationship, on this album as well as previous ones, are probably about Matty, too.

    • @ningyding
      @ningyding 7 днів тому

      100% Matty

  • @leeannpatrick9895
    @leeannpatrick9895 13 днів тому

    Geeez just listen to the song

    • @dancashio
      @dancashio  13 днів тому +5

      the point was breaking down the lyrics, i’ve already listened to the song. thanks for the input though 💜

    • @xoxolovechristielynn
      @xoxolovechristielynn 12 днів тому +4

      If you want to “just listen to the song”, go do that yourself. This is a song BREAKDOWN, not a reaction. He already knows the song and is discussing the lyrics in depth. “Geeez”…

    • @lubalethudube186
      @lubalethudube186 11 днів тому +2

      It says breakdown

    • @sophh1585
      @sophh1585 11 днів тому

      Unnecessary comment

    • @leeannpatrick9895
      @leeannpatrick9895 День тому

      @@sophh1585 cool story

  • @DenaDenaDena73
    @DenaDenaDena73 8 днів тому

    Dan! I had know idea you had a UA-cam! TT legend that you are! Loml. Devastating.
    🫶