MARCH 2 - THE DAY THAT CHANGED MY LIFE FOREVER

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  • Опубліковано 6 лип 2024
  • March 2, 2021 used to haunt me, but I took my power back. I used to be so depressed because of no contact, being homeless, and having flashbacks. I felt like I had nothing good to offer the world, but some part of my mind kept telling myself that I had to prove them wrong. I'm grateful for my childhood and my past despite how hard it was because it forced me to create the life I have today. On the 3 year anniversary, March 2, 2024, I felt so much gratitude in my heart. Words can't even describe the gratitude I feel for the life I have today. My heart was broken for so long, but I healed my own heart with time.
    I've realized within the past year that sharing my story is helpful for other people who are still fighting and struggling. I don't need any pity or sympathy when I share my story because everything made me who I am today. I wouldn't change my past because it brought me just where I needed to be. I'm grateful that I'm able to use my voice and my life experiences to be able to help other people. That's pretty much all I want in life with my social media career. I just want to be able to touch other people's hearts and let them know they will be okay. Because for the longest time I thought I wasn't going to be okay. I thought it would be easier if I disappeared from face of the earth. I know many other people feel that way struggling with the battle in their mind. But I'm here to say that you deserve to be here. You deserve good things, and you are capable of living a healthier life despite your background. I hope you choose healing because breaking the cycle is so important. Thank you for listening and being on this journey with me. :)
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 34

  • @advicewkadie
    @advicewkadie 4 місяці тому +20

    I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m so glad your leaving that in the past and living a better life. I love your videos and your a star. Keep going!⭐️🤍🫶🏻

  • @mysterioushoodie8210
    @mysterioushoodie8210 3 місяці тому +16

    Baby girl, it's absolutely okay to cry. You're one of the most beautiful people I know, inside and out. You are so incredibly tough and I know you'll be okay. 💞
    You're helping so many people including me by being vocal and sharing your story. It makes me feel like I'm not alone and I hope one day, I can build a wonderful support system like you and thrive. 💚💚

  • @darling_multistan
    @darling_multistan 4 місяці тому +21

    I’m so glad you trust us with your personal stories such as this. God bless you, you’re awesome 💞

  • @opheliadays5803
    @opheliadays5803 2 місяці тому +7

    I’m really moved by your channel and a bit taken back by how much I relate so much…harmonizing with the fan and grieving people who are alive …like wow.
    My grandfather passed away March 4th 2024. I moved from Oregon to Gary Indiana to care for him back in September as no one was willing to do it. After caregiving for my grandfather on my dad’s side he passed and I was locked out of his house by my aunts with my things inside. Forced to move in with my father who then lost his temper and threatened my safety and yea…I’ve been in my car since. As of yesterday I got approved for an apartment and I found your channel. Im still baffled by how validated I feel by everything you’re saying. It’s almost uncanny how similar our stories are. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Narkadya
    @Narkadya 4 місяці тому +9

    I'm sorry that you had to go through that 😢 I think you should be really proud of what you achieved and the life that you have now is all because of your efforts, you are so strong and brave❤ I felt everything you said I come from an abusive household, also the older child trying to protect my siblings still. And I can say for all the people out there with similar issues that life gets better and some day you will be happy finally, all be worth it just don't give up

  • @heylol1149
    @heylol1149 4 місяці тому +5

    Thank you so much for this, I’m currently going through something similar (turning 18 and trying to navigate the moving out process from an abusive household)

  • @ur.gurl_becks
    @ur.gurl_becks 4 місяці тому +6

    This is so inspiring, tysm for sharing ur story, it’s great to know that ppl like us are not alone and that there is always something better. I am currently in a difficult living situation and as much as I want to leave I can’t bear the thought of my little sister being left. I’m 16 almost 17 but at 18 or 19 I hope to leave and start over. My friends have been there for me since I told them about everything going on at home and I’m so grateful, especially for one friend who I actually called today when things got tough and her and her mum have picked me up and taken me out for coffee when I’ve felt really down and I’m never going to forget that. I think it’s really important that people know that even in the hardest times, God’s got u and He has a plan, I’m just trusting in him because even whilst so much is going wrong at home, there’s so much good that is happening elsewhere and is to come. Love u all and God bless. And Melissa, keep going ur doing amazingly ❤

  • @alanapookie123
    @alanapookie123 4 місяці тому +6

    I’m so sorry your such a strong person keep going you inspire me alot

  • @aaronhaymans3520
    @aaronhaymans3520 4 місяці тому +5

    Love your videos

  • @dolphinsandsunsets
    @dolphinsandsunsets 3 місяці тому +2

    What a beautiful story of survival and strength ❤🎉

  • @Willow_the_therian3
    @Willow_the_therian3 4 місяці тому +5

    Love your channel❤️

  • @fin8612
    @fin8612 3 місяці тому +2

    It’s so amazing that you feel safe to trust us with this. Keep going, you are doing incredible ❤️❤️❤️

  • @oliverb6513
    @oliverb6513 3 місяці тому

    Wow, thanks for your sharing story. I feel with you and send you power and strength from Germany! May only the best people join your life. You are so strong! I have overcome a childhood that was full of depression and am now a successful entrepreneur at 30, but still so much influenced by my experiences.

  • @naturenature7078
    @naturenature7078 4 місяці тому +17

    You helped me find Jesus in a new light I couldn't see before. You are amazing for teens who are going through tough times. I hope you see this comment! 😇

  • @marialladin3633
    @marialladin3633 Місяць тому +2

    March 2nd is my birthday omg… had to click on the video after reading the title

  • @NeilGonzalez-cl3jh
    @NeilGonzalez-cl3jh 2 місяці тому +1

    God bless you and keep you safe, kind soul.

  • @aaronhaymans3520
    @aaronhaymans3520 4 місяці тому +4

    Hi love your videos

  • @Najat-pp2jq
    @Najat-pp2jq Місяць тому +2

    I didn’t live with my farther from 6-11 years old, he is sweet, one day my mom was working so I had to call him to take me to the parents evening.
    I was walking down the hall and showing my him my classrooms, I tool out my phone he saw it
    (It was a hand me down phone and it was an iPone se 2021)
    He told me ‘Do you want me to change that’ I thought he meant the phone case🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
    I was a little shocked for a sec then I took my chances I said yes he said do you want a big phone like [Brother] I said “nah its too big for my hand”(iPhone 14 pro max)
    I forgot about that, then one day it was on the 10th of April 2024 it was the 1st of Ramadan and he gave me an iPhone 13 snd it was a smaller phone than my brothers and better than my old SE.
    I love him.

  • @Miss_Rae
    @Miss_Rae 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey, I’m glad you’re here.
    I’m from the Philippines living in nyc. Studying for my nclex rn. Came accross your video .
    Stay strong! 💪

  • @milenao4455
    @milenao4455 3 місяці тому

    So hard to imagine that someone could ever be agressive towards you. I’m sorry to hear that.
    It’s not your fault!
    Stay strong ! Sending you some positive energy!

  • @Live4God413
    @Live4God413 4 місяці тому +3

    Hi I love you and your videos

  • @Miryeets_percyjackson_lover
    @Miryeets_percyjackson_lover 3 місяці тому +3

    I love you sm Mellissa

  • @My_fav.person
    @My_fav.person 2 місяці тому

    I’m so sorry this happened to you I’m glad you’re here today and that you feel safe sharing this story with Us ❤

  • @RixA2128
    @RixA2128 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Melissa, ang ganda mo po. I read your story in your YT shorts. I hope your doing okay. Looking forward woth your Philippines trip coz there's more fun here talaga. Good luck ❤

  • @jiangchengseyeroll4485
    @jiangchengseyeroll4485 3 місяці тому

    You remind me of my older sister, we had different childhood, I have gone through a hard time too but it's nothing compared with what she has gone through

  • @snehlatajaiswal9304
    @snehlatajaiswal9304 3 місяці тому +4

    IT'S MY BIRTHDAY ON 2ND MARCH

  • @user-zq3gf4pf8l
    @user-zq3gf4pf8l Місяць тому +1

    When I was 8 I won a national art award. None of my family showed up but the Teacher who encouraged me to draw stood by my side. As an adult I learned and always remind myself we are never alone when God is always by our side. ❤

  • @13sahasra
    @13sahasra 4 місяці тому +4

    Stop that’s my birthday that makes me so sad

  • @Anything13404
    @Anything13404 3 місяці тому

    Wow

  • @TheTransLevi
    @TheTransLevi Місяць тому +1

    March 2..
    My birthday?....

  • @kvpham
    @kvpham 2 місяці тому

    money back guaranteed when she have kids and see how annoying they are she will hit them too

  • @alain2467
    @alain2467 2 місяці тому

    White boyfriend

    • @Melissallgall
      @Melissallgall  2 місяці тому +1

      Lmao he’s actually half Chilean 🇨🇱