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The pits and seeds of peaches, apricots, cherries, plums, and nectarines contain cyanide compounds. Dry them, ground then, put them in food or drink, and serve a dessert containing whichever you used, and you can easily kill someone in a way that can have reasonable doubt as to intention. Swallowing a few whole cherry pits won’t kill you, but could give you an upset tummy. The leaves of rhubarb are also deadly, though it usually takes several pounds to kill an adult. Make a salad with rhubarb leaves and you can easily kill a kid, and at least sicken an adult. The leaves and stalks are bitter when raw, but some people enjoy bitterness in salads to offset sweet dressings. Point of this comment? There are a LOT of things we all have easy access to, FOOD items, that can kill. In fact, truly accidental poisoning deaths have occurred from people eating these things without realizing the danger.
Hi Kendall, can you make a video about Levi Davis? He's a rugby player and an X Factor contestant from the UK who mysteriously disappeared half a year ago. Shortly before his disappearance, he posted a video saying his life was in danger and that he'd been abused and blackmailed by someone in the music industry. Everything about this case is so weird and there's very little media coverage.🙏
@@traceyvincent5843 I'm not even from the UK but I saw a tweet about it a while ago. From time to time I check to see if there are any updates but still nothing. The fact that he disappeared in Barcelona and not UK doesn't make it much easier.
I still will never comprehend why all these people who kill their spouses don’t just DIVORCE them? It’s probably because they think they’ll get away with it. But then all cry in court!
also, some people don't want autopsies. my grandpa was very old fashioned and he did not want his body cut up after he passed, fortunately we knew what he passed from (cancer) so there wasn't really a need for one. I don't know if I'd want one either, tbh, unless my death seemed suspicious.
When my grandmother died of cancer, they did an autopsy...I can't understand why they can't just automatically perform an autopsy with every body just in case.
I imagine she just did it at random and not because of her knowledge of drugs as a nurse. Her knowledge in pharmacology is overshadowed compared to doctors and pharmacists. And even doctors don’t receive much training on medications and drugs outside of their specialty.
@@chocolatte7736 I finished my pharmacology class for my nursing degree last quarter and we were definitely tested on Tetryzoline. She probably did do research on it for this case but just throwing it out there that it’s a known drug by nurses
In high school I overheard some kids talking about how they were going to put eye drops in the teacher's (approximately age 70) coffee. I went home and looked it up (before the smart phone days) and learned what would happen if they did. I reported them to the office and they got expelled. The teacher sincerely thanked me. It's scary to think what would have happened if they did it. A lot worse fate than expulsion, that's for sure.
Another true crime channel reported a more recent poisoning of a teacher, they were putting eyedrops in her coffee, I can’t remember which channel, she said a little something to the media about it, 🙏🏻,,good on you for telling, truly may have saved her life👍🏻👍🏻✌🏻💕
Being a survivor of childhood sexual and physical abuse. I'm honestly getting tired of these people using it as an excuse to do bad things. I could never hurt someone BECAUSE OF THE ABUSE I WENT THROUGH. BECAUSE I KNOW HOW BAD IT HURTS AND IM NOT CAPABLE OF DOING THAT TO SOMEONE ELSE.
I think as child SA survivors we have to remember we turned out surprisingly well if we feel this way, all my siblings and I were assaulted and I would never hurt someone the same way but one of my brothers had the opposite mind set he wanted everyone to hurt how he does, he got the therapy and help he needed tho and doesn't anymore so I kinda understand both mindsets. I don't understand how the people around them don't notice how messed up these people are tho
I think I hide my issues really well for the most part, people called me bubbles and smiley. There was a lot of times I smiled just because I didn't want people to see my pain and think I was weird. I felt ashamed by what my uncle did to me, I didn't realize till I was in my 20s that it wasn't my fault. I blamed my self for years and I finally got into group therapy and counseling. I think when you are abused your made to feel like it isn't okay to express your feelings, by your abusers. So you get good at hiding the issues, it's survival. They will harm you if others find out what they are doing, it would just be worse (at least in your mind that's how it feels) you become compliant. Then as an adult your so use to hiding, that people can't see right away how messed up you are. I needed a lot of help, I was triggered so very easily, very untrusting, assumed the worst in the world all the time. It was like my brain was trained to look for negative things, to protect myself from them. My biggest issue was my insecure attachment style, I wanted to be close, but I pushed everyone away at the same time. For anyone out there saying I'm fine I don't need the help, I thought that too. After that kind of trauma a therapist can help you learn to retrain your brain. Which you do need,so your not just reacting to all the triggers from trauma. I'm finally happy and that's thanks to a good therapist, being honest with my self and telling my self yeah you have these issues; but you learned them. You can also unlearn them and it doesn't make you less of a person or a bad person. It's all you knew and how you survived. Its a hard frame of mind to leave when all you know is pain and mentally trying to protect your self. Then getting thrown out into the world and unsure of what or how to react around people with a non traumatic up bringing. I'm proud of anyone that gets help and recognizes they need it. I needed it and I'm not ashamed to say that now, not getting the help is what would have made me a bad person and mother. Because we all have a choice to make and we can't stay stuck in our trauma for life, even though it is very hard to leave it. I'm praying for all others out there fighting the battle, there is peace and you can find it. Ps please don't try to take your life, I tried when I was 19 because I didn't see an end in sight, it's there and I promise you ending your life just because of a bad start, it isn't the answer. Your not alone, my cousin and uncle God rest their souls choice the path that I tired and I miss them daily. I know they could have had a full and rewarding life, you just have to cut off all the toxic people in your life. Even your own parents and seek help, you got this everyone, don't add to the pain of those that love you bye taken your self out of what CAN BE A REWARDING LIFE. I'm s mom of four now and I could not imagine never knowing my kids, I'm so thankful my friends dad found me and took me to the hospital. Yo this day I will always be grateful, each time I look into my babies eyes. Stay strong
Thisss! What happened to me as a child makes me want to protect others not turn me into a evil creature I cannot understand it At all but everyone’s different
I worked for optometrists for 5 years and they would always get people off of visine because it makes red eyes worse. The more you use them the worse the condition gets because of the restricted veins in the eyes, it will come back making you use more and more. They would always recommend artificial tears and caution to stay away from anything advertised for red eyes.
When I had laser surgery they told me to not use visine as moisturizing drops because was too abrasive. They suggested the ones that are like gel and those are the ones I still use.
When I first started wearing contacts I was using Visine all the time, I needed a different brand of contacts, and my doctor told me to NEVER use Visine.
I’m an Advanced EMT in SC and currently in paramedic school. Fun fact - I actually went to a lecture for school a few weeks ago that was lead by the corner on this case. She went over it, along with other things, and it was really fascinating. Sabrina is awesome!
I think after she became a parent she is choosing to do cases that are not as violent and as gory, as awful as poisoning is, it's not as violent as some other cases. My guess
I just saw a story about a children’s book author, Kouri Richards, being charged for her husband’s murder by poisoning him. Same motive of money seems to be involved, but apparently she wrote a book to her kids about coping with their father’s death. That’s screwed up.
Visine can also cause black outs and incapacitation. It’s an alternative to roofies that predators use. I learned this first hand in college so never leave your drinks unattended either.
when you report a rape/attempted rape like that you undergo a blood test? man yall will do anything to say someone is making something up about their rape. we get it, it happens sometimes, stop taking it out on every victim you meet.@@ItsMaricruz
This blew my mind - I have Visine bottles everywhere and young nieces and nephews! I had no idea whatsoever of the poison component. As awful as this story is, sincerely thank you for sharing it. I will store this stuff so much more carefully because of it.
I’ll never forget when I was in high school my mom told me that back in the day, people were using visine as the date rape drug. Because a drop can mess someone up so bad. This is so sad this happened to him
Nurses and teachers are the unsung heroes! From someone who has had children, surgeries, and battled drug addiction I can easily tell you I have encountered hundreds of nurses in my life, and they are truly the ones to offer the most comfort and care. I am in no way shape or form shitting on doctors, but nurses truly are the ones who gave 110% of the time.
@@KatrinaJoy225 I am so grateful for all the nurses that have been there to help me when I’ve needed them and I’m so glad that nurses are finally getting some recognition for all of their effort and dedication! I wanted to be a nurse, but unfortunately, but blood is too much for me to handle. I honestly don’t know how nurses do it and hopefully they start getting the economic recognition they deserve!!
Vertigo is awful. Imagine losing all sense of your position in space as everything spins around you even when you close your eyes… My mother had it for a few years on and off and man, I’m so glad she got it fixed.
My little cousin got poisoned (she took herself) with eye drops - I think almost a half bottle. She was around 18 months at the time. It was horrible. She almost died. Thank God she’s fine. She’s 11 y old now.
I'm a doctor and just to make sure I'm not stupid I just asked my colleagues around me, no one had a specific idea about this chemical. The depths of human ingenuity when planning evil.
Would you be able to cover a case that’s happening in my home town right now?? 23yo man is missing with foul play expected. There’s a history of murder in his family that may or may not be related to him gone. His name is Dakota Patton in Labette County KS. I think his case really needs to be out there and known..
I can not believe she only got 25 years for pre-mediated murder. What a horrific person. She should be in there for life. That sentence is not justice.
Cases like these make me more patient about being in a relationship. So often people are in relationships with people who don't care about them AT ALL and have not cared for yeeeears.
In my country a death certificate is not issued unless a medical doctor signs off on cause of death. If the person does not die at the hospital , and the doctor is not an attending family doctor and knows the medical history of the person, the doctor usually would not sign off on the death certificate. It then becomes a police case, and the police are called in and their standard procedure is for an autopsy to be done to rule out foul play. The family at that point has no choice to deny an autopsy.
A good friend of mine was murdered like this. He was robbed by friends, they thought the eye drops would just put him to sleep but he never woke up. Smh
Thank you for covering this case, Kendall and it is terrifying that something seemingly so harmless like eye drops could kill someone. It makes me think, even if you only use them in the right dose in your eyes, the chemicals are still going to get into your blood stream just as they would if you ingested them through your mouth, which means they could still cause harm, even if they are hardly noticeable symptoms.
Some people here are critical of Steven because he was married multiple times. We dont know the story, so dont be so quick to judge. Liz Taylor was married many times, she was never accused of abuse nor did she say any of her husbands were abusive. You better believe Lana's defense attorney contacted his exes to back up his client's accusations. There was obviously nothing or they would have used it. Also, no DV victim slowly poisons their spouse to death! Thats a Black Widow and they are no victims. Some people are just implusive when it comes to love and marriage. Add in material wealth and theres the added possibility he married a few golddiggers. Would explain why his family was so involved in his estate.
I have actually done that running outside screaming for help... my baby caught covid and had a seizure, and I ran out into the road, holding him screaming for help. I thought he was dying 😢I am still traumatized from it.
@@cherrybombrose3532…perhaps, but I’ve had several opportunities to prove it myself. Lots of my co-workers will testify to the fact that it has been that way for them as well. That’s why I’m so thankful for my training, but I was trained at an excellent college, and it made all the difference.
@@denisebenedict6102very true, but there’s a reason hospitals don’t let medical staff take care of their family/friends in medical emergencies. All of that knowledge is replaced with emotional responses, which is completely normal. This nurse is just a bad person though 😞
I've worked in multiple eye offices and have always been told by the eye doctors to tell patients to NEVER use Visine or any eye drop that provides redness relief. It gets rid of the red but in a not healthy way for your eyes. If your eye doctor recommends using them, go to a different eye doctor 😂 I had no clue ingesting them could be so bad for you too!
@@miryana79 you're welcome! 😂 It won't poison you, it's just not good for your eyes. Especially if used consistently and used a lot. I had one eye doctor compare it to putting fiberglass in your eyes 😬
I worked in hospitals so I am a bit older than you,sorry but I find the comments section very silly and I get lots of backlash. Not all comments have to be positive Any eye drops are toxic so is vaping cigarettes
I have noticed a common theme about people who date a lot or get married multiple times. They tend to meet the same fate. Its almost like someone dates/marries too many people until they meet a psychopath.
I just checked all my eye drops and contact lens solutions for this ingredient!!! Wow after the news we received this past week nothing surprises me anymore. I have trust issues and this definitely makes me more aware (I don’t ever eat or drink at someone’s house for this reason unless I know and absolutely trust them). So so sad!!!! Thank you for sharing!!! I’ll be praying for his family and friends and anyone else who’s life he impacted… he sounded like a great person.
I remember an episode of CSI from when I was a kid where someone was poisoned with eye drops and it always stuck with me.. Ps- Kendall, your hair looks really pretty
It Just so happens to be National Nurse’s week and here goes little miss killer nurse using Visine to get rid of her husband. How could she believe she’d actually get away with it is mind boggling.
Hey Kendall, just wanted to drop in because I absolutely love all your content and totally admire the work you do for families who need it. I’ve been a subscriber for probably about a decade now and I never miss an upload. Your videos in particular got me through a very rough patch for a while and I can’t say how much I appreciate that … but I really have to say, I hate the intro trailers on the new videos here and across Mile Higher 😰 In my opinion they interrupt the flow of the video, cause confusion and does a bit of a disservice to the video in general. I hope my criticism isn’t taken harshly, I truly stand behind your message and only wish to help with some feedback ❤
THANK YOU for not doing the intesne background music all the way through 😅 i was stressing for a minute i wouldnt be able to watch all the way if it.didnt stop after the intro 🤣 ❤
hi fellow ophthalmic technician here.. we recommend that no one uses visine or anything that says “get the red out” due to the drops constricting the blood vessels. this can cause a lack of oxygen to the eye(s) and cause other more serious problems if used all the time.
i love how kendall really reads her comments and interacts with them, further more taking requests and even helping families bring awareness to their missing family members or even share the stories of their lost loved ones. shes incredible. kendall if ur reading this i love u and ur videos!
I am in no way defending Lana when i say this she had no right to do this to him but the fact that he had so many ex wives does get me thinking if he really was abusive behind the scenes and no one knew. Listen I have no evidence behind this claim because investigators said they couldn’t back up her claims of abuse however I would be interested to hear from the previous spouses
been watching you for years kendall, and your video quality and content has always done nothing but improve! i appreciate your dedication to your channel and to us, even as a mom and wife! loved the video, super captivating. ty for always keeping us informed!!!
In that movie 'wedding crashers' they give it to a guy as basically a mean prank. I always thought that was a really dumb and irresponsible thing for them to put in a movie like that because it makes it look less harmful than it really is when it is something that can actually be deadly.
Please viewers do keep in mind, the warning about harmful chemicals that Kendall mentions is if they are improperly used! Please do not use this as a reason to panic and never use anything ever again. When used properly it's safe.
Honestly, it's horrifying that there are so many cases where common household items can be used to kill people. It's terrible and it's even more terrible that people would use or even think of using those items to kill others... 💔
don't love the dramatic music or mini trailer at the beginning but I like that you're experimenting, thanks for the awesome video! my favourite layout FYI was green background, big sofa, cool aesthetic items in the back and your pets (as you've probably heard million times before ) - cant control them though so no worries haha
I never realised that an autopsy wasn’t compulsory in the states, in UK even if it’s a obvious injury one is still conducted just incase there are anything else. It’s so bloody more difficult to get anything under the radar here. That’s so sad, cold and calculating. Poor man god bless and hope he RIP, hope she gets what goes around comes around!
It should be here in the states as well. I feel like autopsies should be done on everybody. For a few reasons one it will help with progressing medicine in Care and secondly, I think there’s too many deaths that goes assumed it Hass to do with a natural cause
I would of never guessed eye drops were that deadly....I have a 2 kids under 3 and never though to keep the drops up high....I had a bottle in reach of them all day. Thank you for this story so I can keep my Littles safe.
Idk maybe he just attracts crazy women and that’s y he’s been divorced a lot, I know a lot of good people who seem to always attract very unstable people. Just my thoughts.
That was my thought also. There's no way in hell I'd be someone's 3rd spouse, much less 8th. I do think however, she married him to kill him because was rich.
Love your content, Kendall. But I gotta be honest... not a fan of this new intro style. The "sneak peek" feels kinda sensationalist, and the reason you're pretty much the only true crime UA-camr I watch at all is because unlike a lot of them, you don't sensationalize and overdramatize things. The little intro music over your logo and getting right into it just feels more... homey, cozy, and genuine. Of course, I hate to bring up something so small and unrelated to the actual story. Just a thought. Maybe people will disagree with me.
I don’t want to speak ill of the dead, but there was no hard evidence that my funny, charming husband was also extremely abusive. There’s never an excuse for torturing and poisoning but it seems possible that their relationship wasn’t what it seemed like to outsiders.
I agree w this & came looking for this comment. She could be crazy money hungry woman but nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors & it’s certainly possible he was abusive.
it feels also really off that he was on his 7th or 8th marriage… i don’t think i’ve ever heard of a person being married so many times, even the wildest or most unhinged of celebrities… it is super unusual, as most people are surprised to hear someone has been divorced 3 times or even 2… why so many times? i feel like that couldn’t be the fault of the women he divorced as he is the common denominator all 7 or 8 times… of course so horrible what happened to him and what she did is inexcusable but this number of divorces seems like quite a red flag in my opinion…
20 years ago I worked as a server. I would hear other servers bragging about putting Visine in rude customers coffee to give them diarrhea. Not just one either, I heard it throughout the restaurant industry. I don’t know if this does that, because I never personally have ever been that malicious, but this is scary. I wonder how many people had serious health problems due to wait staff doing this in the early 90s.
That's so sad. He didn't have to die like that. But i also find it very weird that he had 7 marriages prior to her? Why couldn't he sustain any of these marriages. Something's fishy
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It's incomprehensible. What goes through their mind and how they justify their horrible actions. It must be terrifying. Criminal psychology is so fascinating to me
This story reminds me of a physco bartender we had in the next town over, who was putting Visene eye drops in peoples drinks if she didn’t like you or you didn’t tip well. She thought it was funny that ppl would 💩 on themselves. A very sick individual that should have never been around food or beverages. Depravity of people really does amaze me and the levels people will stoop to, especially when money is involved
I just love the new Introduction and Beautiful Back Drop, Amazing.. This case is just so sad what a generous and kind man’s life taken too soon, what an Angel RIP Steven
Thank u Kendall for posting this! I didn't know either. 😱 I am soooooo happy this man had smart relatives and fought back to get him justice. Tired of sick and evil people thinking they gonna get away w murder. Hahaha lady.
kendall can you add the bass back at the end of your outro i love everything the visuals just sound wise if that makes sense i used to love listening to it growing up 😭😭😂😂😂❤️
I remember watching CSI in the early 2000s and one episode was about eye drops and how someone used them to poison someone through their food which ultimately took their life. I remember thinking "I'm in 6th grade, I shouldn't have access to this information." I convinced myself that it was fake because it was for TV and there's no way they would just tell their viewers how easy it is to poison someone...I thought about that episode on and off for years so when this story came out I was HORRIFIED. I couldn't believe it was real.
Cant believe im here just an hour after loading. Im usually late to the party. I have been catching up on your videos from 5 yrs ago. Haha. Thank you Kendall Rae 💓
Can't they make these drops without the toxic stuff. I'm sure it should be labelled as toxic at least. I know alot of people who smoke weed use eye drops for red eyes but surely there are better non toxic ones on the market?
it doesn’t surprise me how poisonous visine is, idk if it’s just me but that thing BURNS whenever it use it, it’s so horrible. and as someone with dry eyes who also uses contact lenses, it’s the only eye drop that has had that effect on me.
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Is this only if you buy the subscribe and save? It looks like a regular order doesn’t get the discount and there really is no “special discount” with your code… you just get $ for me using the link. 🤔
How do people who watch those stories still get merried?
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I love earth breeze! It's "eeee-ko" sheets though, as in ecologically sound, not "echo"
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It’s crazy how something so widely accessible can be so deadly and so easily slipped into your drink/food
The pits and seeds of peaches, apricots, cherries, plums, and nectarines contain cyanide compounds. Dry them, ground then, put them in food or drink, and serve a dessert containing whichever you used, and you can easily kill someone in a way that can have reasonable doubt as to intention. Swallowing a few whole cherry pits won’t kill you, but could give you an upset tummy.
The leaves of rhubarb are also deadly, though it usually takes several pounds to kill an adult. Make a salad with rhubarb leaves and you can easily kill a kid, and at least sicken an adult. The leaves and stalks are bitter when raw, but some people enjoy bitterness in salads to offset sweet dressings.
Point of this comment? There are a LOT of things we all have easy access to, FOOD items, that can kill. In fact, truly accidental poisoning deaths have occurred from people eating these things without realizing the danger.
Like nutmeg
@@nobody-nz3vv wait nutmeg is deadly????
@@everestoshiro3185it can be in large doses! though i'm not 100% on what amount, i think thats why most recipes ask for less than 1 tbsp
I’m sure nutmeg in a lethal dose would be inedible though 😅
Hi Kendall, can you make a video about Levi Davis? He's a rugby player and an X Factor contestant from the UK who mysteriously disappeared half a year ago. Shortly before his disappearance, he posted a video saying his life was in danger and that he'd been abused and blackmailed by someone in the music industry. Everything about this case is so weird and there's very little media coverage.🙏
I haven't heard anything about that, I'm UK too. I hope Kendall can cover it at some point.
Commenting to boost. Hopefully Kendall sees your comment and covers the case. 🙏
@@traceyvincent5843 I'm not even from the UK but I saw a tweet about it a while ago. From time to time I check to see if there are any updates but still nothing. The fact that he disappeared in Barcelona and not UK doesn't make it much easier.
Wow is there any information we can search up in the mean time ?? This is so intriguing I hope his case gets more coverage
She’s got a request form in the info,
To have him suffering for days until he dies while she watches is NOT manslaughter. If that’s not premeditated, I don’t know what is.
I was thinking the same thing... I don't get it.
Evil to watch him suffer, and greed to want everything.
Yea I don’t know how she got manslaughter
I still will never comprehend why all these people who kill their spouses don’t just DIVORCE them? It’s probably because they think they’ll get away with it. But then all cry in court!
Because she wanted ALL of the money and property. I believe she married him with the intention of murdering him.
Money from life insurance.
Greed. Half his assets were not enough for her apparently, she wanted all
Money.
Still got caught tho! These people actually think in this day and age they can get a way with this type of crime, wow
In my opinion a autopsy should be mandatory no matter what! In cases like this she could have easily gotten away with everything how horrible 😢
It’s not feasible to do an autopsy on every death. It’s too costly and too many cases, there would be such an extreme back log.
also, some people don't want autopsies. my grandpa was very old fashioned and he did not want his body cut up after he passed, fortunately we knew what he passed from (cancer) so there wasn't really a need for one. I don't know if I'd want one either, tbh, unless my death seemed suspicious.
When my grandmother died of cancer, they did an autopsy...I can't understand why they can't just automatically perform an autopsy with every body just in case.
Some religions forbid an autopsy
@@emcards9919 My dad died of cancer as well.. no reason for an autopsy, he was at-home but in hospice care.
She’s a nurse. You can’t tell me she didn’t know what she was doing! Definitely going to be keeping dangerous products away from my kids
I imagine she just did it at random and not because of her knowledge of drugs as a nurse. Her knowledge in pharmacology is overshadowed compared to doctors and pharmacists. And even doctors don’t receive much training on medications and drugs outside of their specialty.
@@chocolatte7736 She 100% knew it would cause harm,she even said she wanted to hurt him to revenge
@@chocolatte7736 I finished my pharmacology class for my nursing degree last quarter and we were definitely tested on Tetryzoline. She probably did do research on it for this case but just throwing it out there that it’s a known drug by nurses
@chocolatte7736 I agree with you. Not that many people, even in Healthcare knew about the visited until about 2 years ago. It's a sneaky one.
I worked with her at the Va in western NC.
In high school I overheard some kids talking about how they were going to put eye drops in the teacher's (approximately age 70) coffee. I went home and looked it up (before the smart phone days) and learned what would happen if they did. I reported them to the office and they got expelled. The teacher sincerely thanked me. It's scary to think what would have happened if they did it. A lot worse fate than expulsion, that's for sure.
oh my goodness.......good for you!!!!
For doing the right thing 👊💯
Damn. Those kids should look you up and thank you for saving their lives as well.
Damn good thing you said something!!! That’s so scary
Another true crime channel reported a more recent poisoning of a teacher, they were putting eyedrops in her coffee, I can’t remember which channel, she said a little something to the media about it, 🙏🏻,,good on you for telling, truly may have saved her life👍🏻👍🏻✌🏻💕
Being a survivor of childhood sexual and physical abuse. I'm honestly getting tired of these people using it as an excuse to do bad things. I could never hurt someone BECAUSE OF THE ABUSE I WENT THROUGH. BECAUSE I KNOW HOW BAD IT HURTS AND IM NOT CAPABLE OF DOING THAT TO SOMEONE ELSE.
I think as child SA survivors we have to remember we turned out surprisingly well if we feel this way, all my siblings and I were assaulted and I would never hurt someone the same way but one of my brothers had the opposite mind set he wanted everyone to hurt how he does, he got the therapy and help he needed tho and doesn't anymore so I kinda understand both mindsets. I don't understand how the people around them don't notice how messed up these people are tho
Same here, my dad was sexuality and mentally abused me for years, but I am still a lovable person. I will never hurt someone.
I think I hide my issues really well for the most part, people called me bubbles and smiley. There was a lot of times I smiled just because I didn't want people to see my pain and think I was weird. I felt ashamed by what my uncle did to me, I didn't realize till I was in my 20s that it wasn't my fault. I blamed my self for years and I finally got into group therapy and counseling. I think when you are abused your made to feel like it isn't okay to express your feelings, by your abusers. So you get good at hiding the issues, it's survival. They will harm you if others find out what they are doing, it would just be worse (at least in your mind that's how it feels) you become compliant. Then as an adult your so use to hiding, that people can't see right away how messed up you are. I needed a lot of help, I was triggered so very easily, very untrusting, assumed the worst in the world all the time. It was like my brain was trained to look for negative things, to protect myself from them. My biggest issue was my insecure attachment style, I wanted to be close, but I pushed everyone away at the same time. For anyone out there saying I'm fine I don't need the help, I thought that too. After that kind of trauma a therapist can help you learn to retrain your brain. Which you do need,so your not just reacting to all the triggers from trauma. I'm finally happy and that's thanks to a good therapist, being honest with my self and telling my self yeah you have these issues; but you learned them. You can also unlearn them and it doesn't make you less of a person or a bad person. It's all you knew and how you survived. Its a hard frame of mind to leave when all you know is pain and mentally trying to protect your self. Then getting thrown out into the world and unsure of what or how to react around people with a non traumatic up bringing. I'm proud of anyone that gets help and recognizes they need it. I needed it and I'm not ashamed to say that now, not getting the help is what would have made me a bad person and mother. Because we all have a choice to make and we can't stay stuck in our trauma for life, even though it is very hard to leave it. I'm praying for all others out there fighting the battle, there is peace and you can find it. Ps please don't try to take your life, I tried when I was 19 because I didn't see an end in sight, it's there and I promise you ending your life just because of a bad start, it isn't the answer. Your not alone, my cousin and uncle God rest their souls choice the path that I tired and I miss them daily. I know they could have had a full and rewarding life, you just have to cut off all the toxic people in your life. Even your own parents and seek help, you got this everyone, don't add to the pain of those that love you bye taken your self out of what CAN BE A REWARDING LIFE. I'm s mom of four now and I could not imagine never knowing my kids, I'm so thankful my friends dad found me and took me to the hospital. Yo this day I will always be grateful, each time I look into my babies eyes. Stay strong
Tbh if I could I would hurt my abuser tho
Thisss! What happened to me as a child makes me want to protect others not turn me into a evil creature I cannot understand it At all but everyone’s different
I worked for optometrists for 5 years and they would always get people off of visine because it makes red eyes worse. The more you use them the worse the condition gets because of the restricted veins in the eyes, it will come back making you use more and more. They would always recommend artificial tears and caution to stay away from anything advertised for red eyes.
I have an autoimmune condition that's gives me dry eye and I can't use Vision because it burns the hell out of my eyes. I have to use a gel type.
Visine
What about Lumify? My sisters and mom love that stuff 😬
When I had laser surgery they told me to not use visine as moisturizing drops because was too abrasive. They suggested the ones that are like gel and those are the ones I still use.
When I first started wearing contacts I was using Visine all the time, I needed a different brand of contacts, and my doctor told me to NEVER use Visine.
I’m an Advanced EMT in SC and currently in paramedic school. Fun fact - I actually went to a lecture for school a few weeks ago that was lead by the corner on this case. She went over it, along with other things, and it was really fascinating. Sabrina is awesome!
Is it just a coincidence that the last 3 videos have all been about poisoning spouses? 💀
I think after she became a parent she is choosing to do cases that are not as violent and as gory, as awful as poisoning is, it's not as violent as some other cases. My guess
I cackled lol
@@Graveyardsfromthepast she's sharing people stories and bringing awareness to situations like this and she's very good at it.
😂😂😂😂
@@amberpeterson2340you sound like dr. Grande 😂
I just saw a story about a children’s book author, Kouri Richards, being charged for her husband’s murder by poisoning him. Same motive of money seems to be involved, but apparently she wrote a book to her kids about coping with their father’s death. That’s screwed up.
Visine can also cause black outs and incapacitation. It’s an alternative to roofies that predators use. I learned this first hand in college so never leave your drinks unattended either.
How do you know it was visine that was added to your drink instead of other drugs?
She probably got a blood test done , I would if that happened to me
when you report a rape/attempted rape like that you undergo a blood test? man yall will do anything to say someone is making something up about their rape. we get it, it happens sometimes, stop taking it out on every victim you meet.@@ItsMaricruz
My guess is that different symptoms would appear. I'm not really sure though! @@ItsMaricruz
This blew my mind - I have Visine bottles everywhere and young nieces and nephews! I had no idea whatsoever of the poison component. As awful as this story is, sincerely thank you for sharing it. I will store this stuff so much more carefully because of it.
I had no idea how toxic Visine could be. How scary.
I’ll never forget when I was in high school my mom told me that back in the day, people were using visine as the date rape drug. Because a drop can mess someone up so bad. This is so sad this happened to him
Nurses and teachers are the unsung heroes! From someone who has had children, surgeries, and battled drug addiction I can easily tell you I have encountered hundreds of nurses in my life, and they are truly the ones to offer the most comfort and care. I am in no way shape or form shitting on doctors, but nurses truly are the ones who gave 110% of the time.
No l do not agree with you at all..this time.
HELL YES! And it's Nurses Week!! 🥰
@@KatrinaJoy225 I am so grateful for all the nurses that have been there to help me when I’ve needed them and I’m so glad that nurses are finally getting some recognition for all of their effort and dedication! I wanted to be a nurse, but unfortunately, but blood is too much for me to handle. I honestly don’t know how nurses do it and hopefully they start getting the economic recognition they deserve!!
@@susangoodman2598 ?
@SarahBaileyHamlin I'm a nurse and I thank you! I sincerely believe nurses are underpaid and I appreciate you recognizing that! Bless you😘
25 years is not enough. She deserves life in prison.
life for life
Vertigo is awful. Imagine losing all sense of your position in space as everything spins around you even when you close your eyes… My mother had it for a few years on and off and man, I’m so glad she got it fixed.
My little cousin got poisoned (she took herself) with eye drops - I think almost a half bottle. She was around 18 months at the time. It was horrible. She almost died. Thank God she’s fine. She’s 11 y old now.
wow! thank god she is okay
Thank god she didn’t die 😱🩷
I'm a doctor and just to make sure I'm not stupid I just asked my colleagues around me, no one had a specific idea about this chemical. The depths of human ingenuity when planning evil.
Would you be able to cover a case that’s happening in my home town right now?? 23yo man is missing with foul play expected. There’s a history of murder in his family that may or may not be related to him gone. His name is Dakota Patton in Labette County KS. I think his case really needs to be out there and known..
I hope she covers it😢
Submit a request on her bio
Foul play and “fowl play” are two completely different things
@@AmandaLeighS oops lol
@@AmandaLeighS i'm pretty sure we all knew what she meant but you just had to be that person to say that. smh attention seekers
I remember writing a paper about date rape drugs and eyedrops have been used for that as well....crazy.
I can not believe she only got 25 years for pre-mediated murder. What a horrific person. She should be in there for life. That sentence is not justice.
She's an old lady already. Believe me she's gonna suffer make it out or inside. She'll die in there I'm sure.
Cases like these make me more patient about being in a relationship. So often people are in relationships with people who don't care about them AT ALL and have not cared for yeeeears.
In my country a death certificate is not issued unless a medical doctor signs off on cause of death. If the person does not die at the hospital , and the doctor is not an attending family doctor and knows the medical history of the person, the doctor usually would not sign off on the death certificate. It then becomes a police case, and the police are called in and their standard procedure is for an autopsy to be done to rule out foul play. The family at that point has no choice to deny an autopsy.
Yeah well we don't live in your country
A good friend of mine was murdered like this. He was robbed by friends, they thought the eye drops would just put him to sleep but he never woke up. Smh
I've been binging your channel lately. Your voice is so soothing! Thank you for your content! ❤
Thank you for covering this case, Kendall and it is terrifying that something seemingly so harmless like eye drops could kill someone. It makes me think, even if you only use them in the right dose in your eyes, the chemicals are still going to get into your blood stream just as they would if you ingested them through your mouth, which means they could still cause harm, even if they are hardly noticeable symptoms.
Some people here are critical of Steven because he was married multiple times.
We dont know the story, so dont be so quick to judge. Liz Taylor was married many times, she was never accused of abuse nor did she say any of her husbands were abusive.
You better believe Lana's defense attorney contacted his exes to back up his client's accusations. There was obviously nothing or they would have used it. Also, no DV victim slowly poisons their spouse to death! Thats a Black Widow and they are no victims.
Some people are just implusive when it comes to love and marriage. Add in material wealth and theres the added possibility he married a few golddiggers. Would explain why his family was so involved in his estate.
I have heard about this sad story before. The fact that she wanted him to suffer was horrible! How could anyone be so cruel?? 😢
I have actually done that running outside screaming for help... my baby caught covid and had a seizure, and I ran out into the road, holding him screaming for help. I thought he was dying 😢I am still traumatized from it.
I can understand that, but as Nurses, we are TRAINED in proper responses.
@Denise Benedict oh geez, yeah, she was a nurse 🤔
@@denisebenedict6102 being trained doesn’t always matter when it’s someone you know in trouble.
@@cherrybombrose3532…perhaps, but I’ve had several opportunities to prove it myself. Lots of my co-workers will testify to the fact that it has been that way for them as well. That’s why I’m so thankful for my training, but I was trained at an excellent college, and it made all the difference.
@@denisebenedict6102very true, but there’s a reason hospitals don’t let medical staff take care of their family/friends in medical emergencies. All of that knowledge is replaced with emotional responses, which is completely normal. This nurse is just a bad person though 😞
Your fur baby is finally livin' it up in the cat tree! ❤
I know it makes me so happy!
@@KendallRae ❤❤❤
Girl, I LOVE the rebrand, that intro preview was so cool! And these sponsors ROCK! Thank you Kendall you’re killing it ❤️
Thank you for shouting out nurses during nurses week Kendall ❣️
I've worked in multiple eye offices and have always been told by the eye doctors to tell patients to NEVER use Visine or any eye drop that provides redness relief. It gets rid of the red but in a not healthy way for your eyes. If your eye doctor recommends using them, go to a different eye doctor 😂 I had no clue ingesting them could be so bad for you too!
Thanks for scaring us
@@miryana79 you're welcome! 😂 It won't poison you, it's just not good for your eyes. Especially if used consistently and used a lot. I had one eye doctor compare it to putting fiberglass in your eyes 😬
I worked in hospitals so I am a bit older than you,sorry but I find the comments section very silly and I get lots of backlash. Not all comments have to be positive
Any eye drops are toxic so is vaping cigarettes
I have noticed a common theme about people who date a lot or get married multiple times. They tend to meet the same fate. Its almost like someone dates/marries too many people until they meet a psychopath.
I just checked all my eye drops and contact lens solutions for this ingredient!!! Wow after the news we received this past week nothing surprises me anymore. I have trust issues and this definitely makes me more aware (I don’t ever eat or drink at someone’s house for this reason unless I know and absolutely trust them). So so sad!!!! Thank you for sharing!!! I’ll be praying for his family and friends and anyone else who’s life he impacted… he sounded like a great person.
I really loved this video. Sometimes it's better to live with someone until you're sure their intentions are good.
I remember an episode of CSI from when I was a kid where someone was poisoned with eye drops and it always stuck with me..
Ps- Kendall, your hair looks really pretty
It Just so happens to be National Nurse’s week and here goes little miss killer nurse using Visine to get rid of her husband. How could she believe she’d actually get away with it is mind boggling.
Happy birthday
If not for her nephews, she very well could've gotten away with it.
Hey Kendall, just wanted to drop in because I absolutely love all your content and totally admire the work you do for families who need it. I’ve been a subscriber for probably about a decade now and I never miss an upload. Your videos in particular got me through a very rough patch for a while and I can’t say how much I appreciate that … but I really have to say, I hate the intro trailers on the new videos here and across Mile Higher 😰
In my opinion they interrupt the flow of the video, cause confusion and does a bit of a disservice to the video in general. I hope my criticism isn’t taken harshly, I truly stand behind your message and only wish to help with some feedback ❤
THANK YOU for not doing the intesne background music all the way through 😅 i was stressing for a minute i wouldnt be able to watch all the way if it.didnt stop after the intro 🤣 ❤
hi fellow ophthalmic technician here.. we recommend that no one uses visine or anything that says “get the red out” due to the drops constricting the blood vessels. this can cause a lack of oxygen to the eye(s) and cause other more serious problems if used all the time.
Kitty used the tower!! Score!!
i love how kendall really reads her comments and interacts with them, further more taking requests and even helping families bring awareness to their missing family members or even share the stories of their lost loved ones. shes incredible. kendall if ur reading this i love u and ur videos!
I am in no way defending Lana when i say this she had no right to do this to him but the fact that he had so many ex wives does get me thinking if he really was abusive behind the scenes and no one knew. Listen I have no evidence behind this claim because investigators said they couldn’t back up her claims of abuse however I would be interested to hear from the previous spouses
been watching you for years kendall, and your video quality and content has always done nothing but improve! i appreciate your dedication to your channel and to us, even as a mom and wife! loved the video, super captivating. ty for always keeping us informed!!!
This family was just down the road from us and neighbors with my in-laws. Incredibly sad.
So sad! Steven seemed like a wonderful human being. Rest in peace 🙏🏽
is it super glitchy for anyone else?
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In that movie 'wedding crashers' they give it to a guy as basically a mean prank. I always thought that was a really dumb and irresponsible thing for them to put in a movie like that because it makes it look less harmful than it really is when it is something that can actually be deadly.
The cat tree is getting used! Lol yay!
Why only 25 years?!?!? How come no one else is talking about that. He died a HORRIFIC DEATH. My heart goes out to his family. ❤
Please viewers do keep in mind, the warning about harmful chemicals that Kendall mentions is if they are improperly used! Please do not use this as a reason to panic and never use anything ever again. When used properly it's safe.
Honestly, it's horrifying that there are so many cases where common household items can be used to kill people. It's terrible and it's even more terrible that people would use or even think of using those items to kill others... 💔
OMG Kendall I love your back wall and you look SO healthy! I watch all the media you put out. You’re so easy to listen to!
May Steven rest peacefully. My condolences to his family and friends
I'm a nurse and never knew that eye drops were toxic
i’ve been a fan since i think 2019 and love how far your videos have come ! you’re one of my favorite youtubers 🤍🤍
off topic but it was so cute how your cat was making biscuits in the cat tree at the beginning of the video
don't love the dramatic music or mini trailer at the beginning but I like that you're experimenting, thanks for the awesome video! my favourite layout FYI was green background, big sofa, cool aesthetic items in the back and your pets (as you've probably heard million times before ) - cant control them though so no worries haha
I don’t know what it is but the audio of your YT videos are kinda funky sounding to me but the podcasts sound totally fine
I never realised that an autopsy wasn’t compulsory in the states, in UK even if it’s a obvious injury one is still conducted just incase there are anything else. It’s so bloody more difficult to get anything under the radar here. That’s so sad, cold and calculating. Poor man god bless and hope he RIP, hope she gets what goes around comes around!
It should be here in the states as well. I feel like autopsies should be done on everybody. For a few reasons one it will help with progressing medicine in Care and secondly, I think there’s too many deaths that goes assumed it Hass to do with a natural cause
I would of never guessed eye drops were that deadly....I have a 2 kids under 3 and never though to keep the drops up high....I had a bottle in reach of them all day. Thank you for this story so I can keep my Littles safe.
i am learning so much from the crime shows. Antifreeze , eye drops , etc... I am keeping an eye on my girlfriend .
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Last 4 videos have been about husband/wife murders. I'm glad we know josh is a good guy otherwise we might be starting to have some questions lol
i know he’s the victim but im sorry being married 8 times is red flags on red flags
Idk maybe he just attracts crazy women and that’s y he’s been divorced a lot, I know a lot of good people who seem to always attract very unstable people. Just my thoughts.
@@Cewdipie oh of course. it must be the woman’s fault. 1 guy, 8 women. and it’s definitely ALL 8 women were crazy and the guy wasn’t at all.
That was my thought also. There's no way in hell I'd be someone's 3rd spouse, much less 8th. I do think however, she married him to kill him because was rich.
@@pegs1659 oh yeah for sure that’s why she married him. i’m talking about the other 7 lol
@@Cewdipie tbh if you're attracting/are attracted to "crazy women", sorry to say but you might not be the sanest person either
love the new intro / intro design!!!
Love your content, Kendall. But I gotta be honest... not a fan of this new intro style. The "sneak peek" feels kinda sensationalist, and the reason you're pretty much the only true crime UA-camr I watch at all is because unlike a lot of them, you don't sensationalize and overdramatize things.
The little intro music over your logo and getting right into it just feels more... homey, cozy, and genuine.
Of course, I hate to bring up something so small and unrelated to the actual story. Just a thought. Maybe people will disagree with me.
I am so sick of hearing people murder their loved ones for money. MONEY! How money is that important to anyone is INSANE!
I don’t want to speak ill of the dead, but there was no hard evidence that my funny, charming husband was also extremely abusive. There’s never an excuse for torturing and poisoning but it seems possible that their relationship wasn’t what it seemed like to outsiders.
I agree w this & came looking for this comment. She could be crazy money hungry woman but nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors & it’s certainly possible he was abusive.
Did any of his former wives say so?
it feels also really off that he was on his 7th or 8th marriage… i don’t think i’ve ever heard of a person being married so many times, even the wildest or most unhinged of celebrities… it is super unusual, as most people are surprised to hear someone has been divorced 3 times or even 2… why so many times? i feel like that couldn’t be the fault of the women he divorced as he is the common denominator all 7 or 8 times… of course so horrible what happened to him and what she did is inexcusable but this number of divorces seems like quite a red flag in my opinion…
@@elenagonzalez4880 Exactly my thought. It definitely shows one thing, that he wasn't good at relationships.
20 years ago I worked as a server. I would hear other servers bragging about putting Visine in rude customers coffee to give them diarrhea. Not just one either, I heard it throughout the restaurant industry. I don’t know if this does that, because I never personally have ever been that malicious, but this is scary. I wonder how many people had serious health problems due to wait staff doing this in the early 90s.
Wasnt there a netflix series about a bullied teen who sought revenge by poisoning the school soda fountain with drops?
Ohhh myyy GOSH IM OBSESSED WITH you’re new intro !!!!!! 🤩
Thank you!
I only find this significant because my birthday is in August, but SO many crimes happen in this month. I always wonder why.
That's so sad. He didn't have to die like that. But i also find it very weird that he had 7 marriages prior to her? Why couldn't he sustain any of these marriages. Something's fishy
He was rich and not conventionally attractive. Some women are gold diggers
Super laggy ..is that just me?
Nope, it is the same for me!
Loved that new intro! And I also love that you have soft music playing in the background as you narrate these stories.
Another amazing video from Kendall! Also, I’ve tried the Earth Breeze sheets and theyre 100/10! They work way better than regular liquid laundry detergent and I’ve actually found that they make my towels softer! They don’t leave a weird film on my laundry either. I’m never going back to liquid laundry detergent! Love love love Earth Breeze!
So happy to hear that!
i just can’t fathom murdering someone in any way, poison or otherwise. idk how these people do it and what goes on in their mind. wtf
It's incomprehensible. What goes through their mind and how they justify their horrible actions. It must be terrifying. Criminal psychology is so fascinating to me
I don't understand why she got only 25 years for this evil? That's insane!
They let her plea to lesser charges
This story reminds me of a physco bartender we had in the next town over, who was putting Visene eye drops in peoples drinks if she didn’t like you or you didn’t tip well. She thought it was funny that ppl would 💩 on themselves. A very sick individual that should have never been around food or beverages. Depravity of people really does amaze me and the levels people will stoop to, especially when money is involved
I like the way you did the intro! Needed this today thanks Kendall ❤
I just love the new Introduction and Beautiful Back Drop, Amazing.. This case is just so sad what a generous and kind man’s life taken too soon, what an Angel RIP Steven
Thank u Kendall for posting this! I didn't know either. 😱 I am soooooo happy this man had smart relatives and fought back to get him justice. Tired of sick and evil people thinking they gonna get away w murder. Hahaha lady.
I’ve been hearing about eye drops in alcohol since around 1996(I was 16 just starting dating and partying) but always thought it was an urban legend
kendall can you add the bass back at the end of your outro i love everything the visuals just sound wise if that makes sense i used to love listening to it growing up 😭😭😂😂😂❤️
My sisters coworker did this to her a handful years ago. She did get super sick, but didn’t realize it was this serious 😳
this poor man !! it hurts my soul to imagine even for a second what he experienced :((
Hey Kendall! I love you and all of the Mile Higher media crew! ❤️
I remember watching CSI in the early 2000s and one episode was about eye drops and how someone used them to poison someone through their food which ultimately took their life. I remember thinking "I'm in 6th grade, I shouldn't have access to this information." I convinced myself that it was fake because it was for TV and there's no way they would just tell their viewers how easy it is to poison someone...I thought about that episode on and off for years so when this story came out I was HORRIFIED. I couldn't believe it was real.
How on earth was it only manslaughter when she made sure he didn't even have access to his phone? That's so suss.
Cant believe im here just an hour after loading. Im usually late to the party. I have been catching up on your videos from 5 yrs ago. Haha. Thank you Kendall Rae 💓
Kendal is in her poison era
besides the case, which is sad and crazy, the intro, omg it’s amazing I love it!
Can't they make these drops without the toxic stuff. I'm sure it should be labelled as toxic at least. I know alot of people who smoke weed use eye drops for red eyes but surely there are better non toxic ones on the market?
She married him, not for love, but for his wealth, so planned his death and executed it.
it doesn’t surprise me how poisonous visine is, idk if it’s just me but that thing BURNS whenever it use it, it’s so horrible. and as someone with dry eyes who also uses contact lenses, it’s the only eye drop that has had that effect on me.