10 Signs of a Broken Empath
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- 10 Reasons Why Empaths and Narcissists Make a Toxic Relationship
Yet, it's not a partnership of equals because empaths and narcissists make a toxic relationship. Opposites attract, and the pull between an empath and a narcissist can be intense and enduring. When the self-centered life of the party ends up with the selfless healer of the world, one wins all the time while the other person loses everything. You don't want to be caught in this kind of trap.
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00:00 10 Signs of a Broken Empath
00:39 Empaths Lose Enthusiasm in Everything.
01:49 Empaths Experience Sleeping Disorders.
02:39 Empaths Have Eating Disorders.
03:37 Empaths Isolate Themselves From Society.
04:28 Empaths Suffer From Emotional Exhaustion.
05:14 Empaths Become Emotionally Numb.
06:03 Empaths Lose Themselves.
06:41 Empaths No Longer Have Anything To Offer.
07:14 Empaths Develop Some Trust Issues.
08:09 Empaths Become Depressed.
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10 Reasons Why Empaths and Narcissists Make a Toxic Relationship
Yet, it's not a partnership of equals because empaths and narcissists make a toxic relationship. Opposites attract, and the pull between an empath and a narcissist can be intense and enduring. When the self-centered life of the party ends up with the selfless healer of the world, one wins all the time while the other person loses everything. You don't want to be caught in this kind of trap.
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00:00 10 Signs of a Broken Empath
00:39 Empaths Lose Enthusiasm in Everything.
01:49 Empaths Experience Sleeping Disorders.
02:39 Empaths Have Eating Disorders.
03:37 Empaths Isolate Themselves From Society.
04:28 Empaths Suffer From Emotional Exhaustion.
05:14 Empaths Become Emotionally Numb.
06:03 Empaths Lose Themselves.
06:41 Empaths No Longer Have Anything To Offer.
07:14 Empaths Develop Some Trust Issues.
08:09 Empaths Become Depressed.
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woaw, I Am taken aback by this take on Empaths. I Am Empath. I Am far from one of these weak victims U speak of. I Am sure there are a few of us that suffer from depresion. After all, we are playing humans. Depresion and sadness, are not the norm howerver. i Am going to dare to say, the mosy rare empath is the, oh poor poor me. everybody, uses and takes advantage my oh so kind heart poor poor victim me. I Am meaning no offence to anybody. I Am just saying. thank you. Namaste"😊
Wow that's my life story over and over
Also if everyone has turned you away you always have your spirit guides and your higher self
I just think this is a subjective socially constructed concept. The concept is
presented as if a person can instantly feel other people's emotions and that
is not always true. Not everyone who identifies with this socially constructed
concept catches on to the real feelings and emotions of others. What is referred
to as an empath to me is an overly sensitive delusional character who often
misreads the environment they are in and the people they think they can feel.
They go in with preconceived ideas of what they think is going on but fall short
of knowing the real deal. Even those who do read an environment or people
well, how many more times do they get it wrong? Ahahahaha. Empathy is
a socially constructed concept telling someone who feels a certain way
who they are and what they are supposed to do and how they are supposed
to feel. We live in a society that encourages people to stay in bad relationships
and work it out as opposed to leaving at the first sign of trouble and not looking
back which is a more proper response than hanging around and ending up like
the idiots you are talking about in this video. Ahahahahahahaha.
@@chrissyeberhard2778s😂z😅🎉😅😂😂tea😂
Check, check, check and check... no joy, no sleep, no eating, over thinking, over feeling, no feeling, no interest, depression, so tired. But no rest.
😢
Oh please, people who claim to be "Empaths" are nothing but self centered attention seekers who do not know how to regulate their own emotions. They blame others because of this. They can not relate to others the only thing they see is their own emotions. I wouldn't be surprised if they have a Cluster B Personality Disorder.Hah! "I'm an Empath..." if you hear people say that run...
😵💫😵😢 definitely …
Same here, been like this for so long it’s become the norm🙄
@@kericannon5925 with the resulting self-gaslighting it takes longer to choose, discern, decide the correct course of action. I pretty much have minimal contact with people. Too many years dealing with narcissistic ex in-laws and resultant drama upon my wife and me.
"Don't break a bird's wings and then tell it to fly."
"Don't break a heart and then tell it to love."
"Don't break a soul and then tell it to be happy."
"Don't see only the worst in a person and expect them to see the best in you."
"Don't judge people and then expect them to stand by your side."
"Don't play with fire and expect to stay perfectly safe."
Quotes by Najwa Zebian.
Wow
@@sligo34, impressive, huh?
Word to my granfathers....don't think that fat meat ain't greasy
That is so honestly true. I was reflecting a while ago on how people just expect truth while also wanting everyone to believe a lie. That is what society by large actually expects. Believe MY Lie while I ignore the truth.
@@MagicalCreations-fw7pj, wise words, my friend. And thank you!
YES YES & YES.
For almost 50 years, I was a bubbly, loving, open hearted, emotionally available and super kind person. Always gave 100% of my time and energy to those around me and anyone who needed help. I didn’t want people to suffer or ever feel lonely.
Always there for everyone and always giving and giving my energy, heart and soul.
After getting knocked down over and over and over…..by ‘friends’, family and people, something inside me shifted.
Being trampled on, discarded and betrayed by many people I adored, my heart just broke to a point that I am now a very different person.
I didn’t choose to change: it just happened. I am not cruel or rude, nor do I hurt others. I just cannot and do not view the World like I use to. I focus on myself, keep to myself much more and no longer go out of my way for others.
I spend more time on my own and make decisions based on my preferences, not others.
It’s called loving yourself enough to realise that you should not waste your precious time and energy on most people. Not being rude, just being honest.
Sending blessings to everyone reading this ♥️
Your journey and the transformation you've experienced are truly remarkable. It's clear that you have a deep well of kindness and compassion within you, which you generously shared with others for many years. However, as you've mentioned, there comes a point when one needs to prioritize self-care and well-being.
Learning to love and prioritize yourself is a crucial part of personal growth. It's not about being rude but about setting boundaries and recognizing the value of your own time and energy. You've undergone a profound shift in your perspective, and this newfound focus on self is a positive step towards your own happiness and fulfillment.
Sending you blessings and well-wishes on your journey of self-discovery and self-care. It's important to remember that taking care of yourself doesn't mean you've lost your kindness or compassion; it means you've learned to direct them towards yourself as well. Thank you for sharing your story, and may your path be filled with peace and joy. ♥️
@@PsychBuzzy Thank you for your kindness, insight and for taking the time to respond. Sending you blessings, light and love.
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Omg! Same here!
This bought me to tears . Thank you for sharing your journey. I too now spend a lot more time alone , I help my grown children still , but that's it . I'm to exhausted now to give anymore .
I can relate to everything in this video. I just got out of a 35 years toxic marriage. He told me to pack my bags and get out at 2 o'clock in the middle of the night and when I did as I was told, he regretted. The day after he called to tell me that he forgave me and he would allow me to come back. So I told him I didn't do anything that needed forgiveness and I wasn't stupid enough to go back to him. And when he asked me if I hated him I answered with: " No I don't hate you, you're not worth that kind of strong feelings."
Hell of a response! BRAVO!! Proud of U..
My ex of 16 years did the reverse saying he was going to leave, and for the first time, I said..".well, why don't you?" He had this stunned look on his face, said," alright, I will! "packed his stuff and left. I felt like a 2 ton elephant was lifted off my shoulders when I realised his car was gone. Changed the locks the next day, a Saturday, and on the Monday calling lawyers while he was begging me to let him back in the house. I told him to eff off, and the kids and I didn't need his abuse anymore.
He was a gaslighting, manipulating narcissistic prick who made me feel lower than the sludge under the doormat. I earned almost twice what he did yet I was the dumb useless one.
That was 2006. I still have trust issues, but I have been able to embrace and enjoy the real me rather than the facade I had to hide behind.
...Excellent 😂❤!!!!!
Swap the words for he to she 😂
Don't lose hope, empaths. The world needs us 💕
It's becoming harder each day. The heaviness is so acute, I'm numb.😔
I went numb too..can't even cry at a funeral 😢
@@glendaschilder3048 late at night ,when the psychic emanations are quiet ,reach out on the feeling plane and feel the other empaths support them ,and recieve
*hugs
We are in this together.
It is okay not to cry at a funeral. It is okay to become numb. It happens. Your hearts need to heal.
I agree Sherriv ❤
Absolutely 💯.
I've "survived" a 20+years marriage to a psychopathic narcissist, and all I was , was a punching bag., I also survived two different cancers.
But, I'm still standing.
You need to fight these sick messed up souls because we empaths are so needed /i know how much they can try and destroy you ,my way was to do research and get into my head your not going to kill my spirit and how dare you even try , i went downhill ,had my moments of sheer despair ,but came back fighting i had too and still do xxx ps i cant get away from them so i had no choice but to fight back in various ways x
Someone has a story about "surviving" a 20+ year marriage with YOU too...
Two sides to every story. Easy to come here and be a heroic victim and pretend you had no responsibility in anything.
Wow. Someone didn’t get the “abusive” part in the abusive partnership…
@frolleinvonsoundso7044 someone believes everything they're told like an idiot.
Physical or verbal, or both? Usually it's verbal abuse, lack of respect, but expect respect.
I am a broken empath. I can't cry anymore unless it is for an animal. When I sleep my dreams are so vivid that I feel like I have run a marathon upon waking. I have gotten so good at hiding my feelings, that everyone thinks that I am happy all of the time. I don't show them because my narcissistic, sociopathic ex-fiancé told me that I was a burden on him and everyone around me after I had just spent a week in the hospital for my severe asthma. I don't want people to think I am a burden, so I hide everything. He said horrible things to me all of the time but that one broke me. Now the only company I keep is with animals.
Animals are so healing. My favorite are my son’s dogs. I am done with this world. I see my children, but I don’t want anyone else in my personal space. Stay away from me! lol. I am still kind to others when I walk out my front door. I do what needs to be done errand wise and come right home. I don’t need company or connections. Just peace and quiet. 😊
Same here. Animals are life savers. 🙏♥️🙏
Please tell me... He's still your ex?..
I just isolated for 6 weeks. I called it regrouping. I lost a friend because of it. She said friends don't do that. Well, this one did. It's a solid door slam (a term I recently learned) for me. I just learned 2 weeks ago that I'm an empath. I'm 57 and I've spent most of my life believing something was seriously wrong with me. I wouldnt wish my emotional journey on my worst enemy (my sister), but it is amazing to know I'm not the only one who has experienced this crazy world not only from the inside out, but also from the outside in.
That's quite a journey you've been on! Discovering your empathic nature later in life and finding understanding can be really liberating. It's unfortunate that you lost a friend, but sometimes, people don't grasp the need for self-care. Keep focusing on what's best for you, and remember, you're not alone on this path of self-discovery.
I also came to this understanding in my late 50s. I've been treated for depression for decades but it never went away. I've lost friends as well due to self-isolation but you eventually come to terms with that. Hang in there and be kind to Yourself. You deserve to show yourself the same kindness you show to others. (((HUGS)))
The INFJ door slam is always earned!! 🚪 Zero regrets. I see dead people everywhere.
I'm lucky, I literally disappeared for five years (lived in a forest). My friends understand my divorce hurt me so bad I had to.
In great full the my friends, I don't know what I would have done without them.
This was me 5 years ago. BEST thing I did was to isolate myself for a couple of years. I highly recommend it. You need that time to heal, find yourself again, trust yourself again, feel again. The worst thing you can do is find a new relationship. You can't have a healthy relationship if the individual is not healthy.
Thank you for sharing your success story!!!
I've been in isolation for several years now and am finally coming around but the more I go out the more I want nothing to do with people anymore... A lot of people are just not worth getting to know now a days.
I'll be okay once I move on from this place, and knowing that keeps me going on! 👍
@notunicornsandrainbows2054Fr I’ve ben isolate since Covid 😅
@@sherynkowatsch2970true the last 2 new friends I made where bat shit crazy
Very true. That said, having a core set of friendships with fellow empaths is better than finding friends in the dark triad personality types.
“I am a rock. I am an island. And the rock feels no pain. And an island never cries.” Simon and Garfunkel
Yes
Yes
Lol, I have quoted this every time I have been hurt for 50 adult years. I have yet to do this as a rock who never cries, but sort of feel like an island that never dies.
OMG, now I realize why that's my theme song!!!
The coping strategy can become the problem. Like when some use alcohol to cope ,and develop a drinking problem.
So hard to pull yourself out of the dark sometimes after people use and abuse you until there's nothing left
It is:(
What is the point of this, how does this helps us love? It is absurd!
Wow, so as an empathic person, I now understand what I'm going through. I understand now why I've built up this brick wall around me to where I no longer feel things at the depth I used to. I don't trust myself to protect myself from the cruelty of those I get involved with.
Exactlty the same for me
Same here.
Stay single
Its really sad
Yes. I've actually been wondering for a while, whether what Doctor's label "Chronic Fatigue Syndrome", "Adrenal Stress Disorder", and "Irritable Bowel Syndrome" are not just, in fact, the natural physical results of being a serially emotionally neglected and/or abused empath.
Agree. I have been labeled with CFS, ME, Post Viral Syndrome, and now long Covid. I was an abused child and found some refuge in being ill. My body has been trying to either protect me from abuse or respond to whatever difficult stimulus it encountered. now in my 50's I finally started to put up boundaries to the takers who drain you like a Gelfling by the Skeksis. The emo Vampires who suck all the joy from you, everyone wanting something that I found impossible to say no to out of my kindness and concern for them. I have been burnt out and broken a long time, and only now, during the flipping menopause, I find I have no patience for any of it any more. Just leave me alone and let me breathe. I want to be in the forest. I believe the more distance, on every level, I place between me and those who wish me harm, the healthier I will become. As will you my fellow empaths 🙏🏼
Internalized old anger turned against self instead of the perpetrator
@@emmapegley6307 , I so absolutely get that. I also found that my power started returning as I went through and left the menopause behind. Quite an awful menopause, but it focused me. Funny, it's supposed to be such a terrible thing, but it has been my strengthening. Ja, I also want to be in the forest. With the animals. Er. Not the human animals. Can't say I'm too fond of monkeys either, the apes, chimps and monkeys remind me too much of the games people play, but the other animals.
Nah I know a narcissistic that haf IBS
Yes they don't know. They were not taught this in med training. Diet plays a role as well. And just look at our food industry, sad.
After being discarded by a narcissist I can say this is all true. I didn't treat my girlfriend like a princess, I treated her like I loved her. We never had a fight in 5 years. Little did I know how she was holding grudges.... and the put downs, jealousy and just flat out using me as a good time all seem perfectly clear now. After 15 months of no contact, she just recently tried to hoover me back in....all she got back from me was silence. No more.
That's is what you do. Ignore her. Now let me ask you a question. Did you take this woman because she looked a certain way , it is said , " the devil appears as the most beautiful angel." I think that is what happened to you. There is also a quote ," good things come in plain packages . Think about it. Because you will heal this present wound and although you will have the scar . You will date again
Take your present situation and learn from it.
@@spmoran4703 are you suggesting that beautiful women are less trustworthy than those considered plain? Isn’t this just a reiteration of that old song “if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife”?
😎 fdb brutha... Fdb
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@@TielMama777 exactly. Agree 💯 percent.
The thing about being an empath, learnt recently its important to withdraw and spend more time alone because as much as we like interracting you realize it's very dangerous. You might as well just do what you love and shut the noise for safety purposes.
Omg!!! Finally I don’t feel completely alone. I have literally been broken down to nothing that I don’t even know who I am anymore. Feeling lost, frustrated, sad and drained. I just want to feel my old self again.
My enthusiasm has bottomed out. I’m living in hermit mode for a good part of nine months. I only leave the house when it’s absolutely necessary. I’m not even working. I need to get a job but I can’t even push myself spiritually I’m not ready to deal with public I’m so damaged.
I truly do feel the pain and suffering you're going through.
I'm currently in a similar situation. After my narcissistic abuser drained me for all that i had (not just financially, and of all my materialistic belongings, including everything but the clothes i was currently wearing .... but he also drained me of what was the very essence of what made me ME). And it is being drained of this essence of what made me ME, that i feel i am struggling to recover from the most. But i know i can, & will, eventually replenish my heart & soul to what it was before.... because that inner spark can never truly be extinguished - sometimes it just lies dormant. Like how after putting out a wildfire, it can reignite because under the surface the embers are still burning hot...
@@lotusquinn101 😭
Me too. Trying to recover the ME that was stolen. Took me years to build it up and even came close to envisioning my healing process.. all for it to be ripped away from me. I know there's still a spark somewhere in my spirit but currently, I can't feel it. I'm a hollowed shell.
Me too
@@khismet I think in the essence it's the destroyed believe in people and the self worth who is completely destroyed. REALLY not easy to build this up again.. But we need these experiences to learn and to watch out for red flags.. Most times even a covert narc is exposing himself at some point.. It's easy for me these days to detect who you really are and if you are good for me or not. But idk if i can trust someone again in a loving relationship.. The fear of getting crushed in pieces again is too big i guess.
I think we just need revenge on those evil creatures that broke us. I also think in this future years it will somehow come on them. That will un-break us, to see the justice and some rewards for us for being so good.
I went from one Narcissist to another worse than the first. Until I met the one that finally broke me down. Now I’ve got nothing left😔😔😔😔
Stay strong friend
That's the time to start collecting up each tiny piece,cleasing it and finding a place for it ....the rebuilding a strong identity .. I made atlars with things I loved and had meaning ...when I get lost I look there
@@ananamu2248 I started doing my facials again, and getting dressed up again ❤️ Thanks
Same here. I broke away from my covert narcissist wife of five years just a month ago. She wore me down to where I felt absolutely nothing. I don't think I will ever be able to trust another human being for the rest of my life.
Understand but life is so much better. I am now happy single, I don't date (have zero interest) but have so much love to friends and family, hobbies and work. Having fun, peace and are happier than ever. You don't need a partner. It will come or maybe not. All fine. It will take some time but you got this. (2 years after narcissistic relationships for a decade)
Getting emotionally numb is one of the worst things that can happen to a person. It's an understandable coping mechanism in some scenarios but extremely hard to switch off. When a feeling person gets numb, their purpose in life feels gone.
It’s almost like when you’re healed and have all this wonderfulness to offer the world is when you attract the very opposite worst person!
This is true. Many of us do not, cry the victim, we just realize the signs, and continue to learn and heal ourselves. It doesn’t happen overnight, but it’s possible.
Broken, unloved and alone, shunted despite reaching out, even whilst being kind and considerate...so drained at the moment...feels like I am in conflict with the world and myself...feeling depression coming my way and still trying to act like all is ok....cannot even get to be cruel to those that continuously step over and degrade me.
I am exactly the same. Just trying to hold on.
What you said
@user-jl4br6tf7d I'm not going to do that to my self I'm just over done but thank you I don't believe in taking my own life
It's not in our nature to be cruel to others. I can't even try to think the way cruel people behave.
This is exactly how I feel only I am also starving for human touch and connection. She literally starved me. Stay strong.
I am a broken empath and when I’m broken I find my comfort through sleeping and living alone . Even there are people around me when I isolate my self I can only see my self and I will be very happy feeling alone . And also when I’m broken just like what you said I will be become cold and and distant . I will become very very numb . When I’m broken I can’t offer anything anymore and I will become emotionally unattached and calculating . All you said are true !
Empaths absorb everyone elses energy. It takes me a few weeks to cleanse that bad energy from mean people.
Maybe I'm an empath and didn't realize it. When I was much younger, I was sensitive and cried easily. Years of bullying have made me become numb and indifferent towards most people, though.
The reason we're bullied is because people KNOW we can read them and they don't like it nor the fact that we KNOW what they're really up to. Hence the bullying so THEY can try to gain the upper hand and control.
We don't realize it in childhood. It took me forty years to see. I looked back on my life and saw exactly what I had been through and why my body was physically traumatized. I couldn't walk. Don't let it get to this point.❤
@@PS27760it’s also like we’re mirrors. Our eyes reflect how much they really hate themselves and the bullying continues.
Give it time.. I'm 42 and cry at random now! 😂
Truth me too! I use to cry easily when I realize someone is upset with me for no or petty reason! Now I don’t give a damn about your feelings especially if I didn’t try to hurt them.
I tend to be empathetic to everyone else except ME, and your video was VERY helpful giving me insight into the fact that I am indeed broken and hurting due to effects of 24-year marriage to a textbook narcissist. I've been treated for CPTSD and am seeing a very competent Counselor who deals with narc abuse. I'm making good progress except that hypervigilance is still there. I appreciate knowledgeable people like you who are here to help us. Thank you.
💗 Wow, that first sentence!! Just realized this not too long ago. I still can't believe anything, too much shock and gaslighting of self. I thought perhaps I hate myself? Why would I take myself serious? Everyone treats me bad, especially "family attachments". Why would the kind people be kind, they must be manipulative!! Everything seems to be total opposite, confused and heartbroken, my soul seems lost because it's shattered in a very dark place. I don't think I feel so very well, how does one process? I thought I did everything right and then doubt immensely now all the time. I just wanna sleep a forever sleep. I'm too exhausted, yet I can't "get to sleep", because I stay awake, tensed up. ☝🏽🌌💖💫
You will be in my prayers and legions of angels are rooting for you.
@@bbdn5123omg I’m living this nightmare too right here right now! I’m so glad I came across this!
@@bbdn5123find someone you trust to talk to. Maybe bybtalking about it you can straighten your thoughts out. Make them not so jumbled. Or get a notebook and start writing your feelings down. Work through them. I think thats what im going to try. I am so grateful to have watched this video. I really needednto see this today. Well, i really needed to see thus 10 years ago...
Wow. Very smart words. I appreciate your comment and I hope things get better. Definitely sounds like you are doing the right thing working with your therapist. Good job! 😊
I was married to a narcissist for 13 years, my doctor told me that I was hurt to the soul. Even 20 years after the divorce, I am still struggling to recover because he took away my children and set them up against me. I'm sure that even after he dies, they will continue what he started and it's tearing me up inside.
My x did this to the children. They are now healing and have gone no contact with him.
When I lost the urge to get drunk I knew something was wrong. I recommend counseling to everyone before you get to that point. I was self medicating to escape the situation and literally gave up. Counseling has taught me to set boundaries and be firm with them.
We help our enemies when they are in need. We are a magnet for narcissists and bullies. I am broken, my daughter hates me as she missed my strength when I performed miracles but sees me as weak now as I am down and empty until I fill up again but I still have the capacity to love. This is spot on.
Stay single
You are not alone… Eye am the same with my daughters…
My story .
I lost my ability to cry after being married to a narcissist for 10 years. It felt so good when I was able to cry again about 3 years ago.
Not being able to cry is the worst.... and so liberating when tears flow again... like your soul being released from a prison we made to protect ourselves
More power to you!
Yes it does. Even better when we laugh again.
Not being able to cry is so painful
@@Keziah32 not being able to stop isn't a lot of fun ,either.
Sounds like severe depression to me. I'm an burnt out empath in the self isolation stage... however I've needed this desperately, it has helped me get through some major losses and grief and reestablish an appreciation for myself.
You don't owe anyone years of your life in exchange for the decline of your mental, emotional and spiritual health. In order to make a relationship with a narcissist work, you would have to take the blame for everything while also not making any mistakes. You would have to admit to being a total screwup while also doing everything perfectly. In other words~it's IMPOSSIBLE.
A big reason we develop these things is that we feel and emotionally absorb the emotions of others. Even if others try to hide and deny negative energy, we still feel it and it is overwhelming.
Truth
I felt this from a neighbor the other day. I was shocked by his evil presence. He hides it well.
I feel to even exist I have to be stronger than David Goggins, you would have to be stronger than Delta Force to deal with all this...
This is ALL true!
Empaths are the light to all truths. Sadly, the world is selfish and always pushing individual selfishness! The Empath has an inherent attachment to the truth to which they will not let go of nor compromise for the sake of someone else's lie. Most people are not attached to anything other than themselves. Once we accept the basic motivations of truths and lies, we can solve many problems.
Wow! They say the Truth will set you free. Yet, realistically, protecting the Truth brings down the wrath of ruthlessness from negative energies. After experiencing such a battle and being battered, I'm always left in a state of perplexity.
@@khismetso true.
This is what we enjoy being in the truth sadly toxic people like narcissistic people don’t want to be in this is why there toxic to there in denial and always wrestling with themselves and there never happy they fake it we can make the world a better place regardless of the toxic people in this world we will make it better they the toxic people can’t stop me being me and I may be knocked down but I will always get up and rise up ❤❤❤❤
Speaking the truth, all the time, is what keeps me moving forward. I know I am here at this time for this reason.
This is SO bang on it’s freaky! I’m still in the thick of it, it’s so hard! I’m definitely trying to work through it and am seeing the right people to help me. Thank you for the message and to all the broken empaths out there, I understand and I’m cheering you on.
All of these symptoms you've mentioned are also signs of depression, especially persistent depressive disorder. I've had it for decades, so I recognize all this.
I am a broken empathic. But now i am recovering.
How many men would you like to kill?
Well I have finally found my tribe. All the reasons for who I am today are outlined so very succinctly here. That number 10 where you say there are people who love you. Yeah I don't have that. My family hates me and I don't have any friends. if there are people out there who care about me they hide it really well. Because all I ever get - still - is invites for sex. Or stupid conversations about sex. That's all a man thinks about, still, is sex. Why can't they just get a damn life? Lust is cheap and doesn't last.
Thanks for your channel.
😢I’m in the same situation, a narcissist family that doesn’t support or care about me at all unless it’s beneficial to them and no friends to speak of at this time… users and liars out for themselves it’s really scary out there!
I know exactly How u feel, its like that for me to. I have just got out of a bad Relationship with a abusive narsissist, and when i trues to come back home it was a disaster. And i cab not trist annyone. It sucks
I too understand ..what you mean by saying that..I too experienced the same..
Same. I learned to give myself the love I gave everyone else, and once you arrive at that relationship, you will guard it with your life. I am 64, and if I had to go back in time, I would avoid relationships with everyone else. I missed so much by giving away myself; now it's me time. Ross Rosenberg's work helps tremendously with self love.
I often feel this way . So at least you do have friends that understand .
Man. This describes me to a tee. It often is hard always feeling others pain it's a lot to carry, yet, I've been this way my whole life. The hard part is having others say, you worry to much , or analyze things to much. They just don't understand that this isn't a reaction to others on purpose. It's just the way my heart works. I care so much for others it often hurts, however, I am who God made me to be and when I see soany that have no compassion at all or concern for others that I'm glad I'm who I am. Because what the world needs is love, The kind of love our heavenly Father gives us.. Don't tell others God loves them, if you can't love them too. God will continue to give us empaths the strength we need to keep being the person he made us to me. When it's seem life is so painful. Give it to God he will carry you through and by his Holy Spirit give you comfort when needed. Don't let the darkness, in the world, turn off the light God put in you.
Yes I agree.🙏 Heavenly Father help us keep our light shining.
Agreed.❤ empath surviving....not giving up.
ive been all over the spectrum here. im an infp with extreme cptsd etc. anyone needing to read this. you got this and anything negative you're enduring remember that this too shall pass.
What you are describing is the Human response to abuse. It's not only related to empaths. Anyone can be going through this. Empaths only react quicker in that direction because of their sensitivity.
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I also believe we are sensitive people and see things that others don't. And the frustration that comes with trying to tell someone that doesn't believe some people are more sensitive to the world will make you frustrated.
Not all. Sociopaths aren't so are Psychopaths; and narcissists but to a certain degree.
I was thinking that too. I'm pretty sure I'm not an empath and I've experienced all of these symptoms. It feels like Hell and it's hard to come back from without an actual effort. Even now I still fall into old habits whenever something starts going wrong.
@@stephenkarla7113spot on!
I've honestly always admired empaths and wished I was one myself, but after learning more about them I came to realise how much they actually struggle with their gifts sometimes. If you're an empath, remember that it's okay to feel hurt and not get everything right. Even if we aren't empaths, we can still help in our own ways (or at least try) even if we aren't able to feel other people's emotions.
You are a hero❤
Don't forget empaths and addiction. It's awful but I'm in recovery.
I’m a recovering empath alcoholic after I’ve been through I’m 11 years sober greetings from Scotland 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
This is me! Going through this now. I desperately need a sabbatical, a refuge from people right now.
Same here. It’s perfect timing. Feels difficult but might be leading to a spiritual transition to help us let go of the old and align to the higher.
Having been born, married for 43 years , & my first relationship after my husband passed away, recently left yet another narcissist… I’m totally exhausted & 💜🙏 for healing
My ex best friend was a narcissist. I was so blind. I upset her when I told her I was disappointed that she wasn't here when my mom died. She was out partying. Then said I never supported HER depression...I have always been there for her and helped her through so much. I felt like I was swirling...I will never allow another person that close to me again.
I had a best friend . But she wasn't there for me . 50 years later she tried to reconnect . I don't trust her at all . The scar she left never healed .
The only reason as an empath I’m not ‘broken’ is that I’m a Sun/Ascendant Scorpio with a very helpful Leo moon. Sleep is very comforting for me, though at my age (78) l find I need less…not to mention I don’t want to sleep away what time I have left to my life. Spending time in nature also gives me the strength I need to cope, it’s magical, even mystical. One has to figure what’s the best way to recharge for YOU. You are what you are…it’s a very good way of being.
One reason empaths suffer a lot of emotional pain is that they empathize with how other people feel about them. If another person attacks them emotionally they tend to think they did something to make the person feel that way. That's why they can make such perfect partners for narcissists. Narcissists blame them for all their woes, and empaths empathize with the narcissist's point of view.
Very true!
Very true however I come to realize that it’s not our fault that the abuser or whoever the toxic person is it’s not our fault it’s there own fault or could be what they went through like there parents it all starts at there home so has to be there upbringing if a toxic person says it’s your fault it’s really not there lashing out and they can make there lives better but instead they choose to live in misery and suffering and don’t want to get help there going to get worse as they get older so it will be there fault unless they do something about it there stubborn to that tells you a lot! Don’t ever listen to this lie they say there miserable everyday!❤🙏🏻
This video is 100% on point. Today we know there were and are numerous empaths in my family: i.e. my daughter, sister, aunt, cousin/s, grandmother and myself, and unfortunately all of our life affecting stories of pain and survival are very similar too. It's like we all had to individually experience the apathetic cruelty of a self-serving narcissist; the moral, ethical and cold emotional deficiencies and manipulations of a psychopath; and the internal and external violence and constant chaos of a sociopath ourselves. Its like we needed to individually learn from the aforementioned types of people first-first before we could even realize that we were/are empaths. Being empathetic wasn't/isn't something most of us are told about or taught growing up, nor is it a typical topic of conversation at most families' family gatherings. Most of us, somehow, we figure out ourselves we are empaths.
Thank you❤️
I’ve been through EVERY stage of the broken empath to the T.
It got so bad just over a year ago with drug abuse and then trying to end it with me being in a coma for 3 days at the ICU trying to stabilize me😢 I want to say there is a light at the end of this dark tunnel. Seek help and do your best to raise your vibrations and do shadow work as well with professional help which was the turning point for me❤️ and remember to always live life from your heart ♥️
54 years old and I'm just now figuring this out. Sincerely, from what's left of my cold, dead heart, THANK YOU for this video!
That's why I can't cry when someone die...
Yes ...here the same..
I lost my sons father this September 13, i cry everyday. I can't breathe every day. I don't eat or sleep. Or barely shower i try my hardest but i neglect myself so much .
Why does it seems narcissists have all the friends and are surrounded by people 😮💨
Constant supply....that's all....unless...you know...a more extroverted empath....just a thought...m
Because they're fake and manipulating all in order to get what they're after. They don't really have friends, only sources of supply. Whoever sticks around them, are most likely as shallow as these demons.
@@realtorvivian What can we expect from narcs and their friends? They can leave whenever they want but can choose to stick around. They're not trauma bonded. On top of that, my narc ex-wife had money to spend. Not hers, of course, but the color whas green. What she took, I can't even imagine, and the money wasn't the most important.
Because they are fake pretending to be what ever they think you want them to be ( no real self) to get close to you so they can learn your secrets to use against you later all about control
Bc they are not capable of being alone..even if they wanted to. But they don’t, bc they need constant supply/excitement/DISTRACTION from being alone with themselves…& their own dark thoughts/empty lives (& souls), self-hatred, & basically, facing the reality of who they really are under their “life of the party” mask.😱😫🤯😳🥴
This is incredible and heartbreaking to watch because I’ve went through life without knowing there were others like me.
Going through it now very badly. Thanks for putting it in perspective for me. I did not have the words.
me too ❤
Same here. I’m isolating, not eating, i find no pleasure in anything…..nothing. I don’t watch tv. It stays off. Too much “noise” and people chattering too fast. Hard to explain our brains while in a deep ,dark hole. Seems like there is no escape. Prayers for us all. 🙏🏻💔🙏🏻
yes the narcissist did a lot of damage to me
Stay strong
Mine tried, I am so drained though.
Narcissists are "the walking dead". Do Not let them destroy you. Concentrate on yourself and your own Healing. Practice Spiritual Healing. Live from your Heart.
@@PsychBuzzyis that the answer?
“Sometimes I feel like a corn stalk standing alone in the middle of a field, after the harvest; nobody left to play with.”--Mark Twain
The more I am alone, the better I feel. I am HSP and so tired of people pleasing. As I spend time alone, I am able to heal and figure out what happened and why. I really am enjoying my own company more and more. Those who have drained us don't realize that we have so much going on inside, that we really don't need them.
We have never become broken. We become wounded and need to do the work to heal. Empaths have incredible resilience and the capacity to heal self and others. However, healthy boundaries and making time for self-care, a spiritual practice, as well as protection rituals. We can and do heal. Learn to bend and flow like the wind.
How do I heal from this? I'm losing my mind trying to fight this. It is the darkest I have ever felt in my life. I'm trying but I don't know how.
Now you know you are an empath. That’s all you need to begin the recovery
So much love and support to you. 🩷 I’m sitting in the “I don’t know too” and am going within to remember my love and strengths. It’s so dang challenging. 🩷
Go into your Heart. Pray, learn everything you can about empathy, traits etc. Look within, not without. The Healing is in the purity of your connection to the Divine. I have been protected throughout my life and its only in retrospect I join the dots. Take Care. God Bless You Always.
@@bfreeume It's very challenging. I've told the narc that they cannot touch my Soul. She tried to break me. I became so very much stronger. Take Care.
Melancholia is the empaths healing time .. don't fight it keep internal ,protected but also keep expressing it though creative art and music
I didn't know what an empth was until I was told by a therapist that I am a broken empath. I have researched it and this video is very true of me. My narcissistic sister died with so much hate in her heart that I felt like I had to save her. It has been so hard to find peace in living with the fact that she was so hateful and I couldn't help her
Sorry to hear this.
You helped her. Trust me I have a difficult sibling and try to love them as much as possible. I'm always shocked years later things come up that I've "said". They are listening and your sister listened.
I come from a narcissistic family. It took me a long time to wake-up to to the fact my sister is a narc. She dumped me cold but I knew what was going on. My son has married one and she tried to break me. Didn't work..I'm happy and free now. God Bless You Always.
It takes time ..I got through . .it took ma ny years but I am enriched by it I healed using art ,music and talking about everything = expression of any kind
Dear Lyn !
You are only responsible for yourself before the Last Judgement. You were not responsible for your sister ...
We CAN take on responsibility for others, but we don't have to ... and especially we are NOT ALLOWED to sacrifice our health or lives for others - no matter what the different religious representatives say ... religion says something different !
Our first duty is to look after ourselves and THEN we have enough power, energy and money to look after others ...
This is very true .....as an empath im tired of narcissistic people......not only am i broken but im fed up too. I sleep often to avoid issues i also have an eating disorder too. Im exhausted indeed.
It's been 3 years out and I feel I'm just going thru life. I'm bored, lost and just don't care anymore. Trying to find my way out, just don't know where to go. I've done the counseling, it's the destruction and lies that keep holding me down. Great video, thank you!
Figuratively speaking, Empaths are born broken. Not that Empaths are broken but unique, reminds me of a kintsukuroi a cracked Japanese voss mend back together with gold.
We are never broken, we teach along the way...things people never reflect on. I am a deep thinker, hardly sleep, think about my impact at every moment. I get angry, then rest when I have had enough. Joy is hard to find because I know the shit that is everywhere.
Understand you 100%
This hit dead on. It's astounding how this video explains much that I couldn't find words for, or truly put thought to.
To be honest, I didn't expect this video to have anything of any real weight, however, I was wrong, and thankfully so.
Thank you. I enjoy learning about my own behavior. 😅
Not always because of a current toxic situation. Sometimes its just a season in life that you need to get through.
This is what I've been looking for...no other empathic related video or self-help guide, medications, etc...has made such perfect sense.
I don't like to draw attention to myself but do wish more of my family n friends could understand this.
Hot it on the nose. Lids of appetite, over sleeping, closing off, staying away from people, hard to get things done , tired all the time a lack of desire to thrive
I just can't believe I am a broken empath. I thought I was a Narcissist, however, after this video I started remembering my childhood snd teenage years, and realized I am a broken empath. I ticket absolutely all the 10 points
I'm still not totally numb, but I AM rejecting some narcissists around mebto protect myself from exploitation of my empathy. I'm withdrawing from a 'friend' who always seeked 'advice' when in need for money until I gave money sobthey could get rid pf problems, until the next call. Now that there are noneconomic problems, there were no more calls from that end. Great! So much for true friends. Not blocking the phone but just not answering. Thank you from relieving me of ny guilty feelings.
I'm not lonely . Solitude is renewal .
Appreciate that involving broken empaths. You're very correct, when we get so emotionally numb and just don't react anymore, we're seen as giving an attitude also. Just had to go through that not too long ago when I'm just...numb
I'd always thought myself empathic but didn't "recognize" as one. This video ticks all the boxes for me and described EVERYTHING to a T. It makes it make sense, and that's such a validation. I've been married to a narcissist for over 20yrs and while we love each other I've definitely and continue to suffer- from all these symptoms and more( I've got 3 different therapist lol)Thanks for making this video. Not gonna divorce my husband of 20yrs but this is definitely a huge help for therapy. Thanks❤
I recently realized my BF is an empath. He hides it very well. He has most of the symptoms you describe.
I am so incredibly amazed by his courage in opening up to me and trusting me. I'm incredibly proud of him. How he protected himself through his terrible childhood beinf rejected by his parents and dumped in dormatory schools for mentally disturbed, violent children (even though he was not like that).
I have learned the hard way to protect him from my raw emotions (such as grief and frustration) since he absorbs it and carries it like a weight i have dropped on his shoulders. Maybe I'm an empath too, just a clueless one who didn't realize what a burden i was dumping on him all rhe time!
In a note to other empatha who are struggling: please don't give up on others. There are a few of us who are good and kind. Please stay brave and open hearted. I know you have to keep your guard up, just don't keep it up too high!
Well, Done. That covered a lot of areas. I'd not been able to find a clinical diagnosis of what I've been going through over the past 15 years slowly getting worse. All the things I was so passionate about that got me up early every morning with a renewed vigour to get at it have left me. I kept thinking/hoping it would pass but it never did. I went from a house full of people to now being a recluse on my own. I live in a Log House I built originally as a cottage. It's on my property where I had built shops to fix, repair, invent, and repurpose things. I have a completely furnished Mechanical repair shop, every welder known to man, machine shop equipment, an auto lift, a tire changer, and a huge air compressor. It's the main shop where I built hot rods, rat rods, custom motorcycles, and buggies. I have a shop attached to it that is completely outfitted with woodworking tools for cabinetry, furniture design and construction, and custom one-off pieces to fit people's decor. t the end of the main shop I have a century-old sawmill I restored and made my living with for some years having contracts with local lumber yards. I lost a 150-year-old log home I had restored to fire. I lost everything and very limited insurance. I was able to get the contract from the insurance company to rebuild the home myself. I hired a lad to help and build a beautiful one-of-a-kind story and a half 3200 square foot home. 3 years later it was lost to fire when my wife's car caught fire. We weren't home and everything including the shop I built there was a complete loss. Insurance fought me tooth and nail, I had to pay off the bank mortgage which left not enough to build this little log home on my bush property but I managed to get it built. I forgot to mention two years before my first home burnt I had broken my back in a logging accident. It required multiple levels of spinal fusion surgeries, decompression, and bone grafting and there were serious complications. I was young enough and strong enough that I was determined to keep going. I was divorced after I finished building my home. That devastated me. I started to drink again after years of sobriety. I met an old girlfriend from our teen years and we started dating, she moved in with her three teenage boys, I had one of my boys still with me and things were improving. It was her car that caught fire and we lost everything. It only gets worse from there. At this point in time I'm defeated. I keep hoping for a miracle to get me back to where I can do things again. My health is bad. Two years ago I lost 50 lbs in 4 months dropping from 190 lbs to 140 lbs they have not been able to come up with a reason why. With it went a lot of upper body strength. I used to wear coloured tank tops and a brown leather vest proud of my physique, now it's full-length sleeves and buttoned up so people can't see the deterioration of my upper body. I can't put the weight back on. It's a very strange thing. I'm surviving on a disability allowance from the Canadian Government. I receive $835 bucks a month and have to pay everything out of that. I've lost my licence due to no insurance, and I'm behind thousands of dollars in property tax. I'm going to lose everything to the government and I have no options or help available.
Isn't it odd how I went from saying "Well Done" and my gift to my heartbreak?
Really sorry for what has happened to you. How about starting a GoFundMe? That might be the help you need. Hope your situation gets way better!!
What a story and I am praying for you. I went through something similar I had no diagnosis for eleven months. I physically couldn't walk. I realized I was an empath while bedridden. I have had time to reflect on my life since childhood and now know I am empathetic. This isn't taught in med school so there was no help there. I've been the daughter and now wife of a sawmill man all of my life. I left my job at forty being elected to the local superior court I could no longer sit through another child abuse or murder trial. It was destroying me mentally and physically. So I left my paycheck and retirement after four terms. Somehow my husband and I have held our family together raising now two young adults. Please pray for me and mine as well.
I understand! I have not lost the amount of items you have, but I have lost a lot. My health is gone. But through it all, I have been humbled. that is the greatest gift I have ever received.
I am 70 now and has SLE and unable to manage the illness and daily chores, if someone helps me bring myself out of it I will be grateful
This is the most spot on article I have read in so long and everything about it is perfectly succinct and true and I couldn’t be more thankful for somebody recognizing that this is an issue and we need to find a way to heal through it. That’s a healthy way. Thank you!
I’m an empath. I’m with a narcissist and we do have a toxic relationship for many years. I also get tired of people easily, so I don’t have friends.
I never ever feel self pity I pity the idiots that did me wrong
Been with a narcsssist for 28 years just recently broke up keep your faith in god and yourself and u will be fine I am thank u 1111
I went through all of these descriptions. (except anorexia, I'd rather eat everything). I am healing from all of that. Those signs will not become permanent, we will come back to be the positive and virtuous person we were before (but even better) as soon we get free from the abusers. Fight for yourself, make one little step each day towards your freedom!
15 years with a covert narc. Today im broken inside and disconnected with myself and nothing brings me joy anymore.
Same it is like there are no humans in this world only NPCs i have trouble believing anyone is real in this world and if so than you are sadistic evil piece of trash! This world is only good for power and hurting other ppl... I feel alien my whole life, living in this hell was worse than unit 731 for me...
I am a Sensitive Empath and this video is onpoint. This video describes everything I deal with on a daily. And I am definitely broken.
Same
me too....youre not alone❤
Did it start about FIVE years ago? For I am finding out that almost all mental people like myself, felt this BIG change in the air….find that interesting?
Broken with you ALL ❤❤❤❤
I just make myself do things to stay busy
Since my spiritual awakening started I found out what empath n called and makes sense of the things am going through ..although other things came to my attention finding out where I'm from n who i am a starseed putting everything into perspective . Everything u mentioned in this I'm going thru n have gone through. ! Thank you for the nail on perspective!
I've been diagnosed with CPTSD. That never sat well with me. Now I know why. Thank you for this.
Nothing wrong with you! You just don’t speak STUPID. That’s all!
The narrator spoken on "Heyokah Empaths" from 5:14 to 5:50 when becoming emotionally numb. As well she'd spoken on the typical regular human being when speaking on becoming depressed and wanting to take our life. True enough we go through a depressive stage but thats limited and goes away because it's apart of a spiritual awakening..
Llamame PAYASO.....QUE PASA?
It's easy for me to get depressed when everyone dumps their negative emotions on me. You described depression and anxiety.
I'm glad that I took my music and art studies seriously. Always had something to discipline myself to when being around others is not an option.
Yes, I eat emotionally. Working on it.
My man picker was broken for a long time because I could not change nor fix others problems that they were complaining to me about. So- don't ask me for advice. Look in the mirror and love yourself!
Us "empaths" need to learn filters. We do not need to feel others' BS. It is habit- probably rooted in a early childhood defense mechanism. None of us are perfect, but emotional psychics- us, HSP, also another label, can learn to find balance. We, too, should learn to balance.
I relate to the apathy- that's what it's called when your energy feels used up. But I know it does not need to be a full pendulum.
Yes, I have felt worthless- labeled as "just" a musician and artist. I offer forgiveness- because most people don't know who they are, and America has programmed all of us to believe we are not enough- what we NEED is always external.
Thank you for this informational video. Humanity holds so much trauma sand difficult emotions. My life work is emotional balance, with appropriate responses. Much love to you all! ❤
This is so true! Whenever I have to be around people that have very low vibrations I have to look up spirit shield here on UA-cam so I don't have to feel that bad energy. I listen to it before I go to work while I sleep. Sometimes I will focus on a random item or close my eyes and meditate in my mind repeating " my energy is my energy, their energy is their energy, I will not absorb their energy", and imagine a shield around me. Meditation really helped me because I used to get bad anxiety attacks.
I am what remains of a sailing crew that took off from Muskegon, MI. The captain and I are stuck in North Carolina, waiting out hurricane season before the last haul into northern Florida. I need the character building trial, but empathy takes PEOPLE, and for some reason, I remain passionless on this most enviable of voyages
Sailing through hurricane season can be quite a challenge, and it's natural to miss the company of people during this journey. Character-building trials often come with unique experiences and lessons. Hang in there, and may your passion for this voyage return when the right moments arise! ⛵🌊
Holy sh--.. I did not need to be called out like that within the first 5 hours of 2024...
It's crazy how much information is at our fingertips now.
I wish I had a family member to share this with. Thank you for understanding. ✨💖✨🙏🕊
You are so welcome
I guess I’m a broken empath. I have all these. I’m trying to come back to myself. I will make it!!
I can relate to this. I feel like a lack empathy too much these days. Hardly feel emotions. I feel like a cold rock. I'm so tired of narcissists and they're everywhere! I still have the one that broke me in my life and he is essentially the only person I talk too. I don't see him very often. I want to move on so bad and I'm on dating apps. I just haven't had luck finding someone I'm interested in. But yes I feel like I'm just a ghost going through life.
You deserve so much more than that narcopath. Whilst you have any connection with the toxic person that hurt you. It retriggers the pain and psychological stress. And they still have a hold over you. Be strong and completely cut ties with that person and look into seeing a professional on mental health / councilor. Please stay strong ❤️
You are important, even though you may not feel that way.
It's funny how the diagnosis's for PTSD, anxiety , depression, and so on ... can be cut down to one simple term "broken empath"
After breaking up with my toxic Taurus, I’m an Aquarian I have spent 11 months in therapy healing, spiritually, and emotionally stain grounded but I can’t shake the exhaustion
Been there I am an aquarius dated Taurus just don't contact them again mine cheated on me.working helped me
I have had to deal with this all of my life as there are sooo many narcissists I have lately been finding places to be in social situations where very giving loving people are, and so I can help people. Volunteering is a good way to show the narcissist the universe does not revolve around them. It also helps to have realistic expectations of negative people. They are sick and they have a deficit. They cannot even introspect. The world is full of them. I have accepted that this is their problem. Mostly I treat them like children in my mind and I yellow rock a lot. I expect the chaos and get ahead of it, and i never rely on them. I have learned (still learning) not to react not to play their game. They have no personal peace and will hide this fact. The most difficult thing to ignore is the convoluting and gaslighting but that being said, I am done. I know who i am I will NOT turn into that version of a human and this is my solace. I must be the better person. (At times i thoight being reactive would teach but no matter the reaction is, they never see the responsibility they should bear) . I have accepted that I need to focus on self preservation. This coming year as a matter of fact I am going to be better at taking care of me so iI can still keep giving. I do not take it personal. I am a child of great faith in God and as they try to hurt me i give it to God and i pray for them, I have a relationship with Jesus Christ who sustains me and the peace he gives surpasses all understanding. I am learning to live my joy in spite of negativity and I am perfecting pinpointing provocative behavior. I am still me and I will overcome with good. I know the one who succors me is Jesus Christ the greatest truest love of all, I trust not in the arm of flesh. There is no deeper love than the love of God in Jesus Christ ❤️ I will follow him all my days and he said in the world I will have trouble but in him I will have peace and I most certainly do. I am a peacemaker and 'Peacemakers are children of God' and we are meant to lead the way. May God refill my loving cup in my daily worship of the only begotten son who is Jesus Christ and let me live the joy of knowing it is true and let no one take it from me in Jesus Christ amen
Yes, we can get broken - but we can raise up again, step by step.