Jake Banfield - Boys Don't Cry (Official Music Video)

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  • @danielheinlein6741
    @danielheinlein6741 Рік тому +774

    Everyday I struggle to stay alive. My kids are the only reason I'm still here. But everyday it gets harder to stay strong for them. Thank you for this song. I appreciate you and anyone reading this comment. We got to stay strong!

    • @themattural9542
      @themattural9542 Рік тому +16

      Im right there with you.

    • @jigztrixgaming8179
      @jigztrixgaming8179 Рік тому +23

      Put your trust in our Lord an Savior JESUS. Let the HOLY SPIRIT guide you. Remember HE'S always with you. You will never be sad or broken again in JESUS name.

    • @LilMuffin18
      @LilMuffin18 Рік тому +7

      I hope things are getting better for you, I pray that you stay here with your kids.

    • @josepagan8634
      @josepagan8634 Рік тому +4

      I know how hard it is to feel like you are a burden on everyone around you but once you start noticing that your kids love is unconditional you’ll realize that life is love

    • @ChrisWalters-kp2vq
      @ChrisWalters-kp2vq Рік тому +1

  • @enigmaticgwichin1630
    @enigmaticgwichin1630 Рік тому +1701

    I’ve buried a lot of friends and family with no tears, but holding the box with my baby boy in it hit me in a way I’d never felt before. Thanks for the song👏

    • @jesusisking3814
      @jesusisking3814 Рік тому +42

      For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. Jesus Christ loves you so much that He died for your sins and rose from the dead. If you repent from evil ways, believe that Jesus has paid the fine for your sins on the cross and confess Him as your Lord, you will be saved. You see, we all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, that's why Jesus Christ, fullness of Godhead bodily, lived a perfect life, fulfilled the prophecies and law, shed His Blood at the cross just so you could be forgiven, reconciled back to the Father, receive God's love, be made a new creation, whole, sanctified. It's not about religion and what good works you can do to earn salvation, it's only by grace through faith in the finished works of Jesus Christ. Read God's Word, preferably start with Gospel of John, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you, give you wisdom and revelation that way you're born again and see your life changed by the Spirit of the Most High. Much love and God bless you!

    • @squire0984
      @squire0984 Рік тому +32

      I hope you are doing well now. that is an awful experience no parent should go through.

    • @mike196425
      @mike196425 Рік тому +30

      I know your pain, my grandson passed away at the age of 18 months old, it was a pain like no other. He was my first grandchild and my best friend. It's been 12 years and the pain is still so fresh. I was able to handle my Dad and older brother dying within 4 months of each other but Max was like nothing I was expecting. Something died inside me when he passed and my mind has never been the same. I now suffer PTSD because of that day, I lost my brothers in the Army but this was different. Be well and stay strong, the scars heal with this loss but the wound never really does. Blessings to you and yours

    • @enigmaticgwichin1630
      @enigmaticgwichin1630 Рік тому +11

      @@mike196425 ah man I am so sorry for your loss. There is something about losing one so young, especially imagining the future they would have had. I’ll be praying for you Mike. God Bless

    • @Johnson-1881
      @Johnson-1881 Рік тому +7

      Sorry for your loss

  • @yekster1382
    @yekster1382 8 місяців тому +129

    My dad passed away in August and I haven't had a shoulder to cry on. I had to remain strong for everyone around me especially my mom. I wish I wasn't alone

    • @DingleHopper-yh6dv
      @DingleHopper-yh6dv 8 місяців тому +5

      Ur not the only one. I’ve never met my birth parents because they were abusive. Now knowing I have a half brother still there with my dad, and I can’t help, like my older sisters did with me, It tears me apart. My sisters saved me, and I can’t save him. I now live with a loving family since I was three, and now it’s been 11 years, and I only hope my little brother is okay and he will someday want to meet me. I’ve learned You can’t save everyone, but you can still learn for the better. God bless you.

    • @the_fallen_angel8463
      @the_fallen_angel8463 8 місяців тому +2

      I fell that man

    • @NE-sb6ys
      @NE-sb6ys 8 місяців тому +3

      You are not alone ❤

    • @yekster1382
      @yekster1382 8 місяців тому

      @@NE-sb6ys I feel that I am

    • @juansjr
      @juansjr 8 місяців тому +1

      I do not understand your pain. I have both my parents. What I can say is, you are not alone. See how a stranger just reaches out. Stay strong, head high. It will not be easy but you can do it. I am sure your father would tell you the same.

  • @Wolfsta
    @Wolfsta Рік тому +888

    "We didn't realize we were making memories, we were just having fun."

    • @SizeMattersCatfishing
      @SizeMattersCatfishing Рік тому +7

      That’s a tough bar. Life is short! Live happy!!

    • @ThunderBullet-lw1xl
      @ThunderBullet-lw1xl Рік тому +4

      ​@@SizeMattersCatfishinglife is so short, here it's just the beginning, your real life is in the hereafter, so get ready and build for your real life

    • @pedromateo7970
      @pedromateo7970 Рік тому +1

      Bxjg

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta Рік тому +2

      @@SizeMattersCatfishing amen to that 🙏

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta Рік тому

      @@pedromateo7970 🙏

  • @MuddyFarmer75
    @MuddyFarmer75 Рік тому +124

    As a man that almost ended it all last year thank you for this song says so much what goes on in our head

    • @dustinholmes353
      @dustinholmes353 Рік тому +6

      Glad you’re still here brother ❤️

    • @ErinGambucci-u5i
      @ErinGambucci-u5i Рік тому +4

      Happy you’re here with us still ❤

    • @maldetete431
      @maldetete431 7 місяців тому +1

      Been where you were. I'm glad you're still here, brother.

    • @kiddomoods
      @kiddomoods 7 місяців тому

      ... and your hearts. ❤

    • @jenniferrisolvato6863
      @jenniferrisolvato6863 7 місяців тому

      @muddyfarmer
      Hallelujah I’m so glad you’re still here. You’re meant for a greater purpose. We all are we’re all beautiful.

  • @bl1506
    @bl1506 10 місяців тому +186

    To everyone reading here, I pray that God restore everything you lost and the pain you went through this year. Dont give up or lose hope. The devil is a liar. 2024 is your comeback season. May you be blessed and divinely protected ❤

    • @Farm_Boy77
      @Farm_Boy77 9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you

    • @jessehatfield1184
      @jessehatfield1184 9 місяців тому

      Yes!! Praise God for his beautiful creation. He is all around us. I was blind all of my life before God.

    • @subratachowdhury1285
      @subratachowdhury1285 8 місяців тому

      Thanks 👍

    • @ElenaBanman
      @ElenaBanman 8 місяців тому

      This is just what I needed... I've been going through alot this past year... Thankyou so much

    • @justinfreeman6023
      @justinfreeman6023 8 місяців тому

      Thank you! Thank you, really…

  • @haviedyofficial6170
    @haviedyofficial6170 11 місяців тому +42

    "I can fix anything but me" sums up my emotions right now

    • @SantiMorales-od1np
      @SantiMorales-od1np 4 місяці тому

      Been there I do Hospice watch patients die and then family turns to greed but they see were never there for there loved one😢 you stay strong and believe in your self your a champion in my world.😅

    • @haviedyofficial6170
      @haviedyofficial6170 4 місяці тому

      @@SantiMorales-od1np really appreciate.. thanks.. situation has improved but still lost in my emotions

  • @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh
    @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh 7 місяців тому +26

    Baby you have to heal your soul. Don't keep it inside! I raised two boys that I didn't have. I gave them a Mom and plenty of love. It is ok not to be ok. It's ok to cry!! 😭 I love you son 🤗

  • @aprilnoel4826
    @aprilnoel4826 Рік тому +233

    "Where are these tears supposed to go? " That just sent tears down my cheeks .This is the most beautiful song I've heard in a very long time 💖😢..Hold those boys(Every Loved One) tight love them with all you have be that shoulder

    • @JakeBanfieldMusic
      @JakeBanfieldMusic  Рік тому +23

      Thank you🫶🏻

    • @liamjanson
      @liamjanson Рік тому +4

      We all struggle jo man or woman child son daughter mother or father we all in this boat together the true meaning of live is to be part of someone else's life too

    • @christamoore7221
      @christamoore7221 Рік тому +4

      WOW!! That's all I know too say rn for I'm speechless, frfr.
      Man it's been awhile since I've felt not only a song, but a song & EVERY SINGLE WORD IN IT, FRFR.
      I just wanna say "Thank You" for the 3:28 reminder that I'm not in this world fighting alone. Theirs so many out here in this cold world just like me. Sadly & unfortunately their so many that has it worse then I.
      To the ppl in this world, just know I am one of millions that do pray for us. I have this saying that I tell myself everyday...
      "Hold ur head up the ground is way too dirty, the sky is a much prettier view".
      If u think it may help u, ur more than welcome too it.
      May God Bless!💗

    • @desireejames6498
      @desireejames6498 Рік тому +2

      224😢

    • @ruvenianwaldeck-ym4rq
      @ruvenianwaldeck-ym4rq Рік тому +2

      ❤😢 I felt that.feels like a direct message,thank you stay blessed..this song hits very deep

  • @Therealkarathabunny
    @Therealkarathabunny 8 місяців тому +9

    "I keep trying to find that light but darkness keep darkness just keeps blinding me from what's right" thats great stuff. Thank you Praise Jesus Hallelujah 🙏❤

  • @nicolyksholm7629
    @nicolyksholm7629 Рік тому +94

    Thank you! im suffering from PTSD, Panic Attacks, Anxiety, but never shared my feelings with anyone. But after this song, i feel free. Youre saving life's. Keep on going with this music

    • @frankkkkk
      @frankkkkk Рік тому +3

      You are not alone

    • @frankkkkk
      @frankkkkk Рік тому +3

      You are not alone

    • @georgemaltchev5583
      @georgemaltchev5583 11 місяців тому +1

      Praying for you

    • @nicolyksholm7629
      @nicolyksholm7629 11 місяців тому +3

      @@georgemaltchev5583 thank you man, it means a lot. Sadly it's just getting worse day by day. But Im not giving up.

    • @reddog19d
      @reddog19d 9 місяців тому +1

      you got this bro, we are all standing beside you.

  • @jtop9115
    @jtop9115 9 місяців тому +95

    Real men cry when needed.

    • @OriOri-dn3iu
      @OriOri-dn3iu 9 місяців тому +2

      Amen.

    • @Lunnaabee
      @Lunnaabee 9 місяців тому +7

      People have emotions and feelings. Crying is okay. Crying doesn't make you weak or seem less of a man. Crying shows vulnerability, that you can be trusted, and that you can show empathy and that you care. The most human thing about us all.

    • @edwardhyde2806
      @edwardhyde2806 7 місяців тому +2

      Some men realize this way to late

    • @alejandrorangel4659
      @alejandrorangel4659 4 місяці тому +1

      I don’t really share my feelings because I don’t wanna show that I’m weak but I’ve seen men tell people in social media that it’s ok to let it out and to talk about it so I sometimes drink my depression away at night and cry my eyes out l, and trying to not cross that line where it leads me to end it all.

  • @OriOri-dn3iu
    @OriOri-dn3iu 9 місяців тому +9

    I think your vulnerability is incredible. I think youve helped millions of people across the world struggling / suffering with these same exact problems. My soul thanks yours. And i pray that you should feel better.

  • @adamjeske133
    @adamjeske133 Рік тому +78

    This song hits me hard even listening to it for the first time.
    Being a volunteer firefighter of 18 years and a 911 dispatcher of the last 6 years plus my family's military background - these industries condition us to "let it go and move on to the next" so that's what we do.
    Then recently when it is encouraged to talk things out, people don't realize how much we have held in for so long.
    I personally suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and have just buried it rather than talking about what bothers me. It is a struggle every day to just wake up and get ready for the day... but I do it because nobody else will do it for me. Men and women alike, you are not alone and it is okay to not be okay. If you ever feel any type of way, do not be afraid to reach out. If you bury it for too long, eventually it's going to destroy you from the inside out to the point everything you have buried will cause those who care to bury you.
    Let go of the pride, the stigma is over. #youhaveavoice #youmatter #youarenotalone

    • @bobthebuilder8402
      @bobthebuilder8402 11 місяців тому +1

      This speaks volumes 15 years combined. Raised 4 siblings same time

    • @MsV-g9t
      @MsV-g9t 10 місяців тому

      You ❤❤❤❤😊😊

    • @jamesoakley8125
      @jamesoakley8125 10 місяців тому

      Best comment and song both hits very hard❤ still fighting and moving 😢

    • @Anarchy-bowfishing
      @Anarchy-bowfishing 10 місяців тому +1

      Brother 15 fire fighter wild land and structure lost my grandfather uncle with in a year on my shift I was on the first truck there . In all the years I was ask if I was ok if I need to talk never did figure I had it 6 months later I lost my dad in my arms while taken care of him .had cancer bet it lost him to a lung infection . Never got over it blame my self every day I did something wrong it's my fault . PTSD from that and the lives I couldn't save .bout cost me the love of my life .we both put are life on the line and grew up that it a sign of weakness. God bless you stay safe keep the faith I'm trying to fix myself and I'm seeing it's a long road .

    • @Anarchy-bowfishing
      @Anarchy-bowfishing 10 місяців тому

      Said it all brother same place

  • @LLLigon72
    @LLLigon72 Рік тому +65

    Every once in a while, tears break the tipping point.😢 they are the antifreeze for the soul. ❤

    • @jesusisking3814
      @jesusisking3814 Рік тому +3

      For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. Jesus Christ loves you so much that He died for your sins and rose from the dead. If you repent from evil ways, believe that Jesus has paid the fine for your sins on the cross and confess Him as your Lord, you will be saved. You see, we all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, that's why Jesus Christ, fullness of Godhead bodily, lived a perfect life, fulfilled the prophecies and law, shed His Blood at the cross just so you could be forgiven, reconciled back to the Father, receive God's love, be made a new creation, whole, sanctified. It's not about religion and what good works you can do to earn salvation, it's only by grace through faith in the finished works of Jesus Christ. Read God's Word, preferably start with Gospel of John, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you, give you wisdom and revelation that way you're born again and see your life changed by the Spirit of the Most High. Much love and God bless you!

    • @diabloalford5945
      @diabloalford5945 Рік тому +1

      The more you hold in the more the breakdowns will be at random times with out you expect it

  • @ericfieber
    @ericfieber 4 місяці тому +3

    Love this because we are all going thru something and a song can summerize all your feelings. Thank you!

  • @beverlythrasher1003
    @beverlythrasher1003 9 місяців тому +6

    I always told my son that it’s okay to cry. It makes you a better man. Beautiful song and very touching. ❤️🙏

  • @mattniday278
    @mattniday278 11 місяців тому +7

    I've never cried so hard until i had to carry my grandpa and uncle just 4 months apart thanks for the song it really hits a spot i built up to keep the tears from coming

  • @mariahadams-dg7yh
    @mariahadams-dg7yh 5 місяців тому +7

    I listen to this everyday because all I feel is like I am just a person who no one wants around and this song is everything that I need in life so thanks

  • @emilytrevino4023
    @emilytrevino4023 8 місяців тому +17

    Just know that as a woman I’m praying for healing for all you men in the comments. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to feel. You are allowed to cry.
    I’m so sorry that yall had to go through so many things alone.

  • @johnathonconnolly8908
    @johnathonconnolly8908 Рік тому +25

    I'm 22 years old and just found this song and its hitting the feeling hard in life right now I feel lost and unknown of what to do

    • @faith777forever8
      @faith777forever8 Рік тому +1

      STCK UR MONEY DONT WASTE IT LMAO SEEK GOD

    • @ThunderBullet-lw1xl
      @ThunderBullet-lw1xl Рік тому

      ​@@faith777forever8most influenced short advice, but seek for the real real God, search for him in everywhere..

    • @RobDesilva
      @RobDesilva 9 місяців тому

      When you feel alone and lonely call a friend to talk to
      Hope you feel better now😢

  • @shibby551
    @shibby551 6 місяців тому +1

    Prayers to anyone going threw it.. keep fighting even when u feel like your cant..

  • @zacherymay4673
    @zacherymay4673 7 місяців тому +8

    My little brother passed away 8 months ago, he was my shoulder. I don’t know where to direct my pain and anger and I have to be here for my sons. Boys don’t cry was beat into me as a kid and now I just let it eat me alive.

    • @Daniel-w9s8k
      @Daniel-w9s8k 6 місяців тому

      I feel ya on the drilled into us.

  • @ryuhatta7008
    @ryuhatta7008 Рік тому +8

    "sometimes, I'm the one need holdin'" those lyrics/words, shouts what I've been feeling lately. Thank you for the song. I may not be able to cry, but this song already screamed for me. Thank you.

  • @Wuzzzzup87
    @Wuzzzzup87 Рік тому +11

    This song found me when i needed it the most.

  • @malachistewart4810
    @malachistewart4810 7 місяців тому +2

    I went to high school with him he’s a great guy really nice and respectful with many talents

  • @coachdee5162
    @coachdee5162 8 місяців тому +7

    Never cried in my life til my mother died at the funeral people were amazed to see that side of me i always had that strong attitude never smiling always alone nobody to call so i accepted the fact im either a loner a loser or just not happy with myself i think about my mother everyday and what hurts the most she never seen me succeed but she always stood by me right or wrong she was my best friend god bless her and everyone who got them dark days theres someone out there that cares about you live life best you can and never compare yourself to anyone .. god bless you all

  • @wxyzfn95
    @wxyzfn95 8 місяців тому +13

    My life hit a block the moment my grandpa passed away, thank you for this song, if really helped.

  • @DanwrigCooldude
    @DanwrigCooldude 8 місяців тому +6

    this song deserves more million views. where them boys at???

  • @jshuker96
    @jshuker96 29 днів тому

    one if the few things my father taught me was never be afraid of your emotions. If you keep bottling them up youll forget how to smile when something good comes around. He was no father of the year but this has always stuck with me all these year

  • @ChelsH-um1we
    @ChelsH-um1we Рік тому +6

    I'm so glad u express the importance of being ok and accepting and experiencing our feelings and and letting others express there's without judgement. Thanks great song !!

  • @ericfieber
    @ericfieber 6 місяців тому +2

    Something always comes into your life when you need it the most and thank you for your words.

  • @JoshmacRacing616
    @JoshmacRacing616 Рік тому +6

    Just got diagnosed with major depression disorder today this is one of the hardest battles iv had in a long time keep your heads up guys push through we got this.

  • @maddog4u31757
    @maddog4u31757 Рік тому +3

    Been listening to this on repeat for days..... thank you for this song

  • @user-le8do4ug8k
    @user-le8do4ug8k Рік тому +4

    You have beautiful vocals.. keep on moving forward to move others.. keep up being the amazing person you are.. you have the potential thank you for showing it

  • @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh
    @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh 7 місяців тому +2

    I love this song. And told my boys I raised it's ok to cry. My girl's I gave birth to as well. It's not a weakness! Thank you Jake for putting this message in a beautiful song. ❤ Guys it's ok to be human.❤

  • @darrenlee19
    @darrenlee19 5 місяців тому +6

    how are you? " I'm okay, I'm fine, I'm good " will always be the answers people hear... almost like we're trained to be this way... we do it for the people around us, wife/partner/better half/children/family... took me 31 years of living... lost my dad in september and kept trying to be the guy who doesn't hurt... broke down and cried on my wifes shoulder... felt like each tear took 20 lbs off my shoulders... its okay to cry men, you'll be better/stronger for doing so... we're not alone!

  • @christychaffin9178
    @christychaffin9178 8 місяців тому +2

    I absolutely love this song, I sent to my 21 year old son because he’s having a tough time right now loosing his dad unexpectedly and right behind his grandmother, so it really fit. Keep going you are amazing ❤

  • @joke5389
    @joke5389 4 місяці тому +24

    I don't know who needs to read this but whoever does, just know please know, YOU'RE NOT ALONE, AND YOU ARE WORTH SOMETHING.

  • @kandyadams3849
    @kandyadams3849 7 місяців тому

    This is an amazing song your music is absolutely out of this world I am hooked keep up the awesome work ❤

  • @DizzymonkeyYT
    @DizzymonkeyYT Рік тому +20

    Man it is sooo very awesome how you write from your heart and that voice!!!! Keep on brother!!!

    • @JakeBanfieldMusic
      @JakeBanfieldMusic  Рік тому +3

      Thank you! 🤘🏼

    • @THELASTCHAPEL
      @THELASTCHAPEL 11 місяців тому

      I don't know why I found this song but thank you for putting this out there.

  • @bradleylatter9021
    @bradleylatter9021 8 місяців тому +2

    How have i only just found this song 😭😥

  • @psawyer4090
    @psawyer4090 Рік тому +5

    Every day is such a struggle but being a single mother hit me different. My baby girl is why i fight. Thank you . Mental health is no joke.

    • @samfimo4027
      @samfimo4027 9 місяців тому +1

      May Jesus help your cause & bring healing to your body, soul & family.
      🙏🏻💙

    • @psawyer4090
      @psawyer4090 9 місяців тому

      @@samfimo4027 Thank you and God bless 🙏❤

  • @rjhayter32
    @rjhayter32 7 місяців тому +1

    god knows we are all expected to endure so much and if we can't it's because we are weak.. just lost my father this morning and people seemed like it didn't matter

  • @austinogle6667
    @austinogle6667 6 місяців тому +5

    To the men out there who act strong in public but cry behind closed doors. Don’t give up you have a meaning stay strong we’re with you ❤️🙏🏻

  • @Sketch_king125
    @Sketch_king125 5 місяців тому +2

    I consider myself lucky when it comes to people, but I still feel a hole in my soul and I can’t find the missing piece I’ll cry till I do. That’s how my mind sees it.

  • @lashandaberry
    @lashandaberry Рік тому +5

    I have been dealing with depression and anxiety for a long time now and when I hear this song it hits hard thanks for the song

  • @martyn7344
    @martyn7344 Рік тому +9

    Found this song at just the right time ❤ being unable to cry, can drive you crazy but some music helps to get a little release, and this song does just thank you

  • @ryantully3717
    @ryantully3717 Рік тому +11

    9months into my moms diagnosis of 4 types of stage 4 cancer... my dad told me I have to be the anchor and I cant show emotion as she fades. I want to break that mold while staying strong and i can't. I stumbled upon this late at night tonight, drunk on my bday eve, thank you so much for letting me cry with you..... I needed this

    • @laughandlive377
      @laughandlive377 Рік тому

      Screw your dad. Why shouldn't you cry? The world isn't going to end when you cry and you'll feel better. Your mom will feel better. Knowing she is so loved and having a cry herself bc that is awful. And awful situation for everyone that not crying won't change it. Tell your dad that just bc he only cries in his head or when he's alone, doesn't mean he is any better than you. And please cry. You, your mother him. Let it all out. Crying is like magical. Makes you feel like all those suffocating emotions aren't as suffocating anymore.

    • @shanepaul4377
      @shanepaul4377 Рік тому +1

      May God bless you and your family, I pray God puts his hand on you and hold you always. I try to be strong and never cry when my mom died, driving home on a random day at night out of the blue 5 years later and it just hit me, I cry my eyes out while driving, it's ok to cry, it's your way of dealing with the pain and hurt you going through. I hope things get better for you

    • @johnBorres-ym6os
      @johnBorres-ym6os Рік тому

      keep you head up pal

  • @pengin558
    @pengin558 Місяць тому

    This means so much to me as a mental health patient.. Society doesn't understand us... We need to get help and speak to someone

  • @simonwilliams1943
    @simonwilliams1943 Рік тому +17

    Wow, just heard this and what a beautiful heartfelt but real world song. I can relate a lot to the lyrics being a sufferer of depression and also as a man/father/spouse I know how hard it's is to show your true feelings when things get too much, but this hit home and brought a tear to my eye but now I can't stop playing it, im obsessed such an amazing voice and a beautiful song.

  • @luiscandelario4684
    @luiscandelario4684 7 місяців тому +1

    Needed this ... thank u ❤

  • @shanespetnagel5501
    @shanespetnagel5501 Рік тому +5

    July 3rd 2005, my battle SSG Brown was killed in combat while we were stationed outside Tal-Afar running ops in the Sinjar region of Iraq. Every 3rd of July is a battle for me and many others who were close to Jeremy Brown. A few years ago in Dec of 2019, my other battle SGT Papst committed suicide. He battled seizure’s induced from combat trauma. These Holidays are becoming more and more difficult to enjoy with family when your brothers who took an oath for this country and their word that they will always have your back are becoming just a memory. Needless to say, I really needed to hear this today, as the 3rd of July has just passed and my demeanor has just been shit. Thank you. I love it.

  • @odiebrooklyn6193
    @odiebrooklyn6193 9 місяців тому

    I’m tired of seen ppl go and I stay behind wishing it was me when I should be happy I’m blessed and I can’t feel it.

  • @charleswolf8472
    @charleswolf8472 Рік тому +5

    I've been listening to this song on repeat, thank you for creating a song that explains how we been feeling💔☹️

  • @travismcgarrah4513
    @travismcgarrah4513 10 місяців тому +1

    Found this song today. Thanks for the amazing composition and beautiful words. Let help those whose heads are hanging. Be kind to everyone. We never know what people are going through.

  • @LeaveMeB
    @LeaveMeB Рік тому +5

    this song gave me chills thx jake keep making unbelievable music an u have such a great voice

  • @rasaeglinaite3810
    @rasaeglinaite3810 10 місяців тому +11

    Boys are humans, everyone should learn to cry and change social norms/ mindset! Encouraging song ❤

    • @vaughnhowells8318
      @vaughnhowells8318 10 місяців тому

      AMEN... song hits me harder than nothing else.

  • @glentaylor3013
    @glentaylor3013 Рік тому +81

    As a veteran this hits home. Thanks for this song

    • @The-Night-Hauler
      @The-Night-Hauler Рік тому +4

      Thank u for ur service ❤🇺🇸

    • @killersnake1175
      @killersnake1175 Рік тому +4

      I feel u on this. I’m a veteran too

    • @littlenick616
      @littlenick616 Рік тому +4

      thank you.

    • @brettaither1768
      @brettaither1768 Рік тому +2

      Same Brother!!

    • @ErinGambucci-u5i
      @ErinGambucci-u5i Рік тому +2

      My husband is a vet and although I will never fully understand what’s he’s been thru this song helps me. I’ll always be his shoulder to cry on. Thank you for your service, friend. I appreciate you and happy you are here.

  • @colynpotter1481
    @colynpotter1481 9 місяців тому +1

    Just lost my momma 2 days after Christmas. Man I've never seen my father shed a tear. But it broke my heart seeing him in tears when she passed 💔

    • @NicholasBrookins
      @NicholasBrookins 9 місяців тому +1

      I just lost my mom two days ago and I feel a similar pain. It was a sudden death on my mom's part.

    • @colynpotter1481
      @colynpotter1481 9 місяців тому +2

      @NicholasBrookins same here. Told her goodnight and I love you the night before. Less than 12 hours later she's in a drug induced coma. 24 hours after that, gone. It sucks so much

  • @davidaustin9686
    @davidaustin9686 Рік тому +4

    Thank you . For just singing what's on your mind. I love take this pain but this is good. I struggle with alot. So just going to say I thank you.

  • @markperez478
    @markperez478 8 місяців тому +1

    Tomorrow will 23yrs since my son passed away it still hurts.thanks for this song .

  • @sonyapresley1338
    @sonyapresley1338 Рік тому +3

    Jake I'm so so proud of you your voice is amazing and your lyrics always hit home cant wait too see where this journey takes you man we Ga folks love you keep them hits coming !!

  • @skullhunter7943
    @skullhunter7943 Рік тому +1

    When I am feeling down or whatever this song here makes me cry every single time. I dont really mind it since I hardly cry at all, but I appreciate the song, wouldnt have gotten this far without it.

  • @Garcia-xt7zu
    @Garcia-xt7zu 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you so so much jake I lost my dad last week I love this song so much and we buried him yesterday and it’s been so hard this song helped me a lot thank you

  • @Rodney-lostlove
    @Rodney-lostlove 5 місяців тому +1

    I feel the pain in his words deep in my heart never live with everyday!

  • @EloiseTardif
    @EloiseTardif Рік тому +10

    This song is one of the most beautiful and meaningful I’ve heard. The message and the lyrics make me tear up every time… thank you for this underrated masterpiece 🫶

  • @trentongreen5133
    @trentongreen5133 2 місяці тому

    This songs just hits me right in the heart because of how true it is. Boys are expected to keep their feelings in and every time we try to show it we get called weak.

  • @terriwilliamson496
    @terriwilliamson496 7 місяців тому +8

    Even Jesus wept. Be strong in the Lord and the power of His might.

  • @leewhiston1469
    @leewhiston1469 11 місяців тому +2

    Love this song, lately ive been going through a rough patch in life and this song has gotten me through some hard situations

  • @jasonhopkins8583
    @jasonhopkins8583 Рік тому +5

    Bro this song makes me genuinely happy to know I'm not alone your amazing for this song man keep on keepin on

  • @Rodney-lostlove
    @Rodney-lostlove 5 місяців тому

    I really feel so many of his songs and lyrics deep in my HEART!

  • @thewright9392
    @thewright9392 Рік тому +3

    I love your music and it hits so hard for me, thanks for writing this. Immediate tears for me

  • @lowlifehooligan
    @lowlifehooligan Місяць тому

    I’ve been listening to your song on repeat cause for me it’s so true and I’m broken and try to be a good dad and husband but feel like I’m failing. Thank you for this song

  • @thomasedwards6731
    @thomasedwards6731 11 місяців тому +8

    Man just found you and instantly a fan. Been listening all morning… I’ve struggled with anxiety and mild depression since august of 2020 and I got tired of no one understanding or caring so I just hold it in… I use the gym, lifting, working long hours, and house projects to keep my mind off it. Some days I wonder if I even belong here. Thanks for reminding me I do. Much love brother.

    • @MrBluey101
      @MrBluey101 11 місяців тому

      I am in the same boat its the best therapy I have alot going on in my life and no one wants to sit down and talk about it so I use work and gym to help me I here if u need to talk

  • @allanmacek4413
    @allanmacek4413 Рік тому +14

    Sing brother with your heart & soul! Great song ! ❤️🔥❤️

  • @stewiie.10
    @stewiie.10 Рік тому +1

    Just discovered this song and it hits home very hard
    I'm 26 years and these last years had been really tough

    • @shane_fl
      @shane_fl 11 місяців тому

      26 here too. Just lost my dad last year and man this hits close to home.

  • @bryonstavens3906
    @bryonstavens3906 Рік тому +3

    I really appreciate you putting the lyrics in the description area. It helps me listen and understand the song the first time I listen to it.

  • @michaelemmanuel257
    @michaelemmanuel257 Місяць тому

    Only God knows our pains let's all put our fear, pains unto Him

  • @MeatyDraco
    @MeatyDraco 5 місяців тому +377

    I just left my wife, shes been cheating on me for the last year with 7 dudes that i know of. These last 2 weeks are so hard because everything i had i lost. I have nothing at all anymore. I have nobody, I have nothing, ill never be nothing but yet for some damn reason im still here. Especially when everyday it would be so much easier to not be anymore. Life sucks. Getting crushed is something else.

    • @carlosalvaro2677
      @carlosalvaro2677 4 місяці тому +24

      Sorry about that man we gon' get out of this one i put that on God💯

    • @oyinladetitililpe3794
      @oyinladetitililpe3794 4 місяці тому +10

      Sorry about that brother

    • @JakobRadtke
      @JakobRadtke 4 місяці тому +10

      Damn I hope everything gets better bro

    • @MeatyDraco
      @MeatyDraco 4 місяці тому +25

      Thank you all for the support you shown me. It means a lot to know at least I'm not alone. It's hard but I still wake up and try desperately to do something I find some joy in. Life's not the same, feels like I'm learning how to walk again.

    • @meredithannhansen4094
      @meredithannhansen4094 4 місяці тому +14

      My heart. Is crying for ya. Been on otherwise. I lost everything. 25years ago. Now my baby has been taken from me. She was 29 with 3 young babies. I feel all your pain. Keep your head up. Don't let the looser win. Keep head heald high.😢😂

  • @mattsteele4054
    @mattsteele4054 Рік тому +2

    True I can fix anything just give me time but it seems like I can never fix myself

  • @The_Sqautch5393
    @The_Sqautch5393 Рік тому +13

    This song hits home!! Really glad I came across this and definitely will be sharing this!!

  • @austinglaser6712
    @austinglaser6712 Рік тому +2

    Amazing song hits deep don't be afraid to show your feelings everyone cries doesn't make us weak show we are human.

  • @patsyporter1777
    @patsyporter1777 5 місяців тому +2

    Say it loud and proud.
    God made you with feelings... So Feel Them.
    Thats really what strength is!

  • @everlee2019
    @everlee2019 Рік тому +3

    This song is exactly what I needed to hear.I can really relate to this song.Beautiful❤

  • @MarkEadie-mf1hz
    @MarkEadie-mf1hz 5 місяців тому

    Going through these thoughts daily this song hits home

  • @riodinero9083
    @riodinero9083 Місяць тому +3

    Matthew 5:4: “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted

  • @BhishanRaiOfficial
    @BhishanRaiOfficial Рік тому

    Where is these tears supposed to go…… Just took me to another dimension of thoughts ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cheyennejohnson5638
    @cheyennejohnson5638 Рік тому +6

    This song should have been written DECADES ago but I am grateful that it's out there now

  • @ScottReay-f2u
    @ScottReay-f2u Рік тому +1

    This song helped me explain my feelings today with 1st fathers day with out the man himself and no parents struggle show emotions with adhd and stuff thanks made today easier

  • @coversongs254
    @coversongs254 Рік тому +5

    No song has ever described what I'm going through like this song... I feel like I'm on my last run but no one to reach out to or talk to.
    If this is my last , anyone reading this please follow up on your friends

    • @laughandlive377
      @laughandlive377 Рік тому

      You don't have friends? Why don't you tell them what's making you sad and ask for hugs?

  • @mattynz666
    @mattynz666 4 місяці тому

    i didn’t look this song up it just poped up and it’s what i needed

  • @aleeee.
    @aleeee. Рік тому +15

    Jake thank you so much for making music.✨
    Ever since I heard your beautiful song Drowning In Your Love, I fell in love with your beautiful voice. Remember that you are very appreciated, and that we love your music. We will always be supporting you. 💐❤️

  • @Dusk9495
    @Dusk9495 11 місяців тому +2

    Boy's don't cry
    Real men do
    It takes a man to not be afraid to show your true emotions, and let it out

  • @JoshuaWedge-b1r
    @JoshuaWedge-b1r Рік тому +5

    Thank you for the AMAZING song. I just broke. I’ve never felt closer to a song. I’ve held it in for so long. Definitely my #1 go to

  • @zackgilbert1985
    @zackgilbert1985 23 дні тому +1

    I lost my 2 month old son and that killed every fiber in my being and I'll never be the same again..

    • @mareksevcik4756
      @mareksevcik4756 21 день тому

      As a father of two months old baby girl i can't imagine the pain you are going trough. Your loss set me in tears. I hope you will stay strong for him to see you be the man he could be one day. My prayers are with you and your family!

  • @Rainbow16845
    @Rainbow16845 Рік тому +16

    Aww this song hits a deep place because ever since my bf and I lost our first dog this gets us really emotional! This is a absolute beautiful song thank you!! 😊❤❤

  • @ryanlalande4014
    @ryanlalande4014 6 місяців тому

    this song really got to my heart thank you jake we need more artists like this in these days. i truely feel you artists help keep us fighting another day. music is magic both beautiful and evil. i wish you the best jake and will follow you.

  • @DaleMcCallum-w2r
    @DaleMcCallum-w2r Рік тому +4

    Its the first time hearing this song it made me cry honestly everything is so true in every aspect

  • @Ccruzze
    @Ccruzze 11 місяців тому

    You inspire
    You men are not always brought up to address your feelings it's a sadness that you poor fellas go thru life that way PLEASE... when your a dad or if you are Start the knew and need to feel it's ok it's important ..
    Amazing you are Young man..