What Makes a REAL Man? 5 Shocking Features Women REALLY WANT in Men! Part 6
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- THESE Shocking Features are What a Woman REALLY WANTS in a Man! 😍... This dating advice video will share some shocking features concerning what a woman really wants in a man. You may want to know what women want in men on first dates, online dating, or even somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to the dating tips that I share and be sure to watch the entire video.
Don't think that the qualities that women love in men are only beneficial in dating. You will benefit your life by developing the traits that women want in men that I will reveal in this video. It would be best to understand women better and this advice for men will help you identify what a woman really wants in a man.
I want you to know what women want, and therefore, in this dating advice, I will share some shocking features that women really want in men. Be sure to embrace this dating advice to learn what women need and the qualities high-value women want in a man to leave them wanting more.
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Hey Anna, I wanted to thank you for your videos and also promote you for a bit because you deserve it. I had and still have symptoms of Nice guy syndrome. I started a quest to better understand women and you videos helped me a lot (although I admit I still have moments when I can't follow your advices because my subconscious sabotages me). I watched also other videos from other people and as a psychologist (at least theoretical one, I don't practice it) I can say that yours are among the best. I bought the Wake up to love program and started it, I have confidence it will help me. I encourage other people to buy it if they really want a change in their lives. All my love
Your comment is the best Christmas present ever! I appreciate the validation but even more so I'm so happy my videos (and soon my WakeUP2Luv program) are making a positive difference in your life! *That truly makes me happiest!* 💗
p.s. WakeUP2Luv info!! lol members.wingmam.com/get-women/
@@YourWingmam FYI. When you click on this link you get a warning notice that the site unsafe.
@@mikehess4494 I had no issue. Went right to it and opened up.
Dude pardon moi! I'm gonna be real. If you couldn't follow, psychologists, or do what you read or watch...simply put! You have your cart before your horses...You are either untrue to yourself about your willingness to change or you know what you're doing. Meaning: That you have a plan, but just gaming...pardon my seemly abrasive straightforwardness...but Guardians of the Ark can see & speak and never do dusty. Ciao! And goodluck to you & the ladies you encounter.
1. Communicates
2. Resourcefulness
3. Strength
4. Vulnerability
5. Seduction Skills
Lol the vulnerability Is BS. You cant pass sht tests and be vulnerable. Any weakness you have your woman will exploit. Period. Thats why the sht tests never end fellas. I tried being vulnerable aka honest and it always makes them look down at you. I tried twice in serious relationships and it made things worse not better. Women dont know what they want, they only know how they feel aka want in THAT MOMENT.
Sounds like a lot of effort ,,😉👍
@@randysavage1 basic summary of her points hahah🤘
Ill give it a miss. The above = sucker.
All you need is alot of 💰
I think men should stop thinking about what woman want. Instead men should start thinking about what he wants.
yup , cause you arent going to make a woman happy -- EVER -- . if you try to , shes just going to contemplate how valuable her snot pocket would be on the open market . take it from an old man -- its just youre turn .
@@searcymasonry gotta dit h narcissists a lot quicker. Relationships don't work out if you don't consider the other person's needs..
Yep and that gets a woman wet by itself.
Exactly 💯
I agree I'm tired of this the man does everything stereotype oh I'm a woman take care of me f*** you 😂
No amount
of looks/wealth/status/game
or any of the qualities listed
is enough to MAKE a woman
live up to her vows
HER HAPPINESS IS
HER OWN JOB
just as the man is wise
to not demand she make
him happy
When both are willing
and actively looking
for the good then
the relationship
has a chance
Truth!
💯 If you have to demand ask or work for, happiness in your relationship, you're with the wrong person. It should be freely given by both.
@@greezythumb you always need to work at relationships..what are you talking about?
@@dana102083 I work with a lady her husband blew his brains out. No one can make you happy is what he is saying
@@dana102083 I think he's referring to a one sided issue. If the man has to do all the work carrying the relationship, always trying to make her happy when the women is putting I'm zero effort on her end then theres no relationship. That's the point he's trying to make!
I recently lost my partner to cancer. She was the love of my life. I put all my feelings of sadness and loss on facebook in a very open and honest manner.
The response from the women who know me was astonishing. They congratulated me on my emotional outpourings and honesty saying how rare it was to see a man letting his feelings out.
For me it was just my way of saying how much I loved and missed her.
The love and support I felt was truly exceptional. Also from men who had been there too.
My advice - let it out and show your feelings.
Not had one single negative comment.
Lovely video!
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Showing a women your focused on your career and improving yourself and willing to say “ I’m busy” is attractive. Great advice. Thanks!
Indeed! Thank you so much!
so does knowing the difference between "your" and "you're".
@@SomeTechGuy666 And "a woman" and "women".
Improving yourself includes spelling. Like you're and not your.
Sharing my feelings has always been a Big mistake !!!
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️
I think a lot has to do with HOW you share them. Women love mystery and uncertainty. Giving her certainty is the kiss of death. Since actions speak louder than words, show your feelings, rather than speak about them. Most women will notice what you do, but because there’s few to no spoken feelings, she has mental room to wonder.
She wasn't a high value woman.
You didn't read between the lines. Communicating with a woman is listening.
If you lost your assertiveness, it isn't always a hormone issue. It can be from stress and anxiety from horrible situations where a man just gives up and can no longer handle what's happening.
Yes, Greg. I was so emotionally beaten down in early life that it drained the life out of me. The mind-body connection is very strong, and the influence can take a toll going in either direction. Adrenal fatigue is a prominent result of mental stress. I do suspect, though, that testosterone also falls, so even though passivity is not one's goal, it's an indirect physical consequence.
In that case it's time to bail out and start your life out on doing you and quit doing for her. You can buy all kinds of toys, trucks, quads, boats, 5th wheel RVs ect... hell just rent an escort for a night or 2 just get your jolly's off then hit the grind again. Why waist all that energy into a relationship having to play 24/7 detective and looking over your shoulders all the time!
@@theclown2393 If it is the relationship causing it, I agree. But other garbage in a man's life can cause this as well.
Guess what friend:. THAT'S A HORMONE ISSUE. Our body works on a feedback loop. When you lose a game or competition or get fired etc no matter your age, your testosterone drops and cortisol rises. This increases stress further and is recursive. Stress impact other hormones too like metabolic etc ones. Go on long enough and it'll rewire your brain aka depression, shrunken amygdala etc. It's always a hormone issue. As for giving up....well that's the point...nature hates weakness your editing your non resilient genes right outta the pool. Toughen up buttercup or talk to one of your brothers, go to the gym, eat better, meditate...can't afford gym go for walks or runs, lift pails of water...anything to manage stress keep healthy and get yourself out of that shit spiral. Been there done that a few times and I'm only 42. You'll be fine if you let yourself have a chance, not give up, and be a man. Being one is about not giving up, we shape reality.
What men really want is a woman like you! Smart, sexy, beautiful and entertaining, I’m sick of women who just sit there and do nothing(can’t hold a conversation).
A lovely compliment though I assure you I'm also flawed! :)
Several years ago I opened up to my then girlfriend about something that was holding me back. Her response: "What are you, a whipped dog?" Men, whatever you do don't EVER show vulnerability to a woman. From that day on they'll totally DISRESPECT you.
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
True. Never show vulnerability.
Dude, she may have been your girl, but she was definitely not your friend. The right woman will accept your vulnerability if you show it in the right time and place.
Yeah she doesn't sound like she understood whatever it is you had to say. Sounds more like a buddy than a lover.
Samson probably wished he hadn't told Delilah all of his secrets
Thank you for helping men and women in our world to find each other!
In a normal world all these traits would work!
These are not normal times!
A lot of lonely 😞 stressed, economic infighting, dealing with school debt, and last but not least eviction notices!
These are just some of the issues men and women have to deal with!
Even with all the traits that are you could have we all have mountains to climb!
This is true. The one consolation is everyone is in the same boat. You can only do what you can do and she only has so many options. Just focus on you and doing your best *for you.* Action not outcome.
Gentlemen, In Other Words... It's ALWAYS Costing Men For Intimacy No Matter If It's a Strip Club, a Sugar baby or a Wife.....
Intimacy Is The Man's Reward For Giving Females Things Ranging From Gifts, Cash, Dinner or Free/Discounted Housing.... It's Nature....
Intimacy Is the MOST Valuable Thing Females Typically Can Offer Men..... Especially Men who are 45 & Older As a Man's Valuable Skyrockets In Their Older Years As They Become More Confident & Established.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
In order to get what you want in a relationship , always remember what you put out is what you will get.
I've said it before when women play games or s*** test a man what it's really telling a man is that she's a waste of his time because nobody wants to women want to be with someone who plays games .
If a man is too nice, she may test him more or not respect him, so it's not always about what you put in you get back. Men and women are different. Frustrating, I know! More on shit tests here: ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkFVeRMpvW3s3SC3Vgu7I1d.html
Caveat: only when the person is mentally healthy!
Anna, Your videos are a huge help and I thank you for doing them. Your advice has made a big difference in my life. I have learned a great deal about relationships and myself and I feel better prepared when I interact with women personally or professionally. I also want to tell you how much I love your facial expressions. You are so very entertaining and I'm sure the guys who date you love spending time with you! Simply Priceless! Please Keep Doing What You Do. You're Amazing!
What a wonderful compliment all around! Made my day, thank you!
At first, I thought, "Here we go, another dating coach from Canada." But I like gingers and thought the "Wingmam" handle was kind of clever. So far your videos have been pretty insightful and with a good sense of humor. That latter item is what the vast majority of women lack these days, the ability to make a man laugh. But it's probably one of the most important. And I like gingers.
Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback ❤
Anna, this is probably the best video yet. You are correct its tough for a man to express his feelings.
I just found this channel yesterday. Your videos have a completely different vibe than most other "dating advice" channels. Really feels like a course on relationships and mindset training in general. A life-class if you will
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and welcome aboard 🙏 ❤
Looking forward to this one Anna! I'm on pacific time as well so I'll make sure to catch it tomorrow afternoon! 😁
I should just blurt out "I'm a millionaire" immediately because I never get a chance to talk to the ones I am attracted to since they don't give me the time of day. Basically I just get a cold "hi" before they turn away.
are u a millionare tho?
Millionaire isn't much these days. If you are a skinny fat beta w 1m no-one cares
Great stuff AJ.
Glad you said that about men tearing up over emotional things as my ex would always call me out on being oversensitive (she was as cold as a fish ... from Alaska). I've heard it over and over from (female) dating coaches that if I can show vulnerability along with some strength and how I've overcome my weaknesses then this can come across as very attractive. I now remember how one very attractive woman responded and then spent the next 6 months following me around. (I was too green to capitalise on ti but I now better now ...)
Yes! I can relate to all though's topics; "case in point", I invited a woman over for a nice romantic evening, soft lighting, red wine, the works. Unfortunately she arrived upset regarding a heated argument that we had "two years ago", I won't go into the particulars, but! I quickly realized it was stress due to the demands of her job. So! I sat her down and slowly calmed the situation and was able to regain control by getting her relaxed and diverting the subject to other topics of interest designed to lighten the mood, and yes!!! it worked, the rest of the evening was very enjoyable.
First-hand validation! Awesome and high five!!
Anna, another great video. Thanks! I really enjoy your videos. Very true statement about men not "getting the subtle messages" very well... we don't seem to be able to 'use the Force' much at all. We need obvious messaging. And yes, protecting your significant other from the stresses of life is a BIG THING nowadays. My wife thrives on my ability to shield her from the ugliness out there. I use my alchemy to keep out the "demons" and she polishes my armor and provides me with encouragement (spiritually and physically) and most importantly, with respect. A good trade-off, indeed. As a side note: you have the most beautiful hair I have ever seen on a woman. Gorgeous. Please dont ever cut that off! Men everywhere will suffer if you do.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Hi Anna, I appreciate you and your "decoding" capabilities and then providing me/we/men a translated format for understanding. I seem to understand certain Canadian women well. Between you and Julia Kristina( also in Vancouver) I have learned more than I thought possible. I am thankful and grateful for you and the skills/wisdom you possess.
LOL love your pauses between thoughts and absolute honest information.
Great to see a woman in her feminine :)
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Me and my gf were together for several years. There were times when we were in a public place and a lady might say something to me. After we moved on, my gf would say, she was flirting with you. I would say, no she wasn't. My gf would say, I'm a woman, she was flirting with you. Lol. If the woman was flirting, it went right over my head. Do women flirt with a guy if the man is with a woman?
While these traits are no longer SHOCKING! It's still amazing to hear it from a lady like you Anna.
I appreciate that! And glad they’re no longer shocking lol
@@YourWingmam I am glad too Anna, because I said something that made you LOL. Does it seem like this 😂?
I've recently found your channel, and I have to say I do agree with most of the percentage of your stream of thought. There are in every video a couple of points though which you either do not get right or you get partially right, on certain specific matters, in regards to the male character and personality. An example of this, in the above video, is the fact that you consider as factual condition that all men consider expressing their feelings, desires, tenderness, or a tear in the corner of their eye as vulnerability and that is a condition that hurts their masculinity. Those males that think as such, are not men, they are adolescent boys that were brought up in the wrong way, and nothing more. Each and every person feels. The healthy way, is for one to be able to embrace and fully accept one's own emotions, and become able to express them. The difference on this lies in the aspect of reality that for a male it takes a good amount of strength to do so, as it fights and contradicts the so called macho male stereotype, which is actually one that contains many faults and wrong doings, that need to be corrected. Any man should express his emotions in the way it feels right to him, at the time it feels right to him, regardless and in no relevance and or connection whatsoever to whether this becomes attractive to women or not, or whether it should be used as such or not. In general , through your channel, I see a woman who sees and thinks on things as they are, who prefers the factual truth than an alternate narcissistic reality, which is what many women are all about. Good looks, and a healthy, non narcissistic, ethical personality, a killer combo for a woman. Keep up the good work, and stay safe.
Women say they want to communicate then won't talk to you for days on end - whilst they have a conversation with you inside their head that you are not even a part of
What are women looking to offer men?
Like, what is he supposed to be looking for in her, that's acceptable; instead of just what he should become to please her. What does she want to change about herself; for him?
Women often seem to want whatever they don't have right now. If she has the guy she wanted, she starts wondering what else there is. If she doesn't have the guy she wants, she'll want him more--but she doesn't want to be judged; she only wants to judge others. It's not seeming like an even give/take.
I'm not looking for a relationship that's like a 2nd job, I'm looking for a friend who wants to be my friend too.
I'm not going to leave her a to-do list of duties to accomplish, around the house. I'd expect the same respect in return.
You might appreciate this article I wrote for women: wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/
@@YourWingmam I don't want to be rude, but I didn't like it.. It's telling women they need to be more feminine? I don't need that. I want her to be HER! I don't see women often saying "No, I'm not feminine; let me change the tires today." The issue is women are wanting a man to do as he's told/expected, until she decides he shouldn't need to be told, he should just do as she thinks. That's an unhealthy mindset. Or she wants him to take a silent hint AND ask for verbal consent.. Are we being verbal or not? They want two separate sets of rules for women and men.. It's not equal at all.. It's not based on a standard of communication, its based on "however she feels, whenever she decides" I'm not playing by rules that change whenever she says so... Here--- Your article says: ""We want men to be honest, but when they’re honest and tell us exactly how to be more beautiful and feminine in their eyes, we punish them. That’s messed up, ladies"" Punishing anyone ever is messed the F up!! Why is punishing someone for anything seen as suddenly okay?! But it's not the only messed up part. The real messed up part is women asking men to be verbally honest, while they themselves refuse to communicate verbally.. They won't be transparent & honest and they act like it's men who won't.. They are asking us to show all our cards so our hearts can be manipulated easily... We are joining up with a partner who is engaging in covert combat against us, for self preservation. If men and women both act the way women are acting, women would quickly have a very difficult world.. And mothers won't let go of their sons and be wives again to their husband's. They want him to be her baby forever. We aren't. When we become a real man, we'd not be anyone's little baby ever again! Let GO!! Stop invading our privacy women, and start minding your own business! Don't try to figure me out... You figure YOU out! Don't control me..Control your emotions, your commitment (you aren't committed if u always consider leaving) and control Your own happiness! And when you choose to be with someone, stop shopping around or accepting/considering other's offers.. Stop craving male sexual attention after you're married. Value marriage if you want men to do it; why don't women?! Stop it. Respect YOUR marriage the way it should be treated. Marriage isn't a fun ride at the fair; that men have to make safe and exciting. It's a committed partnership through life. Stop treating it like a 3 week vacation. Imagine I leave my wife a to-do list of chores she should do around the house?! That's misogynistic. But when she wants the sink fixed, she tells me to do it. And she just doesn't get to anymore. We don't want her to be more feminine. We want her to stop saying what we should be. She doesn't have to cook or clean or wash clothes... And we get to do as we please too!! And if that's not okay, go change the tires! becaue Men just spent 50 years making sure we could cook and clean etc.. So if we are still being told what to do, women have to STOP doing that.. She can't say "I'm free and I don't have to be a proper lady..but you be a gentleman still! and do as I say!" Freedom is a two way street... Let's both leave each other alone. If you don't want to tell me every single thing on your mind in a verbal sentence using words; don't ask me to do that for you either! Stop trying to figure me out, and just let me be me. And stop lying to us! I don't want you to admit to lying, just stop doing it. Its twisted..
@@YourWingmam Just listen. You know that quote that says "Don't lie to her because she probably already knows the truth and she is just testing you to see if you'll lie" ...Why does she act so above others that she is permitted to test others? Let me explain. It's not testing.. It's lying!
She is lying to him, pretending she doesn't know something, and asking him about it. She's lying to his face, expecting pure, total honesty from him. She excuses herself from the rules she puts on others.
@@YourWingmam Also.. The quote "Someone you've known for 3 weeks could have better intentions than someone you've known 3 years" Is a stupid quote that is being used to end relationships.. Check it out..This is just as true! "Someone you've know for 3 years could have better intentions for you than someone you've known for 3 weeks"
It's playing with words to convince yourself of something.. When you have the words "might" or "could" in a quote, the opposite is usually just as true, making the quote a complete garbage justification for poor behavior
Perfect delivery to a great message. Million thanks Ana
Thank *you* for watching!
I love your talks 🌼💖 your really beautiful and your compassion in creating these guidance sessions is such a gift.. 💐 thank you and lovely Christmas Season
I want to thank you for sharing positive attributes about your ex husband. I truly appreciate and enjoy seeing women speak good about their past men…makes me wonder why they split, but regardless it’s great to hear positives. Thanks again!
Thank you for that! Sometimes people are simply not right for each other. Remember, attraction/chemistry does not equal compatibility. He’s a good man and with the right woman for him now and I’m happy for him!
@@YourWingmam you’re welcome. You are one of the good ones.
It's very "average based" ..not all women act/are the same. I've just dated a girl who will not open up verbally about her emotions; wants me to "listen to the words she doesn't say".. I want her to say the words she wants me to listen to! Like having a cat that doesn't like you very much but is first gonna check out the house and food supply, before heading over to the neighbors house to she if she'd rather live there. And this is a wonderful lady; just looking out for herself and not worried about love.. Love is readily available from anywhere. It's not special anymore.. Be successful, deal with your insides; put yourself first and then she'll want you to include her--right when you don't need or want anyone; thats when she'll come along and want to be wanted.. It's actually very rude and ignorant.. She's not considering you or being self-aware; so she can't see her faults. She can only point out all of your faults and blame you for everything.. A lot of ladies are looking for a script/storyline to live and tell others about---good or bad. Just don't let her in. That's the trick. Get a journal if you need to talk. but do not let her in deeply. She'll not want you, if she sees your weaknesses..
Patterns you see-- as the variable in your life is you. Physicality is available everywhere, but not intimacy or love. Disagree.
if you only knew the conversation between your enchanting eyes and myself...💥💥...Your mannerisms and I got to admit..Your beauty gets me every time...
Oh my! Thank you and LOL ;)
Anna, Anna, Anna, thank you, for continuing to produce productive information, to the men that need it. 👍🏽
Happy to help!
What do women want?
_Something else. And more of it._
Never take advice from a brawd gentleman. This is more than likely her short list. It’s always our fault, not doing enough, or your doing to much.(never good enough)
"Ghost" jerked the tears right out of me.
I've never gotten much useful feedback when asking women what else can I do to make our sex better. "Just keep doing what you're doing" is the typical feedback.
And women NEVER ask men that,... of course if you are already telling them...it usually works out.
Ghost was a good one for sure! Sometimes a tender-hearted woman may not want to ask for what she wants in the moment because she won't want to hurt a man's feelings. This is certainly one area men are sensitive to criticism. In which case, either you're doing it right or you can ask her another time. Bonus tip (#justhetip): Ask her after dinner when you're just chillin' on the couch. The convo might lead to more! ;)
Really enjoyed your use of tonality especially with your attire. Visual and auditory stimulation (check)
I don’t consider myself high value, just a great guy who is honest and open. LOVE communication in the bedroom and usually ask for tips after we had some fun and then practice what she’s telling me with almost always leads to round 2.
This way she knows I’m confident and took control in the first part but open to learn what she already knows about herself to make it even better. Sex Ed that we all need but don’t get in school. lol
You can be tough, strong, stoic, resourceful as hell. If she's not strong enough to stand on her own, eventually you will be worn down and you will be weak. It may take a long time, but it's only a matter of time.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Working out, washing dishes, cleaning house, feeding them nice meal, taking command of the romantic moments
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Same thing a man wants respect real happiness love peace Joy Trust and a lot more to build patience understanding man and woman of each other's feelings thank you Anna let's see how this plays out🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
High value is high competition, very true indeed.
Wow, you had me at "These shocking features are some of the traits that you actually respect in other men!" I'd come to believe there was no crossover at all. Because so often taking charge and acting dominant as if your time is precious, being unpredictable, more into sex appeal than friendship and acting blithely as if "I am the prize" just pisses other guys off, and for good reason... yet they're the things we're always told we have to do not to get friendzoned with a girl.
Wonderful comment! It's a fine balance. The irony is most of us (the emotionally healthy, at least) appreciate a man who can show the other "less masculine" side as long as it's not about insecurity, neediness or dependancy. Being able to shed a tear of compassion takes a lot more courage than acting bravado. :)
@@heathjoints9845 Yeah, that endlessly regurgitated platitude doesn't work at several levels, starting with the fact a fish doesn't want to be caught. Also some random chick's advice may be self-serving but this professional coach and author's advice is not. Finally, what are you doing on this video at all if that's your attitude?
her features for the guys that dont want to listen to the whole blather:
1. communicates... cause money talks right?
2. Sharing... like your checking account and credit cards right?
3. resourcefulness....you can bring in money even when the chips are down, cause my spring wardrobe aint gunna pay for its self.
be a problem solver...with money!
4. protect her from the stresses of life...with your money!
5. inner strength...by making money when lifes hard to support her lifestyle.
6. dont be emotional, be stoic by focusing on money. she needs to lean on your financial strength.
7. vulnerability (the big shocker) must be strong but remain vulnerable..to your wallets incursions.
8. its a turn on when you take care of her babys daddys children for him. nothing makes her wetter than another man releasing her of accountability for her kids. thats your job now.
9. ask her how to pleasure her in bed. not that she'll care to do the same. while youre down there massage her feet although youre the one whos spent 12 hours working a construction job while she sat on the couch all day.
10. If you dont do chores around the house after a hard days work your making her dry up and retreat sexually from you.
these are the feature women want in high value men. this is the simp...i mean unicorn she is looking for. until she finds a guy with more social status and money.
Thanks bro f 👊🏾
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Ha!! lol That's funny. Did you see my 33secrets review video on She Doesn't Care About You? I talk about levelling up and why some PUAs don't keep a keeper: ua-cam.com/video/1l47Sy6-UG0/v-deo.html
@@YourWingmam you really want me to troll that video too?
Always good thanks !! Enjoy the rest of your week..
Thank you, you too!
Interesting video. I knew some of them, especially being vulnerable. The big problem I have is I get attracted to a lady, and before something happens, she literally disappears. Or she shrugs me off because of some minor detail (I am not fond on speaking in front of a crowd because of a minor speech impediment I have from a bout of Bell's Palsy a few years ago. Did not want to hear about it. She just called me shy.). I usually shrug it off, but it has happened so many times in the last few years, self doubt took over. Working on overcoming it...
Do you have an excellent opportunity to use your speech in pediment as a gift. If you can overcome your self-doubt, the evidence of your impediment will only add to your value! It’s a proof of confidence, courage, risk-taking and so much more. Use it to your advantage. You got this!
Thanks for the interesting advice, Anna. Some of it was a surprize. I thought showing vulnerability was something to hide. I cried while watching the movie, Gorillas In The Mist, and strangely when someone does a good performance in a Pop Idol audition. In my mind, I am thinking they have a great future ahead.
I helped a rock group record an album, when I heard it the first time, I felt emotional coz it was so good. I try to hide this. I did not realize it could be attractive to a lady.
Hooray for the cat!! Hooray for you, Anna!!
I'm so glad you now know having a heart and being touched by compassion or appreciation are good things! :))
Money, status, and power.
Hypergamy: ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnobFLTqyn-6WZ48pNAZZwp.html
@@YourWingmam That's what I said.
Looking beautiful as always Anna 💕💕💕 Very informative as always, thank you 💖
Thank you so much for the compliment and for watching!
I want to pull you up on one point. Yes society values strong men who don't show emotions and it is better for relationships but not all men who are going through a rough time are doing so because of hormonal imbalance. Sometimes it is due to other factors such as what has happened in their life. E.g. I am going through a bitter divorce and got out of an abusive marriage. My son and I both suffered. She is facing the criminal courts. It still hits me hard when I think about what my 4 year old son endured. He has revealed a lot of what happened to him when he was left alone in her care. So it really depends on the man's situation. Still, I don't show that to my new partner. I manage it behind closed doors e.g. if I need to cry I'll step out or away if it is really bothering me. I don't let her see too much of that. But she is very loving and understanding having left an abusive marriage herself.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Conditional Vulnerability?
I don't think that's how vulnerability works.
Does she expect to be accepted for her vulnerability while having instability, insecurity, neediness or dependancy?
If you want someone to be vulnerable, but you won't accept them for who they really are unless they hold certain qualities; It's asking for conditional vulnerability.
"Be vulnerable after you overcome your vulnerability; and don't ask me to be vulnerable" ??
Its just another way of saying, accept me for my weaknesses so I don't have to work on myself. In other words you take on board the hazard.
@@roccocarlino067 "Accept me for me, but you change to accommodate me whenever I feel like it" Is a double standard. Why won't women stop investigating men and start living in their freedom.. If you wanna date someone, respect them--dont investigate them and try to change them. If she wants a project, get a car and work on it in the garage..
The vulnerability thing is something I haven't heard explained in that way before. In the past, I assumed that any woman wanting an emotionally-vulnerable man was just a feminist trying to emasculate us; I never put 2 and 2 together to realize it's more about demonstrating an emotional appreciation for the more wholesome things in life.
Wonderful summary! Glad it made sense, too! :)) Edit: As in, glad my explanation made sense lol
Another excellent video! Cheers hun! :)
Always great advice here on Wingman.
My fiancée and I come from pasts of challenging and ultimately failed marriages. We also both have chronic pain afflictions. We both often misdiagnose the frowns on each other’s faces. She often communicates her opinion of my motive in a particular action of mine. She is often wrong. I do the same thing with her. We always grow from these conversations. We all bring expectations from past experiences and view present interactions through those of the past. Our assumptions are often wrong.
Thank you for sharing your experience! An all too common habit many of us are naturally guilty of for the very reasons you mentioned. :)
It is very distressing to me that what I am hearing through all this is you cannot treat a woman as the person with whom you honestly share who you are and have her want you. EVERY man, no matter how gruff and tough he may appear, has weaknesses and fears. If you can’t share those (that is, be mentally intimate with) with the person you are physically intimate with who else can you share them with? Sounds like we are damned with most women.
Trust me, we're better off being alone in the long run!
You can only share them with the people who is there with you when you are at the worst times. Like your family and your bros. Otherwise, never show weakness.
Hi Anna,
Love the way you present info and your makeup...wow! I believe that a woman really needs to know that a man cares more about her than having his primary needs met at the expense of her mental, emotional and physical well-being. In a healthy relationship both should flourish.
Damaged goods aside.
100% agree! And thank you for the compliment! :)
Anna, thank you. Love your videos! Your advice is something that I need to apply more…even though I don’t have a GF.
Thank you for watching! Hopefully, my upcoming video on Flirting will help you change that if you so desire ;)
You're in good form today! "Hairy women", indeed, lol. Putting aside all the Venus-Mars gender mystiques, this is basically logical. In fact, aren't healthy women often more logical than many men? As Corey Wayne says or implies,
developing the virtues that make us worthy people will automatically make us attractive to all healthy folks. That fits well with his view of a good relationship not being two people making each other whole, but two complete folks sharing life. This whole episode was one to archive, Anna.
Yes, mostly true! My only small edit is emotional healthy women can be more logical in general *except when stressed.*
I put in the work to be fit and financially well off and I can handle most problems that come my way and so are the few guys I know. Advise to women on what men want would be a better use of time especially in America. As soon covid gets under control I will be on a flight and enjoying some pretty young ladies in another country. American women should be reminded they only makeup 4% of females on earth and it is not the top 4%.
You got it Robert! Women due try to break you down, like a boxer going to the body. Why? Because they want to be able to make decisions on stuff they know nothing about. That is why they're Queens....not Kings. That gives them the position they want, to influence the King...but have No responsibility if their idea fails...
The Unicorn, good woman, understands her strengths, and knows she thinks emotionally, and observes and understands and Trusts!!! Her man's decision. She remembers that he got here...before her!
Though my channel is for men, please share this far and wide: wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/
@@YourWingmam You are giving your opinion of what women want and like. I have been with many women and no two women were the same. All have likes and dislikes of different things. So a women say what women want is like saying every snow flake is the same. There is no one size fits all. The only thing that seems to be common in most of today's American women is you can not trust them.
You're the first woman I've ever met that's defined a man exposing himself to a woman as an act of vulnerability. On the New York City Subway we'd define that as something else altogether
I was going to make a joke about that but I forgot to “slip it in“ ;)
@@YourWingmam ha ha you're so cute🤣
great video. Nice to see a women putting it out there and making it sound sensible.
I appreciate that ❤
Wow!... You're beautiful Anna! Love to watch your videos. Because they are very informative as well! 😍
A good "workout" while they are thinking about what they really want
Lol
Funny but not too funny. Humble, but confident. Interesting but not showing off. Respect women but leads them. Gives space, but not too much space. Allows the woman in his life to make decisions, but takes control, but not too much control, but not too little control. Doesn't fight. But no fights is not good, they need some fire. So fight. But not too much. Doesn't look at other women. Highly sexual. Hit me, don't him me, hit me, not like that, yes, no, yes no, yes no, ok f off already I rather be alone.
That's too bad, for a second there, I was like, this guys understands women lol Benefits of staying single: ua-cam.com/video/GKE9sKwjH_g/v-deo.html
youre going to end up alone anyway when the wife and teen son's decide theyre strong enough to make it on their own ( with your home and money of course ) . its very similar to an old lion bull being ran off by his pride of lions . this is his own family driving him away to die in the wilderness . heres how it ends . you wont die , youll watch them make fools of themselves .
Your videos are entertaining!! Thank you! Based mainly on fiction...but very entertaining! Thank you
Glad you enjoy it!
Wonderful clip. Thank you!
My pleasure ❤️
Get your TST checked! wingmam.com/blog/2021/06/22/fellas-do-you-have-low-testosterone/
Article for women: wingmam.com/women/2020/05/05/how-to-be-more-beautiful-30-tips/
First 5 videos in the Real Man series: ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8Q-8-X18dlOLRQQiqDSMJpgZ586to1o.html
Thank you so much happiness love peace Joy I love you.. God Amen I believe keep going moving forward🇺🇸🙏
Hey, Wingmam! I took some more advice from a friend. You probably know my tastes in women, so it probably won't surprise you that I am planning on going to a dojo or gym next year. Plus, I'm not gonna lie...some ladies look better with some muscle on them.
Love the message and the look, Anna!) 🤗💜
hi sweatheart how are you
@YourWingmam It is very interesting to note that women have no problem defining what a real man is and listing out the qualities. At times it seems that women feel that they are granted the authority to define what a real man is by divinity. I realize your intended audience and market is single adult men. However, I think it is long past time for men to start speaking out on what it takes to be a real woman, and I have noticed that with very few exceptions all of the YT dating coaches and relationship coaches ect avoid the what makes a real woman talk like it was the plague. I find this to be even more interesting. Have you ever done a presentation on educating men what real women are and how real women behave? I think this would help many men my self included to think deeper about what we are actually getting in relationships and what we are told that we have to put up with. Lastly, I would hope you would honestly answer, how do you think the majority of women would react to men having a brutally honest conversation about and listing out the qualities that define a real woman? Do you think women are ready for this kind of conversation?
I like your style of teaching us older guys about women.... never had any sisters! I've had several girlfriends purposely get me into arguements. I should have not allowed myself to get triggered... no more 😉
Revolutionary views respected Anna...more like a ghat road ride which requires skills..suffice it to say relationship requires effort to maintain,not obtained default
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
You look Fabulous today, Ana. Thank you for your resourceful wisdom.
communicating gets you Meat! Love It
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I once got invited out to a singles, mingles night by a friend after I recently got divorced in my early 40's. And I got talking to a girl I approached who was standing alone in a corner of the room people watching. Who told me after we had been talking for a while, that she isn't interested in a man who hasn't lived a life and doesn't have a story to tell, who doesn't have debt or baggage and is single and still lives at home with his mother.
A conversation that I have never forgotten.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Anna great insights I can relate to a lot of these - some really good advice for men
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Hi Anna, Your outfit in the new video is very fancy and flamboyant! Lookin good girl. Thanks again for being well spoken and for talking slowly to us knuckleheads.
Thank you! My dad affectionately called himself (and others) a knucklehead so I have a fondness for the term!!
I love your videos and I think they're very well put together! With that said I will not go out of my way and change myself just to attract a woman and try to keep that up if they don't like me for who I am that's fine I'd rather go to a street girl and not bother with them. I am who I am and I will not change. I do not require someone else's approval and that's what turns a lot of women off. And I do not require companionship and love.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
You are amazing! Thanks for your tips and advice. You are getting more beautiful by the minute! Cheers and love from Costa Rica!
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Back for the cat and your sage advice ! xx
Anna your make up looks lovely in this video. Great content too! Especially that last one. My ex never got that one. From one woman to another.
Thank you so much and I appreciate you watching to the end!
Very well needed information. Thank you
You're welcome, thanks for watching!
...just lovin' it... keep it comin'
Fantastic documentary Anna, very educational once again, i wonder if this covid causing young ones anti social behaviour or even older
Thank you! Anti-social started with social media but has increased exponentially in the last couple years. Not healthy for any age but we will adapt. I hope!
If only my parents had taught me these things, among others, while I was in high school. It took me many years to learn the hard way.
Big hug! At least you learned, many don’t :(
Thank you honey. Great video. It's very much the real deal facts. Love you. ❤🌹
Glad it was helpful!
I love your honesty and your 100% correct
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
Fantastic video…..many thanks 🙏
I didn't stay for the whole video but, I was happy 2c your spirit had something a little extra about it. stay safe and God Bless
Thank you! Feel free to come back and watch what you missed, the best stuff is near the end!
@@YourWingmam ty but I crush on you to hard and there is no since in me putting myself through that(lol, funny but true). I just check in every once and awhile to see if your ok.
Anna I believe in prayer to a certain extent and I am praying for that woman to come a long in my life
Wow! Thank you! Quite interesting!
Good communication skills are key to success in all aspects of life. Especially in ones job.
Communication is definitely key!
Thank you Anna.... Sigma for me.... I'm very lucky boy, I had my grandmother, mother, and four sisters. They showed and instilled special values. I very much enjoy your communications
I've always been curious, can I share this to my Facebook?
Thanks for watching, I appreciate your feedback, and feel free to share it on your Facebook 🙂
Best video yet. Definitely don’t want a helpless needed child. Been there and regret it. Anyway, good job and sounds honest.
Live and learn! Thank you for watching, glad you like it!
Beautiful outfit!!
Miss Anna knows how to put it together🌹💯
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
I'll watch this video when I meet a woman who I'm so impressed with I'm willing to go that extra mile. I haven't met one yet but to be fair I'm only 57.
I pray that you receive the woman who is truly best or you, the woman God has for you 🙏
You're funny, entertaining and I like that little crackle in your voice. Greets from the Netherlands a.k.a. Holland ❤️.
Thank you 🙌
I'm glad you don't talk bad about your ex, that's a sign of class... 🙂
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
I wouldn't want my woman calling me out if she saw me being vulnerable if she saw me tearing up.
As far as communicating , if we communicate then we expect it to be spoken about in a reasonable amount of time. I won't want to effing communicate my feelings all night long. Women's word counts are so long it becomes exhaustive speaking feelings. (With many females not all)
I'd like to see you do a video on the importance of therapy with the right therapist. I don't think it's spoken about hardly at all. And it's a bonus when the sign in desk girl at the therapist office is hot
You made me laugh on that last line! ;) And yes, on average women use 20,000 words a day and men use 7,000. It's ok to set limits and it's ok not to respond to all the words. :))
You think very much like I do. That is refreshing!
One concept that needs to be underscored is that "modern" women really want "traditional" values. Which means, "modern" women are "traditional" once there is ever a challenge.